Finding My Style as a New Mom
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- I'm so excited to be uploading my second video back! This is the first part of me rediscovering my style as a new mom. I feel like I've changed in so many ways and it's finally time that I find clothes that make me feel amazing while also fitting me and my lifestyle. This is only part one, as I've honestly found so many more pieces I love even since filming this video so stay tuned for lots of new fashion videos!
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Hey! I'm Raya and I'm so excited to be relaunching this channel as a space of my own to share my new journey into motherhood. I'm in the process of rediscovering myself, learning to love my new body and find what I'm passionate about in this new chapter. On this channel you will find vlogs of my life, fashion, vegan recipes, thrifting and so much more. Thank you for being here ❤️☀️
The first one -the earthy green.
Not a Mum but I just really appreciate your attitude to weight and being comfortable and confident in your body NOW, so refreshing and important to hear, so thank you, and you look fabulous Raya!!! ❤
I like the earthy green dress on you. You chose some really pretty outfits and you look great in the jeans and pants!
The first green is definitely the best, suits your skin color so much better! But both are cute!
Thank you! I was leaning towards that too but when I did the poll on instagram the second green won - that’s why I’m confused 🙈
I would go with the more earthy lighter green personally but I absolutely love both on you!
Yes!!!❤
agree!
The earthy green looks much better on you! Also the red is definitely a keeper! So cute!
I loved all the pieces of clothing Raya, gorgeous, you look beautiful in them all xx love from Australia
Love this style evolution, Raya! It matches your vibrant and warm personality, looks very comfy, but also really fashionable. Seriously, 100% adore! And a nod to linen pants which have been a GAME CHANGER for my summers too. They keep you cool and comfortable, without any chafing. Bonus: it's a sustainable material.
Keep the white/purple dress with the larger waistband! I agree that is super flattering, you look beautiful in it!
Yes that long print dress with the tassels from the neck is stunning on you!!!!
The jeans look fantastic !!!! Also the white linen pants. So flattering! The purple dress looks great too! You are so right about the wide waist band and fit!
Red dress is great. It’s casual and flows. The dress with the high waist band is definitely a flattering look. Linen yes! Jeans yes🙌🏼…..this was a fun video!
Raya! A sincere thank you for this video, it came at the perfect time for me. My daughter is a few weeks younger than Neo and even though I tell myself to embrace my new body, I go through periods of feeling uncomfortable. My body has also grown and changed, and I realized recently that I subconsciously expected I would “bounce back” by now. I’m constantly working towards loving my body no matter how it looks, for all it gives to me and my family. I follow so many TH-camrs and I hear them talk about their insane workouts and dieting plans and fasting or talking about “bad” foods and it just hurts me that diet culture has gotten so deep into our culture. Thank you for being open and vulnerable in this space with us!
Wow thank you for sharing! I know, it’s so so hard. I’ve actively been working to untrain my brain from all the diet culture crap. Especially now that we’re moms, it’s more important that ever to be aware of how we talk about our bodies in front of them! I also had clothes set aside for when I would ‘go back to my size before pregnancy’ but I’m about sell them all. It feels great to start fresh and to buy things for how I look now! It’s actually been a few weeks since I filmed this video and I’m feeling SO much better every day in my new wardrobe ❤️
Everything looked amazing on you. Your fashion style matches your vibrant, happy personality. Making this video is refreshing to those who struggle accepting their body types. You have sent such a positive message about accepting your body and embracing it with fun colors and patterns. You rocked all those outfits!
Those JEANS!!! 🔥 you look gorgeous and confident. This is so inspiring and i love your play with color. looks great!
While I adore the vibrant green as a color, I personally think the more earthy green looks better with your coloring. I LOVE the purple dress with the wider waist band. I would definitely keep that one. The pants look great on you!
Raya! I couldn't wipe the smile off my face while watching! Here are my notes lol😅:
Turquoise dress yes
The one that isn't quite friendly for breast feeding; chuck it but still try that design and a different pattern
The red one looks a bit too churchy, however it's a great design to evolve on.
Your pant journey is off to a magnificent start❤🎉
Raya, we need more of your moms boutique pieces online so we can shop them! All of the blouses are so gorgeous, and the linen pants 🔥
THOSE JEANS WERE MADE FOR YOU !!! Omg love this video! Makes me feel so seen
I love pink and orange together too. In fact, that's the color scheme I picked for my flowers this year along with a bright splash of yellow thrown in too. I like the more muted green dress on you. It gives you a very nature-y vibe. And you look fantastic in jeans! Any color top will go with blue jeans. If you have an oops with Neo and get something on your top, it's a quick change-out rather than figuring out a whole new outfit.
The first earthy green! It’s warmer and suits your complexion more. The brighter cooler one washes you out a little I think and I see the dress before I see you
I love the light green on you!!
LOVE the pink pants and the white pants. The jeans look great on you! I prefer the more earthy green on you but both look good on you. I'd keep the white and purple dress - it fits you so well.
Earthy lighter green is gorgeous 🤗
The more vibrant Green looks amazing on you! So do both, really 🤍 Whatever you decide. You look loveeeely, Raya. Loveeeed this video 🤍
I love the lighter green for you! Look beautiful on you!💚
I love how Raya has created a community where a bunch of people can talk about fashion and share fashion tips ❤
I liked the lighter earthy green!!!
I’d keep the red dress! Beautiful fit ❤️
Raya, great to see you back on your channel. That floral dress is fantastic!
The vibrant green one gave you more sparkle.
I think you should keep the lighter, earthy green! Especially if most of your clothes are bright and colourful - makes it a bit different 😊 it goes with you hair and the earthy brown shoes soooo nicely ♥️
The light green seems to wash you out. The vibrant green made you pop! Love it!
Yes, I meant to mention this too - the brighter one brightens your face up Raya! 💚
@@Nyes04 agreed I loved the bright vibrant green one!
agree!
💯 agree!
I prefer the first one, the earthy paler one.
As a new first time mom I appreciate this so much. I have a 7 month old and struggling to find my “style”. It was hard enough being a “thicker” girl before the body change of having a baby. This is motivating me to figure out what I am comfortable and feeling good in. ♥️
Side note: I choose the bright green dress! I feel like you always look so vibrant in bright colors.
You are beautyFull, Raya. All the new clothes look perfect on you. I LOVE your new look and the fact that you're loving yourself the way you are in this here and now 🧡💖💚✨
Wow, all the pieces look phenomenal…I like the olive earthy green one😊
🩷🧡Girl you look gorgeous in all these outfits! Thank You for the real talk. Carry on you are beautiful inside and out!!
For the long red dress, I would style it with a woven rattan belt and bag, and maybe a summery hat to make it more casual.
Rock the jeans girl!!! You look amazing!! Unless I’m at work I’m always in a tshirt and tights. I haven’t gotten my outfit life together since having my LO and with breastfeeding and pumping it’s so difficult to dress now.
As a curvy and busty woman I can totally relate to your clothing issues. I’m a dress gal too, and actually don’t own a pair of pants but have toying with the idea lately as well. All the pants looked amazing on you, and I love your colour choices! Now the green dresses both looked good but I prefer the brighter one. I liked the purple dress, it’s cute and colour variation is a good thing, those tassel ties will be something Neo will like to play with 😁. I totally agree about a wide band they help accentuate your figure. The red linen dress doesn’t read too corporate or buttoned up to me, the colour is fantastic in you and the fit is great other than across the chest as you mentioned. If the slight tightness bothers you or makes you self conscious, return it, but you could wear it the way it is or undo a couple more buttons and layer it with a tank. Happy clothes journey, and can’t wait to see what you find next.
I think the more vibrant green suits you best 😊 although both greens are beautiful on you! and the red dress looks nice as well but as you said it seems a little too formal for your style .. but in case you want to have something like that as well then it's a catch! 👀
I love that you mix different vibrant colours!! It looks fresh, fun and boosts my mood just by looking at you 💖💚
Oh course I would choose the earthy green, brings out your eyes and looks great with your skin tone
What a beautiful message!
My son is almost three, and it took me a while to embrace my body again. I'm probably still guilty of wearing longer tops to "hide" my belly with pants. I'm still working on it 😉
You look amazing! Loved all the outfits. Personally, I liked the more vibrant green dress. Loved the red one on you.
I Love so much that you're not afraid of colour. I'm a hazel eyed blonde and always go with earth tones. I wish I was brave enough to wear such beauty colours. Thanks Raya! You are so amazing!
I adore that last outfit on you too! And yes - linen pants are the best! I feel like you’d love Indigo Luna. It’s an Australian/Bali based brand. The Layla Flare pant, and the Earth angel Skort, I think you would adore! ❤
Those pink and cream linen pants are perfect ❤ you look amazing!
You are pure sunshine inside and out! I love seeing you shine! All these outfits are gorgeous on you. Pink and orange has always been my favorite color combo. Clothing lifts us up and starts conversations with strangers. Thank you for loving yourself as you are❤
The earthy green would be my pick❤
What a beautiful message, it inspires me. I’ve not had kids yet, but I have always felt like I don’t love my body fully and I’m waiting to lose like 10-15 lbs to really love it and wear the things I want to wear confidently. But following more people who look like me has tremendously helped! ❤
You're great at this. Beautiful to see you back on your channel and rocking your confidence. ❤
Thank you!! Really appreciate that ❤️
❤ I just love this videe!! Such beautiful message. I'm not a mum, but I struggle with my weight... and I often look at a beautiful dress and think - I'll buy it when I lose weight... and it's crazy! We should celebrate all body types and we all deserve nice outfits despite our size 😊 I'm looking forward to the next video!
I could see the longer red dress with lots of gold jewlery and that could give it a more casual Mediterranean feel and less professional? I love it! And different shoes will change the vibe a lot! Seems really versatile
omg this is my third comment now but that pink matching set is INCREDIBLE, i’m sold on the orange-pink combo 😍
Vibrant green. The jeans look so good on you!! The long white /purple dress is very flattering on you.
The jeans look wonderful on you!!
The dark green looks more vibrant!!
THOSE JEANS LOOK SO GORGEOUS !!! ong that whole outfit is so cool i want it
Absolutely love the pink linen pant and shirt “set” that’s so cute!!!
Loved blue dress and the White and blue pants! Jeans look great too ❤
You genuinely looked stunning in all of these! I did love the light green dress more, but the dark one looked great too. Thank you for encouraging me to love my body, and now I’m going to go buy that dress I’ve had my eye on. 💜
Ahh that’s amazing! You deserve to feel beautiful ❤️❤️
Comfort is always the deciding factor for me. It can look great but if it’s not comfortable, it’s a no go
Ohhh, I think I need some linen pants! You are looking GREAT. Thanks for the inspo. I like the earthy green dress, but both are great 😀.
Pink orange combo 🤌🏼🤌🏼
Love love lovvvveee the jeans!
Great video and so inspiring! I have a similar body type and have been in a rut for years. Thank you for the inspiration. I will be purchasing some of these items. Pink and green rock!
Looking so cute! Love it
I love the jeans and white shirt combo!
the first green would be the green for me, (a pale ass redhead) you need the vibrant one!! that made you really pop!!
Love the red dress!!
The jeans look amazing on you ❤❤
Wow! I love every single one! Especially the red dress. I agree, the pink and orange go together beautifully. As for the two green dresses, I think they both look great on you, but I like the lighter green.❤
You're rocking the outfits! The jeans are made for you and those linen pants and outfits are beautiful on you. Enjoy your new season!
Everything looks wonderful on you! I like the more natural green dress.
Your mum's boutique has some lovely clothes!
Hi Raya, I’m the same! I’ve embraced it! I have a hernia that I’m getting removed but I’m so inspired by bright colours! Yeh same pink and orange! Love the dress you’re wearing, love tropical 🌴 too!! Pink is great for the summer! I’ve bought off vinted and Etsy!
Checking back for a new video, cannot wait when it's time! Being a mama I can relate to how busy life can get, we're here (your supporters) when you're ready Raya! I remember in a video of yours and Louis channel you mentioned you were planning on making a video of your thrifty finds for Neo, such a great idea you had, that would be fun!! Love and admire you and your videos. You're inspiring, strong, beautiful, kind hearted and genuine. Lots of love from Canada 🤍🕊️🦋
Ah thank you, a new video just came out! Filmed in Canada 😍 I’d love to film more thrift videos so hopefully you’ll see some soon!
Hey raya ! For jeans, I think what’s missing is a belt! There’s so many different patterns and colors that can help complete the look! 🩷
Raya, your video was amazing. You are absolutely stunning in every outfit, and those bright colors suit you perfectly and you can see how they make you feel incredible. Your message about body image is incredibly important for all ages, and you delivered it beautifully. ❤😊
Looking fabulous, Raya! 🌸
I love the pink and orange combination, Raya! It reminds me of Bali ❤ You look so radiant!
I'm so inspired by this! You literally rocked all of it! Wish I could "like" this video twice! ❤
I love that your style is unique and you are not afraid to embrace who you are. And the result is that you are so beautiful! It gives me courage to be myself. And I find joy in that
Raya you are absolutely beautiful, and you rocked those outfits. Your confidence in your own beauty makes you even more gorgeous.
Love the frilly sleeves
Loved this so much. Dressing my post partum body was a huge strggle for me. I think I finally got it down 3 years later 🤪
The earthy green looks amazing. I love everything you tried on especially the flowery blue dress with waist band. Wow so pretty on you. The linen pants are all stunning. My favourite is the pink set with orange top. You are beautiful Raya.
Such a fun video, it's like going shopping with a vriend and them asking for your opinion!
The red vibrant dress - keep it for sure! Of course it does look proffesional, but you can make it look more casual with accessories. I personally also just have days sometimes where I feel like wearing certain things, it doesn't matter that I am a bit overdressed for the ocasion, if I feel good in the outfit that's all what matters.
I love the dark green and the purple dress!!
Everything looks amazing on you!!
Thank you for being you! Love all of this.
Oh Raya you look so good! Loud and proud seeing all the colors lichtend my day, so fun!
Omg the outfit with you in the jeans with the pink top and green jacket looks amazing! So fresh and fun and cute!!!!
I love all of them never really thought to put all those colors and patterns together. I like the first green dress better
Raya you are gorgeous and rocking this ! Thank you for this video ❤ !!
As a mom of 3, my youngest being about 5 weeks older than Neo, I have always been insecure, but even more so since my last pregnancy (I actually put on the weight while breastdeeding). This video has inspired me so much !
Btw the 1st more natural green is my favourite on you.
All the colors are so striking with your hair and skin tone👍🏾
Absolutely love all the choices you made, keep them all!!!
Your clothes all look great on you! I greatly appreciate your willingness to share!
Raya u rocked those jeans, I too have never had a flat tummy before or after kids and jeans and pants are for all shapes and sizes. Love ur new wardrobe, beautiful pieces ❤
Fun video!! Nothing better than feeling great in your own skin🌸
Love these looks on you. Love, love, love all the pants. Everything you said resonated so much. Definitely taking inspiration for my summer wardrobe
Ahh amazing, thank you! ❤️
Raya I think this is so so great!! Well done for embracing the season you're in and finding beautiful fun styles that work for you right now that you can enjoy! You look fabulous in all of them!! I absolutely loved the linen pants and the fun colors!! The Pink set is gorgeous, and I really really loved the longer Red dress! Thanks so much for sharing so openly about your journey, it's very inspiring!
I just have to say, Raya, you are so beautiful from the inside out. Your light shines so brilliantly! I am so grateful and appreciative for the content you create. Your light shines on everyone!
Thank you so so much! ❤️