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The covert narcissist part is universal. I've experienced that here, to the absolute letter of your description. Funny thing is, they're usually among the least likely to have much to be narcissistic about. I think it starts with compensating, due to their own inability to face their own problems. Just my 2 cents, good video.
Excellent video. You should consider writing this as a book. I have been watching Philippine videos and this is the best complete advice in video. Thanks for taking the time to put this masterpiece together.
Listening to these girls talk make me not want to go to the Philippines and find a girlfriend. Whole thing sounds exhausting and manipulative and kind of like what we're dealing with here but potentially cheaper cuz everything's cheaper even the women I guess
I don't like rules, but boundaries are good, they are set by love, trust and respect. People who, lie, cheat, steal, have pride, ego and jealousy, they need rules. Then you have to enforce them.
"Filipinas love babies, so go ahead and put a bun in her oven." 4:50 This advice is problematic. It suggests that getting her pregnant is like giving her a cute gift. But having a child isn’t like that. Becoming a mother can limit her opportunities for work and education, affect her well-being, and bring ongoing financial and emotional challenges. Reyne, in her video about '12 ways to be a dumb boyfriend,' pointed out that getting her pregnant right away is a sure way to mess things up. Bringing a child into the world should only happen when both partners are fully committed to each other, and ready to support that child together in the long run. Casually gifting her with a child can lead to serious consequences. The Philippines already has a significant number of single mothers. Let’s not encourage people to make that issue worse.
This advice is gold to men! Listen carefully. She is openly telling men that there is NOTHING a women says that is useful to a man for making decisions. Watch only what she does, NEVER what she says.
I used to work with this nationality. To be honest, they are usually boastful, spend beyond their means, wear branded clothes but always borrow money, are stingy with debts. The living conditions, some families are poor, have to struggle to find a way to go abroad. Their lives are harder than in Thailand. You can't tell if they are Thai or Filipino from their appearance, but their personalities are different.
Top video, keep up the good work. Ah by the way you have a lovely smile. It would be nice if you untie your hair I am pretty sure you have nice long black hair.
As long as she does not take it personal if the foriegners have other seperate sites . It's a 2 way street , what's good for the goose is good for the gander."
I have a question about the house. If I can afford to build her family a home separate from mine. Is that truly a problem? I understand that I will always be the provider for her family. I am okay with that. It is within my means to do that. I guess my ultimate question is what is the downside of building the family home separate from mine?
Only do that if you're married to the Filipina in the Philippines. And, be prepared for a lot of expenses. The downside is that you won't own anything in the Philippines, so once they get the house built they might keep asking you for more money and then cast you aside. It's tricky. Only do it if you have spent a lot of time with her and you know her family well. At least more than a year and preferably several years. It's a case by case basis. If the family has jobs and is working, then that's great. If the family isn't doing anything then you're setting yourself up for failure. So be smart and go slow. If it's a good idea today, it'll be a good idea in a year.
We know this because that's how most Filipinas chat with guys. So she is itching to find out if you're talking with other Filipinas. You should update your password and keep your account private. If she wants to look, then you can show her, but she should not be hacking your account. That's a recipe for disaster.
Second question, I can no longer have children due to a vasectomy. Will that be a problem? I am not looking to find a 20-year-old. I am 53, so to me even a 39-year-old seems Young
Never ask a filipina if she has a boyfriend ? I think you should. Most girls will up grade. If a local girl has a ordinary pinoy boyfriend, she's going to dump him for a foreigner. So, you should ask.
If one is not supposed to ask a filipinas if she is single or have a boyfriend, then how does a man wanting to know her for date her is going to know if she is seeing others ? Some western men would like to know before dating a filipina so they would not waste their time and money . If they going to lie anyway .
Only-Chads are loved anywhere in the world. If a man has to Passport, he's not a Chad only a Beta-Buxs. If a Beta, do what the Chads can do and have the DINK (dual income no kids) relationship arrangement. For Betas, this means money. But, it's less expensive and just as much about love (none). In other words, pay as you go no advance costs.
The more I listen to these channels, it seems the only thing appealing about the Philippines is a lower cost of living. As far as the women go, you're just trading in the problems with western women for problems with Filippina women. They're all a pain in the ass.
And you love her tight young 🐱 Your point? Imagine if you had a rich girlfriend and she said. You love my $ that buys us trips and a house and cars Realize how awkward that would be when she has no control over that and who doesn’t wan to live a good life… These are really shallow comments with literally zero substance.
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The covert narcissist part is universal. I've experienced that here, to the absolute letter of your description. Funny thing is, they're usually among the least likely to have much to be narcissistic about. I think it starts with compensating, due to their own inability to face their own problems. Just my 2 cents, good video.
She is a genius, with wonderful advice.
Smart girl is right, very astute and your delivery is adorable……”do you have a boyfriend?”
Excellent video. You should consider writing this as a book. I have been watching Philippine videos and this is the best complete advice in video. Thanks for taking the time to put this masterpiece together.
wow, this is an amazing, well done video !!
Thank you very much!
Love your vblog.Well done.✅
Beautiful dress and necklace.Is this some traditional dress?Keep up with great content.Appreciate it and a new sub.👍
Listening to these girls talk make me not want to go to the Philippines and find a girlfriend. Whole thing sounds exhausting and manipulative and kind of like what we're dealing with here but potentially cheaper cuz everything's cheaper even the women I guess
I don't like rules, but boundaries are good, they are set by love, trust and respect.
People who, lie, cheat, steal, have pride, ego and jealousy, they need rules.
Then you have to enforce them.
Excellent video, thanks for sharing. Love your wonderful channel. Maybe someday ill meet a nice responsible authentic Pinay 🇵🇭
Not many left. Try to find a girl without a phone.
She's the only authentic person.
A lot of valuable good info in this video
"Filipinas love babies, so go ahead and put a bun in her oven." 4:50
This advice is problematic. It suggests that getting her pregnant is like giving her a cute gift. But having a child isn’t like that.
Becoming a mother can limit her opportunities for work and education, affect her well-being, and bring ongoing financial and emotional challenges.
Reyne, in her video about '12 ways to be a dumb boyfriend,' pointed out that getting her pregnant right away is a sure way to mess things up.
Bringing a child into the world should only happen when both partners are fully committed to each other, and ready to support that child together in the long run. Casually gifting her with a child can lead to serious consequences. The Philippines already has a significant number of single mothers. Let’s not encourage people to make that issue worse.
This advice is gold to men! Listen carefully. She is openly telling men that there is NOTHING a women says that is useful to a man for making decisions. Watch only what she does, NEVER what she says.
@@ThomasDavis-e4g I have only just seen your reply. Thanks for that; it's a valid, thought-provoking point!
Now this is a good comprehensive list!
This is the best video out there
I like the way you say things , greetings from Arizona USA
My first question to my Filipina girlfriend was... What kind of panties do you wear? Absolute truth and now 4 years later, still together. 🥰🥰🥰
Best advice i’ve heard ❤
One a bigger things I got out of what she said is pay attention to her actions not her word so much..
For me, if she is picking fights, she will soon be single.
I used to work with this nationality. To be honest, they are usually boastful, spend beyond their means, wear branded clothes but always borrow money, are stingy with debts. The living conditions, some families are poor, have to struggle to find a way to go abroad. Their lives are harder than in Thailand. You can't tell if they are Thai or Filipino from their appearance, but their personalities are different.
Top video, keep up the good work.
Ah by the way you have a lovely smile.
It would be nice if you untie your hair I am pretty sure you have nice long black hair.
I guess she's maried to an expat too! so dont be excited😂😂😂😂
Beautiful and charming young lady in a wonderful national dress ❤️🌹🇸🇽!
The national dress is Filipiniana.
Shows how much you know.
As long as she does not take it personal if the foriegners have other seperate sites . It's a 2 way street , what's good for the goose is good for the gander."
Where is your dress style from? It reminds me of traditional Thai clothes..
Kamusta? I'm coming to beautiful Philippines na! Can we shoot a shot? Huhuhu 😂
I have a question about the house. If I can afford to build her family a home separate from mine. Is that truly a problem? I understand that I will always be the provider for her family. I am okay with that. It is within my means to do that.
I guess my ultimate question is what is the downside of building the family home separate from mine?
Only do that if you're married to the Filipina in the Philippines. And, be prepared for a lot of expenses. The downside is that you won't own anything in the Philippines, so once they get the house built they might keep asking you for more money and then cast you aside. It's tricky. Only do it if you have spent a lot of time with her and you know her family well. At least more than a year and preferably several years. It's a case by case basis. If the family has jobs and is working, then that's great. If the family isn't doing anything then you're setting yourself up for failure. So be smart and go slow. If it's a good idea today, it'll be a good idea in a year.
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Off Topic Question: Why and how does my filipina GF hack my facebook account to spy on me when we are in a live together committed relationship?
We know this because that's how most Filipinas chat with guys. So she is itching to find out if you're talking with other Filipinas. You should update your password and keep your account private. If she wants to look, then you can show her, but she should not be hacking your account. That's a recipe for disaster.
Filipino's are a jealous and suspicious people. It's just the way they are.
Second question, I can no longer have children due to a vasectomy. Will that be a problem? I am not looking to find a 20-year-old. I am 53, so to me even a 39-year-old seems Young
Not a problem at all. There are many single mothers here.
Never ask a filipina if she has a boyfriend ?
I think you should. Most girls will up grade.
If a local girl has a ordinary pinoy boyfriend, she's going to dump him for a foreigner.
So, you should ask.
Yes, most girls will upgrade, so why ask. You probably won't get an honest answer anyway. Just proceed as if she is single until proven differently.
Dont come it s up to you😮Who is cheaper your women or ours
If one is not supposed to ask a filipinas if she is single or have a boyfriend, then how does a man wanting to know her for date her is going to know if she is seeing others ? Some western men would like to know before dating a filipina so they would not waste their time and money . If they going to lie anyway .
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Only-Chads are loved anywhere in the world. If a man has to Passport, he's not a Chad only a Beta-Buxs. If a Beta, do what the Chads can do and have the DINK (dual income no kids) relationship arrangement. For Betas, this means money. But, it's less expensive and just as much about love (none). In other words, pay as you go no advance costs.
The more I listen to these channels, it seems the only thing appealing about the Philippines is a lower cost of living. As far as the women go, you're just trading in the problems with western women for problems with Filippina women. They're all a pain in the ass.
Maybe I don't need to meet a Filipino woman.
It's difficult and takes time. Took me ten years and about $60,000 bucks.
Oh yes you do ;-)
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Wow this is very complex, I'm a combat vet, I have found a therapy that helps me to gain some relief. I would always try to understand why my ex wife
They (filipinas) love your wallet. 😂
And you love her tight young 🐱
Your point?
Imagine if you had a rich girlfriend and she said. You love my $ that buys us trips and a house and cars
Realize how awkward that would be when she has no control over that and who doesn’t wan to live a good life…
These are really shallow comments with literally zero substance.
What's wrong with Corny jokes?
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