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chin up, vitamin C and coke might help? from a retired NYC rocker. sushi and fresh fruit, lay off the red meat. Traditional Medicinals Throat Coat Tea. Elderberry + B12. Lots of water. Best Wishes.
One the hazards of self funding a tour is living on the edge of bankruptcy!! Top it all off with the stressors or running it all and then getting sick is a true test! Add recording it, editing it and uploading it and has to be a really big load to carry!! Your efforts really are appreciated Mary. Thank you for doing what you do in every aspect. ❤
JohnnyTorontoEh sums it up exactly! Please do take care of yourself! It would be great if you could do some dates on the other side of the "Pond" but, with all the work you have to do so far, it would seem an even bigger stressful situation to do that.
Mary this series is just brilliant. The best thing you've ever produced and you've produced incredible content. Your skills as a storyteller, artist, videographer, producer, and of course PERFORMER are all PEAK.
Gosh! you hid your illness in Glasgow quite well. I was in the front row and you looked and sounded great. And afterwards talking to all of us, with me still acting like a fanboy, and posing for photos. ❤️
Mary... You are human... you are allowed to be tired, sick, and/or unfocused. I know you don't have a minute for yourself... but find a second - here and there - and breathe in the magic you create. Feel the music in you, and let it fill your heart and soul. You're good, you're great, you're awesome! The tour is the tour. You are Mary and so much bigger than any tour.
Mary, this series you created is so enticing. I sit and wait for each episode, and just marvel at your talent and charisma, and the band’s as well. Thank you for what you do!
Your intros to all these tour vids, where you give info about the town you're currently in, makes me realise how much I'd love to see a TV series which is you doing a travelog style show of going to a town and going in to the history of it, what it's famous for, it's environment, musical history notes and notable venues and their history etc which then ends up with a clip of a song or section of a song from a gig you performed in that town. it's likely a pipe dream but it's a show I'd watch as I've been learning about places from here but I want more and there is also something way too soothing about your voice.
You speak as it should not be stressful somehow because this is not a "big" tour. But it's a big tour if you haven't toured before. And if it were a "big" tour, there would be people who would be taking care of many of the little details that you are concerned that you are missing / overlooking - that would be their job, So being stressed was probably inevitable, and being sick was likewise probably going to happen. I'm glad that it didn't seem to knock you down (or at least that you got back up again...). Thank you for sharing these vlogs - it's so amazing to participate virtually, especially from across the pond, and to get to hear your thoughts on how things are going.
Hello Mary, I just wanted to send a quick note to encourage you to stay focused and keep giving your best during your tour. You've worked hard to get where you are, and your dedication shows in everything you do. However, don't forget that maintaining psychological balance is just as important as achieving your goals. Make sure to take moments for yourself, breathe deeply, and stay grounded. Rest and self-care are not signs of weakness, but essential elements to sustaining your strength and creativity. Remember, it's not just about reaching the finish line, but also about enjoying the journey along the way. Your mental well-being is the foundation that will support your success. Keep going, stay positive, and know that you have everything it takes to handle both the challenges and the triumphs ahead. Take care, and keep shining! Creating from Brazil!
So here’s the thing, when bands go on tour in the cosy world of studio management, you don’t have to do the VLOG, accounts, washing, packing, setup etc etc. Shoestring is the toughest way to do anything and this sure looks it. Well done for sticking with it. Those two hours mean so much for the people in the audience, so thanks for all the entertainment. ❤
Hope you can keep the illness at bay and overcome the overwhelming stress of all things touring. I gave it up a decade ago because my health was suffering all the time. Hats off to you.
So glad my in my limited touring experience I was just the guitarist and our drummer/ manager (who actually lived for that management part of the job) dealt with everything else. To be the musical leader, singer, guitarist, and manager…no wonder you are a bit overwhelmed! Just love those times on stage and live in those moments! All the best… 🎸
Mary no excuses. You are human. And a talented human at that. Your run down. Push forward and this “not wellness” becomes another story and memory when you and ur friends sit back in a pub and smile and laugh
This is one of the most honest videos I've seen by anyone on TH-cam. The depth of emotion was written all over your face and could be heard in your voice. Hang in there, you're doing good shows, I'm sure. Don't be so hard on yourself. Not that you need to listen to anything I say, you know what you're doing, but please have faith in yourself and your talent.
Mary you are so entitled to feel unwell once in a while. For all you do and all the ends of the candles burnt , for all the great music and mentoring...you also need to take time for yourself. Hugs
Such an honest reflective vlog. I don't know if statistics exist for this but my passion for mixing, recording, photography, being a Hobby musician has led me to befriending at least 20 individuals who were either Professional solo Artists or part of a Band for 30+ years but only one of the 20 now enjoys a decent Pension and a standard of living that allows them to enjoy retirement along with several high quality Guitars, home studio recording gear, cameras camcorders and want for nothing and that one person is the one who chose a career in I.T. Technical support instead of the performing arts. Sadly many of those I befriended have since died of poor lifestyle choices and rigors of playing and touring year in year out before reaching retirement age and those that have since reached that age have had to find part time jobs just to survive, never mind enjoy the good life. Making a living from Music that will also provide a decent standard of living once retirement age is something many may never think of until its too late. Hope your feeling much better soon and look after yourself.
Thank you Mary! You certainly live by the adage: It's not how you feel but what you do that counts. Yeah.... The show literally and figuratively, must go on. That's how life is for every living being and organism. The human spirit is INDOMITABLE, so we'll demonstrated in the classic GRAPES OF WRATH. YA, YA I know I digress.... abject apology! You are indeed a force to reckon with :beauty, brain and talent. You GO GIRL!!!!
LEEEEEDDDSSSSSS, the Brudenell club is a venue which I love to support and have done over the years and should be treasured as its helped so many local bands including the English teacher who name checked the owners in their speeches after winning the Mercury prize. Mary this series is amazing!!!!!
I wish you the Best of Luck on your remaining shows, Mary! It was nice you could get a replacement guitar shipped to you. It must be great to have bandmates you can rely on!
Thank you, Mary, for sharing the downsides of touring and the emotional and physical toll on you. Your focus on the performances will probably more than balance any problems arising from not focusing other things. That was the first time I have ever had a view of Leeds, although it seems everyone has a "Live at Leeds" album. Cheering for you for the rest of the tour to go smashingly well.
Once again, Mary, I'm really enjoying this series. :) We all know what it is like to not feel good. That's when the survivors carry on. Adversity strengthens or diminishes an individual. I hope the numbers don't wreck it for you and the rest of the group. :)
it's a big tour these are big challenges but they were challenges laid out before a considerable mind and talent. the smart money will always be on Mary Spender.
I was lucky enough to see you at The Brude and I didn't realise you were feeling under the weather, it certainly didn't show in the performance. I have to say the point about touring being gruelling really is so very true. I toured a lot in the late 80's and early 90's (inc playing Brudenell many times) and you do end up in that weird bubble separated from reality. Touring is not for everyone either. I admit I loved it, loved every second but it took its toll of some of my bandmates but we were too caught up in the music and of course the constant partying back then (no internet to distract us from the fun!) to notice. But we all survived. Just!
Mary, those challenges, whether overcome or just experienced, are what makes life so rich and full. The memories shared and the lessons learned are developmental. No matter; you sound great, look great, and you're living the dream. Head on, little sister! Thanks for sharing.
I empathize with your tour challenges. It is so hard to juggle artist and financial responsibilities. Don't be so hard on yourself. Wish I could say it will work itself out but it never does
I used to be touring back in the days I noticed that I often got a “tour downer” after 3-4 days, when the first excitement was gone 😊 Easy to catch a cold or some headache during this time. But it used to get better after some days. Healthy food and some contemplative walks also helped me. Thanks for this series and your "on tour" background videos! All the best wishes to you! ♥
I absolute love watching these tour videos. The honesty, the editing, the music...outstanding. I feel like we're there with you, Mary. You've really captured something quite special. Just terrific work.
Loved seeing you with the lovely Mark Hetherington as part of the team! We loved the gig. Thanks for your openness about just how hard you work. The Brudenell is a real treasure. Please come back again! Vlog has been fantastic. Ps no idea you had a cold. Album is a real treat but you are better live.
Great stuff. I would love to hear these songs with a male backing vocalist. Could build up more to a climax because sometimes they seem to peter out a bit.
As I stated previous times. 1. Sleep and Rest - No matter what! Especially since you are the focal point of this fantastic tour. 2. Trials and tribulation - No matter how much you plan and double check, things go south at most inopportune moments. FYI, that "substitute" guitar is very "sexy". Continue to have a memorable journey. And again, thank you for sharing. 🎸🎸🎸👍👍👍
Thank you Mary for being you. Sick or healthy, we love. You truly inspire me personally. Only because, once, we met. Forgive me for not pointing out when. I only wish to say; Thank you for helping me see the best in what we as humans offer this world, peace and joy through escape through music. I am inspired by the faith you show through your love in music. You truly shine in my eyes for the source above. Thank Mary❤
I hope you heal up very quickly. The stress is one of those things that can keep you ill longer. But you have got this Mary. I'm so happy you have your guitar sorted for now. Get rest as you can. Don't deny yourself a hood nights sleep. Things always work out in the end.
So, I've been watching your videos for about a year now. I think you're a great musician and song writer. But, I've been racking my brain trying to think of why you look so familiar. I finally got it. You look just like Barbara Feldon from the TV series Get Smart.
God, I really hope you will feel better soon and also manage to get the finances back in check. Kudos to Jo for digging in and carrying on. Here’s to better days.
If I ever get my band on tour, you’ve inspired me to at least try to film it and post it, in some similar way to what you’ve done. Cheers! Don’t stop now.
Thank god for Tom ! What a guy and what venue, you got so lucky gal. Except for the cold, But you can finish the tour on top once again giving us what we all want you and your music. Keep on pluckin
The hardest part of this business is getting to and from the gigs, performing on stage, not a problem, that's what many bands say. Listen to Francis Rossi, he maybe a lot older, but he speaks a lot of sense, and he's a great guitarist !
I hope you feel better soon Mary. I remember working in Leeds about 10 years ago. I liked the city. Sorry about what happened with your guitar. The new guitar looks good too!
When a cold is setting in, my grandmother used to (and it still works now for me) prescribe 2 shots of ginger brandy, and off to bed (yes, even when we were little children). The ginger and sleep could sometimes knock it all out.
The cost of everything is always above and beyond, when you start out with nothing, or even not too much. This is why my band never went on a full blown cross country tour, because even if we slept in the van, we would have to sleep with one eye open to guard the gear, hoping that we would even make enough for gas. So we did alot of local "Mini Tours" so to speak. criss cossing the tri state area (Philly, NYC, DE, NJ Shore etc) mostly on weekends, or starting Thurs Night after working 40+ hour weeks at our day jobs, which paid rent, food and some music stuff. our tax returns from work would fund the "Studio time" each year or so.. its exhausting and mentally draining to say the least. which is why, you have to LOVE what you do. They also say "Dont Quit Your Day Job" just in case.. which is very true in our case. But playing live, and recording/releasing new albums is cathartic in so many ways... it makes you feel alive, and the reason to live in the first place.
Touring is tough mate. Artist or crew. I’m 44 now and I’ve finally had to admit it’s a young man’s game I’m afraid! But it’s provided a lifetime full of epic memories. Hope you’re better soon anyway!
Don't keep it to yourself. Sometimes you have to outsource your headspace no matter the cost whether it's personal or financial. Do you best to keep everyone on the same page and focused on the end game.
KILLIN' IT GIRL!! ✨🤩 Super vlog and performances. Feels great watching your videos, capturing the moments as they truly are on the road✌️. You're doing great
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chin up, vitamin C and coke might help? from a retired NYC rocker. sushi and fresh fruit, lay off the red meat. Traditional Medicinals Throat Coat Tea. Elderberry + B12. Lots of water. Best Wishes.
One the hazards of self funding a tour is living on the edge of bankruptcy!! Top it all off with the stressors or running it all and then getting sick is a true test! Add recording it, editing it and uploading it and has to be a really big load to carry!! Your efforts really are appreciated Mary. Thank you for doing what you do in every aspect. ❤
very true...!!
JohnnyTorontoEh sums it up exactly! Please do take care of yourself! It would be great if you could do some dates on the other side of the "Pond" but, with all the work you have to do so far, it would seem an even bigger stressful situation to do that.
You're an inspiration. Thank you for the music and for the films. Brilliant!
Mary this series is just brilliant. The best thing you've ever produced and you've produced incredible content. Your skills as a storyteller, artist, videographer, producer, and of course PERFORMER are all PEAK.
Being the boss and the star of the show is the most demanding occupation. You're doing great. Keep up the good work.
Gosh! you hid your illness in Glasgow quite well. I was in the front row and you looked and sounded great. And afterwards talking to all of us, with me still acting like a fanboy, and posing for photos. ❤️
Mary... You are human... you are allowed to be tired, sick, and/or unfocused. I know you don't have a minute for yourself... but find a second - here and there - and breathe in the magic you create. Feel the music in you, and let it fill your heart and soul. You're good, you're great, you're awesome! The tour is the tour. You are Mary and so much bigger than any tour.
Mary, this series you created is so enticing. I sit and wait for each episode, and just marvel at your talent and charisma, and the band’s as well. Thank you for what you do!
Your intros to all these tour vids, where you give info about the town you're currently in, makes me realise how much I'd love to see a TV series which is you doing a travelog style show of going to a town and going in to the history of it, what it's famous for, it's environment, musical history notes and notable venues and their history etc which then ends up with a clip of a song or section of a song from a gig you performed in that town.
it's likely a pipe dream but it's a show I'd watch as I've been learning about places from here but I want more and there is also something way too soothing about your voice.
You speak as it should not be stressful somehow because this is not a "big" tour. But it's a big tour if you haven't toured before. And if it were a "big" tour, there would be people who would be taking care of many of the little details that you are concerned that you are missing / overlooking - that would be their job, So being stressed was probably inevitable, and being sick was likewise probably going to happen. I'm glad that it didn't seem to knock you down (or at least that you got back up again...). Thank you for sharing these vlogs - it's so amazing to participate virtually, especially from across the pond, and to get to hear your thoughts on how things are going.
Hello Mary,
I just wanted to send a quick note to encourage you to stay focused and keep giving your best during your tour. You've worked hard to get where you are, and your dedication shows in everything you do. However, don't forget that maintaining psychological balance is just as important as achieving your goals. Make sure to take moments for yourself, breathe deeply, and stay grounded. Rest and self-care are not signs of weakness, but essential elements to sustaining your strength and creativity.
Remember, it's not just about reaching the finish line, but also about enjoying the journey along the way. Your mental well-being is the foundation that will support your success. Keep going, stay positive, and know that you have everything it takes to handle both the challenges and the triumphs ahead.
Take care, and keep shining! Creating from Brazil!
So here’s the thing, when bands go on tour in the cosy world of studio management, you don’t have to do the VLOG, accounts, washing, packing, setup etc etc. Shoestring is the toughest way to do anything and this sure looks it. Well done for sticking with it. Those two hours mean so much for the people in the audience, so thanks for all the entertainment. ❤
Yes, they can be memories to last a lifetime for an audience member! I went to see All About Eve in Leeds 30+ years ago, still remember that night.
Oh man, I feel for you. Nothing like being elbow deep in a project and then finding out mid way through that something has escaped you.
@MarySpender your footage is the most compelling when you are the most vulnerable. Great stuff.
you're the best and the Marceau team will always be there to support you.
❤
Hope you can keep the illness at bay and overcome the overwhelming stress of all things touring. I gave it up a decade ago because my health was suffering all the time. Hats off to you.
So glad my in my limited touring experience I was just the guitarist and our drummer/ manager (who actually lived for that management part of the job) dealt with everything else. To be the musical leader, singer, guitarist, and manager…no wonder you are a bit overwhelmed! Just love those times on stage and live in those moments! All the best… 🎸
Mary no excuses. You are human. And a talented human at that. Your run down. Push forward and this “not wellness” becomes another story and memory when you and ur friends sit back in a pub and smile and laugh
Great songs...
Thank you for sharing the challenges behind the scene.
This is one of the most honest videos I've seen by anyone on TH-cam. The depth of emotion was written all over your face and could be heard in your voice. Hang in there, you're doing good shows, I'm sure. Don't be so hard on yourself. Not that you need to listen to anything I say, you know what you're doing, but please have faith in yourself and your talent.
Enjoyed. Ya I feel ya! being sick on the road is the pits. I can tell in your eyes. Hope you are feeling better.
Mary, hats off to your photographer, you always looks so beautiful in your photos.
Mary you are so entitled to feel unwell once in a while. For all you do and all the ends of the candles burnt , for all the great music and mentoring...you also need to take time for yourself. Hugs
Get well soon Mary. It's not always easy doing what You love.
Such an honest reflective vlog. I don't know if statistics exist for this but my passion for mixing, recording, photography, being a Hobby musician has led me to befriending at least 20 individuals who were either Professional solo Artists or part of a Band for 30+ years but only one of the 20 now enjoys a decent Pension and a standard of living that allows them to enjoy retirement along with several high quality Guitars, home studio recording gear, cameras camcorders and want for nothing and that one person is the one who chose a career in I.T. Technical support instead of the performing arts. Sadly many of those I befriended have since died of poor lifestyle choices and rigors of playing and touring year in year out before reaching retirement age and those that have since reached that age have had to find part time jobs just to survive, never mind enjoy the good life. Making a living from Music that will also provide a decent standard of living once retirement age is something many may never think of until its too late. Hope your feeling much better soon and look after yourself.
Thanks Mary for sharing your Journey with us I sure do appreciate you and your music and hard work you do,
Well done, Mary! Your vlog is fabulous and I'm so happy for you
Thank you Mary! You certainly live by the adage: It's not how you feel but what you do that counts. Yeah.... The show literally and figuratively, must go on. That's how life is for every living being and organism. The human spirit is INDOMITABLE, so we'll demonstrated in the classic GRAPES OF WRATH. YA, YA I know I digress.... abject apology! You are indeed a force to reckon with :beauty, brain and talent. You GO GIRL!!!!
Speedy recovery Mary cheers
Pleased you sorted out the guitar problem and that you seem to be in better health and spirits,cheers🎼👏👏💐 🎼,Roly🇬🇧
Did Pete Townshend shove it through a speaker?
LEEEEEDDDSSSSSS, the Brudenell club is a venue which I love to support and have done over the years and should be treasured as its helped so many local bands including the English teacher who name checked the owners in their speeches after winning the Mercury prize. Mary this series is amazing!!!!!
I wish you the Best of Luck on your remaining shows, Mary! It was nice you could get a replacement guitar shipped to you. It must be great to have bandmates you can rely on!
No one ever said life is easy. You have determination. Your hard work has created good music.
Truly warms my heart to see you touring ❤
How wonderful to have a stand-in guitar to replace the fallen warrior!
Thank you, Mary, for sharing the downsides of touring and the emotional and physical toll on you. Your focus on the performances will probably more than balance any problems arising from not focusing other things. That was the first time I have ever had a view of Leeds, although it seems everyone has a "Live at Leeds" album. Cheering for you for the rest of the tour to go smashingly well.
You look 100% well Mary. Stay positive.
Mary ... You've got this!!!
Once again, Mary, I'm really enjoying this series. :) We all know what it is like to not feel good. That's when the survivors carry on. Adversity strengthens or diminishes an individual. I hope the numbers don't wreck it for you and the rest of the group. :)
I hope you are on the mend Mary. Touring life is rough, to say the least. Cheers and hang in there.
Get well and enjoy your tour.
Heartbreaker's back!!! The show can go on!
it's a big tour these are big challenges but they were challenges laid out before a considerable mind and talent. the smart money will always be on Mary Spender.
Such a good vlog. Great venue at the Brudenell. Going to give your music a listen too.
I was lucky enough to see you at The Brude and I didn't realise you were feeling under the weather, it certainly didn't show in the performance. I have to say the point about touring being gruelling really is so very true. I toured a lot in the late 80's and early 90's (inc playing Brudenell many times) and you do end up in that weird bubble separated from reality. Touring is not for everyone either. I admit I loved it, loved every second but it took its toll of some of my bandmates but we were too caught up in the music and of course the constant partying back then (no internet to distract us from the fun!) to notice. But we all survived. Just!
Mary, those challenges, whether overcome or just experienced, are what makes life so rich and full. The memories shared and the lessons learned are developmental. No matter; you sound great, look great, and you're living the dream. Head on, little sister! Thanks for sharing.
It's a long way to the top if you wan to rock and roll. Wishing you all the best Mary.
The highs and lows of touring! Looking and sounding great! Rock On!
Bear in mind it’s your first venture. Next time will be better. We all live and learn. Hope you feel better soon and best of luck 👍
I empathize with your tour challenges. It is so hard to juggle artist and financial responsibilities. Don't be so hard on yourself. Wish I could say it will work itself out but it never does
I used to be touring back in the days
I noticed that I often got a “tour downer” after 3-4 days, when the first excitement was gone 😊 Easy to catch a cold or some headache during this time.
But it used to get better after some days. Healthy food and some contemplative walks also helped me.
Thanks for this series and your "on tour" background videos!
All the best wishes to you! ♥
I hope you get well soon and stay well
I absolute love watching these tour videos. The honesty, the editing, the music...outstanding. I feel like we're there with you, Mary. You've really captured something quite special. Just terrific work.
Love the behind the scenes, hope things are going better for you and were ironed out.
As a survivor of tiny tours in the 90's I feel your pain especially when you feel that cold coming on, couragio!
All will be revealed.
Mary, I hope you are feeling better and better
Loved seeing you with the lovely Mark Hetherington as part of the team! We loved the gig. Thanks for your openness about just how hard you work. The Brudenell is a real treasure. Please come back again! Vlog has been fantastic. Ps no idea you had a cold. Album is a real treat but you are better live.
Great stuff. I would love to hear these songs with a male backing vocalist. Could build up more to a climax because sometimes they seem to peter out a bit.
My absolute favourite venue ever! I've had so many magical gigs and memories at that place ❤
As I stated previous times.
1. Sleep and Rest - No matter what! Especially since you are the focal point of this fantastic tour.
2. Trials and tribulation - No matter how much you plan and double check, things go south at most inopportune moments.
FYI, that "substitute" guitar is very "sexy".
Continue to have a memorable journey.
And again, thank you for sharing. 🎸🎸🎸👍👍👍
Thank you Mary for being you. Sick or healthy, we love. You truly inspire me personally. Only because, once, we met. Forgive me for not pointing out when. I only wish to say; Thank you for helping me see the best in what we as humans offer this world, peace and joy through escape through music. I am inspired by the faith you show through your love in music. You truly shine in my eyes for the source above. Thank Mary❤
Mary, you are amazing. Thanks for sharing your musical life with us!
I hope you heal up very quickly. The stress is one of those things that can keep you ill longer. But you have got this Mary. I'm so happy you have your guitar sorted for now. Get rest as you can. Don't deny yourself a hood nights sleep. Things always work out in the end.
A Good night's sleep. NOT a hood nights sleep. Dear lord, my proof reading is abysmal.
So, I've been watching your videos for about a year now. I think you're a great musician and song writer. But, I've been racking my brain trying to think of why you look so familiar. I finally got it. You look just like Barbara Feldon from the TV series Get Smart.
My band just played a 3 hr gig with everybody sick, except for the lead singer. I feel for your struggles. Get well.
Music is a gift and a curse- Inside everyman there is lead guitarist dying to get out... Well done Mary - hard yakka
Love watching these bits and pieces of your tour. Keep them going...🎉🎉
God, I really hope you will feel better soon and also manage to get the finances back in check. Kudos to Jo for digging in and carrying on. Here’s to better days.
I'm LOVING the tour vlogs! Reminds me of my touring days ( I even miss the drudgery of it...sometimes)
If I ever get my band on tour, you’ve inspired me to at least try to film it and post it, in some similar way to what you’ve done. Cheers! Don’t stop now.
Thank you for being so candid about your experiences Mary. Your commitment and talent shine through. best wishes x
I always think of the Who when I think about Leeds. The Who and Davey Boy Smith :).
You deserve all the success that you get, because you put so much into your performances and you have a beautiful voice
Wellness prayers for you young lady. You will survive…
I'm looking forward to the day when you can tour in the US, hopefully east coast. Love your vlogs - takes me back to my time of traveling to gigs.
Hope you feel better Mary, you're doing great!
Hang in there Mary! When you look back you'll remember mostly the good things.
This is a truly enjoyable series of what a musical tour looks like from the inside. 😊
Saw you at the Brudenhall. Really geat gig. Hope you tour again soon.
Thank god for Tom ! What a guy and what venue, you got so lucky gal. Except for the cold, But you can finish the tour on top once again giving us what we all want you and your music. Keep on pluckin
The hardest part of this business is getting to and from the gigs, performing on stage, not a problem, that's what many bands say. Listen to Francis Rossi, he maybe a lot older, but he speaks a lot of sense, and he's a great guitarist !
You are a hero! I am in awe of all that you do. You have a huge musical heart and a spine of steel. Hang in there, best wishes.
I hope you feel better soon Mary. I remember working in Leeds about 10 years ago. I liked the city. Sorry about what happened with your guitar. The new guitar looks good too!
When a cold is setting in, my grandmother used to (and it still works now for me) prescribe 2 shots of ginger brandy, and off to bed (yes, even when we were little children). The ginger and sleep could sometimes knock it all out.
Sorry to hear. Feel better soon!
The cost of everything is always above and beyond, when you start out with nothing, or even not too much. This is why my band never went on a full blown cross country tour, because even if we slept in the van, we would have to sleep with one eye open to guard the gear, hoping that we would even make enough for gas. So we did alot of local "Mini Tours" so to speak. criss cossing the tri state area (Philly, NYC, DE, NJ Shore etc) mostly on weekends, or starting Thurs Night after working 40+ hour weeks at our day jobs, which paid rent, food and some music stuff. our tax returns from work would fund the "Studio time" each year or so.. its exhausting and mentally draining to say the least. which is why, you have to LOVE what you do. They also say "Dont Quit Your Day Job" just in case.. which is very true in our case. But playing live, and recording/releasing new albums is cathartic in so many ways... it makes you feel alive, and the reason to live in the first place.
Touring is tough mate. Artist or crew. I’m 44 now and I’ve finally had to admit it’s a young man’s game I’m afraid! But it’s provided a lifetime full of epic memories. Hope you’re better soon anyway!
Thank you, Mary!
The Brudenell is a fantastic venue. Glad you enjoyed it. Fingers crossed for no more equipment mishaps. Really enjoying the vlogs.
Ha, some movies have the stars doing the slow-motion group walk towards the camera, and this has the slow-mo sound check? Aces
Bless you Mary and band et al....sorry I missed out on Cambs venue
Cheers Mary ! 😃
Urgh. Feel better soon 💖💖💖
Don't keep it to yourself. Sometimes you have to outsource your headspace no matter the cost whether it's personal or financial. Do you best to keep everyone on the same page and focused on the end game.
Enjoying your tour from western France.
Hope you feel better 💐
KILLIN' IT GIRL!! ✨🤩 Super vlog and performances. Feels great watching your videos, capturing the moments as they truly are on the road✌️.
You're doing great
imo perspective helps-if this isnt your only tour ever just take everything as a learning experience for the next time
what does not kill you it makes you stronger🥰
I love the slomo segments!
Sending love❤❤❤