This Is Why You Never Feel Good Enough
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER FEEL GOOD ENOUGH
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Have you ever wondered why, no matter what you do you never feel good enough? You've accomplished a lot and have had success in at least a few areas of your life, but you still can't figure out how to feel good about yourself and your accomplishments. You might find it all very confusing and even often wonder "why I think I'm not good enough"
Here we're going to talk about the brain science reasons why you have that inner critical voice that often won't let up and makes you feel like you're not good enough, no matter what you do, and what you can do to get it to back off, at least a little.
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Feeling not good enough, not smart or likeable enough
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No one has ever liked me enough to stick around
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My MAJOR Grem that covers all others is basically that I am not good enough and always trying to be better. And I HAVE to be better in order to be "worthy" of love/affection/praise.
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@@sophiamoreno6459 I have had a therapist for about 2 years now and even though I won't say this is gone and cured, I am in so so sOOOOOOOOOOO much of a better spot and position right now then I otherwise am at any point!
Please find someone you like to talk to and discuss these things, it will definitely help you out!
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My gremlin: no matter how much I give I'm never good enough.
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My gremlin: there is always someone better
I always think that too.
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My gremlin: I will never be successful or live up to my potential because I don’t have what it takes.
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I always find myself feeling like I’m not good enough to have what I desire
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My gremlin is : I’m never enough for anyone no matter how hard I try
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Fear of rejection if I reveal too much of myself.
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Even if I do my best I will never be enough
Alva F I feel your struggles! Your Not Alone!
Alva F yes! Same here
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I look for approval from others for feeling worthy and loved
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My 1st gremlin: I am not good enough, I am a failure at life !
My 2nd gremlin: My needs don't matter, others needs are more important than mine !
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My gremlin: not feeling worthy enough, I will be replaced or there is someone better
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My gremlins: perfectionism, fear of rejection, fear of conflict, and fear of failure.
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In tears! I thought the comment thing would be weird or not many people would say much but I scrolled down and the tears spilled. So many faces, different perspectives, sharing the same pain. Thank you all for sharing! MY GREMLIN: It is so easy to put myself down and lift others up. Too easy.
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My gremlin: I feel like whatever I do, I won't succeed. In all parts of my life: working out, loosing weight, good grades
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My gremlin is that I always feel out of place and that I never really fit in anywhere.
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I’m not good enough. I need validation because I don’t believe in myself enough.
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I already like you.😊
n hall you made me smile. Thanks you!
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My gremlins: I'm not beautiful enough, a guy will always choose someone more beautiful/interesting and charming than me
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I’m so incredibly complicated everyone thinks I’m crazy, I’m bipolar and so nobody talks to me I’ll never be good enough no matter what. I cry for hours at a time. I’m crying right now
You are as complicated as you
Make yourself. Be kind to your self and change your thoughts because they will become your life.
I need to green thumb this one but I can't for somereason
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Hello, how are you and your family, I'am sorry that you are going through that, do not give up, yes, it is hard and yes, at times the process may be slow but hang in there, God has you in every way, it is okay to cry sometimes but while you cry, God has already worked it out for you, just be patient and keep depending on The Lord, God bless you and your family, in the mighty, name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior of the world, amen 🙏❤
Mine: that I won’t ever be good enough for anyone and am not lovable
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I always feel like I don’t have what it takes to do the things i want to do in my life
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While I’m reading everybody’s comment, tears are coming down my eyes because I fight with all these things, and to know that there’s other people in the world that’s going to the same thing. I am breaks my heart, but no matter what you think of yourself you’re a great person.
You are an amazing and worthy person, we all have strengths and weaknesses that make us all unique.
Me too! a heartbroken for you and everyone here since we're all aboard the same metaphorical boat!
Gremlin: That I will never be worthy, no matter how I try
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My gremlins: I feel like I suck because I'm not where I want to be or think I should be as compared to other people.
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My gremlin is: Feeling scared of rejection when I ask people for help. A distrust that people will do what they say they'll do.
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No matter how hard I work and no matter how much I accomplish I just wait for someone to see through it and understand that I am not good enough. I am kind of introverted also, not the loudest guy in social settings, so afraid people will find me to be boring.
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I come to realize that it's not just "me" that doesn't feel good enough. It's also who you surround yourself with. There should be people around you who brings your spirits up even when you are at your lowest. You need to understand your journey and understand things for what they are. Good or bad you are you! Don't ever let you or anyone else diminish just how special you really are. God Bless.
Im special allright special needs
I'm not pretty enough. I'm not smart enough.
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my gremlin: i’m not likable enough, my anxiety beats me to the punch, fear of rejection, lack of self-control
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My gremlin: I’m not that important enough. I’m not that special. Its someone better
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I feel I'm not good enough to meet the expectations of others.
My gremlin is: I come off as a very friendly outgoing extrovert. However, deep inside, I'm afraid that if people really knew me, they wouldn't like me.
Same 😕 and also: they’d run away
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I’m too quiet compared to other people which makes me boring.
Serene Artist me too
Me too, so I make up for it by acting outgoing and extroverted, but it keeps me in the cycle of feeling like if people really knew me, they wouldn't like me.
Me too. Especially if there is a large group of people.
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Me too but I'm loud and boring
“These are not my thoughts.”
and
“They don’t mean anything.“
are such powerful sentences.
Thank you.
I always feel like nothing I do matters to anyone 😭
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My gremlin: I feel like my friends all like other people better than me and I’m nobody’s first priority.
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I really relate to this.
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My gremlin is “you’re not doing enough”
Teresa Smietana me too
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OMG YES.
I feel like a lot of woman feel that way. Me too
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I feel unproductive even when I have done something during the day, I just feel like I am a waste..
Gremlin: you are selfish and only focus on yourself and yet you still aren’t perfect
I can't believe i'm actually doing this
My gremlin is the feeling of not being good enough to succeed, of feeling like i'm not enough, of feeling like i don't have a purpose. Feeling like i've failed too many times to find true success
Me too my friend. Youre not alone
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Nothing I do is good enough.
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Gremlin: I'm scared that I'm not living my life to the fullest.
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I often feel like no matter how good I do by someone they always end up leaving me. I often feel unlovable
I always procrastinate with everything, and don't feel as if I'm worthy enough to feel accomplished. I am anxious and depressed too.
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Myself critical thought is that I am a burden.
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My gremlin: Feeling like I’m not in control my own life and always worrying about how others will feel about my actions.
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My gremlins: fear of rejection, pain, trauma that I never told anyone, not feeling complete, anger, frustration, hurt, feeling empty, I can’t stop crying.
me too.... i feel you. I really do
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I am unimportant
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My gremlins are: not being enough, there is always someone better than me, not pretty enough...i guess anything that has to do with not being enough
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I’m with ya
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I'm too old to achieve the dreams one wanted and I've lost too many years fighting the anxiety to achieve them
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I am not worthy of love
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Anabel Martinez me too
Didn't even think God could love me, and was terribly unhappy when I'd ask my husband WHY he loved me and he was NEVER able to put it into words, even though we were together over 20 years before he died.
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I always think I come across as a weird, nervous wreck. I'm always anxious about coming across anxious, which of course always happens. I have social anxiety and performance anxiety.
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Social anxiety... me too
Regardless of what I do, how I look, how I speak.. it will never been good enough.
My gremlin: I will never amount to anything good or positive. It's something that I was always told growing up at home.
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My gremlin: I'm too awkward and uncomfortable in social situations and feel that people judge me for it.
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My gremlin is: Frequently feeling guilt. An example would be feeling guilty for not being a better mom when my children were toddlers. Wish I spent more time with them and engage with them more. Wish I read more books to them when they asked, than pushing them away because I was tired. Wish I could have done so many things differently.
me too
Jen L. Me too
Yup
The would've could've should've senero.
Regrets are one of my Gremlins
Jen L. I feel your struggles! Your Not Alone!
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I am always going to feel broken and attract tough experiences, things are never going to workout for me I don't even know what I want to do in life, let alone feel good enough or capable of achieving it
Same here..
julia, i just wanted to take the time to say that you actually managed to help me during a dark, dark night. one that i didn't even believe i could get out of myself. you helped me get back on track from thoughts that are so scary and seem so real.
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My gremlin: you're less than others because they're doing more than what you can actually do.
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My Gremlin is
Feeling overwhelmed and I can’t get my life together
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I know i'm good enough for myself.
But, the problem is that i'm not good enough for someone i love.
I feel like a failure in life all together- always the the choice and always the one left alone after loving everyone else to the extreme
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My gremlin: no one will love me for me and no one will ever like my body.
Same here am always worried if girls going to like how my penis look with cause it has too much skin
not body but for me
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my gremlin: you're not good enough, you're weird, something's wrong with you
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Ruth Bonne ME TOO
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No matter how successful I am, it is never good enough... There is always someone one or two steps above me.
dont compare yourself with others, everyone is different,you are not weak or something,compare yourself with the old you
My gremlin: i am not hardworking at all
my gremlin: im not special, im not good at anything, im just a nothing
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My gremlin: my inner self, there's nothing valuable that will make a person stay. My most inner being, not enough to make someone chose me
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@@MTG9878 🤗
Doesn't matter how hard you work to build something someone is just going to come along and take it or pull the rug out from under you.
Which has been the last 10 years of my life.
My gremlin is not being good enough, because no matter how “good” I am, all I can see are my flaws. I talk too much, I don’t talk enough, I’m too tall, I’m too skinny, I’m lazy, I’m irresponsible, I’m not mature... I could name every flaw I see, and I cannot get myself to see the ways I am successful. I operate a LOT out of fear of rejection, and it holds me back and makes me disappointed in myself.
Me too💜
My gremlin is: Afraid the people I love will leave me
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My gremlin: what’s wrong with me in finding my quality significant other-I always seem to settle for less than who I want.
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Kim McDonald wow me too! This is a good one
My gremlin: I will never get over my internal negative energy and thoughts, so I will always be abandoned and in pain, which makes me undeserving of love
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Makes such a huge difference knowing that we all struggle with these thoughts 💭 and feelings! This was definitely a mental shift!
My gremlin: no one will ever love me and stay with me, I'm not good enough.
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That I can’t overcome my flaws
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"I feel guilty for prioritizing a healthy lifestyle over studies, grades, work - everything else in life, meaning putting in lots of time and energy in cultivating what I call my "health framework" that in my brain I consider a part of my daily duties and "work"."
Me: I feel like I don’t have what it takes to achieve the things in life I desire.
Daughter: Not feeling good/worthy enough.
Something is wrong with me. Nothing I do is good enough.
Ray Huf me too
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This one cracked me up😂 how do you know there is something wrong with you? I’m sure there is nothing wrong with you. You maybe confused and scared and not trusting yourself but you are ok otherwise. Hm, maybe your parents were shouting what was wrong with you and now you run this false belief? The parents are the cause for most of our misery in adulthood.
my gremlin: that i'll never be ok because i'm too broken and messed up. I will be one of the people who doesn't make it because my efforts will never be enough.
Eleven By Five yes!
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I feel like I am worthless. No matter what I do for anyone, even my boyfriend or my bestfriend, I will just never be enough for them to care about you. It's maybe because I am too negative or something or they are far away and I am clinging on to them for my social part of life and they are busy. Maybe because of that but I feel worthless. This will kill me one day. These abandonment issues will kill me.
My gremlin: I am a people pleaser, I am weak and can’t stand up for myself and what I believe. Even when I’m hurting others by trying to please them I can’t face my fears and make the change.
Gremling: Im not loveable, someting is wrong with me
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My gremlins: feeling rejected and unloveable.
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I feel like even if I achieve great things, my dad won’t acknowledge it and it won’t be good enough for him, like he’ll set a new higher bar instead
Me too, but it's my mom
no matter how hard i try it seems like everyone around me is way way better than me..
Me too
"I'm damaged, cursed, and I'm not worthy of goodness in this life."
Me too
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William Hastings me
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My gremlin is= I am not worthy of being persued or fought for.
That I wasn’t good enough for my ex and that I’m still not.
Me too. I was never enough for the few ex boyfriends I've had.
I’m broken. Something is missing. I’ll never be good enough.
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My gremlin: I'm not worth making the time for, to listen to therefore the respect and consideration I give to friends doesn't come back to me when I need it.
It looks like I m looking in the mirror. So me!
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Christina Ford Gomes me too
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I’ve had so many of these thoughts that I carried around and God delivered me from them. He told me that I am more than enough that what others think of me is irrelevant because the only thing that matters is how he sees me. God only sees the good in you.
My gremlin is that people will eventually realise who I am, pretending and that I am really a fake
Me too. Living the person that I want to be not the person that I am.
My gremlin: That I suck at life, or don't have what it takes to be successful.
Me too.
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This gremlin is: That I'm worthless.
Me too! You’re not.
Only God makes me worth anything, but that's only in His eyes. I can't see it.
Me too
Me too but we’re not
That’s the words from the devil my friend God says you’re beautifully and wonderfully made with a purpose he made you one of his favorite creations.
My gremlin: I am disabled after a car crash when I was 3 years old which killed my mother. My father ignores my needs and constantly puts me down whilst encouraging and supporting another man’s children. No matter what I achieve, I will never be good enough to have a relationship with a partner.
I feel the same about having a partner
I am never good enough for someone to want my fully, to commit to me and love me all the way through
Me too.
A good guy doesn’t deserve a emotional unstable person like me.
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My gremlin: I'm not where I need to be because I'm not inteligent enough and don't have the guts to move on.
Me too! Don’t give up!
Me too. I believe in you 🤗!
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