Women React To The Rise Of Lonely, Single & Sexless Men
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
- In this video, I ask a group of women to share their thoughts about the rise of lonely, single & sexless men.
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When we're lonely, It's our fault.
When they're lonely, It's also our fault.
You just summed up my previous marriage.
I mean... everything IS our fault. We allowed it. We created the fundamentals for this to happen. Women just took the opportunity, and they took it too far. Because we allowed it...
@@FilipGiera Got rejected? It’s your fault she’s not attracted to you, you should’ve made sure you were born attractive. She cheated? Sorry Bro, that’s your fault too, her happiness is your responsibility…
LOL fk if that ain't true
Well they are the final picker so if anything goes well or bad it's because we did or didn't meet their expectations.
Blonde girl: “I deserve to keep my options open”
Also blonde girl: “I hate when men are looking around on dates with me, it’s like they’re still keeping their options open”
Ladies and gentlemen, modern dating
Monkeybranching. All women do it.
Almost schizophrenic
This video…🤦
They should do the reverse of this video with guys…would be hilarious
Haha
The prospect of living my life alone and dying alone, isn't as depressing as being constantly reminded that I'll never be good enough.
Damn… your ex sounds horrible. Choose better!
@@priscillapie she wasn't horrible. I developed a borderline personality when I was a kid, so, it was probably my fault.
I think it's time we really accepted that some will die alone without ever knowing what love is. Sometimes there doesn't even have to be anything wrong with you, sometimes it's just bad luck.
I am only afraid because we only live once, and it scares me to think that I can leave this life without ever experiencing such a unique part of human existence. And all this because I wasn't "good enough". Yes, this is something that causes strong existential fears.
Men ain't the ones God created to bear offspring. Whose failure is it if femalekind is too hypertoxic to consider impregnating or marrying?
went to the bridge club and there were dozens of 70 year old ladies so happy that afternoon to play bridge with a "handsome young man" (they meant me lol, i'm completely invisible to any woman under 65). they invited me to participate in their upcoming tournament. they were sad when i told them i wasnt going to be there. when i said it was because i was going out of town to visit my mom, they swooned like i was some sort of saint. never had so much validation, appreciation, admiration and praise from women i wasnt related to and i didnt have to hit the gym or level up or get a side job or start a business. a life of celibacy doesnt sound so bad. gonna miss these ladies in 15-20 years. their hearts are uncorrupted by modern toxicity.
That's because you reminded them of the husbands that they were once married to. I'm sure that most of these ladies are widowed, so when you step into the room, you bring them back to that time.
@@peterrychel3640 That's the point. They WANTED good men; loved good men; were attracted to good men. Women of my generation (I'm 48 years old) loathe the kind of men those old grandma's loved. Women of my son's generation (he is 26) are even worse.
I grieve with you, brother.
@@chrisandsneaky2453 i was happy to spend the afternoon playing bridge with those old grandmas. i was happy to fold up and put away the difficult tables (some were easy and some were hard, they left the hard ones alone) after we were all done. they responded with such grace and gratitude as if what i had done was some sort of big deal.
if the reason i'm invisible to women of my generation is because i'm the type of guy those old grandmas actually loved and wanted, then i dont feel like a piece of trash anymore.
@@chrisandsneaky2453 you and your son are not the same men that those women loved. Modern men blame modern women without taking responsibility and accountability. Modern men aren’t the same men who died in war and took care of their families. Start there.
A+ for Courtney once again exposing how women literally have zero clue as to what is actually going on
Really wish she went harder with the questioning. She’s doing a disservice by not digging into and picking apart the responses more.
They scared to meet some guy sitting next to them... but they will go to a strangers house at 10pm just because he looked good on Tinder. That happens all the time so the whole "being afraid of strangers" argument doesn't hold water.
Truly clueless, never looking within. Many are looking for the elusive alpha male that is also a tamable beta, they also need the 6’+ 6 figure income. They end up hooking up with the alphas and “settling” for a beta, which ends with resentment, dissatisfaction and divorce. Funny and sad
@@AlexanderSkinnerVids I honestly don't think she goes harder on the questions because they're friends. Someone else should be asking them.
So well spoken... 10/10
There are a lot of AVERAGE women out there, who think they are too good for an average man.
*A lot? ALMOST ALL WOMEN*
I was feeling generous
Lol
Exactly, their ego is through the roof and they can’t see an inch past their bs to understand men
Correct
@@italkgory99 that’s thanks to simps. It’s incredible how every time I check the comments on a picture of a girl on Instagram, there’s always guys of all ages simping like if that’s gonna get you 🐱.
"What dating advise would you give men?"
"Improve your looks and get a higher paying job."
"What dating advise would you give women?"
"Have higher standards and stop dating broke men."
Women will get mad if you tell them that in this generation
Why wouldn't women have higher standards? They have many simps drooling waiting in line lol... The vast majority of men in these comments wouldn't hesitate to sacrifice whatever they are doing if they could get with these women, that's the problem. Stop being a spineless cuck and stop simping
@@billr5842 can't imagine what warranted this comment on my comment
so women have to do nothing . this is why guys walk away and nothing else . A real guys knows his worth. A real guy will not put up with shit or is worried about dating some smelly pussy whore . Real men know women are a liability and if they have nothing to offer we will not bother
Women are heartless gold digging shallow monsters.
These girls don’t give a crap about men’s issues. Real good friends.
Women caused this problem and their ME TOO nonsense and now hate it that men don't want to approach them anymore.
Terrible video (or terribly uninteresting people)
Almost no one does, it’s important to know what average people like this actually think.
To remind yourself why there will never be empathy.
So much for the more empathic sex”
I was going to comment some witty stuff but TH-cam took the liberty of removing the comment 8 times
Girl literally said in one clip “I like to keep my options open” then said “when guys turn their head it makes me feel like they’re looking for options” and feels disrespected 😂😂😂😂
@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger Woah. Stella is bad, but let's not act like Mansi and Monique don't exist. Those 2 are by far the worst.
I thought I was the only one that caught that one. 🤣 I love Courtney's channel. She generally has some really valuable content.
its fucking mindblowing.
Right? So dumb
Caught her in 4k
38 year old average man here. been single almost my entire life. Tried everything and finally gave up. It's impossible. Have a good day everyone.
Courage! One day the sun will rise with women like me to care for men!
The West is not the whole world. Trust me, emigrate or travel. It's not you, our societies are just broken beyond repair. I am from New Zealand, been living in Ecuador for over 3 years now, trust me, totally different. Not hard to find a good, loving, smart, attractive woman here
Sorry man. Good luck out there.
Yo try doing the opposite of what you normally do. You might find a flank strat
Have you been looking for a partner? Scullery maids, cleaners, whim pleasing cookers washhing clothing of their master should not be so easy to find nowadays
That was 30 minutes of women rationalizing why they should get what they want without having to make any sacrifices.
Exactly, the day will come when women have to pay extra taxes beacuse law enforcement collapses and a single woman becomes constantly in danger. These women are victim of the comfort provided by men. Remove that comfort and bam a wild change will happen where women seek men again asap to avoid being the lonely single. I can't wait to laugh at the pierced tatted fatted shaved head argumentative grumpy non smiling non feminine feminists.
Lol you nailed it buddy..
You cannot expect a woman who isn’t your mother or grandmother to care for you at all. I say that knowing the only woman who has ever loved me unconditionally has been my grandmother’s even when I didn’t deserve it they still loved me. Every man is only loved so far as he can provide something in the moment for majority of women and I mean 90% of women.
The literally put us all in one box. But get mad when we do the same thing.
This is why I advocate for surrogacy and artificial wombs... I feel like when these become mainstream...
school shootings will be mostly extinct... men will willingly accept sexlessness and be good single parents whom their kids find very relatable... men will look forward to a new future and new fate instead of going on and on about the "glories" of the past...
Progressiveness will be more accepted and church attendance (or most likely neopaganism) may even skyrocket... no one of any gender will be pushovers who get used and abused, but will also be more open minded, easy going and even more sociable...
Of course some women and a lotta predatory men will not be happy with this happier world order.
I didn't hear them say that men want to be loved and respected.
This girl literally said:
9:33 “An independent, hard working woman like myself keeps her options open”
13:28 “A guy turning his head while we’re walking together makes me feel like he’s looking for options”
Rule number 1: don’t get girl advice from girls because they have no clue. That’s just one example of a double standard you may run into.
Lol that's not double standard. :D You can keep your options open without disrespecting your date and making it obvious with actions. It's called being considerate and polite
@@Dino-kr7nd dishonest and fraudulent? About what?
@@eveliinahannele Keeping ypur options open shouldn't be a fucking choice if ur dating someone put all your effort into it the fuck why half ass it just because your craving more than 1 dick. Keeping your options open is probably one of the biggest gateways to cheating and being in unhappy relationships because you keep trying to go for the next 💀💀
@9:28 same woman (paraphrased) "a woman ... like myself... who keeps her options open" 🤣
@@eveliinahannele 🤨
I love the part where they say "women aren't dating douche bags and guys who put in minimal effort"......I work at a college apartment complex, 380+ units and 90% of the women there are dating that exact person lol.
90% of women literally everywhere are dating that exact person
I was going to comment the exact same thing but you beat me too it😂 so many girls out there dating total tools
Exactly, I'd ask her how/ why does she even have so much experience with douche bags?
Dido!😅
After they rejected 100 good guys. And then they'll say, "all men are douchebags!"
"It's always better to be alone, than to be with people who make you feel alone." -Robin Williams
Dont take advice from someone who hanged himself
@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 it's not an advice. It's an observation.
@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 XD good point honestly.
But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow.
@@cassu6 "But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow."
Thats WHY he hanged himself.
"No" -Me
We’re terrified of being called creepy. We’re terrified of getting the cops called on us.
cope, just admit you have a fear of rejection.
@@ayylmao2190 So you mean men should risk going to jail and having his whole family and career ruined in order to get a relationship or are you denying the fact that this actually happens
if you wanna believe that, thats on you. Millions of guys ask women out with no problems. @@edwinsingha7398
@@ayylmao2190 Ok rapist
getting arrested for asking a girl out? that happens to nearly nobody @@edwinsingha7398
I just watched this terrifying video. As a male in his 40, I think women have built this image of the male partner to be someone who looks like Aquaman, drives a big truck, and has dollars out his ass. These unrealistic images are what drive men to be single, lonely and sexless. There are too many barriers to simply ask a women out.
Aquaman 😄 ....🚤 🐳 🐋
I would like that dollars-out-of-the-ass power.
The girl I like posted if he is tall & smells good I want him. Then few days later honestly I don’t care about looks. Few days later. Me refusing to date and just waiting for the love of my life to fall in my arms lol
There are women who are willing to be led, just become a christian and God will provide the right women.
drives a big truck isnt part of what they want its part of what you want to overcompensate for not being everything else
Thank you Courtney for making me feel grateful again being single.
yep, feel bad for courtney because she seems pretty switched on but gets some of the flak for the women in these videos who make me lose brain cells. IMO it would be much better to talk to people who are qualified in the subject matter who have studied the data and research instead of asking people who give vauge answers based on anecdotal experience. id much prefer a scientific study to "umm yea but whatever no umm maybe to each their own idk"
@@moosevision8113The problem is the scientific data for these matters have existed for decades but most people don't research anything at all. The few that do look for the research don't go past the abstract of most papers and the rest of the world like you only ask for the research but when it is presented to you, you don't even look at it at all... The main problem is we need the average person to understand the results of the research. But to get the average person to do the due diligence of going through the research is an impossible task!
The only way out of this is to live through it, which is what we are doing right now. However, the hope is that at some point a few generations down the line when the average person finally gets the hint, we are not too fucked to recover from this sort of thing. Groups like Feminism and MGTOW need to criminalized and destroyed for the solution to flourish though!
Right?
@@moosevision8113 Excellent
@@ForTheDivineWill What future generations? The gist of this interview predicts a dwindling human race........think about it.
This is EXACTLY why men can’t take relationship advice from wmn. Who they sleep with is entirely different from who they describe. And the advice is ENTIRELY based on emotion
💯💯💯
I feel sorry for all the men who genuinely listen to women.... These poor saps.....
You really think men just sleep with the women they love???
If you think that statement is exclusive to women you're out of your mind. Men make just as stupid relationship decisions as women.
@@mongoose6685
No, but unike women men in general arent hypocrits and/or pretend to be saints.
When we are told we are not needed, why in the world would we go out of our way to try and make any woman feel special????
They're "special". Just not in a good way.
Better to focus on ourselves than to babysit and spend cash on an airhead!
WHOA !
NAILED IT DUDE!
Good point.😮
I still try 🤷🏻
Women are so out of touch with reality it’s sad bro. Like it’s not even pathetic anymore it’s beyond that and just sad.
None of these women even came close to the actual reason why average men are sexless.
Got that right
Exactly how I feel
Sad, sad, and sad, and it gets worse, worse, and worse, they're all living in candyland, LOL!!!😂😂😂
plays small violin
When Mansi said women have lower standards I couldn’t help but laugh out loud
She explained it was because nowadays women don’t expect the man to pay for everything since women are more independent. But those educated women usually look down on men that earn less than them so their standards have only gotten higher. They’ve been brainwashed by social media as well but don’t do enough self-reflection to realize it.
The thing is, she's both right and wrong at the same time. Women have lowered the standards for themselves and men in regard to casual partners. But they've inflated the standards in regard to committed partners.
It's all goofy and complicated.
I laughed like a super villain, it was hilarious
And she is the one who was asking for 400k from a partner
@@suprovo5117 That's the craiest part. She seems like a very stupid person and lacks a lot of self awareness, there's no way, in the same interview, you would say so casually that you expect 400k a year from your partner, and then go on to claim that women have lowered their standards.
I would LOVE to see a version of this where you ask the same questions to women in their early 30s, early 40s, and early 50s. Just to see how perspectives might change.
Simps still be there for them
it probably gets worse
I am in my mid 30s and single. I can tell you why I'm single. i saw how my parents fight, i know that it's hard to find someone trustworthy, I was my best when i was single, it's too much drama, attachment hurts, too much responsibility and hunting for money with kids, it increases, i value love over sex, im philosophical . It goes on ... i guess..
😂
@@vinaydhiwar8604 You must be looking in the mirror.
We don't care about your job or any of that stuff. We want to feel loved, respected, and appreciated.
Bullshit
@@yodaddyrc1220 You care about a woman's job? I'd say you're in the minority with that opinion. As long as she's a respectable person, I could care less what she does or how much she makes.
@@yodaddyrc1220 This is not bullshit. I only ask a woman on Tinder what she does for 2 reasons: to keep a conversation and to make sure she has no OF account.
Stella is the kind of person that would decline a physically and emotionally 10/10 guy, based on their Zodiac sign.
Monique is the type of person that would say ''If you're homeless, just buy a house''
Haahahha so true
"Why are people lonely and sexless?"
"Because of incels"
These factory issued average females are lying to everyone including themselves and its abundantly obvious.
Also, none of them look like they have their life together, I'm 36 with a great job but I wouldnt date any of them because they all have "PROBLEMS" written all over their smug faces.
Lmfao 😂 bruuuh
She comes off very entitled
This is incredible. None of these women have ANY idea what young men are going through today
Honestly at this point even if they were to fully repent I wouldn't want to marry any of them because what is to be done with the massive volume of their crimes against men across several decades? That doesn't just go away. They made their decisions, they took it all, they bathed themselves in evil and our hands are clean. Well not the Chads who screwed every woman in sight but the rest of us tried our best and did what we could to improve ourselves.
and thay dont care:)
@@marksmith4892 exactly r.i.p norah vincent
They don’t need to. Like most semi attractive or even average women, getting dates is far easier than the average man. Which leaves them clueless to the 70-80% or more of the invisible men out there.
If there is no purpose, no idealism, no personage higher than one's self to align one's life, then isn't that the very basis of the definition of selfishness? Pride? Ego?
A society that puts women on a pedestal is a society that looks down on men.
FACTS!!!! I LOVE this comment!!!
Question: why did society go these directions? These directions are not the root, they are symptoms.
Correct
@@exothermal.sprocket cause white women complained for a long time about whatever they complain about and tricked other women into joining in
@@exothermal.sprocket godlessness.
These women have no clue they’re just dying to talk about themselves
I don’t think most women really understand how difficult it is to form a connection with a woman even if the man is attractive.
I won’t blame women entirely for that, there’s plenty of societal reasons, and things men need to improve, but it’s really crazy to see these women are genuinely clueless when it comes to the male experience…
Who's gonna tell them or educate them if the father is absent? I get attacked all the time on reddit for repeating such lines
true man i find rlly frustrating when women all the time want that the men does all the first steps maybe more women understand if she is the one who must do anything to the beginning
They have clearly never looked at anything outside of their own perspective for even a second nor do they care to
@@davidclayton.1511 you heard the blonde, they don’t need no man 😂
@@Rothbardy tbh, I didn't even watch the video. Went straight to the comments. These videos are too mind numbing.
It’s crazy how when women give advice on how men can be better, they basically say what men say to each other already: “Get better, improve yourself…” etc.
But when women are talking to themselves on how to get a guy when they’re struggling, they’re like “No, sweetheart, you’re perfect the way you are. Don’t change for him, let him change for you”.
Like, what 🫤?
Typical hypocritical 99% NPCs
Dude. This. A thousand times. Preach.
Women tear each other down especially older towards younger women because they are bitter and lonely so they want the younger women to be like them…miserable
Female social hierarchy is a completely different beast to tackle. They say "you're perfect and beautiful" while being happy the other woman is as fat as a walrus (women are VERY susceptible to social hierachies, which is why gossiping is seen as a classical female thing to do). It's just sad this has become the mindset of their own aswell but without the (self)hate. No need for selfimprovement without some healthy self hate. Instead it's a mental disorder for women and increasingly in men (less rigorous diagnosis boundaries for being depressed, anxiety disorder etc.). So we now have a whole generation of women who keep tearing other down under the veil of female empowerment and every negative emotional feeling is a mental disorder, this means no self-improvement to fit in a larger society and improving negative personal characteristics/traits.
Now add in the extreme individualism and consumerism from social media (and remember, women are susceptible to social hierarchy and this is easily measured in social media by followers and likes) and we have a highly dysfunctional generation of individuals who are hyperfocused on personal and mostly materialistic achievement. Of course this is a generalization but we definitely see macro-sociological gender changes in Western societies in the past couple of decades(gender is used binary here: the different experiences between men and women, which is how the concept is used in the vast majority of social research).
Now, there is also a lot to say about men in the modern age. However, the female experience has been a lot more instable since the 1960s in the West (sexual revolution and feminism).
Source: Just a simple, biased, opinion from someone with a master's degree in interdisciplinary social sciences.
Dang! This shit so true 😅😂😂
I actually feel bad for men in their twenties and thirties in this modern time. I’m in my mid forties, and I lived through what I call the golden age of dating in my twenties and thirties. Back then you could actually approach a woman and flirt. Women back then didn’t think it was weird. If we wanted to meet women, we went to a bar, approached a woman we liked, bought her a drink, talked to her, made her laugh, enjoyed each other’s company. The internet and social media ruined all that.
It's definitely still effective if not more effective to approach women now. Because very little man do it these days.
Look at these women’s responses.? Would you wanna approach women like this ?HELL NO most of these answers are lile
Exactly. I grew up in the 90s. Once phones and internet came ... The more technology the worse it got
I work in labor force with a lot of older men, I’m 27 and it gets insanely annoying when all these dudes ever talk about is the 80s. “Back in my day, everybody was smashing left and right!” “Even the ugly fatties were smashing with other ugly fatties” “man I remember being stationed up in Germany, and I met this girl, we ended up smashing in Heidelberg castle.” Non stop stories of the good ol days. Metaphorically speaking , for younger men in 2022, it’s like taking a puppy and you have treats but you constantly tease it and don’t let it take a bite. Then it ends up ignoring the treats or bites the person teasing it. It’s torture 😂 Its literally night and day. Constant rejections and embarrassment and what many 20 year old men experience including myself. Was thinking if I save up enough I can get out of the west.
@@gregwilliams4242 Id approach them. Not for what any of them are talking about though. All these women talking about how men should get into relationships when none of them are worthy of a relationship. Nah, Id approach them for sex. No way theyd get anything more from me though.
"with social media you can compare what other couples are doing". That is funny on so many levels..... We all know how accurate people's social media presentation is as compared to their real lives :)
Peace and intimacy. That’s it. That’s all we want. We don’t want a “boss lady” I actually cringe when I hear women call themselves “boss lady”
I don't know why women think men want a "boss lady" either. I too cringe! I think far too many women listen to other women tell them what men want instead of listening to the men. Also, these women are all pretty young, so they may only be exposed to young men who haven't really learned what makes a woman high-value. It is most definitely NOT her money and independence.
@@valdonjohnson251 It's funny how ignorant you both are. They know EXACTLY what we want. They thing is that they don't care about you unless you are a CHAD.
Every 2 weeks in Great Britain a woman gets chocked to death. The men often get sentences of 2-4 years for manslaughter cause they say it was a sex game. And you wonder why women are afraid to get intimate nowadays.
no man wants a fucking boss lady lmao
You want to pump and dump
I think these women are mostly clueless, especially about how women have contributed to this. Not that it's entirely their fault, but there's very little self-reflection going on here. Any suggestions are either so vague as to be meaningless ("be yourself") or contradictory.
It's mainly their fault now. And partially the 10/10 men that make them think that they can have them. All this creates more simps behaviour (and more channels like courtney that take the opportunity to gain money from men loneliness. She knows they are a majority now. She knows the subject is triggering. Therefore > views > 💰💸💰💸💰💸💰💵💵💵)
Delusional, putting the blame on men.
The dudes they are talking about, are completely invisible to these females, so why would they know anything about this?
Women and accountability.. Lol. Also why would they feel sorry for men they aren't attracted to in the first place? Most men don't make the cut. It's just how it is.
Either Courtney is smart enough to know these girls are clueless and she is having them contradict themselves on purpose...
Or she's as clueless and tone-deaf as her friends are.
Courtney, please gather some men from like 23-35 and ask them similar questions. We need women to understand that their perception of the current situation is way off.
And then play those videos of the men for the women and ask them what they think of the men's answers.
@@sevensolaris yes to both please
I just realized, she doesn’t do videos where she talks to men, only stuck up girls
My opinion of not being totally incel, but having less than optimal sex life during my youth was that women didn't seem to be interested in relationship. It felt like the women I met wanted only casual sex and nothing more serious. And I always felt like being rated, how do I measure against the other men they are seeing etc. For me the sex always felt like being a dildo for the woman to enjoy a while.
If I could give younger me an advice, it would be to stay away from ladies whom don't seem to have genuine interest in me. But I was naive and thought that no real man refuses sex. I hope the younger guys are wiser than me.
That’s how these women rack up body counts, they just see men as dildos, and treat them as such.
no, that's the problem...
"stay away from ladies"
No. Women aren't ladies anymore. Stay away from modern women and try to find actual, real ladies.
I mean how about someone never having interest in sex with the guy? Like not existing at all.
Read my commentat the top of the page-after what you just said,you will see why I made it.
Exactly what I’m confronting with. At some point I’ll decide if I wanna be the chad and fuck them all and that’s it (no search for relationships anymore) or just renounce dating altogether and deal with myself on my own terms. It’s a sad lonely world out there and you get to a point when you stop caring or hoping for authentic relationships..
A lonely woman complains to her friends about how lonely she is. A lonely man talks to his reflection in the mirror and the reflection walks away saying "Sorry bud you're on your own."
Trufe.
"You need to man up" -what society says to a lonely man
😂
Thats funny af
Lol, not even men want to deal with men, so why should women?
My son had a girlfriend who would get busy with stuff and not have time for him but would expect him to loiter around and still be interested and attentive to her no matter what. But he got busy for only 2 weeks over the summer and didn’t talk to her as much and she gave him an ultimatum to shape up or she’d break up with him. I was proud that he told her to piss off for having a double standard. She wasn’t that wonderful, either, so I didn’t really see where she got off acting like that. Now my son feels like women are more trouble than they’re worth. Can’t say I blame him. These days a lot of women feel like the world needs to revolve around them when they don’t add a lot to the relationship other than complaining a lot about what they think they deserve. Good luck, ladies. Relationships take two people.
I truly feel sorry for this generation…not that I had an easy time in dating but at least it was not this bad…
This is another one, are using double standards
Yeah that's 100% social media change.
Women can have all the attention by just posting a photo on Instagram. They will have their little thirsty follower army (the hotter they are the bigger the army) validating them every single time.
They are truly the center of their world, always. And for quit a lot of girls nowadays it's just hard to grasp that their SO aren't as available as the infinite amount of simps on the internet.
@@ryanlee2091 Me too. I’m 63 and married almost 30 of them. My sons are 26 (CPA) and 23 (Electrical Engineer). They don’t date. And I don’t blame them. Why should they? What do women have to offer? I’m glad I had children and they mean a lot to me, but today, who in their right mind would want children growing up in this environment? If you don’t want to have children and raise a family, what do these women have to offer?
Well said, thanks for saying it just as it is.
I was walking alone to my hotel room minding my own business and there were two women in front of me who thought I was trying to talk/hit on them, they stopped and not only ridiculed me for not being attractive enough for them but proceeded to follow me and continue harassing me. I didn’t say a single word…
And water is wet, and the sky is blue.
I gave up with clubs and bars because I got sick of getting the finger, or a hand in my face, or "nope", or "goodbye" by women that happen to be sitting at a bar as I'm minding my own business trying to get the overworked bar tender's attention.
Hello? I didn't even notice you until you flipped me the bird.
@@samgod dude ! Ur going to meet only one type of girl in a bar, get a hooker probably cheaper.
@@samgod they get their validation from turning guys down
@@quincymiller782 unfortunately, wish I could disagree. I just got sick of so many fucking dirty looks from women at clubs. Ended up emotionally exhausted and drained. Take my word for it, associating beautiful women with stink faces doesn't feel good.
Read all the dating tips and coaching you want. Your confidence, humor, playfulness, not putting them on a pedestal are irrelevant as women walk away.
Ugh.
You know what cuts the hardest. Woman want equality of income but not of expenses...
That's a lame double standard of course but money is not everything that matters. What matters the most is they have extremely high expectations while providing little value such as vagina or being good-looking. Certainly most of the video girls are not smart.
Older guy here. Single, alone, and 98% drama free. I’d be really hard pressed to give up my peace for some mediocre woman.
Same here.. just stay strong and single.
Ditto, 6 weeks from retirement on Sunday, and I live a quiet and comfortable single life.
Yep.
Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women.
The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.
Same, protect your peace at all time
I’ve been single/sexless for about 5 years now. I consider myself an old fashioned guy so hooking up and having sex with random people is not my thing. When I got dumped by my gf It had made me feel lonely a lot of the time for sure but it really helps you reevaluate everything in your life and make you work on yourself which I wouldn’t change for anything. Looking back now, it was a blessing in disguise. Nobody wants to be alone but the people that choose to be alone are the strongest willed people because they know what they are worth and what they can give and they just won’t give it to everybody.
7 years here also an "old fashioned guy". When my loneliness finally evolved to peace and relaxation, passion and drive took over. Since then I became a co owner of an LLC I helped build, I own investment property in a different country as well property in the states, I own foreign cars and vintage motorcycles. Lately I've impressed myself with the amount of suffering and hard work i can take without cracking. Im hungry for more. All at the prime age of 32. LIFES GOOD! Keep learning, bleeding (metaphorically) and keep grinding kings! itll be all worth it at the end!
Well said my friend. Women should always be an afterthought not you main focus. Work on yourself completely ignore women and they will come in the right time or if they don't then you are fine alone.
5 years here - same thing - not interested in quick hook ups, I never was. But I'm also not interested in bending over backwards to reach someone's standards of what they think I suppose to be, or in being with someone for the sake of being with them. And breakups do really suck, both ways - they can take ages to recover from and are not worth it really.
It takes times to tune into being alone, but once you've there for a while, it's very comforting a peaceful feeling to know that you don't really need anyone - it's very freeing not to be obsessed with something that most of the society is obsessed with.
@@yomangfoo1 smart 👌 👏 when u do this.. and meet a good woman naturally.. y will know.. you'll b successful and won't have to deal with all the bullsh
@@johnwalsh518 I agree.. although not quite an afterthought but a compliment to an already good life.
I think some guys look to women as a savior of sorts and this is bound to backfire
Not a single woman mentioned how this is sad, and that men's mental health is important. But hey guys, the problem is us cause we have trouble opening up. This is why lol
If you tell women how you really feel they'll either undermine it or leave you lol. Poured my heart out to a girl that I thought cared about my emotional well being and she swiftly leeft
@@abaddon3735They don't care how you feel, they want the winners not the losers.
Beautifully put man!!!!
It's easier to swallow that men are inadquatw for personal reasons rather than systemic reasons like increasing inequality.
28:13 she literally said it’s sad
We're afraid of approaching women, not entirely out of fear of rejection, but out of fear of having the police called upon us. I remember I said hi to some girl at my college campus a few years back and she literally screamed and said "why are you talking to me?" really loud. A cop car drove by and I said "sir I literally just said hi to her." That was it.Thank you Courtney for pointing out how clueless women are when it comes to dating. I think the dating apps have gaslit every woman who is a 4 or above to think she's a 10 and will only talk to a Chad. Any other man is invisible to them: like me!
And yet here you are arbitrarily rating women as below average. Drop the incel talk if you want your arguments to be more solid.
@@Aries73 relax dude this is TH-cam comments. We are the armpit of the internet not model OAS
People that say this are in denial. There is quite literally zero risk at all of being in any lawful danger. And to say you are just for approaching a women, even if the women is exaggerating, is ridiculous.
I love how they say they want a guy to do a hobby, yet it is the first thing she complains about you spending time doing instead of giving all your attention to them.
THIS!! everyone i've ever been with, men have hobbies, women have men as their hobby
@@theprettydead1577 Or their hobby is like....reality TV shows or some shit. I can write a novel about how many hobbies I absolutely adore. The double-standard is awful. Showing interest=too clingy. Not showing enough interest=boring. I mean FFS, how can we win? I just don't see it.
These are women talking about what they want in a guy to allow the guy through the door. They probably have no clue what they want 5+ years down the road with the same man. They're young and haven't been drug through the coals yet. Everyone, man and woman, get drug through the coals and values change. It's life.
The hobby would be the second thing. The guy wanting to hang out with his friends is the first complaint. Once she gets rid of all his friends...THEN his hobbies go under the knife!
It is also the first thing she will complain about you spending money on.
"Never ask a fish how to catch a fish." This was an interesting examination on what women _believe_ are the causes of this condition. The one area where I believe most of the women were completely unaware is what a man is looking for in a woman. Stella and Mansi, I believe, were the most clueless in this area. Men don't choose "independent, hard-working" women _because_ they have those qualities. Almost every woman identified those qualities as attractive when they were choosing men. The reason men don't value those qualities in women is because we don't directly benefit when our women have those qualities. If we, as men, are independent and hard-working, why would we choose someone who is going to be just as stressed out and tired as we are on a daily basis? If we don't have those qualities, why we choose someone who is going to view us as deficient in an area which determines how attractive they find us?
Social media is a huge reason for this rise. Why? Dating has become an economy of scale. There was a time when you dated the people who were close: neighbors, workplace, church, group activities. Even if there was no one local, you had friends keeping their eyes out and facilitating introductions to people outside your immediate circle of contacts. Today, all you have to do is post a picture, fill out a short questionnaire, and you are--literally--on the market. All a woman has to do is swipe right and within 10 minutes, a date can be had. For men, it's not that simple. Even if you survive the swipe test, you still have to pass the gauntlet of mystery requirements she has. Don't forget about the ghosting risk: Men and women are both guilty of this, but women started it.
*Bottom line:* A lot of men have realized the juice just isn't worth the squeeze, especially if they've been through a divorce. This video spent over 33 minutes talking about men and what women look for in men, but almost no time discussing what they expect to bring to a relationship or what makes them think they are ready not to be single. All of the things women tell men to do to make themselves more attractive to women are the things men probably should be doing for themselves, anyway. The pandemic and subsequent lockdown provided a practical example to a lot of men how to live their lives without pursuing women. On the whole, there's less drama, it's far cheaper, and more freedom to live their lives the way they want to live them. There is a difference between "lonely" and "alone". Give a man enough time and enough negative experiences with women, and that difference becomes crystal clear very quickly.
Correct, men (generally speaking) don't give a shit about a woman's career success. It's fine but not something we're really looking for. It doesn't make women more attractive to us (it might even make them less attractive).
Fucking well said. Women resist to look inward and admit their wrong and take that accountability. Their list of expectations will in the end keep them miserable and single.
Top comment indeed.
someone needs to pin this comment... courtney!
well said but bro White Salesman: "accidentally" calls his Black neighbor the N-word *video on my channel*
We aren't "afraid" Ashley, we just genuinely have ZERO interest in modern western women. Besides, as the brilliant Stella said, yall "don't need no man". You got this girl! Your strong and independent! We wish you women luck, your gonna need it.
well said
There is no shame in being actually afraid of many of them, though. They are that dangerous to your mental wellbeing that you should rather avoid them. Notice that men having legitimate fears is bend to being something thats on the men, not on the thing they are afraid of.
"Modern western woman" Dear Umbasa I hope you're not American cause this sounds very cringe.
@@Brandwein42 they try and shame men by calling into question their / his masculinity. Feminist programing.
Why must I approach females when I have a 80% chance of getting rejected and a 100% chance of having to take her on a date and pay for something that Chad got for free?
Sex is expensive and dating is expensive. Marriage is expensive, divorce is expensive. Maybe it’s because it isn’t worth the money?
The dating scene has drastically changed in the last 10-15 years and has short circuited relations between the genders. Add social media nonsense and wide smart phone use into that as well. I'm 45 and remember how different it was in my 20's. The paradox of choice has really killed modern dating.
Absolutely. Dating apps have been an absolute disaster.
It has, women are Chad-only now today. I'm not even saying it's a bad thing necessarily, it's the way it is, it's maybe even more natural
Could you tell us what was it like in your 20's.
For sure. People approach 'dating' now like they're buying something online from Amazon.
@@TheTseipii we only had to choose from maybe a 25-30 person group and all IRL so bonding happened faster I think, more organically
This video can be summed up in a few words: 'It's society's fault and men's fault... but mainly men's fault'
Oof 😅
A better summation: Men are sad and lonely, women most affected.
The reason it’s hard to get a relationship is that everyone thinks they deserve better and expect to get it.😂
Plain and simple.
Don't forget the tens of millions like me who just said fck it and choose not to deal with this bullshit 😎
you re right, there is too much choice today
the reason it's hard to get a relationship is you're low quality, thats all there is to it
Sounds like a good thing. Everyone does deserve better.
NO, A LOT OF MEN AREN'T SINGLE BY CHOICE.
What women want:
Don't be ugly
Don't be short
Don't be poor
Also:
Don't be boring
Don't be too clingy
What women offer in return:
Being pretty
@@deficator750 Not even that
A man can check every box and they still consider themselves the prize
@@brandon9638 I think that mentality comes from men in general groveling to women far too much. You can see it everywhere. Anytime a woman appears even mildly pretty, they slobber all over themselves and over-validate them on social media. If you want women to stop thinking of themselves as the prize, I do believe that it is a society-wide problem that needs to be addressed, unfortunately. You would have to get the behavior of millions of thirsty men to change.
Stella's 1st answer had me facepalming IRL because it sounds so tone-deaf. I cannot fathom somebody thinking that the reason why 1/3 of dudes aren't getting laid is because "women no longer deal with douchebags". The douchebags are the ones that were hitting your line to smash a couple years ago with no intention of giving you more. That just shows a complete lack of awareness - if I had to guess, a supermajority of that 1/3 would never even approach you. And I've lived that first hand: When I was near 300 pounds, I wasn't approaching you. When I didn't have my shit together financially, I wasn't approaching you. And I sure wasn't approaching you when I ran lobbies on Call of Duty or when I played Runescape with my e-friends. Douchebags can and will still get laid - whether it be through nagging or them exerting some type of "abnormal confidence" or them being actual F-boys.
Agree
Was definitely a low IQ response by that girl. I don't think she listened to the question.
Modern Women: "We no longer deal w douchebags"
Also Modern Women: " My triple digit body count is made up of mostly douchebags"
this ^^^
"Women no longer deal with douchebags"
Yeah, and religion has been abolished in the middle east 😂
I had a female coworker tell me that she wishes she was a guy. She felt her life would be easier Lol. I told her its quite the opposite you truly have no idea the pressure guys have to endure in this world. I always think of the story of the woman that became a man and ended up taking her life pretty much tells you all you need to know what our reality is like.
Yep, there's a reason why there's hundreds of male-to-female transgender people for female-to-male one, everything in the legal system and society is tipped in vvomen's favour, why wouldn't they want some of that female privilege.
Nora Vincent
Everything a man complains about is always his fault. And he should man up, and do whatever. Women never get this type of treatment.
@@pjabber5679 that’s not why Paul. Lol Men transitioning to women have a sexual fetish called autogynephilia. Not all - but many.
@Pepe Pupu many have tried and killed themselves from the pressure and loneliness
"a lot of times girls make the first move..." ha ha ha right
They’re so delusional they think that making eye contact for one second is a first move.
I heard that, and spit my coffee out. But hey, its their lie, they can tell it any way they want.
It’s really the ability to create and live in their own reality
After watching this video, I have concluded that relationships are just not for me.
Nothing wrong with that, I would just suggest trying the dating scene to see if it's for you, unless you already gave it a shot.
Don't listen to ^ stick with your initial reaction and never date. You'll be far better off and then someday if enough men leave the dating pool, maybe then women will the the error in their ways.
@@EJ257IHI ............................................................................😶😐
@@justcausee Amen. I swore off dating at 21, got red pilled at 19. Now I'm about to turn 30, never been in a relationship and I got tattoos of vows & promises to never: date, marry, cohabitate or get them pregnant. If I want a family in my late forties, I'm hiring all surrogates and buying/employing everything I need at fertility clinics.
@@asparrow9876 fk modern western women. We really just need to develop the artificial womb and render them wholly and completely obsolete. Enabling the creation of a female free society and giving men, for the first time, any sort of reproductive rights.
"I DEMAND a man who has all the money, a bodybuilder physique, is 6'8" or taller, and loves to take me shopping and on expensive vacations."
"What do you have to offer this man in return?"
"Herpes."
If anything at all really?
@@privateprivate4378 well herpes is more like it.
A strong, virulent, type 2 herpes virus strain.
Lol no girl actually says that.
You forgot, he's got to have a two by four
" I am the table" women's answer
Good God. Listening to these girls solves precisely nothing aside from reaffirming wanting to be alone lol.
I am a newly single woman and l've recently been on dating apps because l noticed that people weren't meeting in person as much...and after being on the aps for a while...l noticed something happening with alot of people on the app and even to myself...the longer l was on the app; l would breeze through all the profiles so quickly and yes...try to chat with some people...and even go on a few dates...but l noticed that the longer l did this...the less special the whole thing became...and everyone on the app...as well as I became very distracted...and kinda stuck in "roaming" mode...always looking for the next "best thing" l think thats what social media and these apps are doing to our brains...and l am a product of the 80's...and was never like this before. I think the romance and "specialness" has been taken out of the equation because of our fast- food dating practices...l hope people realize that we need to put down our phones and interact with eachother...simultaneously as l write this comment, ignoring the text messages that a potential soul- mate has just sent me!!!🤣
I probably wouldn't try dating any of these girls after watching this video.
What they need to realize is that a lot of us men are choosing to be alone because we think it is better than the alternative (myself included). A time will come when *they* will have no choice but to be alone because they won't get looks at clubs or swipes on apps.
Also...we aren't "lonely." We can still have friends, family, and pets.
@@lauraseidel9053 Dating apps have no intention of working. As working is antithetical to their business model.
If they actually worked then they wouldn't have a market. They don't sell dates they sell hope.
It's all about gamifying dating, making it less special, and having you spend as much time on the app as possible so they can shove more ads in your face.
Haha !
yea the majority are really dumb whoa! Not a clue about the opposite sex.
They don’t give a shit about what we go through
“If height is a total deal breaker then you know you’re not going to be comfortable with someone shorter than you then you shouldn’t go after that.”
LMFAOOOOO
imagine if I said having a flat ass is a total deal breaker and I’m not going after that how many female friends would I lose 😂😂😂
What y’all trippin about 👀
Difference is that flat ass girls won’t be a deal breaker to most guys where as height will be to most girls.
you don't need those flat @ss 304s anyway! 😂
Having female friends is a bad idea.
@@Null4eva why?
@@macaronienshiis So? Who cares if you lose female friends for saying you want a woman with a nice booty? You like what you like. We need to stop shaming people for just expressing their genuine desires. It just causes everyone to lie and mislead everyone else.
Courtney really needs to get a group of guys on and have them react to this garbage and then have these same girls react to that 😂
It would be all out war LMAO not a good idea.
Agreed...but she won't. I like what she's trying to accomplish...dating advice, opinions, grooming, etc., but it's all VERY one-sided. You can't ask a diverse group of women about how men and women interact...unless you also ask men about the same subject...SIMULTANEOUSLY! But she won't do that.
thats what I thought too
@@eddieruiz6826 all out war... GREAT IDEA
@@550xxx23 naw a waste of energy.
I love how she asked what they think men want and they just regurgitated what they want. 😂
Solipsism 😎
Well to be honest what men want is basically sex cause they don't care about women's feelings. You and most men would do better to listen to what women want and actually try to understand another person for reasons other than getting your dick sucked. IF you want a quickie and you have a shit personality as a dude; just go buy a ten minute session with a prostitute or something.
Hint: many of them think they know what they want but then want something else when they get it. Those people want one thing: More.
@@i4L_Podcast singel life is the best i dont need a woman to be happy im 43 years old i never dated and i dont want kids.
What men want is irrelevant to them.
Surprisingly chill interviews. Seems like you gathered a good spread in terms of ethnicity, looks, morals etc. Would be interesting to see different ages as well.
A few topics did stand out:
1) I love their pro advice on how to get a girl, like the classics: "I don't know", "change career", "stop going to bars", "I don't know", "don't look for relationships", "have confidence", "I don't know", "embrace being single" and "move on/walk away". Stellar stuff :)
2) On a more serious note: In the second-to-last part they talk about what they want in a man. Several comments here have called out how obviously disingenuous these are but I actually don't think the girls are actively lying here in several cases. I just think that they have a baseline (e.g. 6ft and 6pack) that's so ingrained that they don't even think about mentioning it.
3) The last part about what they think a man wants in a woman is the only truly clueless part - but that is probably to be expected.
Yeah those pro advices are like exactly the antithesis of how to get women XD
Apart from maybe "have confidence", but that's such a shit tip because it actually doesn't mean much
Lmao this shit is hilarious
If you ever wanted to know why more people are single, this video is why lol.
Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women.
The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.
@@mitchellcole832 How is it not logical that women want good looking men? If men could choose they too would pick the pretty girl over the less pretty one.
@@lukebruce5234 Luke as a guy whose 29 more things than looks matter. Maybe a 18 year old boy would but at this point in life that's childish. Looks and the whole package is rare. Just find someone who will treat you like a human being is already an 8/10 in itself in today's world. That's how bad things really are. And this is coming from a moderately handsome guy.
Ah ah good one.
@@lukebruce5234they don't know what they want
I was with Stella for a second, but then when I actually understood what she said I completely disagreed. I think women are more into douchebags and a-holes more than ever before, which leaves genuinely good men out of the picture because most women love the excitement those guys bring to the dynamic. There's a lot of factors as to why most men are lonely more than ever, and this is definitely one of the main reasons but it's not really something men can change because women (not ALL) are choosing these kinds of men.
Absolutely agree. Some women will consistently claim that men are trash, always end up going for the same type of a**holes and then say there’s no good men out there, leaving the genuine guys to take the fall.
Women aren't really attracted to d-bags. Women are attracted to certain characteristics. The problem is that women are attracted to certain characteristics. Call them A, B and C, all of which are positives. However, characteristics A, B and C are most often found in men who also have characteristics X, Y and Z, which are d-bag characteristics. Women just haven't figured out the association.
It's very simple, you just need to be good looking.
@@alanruhland2489 that's a great observation!
@@alanruhland2489 This, exactly. Women want men that are nice, but have certain characteristic that the douchebags have. It's mostly the aggressiveness and sense of adventure that these men bring. "Nice guys" are afraid to step on toes, afraid to show too much sexuality, afraid to lead and take that girl by the hand. Women want the guy who goes up to them and say's "You're beautiful. I want to know you." ---it's their storybook movie moment. Douchebags do this, even if it's more about their own selfishness and horniness than it is about knowing the girl. Do it, but make it about the girl. Make it about the connection. And that's how you beat the douchebags.
I honestly blame dating apps and social media, I think it's set unrealistic expectations for women, they're looking for someone who's a 9/10, but they're only a 6/7 themselves..
FACTS!
*Most women are 3 to 5 but deny it.*
Those dating sites are garbage.
so, I'm supposed to cheer for a fat, obese man, who plays video games all day, and expects a woman/his wife to look like a super model all the time? Uh, no. If he ends up with a super model looking wife, for the most part, its cause he has assets she's after.
@@boostedmaniac never a truer word spoken, apps like tinder, bumble etc we're the beginning of the downfall, the old way was always better, and I'm 26 and saying this 😂
I think the problem is the expectation is striving for perfection between men and women. Many years ago I used to work at a checkout and I used to speak to a lot of women when they would buy their items. I wasn't hitting on anyone just a general chat, in the end, I refused to speak to younger women because they would always give me a dirty look or completely ignore me. The only women I would speak to afterwards would be the older women and we would just have a nice chat like two human beings.
“Men will always want to be a woman's first love while women would want to be men's last romance.” - Oscar Wilde.
I guess this guy was smart enough to see this sooner and just turn towards men
...until they get bored being the last romance
Strange, because that's not what men say in most comment sections I've checked. Most men say they can't be monogamous due to biology and will always desire other women. I've been told men want sex more than anything, with as many women as possible. BY MEN. Why starting to love when that's the case?
@@miepmiep3017 Of all the other guys i met in life, there were indeed some like that but i think those were about 10% of all, at most. Usually, those were the ones that looked the best and had the lowest morals.
@@miepmiep3017 i think monogamy is the morally correct path, however by a woman's first love, he meant that the woman hasn't been with any other men. Men value purity whereas women don't tend to mind a guys past so long as she is his "final romance."
My jaw is on the floor with this one. 😳 I’m even in a committed relationship, and am aghast at how those interviewed talk about cultural trends towards female celibacy, “not needing a man for anything” and “keeping options open” while blaming men for all the problems.
Wow. I honestly think we might be doomed.
And by the way, I don’t see women as the problem, I see the takeover of social and romantic interactions by for-profit tech companies as spoiling everything.
Thank you 🙏
Female celibacy is a bit of a farce. There is a little bit of it going on, but let's not get it twisted women are the ones having far more sex than men on average who are the actual incels.
@Dan T what is socially responsible behaviour? Suicide rate is indeed high for men but I see no real efforts from men to solve this problem. All I see is men like you complaining about women and why don't they care about these lonely men's peepees
@Dan T so what is the problem here? That narcissist are better ar manipulating other people? What is your point?
@Dan T it's because women were oppressed.. Women literally weren't allowed any control over their own lives and still we struggle with equality today, especially black women. Also most men still see women as objects. Yall talk about us like objects, and compare us to objects, and try and treat us like objects and women just aren't taking it anymore. Why would we want to be with a man who only wants us for our body or who thinks that we need to not speak because yall don't value a woman's mind and soul. That's why it's so easy for men to transition to porn and sex robots in place of living women, because yall already see us as things. And also men are becoming more violent against women and psychologists are linking it to porn and sex dolls and the objectification of women.
I would love to see these same women interviewed 10 years later. That would be a show!
Ashley is probably one out of a million women who claims she would be “flattered” if a man approached her in person. I’m average looking at best but I’ve followed Courtney’s advice down to every last detail about how to dress, look, talk to and approach women. 9/10 times they give me this look of disgust like “why are you talking to me?” This has led to many men (including myself) to simply stop trying. After enough rejections it’s like why even bother? In contrast, women sit around and complain that they can’t meet anyone and have no clue as to why men aren’t approaching.
We need to stop trying anyways so women can realize that they are doing this to themselves. Obviously something needs to change with dating and I think it starts with men stop giving a fuck and going about their life instead of chasing women.
Wow Really?. The thing that gets me as a 6'6 male with average looks it's fine for me to say hi to a group of girls but anybody shorter elicits a colder response.
When a women says men the translation is the top men. They think its obvious so they don't add the top part.
Come on brother have you not watch the men sites the 33 secrets and such. Never take advice from a fish on how to catch a fish not here in the west anyway.
This is so pathetic on so many levels
I am 6’5, have been called to tv shows for my looks. I have been on many dates with women, and there’s a common denominator. Every single one of them has called me “so nice”. One of them even said “I really expected you to be a huge douche given how you look, but you’re actually super sweet”. They also all had one thing in common…. They weren’t interested. Now I’m puzzled, because I’m not like the “weird nice guy” either. By nice I mean I’m laid back, im not pushy, not controlling, I don’t obsess over anyone, and I don’t keep chasing people. I let things flow naturally. And yet, all these dates fail. I then tried a different approach. I started acting less chill, and more like an ass. Not caring as much, ignoring texts, blowing them off… and guess what? Those ones that I did that with actually displayed interest. Now, it’s funny how all these studies on lonely men say it’s because women have higher standards, and want nicer men. Really? I call bullshit. In fact, I’d say it’s the exact op
You get it. Now, being an aloof asshole will get you laid by the many psycho chicks out there. Fun for a short ride. Now, you'll know you've found a long term keeper when you come across the 1 woman that won't put up with that shit. Men need a psycho filter as much as women do.
Correct. You were missing the art of the emotional roller-coaster.
I'm 45, and most guys my age are single/divorced and are living it up. The single women our age are literally train wrecks.
Women like to be treated like shit. My last ex was educated and smart, found and sought me out even while I was a huge piece of shit and didn’t care about her.
The moment I started being “nice” and considerate out of remorse was the moment she started losing interest.
The moral of all of this is pretty much that women are children and what they say is full of shit, and that they don’t even know what they want.
So just ignore pretty much everything they say.
I had a similar experience, but it was while I was on Tinder. Had way more dates from the app acting like a douchebag than I did when I was myself and just being normal/nice
The sad part about this story is that is not your fault at ANY point. So when you start saying "I then tried different approach etc..." you started to fail at it, because you started to deatach from yourself.
Do you know what is this all about? Numbers.
If you have a bad boy douche look (wich is great, don't change it) and there are A LOT of woman that love bad douche boys, and like being treated badly, many will come to you, and you have nothing to do with it.
All you can do is keep trying knowing the biggest % will be this kind of woman, and when the confirmation comes about this is so, leave it and go to the next women, until one is not this kind of girl.
It's just about numbers, pacience, and accepting a lot of "rejection" will come, (Wich is actually not rejection but people with very specific expectations).
Hope it helps. It has nothing to do you with you. Keep being you.
Single, but I don't feel lonely. I think the dating world is screwed up nowadays. It's like your never loved, accepted, and understood for who you are. Instead, you have to have money, swag, or something externally impressive about you. Right now, I'm just focusing on self-development and future goals. Not worried at all if a woman accepts or reject me. Great video Courtney, and thanks a lot for all the work you do.
Once I stopped chasing women and focused on spending time with the bros, I actually stopped feeling lonely, because they are always there, and the good thing with friends is that you can have many, no need to commit to just one, then you always have a group to do things together and enjoy life
You summed it up in the best way possible
Or relationships are based on how able being able to quit a job and travel the world like women could
that was always thing. it's nothing new.
@@Jay-Jones What was always a thing?
Funny that the one saying that "women stopped caring about douchebags" is the only one dressed in a way very likely to attract their attention.
"men have all these expectations for women"
Girl. My "requirements" at this point are that you exist and put at least a minimum amount of effort into showing you might care occasionally.
pro tip, develop standards. If you chase everything you will catch nothing. Women like guys that have standards, guys that don't tend to come across as weak and unappealing.
That's what's so funny about it. For a number of men breathing is the only requirement but women have an entire checklist of things they want that cant exist at the same time.
I just want her to be active and healthy. Is that too much to ask? I'm a fit man with a very athletic physique and my only options are hambeasts and slampigs
@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger Even that doesn't work in a lot of cases as he spends to much time at his job and hurts her because of his size. She will still cheat with the local Hobo and say God told her too😆
@@Jake12220 Good joke. No matter how high or how low your standards are, as an ugly guy you still will be ignored.
When women started shaming men approaching them, that's when all of this started. Let's not even start with the over inflated ego of women due to social media (that is partially fueled by simps.) I've never had a problem finding the V, but a lot of dudes out here are struggling for sure. The risk vs. reward with modern day women doesn't make commitment worth while.
Couldn't have said it better myself 👍
Shaming and rejecting for fun picked up around 2007. During the time Beyonce had all the break up songs.
@@dennisrobinson8008 These new age female "artists" aren't helping their case. Just getting paid to destroy society.
Yeah, I have met 3 women who just wanted me to commit just to break my heart not sure I wanna do that ever again. Sad I hadnt educated myself about narcissism yet.
I won’t approach a woman first because of similar reasons like these, so I wait until a woman approaches me first because that’s how I’ll know they’re interested in me. And I don’t mind how they approach me whether it’s awkward, cringe, or terrible flirting but it’s the principle that matters to me, and afterwards I can assist them in the flirting and I can take it from there.
we men get nothing when we’re lonely. no attention, no intimacy, not even ”bottom of the barrel”-choices. we get nothing!
women who are lonely still have access to those things and that’s why they can’t understand ”male loneliness”.
You still hook up with and use ugly and fat chicks, who you have zero respect for. Women at least have the humanity to not do that.
Yup
Facts. And I'm speaking as even quite a good-looking guy who's also quite well-off, yet still somehow keep failing a lot with women.
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@@NikiWonoto26 you're probably an arrogant ass.
God gives me love
Most of the time these women don't even seem to understand the majority of the questions being asked. This opens up the possibility that women's remaining connection to the reality of their own surroundings may be in the process of diminishing even further in the future than it is already the case.
I'm really curious to see how this plays out for society in the long run.
I feel lonelier from lack of close male friends tbh. I lost 3 of my best friends in my twenties and when you’re 30 and travel for work, it’s hard to make and keep consistent, close friendships.
I hear you bro, I can only recommend focusing on your hobbies. I've met a couple of good friends by joining the local Eagles club and playing pool there, or joining board game tournaments (those are two of my hobbies). That's worked a couple of times for me.
I feel you. I've lost friends too, mostly to women. Saw one my best frineds turn into a pussy whipped beta the moment he got married. It's more painful than being single.
I feel it, similar for me. Its dark.
I feel it. Keep developing and flowing your heart.
I'm sorry for you, Jon! Keep sane.
10:15 She was the most honest. She basically said that since women don't need men anymore, we've stopped having sexual relations with them. Bravo for her honesty.
As the sound of you typing this echoes off of the cavernous walls of her wide and gaping trench.
That's until they turn 35. Then holy nutballs guys - RUN. In 3 years I dated 5 women in the age range of 35-39 and all of them were trying to pop a kid out. They don't care about you - they gotta have that kid so they can have the house, kid(s), fancy SUV, and the ring and the clock is ticking. You have viable genetic material, a paycheck, and look like you could make a decent looking baby - you're marriage material. Every one of these women was married and pregnant within a year when I broke up with them. Just steer clear of that age. You want a girl that is marrying YOU, not the idea of having the ring/house/kid.
I'm so, so, so lucky I ran into my wife in my 40's after pretty much swearing off most women. We both grew up in more calm rural upbringings. Neither of us do social media, we cook together (equally), do chores together, are not into all this fashion garbage, and we've never been happier. We read, watch movies, hike, riding horses, thrift shop, and dress in just average clothes - and couldn't be happier. We both make 6 figures and are worth well over 7 in our 40's. Just steer clear of these materialistic and social media pariahs and find yourself a diamond in the rough like I did.
honesty? they're def having sexual relations with Men just not relationships lol
She's right. And that's also going the other way too. Since men don't need a commitment as a prerequisite for getting sex like they used to (gfe's, porn, female birth control), they're not offering long-term partnerships like they used too. I've heard this broken down by a woman in another video on here, but basically nobody needs each other anymore. That's the harsh reality we need to come to terms with
I'll never become a MGTOW, because I think those dudes are creeps lol, but I get it. And I thank my stars that my parents met before this period so I could be born, but it seems to me that people never _really_ wanted these commitments, they were just raised in times where they were kind of necessary. This isn't that time anymore, and we're seeing the results of that. More single and striving individuals 🤷🏾
lol okay
I love being lonely. It’s way better than having to involve you narcissistic nightmares.
having a girlfriend who is a sselfish narcissist is like being lonely
Cope.
shurrr upppp
that's bs. I tried that. I have a "narc" mom, "narc" ex gf, etc. Bro these "narcissists" are people who are hurt just like you. We are all people. I beleive that attitude won't get you anywhere. If you can't get through to them, i've learned it's also bc you can't find a way to let them get through to you. Anyways, bro. I wish you the best. Good luck and I hope you find happiness. I'm not perfect in any way, shape, or form but I guess it's taking accountability instead of blaming. Bc blaming and being bitter leaves you in the exact same spot. I've learned this.
@@MikeyPaper You seem like the one who is more coping. He seems to be fine being alone(prolly still has an amazing life and enjoys being with himself) compared to you, who definitely doesn't have a girlfriend with your troll ass comment and doesn't like being with himself hence you saying cope. We don't need women, we chose the ones that are good and reject the ones we aren't. also we don't need em, we want em.
Tinder and dating apps are destroying it for everybody .
Im old school and still like to phone and talk to women
I’m over 60, and still single but I have dated many women and had a few serious relationships. So I am still in the dating world and feel terrible for younger men having to deal with these kind of women. This video is truly a horror show. Women weren’t perfect 40 years ago, but they didn’t think like these women do. And don’t bring up pornography, it’s always been around. It’s the women these days. So many will stay alone.
Were you able to marry and have children in your years?
@@mistercool3859 no, didn’t want children and relationships always fell apart eventually.
@@jim6070 I understand.
Exactly
Porn was a thing since the 40s
They used magazines that time
So how were women better 40 years ago? These are some pretty thoughtful women. I'm 50. They seemed better in the past because I was young and there wasn't much internet.
The best part of this video is Miss Low-Cut White Tanktop who admits at 9:33: "...a woman like myself...keeps her options open."
And then shames men who turn their head at other girls while on a date at 13:31: "that just makes me feel like they're looking for options."
Lol I love the hypocrisy and utter and complete lack of self-awareness.
Now in contrast, the girl with the overly-busy, overly-patterned top at 15:20 has some really good insight. You can tell she's thoughtful. Kudos, girl.
Rules for thee, but not for me.
She meant that she keeps her options open in her dating life. But when she dates someone, she doesn't look at others in a way of being able to jump to the next one. When you are on a date with someone and you keep looking around for more options, that is different.
“You don’t have to be CEO or anything.” That girl is an open book. Here it is: “I don’t ever want to work again. I want you to buy me everything and take me everywhere while I drink wine all day with my other girlfriends who don’t work.”
Women are pragmatic, they just pretend to be romantic.
Yeah, it's funny. Whenever you hear such an example you cannot ignore it as a man. It's a huge red flag but said in such a way that it seems innocent. I'm thankful you posted that, it's knowledge more men need to have.
yup
@@Whatever_man Not really a red flag, that's been their stick forever
They want to remain children for life.
Colorful shirt girl is a good person. And she’s pretty too. She’s smart and looks for the right things, and she’ll make someone very happy.
After watching this I am glad to be single. I never lost that much brain cells deciphering these clueless women's messages before. PS: This isn't about all women in case someone is asking, this is just these specific ones :)
Very True.
They all come across as if they have been abusing substances or have brain damage. Low IQs for sure. No spark in their eyes.
These women got me thinking of stormtroopers, they know where the target is but keep missing.
Facts lol
That blonde girl said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING for a minute and a half…was actually quite impressive
"Men idealize women"
Literally has an ultra specific and detailed checklist the length of a CVS receipt.
the blonde girl basically just confirmed every guys fear, if you say hello to a women on the street you're a serial killer lol
Yeah right? That’s why I don’t approach people I don’t know like that especially women. It’s just far too risky than it is rewarding. If you approach a woman you like in public and she doesn’t take kindly to it she could say something totally false about you and people will believe it. It really is scary.
@@matthewnikitas8905 yeah honestly no one talks to each other in public unless it’s business related. Other than that it doesn’t make sense to approach women in public, they probably won’t like u, think you’re a creepy stalker and cal the cops on u or some other bullshit
@@grant9047 I agree 100% from a man’s perspective I would rather be lonely and single than risk putting myself in that kind of situation and have something like that happen to me. Fuck that shit
would you rather be a woman who has to worry constantly about being followed or creeped on by potential serial killers and rapists? Choose your cross
@@yhiontop I think every human is naturally suspicious of strangers in general, I’ve seen guys tense up and women tense up around me when I’m simply walking through Walmart looking the items I want. Not everyone is out to get you.
Dating apps operate on the same predatory mechanism that slot machines do.
"making me feel special" and "I have a whole document". These two statements sum up the entire dilemma pretty succinctly. You know a man's "document"? Somewhat attractive, cool personality, good sense of humor and a girl that wont cheat on you and go behind your back.
New title for this video: 33 minutes of women being oblivious to the situation they created.
3rd wave Feminism and corrupt Hollywood created this problem.
If you're not attractive it is your fault, that is what Jordan Peterson said
Acting oblivious
“Situation they created”
Lol keep blaming your problems on others, see if that fixes your problems
@@bad_writer every fall of every great civilization began with giving women too much say in political matters. They destroy countries with their emotions and lack of logic, lack of foresight.
I tried. I looked. I made it to 40 without marriage and hung it up. Cancelled all my date pages.
No hate. No regrets. Like someone who went to a restaurant and didn't receive good service, I moved on, not to "punish" anyone, but to exercise my right of choose.
I've already given up at 22 and have felt a lot happier since. If the right woman enters into my life I'll give her a chance but I'm not gonna hold my breath or wait for her. I've accepted and have come to peace with the idea of dying alone, and I've been a lot better off ever since.
Marriage isn’t for everyone… if you’re living a great life I agree, no regrets!
Travel often brother. Look overseas, feminism hasn’t destroyed women in Europe and Asia.
My phone is on permanent NO DISTURB mode for them now.
Well done Sir. Make sure you travel and go out and see the world!
Most of us men just want a good looking woman that can get along with us. That's it... Its not that complicated like what women want in men...
I love how every single one blames men as the main problem. What does a guy have to do after getting rejected 30 or more times? How much tolerance can one have before he ends up a loner?
Thirty?! My guy I felt completely demotivated at 5. Jesus
maybe start questioning if the problem may not be him???
@@scott8934 I'm nearing 1000 and I'm a decent looking guy that takes care of himself, owns a home, and does stand-up comedy for a hobby so I've got proof I am funny. Sometimes you just can't win.
I had 300+ rejections after many try to apporch so thats it for me🤣🤣🤣
Exactly. How much tolerance do they expect a man with self respect to have. It's completely demotivating and discouraging. It's a confidence killer.
God bless Courtney Ryan for supplying Aba and Preach with more content!
Lmao 🤣
Courtney =👎🏽
Helll yeaah boi
Women have no idea what male loneliness is like. No matter they do, theres always someone who wants to be with them, even if it's the guy they dont want to be with. That's not the same thing as literally nobody wanting to be with you. Even worse, women have no idea how their behavior is destroying relationships. I mean look at the girl in the blue and white shirt. Her attitude is repulsive, she seems arrogant, and lacks any accountability. All she did was talk down about men, when she is at best a 5 with a bad attitide. I hate to say it, but these girls have absolutely no idea what's even going on. If you want to actually understand this, you need to have men on to explain how they feel.
Better Bachelor's channel is a good look at how men actually feel about these issues.
Yeah that’s Monique I messaged her on IG and my gawd she is detestable. Like how does this basic 304 thinks she is worthy of the men she’s with? Does she work out? No. Does she make 6 figures? Etc but she don’t reach standards herself
@@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw that’s a large part of the general problem. It’s women wanting these crazy standards but then don’t realize what it takes and fail to remember that they are not in those circles themselves. They blame social media in this video but are still influenced by it where they forget that they’re average women hoping an above average man will swoop in.
Yes blue shirt is in for a long lonely ride if she’s thinks she’s locking down anything in the top 25%
100% man. I’m a disabled vet and have had no social life for going on 3 years at this point due to my health issues. These women wouldn’t last a week in my shoes or any other man’s shoes who struggles on a daily basis. We are basically ghosts to them. Try going years with texting a total of two friends plus your parents, never going out, being unemployed for health reasons, no dms, no matches on dating apps. I consider myself mentally tough dealing with it all. My point is these women have had a CAKE WALK through life. It’s easy mode for them. There would be a massive uptick of female suicide if they felt what some of us go through.
@@joeb3949 find yourself some kind of group or community my man. DND online gaming or something.
Some great interviews with these ladies. Many were very articulate with great insight. The bottom line with relationships is that they aren't perfect and they require work. You need honesty, respect, compromise, caring, communication and love/intimacy with your partner. Hopefully we get what we give, especially if you are doing all of the aforementioned. You literally need to wake up every day and choose to be with your partner because it's too easy to jump ship but then all you are doing is starting over elsewhere, over and over again. If you have a partner who cherishes you and is a "keeper," I hope you're treating them like a most precious gem and not yesterday's trash. Advice from a man on the backside of life. Do with it what you will.
Very few of them thinks like this and they usually get hooked up by chads.
LOL! All the traits that they say they are looking for in a guy are the guys they've all put in the friend zone.
They are imagining this good looking guy too, when they describe these traits. I don’t blame them but they are not telling the truth.
@@manny3447 yea dude that doesnt exist. lmao thats what they want. and surprised picachu faces when they cant find this imaginary dude.
If a guy is a good friend and you're not sexually attracted to him, what are you supposed to do?
@@Makin_em_at_night haha k frost acting all innocent allof a sudden. bitch please. you know damn well you're attention whorin.
@@manny3447 I mean is that a bad thing. Everybody f care about looks. Speacially men.