Appreciate this ken, you have no idea. Just this week my boss laid off my coworker and gave me a month to find a new job because he said he doesn’t like how I work. I love my job I love what I do and in a way im glad im getting laid off because the environment was so toxic. Bad management, he’s always late and his son hardly shows up to work. Boss always wants to find a small error to chew me out even when it wasn’t my fault. Kept telling me im retarded im an F**** s*** head and all sorts of vulgarity. But thanks to this show and your colleagues I thank you because i feel relaxed knowing I can do more somewhere else.
Great advice. A lot of videos about leaving a job only talk about if the job is objectively negative (e.g. bad boss, bad coworkers, etc). Not many talk about what to do if the job was once perfect but you have now outgrown it and are "hitting the lid".
That's what it is. At least for me. It's always great in the beginning then you just get tired. I don't think there's a 9-5 in the world that I want to do for a long time. You have to do things and feel what makes you happy or less stressful. Remember the feeling you had when you did it. Coworkers show there true colors over a period of time and you will notice it. No matter how nice they are to you. It's all a act in my opinion.
I have only been in my job 3 months and I hate it. Left a toxic company that I had worked at for 6 years thinking this new role would be perfect but it’s been really tough people are nice and it’s laid back but the job itself is tough and I absolutely hate it
I realized I can't work at a job for years and years and not get fed up with it. That's just how I'm wired. I worked at a restaurant for 2 years. It was cool but you just get burnt out. You get tired and you just be ready to leave. I worked as a temp on and off for 3 years after COVID. It was cool because I was moving a lot. I didn't really mind it. Leaving every 6 months is good for my mental. Staying at a place for a long time has never been good for me. Stack up enough money and do something better
School Avoidance is legit. The public school experiment for the last 150 years has failed. If the child refuses public school, maybe it's because they see something the parents are ignorant of. Sounds like some homeschooling might be helpful. 🤔
The reason they are avoiding school could be because they are being bullied or tormented as I was. Nobody did anything. I don’t necessarily think I’m better than they are because I went to school. And how “wuss” to not read the comments.
You're not quitting being a working, productive human being. You're moving on from an employer or job/career. It's not the middle of a bball game you're getting blown out in. It's ideal. We have one shot at life.
I appreciate every video and you helping the sheep and your time and heart and passion you give us . Wondering if you can cover a topic only if lead by Holy Spirit how to deal with difficult parents of patients when u try your hardest and still they r not happy . It’s lately happening more and more I am a RN for almost 17 years and feel discouraged . Had a event just yesterday and I self examined myself I tried my best they Where difficult nothing made it ok. The patient John Do was not at risk of any distress . So wondering how do we handle people that nothing makes it ok they just want to make your time with them hell
Wow this was interesting to watch. So UK university bachelor degrees are more expensive than USA ones. In the UK it's £9k per year for 3 year so £27k for living and accommodation costs.
This is wrong. In the UK, tuition costs alone are £9,500 per year, PLUS costs of accommodation, which is usually another £150-£200 per week depending on your town/city of choice
In some ways, I am. I left a toxic environment and took a job that involved a lot of travel to different environments. I found it was a range. Long story short, I'm always glad I left the toxic environment and fight to never be in a place similar. The problem is finding the environment I like and belong to.
Not a difficult answer. Unless you are independently wealthy, or at least have a source for free food and shelter, or have another job lined up, no, you should not quit your job!
Please STOP telling people to blindly go into tech. This is not necessarily a good idea. I listened to this conventional advice and am completely miserable. It is my responsibility, of course, to change this. But DO NOT ASSUME that all tech jobs are good and/or that they pay well. I am paid very well but am stretched thin, overworked, and under constant pressure. People, the grass is not always greener. I also question the legitimacy of much of the advice on this TH-cam channel. It seems that it's completely driven by sponsors. There is potentially an agenda here that I do not trust. It is also completely wrong to assume that a bootcamp will prepare you for a job that pays well. It is experience here that matters to hiring managers.
My nephew is in the same boat and the guy is now 20. It is sad. And the parents still baby him to this day. I would be surprised if the guy could tie his own shoes. ridiculous! Probably all because of "no more tough love" bullsh*t. The guy will never leave the house now - ever.
No, you are losing me here now that you’re going on about school avoidance. My partner is a therapist and you are uneducated on these issues and spouting your thoughts for all to hear.
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Appreciate this ken, you have no idea. Just this week my boss laid off my coworker and gave me a month to find a new job because he said he doesn’t like how I work. I love my job I love what I do and in a way im glad im getting laid off because the environment was so toxic. Bad management, he’s always late and his son hardly shows up to work. Boss always wants to find a small error to chew me out even when it wasn’t my fault. Kept telling me im retarded im an F**** s*** head and all sorts of vulgarity. But thanks to this show and your colleagues I thank you because i feel relaxed knowing I can do more somewhere else.
Wow, glad you got out of there.
Great advice. A lot of videos about leaving a job only talk about if the job is objectively negative (e.g. bad boss, bad coworkers, etc). Not many talk about what to do if the job was once perfect but you have now outgrown it and are "hitting the lid".
That's what it is. At least for me. It's always great in the beginning then you just get tired. I don't think there's a 9-5 in the world that I want to do for a long time. You have to do things and feel what makes you happy or less stressful. Remember the feeling you had when you did it. Coworkers show there true colors over a period of time and you will notice it. No matter how nice they are to you. It's all a act in my opinion.
Additionally, 4th Why -> you want to quit because you know the is something else out there in the world for you… but not sure what it is
I have only been in my job 3 months and I hate it. Left a toxic company that I had worked at for 6 years thinking this new role would be perfect but it’s been really tough people are nice and it’s laid back but the job itself is tough and I absolutely hate it
I realized I can't work at a job for years and years and not get fed up with it. That's just how I'm wired. I worked at a restaurant for 2 years. It was cool but you just get burnt out. You get tired and you just be ready to leave. I worked as a temp on and off for 3 years after COVID. It was cool because I was moving a lot. I didn't really mind it. Leaving every 6 months is good for my mental. Staying at a place for a long time has never been good for me. Stack up enough money and do something better
School Avoidance is legit. The public school experiment for the last 150 years has failed. If the child refuses public school, maybe it's because they see something the parents are ignorant of. Sounds like some homeschooling might be helpful. 🤔
Love your comment about finishing well.
The reason they are avoiding school could be because they are being bullied or tormented as I was. Nobody did anything. I don’t necessarily think I’m better than they are because I went to school. And how “wuss” to not read the comments.
So much this!
How do you feel connected to any employment?
School avoidance (whether a "condition" or not) is a reality for educators. Students act out to avoid work at school. It is ridiculous.
I just re-watched this episode and it still holds true. The amount of hoops in place for educators as far as student interactions go is tough.
Ken’s fired up today…love it!
You're not quitting being a working, productive human being. You're moving on from an employer or job/career. It's not the middle of a bball game you're getting blown out in. It's ideal. We have one shot at life.
I appreciate every video and you helping the sheep and your time and heart and passion you give us . Wondering if you can cover a topic only if lead by Holy Spirit how to deal with difficult parents of patients when u try your hardest and still they r not happy . It’s lately happening more and more I am a RN for almost 17 years and feel discouraged . Had a event just yesterday and I self examined myself I tried my best they Where difficult nothing made it ok. The patient John Do was not at risk of any distress . So wondering how do we handle people that nothing makes it ok they just want to make your time with them hell
What about the needed category of legitimate Medical Condition, (Medically Diagnosed) -- Needs to be added to your list.
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Wow this was interesting to watch. So UK university bachelor degrees are more expensive than USA ones. In the UK it's £9k per year for 3 year so £27k for living and accommodation costs.
I thought the numbers he was quoting numbers per YEAR. Not for the whole time.
@@marindawhitcomb948 Ooh per year? I'm not sure hopefully he comments or a team member
This is wrong.
In the UK, tuition costs alone are £9,500 per year, PLUS costs of accommodation, which is usually another £150-£200 per week depending on your town/city of choice
i hate when the title says 8 minutes but the whole vides is 46 min.
I thought that was strange too lol
Is anyone listening to this in a better place now? I’m losing hope in knowing there’s a non-toxic environment for me out there to work in.
In some ways, I am. I left a toxic environment and took a job that involved a lot of travel to different environments. I found it was a range. Long story short, I'm always glad I left the toxic environment and fight to never be in a place similar. The problem is finding the environment I like and belong to.
I think it’s how you define toxicity.
I really dont need passion in my job, but i do need to pay my bills.
I quit because I’ve had 3 bosses in less than 2 years and the job gets worse not better
They also won’t let me move up so I didn’t even give them 2 weeks and I quit yesterday
Not a difficult answer. Unless you are independently wealthy, or at least have a source for free food and shelter, or have another job lined up, no, you should not quit your job!
How many school shootings were there in your day, Ken? Did you have to do active shooter drills?
There’s a correlation to when violence at schools increased and they ‘Dems’ took prayer out of schools.
Nuclear bomb drills were common when I was growing up. I think that would be scarier.
Boat up to the dock? In that case, I'll be at the place I resent for the rest of my life.
Please STOP telling people to blindly go into tech. This is not necessarily a good idea. I listened to this conventional advice and am completely miserable. It is my responsibility, of course, to change this. But DO NOT ASSUME that all tech jobs are good and/or that they pay well. I am paid very well but am stretched thin, overworked, and under constant pressure. People, the grass is not always greener. I also question the legitimacy of much of the advice on this TH-cam channel. It seems that it's completely driven by sponsors. There is potentially an agenda here that I do not trust. It is also completely wrong to assume that a bootcamp will prepare you for a job that pays well. It is experience here that matters to hiring managers.
My nephew is in the same boat and the guy is now 20. It is sad. And the parents still baby him to this day. I would be surprised if the guy could tie his own shoes. ridiculous! Probably all because of "no more tough love" bullsh*t. The guy will never leave the house now - ever.
No, you are losing me here now that you’re going on about school avoidance. My partner is a therapist and you are uneducated on these issues and spouting your thoughts for all to hear.