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@FBI: Is the *Chyna* Virus a *Plan* Demic? You know, since you're the FBI and all. You'll probably lie (since you're the FBI), but it's worth a shot (since you're the FBI).
Or it’s the fact social media and phones have made it to where face to face interaction is almost alien to anyone who didn’t exist outside the modern cell phone era.
Sin Hey bro I’ve been there im here to tell you it’s time to quit it will damage a lot of aspects of your life. It isn’t easy at all it took me over a year to quit as i was highly addicted and believe it or not i got a lot of severe withdraw symptoms from quitting, I wish you the best of luck, the sooner you quit the better !
I never thought about looking for help over anger and being someone I was not. This happened to me also but now I am at a point where I am not sure what way to go.
1:09 1. Trying to be somebody I wasn't 1:53 2. Feeling sorry for myself 3:14 3. Drinking alcohol 4:07 4. Neglecting my skin 6:40 5. Comparing myself to other people 7:14 6. Porn 8:12 7. Being scared to fail PLEASE LIKE THE VIDEO!!
JJLA Edits stop it now.you will regret it in the long run.if you wanna talk to me for help and guidance with this reply.Return to God and leave this alone i know how dark it can be and we must all overcome the guilt and leave that lifestyle in the past and move on.come on bro
a recommendation i have is turn on restricted mode on your device, you'll lose interest if you have no access to porn. hope this helps and good luck man.
You are right Aaron, one day i came across this quote- "If you're not being yourself to be loved, it won't be you who they're loving". So it just kinda fits here
I am a lonely person who is addicted to quite a few things-alcohol, weed,porn you know... watching your videos is helping me want to improve on myself and stop my addictions thanks so much alpha
Made me tear up at the end, when you said I think your incredible. It’s hard when your, your own worst enemy. Always so hard on myself and forgiving of others.
That last one hit me hard..I use to be so afraid to fail or mess up that I would just avoid the whole situation itself. (Like going to class the first day) Now, I don’t mind being in uncomfortable situations, I actually prefer it :)
Ok FREDO, MY BOY LOOKIN LIKE A CHEETO, cheecks more redder than a tomato!, Lookin(g) more plainer than a tostito!, Probably gets sunburned/sunburnt enough to be lookin(g) like a Dorito(s)!, My boy lookin(g) FAT BECAUSE HE BE EATING DIOGIORNO!!!!! OHHHHHHHHHHHHJHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY GAWWWWWWDDDDDD BARS!!!!!!!! LMAO JKJKJKJKJK BRO.......... LMAO SIKE!!?!!!!!!!!!/LOL PHYSC!!?!!!!!!!!!!!
He really cares for every single fooling one of his followers ig otherwise who tf would say the things that are embarrassing or as personal as this man does.Mad respect aaron
Number 1 is by far the most truthful statement! As soon, I stop giving a F about others and just do me! I am like comfortable being myself now. Do you!
1-trying to be someone i wasn'ts! acting to be someone cool people love but i wasnt's on my nature..........your amazing in the way you are 2-felling sorry to myself and see myself as a victim 3-stop drinking.......Generally stop all bad habits 4-neglecting my skin 5-comparing my self to other people 6-porn 7-beaing scared to fail
Controlling your sexual urges is going to be hard,it's going to be really hard,to be honest the hardest thing you will ever do! Its the hardest thing you'll ever master but if you master it youre going to be a beast in life There is no point in keeping something that was easy to gain The hardest things to achieve are the most rewarding
The most compelling thing about alpham's videos is that he isn't afraid to get raw and honest with himself. A true man is comfortable enough with himself to have emotional intelligence. Thank you for showing that men don't need to have toxic masculinity in order to be a man.
Toxic masculentiy has become so cringe. I mean technically it exists, but a lot of things get labeled as such, that are not. Like people think men who feel they need to lead, men who think they need to protect their wives, men who think they should be strong to be a man. Physically strong and mentally. That's not toxic masculentiy. I hope that's not what you mean.
I’ve been watching your videos here and there throughout my whole life since I was like 12. (I’m turning 19 in September)Your videos have helped me in so many ways, whether it’s hygiene, physical appearance or mental health. You’re a father to a lot of kids and even adults. Absolute legend :)
Good for you, man. I've come to terms with a lot of the same things you have during the course of my life. The younger dudes watching this who are dealing with a lot of the same issues definitely needed to hear someone else talk about these issues openly, so they don't feel weird, freaky, alienated etc. So good on you for having the sack to put yourself out there for the benefit of others - people you will almost certainly never meet.
Nothing more inspiring than a guy you look up to, but despite that he can honestly tell you: "I'm not perfect FYI, I'm just trying to be better, too". Thank you, Alpha 🙏
My man, I am going through a very bad break up, I feel completely broken and lost the will to live, but your advice and energy are helping me so much. I really want to thank you for doing what you do
Dude, you almost made me cry. Hell, I'd say that was probably the most heartwarming, inspiring and genuine videos I've seen in a bit. Thanks, man! I really needed it.
Just came out of a DUI Court Date. This video popped up when I was feeling sorry for myself in my car not wanting to go into work. It didn’t go well... ( I got ripped off by fake DUI classes need to start over.) I’m the oldest , so Alpha is like a big brother I never had. When he said he also got a DUI I immediately felt better. So there is a future. I still have a chance to be successful. My life is terrible honestly, but Alphas words got me back on my feet. Thank you big bro
I started really taking care of my face when I wanted a beard. Turns out I can grow facial hair (slowly) and a result of it growing is skin care, exercise, and diet... Thank god I wanted a beard.
Thank you so much for doing this video for me and others. Every single thing you said relates to myself especially about being not afraid of failure. I truly have missed 100% of the shots I didn't take. The ball is in my court now-Thank You!!
Being someone I wasn't is truly something I wish I had stopped earlier. I learnt it the hard way, but make sure you don't make the same mistake. It never gets you anywhere
Great motivational video. I’ve had many of the same issues and am still working on some. And there is that fine line between stepping out of your comfort zone and not trying to be someone else. You’ve got to live and learn, but have good judgment as well.
1. Be Authentic 2. Stop being victim 3. Quit Drinking Alcohol 4. Stop Neglecting my Skin 5. Comparing myself to others 6. Porn Addiction 7. Being Scared to Fail #positiveacademy
@Genesis it's ok for alpha as he had a wife and he probably gets loads of sex. Yeah he doesn't need porn obviously but I'm not quiting porn because it's my sexual release.What alpha doesn't understand is that some guys are just very unattractive to the opposite sex and can't get laid no matter how hard they try.
Paul Barnes probably the saddest I have ever heard, I have seen the ugliest dudes with the baddest chicks because of confidence. Stop putting yourself down, workout, enjoy life be positive. They energy you put out is the energy you get back
Bro bang on you just spoke about me there. Thanks for actually having the balls to say it. I made a change this year and it’s on every single point you covered. Three things to add it remove toxic people from your life, eat healthier, drink more water and exercise daily. Thanks again bro.
I think one thing to remember with quitting porn is that you have to create a new neuropathway in the brain. It's one thing to want to quit, it's another to really be able to do so. You have to re-route your mind. Imagine you're in a corn field and there in no path. So you walk through once to create a path. Next time you show up to that field you kinda have to think about it, "Is this the path I went down?", but it is and you go the same direction (Porn). Eventually you don't even think about it, because that's the path you've broken down. So now you want to stop going down that pathway, so you have to create a new pathway through the corn field and let the old path grow back the corn and disappear which takes time and discipline and also new healthy alternatives. Don't be discouraged, don't give up. Also you need to try figuring out why you're doing it too? Is it habit? Do you do it when you're lonely. I know far too many guys that set up a porn filter, but guess what guys. If you want it, you'll get it. The filter doesn't fix the problem, you've gotta renew the mind. What's something else that you can begin to do today that will put your mind on a new path?
There are other videos about dopamine and resetting the mind. I've been watching those and I have stopped watching porn 3 months ago. It's been a 20+ year habit but I'm hopeful.
I don't know how many people here are Christian, but for renewing the mind i recommend Romans 12:2 - "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
Speaking of reflections, well complexions actually... Paris Hilton said some of the best advice her mother ever gave to her was to stay out of the ☀️! You’ll stay looking forever young
I'm sitting here crying because everything you said is so true, and I'm so happy that there are people like you in this world who care only for other self growth and for that man you earned my subscription but not only that but my respect and trust
in order to reach a higher level of understanding we often go through struggles in our lives . The only way to elevate is by taking a deep dive in ourselves. Thanks for sharing 💪🏾
The fear of failure is the biggest for me, I want to venture into a new career path that is quite saturated and many more experienced and successful people than me I wonder am I good enough. Why would anyone like my brand. Etc. It's held me back from starting for two years. I resonate with most of this video so much. Thank you for sharing.
First of all #StayHome and watch alpha m Secondly, Aaron I so much like when your voice is normal and when you don't "scream". Is like I have a conversation with a friend, who cares about me, instead of having in front of me a teacher who scolds me :) Thank you for your video! You are Awesome!
Respect man! All the things you said I deal with, everything you said. I’m a medical student in Brazil, 22 years old, and I saw myself getting lost in these thoughts, buying the idea I had to be on drugs and play tough and be playful in a way it started to affect the things that really matter to me, like my academic improvement, my relationships and all of that. I used to deal with anxiety and other people expectations, and the worse of it all is that I knew what I was doing wrong but was too impulsive and scared to pull it off and really be myself and do the things I want instead of all this insecure bullshit we put ourselves in. I’m currently working on that, to be a man is the opposite of what ordinary people tell us, it’s to be you, it’s to be courageous, face your fears and get your shit together! Thanks for the video bro.
Thank you for talking about all this! Much respect. Some of these are all things a lot of us struggle with, can’t say for the women but as a man I definitely share in your challenges and I’m working on everything as best I can. Sometimes I fail, might feel like I got set back, but always pushing to be better no matter how much I get knocked down. To all my fellow people always get back up and don’t give up. We all deserve to live a happy and healthy life. We all make mistakes and don’t be so hard on yourselves ❤️
@@hammill444 he's not entirely wrong. Coronavirus has been around for well over a decade they would've had a vaccine already but interest and subsequently funding ran out awhile ago
what complexes?... i never understood it... i thought i had a problem because i watched it daily, two times a day... but then i got myself busy and i didnt watch it for 2 weeks then again, daily etc.... if you are casual then why not...
@@Zoltan1251 Personally I believe the reason why not even if you are casual is because it desensitises you and that can still happen even if you're casual. It happens more from more regular use, but if you desensitised yourself from regular use, you're reinforcing that every time you use it casually. Think of it like tolerance to weed. If you're a stoner and you smoke every day your tolerance is gonna be mad high, but if you stop smoking it every day but do it occasionally, it's gonna be lower but you're still keeping that tolerance around a bit. I am cutting out porn entirely because I want to reset my brain. I'm not masturbating, watching porn or even wanting to have sex with a woman because I want to try to go back to normal as much as possible so that when I next get in a relationship, sex can be more pleasurable and exciting
I've been struggling all year not to compare to anyone and beating myself up. I've been facing many dark demons, and it's cost me nights of barely sleeping. If it's one thing I can take solace in, it's that I've got a few people in my corner. What about all you out there?
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Very nice
Keep it up man! Great inspiration!
I hope to produce such good content on my channel as well in the future. Just started making vids watching you.
What we Indian should do alpha??
We dont have it here.
alpha m. I need help with masturrbation it’s become an addiction to me pls help
Only a real man is not afraid to show this side of himself and alpha has done that multiple times. Respect man.
I am your/the 10th LIKE(ER)/TENTH LIKE(ER) AND SO I NOW HAVE TO CLAIM THAT RESPONAIBILITY!!!!!!!!!!!!...........??????????
Partner?
Lot of government agencies can’t be trusted
@FBI: Is the *Chyna* Virus a *Plan* Demic? You know, since you're the FBI and all. You'll probably lie (since you're the FBI), but it's worth a shot (since you're the FBI).
A fearful man is a coward
A man that understands fear is wise
A man without fear is dangerous
When alpha left the house at 18, he told his dad you're the man now
Lol
th-cam.com/video/vpKwRcTD4EE/w-d-xo.html
Ash Noel did u click on it
Loooool
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Quiting porn:
First time failed on day 4
Second time failed on day 5
third time failed on day 6
its now fourth time and im not giving up
Keep strong bro
I believe in you 💪🏽
I've failed alot more times than you and I'm 15 🤣🤣🤣, goodluck bro
@@clint4637u should stop too, at the age of 18 u gonna have some health problems...
Trust me!
@@clint4637
Same and i am 14
Bro am trying to quit it since last 5 years but still I'll not quit
He's like a dad who's way ahead of his son. All we owe him is a 👍
exactly
AymanHDGaming you can help out your Dad with things too
The p0rn thing has ruined a whole generation of young men who can no longer even talk to women
Or it’s the fact social media and phones have made it to where face to face interaction is almost alien to anyone who didn’t exist outside the modern cell phone era.
Sin brother i’m nearly 20 and fap nearly daily and been doing that since year 6/7
@Marcus Cato I don't feel like watching the video lol , can't you explain it?
Sin Hey bro I’ve been there im here to tell you it’s time to quit it will damage a lot of aspects of your life. It isn’t easy at all it took me over a year to quit as i was highly addicted and believe it or not i got a lot of severe withdraw symptoms from quitting, I wish you the best of luck, the sooner you quit the better !
Sin wow what? Seriously😂😂😂
I never thought about looking for help over anger and being someone I was not. This happened to me also but now I am at a point where I am not sure what way to go.
Like you dont know who you are?
I keep seeing your comments everywhere lmao
Like you're going trans?
A real man is a man that admits his own failures and overcome them, we love you Aaron, you are awesome
And you are JOE, AND ALAO I AM YOUR FIFTH LIKE(ER)......../AND ALSO I AM YOUR 5TH LIKE(ER)...........
متعملش ايديت للكومينت عشان الهارت ميروحش بس انا عايز اقلك عاركنى
chicken permission ايه ده 😂😂
@@Personadude Ok. Now we need translate built in TH-cam mobile
@@ahmednaguib3569 حبيبى يا زميلى
1:09 1. Trying to be somebody I wasn't
1:53 2. Feeling sorry for myself
3:14 3. Drinking alcohol
4:07 4. Neglecting my skin
6:40 5. Comparing myself to other people
7:14 6. Porn
8:12 7. Being scared to fail
PLEASE LIKE THE VIDEO!!
jangyman we need more people like you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you
u the real MVP
Neglecting my skin! Hahahaha... always an angle...
You must have alot of free time.
The porn thing and being scared to fail is what I’m struggling with the most.
Stop watching porn man
It’s My Life NEFFEX bruz it’s not that easy
JJLA Edits stop it now.you will regret it in the long run.if you wanna talk to me for help and guidance with this reply.Return to God and leave this alone i know how dark it can be and we must all overcome the guilt and leave that lifestyle in the past and move on.come on bro
Keep it Retro I need help dude too I’ve been struggling I’m about to turn 18 next month too.
a recommendation i have is turn on restricted mode on your device, you'll lose interest if you have no access to porn. hope this helps and good luck man.
Read in Aaron’s voice.
7 things I wish I did sooner:
1 being a bad ass.
People keep it at 69 please.
Thank you
In aaron voice, it sound more like : A beaaa daaaaaass
But I’ve always been a bad ass! LOL
Keep this at 869 please
Beaaaadeass
Iam quitting porn, its now day 7, and iam. Proud of myself
Keep it up, bro!
You’re missing out
@@roach4398 lmao
I'm on 4 days
Prepare for wet dreams
Just imagine how awkward it has to be to tell this stories, and he did it for us. Much much respect man 💪🏼
Same especially with the porn stuff i really related to that
Factz 👍
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” -Wayne Gretzky -Michael Scott
Anthony Gudkov -every poster in a classroo
Ahhh.. You Sir are a man of culture
“you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” - wayne greysky- michael scott- anthony gudkov
Micheal Jordan *
I read this comment exactly when he was saying it😂 like he read it for me
You are right Aaron, one day i came across this quote- "If you're not being yourself to be loved, it won't be you who they're loving".
So it just kinda fits here
Yash Rajput Damn
I am a lonely person who is addicted to quite a few things-alcohol, weed,porn you know... watching your videos is helping me want to improve on myself and stop my addictions thanks so much alpha
U can get better dude!
Bernd Cotman thanks g
Please watch the anime called Promare. Thanks man
Zen A you got it bro , i was addicted to porn and weed a couple months back . ima be clean and sober for a year in november! anything is possible!
Zen A you can do it bro i was in your same position not to long ago you have it to want it bad enough
U know its serious when he sits front of brick wall
and not in a car (I never understood car-videos)
@Genesis nononono it's his bathroom :D
YEAH, and THAT'S how you KNOW THAT HE MEANS BUISNESS FOOOOOOOSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!/FOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Raiyan Ranaqaqàyffudjf ok 👌
Unpredicted ML you know you stole this from the guy from the last brick video
*Self-discipline is the key. Without it, nothing you wish to achieve will become a reality.*
Shalom bro
Jaxx - Self-Growth Health Wellness amen to that young man! 😸👍👈⭐️
Facts
Made me tear up at the end, when you said I think your incredible. It’s hard when your, your own worst enemy. Always so hard on myself and forgiving of others.
That last one hit me hard..I use to be so afraid to fail or mess up that I would just avoid the whole situation itself. (Like going to class the first day) Now, I don’t mind being in uncomfortable situations, I actually prefer it :)
Ok FREDO, MY BOY LOOKIN LIKE A CHEETO, cheecks more redder than a tomato!, Lookin(g) more plainer than a tostito!, Probably gets sunburned/sunburnt enough to be lookin(g) like a Dorito(s)!, My boy lookin(g) FAT BECAUSE HE BE EATING DIOGIORNO!!!!! OHHHHHHHHHHHHJHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY GAWWWWWWDDDDDD BARS!!!!!!!! LMAO JKJKJKJKJK BRO.......... LMAO SIKE!!?!!!!!!!!!/LOL PHYSC!!?!!!!!!!!!!!
Man you talk like the dad that I missed out on when I was in high school, he died when I was 10 from brain cancer
Mine died when i was 1... We are so UnLucky bro🤷🏽♂️
May both of your dads rest in peace sorry for your losses 🙏🏾
I’m sorry that you guys had to go through that may they Rest In Peace fly high
Im sorry you have to go through that. My father is probably gonna end up in jail in 10 days
Mr Krypt wait why
It takes a real man to be that honest at the level you did. I appreciate you. Thanks for sharing.
"I need to screw things up to learn the lessons" Most relatable quote ever
I feel ya buddy
Sure it's an expensive flaw, but experience is the best teacher.
Appreciate this sit down man to man talk. It was real, authentic and full of wisdom. Need more real stuff like this!
He really cares for every single fooling one of his followers ig otherwise who tf would say the things that are embarrassing or as personal as this man does.Mad respect aaron
I appreciate your sincerity, that's definitely the trait of a man
1 thing I wish I started sooner : watching Alpha 👊🏻
X2
Simp alert
Number 1 is by far the most truthful statement! As soon, I stop giving a F about others and just do me! I am like comfortable being myself now. Do you!
always love when TH-cam dad keeps it real
1-trying to be someone i wasn'ts!
acting to be someone cool people love
but i wasnt's on my nature..........your amazing in the way you are
2-felling sorry to myself and see myself as a victim
3-stop drinking.......Generally stop all bad habits
4-neglecting my skin
5-comparing my self to other people
6-porn
7-beaing scared to fail
Factz
@@chasingstacksent4486 yeb yeb
Thanks man👍
@@laxmiprasad1677 You welcome bro
List guy
Controlling your sexual urges is going to be hard,it's going to be really hard,to be honest the hardest thing you will ever do!
Its the hardest thing you'll ever master but if you master it youre going to be a beast in life
There is no point in keeping something that was easy to gain
The hardest things to achieve are the most rewarding
@How To Minecraft period.
The last message hit me hard, thx man, i'm going trough a bad time and i really needed to hear that, god bless you
Hang in there bud, god bless
The most compelling thing about alpham's videos is that he isn't afraid to get raw and honest with himself. A true man is comfortable enough with himself to have emotional intelligence. Thank you for showing that men don't need to have toxic masculinity in order to be a man.
Toxic masculentiy has become so cringe. I mean technically it exists, but a lot of things get labeled as such, that are not. Like people think men who feel they need to lead, men who think they need to protect their wives, men who think they should be strong to be a man. Physically strong and mentally. That's not toxic masculentiy. I hope that's not what you mean.
Oh yes. He is unique , practical , salesman , and transparent.
I’ve been watching your videos here and there throughout my whole life since I was like 12. (I’m turning 19 in September)Your videos have helped me in so many ways, whether it’s hygiene, physical appearance or mental health. You’re a father to a lot of kids and even adults. Absolute legend :)
He is just one of the honest TH-camrs,I love that🔥🔥
“I gotta experience it” I relate to that in a spiritual level
Good for you, man. I've come to terms with a lot of the same things you have during the course of my life. The younger dudes watching this who are dealing with a lot of the same issues definitely needed to hear someone else talk about these issues openly, so they don't feel weird, freaky, alienated etc. So good on you for having the sack to put yourself out there for the benefit of others - people you will almost certainly never meet.
Nothing more inspiring than a guy you look up to, but despite that he can honestly tell you: "I'm not perfect FYI, I'm just trying to be better, too".
Thank you, Alpha 🙏
Huge respect sir! The only person who is telling his embarrassing moments just to make our lives better. Love you man!
My man, I am going through a very bad break up, I feel completely broken and lost the will to live, but your advice and energy are helping me so much. I really want to thank you for doing what you do
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take - Wayne Gretzsky” - Michael Scott
You can’t miss if u don’t shoot
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzsky - Michael Scott" - Forenzyx
ChillinWolf5000 Haha I like that. Clever.
No shit
@@jk8jason "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzsky - Michael Scott" - ChillinWolf5000
I like how you are not afraid to show your weaknesses/imperfections; now THIS is a sign of a true alpha ;)
Dude, you almost made me cry. Hell, I'd say that was probably the most heartwarming, inspiring and genuine videos I've seen in a bit. Thanks, man! I really needed it.
"I'm scared to fail too" ...thanks for an eye opener! !!
This dude taught me everything in life
Just came out of a DUI Court Date. This video popped up when I was feeling sorry for myself in my car not wanting to go into work. It didn’t go well... ( I got ripped off by fake DUI classes need to start over.) I’m the oldest , so Alpha is like a big brother I never had. When he said he also got a DUI I immediately felt better. So there is a future. I still have a chance to be successful. My life is terrible honestly, but Alphas words got me back on my feet. Thank you big bro
I started really taking care of my face when I wanted a beard. Turns out I can grow facial hair (slowly) and a result of it growing is skin care, exercise, and diet... Thank god I wanted a beard.
He is like A Best Friend I never met ❤️
Thank you so much for doing this video for me and others. Every single thing you said relates to myself especially about being not afraid of failure. I truly have missed 100% of the shots I didn't take. The ball is in my court now-Thank You!!
Being someone I wasn't is truly something I wish I had stopped earlier. I learnt it the hard way, but make sure you don't make the same mistake. It never gets you anywhere
I know that these videos are for men but I found that a lot of great advices apply for women too...thanks
So true this is one of my favorite channels
Good shit bro🙏🏻
nah
@Gustavo Fring Wrong usage of simp
What do you find to be the most useful thing any one person could do to make them better for a potential partner?
Great motivational video. I’ve had many of the same issues and am still working on some. And there is that fine line between stepping out of your comfort zone and not trying to be someone else. You’ve got to live and learn, but have good judgment as well.
yooo when Aaron said: I love you, I truly got chills, we love you too Alpha.
1. Be Authentic
2. Stop being victim
3. Quit Drinking Alcohol
4. Stop Neglecting my Skin
5. Comparing myself to others
6. Porn Addiction
7. Being Scared to Fail
#positiveacademy
I'm not quitting porn as that's my only sexual release.We can't all be Chad's who get women with ease.
@Genesis it's ok for alpha as he had a wife and he probably gets loads of sex. Yeah he doesn't need porn obviously but I'm not quiting porn because it's my sexual release.What alpha doesn't understand is that some guys are just very unattractive to the opposite sex and can't get laid no matter how hard they try.
@@paulbarnes9490 dude, check yourself how negative are the effects of watching porn.You are now acring as victim.
Genesis he has already done it I am just giving summary
Paul Barnes probably the saddest I have ever heard, I have seen the ugliest dudes with the baddest chicks because of confidence. Stop putting yourself down, workout, enjoy life be positive. They energy you put out is the energy you get back
Man you're genuine. That"s what makes you better than the others.
"So today is about helping you."
You do that everyday alpha. Thank you! ;)
Cringe
Cringe x2
Im confused. How is this cringe?
The whole porn thing is so true, quit it sooner or later guys. I’m in the process of booting the habit right now
facts I’m on a two month streak and I feel way more confident
Me too on nofap streak currently on day 20..
Seems cool
I’m not addicted but if I don’t use fap session once in a while I feel like I’m loosing it
Yep bruh i havent used the internet since late last nite
555666 help im addicted it feels too good plus quarantine doesn’t help
Bro bang on you just spoke about me there. Thanks for actually having the balls to say it. I made a change this year and it’s on every single point you covered. Three things to add it remove toxic people from your life, eat healthier, drink more water and exercise daily. Thanks again bro.
I honestly love it how he goes from opening up to the world to plugging skin care products 😂
I think one thing to remember with quitting porn is that you have to create a new neuropathway in the brain. It's one thing to want to quit, it's another to really be able to do so. You have to re-route your mind. Imagine you're in a corn field and there in no path. So you walk through once to create a path. Next time you show up to that field you kinda have to think about it, "Is this the path I went down?", but it is and you go the same direction (Porn). Eventually you don't even think about it, because that's the path you've broken down. So now you want to stop going down that pathway, so you have to create a new pathway through the corn field and let the old path grow back the corn and disappear which takes time and discipline and also new healthy alternatives. Don't be discouraged, don't give up. Also you need to try figuring out why you're doing it too? Is it habit? Do you do it when you're lonely. I know far too many guys that set up a porn filter, but guess what guys. If you want it, you'll get it. The filter doesn't fix the problem, you've gotta renew the mind.
What's something else that you can begin to do today that will put your mind on a new path?
There are other videos about dopamine and resetting the mind. I've been watching those and I have stopped watching porn 3 months ago. It's been a 20+ year habit but I'm hopeful.
Makes sense 🤔🔥👍
i agree
I don't know how many people here are Christian, but for renewing the mind i recommend Romans 12:2 - "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
WHAT ABOUT THE ALCOHOL!!
You always say we are amazing but the truth is you are amazing. You are so honest and not afraid to slap truth in the face
Imagine how creepy it would be if when Aaron turned the mirror to the camera at 7:09 it actually showed your reflection ahahah
totally =D woul'd have had more impact i guess haha than just seeing a camera lens =)
Id freak out hahaha
Speaking of reflections, well complexions actually... Paris Hilton said some of the best advice her mother ever gave to her was to stay out of the ☀️! You’ll stay looking forever young
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You're a real man.Everyone cannot expose themselves in social media.You are really awesome man. Take my respect.
I can t believe that in the middle of this powerful, full of memories, regrets and emotions video...he promotes a sun cream. Maaaaan
I'll come back to this video when the quarantine is over
I feel what u mean😁
looooooool
Bro exactly I’ll start after lol
Yall weak
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I'm sitting here crying because everything you said is so true, and I'm so happy that there are people like you in this world who care only for other self growth and for that man you earned my subscription but not only that but my respect and trust
in order to reach a higher level of understanding we often go through struggles in our lives . The only way to elevate is by taking a deep dive in ourselves.
Thanks for sharing 💪🏾
The alcohol is the one I’m gonna struggle with. No blackouts, no DUI,s or casual hook ups but I enjoy it in moderation.
Nathan Cowan just yeet the shit outa the window
I struggle with alcohol too ... :-(
The fear of failure is the biggest for me, I want to venture into a new career path that is quite saturated and many more experienced and successful people than me I wonder am I good enough. Why would anyone like my brand. Etc. It's held me back from starting for two years.
I resonate with most of this video so much. Thank you for sharing.
If this guy worked at Macy’s or Dillards. We will all be poor lol. Best salesman ever..
Factz
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'"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"'
"-Wane Gretsky"
-Michael Scott
copied
EMINƎM it’s a quote my dude
Your ability to be so real in this video is incredible. Kudos to you my brother, love this
First of all #StayHome and watch alpha m
Secondly, Aaron I so much like when your voice is normal and when you don't "scream". Is like I have a conversation with a friend, who cares about me, instead of having in front of me a teacher who scolds me :) Thank you for your video! You are Awesome!
Damb he gets real... Putting that out on social media ain't easy. A true alpha
Man that's real talk. Appreciate the words of wisdom.
I'm always likes video before watching
B'coz i know it's worth it!!
dude you’re literally the best. thank you for this. God bless you man.
Respect man! All the things you said I deal with, everything you said. I’m a medical student in Brazil, 22 years old, and I saw myself getting lost in these thoughts, buying the idea I had to be on drugs and play tough and be playful in a way it started to affect the things that really matter to me, like my academic improvement, my relationships and all of that. I used to deal with anxiety and other people expectations, and the worse of it all is that I knew what I was doing wrong but was too impulsive and scared to pull it off and really be myself and do the things I want instead of all this insecure bullshit we put ourselves in. I’m currently working on that, to be a man is the opposite of what ordinary people tell us, it’s to be you, it’s to be courageous, face your fears and get your shit together! Thanks for the video bro.
Wow I'm realizing all these things at age 23. Crazy to think you were like me
“what’s up gentlemen”
me, a woman: 👁👄👁
Hi kelly
not trying to be creepy but are women having same problems as men have like on this video?
Amr Tahditi there’s not much that’s gender specific , so i think anyone can have these problems/ benefit (:
@@775.- wisdom is not bound by gender.
@@775.- Pretty safe to say that most women worry about the condition of their skin & their looks declining more than men
Thank you for talking about all this! Much respect. Some of these are all things a lot of us struggle with, can’t say for the women but as a man I definitely share in your challenges and I’m working on everything as best I can. Sometimes I fail, might feel like I got set back, but always pushing to be better no matter how much I get knocked down.
To all my fellow people always get back up and don’t give up. We all deserve to live a happy and healthy life. We all make mistakes and don’t be so hard on yourselves ❤️
Thank you for this video, hearing this has helped me prepare myself for the next chapter of my life and for that you’ve definitely got my subscription
1st comment , stay safe , stay healthy , and I pray for world to get rid of this coronavirus 😤😤😤
I think we're all praying for that. Well said.
you already have it
Sars coronavirus is common. It's always been around. It isnt about the virus, it's about deep state totalitarian control
@@hammill444 he's not entirely wrong.
Coronavirus has been around for well over a decade they would've had a vaccine already but interest and subsequently funding ran out awhile ago
It’s nothing to worry about though🤷♂️
I 100% appreciate and respect this video. Some of your honest words hit home on so many levels.
4:09 in this moment I got the feeling that ,, shit there's an ad coming!
Alpha: Nobody’s out to get you CoronaVirus: Hello there
General Coroni!
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Hahaah
I’m sorry man! You were on 444 likes and I ruined it by making it 445.
Trying to fit in and comparing myself to others are my biggest challenges. I'm still on that battle and I'm gonna win it!
Aaron: 7 things I should have stopped doing sooner
Me: I should have should started watching him sooner :)
I second that ☝️
What?
Red Arrow battle me in cr
Jordan Peterson is great too. He’s not as hip but he’s got great advice.
Alpha: Nobody's out to get you
The government: Hold my beer
Government screw you don’t help you bro get it right
“Dont resist! Youre being rescued!”
Are you from Philippines? Hahahha
Exactly 😂😂
The gov is after you with his 5g shit
You're the man Apha.
And so amazing how you 'big up' us guys, no matter who we are.
World full of too much hate & judgement.
Man I'm early so drop me one of those
As soon as he said "stop neglecting my skin", I knew instantly tiege hanley was going to show up
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I support you in everyway...it takes alot of courage to come out like that man...and for that i have mad respect
I just see alpha m video notification i just click it ❤️
4:19！exactly some self-motivates words that I need
Thanks for being so up front about things. You are awesome to listen to. I feel a connection. 👍
I wish I've never seen porn in my life...now I have complexes...
what complexes?... i never understood it... i thought i had a problem because i watched it daily, two times a day... but then i got myself busy and i didnt watch it for 2 weeks then again, daily etc.... if you are casual then why not...
jesus no self control then or mental issues ?
@@Zoltan1251 Personally I believe the reason why not even if you are casual is because it desensitises you and that can still happen even if you're casual. It happens more from more regular use, but if you desensitised yourself from regular use, you're reinforcing that every time you use it casually. Think of it like tolerance to weed. If you're a stoner and you smoke every day your tolerance is gonna be mad high, but if you stop smoking it every day but do it occasionally, it's gonna be lower but you're still keeping that tolerance around a bit. I am cutting out porn entirely because I want to reset my brain. I'm not masturbating, watching porn or even wanting to have sex with a woman because I want to try to go back to normal as much as possible so that when I next get in a relationship, sex can be more pleasurable and exciting
Same here.
@@OddsTheo same here man, I'm just a kid I don't want my Johnny to be hanging like a dead fish during my first time clapping cheeks 😂😂😂😂.
Thank you for the advice bro. Now I realised how much I've ruined my life...
I've been struggling all year not to compare to anyone and beating myself up. I've been facing many dark demons, and it's cost me nights of barely sleeping. If it's one thing I can take solace in, it's that I've got a few people in my corner. What about all you out there?
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take- Wayne Gretsky"- Michael Scott