Reasons Parents Choose to Give Their Babies Up For Adoption - A Birth Mothers Perspective

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
  • When a woman places her baby up for adoption, she isn’t making the choice to give up. Instead, she’s choosing to give the ultimate gift of life to her child and an adoptive family. The decision for a mother or birth parents to place a baby up for adoption isn’t always simple. Nevertheless, it is an act of love that put a child’s needs ahead of their own desires.

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  • @teresatuetken3348
    @teresatuetken3348 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I believe she is very reflective regarding phone calls she's received, her own situation from her own personal past. I found her refreshingly honest. She is uncomfortable on camera but her heart is in the right place. God bless her and those making the calls who are looking for a better life and protecting children.

  • @esharenee4186
    @esharenee4186 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am 16 weeks pregnant and thinking about adoption. This was unplanned and I have been through so much of my 28 years of life, I don't know I could take care of my baby that way I would want to. Life has been a struggle, with me being taken away at birth, adopted at birth and put in children services care at 9 years old, going from foster home to foster home, in and out of town and locked uo facilities until age 21. Life had not been easy for me. I want my baby to a much more stable and better life then I had. I rather not be selfish when it comes to another human being.

    • @AdoptionNetwork
      @AdoptionNetwork  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry you've had such a hard time. If you'd like to talk to someone, please feel free to call us. (800-367-2367)

    • @kaycombs11
      @kaycombs11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m going through this too. I’m 6 months pregnant and don’t know what I should do. It breaks my heart.

    • @AdoptionNetwork
      @AdoptionNetwork  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kayla, we're sorry to hear you are having a hard time. Please know that you have options. Feel free to give us a call at (800-367-2367)

    • @maryfleenor4218
      @maryfleenor4218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kaycombs11 I am a birth mother! I encourage you to look into adoption. I just met my daughter for the first time in november of last year. She's now 18, and when we met all she kept saying was "thank you" , I loved her since day one. Always will. We now talk weekly. She's amazing! The biggest unplanned event of my life turned into the biggest blessing in not only her adoptive parents life but my life as well!

    • @chloedaire7543
      @chloedaire7543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am a birth mother. Adoption is a beautiful journey, you grieve but you know that what you did was best for your baby. It hurts and it’s a loss but it’s worth it in the end.

  • @keilaholmes7447
    @keilaholmes7447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This hit home for me so much. Thank u🖤

  • @roseharris9144
    @roseharris9144 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Said ♥️

  • @brooklynmayberry2399
    @brooklynmayberry2399 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes

  • @devynthomas1971
    @devynthomas1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true

  • @danielanicolini9037
    @danielanicolini9037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    poor thigns, birth mothers, i feel for them

  • @danielanicolini9037
    @danielanicolini9037 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    u do not kno w a thing

  • @jaanviKumar-cc6lc
    @jaanviKumar-cc6lc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We want adoption a baby plzzz can u help me now

  • @apwmojack
    @apwmojack 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Nevertheless, it is an act of love that put a child’s needs ahead of their own desires."
    i say bs talk to some adoptees and see how well its worked for them .

    • @esharenee4186
      @esharenee4186 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mojack fourtwenty if you are the guy you should stfu! ok.

    • @larissagomes451
      @larissagomes451 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jordans Mum if they aborted you would talk shit so shut the fuck up

    • @LA-hr3le
      @LA-hr3le 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You mean like Colin Kapernick?

  • @kelvinjames6344
    @kelvinjames6344 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Better life another myth of the adoption cult

  • @mainamwareri6984
    @mainamwareri6984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't understand women. They talk of unplanned children, yet these children came into your body through the entrance between your thighs. The pregnancy was not served to you on a food plate or tea cup. You make children suffer by giving excuses you cannot provide for the them, yet you got pregnant voluntarily.

    • @jjhoran6238
      @jjhoran6238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Get out of here judgemental person, this comment does nothing good for anyone

    • @sappy.3xe
      @sappy.3xe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s why I’m an antinatalist. We need to stop having children, period. Humanity is retarded bro. Let’s end it. Nuclear war 2022 when? XD Human extinction would solve almost all of our problems.

    • @kelvinjames6344
      @kelvinjames6344 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes these women are narcissistic liars who harm thier own child

    • @shimeKelo
      @shimeKelo ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude have you ever heard of rape? Or spousal rape? Some times these woman are molested by care givers. What a heartless person you seem to be.