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I've dated a few Filipinas in my time. You have to establish the ground rules from the beginning. I'm 6'2" (188cm) and don't like riding in Jeepneys. I prefer to get a trike or taxi. Still, a trike is uncomfortable for me as my head bangs on the roof. Jeepneys and trikes are not designed for tall, western men. Dating: It's different dating Filipinas. They are shy and difficult to read. Novices will end up paying for a family outing or for several of her friends. Filipinas are addicted to their phones and want to take pics of everything. I oblige, but I kindly ask them to put their phone away. If not, I pay the bill and walk away. You will soon understand only one in ten Filipinas are worth pursuing. Similar to dating in the West. Be careful, as a one night stand may quickly develop into her family knocking on your bedroom door. Tread with care. Don't get me wrong, if you find the right Filipina, she will change your life. They tap into your masculine energy and make you a better man. My suggestion is to not have too many expectations, relax, and enjoy the attention you will receive. It's great!
It really is that easy to date there. For any guy fat, old, weird, bald, doesn’t matter. Don’t pick the first one and stay single for a 6-months to a year at least! Don’t ever give money for any reason besides pay for food and 100 pesos for trike money. She asks for money beyond that block her immediately.
@@ruslanhrybchad6832 If you want someone who is not looking for your money I hear visit the more expansive coffee shops. I figure to check out the churches.
A Filipina who is a good match really is a dream wife. The problem is that they are located on the other side of the world. I got lucky and met my wife in the US and frankly, its not that much different than an American girl for me except, I felt she was trust worthy and very capable as we traditional wife who is an anchor in the family. I know she was a better first time mother also, as she seemed to automatically know how to raise children. So, yes, they are very attractive, fun and excellent wives and moms. They are feminine, dress classy and a very good companion and partner in life, they way things used to be, many years ago.
Oh I wish I saw this video before I got involved with a couple of Filipinas, I've never gave them a large gift like a house or scooter but a little here and a little there tends to add up to A Lot of money! I was too trusting never acknowledge the 'signs' 😥
Just ask yourself if you would ever offer someone you never met a picture of your family member in a hospital. Or screenshots of grab rides to and from a hospital. This is the long con. They won't ask you outright but they will pull your heart strings hoping you will offer.
this is a strong point..fewer and fewer filipinas actually ask directly for money..if it is LDR then a few pictures or stories about nanay in the hospital or how her house has leaks or the last typhoon removed most of her house...no food to eat..they are very very smart about how this affects people from the western world..the other common one is using the exchange strategy .."i just need a small amount $100" that is a pretty small amount in the west (i would spend that on a good dinner) but it is P5000 here and is equivalent to 10 days pay outside Manila ..or a months pay in the province..imagine if you asked someone for a months pay in the west ..just need you to send me $5000+ ..i have now lived here for 18 months i see this and once you learn how the economy works here those stories no longer work... Side note I LOVE JEEPNEYS!!!
Young and skinny? Some are. However, there are plenty of Filipinas who eat way too much Jollibee and junk food in general. They don't work out, and sooner or later, they end up losing their beauty faster than they should have.
I hate Jeepneys, Jollibee and Filipino Food. I am going to be so angry in the PH 😅😅 But I find the people to be very warm with a big heart. There is a Filipino man that is looking after a random stranger broke expat right now that got dumped from the hospital where he worked because his family overseas would no longer pay for his care. This Filipino man who already is very poor took this stranger expat home to look after him. I am not saying who it is but if you look you can find him in Valencia.
Never date a lady that doesn’t have a high school education or a decent job no matter how pretty she is if she lives with her parents at 30 years old look out Friend like hell she’s going to use you like an ATM
Agreeable? I can agree with a lot when it comes to Filipinos, but agreeableness is certainly one of their biggest weaknesses. Especially when you consider their insane jealousy and the insane over the to pride they possess.
If she never asks you for money that she is the one who is going to cost you the most money)) The two strategies with regard to women which are still unbeaten are> .) Short-time .) Hit & run
I know countless couples married for decades. Some guys and some women are not suited for marriage and this scenario is not immune to incompatible matches either.
@@bobbyjames4300 Well, I know it’s changed. You’re right. However, I still see Filipina women and some from good families in the provinces that are still formed in the old pattern and family oriented. Our son is married to a traditional Filipina for 4 years already. They seem really good together. I do understand the situation out there. However, there still are traditional women in the Philippines. Like I said, my son is no exception but I will say that I do see the provincial girl stereotype as having some validity. You can still find college educated women in the provinces also and thats a good formula if you can find it. Also a mid thirties Filipina can be great (pre TikTok).
How serious could it possibly be if she doesn't call you.. No private communication makes it hard to take a situation serious. They have a scam with camaras where they threaten to share pictures of you to people on facebook. I didn't think that was a problem but god only knows what someone who is trying to get leverage over you and your money will try to do,
give a flilipina 300php for taxi ride.....or less if she takes jeepney rides home......not tooo much and not too little......you can sometimes get lucky just buying them Mcdonalds to eat......its that easy sometimes.....lunch , see a movie....things many filipinas can not offord to buy or do
2 ways to look at "clingy". She's smothering you or she's devoted to you. I had a talk early on with my fiancee about "holding me too close". Now she understands, and knows there needs to be space even while she is still devoted to me as I am to her. Filipina are wonderful but you need to communicate.
Are you seriously advocating for a man dating a Filipina who has a boyfriend or who may even be married? Just trying to upgrade? Who can blame her? Guys, never date a woman like this. She has no principles or morality… so you will just be setting yourself for failure.
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Amazing professionalism. Absolutely without a doubt the best advice anywhere on the Internet. Thank you so much.
I've dated a few Filipinas in my time. You have to establish the ground rules from the beginning. I'm 6'2" (188cm) and don't like riding in Jeepneys. I prefer to get a trike or taxi. Still, a trike is uncomfortable for me as my head bangs on the roof. Jeepneys and trikes are not designed for tall, western men.
Dating: It's different dating Filipinas. They are shy and difficult to read. Novices will end up paying for a family outing or for several of her friends. Filipinas are addicted to their phones and want to take pics of everything. I oblige, but I kindly ask them to put their phone away. If not, I pay the bill and walk away. You will soon understand only one in ten Filipinas are worth pursuing. Similar to dating in the West.
Be careful, as a one night stand may quickly develop into her family knocking on your bedroom door. Tread with care.
Don't get me wrong, if you find the right Filipina, she will change your life. They tap into your masculine energy and make you a better man.
My suggestion is to not have too many expectations, relax, and enjoy the attention you will receive. It's great!
Great video. You give great advice and I love the use of your metaphor. Kudos to you!
I love the Jeepney strategy!!😅
Love the analogy “ride the Jeepney” very apt 🙌🙌🙌
Thankyou❤️❤️❤️see you in Cebu and Leyte in feb
good advice
I always look forward to your videos. Thank you!
Southern California.
Great tips!
It really is that easy to date there. For any guy fat, old, weird, bald, doesn’t matter. Don’t pick the first one and stay single for a 6-months to a year at least! Don’t ever give money for any reason besides pay for food and 100 pesos for trike money. She asks for money beyond that block her immediately.
Any tips on how and where to find/meet them?
I gifted my Filipino friend 100k pesos for Xmas. We are not dating, but have been friends for years and I get along well with her family
@@ruslanhrybchad6832 If you want someone who is not looking for your money I hear visit the more expansive coffee shops. I figure to check out the churches.
Many thanks for this video!
Jeepney, what an incredibly accurate metaphor for dating in the Philippines and many other SEA countries.
Nice video Ellie! You're so very expressive! Are you an aspiring actress?
Great video, Ellie! 💯🎉
A Filipina who is a good match really is a dream wife. The problem is that they are located on the other side of the world. I got lucky and met my wife in the US and frankly, its not that much different than an American girl for me except, I felt she was trust worthy and very capable as we traditional wife who is an anchor in the family. I know she was a better first time mother also, as she seemed to automatically know how to raise children. So, yes, they are very attractive, fun and excellent wives and moms. They are feminine, dress classy and a very good companion and partner in life, they way things used to be, many years ago.
Oh I wish I saw this video before I got involved with a couple of Filipinas, I've never gave them a large gift like a house or scooter but a little here and a little there tends to add up to A Lot of money! I was too trusting never acknowledge the 'signs' 😥
Thanks
Not all Filipina's are skinny. Jolly Bee's and other food places like that is changing it. In 20 more years it will look more like the U.S..
😂
Just ask yourself if you would ever offer someone you never met a picture of your family member in a hospital. Or screenshots of grab rides to and from a hospital. This is the long con. They won't ask you outright but they will pull your heart strings hoping you will offer.
this is a strong point..fewer and fewer filipinas actually ask directly for money..if it is LDR then a few pictures or stories about nanay in the hospital or how her house has leaks or the last typhoon removed most of her house...no food to eat..they are very very smart about how this affects people from the western world..the other common one is using the exchange strategy .."i just need a small amount $100" that is a pretty small amount in the west (i would spend that on a good dinner) but it is P5000 here and is equivalent to 10 days pay outside Manila ..or a months pay in the province..imagine if you asked someone for a months pay in the west ..just need you to send me $5000+ ..i have now lived here for 18 months i see this and once you learn how the economy works here those stories no longer work...
Side note I LOVE JEEPNEYS!!!
13.30 "when my grandma was grumbled" 😂😂😂
Thanks! Jollibee's, because i'm too old to come to the Philippines :)
Thanks so much! We're ordering Jollibee this Friday from you!
Is it even possible to date women without going crazy?
To set up 2 dates at the same evening works really great i did this but the date 1 worked so well i stayed with her so 2nd girl was cancelled.
Young and skinny? Some are. However, there are plenty of Filipinas who eat way too much Jollibee and junk food in general. They don't work out, and sooner or later, they end up losing their beauty faster than they should have.
Holy crow! Your teeth look great compared to a year ago. Compliments to your orthodontist.
I hate Jeepneys, Jollibee and Filipino Food. I am going to be so angry in the PH 😅😅
But I find the people to be very warm with a big heart. There is a Filipino man that is looking after a random stranger broke expat right now that got dumped from the hospital where he worked because his family overseas would no longer pay for his care. This Filipino man who already is very poor took this stranger expat home to look after him. I am not saying who it is but if you look you can find him in Valencia.
How much does it cost to ride Ellie's jeepney?
just remember, you ride the jeepney from the back, hold with both hands or you you might slip.
I have never found it hard to date Filipinas. They are pretty outgoing and even tempered, just don't piss them off to get tampo
Never date a lady that doesn’t have a high school education or a decent job no matter how pretty she is if she lives with her parents at 30 years old look out Friend like hell she’s going to use you like an ATM
You are a sweet girl ❤
Agreeable?
I can agree with a lot when it comes to Filipinos, but agreeableness is certainly one of their biggest weaknesses. Especially when you consider their insane jealousy and the insane over the to pride they possess.
If she never asks you for money that she is the one who is going to cost you the most money))
The two strategies with regard to women which are still unbeaten are>
.) Short-time
.) Hit & run
It’s all temporary wives .
every wife is a temporary in the modern world, except few very religious societies like arab countries etc
I know countless couples married for decades. Some guys and some women are not suited for marriage and this scenario is not immune to incompatible matches either.
@@MG77740 in the past
@@bobbyjames4300 Well, I know it’s changed. You’re right. However, I still see Filipina women and some from good families in the provinces that are still formed in the old pattern and family oriented. Our son is married to a traditional Filipina for 4 years already. They seem really good together.
I do understand the situation out there. However, there still are traditional women in the Philippines. Like I said, my son is no exception but I will say that I do see the provincial girl stereotype as having some validity. You can still find college educated women in the provinces also and thats a good formula if you can find it. Also a mid thirties Filipina can be great (pre TikTok).
How serious could it possibly be if she doesn't call you.. No private communication makes it hard to take a situation serious. They have a scam with camaras where they threaten to share pictures of you to people on facebook. I didn't think that was a problem but god only knows what someone who is trying to get leverage over you and your money will try to do,
Do they ask for money after the 1st date?
all wahmen are w *ores. its not an insult. its a fact.
give a flilipina 300php for taxi ride.....or less if she takes jeepney rides home......not tooo much and not too little......you can sometimes get lucky just buying them Mcdonalds to eat......its that easy sometimes.....lunch , see a movie....things many filipinas can not offord to buy or do
Sometimes before the first date
it depends.. if they asked about your money block them as easy as that.. friendly advice from a filipina
lmao you look exactly like one girl I know, and she's thai :))) i'll probably even subscribe not for content but mostly for the face 555
💯❤️💯
What if she is very clingy ?
@wld-ph she wouldn't let almost anyone come without five feet of me unless she was right there attached to my hip 🤣
@@jayperez955They know you are the prize 😊
2 ways to look at "clingy". She's smothering you or she's devoted to you. I had a talk early on with my fiancee about "holding me too close". Now she understands, and knows there needs to be space even while she is still devoted to me as I am to her. Filipina are wonderful but you need to communicate.
jeep-knee means "a bus"
More than 10 minutes late for a date, I have left and she can date herself
3 day rule guys.
If she is seeing you to see if you are a better option, she will keep looking for the better option when you think got her, move on!
Great wives and girlfriends...= HAS THE MOST DATING WARNINGS OF ANY OTHER COUNTRIES 🤣🤣🤣🤣girl bye 👋
just drain me why are you talking hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
She’s not talking about jeepneys!
Time is money and everything. Who have time to waste my time l can’t wait no way if she is gorgeous in the world.
Are you married?
Filipinas are not that skinny in general
how long have you been in the PI? what part of PI do you find that? my area about 90% are skinny..
Must be in the big cities. A lot are still thin but the western diet is in the cities, I think. For others its still, fish, chicken and rice.
@@MickeyMouseParkMindanao Iligan city had lots of fat girls 😮😊😮😊
All the drinks are loaded with sugar.
Filipina always late ha ha ha, that’s hilarious. If the date is for 1:00 pm I’ll wait until 1:01 pm, if she’s not there, I’m gone….
Just ride the carousel. Have fun and sow your seed far and wide
Are you seriously advocating for a man dating a Filipina who has a boyfriend or who may even be married? Just trying to upgrade? Who can blame her? Guys, never date a woman like this. She has no principles or morality… so you will just be setting yourself for failure.
I feel sorry for these girls.
Why?
Any woman with a scammer mentality or Western mentality should not be pitied. They should be avoided. Signed: RED BLACK Expat (Philippines) 🇵🇭