confidence baby
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E24
confidence baby- but not like you know it. Our society loves talking about the outside appearance of confidence, forgetting the inner work it takes to reach true self-confidence. I also discuss the idea of 'internal confidence' as well as 'external confidence' and how the two complete each other in every step of our lives.
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I adore you. I am a Muslim now! Your channel has really helped me.
IM SO PROUD OF YOU JazakAllah Kahiran. May your journey be filled with ease and peace.
Awwww that's so pretty may allah show you the right path always , jazakallahukharan welcome to Islam!!❤️❤️
hope for you the best in your journy may allah make it easy for all of us . the impact a person can have is really amazing dont you think !!.:3
Enjoy the journey, may Allah bless you on it and grant you goodness, may He give you the highest paradise. Ameen
May I know your call towards Islam
I'm a Muslim myself but I am curious to know how the heart is moved towards guidance by Allah..
I see Farah's podcast notification...I click... I am a simple human😗
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Mee touuuu
#FreeUyghurs
Instead of working against yourself, work alongside yourself. Criticizing your performance, appearance, or style amounts to self-abuse. Constantly berating yourself, labeling yourself as unintelligent or worthless, creates an environment of internal abuse.
Focus on collaborating with yourself. Address what you perceive as flaws without relentless criticism. By working on areas you’d like to improve, you pave the way to inner peace and self-acceptance.
My take of the podcast. Thank you for the perspective change ❤😊
Let me tell you it's you after Allah that helped me rebound with my deen , you are the catalyst for me stoping music for the sake of Allah , you helped me wake up for fajr everyday , i can never stop thanking you, may Allah grant your pretty soul with whatever you wish for ❤❤❤❤
Very much missed btw
It’is Allah that is helping you wake up for Fajr everyday.
Perhaps Farah has inspired you, Alhamdulilah 🤲🏼
@@ZiziDar , I said it if you have noticed in the beginning thats it's her after Allah , sorry my idea reached you in a wrong way
I am gonna write this for everyone.... Watching this episode only once...IS NOT ENOUGH
Just finished watching it for the 1st time and i agree
True
Watch 4 the second time
"What is meant for you, will find you."
Like this video found me when I needed it the most.
Just simply love her
Same:')
Fr
38:02 . "They have what they have for a reason. And I have what I have, for a reason" Thank you so much for this...!
Farah is the friend we all want, she's the best 💕
yea
This reminds me of a thought I had a few days ago about the kind of self talk we need to give ourselves as muslims. During times of low self esteem, we need to continuously remind ourselves of the pride we should hold as muslims and the responsibility of being chosen by Allah to do certain tasks. This goes to address that there’s a bigger world and bigger picture beyond what we know and that it needs our contribution and if we don’t do our part we’re only going to fall lower. Being chosen (meaning when we’re given opportunities to do something for his sake) to do something that’s bigger than you is an honour given by Allah indicating that He trust and knows we’re capable of accomplishing what he wants us to do with it. And we should deal with this responsibility with a sense of honour and pride so that we can hold the weight of responsibility. On the other hand, people who deal with arrogance within them, we need to continuously remind ourselves of our humble status in front of Allah. And that He’s greater than everything in this dunya AND akhirah. This can go as far as us saying to ourselves and reminding ourselves that we’re nothing but a speck of dust in the world and that we’re nothing if not for Allah. Some would say that it would somewhat sound degrading and belittling of ourselves but in actuality js a constant reminder of where we stand in front of our Lord. So Islam really provides us with both perspectives and suggestions that we need to implement in our lives. And from this, we should also understand exactly when and what we need to hear in times of vulnerability. Both arrogance and low-esteem is susceptible to the Wass-wass of the shayateen. Something that’s also a reoccurring theme within Islam is balance and boundaries. Everything has another side to the coin and we need to maintain the balance and create boundaries so that we’re not settling for the extreme sides of the coin. So I really love how I came to this realisation just as this topic for the podcast was released.
This really affirms of my contemplation of this issue. Alhamdulillah and barakallah to you Farah 🫶
The more i listened to Farah's podcast the more comfortable i am being uncomfortable hearing her words. At first it's just almost pissed me off at some point in her talks but after grasping it for awhile i was like "wait... i think she's right" it happens in a multiple episodes and now i'm waiting for her new episodes to get even more uncomfortable lol. Hope that make sense 🧍🏻♀️
Hey Farah ever since I subscribed to your channel and I’m a muslim brother you really helped me to become close to Allah because I’m going through a-lot I’m depressed and anxiety i dont have the motivation to go out at all my parents and no difference they dont understand stand me what i am going through my life is rough sometimes
May Allah make it easy on you
@@_idk_1538 thank you
Seek help from Allah! Truly he always hears you while you also try all that you can yourself. May you feel better soon brother! ❤
@@PowerGurhl thank you so much
same broo🫂💗
شكرًا فرح! شكرًا شكرًا شكرًا من الأعماق. أحببت صدقك وصراحتك في هالحلقة، وكيف كنتي تخاطبيننا بكل أريحية وبلا حواجز. الله يسعدك ويوفقك ويكتب لك الخير دائمًا 3>
It felt like a decade I was waiting for new video so much 😭
Аллах послал мне твоё видео,это то что нужно❤
Once u have internal confidence (self esteem actually as you mentioned as well, often something that only comes with time, maturity and life experience and having life's questions figured out) there's no need for any confidence training stuff whatever.. you simply exhibit confidence in anything you do.. as simple as that..
Farah for real we miss you one month no posting
You’ve changed my life tremendously and I’m so grateful for you. I’ve never ever been that close to allah and find peace and positivity and creativity in my life that’s because God then you
Please keep making these episodes
To me, internal confidence is to feel and experience, your essence, your true self, your spirit, your unshakable faith in your being and in your relationship with Allah. If that is hard to attain it can be a work in progress and it starts by developing yourself as a person and a human of a faith. To pray and meditate. To tell yourself of your worth and your kind attributes and ur incredible potentials, whilst also staying humble and gracious and having humility.
Confidence externally is to me, mainly emanates from internally tbh because if u love and respect urself and are kind to urself, u show that to others no matter how “awful” some people can be.
God has created everyone from the same source so whatever u dont dislike in others is what u dont dislike in yourself. You accept people as they are right now in their life even if it doesnt live up to “you”. If you love yourself enough you’d see the good soulfulness that is within others too. We are all a product and creation of God not just the goodness in us, but the bad qualities that are also placed, to teach and grow us all collectively into positive manifestations.
Beautifully written 😭😭 it’s like your ego Vs your true self
I think that we are looking up for يقين I don't know what describes it in English but it suits this podcast اليقين that what's meant for us will find us and as Muslims اليقين بالله is the external confidence booster 💗
She is my favorite comfort podcast. I'm always relaxed and calm after listening to her.
Yes so true Alhamdulillah ❤
I am a christian, and I love your videos, any one can learn from them, regardless muslim or not, doesn't matter:) thanks for sharing Farah
لا إله إلا الله ❤
Honestly, this is exactly what I needed. One of my goals this year is to be more confident...
Wallah I love you for this. I started wearing the hijab and your videos really affirmed me in my decisions. May Allah reward you ❤
Yay Farah! New video for the new year ❤ 😅I love how she is the most relatable human and it has nothing to do with what she is wearing or looks like etc. it’s all just the knowledge she possess. Thank you Farah you truly are a light in the algorithm.May Allah (swt) bless you ❤
انا لا افهم الانجليزيه لكننى احب الاستماع للبودكاست الخاص بك ❤
Your words really touch my heart. I cried when saied they have what they have for a reason, and I have what I have forr a reason|
منجد كلامك ذكرني انو كل شي لو حكمة من ربنا ومافي اي شي عبث في الحياة وانو كل امر المؤمن خير وانو كل شي في حياتنا خيرة🥹
Thank youu for this nice podcast🫶🏼🫶🏼
girl !! you really help me ! thank you so much may allah grant you your ultimate goal
I wish I could listen to Farah talk for hours 😭 it's so therapeutic to me
I cannot like this video enough i wish we can like videos multiple times in a row. Thank you so much
girllllllllll I've been waiting for you to upload the new podcastttt. Hope you're doing well
Salaamu Alaikum
“Farah is going to have a podcast from this day to this day “ the key is that the choice to start the podcast was still in your hands. I’m glad you chose to follow this plan
24:20 this question will change everything, it's like the resume of mindset
Alhamdulilla.May Allah make your all duas come true
I'm so glad to see a video from youuu 🤭 It's been a while...I hope you're doing good!!
This is the best video I've seen about confidence. Its the way you pictured it that was making the whole idea clearer. Tysm Farah for this video
i am sitting in my room mind blown....like literally. I dont have my brain right now, i dont....it has been blown away.... i am just sitting
40:41
Thank you for seeking this as your calling, these podcasts help me feel closer to the journey of becoming a better person, these get me very emotional and I truly enjoy these episodes.
alhamdullillah.... i was just in a crisis about confidence in general and how am supposed to improve it.. but alhamdullillah i found your video and trust me it was eye opening...
It is like i know about all these but was not aware of it... just had to organise those thoughts and idea.
i thank you very much for this video.
really needed it.
18:07 I'm an architecture student 😅. Have been struggling with both confidence and sense of purpose and felt that Allah sent me your video. Thank you Farah❤️
You delivered this with perfection, dont doubt it
Your episodes are always needed Allahumma barik! Truly inspiring this generation frfr
Having Lack of self-esteem will really stopped you from achievement I'm learn English but because i always feel like I'm mispronunciation i rather to not talk with anyone even i could get in the conversation I'll be just sitting behind even if really want to talk because of that now i cant express my feeling even in my native language i cant make friends or even do the normal activities thats everyone can do it no matter how old you are or where you came from
Dear Farah, I get so excited every Friday just to wait for your new video. Unexpectedly, it’s finally here today which actually comes at the exact right time! Thanks!
I watch ur podcast, feel hope in life, I go to ur instagram and lose it, cycle goes on. When I listen to your podcast I connect to the point I feel you are that one good friend that makes my negatives positives and changes my lifestyle, but then I find that friend doing exactly the negative things I learned not to do just crushes me
Omg I was just thinking of you today. 😂❤
I love hearing you talk, Farah, and I love you so much. Thank you for every word you say! ❤️
I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!
have been waiting for you😭😭
Baraka Allahu fik sister, precious words ❤️
I think that having weak boundaries dampens the level of confidence we’re able to portray.
i love you so much, thanks for this video farah
Slay and love from egypt ❤
Watching your podcast feels like facetiming a long distance friend, who really gets me🤗
Oh ye congrats on 200k sister
Hi Farah! I listen to your podcast a few month now an i really love it! I am a liberal christian from germany and i like to hear your thoughts from the islamic perspective a lot, because it helps me understand the essence of it and i almost always recognize that there is much more we all have in common than many people think. We should open our hearts and thoughts much more to listen and understand instead of judging each other. People are always offended nowadays and i think, that we should stop that and use our ability to see things with a distance to our ego and more humor. Wish you all the best!
Ich mag ihre Videos auch gerne:)
Idk why but farah gives me Micheal scott’s vibes😂Girl i looove how you talk and explain things ❤️❤️😂
Sameeee but she's like a better Michael
this lady has made me cry too many times
homie girl is back with the best advice
Farah, you need to be a public speaker!
I’m actually older than you Farah and I learn alot from you. I hope you keep growing as a great person 💌
The way I think about external confidence and internal confidence is that they're not that different. When you realize Allah created you for a purpose, gave you khasb ikhtiari (free will), meanwhile knowing that everything that's meant for you will find you, you will not play around with such gift and will do your best to work with it.
I guess what I am saying is, your internal self-esteem should be firm because you have conviction that a greater Being created you and placed you above all other creatures and provided a whole freaking planet for you to tame, and gave you a purpose, so you're internally sound because the external factor and responsibility is just too great.
From the non-Muslim perspective, perhaps it could be thought about from what you mentioned about hurting yourself and others by having low self-esteem. Others around you need you as much as you need them, so the external factor cannot be discounted. A greater purpose can be found the more value you give something or someone external, and what better purpose and value can we get above our Creator?
Anyway, thanks for the great episode, I will now go work on stuff because you made me uncomfortable.
Grateful to Allah for social media so I can be part of this conversation. I love big thoughts. ☺️
This topic is best learned traveling the world by self
You are destined to do it so just do it. It feels exhausted to nervous everytime. My mindset when i get presentation tasks
the last 15m of the podcast hits different especially when she says ( while she scrolling the phone and saying ,ahh i want the same thing , ahh why i am not perfect like them) Then She says : do not compare ur self to someone who lives in different environment , and im happy for them for having them cuz what is meant for them is meant for them , and what is meant for me is meant for me " So the lesson is : never abuse ur self for something that u cant change it , instead work on ur self on ur self behaviors..
i don’t know why, but every time i watch your videos i never really felt THAT uncomfortable. my brain will be like “oh thats right” “yea i agree”. maybe its because u only say the truth. and i seek for the truth. anyway jazakillah farah❤ may Allah grant you peace in dunya and akhirah.
keep doing these videos (just a personal want and needs, don’t have to if don’t want to)
I was just listening to one of your pod casts love you ❤
Your podcast is the best thing on TH-cam and my motivation to learn English ❤
Really
I was sturggling with my losf confidence. By meaning lost I really had that peace and success comes eith it in my early phases of my life. But when I started to believe in people what they say about me I lost it and couldn't get it back. Even taking me out of Allah's way. Alhamdulillah I'm starting again with help of Quran, Allah. Insallah. Your video was good speech for me. Thank you sister. 😊
Side note, as Farah mentioned there are slightly different in this topic. Probably which caused people to balme me with being egoistic and narcissistic. I didn't listen to my true friends and people who know me best, but i believed in people who doesn't even care about my experiences in life. Those who don't have respect to the one they claim they love. Stay away from those people friends.
I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!
(Im not sus, I just love how you're more relatable that my own family.)
PLEASE DIVE DEEPER LOVED THIS EP
Truly missed you girl
Was waiting for u❤
جزاك الله كل خير فرح
Could you please do an episode about the names and attributes of Allah, how you approached learning them and talk about it on a deeper level.
Here’s a playlist about the names and attributes of Allah azza wajjal th-cam.com/play/PLSFZjjKC3qPYGLinbi1XurRSC3izxodtC.html&feature=shared
Subhanallah. I thought it was different what i just faced. But this video gave me the part that I needed.
Very inspirational and deep in meaning, as usual. Keep it up!
thank you farah for this video! this episode really helped me to confront the topic that I'm currently struggling at, may Allah give you barakah for this my sister.
Truly, Allah plans. Just today, I really felt like I hated myself for doing something; for slacking. But Alhamdulillah Allah made you upload at the right time. The part about self love and something about what I think about myself affects the trajectory of my life really made me get off from the slump.
I truly love u from my deep heart 🌺✨🌺✨🌺
istg thankyou so much for talking about what u talked about which was not confidence but confidence...but through self esteem....like ahhh how come that never crossed my mind....THNAKYOU
Farah, you literally post videos whenever I need them or whenever I have or think about the same issue lol, it's a sign.
miss farah here giving coach vibes like always (in a coach way that is *actually* good) love ur videos, truly 💖
Farah, Habibi, it is with great love and adoration that I write to you. I eagerly keep waiting for your videos, I have watched every single one of them multiple times and I'll say it, it's like a therapy. You're my bestie and you don't even know it. Perfect wisdom + your sense of humour is Chef's Kiss. Jazakillah for your work Habibi. Please make a video on how to deal with heartbreaks. ❤
I really wanna get/ watch a new podcast today as a sign😭❤️🩹
I love your ideas please please develop more the last idea it really hit me when you talked about accepting what happened and focusing on what is in your control and not Killin yourself when something go wrong that was amazing thank you so much ❤❤❤ and yes the ideas was received you were right
another amazing video Farah, i've dealing with this topic seriously these days.. and you're video just came up on yt was like a message from god
I have a spicy brain and can't maintain friendships nor have a social life and most of what I watch goes over my head, that's a lack of confidence and self-esteem that'll be hard to reclaim, if ever. Wish I had a person like you in my life though Farah. :')
At the end it's all about believing in qadar and in one of the most beautiful name of Allah : Al razzaq (THE provider). If you truly believe, with your heart and not only with your brain, that you have been created for a purpose, and so THE provider has given you the keys to achieve this purpose (external confidence determining internal confidence), you will walk with all due respect to yourself because you knwo that "what is meant for you will find you" and "they have what they have for a reason, so I have". At this point, the paradigm changes and your vision of life too.
Your podcasts are so helpful. Jazakillah khu khairan Farah
Edit - anyone in the comments correct me if I'm wrong but I've heard it's bad to say Oh my God in islam + with saying Allah you need to emphasise the H.
Confidence is handed once only and it's always threw ying&yang
You changed my perspective about what confidence is. ❤
ياملي يافروحه متابعتك من حايل تموت بتس😔🫶🏻🩷
5 mins into the podcast i am like i wanna have thattt confidence thing she is talking aboutt lovee yaa
i swear u release videos right when i need it
This is really important and true, not many people realize these facts!! Such a good podcast alhamdulilah
I agree to what you’ve said, God bless you!
Love you sister
Please do post more Farah, your podcasts really helps a lot❤