THE BIGGEST MISTAKES I MADE IN MY 20s | ADVICE TO MY YOUNGER SELF

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  • Mistakes I made in my 20s. In the video, I share the biggest money and personal mistakes I made in my 20s. I share things I wish I had known in my 20s.
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  • @ONYINYE100
    @ONYINYE100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    That it’s okay not to be in a relationship, you are in your twenties and you are not dating or seeing someone. Trust me, nothing is wrong with you....enjoy your life and take your time, you will be alright.

  • @seraphine5305
    @seraphine5305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    When I came to the realization that not everybody is going to like you - fam the peace that comes with this is mad.

  • @its_all_in_the_feeling8448
    @its_all_in_the_feeling8448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Dimma I’m making 50 years old this year and some of the things you are talking about I’ve only come to learn in my 40’s you are a very wise young lady. For you younger ladies please take notes because if you have not encountered anything she is talking about I guarantee it you will. I can relate to everything Dimma said and I had to learn it all on my own and it took years for me to learn and it wasn’t easy. Love, love this video

  • @nancyaddison-danquah4297
    @nancyaddison-danquah4297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Needed this today, I'm turning 24 in three weeks and I feel like I am nowhere close to where I want to be...Thanks Dimma

  • @abigailogechukwuegwunyenga8573
    @abigailogechukwuegwunyenga8573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Another one I'm dealing with right now in my early 20s is trying to understand that everyone's reality is different. we mustn't be at the same point in life just because we are the same age. We have different ambitions, aspirations and life paths. I am currently trying to understand that what's important is that I put in my best and focus on what I am aspiring to be and what I want to achieve.

  • @OpesPOV
    @OpesPOV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    "There comes a time when your brain does not have time for nonsense again." YES and YES

  • @chimkasii
    @chimkasii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I'm grateful I was able to learn about making and saving money really early but the problem now is having that mindset of constantly chasing money and thinking of the 'next thing' which is also not healthy.

  • @chikosoluakunyili9297
    @chikosoluakunyili9297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    "Stop pretending to like things you do not like" and "taking people's displeasure to heart" so Apt.😇😇🤗🤗

  • @Acheampomaa100
    @Acheampomaa100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The part of keeping quiet for peace is soo mee. I hate how I am always afraid to speak up. Ugh this was so needed dimma.

  • @PamelaOyins
    @PamelaOyins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Just turned 24 and this is definitely something I needed to hear. I'm at the point where I'm trying to start pushing back against people and what I don't want and this was the encouragement I needed to continue

  • @Lifewitheso
    @Lifewitheso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Stop pretending to like things that you don't like just to maintain peace at the expense of your own happiness.

  • @IdorenyinIbanga_
    @IdorenyinIbanga_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Yes, 20s can be a lot of struggle but once you clock 30 the pressure goes off and is like you have seen it all. At my 30s, I am loving myself the more and give less of a fuck to public opinions.

  • @owoeyejesulobagrace5092
    @owoeyejesulobagrace5092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    So this felt like I was listening to my older sister and I’m so grateful for you Dimma! My take home points were

  • @lifesinceseptember
    @lifesinceseptember 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    I left an 18 year marriage for many reasons you mentioned in this video!! Guys, Dimma is seriously preaching right now...this right here can save you many years of heartache and feeling misunderstood!! Know yourself, be yourself, and make sure your life choices bring you peace and make you happy!! If you can’t be yourself cut it out! Cut out anything that makes you die a slow death. God bless. Thanks Dimma!!

  • @Sugarintl
    @Sugarintl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I actually struggled a lot with my self image and thinking I’m ‘ugly’ or mid. But something that has really helped me is deciding what I want to see even before looking at the mirror. Before I look in the mirror, I would repeat in my head “ I will see a beautiful girl, I will see a beautiful girl” and when I look in the mirror, I see myself looking beautiful. Not perfect but beautiful nonetheless. I’m 21 btw. Thankyou for this video

  • @adesewaayodele343
    @adesewaayodele343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    My brother just told me, he loves that I am listening to and watching your videos

  • @artwithymd.
    @artwithymd. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Love that part about growing apart especially when it comes to friendships. Not everyone will dislike you, not everyone will like you, there has to be a balance - some will like and some will dislike you.

  • @ThisthingcalledFashionTV
    @ThisthingcalledFashionTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It’s the societal pressure, I’m there now 😅 but I refuse to be PRESSURED Nne

  • @KarenaYoudiowei
    @KarenaYoudiowei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Still in my 20's though but I wish I educated myself in my early 20's

  • @christianaogbonnaya6348
    @christianaogbonnaya6348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I used to beat myself up, and then began to loose confidence in myself, it was a struggle guys so please Its importance to be kind to yourself and say uplifting things to yourself