To all the avoidants. I’m sorry, but when you pull away. We have to let you go for good. It hurts too much to have you come and go as you please, breadcrumb, and push as away when things get too close. The best thing we can do is create boundaries and space and influence you to get your healing. You are all amazing people and we want you to be able to enjoy love and not feel trapped by it. It sucks. I have to let go of the girl I absolutely love with all my heart because she can’t let her fears not win… :( I love her but I have to keep her away from me and let her go on her own journey, it’s been too harmful to me.
This video is 2 years old. But damn, you are gifted at this. I’m totally vibing with your awareness. You are so young but very wise. Blessings and gratitude. X
Thank you for this amazing video! Trying to let go of my avoidant partner and what you said really helped me. I really love him but it‘s too hurtful to keep on fighting alone and being pushed away everytime I feel it‘s going good. Keep on inspiring others to be the best version of themselves! :)
Ryan, thank you so much for your post on this topic! I'd like to add a little context on my own situation.. It has been over a year since I made the difficult decision to let go of a future with this person who I was with for the better part of four years. Have spent the time since focusing on self, and have finally reached a point where I feel I am thankfully ready to open up again to new people. My follow up question is this; Why do we find ourselves so attracted to Avoidant individuals? I feel in some way I view this type as a kind of puzzle to solve, frustrating yet totally engaging at the same time. Believing that, after all the patience, love, and effort there will be some sort of reward, a prize if you will that we can call dedication. Could we even consider this a valid pursuit? Any tips on choosing a partner for a fulfilling relationship? Thank you again, your advice is invaluable!
To all the avoidants. I’m sorry, but when you pull away. We have to let you go for good. It hurts too much to have you come and go as you please, breadcrumb, and push as away when things get too close. The best thing we can do is create boundaries and space and influence you to get your healing. You are all amazing people and we want you to be able to enjoy love and not feel trapped by it. It sucks. I have to let go of the girl I absolutely love with all my heart because she can’t let her fears not win… :( I love her but I have to keep her away from me and let her go on her own journey, it’s been too harmful to me.
I hear you.
Sometimes the best thing to do is to simply let go.
This video is 2 years old. But damn, you are gifted at this. I’m totally vibing with your awareness. You are so young but very wise. Blessings and gratitude. X
Mmm I just broke up with my Dismissive Avoidant partner last night. It was pretty gut wrenching.
Thank you for this amazing video! Trying to let go of my avoidant partner and what you said really helped me. I really love him but it‘s too hurtful to keep on fighting alone and being pushed away everytime I feel it‘s going good.
Keep on inspiring others to be the best version of themselves! :)
Ryan, thank you so much for your post on this topic! I'd like to add a little context on my own situation.. It has been over a year since I made the difficult decision to let go of a future with this person who I was with for the better part of four years. Have spent the time since focusing on self, and have finally reached a point where I feel I am thankfully ready to open up again to new people. My follow up question is this; Why do we find ourselves so attracted to Avoidant individuals? I feel in some way I view this type as a kind of puzzle to solve, frustrating yet totally engaging at the same time. Believing that, after all the patience, love, and effort there will be some sort of reward, a prize if you will that we can call dedication.
Could we even consider this a valid pursuit? Any tips on choosing a partner for a fulfilling relationship?
Thank you again, your advice is invaluable!
I love your content. It’s very helpful. And what a beautiful cat! Precious!!
Thank you so much for that❤
I feel so seen and understood by this video.
Wishing you the best
I just found your channel. Thank you for you. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, your vulnerability. I really appreciate you ❤
Thank you so much. You and Anastasia are beautiful! ❤
I was an avoidance partner. 1. GAY 2. Realizing they have been abusive.
They said I was a pile of garbage when I told them I wanted to go.
Your kitty is GORGEOUS!! 😍😍
Awww your cat is so cute!! 🥰
I really appreciate your videos, thanks for sharing this info with us! 👍💕💕
I really enjoy your videos, thank you for being a beautiful person
You look great ! Good to see you
Absolutely amazing!
Hi Anastasia!!
Hello
Your hair looks good! Also, I am the avoidant partner haha
How can I get to your other channel? I searched for the name in the search bar and nothing came up.
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Finally I caught you.
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