A Hong Kong transgender man's journey to becoming his true self

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  • @luci4087
    @luci4087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    learning about yourself and accepting who or what you might be isn’t always easy. hope he is comfortable with himself now.

    • @tazboy1934
      @tazboy1934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wat if someone think he is an avengers?

    • @null-0
      @null-0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tazboy1934 I'm Beanos

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@falconvisionuav very rude

    • @xienela
      @xienela 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@falconvisionuav Exactly. Thank you.

    • @xienela
      @xienela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@陈陈-f8l People these days, like you can't accept the truth, so instead label the truth as rude.

  • @bryanpaulgilbert7308
    @bryanpaulgilbert7308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    before writing something hateful, please take a minute to learn more about what someone who is trans might be going through. This isn't a fad that will go away because some people don't approve. There's a long history of people feeling that their perceived gender isn't in alignment with how they feel inside and that feeling of incongruity isn't likely to go away without transitioning.

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've learned enough. I need to know my enemy if I am to debate my enemy. Can I write something "hateful" now?

    • @acid_tongue_4315
      @acid_tongue_4315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why are they your enemy? They donmt wven know you, they just want to live their lives. They are not hurting you, your family, your children, or your friends. Please, just let them be. You don't have to talk to them, just look away :(

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@acid_tongue_4315 their movement is uprooting and degrading science. Their agenda is actively targeting the children to force the ideals upon them. It comes with a high rate of "self removal", if you catch my drift, because about 40% are "removaly" yet they still think they should encourage it in people. Believing in basic facts gets me hate and threats from the activists who promote it.
      Shall I continue?

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MHS-ql7ee your hatred isn't going to change history and science in general,we get that you are self conscious,cry about it

    • @TheWorkersNewspaper
      @TheWorkersNewspaper ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fruitguzzi9122 Facts determine science and history. Something you western liberals don’t even bother to acknowledge.

  • @GaiaSapphireE
    @GaiaSapphireE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You ARE perfect! You ARE beautiful! I am an old 67 year old woman who supports you! Keep your head up, your shoulders back and BE YOU! 💞

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      very nice 😀

  • @AiyaSGC87
    @AiyaSGC87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND KEEP GOING FORWARD! Only YOU have to live your life so always choose what makes *you* feel at peace. I hope he can finally look at himself with pride and confidence.

  • @ST4RFOUND
    @ST4RFOUND 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    What’s with all the negativity in the comments?

    • @pollytulips33
      @pollytulips33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ikr! its honestly sad to see

    • @vble2337
      @vble2337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is disgusting and immoral.

    • @obsessedcore4519
      @obsessedcore4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@vble2337 being hateful to someone who's living their own life who isn't harming others is disgusting and immoral

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obsessedcore4519 yes they are harming others

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obsessedcore4519 groomer

  • @ivana2091
    @ivana2091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Are you all that hateful? This man just said how much the top surgery means to him and you all are just being unreasonable. You all think that if somebody shoved **you** in the wrong body you would be all happy and stuff? And that it's just his depression talking? unbelievable

    • @MrTurkey2138
      @MrTurkey2138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There is no wrong body, this isn’t anime

    • @ChrysanthsMum
      @ChrysanthsMum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Should we encourage an anorexic to stop eating because she believes she is fat?

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      everything has beauty but not everyone see it

    • @aoao-j
      @aoao-j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ChrysanthsMum An anorexic not eating is unhealthy, this guy getting surgery is not

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MHS-ql7ee he

  • @陈陈-f8l
    @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it
    he is on a brave mission to find himself it is very brave and important to help us all if we know who we are we are all benefiting from their wisdom

  • @StopBaizuo
    @StopBaizuo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Free to express yourself in every way.
    Not free to impose your way to the rest of the people.
    This should be the standard common sense.

    • @PlatypusPGM
      @PlatypusPGM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What did he impose on u?

    • @stevenr.rodriguez9997
      @stevenr.rodriguez9997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Didn't impose anything on you, nor do the majority of people in similar situations as him. And if people feeling like they also deserve to have how they feel respected is somehow making somebody feel imposed on, they shouldn't be allowed to talk to these great people or anyone that does.

  • @ilkawolff7745
    @ilkawolff7745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Best wishes to you for a happy life!

  • @fabianlow6022
    @fabianlow6022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You only answer to yourself ..... go with your heart ❤️

  • @figengullot6297
    @figengullot6297 ปีที่แล้ว

    Long as you're happy with who you're what you're, no one have right to judge you,be well be happy.

  • @spankylmao3762
    @spankylmao3762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful story. Thanks, South China Morning Post!!

  • @lx9037
    @lx9037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He’s so hot!!!! And I am almost 5 months on T. Love to see other trans people just existing, breathing, and being happy.

  • @bogymanthedark
    @bogymanthedark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Changing birth certificate and doing Surgery won't ever change who you were at birth. deep inside you still have the essence of your original self and you can't discard it no matter how much you change your outer looks, thats something I have come to acceptance with and have been happier than ever.

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Objectively false.

    • @bogymanthedark
      @bogymanthedark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@davidspears700 it's the harsh truth but you can choose not to believe it if it makes you feel at ease.

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bogymanthedark It's not even the truth though. Yeah you can't change the fact you were *born* a certain way but you can change that later on in life

    • @bogymanthedark
      @bogymanthedark 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidspears700 by just molding your outer shell to a different shape? that's not really changing, sure people are gonna view you differently but your cells and soul they're still the same from birth and you cannot change that but if being viewed differently in the eyes of people can make you live happy then go for it.

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      original self???you are literally born trans and that has been proven biologically ages ago,being trans and transitioning is literally letting yourself to be your original self,yall took your ignorance and ran with it

  • @reak.5420
    @reak.5420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry to ask as this may be disrespectful but what is top surgery.

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it is surgery on the top of the body to make them closer to their desired gender

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's basically removing breast tissues along with extra fat

  • @pohyin2564
    @pohyin2564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You yourself can decide your own fate

  • @tuannguyenquoc5515
    @tuannguyenquoc5515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so this person is originally male or female again? sr im a bit confused

    • @tazboy1934
      @tazboy1934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Male

    • @lucky889s9
      @lucky889s9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Female. There was earlier video about him/her wanna be a man. I don't know what kind operation to change female to male... No idea, no chopping of nothing

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MHS-ql7ee He is a man.

    • @Proteus-zb6qv
      @Proteus-zb6qv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      FtM trans.

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      he was originally born female than he transitioned to male,that's the whole definition of being trans

  • @ArabicReja973.
    @ArabicReja973. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The *whole world* should thank India🇮🇳 and *Indians* for the *free comedy* they provide globally

    • @null-0
      @null-0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think my chance of developing dementia has increased by 20 percents after reading.

  • @bigman8778
    @bigman8778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    he will not last an hour in china

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, because he is a she and China is not a brainwashed nation.

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it is very sad.. all of us need to be respectful to people who go on a mission to find themselves as it brings one wisdom knowledge and understanding

    • @xinpingdonohoe3978
      @xinpingdonohoe3978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@陈陈-f8l if an anore×ic gets herself down to 30kg because she thinks she is fat, is that also her "finding herself"?

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xinpingdonohoe3978 ones journey to finding themselves may have a few bumps in the road.. anorexia is a disorder and can be cured.. the bump in the road is not permanent

  • @fruitguzzi9122
    @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MY BESTIE!

  • @dutchplayernl2727
    @dutchplayernl2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    problem: 'i am unhappy, depressed' > solution? > change gender..................

    • @Lion-fj3wp
      @Lion-fj3wp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We can't judge anyone until we judge ourselves 🙏🙏🏿

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bunch of transformers mad in the comments people are disgusted

    • @null-0
      @null-0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@patrickhenry6695 Optimus Prime doesn't seem bothered to me.

    • @AnnaBrown99
      @AnnaBrown99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If you’re being something you’re not for probably more than 10 years, you will also be depressed. It seems empathy is a strange word for you

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah because gender dysphoria exists

  • @matthummel8306
    @matthummel8306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just accept what you're, stop confusing yourself

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Buddy I think you're the confused one here

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      he did actually,it seems like u are the one confused here

    • @parker4340
      @parker4340 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine wanting people to be miserable that you don’t even know

  • @Kodousinx
    @Kodousinx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoy the world from a male eyes 👀 .

  • @azanepsilon
    @azanepsilon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Notice how this person browses their phone and that hand on chin at the beginning when they're smiling. The feminine tilt of the head when walking. That's a girl.

    • @GachaArchives
      @GachaArchives 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Doesn’t everyone do that?

    • @azanepsilon
      @azanepsilon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@GachaArchives Does everyone get excited about buying a bag? "Bought a new travel bag xdd :)" thats the kind of thing women get excited about. The person is feminine.

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GachaArchives no

    • @lucky889s9
      @lucky889s9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And she wanna be a man. No idea how, even though some women grow moustache

    • @lucky889s9
      @lucky889s9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Bam OuttaDaBayou she wants to be a man

  • @ziziwarren1149
    @ziziwarren1149 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very handsome. 😉

  • @goodquestion1
    @goodquestion1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Those people will never be real women

    • @lycaptain
      @lycaptain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thanks??? idk what to tell you man, you just told a trans man that he’ll never be a woman ☠️

    • @parker4340
      @parker4340 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah you saw trans and just assumed he was a trans woman shows how much you know

  • @goodquestion1
    @goodquestion1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He will always be a man

    • @ルシラムス
      @ルシラムス 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true! I am glad you support transgender people :)

    • @goodquestion1
      @goodquestion1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ルシラムス 🤣🤣 in your dream's

    • @JoeyXSmith
      @JoeyXSmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Was born a woman then transitioned into a man Not the other way round 🤦‍♂️

    • @Proteus-zb6qv
      @Proteus-zb6qv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed!

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly

  • @jetsetjoey
    @jetsetjoey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is a VERY confused individual...

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      everything has beauty but not everyone sees it... he is very wise and brave for beginning a journey to discover yourself.. he is wise and has great knowledge

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, that'd be you

    • @fruitguzzi9122
      @fruitguzzi9122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      man is a whole DOCTOR and yet somehow he's confused

    • @parker4340
      @parker4340 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s you mate if you actually did some research you’d know your point doesn’t hold a candlestick to science nowadays

  • @alexkuall3832
    @alexkuall3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I don't understand she was a girl and a man or?

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was born female and transitioned to male

  • @zebruh2794
    @zebruh2794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    At least he looks like a guy and not like those ppl in American or other English speaking countries

    • @lucky889s9
      @lucky889s9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a girl wanna be a guy. It's not that difficult. Many girls look like guys anyway, just cut hair short. Some girls already have Moustache anyway

    • @zebruh2794
      @zebruh2794 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucky889s9 you talking about English countries?

    • @null-0
      @null-0 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about those people in America and English-speaking countries?

    • @zebruh2794
      @zebruh2794 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@null-0 this dude is trying to pass and is presenting as male. English-speaking countries that have trans ppl, can't even pass or present the gender they say they are. They get offended easily and don't even try to pass because “passing is too hard” without releasing that it takes time and a ton of work to pass. For me, that is pure laziness.

    • @lucky889s9
      @lucky889s9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zebruh2794 what are you saying about those people in american or other english speaking countries? They're uglier to your taste

  • @traciepratte3983
    @traciepratte3983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel someday they will realize it wasn't the gender that was the issue, it was something else bugging them. Then what? It doesn't matter how much surgery they will always be on drugs no matter what because the body doesn't understand what's happening and will try to revert BACK to what's NATURAL for it. This will get to point where they WON'T be able to continue those drugs and again then what? They go thru some horrible mood swings ON THESE DRUGS, never mind when a lifetime of them turns to none cuz health can't handle it. This is a life-long medical experiment.
    Yet they were looking for stability? Makes no sense in that respect, and seems maybe people are indoctrinated to BELIEVE this is what is their issue. Got teachers dropping these ideas for last ten years it looks like in American schools. The drugs make grown men lose their minds. Lately that's all I see in the young crowd.

    • @obsessedcore4519
      @obsessedcore4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Focus on your own body

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@obsessedcore4519 no

    • @patrickhenry6695
      @patrickhenry6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@obsessedcore4519 you tone police anyone who thinks this atrocity is exactly what it is. Did you chop your stuff off also?

    • @simlu6360
      @simlu6360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      There might be some cases that retransition, but there is actually enough scientific data that supports physical transition as very benifitial for the persons well-being. The percentage of retransition compared to transition is microscopic.

    • @Adam-du8be
      @Adam-du8be 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Are u by chance not really that educated on what you are speaking about?because i know many people who will prove to you that youre not the smartest when it comes to this topic.

  • @БананБагадан
    @БананБагадан 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Очень красивый

  • @jetsetjoey
    @jetsetjoey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He should go visit Afghanistan...

  • @kenzo8761
    @kenzo8761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just smile all problem you have quote unqoute finish.

  • @finz1019
    @finz1019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "If a man sleeps with a man as with a woman, they have both committed a detestable act. They must be put to death; their death is their own fault."
    (Leviticus 20:13)

    • @obsessedcore4519
      @obsessedcore4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Imagine wishing death on someone who's living their own life and not harming others. Yet you christians stay quiet when it comes to a child abuser

    • @tazboy1934
      @tazboy1934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@obsessedcore4519 they are harming others indirectly....u are just not aware...there are many diseases that are spread through those act

    • @finz1019
      @finz1019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@obsessedcore4519 "They know that God's law says that people who live in this way deserve death. Yet, not only do they continue to do these very things, but they even approve of others who do them."
      (Romans 1:32)

    • @陈陈-f8l
      @陈陈-f8l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@obsessedcore4519 very true

    • @davidspears700
      @davidspears700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tazboy1934 source: trust me bro

  • @ksjbuddy6714
    @ksjbuddy6714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @pujipratiwi8886
    @pujipratiwi8886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Unsubscribe... I really like news from this channel, but not now !