My First Year MBBS Experience | Failing | Stress and hurt | Loneliness

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  • Disclaimer: These are NOT Absolute truths. This is MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE and how I felt the entire first year.
    This is my story and my experience and your story might be absolutely different
    If you’re having a happy positive year, I hope you make the most of it and that you absolutely deserve it💖
    But if you’re new out there and feeling lonely and lost, then I want to say I HEAR YOU, I FEEL YOU and I AM HERE FOR YOU🥺♥️
    And Of course there are kind and nice people out there who welcome people with open arms so loads of love and shout out to them!
    Also in no way was I bullied or ragged
    If you’re being ragged:
    NATIONAL ANTI RAGGING HELPLINE: 1800-180-5522
    #mbbs #medicalcollege #firstyear #loneliness #stress #hurt #failure #newcity #newlife #alone #hope

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  • @pavitragohel9686
    @pavitragohel9686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    It takes a lot of strength to share all of this, you amazing bro

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you so much💖 And thank you for supporting my page💖

  • @AbcdEfgh-ww4vy
    @AbcdEfgh-ww4vy ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This type of videos are 100× times motivating and relatable than fake motivational videos. Please keep on speaking truth . I am tired of fake bullshit

  • @freddyfrost8195
    @freddyfrost8195 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    This was all so relatable for me. From the traumatic introvert social life to failing anatomy(I too am in second year now). It takes a lot of strength to share all of this and I’m glad you did cuz this introduced you to me. Looking forward to seeing the rest of your mbbs journey and more! Wish you the best of luck!❤

  • @aditi3276
    @aditi3276 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I am so grateful you shared this. I could relate this to such a great extent. I struggled with medical school and cried almost everyday. No one in med school supports you, it all feels very superficial. Just as you said, I tried to keep myself together. I think you are a very strong person. I tried to articulate my thoughts to my parents or friends, but no one really cared. That hurt. I also desperately wanted to run away. But the thought of getting done with this once and for all is what's keeping me going. It feels suffocating when everyone around you is excited and know that they want to become a doctor and you are still in doubt. The loneliness is crazy. I am a third year student now, but my first two years were definitely hell. I am glad it will be over soon.
    All the best to you! Trust yourself and try relying on your parents and yourself when things get difficult....

    • @mahalaxmithadaka7312
      @mahalaxmithadaka7312 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can u please contact me it seems like im gonna detain my 1 st yr nd i have very toxic frnds infact i don't have frnds nd im so lonely depressed 😓 can u plz advise me personally didi /. Bhai

  • @NazirAhmed-xw7db
    @NazirAhmed-xw7db ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can completely relate to you, it's really hard to adjust anywhere when you are an introvert. People don't treat introvert's like humans. And you don't really feel like going out and enjoy with friends just like extroverts do. Don't worry, all i can say is that you do not need any friend to live, you are enough for yourself, go on solo trips,,vibe alone, and yea don't feel blue, failures are a part of life, if you don't fail, you have no right to be a successful person. Know your mistakes and try to improve each mistake. Sending love n strength.

  • @sakeenaali1316
    @sakeenaali1316 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can feel you ...as it's my story 🥲
    Don't give up...you'll be fine.

    • @ramshakhan7002
      @ramshakhan7002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heyy i want to ask something.
      One of my friend fails in anatomy i just want to know how can i make him happy or how should i treat him. I'm lil confused whenever i contact him he says "I don't want to talk to anyone, leave me alone."
      What should i do?

  • @faizanmalik9472
    @faizanmalik9472 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    The same situation is happening to me. I am a first year student and have been facing failures since my admission in MBBS. I am also introvert and mostly live alone. Even my friends think that my family think that I am not studying but nobody knows why I m not studying. I am here two days before my send ups. I am here to know if my college principal detains me what can I do. My attendance was very poor I failed all tests and the only hope for me to appear in annual exams are send ups but I am pretty sure I can't pass it. I use to sit in my childhood friends. When I tell them about my problem they say ary 50 percent hi to lene hain wo tum le lo gay but who can tell them what the MBBS is. My family members like elder brothers sisters think I am not studying by myself as the think I become very lazy and irresponsible to study. No one is understanding me. My mother and father have long died. To whom I share my problem as You did.

    • @sonali01299
      @sonali01299 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don't worry 👍 beleive in yourself . Then in which field you are interested.
      What do you think who should choose medical field mbbs? Which type of students are right for this field.

    • @saishri00
      @saishri00 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mbbs takes time try to read from videos and then from books don't think what your family or friends say it's your journey and everyone is with you

    • @MegaRahatul
      @MegaRahatul ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey!❤ How r u doing now?

    • @sonalidhande7828
      @sonalidhande7828 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bhwi Mera bhi yahi haal hai from gmc nagpur

    • @Allahknowsthetruth
      @Allahknowsthetruth ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@sonalidhande7828 I am from GMC Gujranwala Pakistan. Don't panic. Stay calm and make your own decisions of benefits. I don't know about examination system in your clg and how much attendance and stages, vivas and send ups matter before profs. You would better understand the situation and take it easy and calm. One thing keep in mind that never be afraid of anything make decisions from now and work on them. I think You still have much time to ace proffs. Dont listen to anybody who is overburdening you and make you feel stressful. One day these peaple will congratulate you on your success In sha Allah. Stay positive these small failures guide you to reach big success. Keep in mind that failture is not the end of life but it is the opportunity for a new beginning and pondering over your mistakes and learn from them. Stay strong 😊

  • @pranalisawant3291
    @pranalisawant3291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It takes a hell lot of courage to share your worst experiences...and i really admire the fact that you are not blaming yourself for the way others are treating you...Honey i gotta tell you u have mastered self love in these darkest moments thts one of ur greatest achievements which u need to hold onto😌....You are doing great love, always walk tall🤗

  • @iykyk7440
    @iykyk7440 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just remember at the end it will be all worth it !!! We shall prevail...
    Failing is not a crime....to feel bad about it.. overcoming it is really a great thing....I admire you
    And i wanna be as strong as you

  • @pragatim9772
    @pragatim9772 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Warm hug to you girl ❤️ it takes a lot of courage to share this, really appreciate it

  • @manvishree7565
    @manvishree7565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Unfortunately, I'm feeling relatable with each of the thing you said. My +2 was worst. I have really gone through the same like ppl used to do grouping against me without any reason. They treated me in such a way like they're way superior than me nd behaves like I'm worthy of these all pathetic things I was going through. The worst was that they were the same ppl I used to hangout before my 11th std.
    Even the 2-3 ppl with whom I used to be close left me by giving inappropriate reasons. I was totally devasted. But fortunately I know how to accept the past nd move on. I did what I was good at nd left everything behind. I believe I'm strong because I have gone through such things nd still survived.
    STAY STRONG !

    • @sunwithin3247
      @sunwithin3247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a wonderful experience you shared. Keep it up

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Having lived through the same thing, I absolutely feel you🥺
      Many many hugs to you!💖 You’re brave and eventually will shine like a star 🌟.
      I wish you all the best💖

    • @shreerajput1326
      @shreerajput1326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now I'm feeling like I'm a loser in first yr mbbs😭😭

    • @Puja11043
      @Puja11043 ปีที่แล้ว

      I failed my 2nd year mbbs proff. Worst feeling 😭😭

  • @khadeejaakhtar7490
    @khadeejaakhtar7490 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I just failed my first year of MBBS and will have to repeat the entire one whole year again, I am scared, heartbroken as well as exhausted and tired. There is a lot of guilt and regret that my parents have to go through this emotional and financial trauma. Social implications. Could really use some pieces of advice right now on how to tackle everything.

    • @saishri00
      @saishri00 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry try to make your basics strong

    • @ayushsoni9497
      @ayushsoni9497 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro don’t worry I understand your issue
      It’s not about not getting sit with your friends
      It’s about to complete mbbs and you can do it👍

    • @jiti13
      @jiti13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      First of all forgive yourself. Don't dwell in regrets . The past can't be changed. But the future holds a great power , you can transform your bad result into something extraordinary success story. Just being in the present and doing most of it , you can do it. Trust me it's nt difficult, u just have to revise it so many tyms that u wl remember the topic like it's ur own name. So rise up , complete ur subjects in 2-3 weeks . And revise at least 3 tyms. Plus active learning like giving tests at ur own and set a timer for it in every 3 days . And you wl come out with flying colors. Be someone who can make his failure to win .... Good luck

    • @Vikas_K_Mahato
      @Vikas_K_Mahato ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro are u repeating the failed subjects or all the subjects plz reply

    • @saishri00
      @saishri00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also just failed my final year exams

  • @pritamrudolph6425
    @pritamrudolph6425 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Its astonishing how similar our stories are. I also failed my first year uni in anatomy. Batchmates are fucking toxic and hates me for no reason.2021 waseasily the worst year of my life. In 3rd year right now and in no intention of ever making the same mistakes.
    Hope we all graduate with flying colours and get a pg seat.

    • @mahalaxmithadaka7312
      @mahalaxmithadaka7312 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It seems like im gonna detain due to my poor health i have very less attendance can u plz advise me hw to overcome and get passed in supply

    • @MediCure123.
      @MediCure123. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey its alright you came here for a reason

    • @MediCure123.
      @MediCure123. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just get a grip of yourself and work hard

  • @Bloodwolf1472
    @Bloodwolf1472 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this video. This video really motivated me when I was downside in MBBS first year❤❤

  • @changeup2991
    @changeup2991 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm neet aspirant but trust me hearing your experience made me so motivated I feel like this is the real motivation, every youtuber fake on the good side of mbbs after neet but truth is even more motivating .Every one should know doctor banna asan nahi .Thankyou sm didi ,lots of ❤

  • @kanishkabhardwaj2971
    @kanishkabhardwaj2971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi ishi, im sorry you had to go through this!! No one should go through this! Please take care of your mental health. You have worked hard to be where you are. You deserve the best in the world. Always there for you bro. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Windy_orbits__
    @Windy_orbits__ ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is exactly I feel...
    It's been almost 2 months since I joined medical College.
    It's so hard to adjust with stereotypical people.. sometimes I feel what I am doing in my life 😭

    • @tanishaverma6654
      @tanishaverma6654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Muje bhi clg me aaye 2 month ho gye.. But i m going through with this same situation 😔

    • @Windy_orbits__
      @Windy_orbits__ ปีที่แล้ว

      It's so depressing 😭

    • @tanishaverma6654
      @tanishaverma6654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Windy_orbits__ honestly yrr.... Studies me bhi mn nhi lgta

    • @tanishaverma6654
      @tanishaverma6654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Windy_orbits__ ab kl viva h pr study nhi ho pa rhi... Ab ye log judge bhi krne lgege marks ko lekr😖😖

    • @Windy_orbits__
      @Windy_orbits__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanishaverma6654 exactly 😩

  • @sonughosh9979
    @sonughosh9979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so brave and honest. It takes so much courage to put all these things out infront of everyone. Believe in yourself. Lots of love ❤

  • @sushmachaudhry4650
    @sushmachaudhry4650 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Those who have fewer friends, have more experience .God bless you beta.

  • @onlinemedico4628
    @onlinemedico4628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am introvert too & Everything you say in this video is like me ... I also got supple with you..and passed after review...The whole entire video you made also happened with me 🥺🥺
    I watched your many video previously but believe me I skipped all ...but ...this video I can't skip any more...First time, I watched your whole video with my mind.
    Rula diya tumne.... 🥺🥺
    I am your batchmate(CNMC)...You know me but ignored me in college as a simple boy.... 😔😔😔
    I want your friendship.... 🥺

  • @drashtisuthar6459
    @drashtisuthar6459 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    . I was always a topper in my school. But ... I failed my first yr. But that was my mistake. .after that I cleared my 2nd yr. And now 3rd yr again i failed. But this time I am sure it's not my fault. Cuz I did study .my papers went good. But idk.
    Self confidence that I had hardly gained after first yr. Everything just vanished. I dont feel like facing anybody cuz the thought constantly runs in my mind that everybody is gonna see me as a failure now.

  • @Cold_Ahmad
    @Cold_Ahmad ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That absolutely relieved my pain, Thanks ❤️

  • @debashikhamazumdar7464
    @debashikhamazumdar7464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely I agree with u dear......v difficult time but then it's our ISHITA....SHE ROCKSSSS.

  • @nissiepanchal1601
    @nissiepanchal1601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hey sending big hugs to you. I have also had the worst time from 2019-2021 like these 2 yrs I just don't wanna remember in the my academic life. I remember in my school( I hv done my 11th &12th from CBSE board) just cz I don't drink don't like going clubbing I was literally seen as boring and not sm1 whom people could connect to. And on top of that my teachers were also hell against me. I just wanted to run away and not back to see my school. And that hurt cz my school till 10th was the best thing that happened to me. I hv taken a drop year to gv my 1st neet attempt and all those classmates have put their bets on me that I won't enter a govt. Med college. I cry every other day asking y am I left behind. Is smthg really wrong with me. Smtyms i feel so frustrated that I wanna scream loud so that sm1 can hear me.

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your experience is painful🥺 It just hurts so much to be made felt like you’re a nobody and that you don’t belong here.
      Drop year is a dark phase
      Just keep on working hard and nothing can stop you from achieving your goals💖
      when you do become a doctor, everyone will again talk ABOUT you but this time saying things like “oh she was my bestest friend.. blah blah”
      And you have a snappy comeback to them♥️
      I wish you all the best for your future💖
      Just work hard and you’ll get everything that you truly deserve 💖
      Loads of hugs💖

    • @nissiepanchal1601
      @nissiepanchal1601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thestunningmedico5121 yess surely and that day when I get everything I wanted will surely cm here again & thank you.

    • @yuktaa.a
      @yuktaa.a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg I relate to you so much sis. 11th And 12th were hell I hated going to school and didn’t want to stay at home too I felt like running away from everything. My studies were also ruined Friends stopped talking and I could here people talk about me behind my back and idk why teachers had so much problem with me and having strict parents made everything even worse I felt suffocated. But I tried my best and cleared medical entrance and now finally I’m a first year mbbs student. Sometimes we have to go to our lowest to know how strong we are. Trust me everything will get better. I thought I was the only one who went through this but we’re not alone 🥺❤️

    • @nissiepanchal1601
      @nissiepanchal1601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yuktaa.a omg yes I know I am strong and I can go through this. I hv my medical entrance around the corner so yaah feeling myself with all the positive energies that I can.

    • @vaishalipatel1720
      @vaishalipatel1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so proud of you for standing strong in this tough phase of your life💜.
      And Thankyou , your experience gave me lots of strength for dealing with situations I am in.

  • @nonenone7457
    @nonenone7457 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Uff that introvertness and the effect of this is dammmm relatable didi!!!!!!!!I can actually see me in u
    This is year I got my mbbs and currently pursuing it from SMCH,hope everything goes well in future🙂🙂🙂

  • @Prajakta.Sawant12
    @Prajakta.Sawant12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Ishika sister, my daughter is still young, only seven years old, and she looks like you. But I am already thinking a lot about her education and resilience. I admire your determination and resilience. Life isn't meant for sitting around and crying; it's about trying and persevering until we achieve victory. Your successes are a testament to that.
    I, too, have faced failures in my life. I failed twice in some inspiring examples, but I managed to pass on my third attempt. Therefore, I want to convey to you the importance of never giving up. Your successes are a testament to that.
    Life isn't meant for sitting around and crying; it's about trying and persevering until we achieve victory. Your successes are a testament to that. Live from Maharashtra! Stay healthy and keep rocking.

  • @kuhukikahani
    @kuhukikahani 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou so much for making this....something that really motivates me...real and raw...much better than fake videos that promotes perfectionism.❤

  • @itsdebangana..
    @itsdebangana.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you so much.. I'm in my drop year too... I can understand your feeling very well. You are my role model ♥️

  • @xavier2175ify
    @xavier2175ify 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Found your video two years late. I understand your feelings deeply. My daughter had a difficult time after she was awarded supplementary in her first year. I live just outside Kolkata . I guess you are in the fourth year. All the best for the final year.

  • @funhousechannel458
    @funhousechannel458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dearie sis
    U are suchcha sweetheart.
    It takes so much courage to face challenges, to turn around and get back and give back, and above all to admit mistakes.
    I already felt so so proud and happy for you when u cracked medical. But now am happier to see such a darling personality evolve!!
    Kudos to ur success, kudos to ur outlook towards life.......
    Mmmmuuuaaa ....

  • @nishanikundu8335
    @nishanikundu8335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    More power to you girl 😅

  • @Hopeful168
    @Hopeful168 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey frnd living among bengali's is very difficult because they speak in their own language without taking care of the non Bengali speaking ppl

  • @sunwithin3247
    @sunwithin3247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are simply phenomenal! You inspire me❤️❤️❤️

  • @creativityreimagined
    @creativityreimagined 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gutsy you to have made this video in the first place👍 The first yr may not hv been the best for you,but surely it must have taught you to tackle ur demons, which is pros amongst other cons. Anyways congrats now u r in 2nd yr🤩 I hope this yr would go very good for ya

  • @dp2003
    @dp2003 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being introvert is what that won't let u achieve anything in your life...

  • @atharvdeshmukh7163
    @atharvdeshmukh7163 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bd chaurasia is a good book
    Its simple than greys
    I will suggest bd chaurasia only for anatomy
    And please revise previous year questions

  • @tonmoynath4332
    @tonmoynath4332 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been facing the same situation since first year , I felt so connected with you while watching your video specially when u told about toxic batchmates , thought didn't fail in first and second year but unfortunately I failed in my 3rd proff part 1 university exams in Forensic medicine 🥺 and preparing for supplementary. wish my luck

    • @vayushivhare
      @vayushivhare 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here buddy failed in ophtha and forensic too but passed

  • @albin005yt
    @albin005yt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    SAME OVER HERE DIDI ...BUT WILL DO OUR BEST TO DO BEST ...WE WILL!! BUT BEING AN INTROVERT IS REALLY HARD TO GET IT WITH FAILING IN EXAM YOU LOVE

  • @theglorious_
    @theglorious_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    More power to you❤️
    God bless🤍

  • @That_stetho_girl
    @That_stetho_girl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anatomy is my favourite… I enjoyed it when I was in 1st year😊

    • @vqxm7
      @vqxm7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do u study for it

    • @dragonemperor2388
      @dragonemperor2388 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@vqxm7 diagrams

  • @gitanjalighosh9833
    @gitanjalighosh9833 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so motivating and sad at the same time because whatever you've been through i have gone through it in the initial phase of my 1st year an still going through it as I'm still in my first year besides being on the verge to repeat the whole year again as i got detained in anatomy due to attendance shortage

  • @25deepakmarkam65
    @25deepakmarkam65 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ye sb dayscholar rhne k karan hota hai.. sb clgs m hostellers k rule hota hai ki jo bahar rhta hai wo batchout rhega.. main b day scholar hu.. i can understand your experience. And fail hona iska indirectly ek karan h ki hmari mental state itni khrab ho jati h in sb scenierios se ki humko clg jana b psnd ni ata.. aur whi se apna downfall chalu ho jata h.

    • @Nacheezzwww
      @Nacheezzwww 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg omg i can totally relate to this..being a day scholar in a 99 percent hostellite class makes you hate college..ap ko pass fail bhul jata ha..you have to put extra efforts to even talk to people..koi ap ka particular group nhi hota and you feel lost even ap jitnay bhi social kyun na ho..everything just gets too messed up 😞 are you still dealing with this?

  • @dp2003
    @dp2003 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U are just female version of me di...
    Stay strong ❤

  • @dhruvbiswasucms27
    @dhruvbiswasucms27 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm struggling rn in my 1st year
    A week later I've my first terminals. I've actually started understanding the subjects all of them But I'm really bad at understanding clinical questions and heavy load of syllabus.
    The same thing about friend is happening with me. I made almost half of the batch my friends and now most people don't wanna talk to me. They all are in their own🙂. I just try to talk the least now bcos I k how toxic people are around me. I'm struggling to focus on studies bcos I'm not good of a reader and usually study from yt channels.

    • @ayesharamju1582
      @ayesharamju1582 ปีที่แล้ว

      All the best for your exams do well :)

  • @dontletmedown1496
    @dontletmedown1496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can relate to u so much...I have also faced loneliness n being ignored...hope u find happiness ❤️🙏...also I think u should give prep ladder a try for ur med studies...hope it helps

  • @leahlee7938
    @leahlee7938 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got to know today that I’m not allowed to appear for my finals for Anatomy and Physiology due to less than required attendance and have to give supplementary exams for both, can you please give me some advice on what I should do now??

  • @ruchirdeshpande
    @ruchirdeshpande ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never had known about thy channel.But all this was so so relatable 😟.I too failed First Year Unis.I too didn't have any freinds and I really wanted to give up.And each and every word you said.My MOM was the Angel and my Dad passed away recently.Everthing was gone.I too passed first yr and it was the trauma of my life.But shadow of first yr is still upon me in second yr 😥. I feel very lonely and depressed but somehow I am trying to be better...

  • @srivalliamruthakavi8230
    @srivalliamruthakavi8230 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My Tears rolled down while watching this video.... I'm very connected to your story except the friendship part...because I got some real friends....but the anatomy part was too scary...:)

  • @sunshine8617
    @sunshine8617 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm 1st year mbbs students and exact same thing happens to me I don't have friends like good friend and sometimes I seat blank in classes it's hard to adjust but I think I can do it 😊

  • @SanaAsiya-gt2jj
    @SanaAsiya-gt2jj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's crazy how people think alike, I'm an introvert to the core, I took about 3 months to make real friends and open my mouth but during that period of severe anxiety and not knowing who to talk with or which table to go eat or who to look in the eye, all the people around me thought was that I'm a selfish person who just dgaf about anyone, but for me I was able to make out of that situation and unlike your environment they were happy enough to accept me after that

  • @rupanshugupta5316
    @rupanshugupta5316 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls make videos regarding ur experiences in college because u r so relatable…I would really want to know ur experiences!

  • @shreyanag2903
    @shreyanag2903 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tbh I think I am a pretty weak student, and I am so scared, I have already arrived at my college and college starts on 3rd October, and then I'm like whatt, I think im a really bad student and the fear just takes so much toll on me, I just wish I score 60-70% in every exam that they conduct and I swear to try my best, and biochemistry is something I freaking don't understand, and idk why I just keep thinking about escaping. Well, now U-Turn is not any option anymore. My parents will definitely support me but I don't think they would say to just back up and I'm gonna do my best for sure.

  • @Cold.Predator
    @Cold.Predator 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truly agreed💯

  • @aryasaste1714
    @aryasaste1714 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey ishita came across your channel . I got admission in cnmc n im joining next weak but love you as a senior as ur energy is so vibrant .

  • @basudhagupta3573
    @basudhagupta3573 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I m feeling that this all about your luck ....my luck in this case is worst

  • @chimps9183
    @chimps9183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your video gave me some confidence ♥️♥️

  • @changeup2991
    @changeup2991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love it so much .
    thank u for sharing your experience 💓
    want more of this videos where you share experience, love it sm🤍

  • @shinchannohara2924
    @shinchannohara2924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very inspiring!!!

  • @adichan9243
    @adichan9243 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4:05 srsly my 1st month of my B-school this was really hard for me to make friends in such a field where networking is important I can relate to your story so much after lockdown I really developed social anxiety and because of some past experience I didn't want any friends I wanted friends but not the type I had in my class but slowly I started adjusting myself and also I didn't try hard to fit in but sit by myself and study alone that's how girls started to come to me by themselves like automatically I got new friends but woh baat wo vibe nahi hai jo honi chhaiye im still not close to them I don't understand them they are just different to me cause I am introvert and everyone is extrovert its quite depressing to be in the business field to be introvert you constantly have to network talk present but ill fight it i have my back

  • @moodmusicindia
    @moodmusicindia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Today I'm Also .... Detained (SUBHARTI MEDICAL COLLEGE - MEERUT )
    It's just same situation, I don't want to talk to anyone. Everything Hurt right now 💔

  • @vaishalipatel1720
    @vaishalipatel1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So proud of you di💜.
    Thankyou,this gave me hell lot of strength.
    Lots of love to you di ❤️

  • @Mohit-ou4yb
    @Mohit-ou4yb ปีที่แล้ว

    so so so relatable 💯

  • @shubhi5835
    @shubhi5835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FEEL U YRR..

  • @pragyabakawat1601
    @pragyabakawat1601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i’m facing the same situation. it’s my first year and i feel lost. but it’s not like people don’t like me or talk to me, i do have friends but i just don’t feel like hanging out w them anymore. they are great people for sure, but i feel like i don’t fit in. starting me it was going really well, but now i feel lost. and it’s worst bcoz i do have people around me but i stay alone, i eat alone, i go out alone. i never wanted to become a doctor, i like sketching and stuff, i regret my decision of taking pcb just like you did. and i can’t study at all, hate these subjects and this entire medical field. i feel like this place is not for me and why am i even here bcoz people around me love this profession and i don’t. i cry everyday missing my home, sometimes in the class while looking at the board as well. i feel so stupid and dumb around everyone. i’ve my 2nd terminals from tomorrow and professional are around the corner, and i feel like running away. i miss my family so much that i even start crying while talking to them on calls. i don’t know how to deal with this, so frustrated i am!

  • @vipulvaibhav3155
    @vipulvaibhav3155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have one question :- I am first year student of aiims raebareli, senior were doing ragging and I complained that hurt their ego so much that they are trying best to isolate me from my batch, so I am all left out. My batch leave me alone because if senior find me with my own batch mate, they will also be made outcast just like me🙄. How to deal with any idea mam?

    • @Nihalkaradanful
      @Nihalkaradanful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay strong brother. You don't need anyones approval you are stronger than you think.

    • @mangopudding1840
      @mangopudding1840 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be strong bro.. Hang in there .
      Try to blend in your batch but if they are not responding let it be..
      Try to talk to someone in the faculty or teachers about the situation... Ask for their advice how to get blend in your batch or make friends...
      Don't give up ppl need you as doctor.

    • @dragonemperor2388
      @dragonemperor2388 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Easy , become better than every one , and every one gonna come to you 🎉❤

  • @ZiggiLigi
    @ZiggiLigi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had the same situation when i came to my college for persuing btech... i had no friends i would sit alone in classs i would go to mess alone.. but that made me who i am.. i score 52/100 in maths in 10th board exams and then i became silver medalist in chemical engineering at my university...

  • @AnanyaRaj-c8s
    @AnanyaRaj-c8s ปีที่แล้ว

    i can completely understand you ly

  • @chimps9183
    @chimps9183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Academically it is much relatable

  • @Punishergaming384
    @Punishergaming384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i can feel your pain but anatomy came easy to me but in biochem it was bit hard

  • @nellybel2270
    @nellybel2270 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:35 i can feel you...and i'm still going through the same 🙂

  • @Nacheezzwww
    @Nacheezzwww 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cant relate to anything more than this being in 1st year even being an extrovert 😞

  • @minarvapathak20
    @minarvapathak20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can feel you🥲

  • @neetbuddyvlogs
    @neetbuddyvlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ap kya Pehele se Delhi mei reheto ho ??
    Or Kolkata mei ??
    Ya Kolkata ghumne k liye ay ho ??
    Or you came from Delhi and studying in Kolkata ?

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello! Im from Delhi, my home is in Delhi. But my college is in Kolkata

    • @sunwithin3247
      @sunwithin3247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aapko video dekhna chaiye

  • @Punishergaming384
    @Punishergaming384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is same story with me u got me

  • @shivpriyaapte9351
    @shivpriyaapte9351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mam I got 641 in Neet in first year 70 percent and even was topper of anatomy in our batch but I am going to fail in pathology and I cannot bear that I am going to fail I can not bear failureI am having suicidal thoughts

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey Shivpriya! I was exactly on the same boat as you were last year. I was very broken and was at the lowest point of my life when i failed my second year. I felt like things will never get better and i was too, suicidal. Connect with me on my instagram dm @thestunningmedico. Let’s have a call or text. I am here for you.

    • @shivpriyaapte9351
      @shivpriyaapte9351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestunningmedico5121 Please Mam I need to talk with someone

    • @shivpriyaapte9351
      @shivpriyaapte9351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestunningmedico5121 I have followed you on instagram

    • @roller2200
      @roller2200 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@shivpriyaapte9351don't worry sister. I too failed in my pathology exams throughout year. But I kept confidence and passed professional exams. So keep hope and I am sure you'll pass

    • @shivpriyaapte9351
      @shivpriyaapte9351 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roller2200 yes thank you

  • @myselftanusreeghosh18
    @myselftanusreeghosh18 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢6:55"same experience"i also didn't think that my first year mbbs would be much worse than my drop years😅😊

    • @GemJohnson-jv4mi
      @GemJohnson-jv4mi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey are u also dropper and 1st year mbbs student

  • @dilvalaaman4176
    @dilvalaaman4176 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't worry me hu na 😎 i am your friend 🤗 bdw i am bhms student
    Final year exam chal rahi he meri
    ❤️🎉I hope i clear my exam
    Give me a hug
    To mere andar confidence aaye ae
    Or me clear kardu🤗

  • @Hey_Hiral
    @Hey_Hiral 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi di... Can you plz tell us that how you adjust your loneliness along with your Supplementary exam.. I mean how u deal with all that factors.. I guinely wanted your advice becoz u had done with this situation. And if u will tell us, it's very very remarkable and beneficial for many peoples.. Becoz that type of peoples are not few.. There lot of people who are suffering from this situation and can't handle their own self and at the end they give up since who haven't any good guidance..
    There are many peoples in mbbs who are introverted, shy, lonely and due to that they are failing in exams.. I know others are saying that how can affect that factors in exams.. But this are understand only that peoples who are suffering from that.. We guinely need guidance from that person who actually suffered this situation and he/she know what kind of give the advice..
    So at the end I hope that you will make the video for it as soon as possible

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly i just went home. I couldn’t deal with the pressure of failures and the loneliness. I missed lots of classes but i went home. And whole heartedly prepared for my exams without talking to any of my batchmates because that used to give me lots of pain to see them succeed while i was a failure

  • @nehakumaarri
    @nehakumaarri ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is mbbs is really very hard??😑☹️😔😔

  • @artwithshubhu9019
    @artwithshubhu9019 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole video is completely my story now the entire first year is full of pain regret loneliness hurting sad and only cries this year is more tough than my complete neet journey I wish I could go back in time and never choose this course only hoping this all will end soon 😢 never imagined that mbbs experience will look like this 😢 and the most toxic friends I meet till today dont know how to cope up with them and whether I'll get friends or not this bad I never imagined just believing that this time will pass 🥺😢💔💔💔

    • @ruchikumari6253
      @ruchikumari6253 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same situation

    • @kaizen6001
      @kaizen6001 หลายเดือนก่อน

      can we come on contact through discord or any other media.. my situation is the same.
      and i am quite sure i will fail this year

    • @ruchikumari6253
      @ruchikumari6253 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kaizen6001 from where

    • @kaizen6001
      @kaizen6001 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ruchikumari6253 assam

    • @artwithshubhu9019
      @artwithshubhu9019 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ruchikumari6253 you are from which college?

  • @SM-gs2pt
    @SM-gs2pt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Same condition sister

  • @1609_its_me
    @1609_its_me 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why am I relating every line. really my first year was the same and just cleared it in the supply exam

  • @vinaysuryawanshi4853
    @vinaysuryawanshi4853 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excalty same each and every thing is happening right now with me🥺

  • @amaraakarshan2568
    @amaraakarshan2568 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello stunning medico...i can relate to you. Totally.. I'm also outsider in west benga nd come from aiq..nd god the people treated me same as they r doing with u...lol i also failed nd need 6 marks more for passing....i push my thigs for review... let's see

  • @sumanmandal3118
    @sumanmandal3118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Didi do clg permit to seat in professional exam if we don't get 50% of all internal exam?pls say

  • @tanishaverma6654
    @tanishaverma6654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Di.. I also can't make in clg.. I miss my mumma but i can't tell her anything about my conditions.. I can't bother her😭😭... I m very much scared about upcoming years.. How will i make year productive?

    • @genzdocz
      @genzdocz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will get used to college life eventually, best of luck

    • @tanishaverma6654
      @tanishaverma6654 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@genzdocz thnks..

    • @devamarwadi3612
      @devamarwadi3612 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do not worry
      Be positive

  • @roshaanqamar3974
    @roshaanqamar3974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I m also detained....I pass all my internals throughout the year but just 1 week before my proff I got physchatric issue and fainted while talking to my dad ...and in my supply exams I wasn't able to focus on books and got detained ...now I m struggling with my mental health

  • @yachanabaria8651
    @yachanabaria8651 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hello di! I m in first year of mbbs but i m failed in my both internal exam sto kya mein University ke liye eligible ho skti hu??if i will pass prelims 2024.

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi! You need to pass your internal exams with 50% aggregate to be eligible to sit in university exams. Prelims pass kar jaogi toh you will be able to sit for exams

    • @yachanabaria8651
      @yachanabaria8651 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thestunningmedico5121 thank you 😊 for replying

  • @fdr.shahid1127
    @fdr.shahid1127 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @unknowngod98
    @unknowngod98 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Agar kisi subject me supplimentary lagi ho toh kya practical bhi firse dena padega

  • @bitua3495
    @bitua3495 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    1 year fail hone ke baad 2 year ki fees bharni hoti hai

  • @daizz5500
    @daizz5500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, can you please reply?..i got failed in biochemistry and i want to reevaluate it, but my College is saying that they will only recalculate and not reevaluate. So will their be more marks added in recalculation or i should not have any hope. I only need 6 marks to pass.

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it is semester exam then it’s really upto college, but if it’s professional exams, it’s on the university and you don’t need to consult the college, u should directly connect with your university to know about the procedure as it can be different for different universities

  • @ashiq3070
    @ashiq3070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😢

  • @tayyabafatima1037
    @tayyabafatima1037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi dear it is so relatable, not only for the students but also for their parents this kind of situation & the scenario is so hard...
    I have a doubt Is it true that a student can ask for retotally only if they failed by 2 to 3 marks or else it's not worth it?

    • @thestunningmedico5121
      @thestunningmedico5121  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly it depends from university to university. In WBUHS, I got an increment of more than 20 marks. I was scoring 35 previously and after retotalling score came out to be 62. So it could be a huge difference so I think giving ur paper for Review is worth it

    • @tayyabafatima1037
      @tayyabafatima1037 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thestunningmedico5121 Thank you so much

  • @GautamKumar-vj9ns
    @GautamKumar-vj9ns ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same feeling as I am in 1st year in Mizoram.

  • @sufimalik4149
    @sufimalik4149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i also dont know how to pass ist year it is completely some kind of burden on me

  • @thegreatman6082
    @thegreatman6082 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Theory or practical where 20 marks less???

  • @devghulaxe
    @devghulaxe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BD. C is the best book to study anatomy.....agar aapki padhne ki aukat nahi hai toh kisi book ko blame mat kia karo

  • @dammarajoshi1069
    @dammarajoshi1069 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same here 😭 I also don't have friends 💔 I feel so lonely 😭

  • @LymphocyteNeet
    @LymphocyteNeet 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just realised my situation is like you being a medical student I just realised medical is quite toxic