My Engagement Ring and Secret Girlfriend?! Answering your Assumptions
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I reckon you collab with Sophie Lloyd :) she's an amazing guitarist.
For the next video: Wear a Ramones T-shirt! (Now that you spoke about the punk rock issue)
You are married to your guitar! LMAO
Actually proud of you. I seen you perform with Leo, and you are still going!
Let's see you make a song.....that is as FAR out of your comfort zone!
(EX: Frank Zappa had no heart ,and mocked love songs. If he were a brave composer, he'd have challenged himself to write a Love Song that he's proud of.)
With 600k subscribers I think you’ve done very well to only get that limited a clutch of madness 😂😂😂
I guess I'm just an unobservant guy. It never occurred to me that you might be blonde, engaged, have a fake nose ring, have a secret girlfriend or anything else. I'm just here for the music.
I actually showed up for the free donuts but stayed for the great guitar work.
I'm definitely here for the looks 🤩
Wait. There was donuts??
Agreed. I never understood the whole fan-person thing.
Ditto. Here for the music! ❤
You’re just an honest , real, sweet person who just happens to be a wonderful musician. Your videos are infectious and your personality is so adorable. Thank you for just being you.
Love her ,engaged or not, with pick or fingerstile,she looks genuine to me, when i look in shes eyes and listen shes deep voice,i feel what i suffered and made me stronger,Mary keep going love you so much.♥
What Joey said!!
This. ^-^
@@like2view what Charles said that Joey said!!
You took the words right out of my mouth! Mary Spender, you are a veritable delight !
Mary I absolutely love your speaking voice. You should do audiobooks. I do like your singing and playing of course, but you mostly speak here and I think it is just great.
An angel
I heard Mark Henwick lost his reader of his "Bite Back" series. Not sure if he has another, or not.
You have a lot of male fans commenting on here, so I just want to shout out that as a female aspiring singer-songerwriter working on my first EP, you are one of my go-to 'spiritual counsellors' and a major musical inspiration, despite my genre being very different from yours! Thank you for being you, and for your stunning voice and music.
I like the Mary Spender I see on TH-cam, her music, her voice, her style. There’s no mystery that Mary works hard at her craft.
It's weird that so many people are interested in your relationship status, they need to get over it 😂 some very interesting questions and answers though, cheers!
Haha! Well, I mean, they're free to ask! It's not as exciting as they hope.
@@MarySpender . I got to tell you I really was wondering about the ring 💍. Actually glad you clarified your status for some reason. You are kind of in our lives somewhat so its oddly normal for us to want to know even though it's none of our business..😅
It's just modern simp culture
You nailed it, people are weird! 😊
Why is it weird? Don't answer that. It's not.
It’s amazing how people have to be so unkind. You are an honest person who I enjoy watching the way you navigate through your music. You have put in a lot of hours.
This woman is frustratingly perfect.
LOOOOL!!! Simp harder!
I know right!
Frustratingly? I find she's a breath of fresh air!
@@urbangrouse Frustratingly is a good word, as I think most men would do her, and most women would wanna be her or do her, if they liked that kind of thing. But they are not in a position to do her or be her, hence they are "frustrated".
Hope you can see this!
I agree this is beyond perfection !
I found your channel because of the excellent sultans of swing cover with the equally talented Leo, and I love both your singing voice and your normal voice, and you are amazing in general
Same here! I kept scrolling to see if anyone else first noticed Mary with that hilarious video!
Same
That's also how I found Mary! You are spot on with your comment.
I had been watching both Leo's and Mary's channels, having discovered them independently, so it was a nice treat to see that collaboration.
Same here. I am hoping to one day get to see a video of Mary visiting and playing with Mark Knopfler.
Mary, thank you for allowing us to accompany you on your journey. Watching and listening as you evolve as an artist and person is truly an honour. You are one of a kind.
I don't know if you're engaged or faking your accent, I only know that you're delightful to listen to and to watch.
Mary's accent sounds "genuine" to me - that is, that is her natural voice. Although Wikipedia claims she was born in Germany, she's clearly been raised in a very English environment. She sounds like she was educated at a nice private school in the South East. If she's engaged, then a legion of fellas will be devastated. 😅
As far as the accent question, the person spelled Sir Patrick Stewart's name wrong. Probably spells 'Mary Spinder' wrong as well.
@@jameswcollett > sounds like she was educated at a nice private school in the South East
Same goes for Sir Patrick but guess where he grew up?
@@charleslambert3368 Patrick Steward grew up in the North East of England. He's clearly honed his accent and done a good job of it.
More power to your elbow, Mary! You have a terrific talent and it's a real pleasure to listen to your voice - whether speaking or singing. I have absolutely no musical ability but love what you do!
I have been a fan since you dueted with Leo on Sultans of Swing. I love your finger picking style. Keep doing what you're doing!!
Love you, Mary! Keep being your honest, wonderful self.
My wife and I have been playing guitar and singing together since we met in 1971. It never gets old. I have learned from your videos and we thank you.
Glad that you are doing what you are meant to do….your music, your ideas and the reviews are important to the arts and culture…. You amaze me with your creativity and passion to stay on track with living your dream 👍😁👍
Mary is a class act in every way
Mary, Rick and Rhett brought your work to my attention. I'm so glad your drive and discipline have brought your talents forward, and enabled more of us to enjoy the fruits.
Mary, you are so genuine, so down to earth, that to say you're the real deal is a gross understatement. Keep making us smile and warm is with your mellifluouity.
THIS is most probably your BEST POST EVER!!! You are sooooo genuine and down to earth. if all makers could take lessons from you...
I mean besides all you wonderful MUSIC VIDS 🤩🤩
Its obvious just listening to you talk you are a good and sweet person. The fact you are an incredible musician is just the cherry on top
Mary, thank you for kindness and sweet personable outlook on You Tube!
Love your comments and videos
Fran
I'm an old geezer Mary but always find you entertaining and easy to watch. You are so natural in front of the camera.
Hello Mary,
I've been enjoying your content for several years now. I'm so happy to hear that you are able to do what you love for a living. I've been a full time gigging musician for about 29 years and I'm still loving it. I think that you are fortunate to have grown up in a a time that someone with real talent (like yourself) can make a living from their own music done their way without having to bow down to the record labels. You are proof of that fact.
Despite your music and songwriting being the original reason I signed up through Patreon, these videos are in a class of their own and I love them. I can’t help loving those two dogs though, managing a cameo spot at the end …
You're successful Mary because you are an accomplished musician/singer/song writer, very articulate, open about things you want us to know and present yourself with a smile. Long may you continue because your videos always brighten my day.
Keep doing what you are doing Mary. Hope to catch one of your shows sometime.
Mary - your musical journey and just delightful personality, your particular insight and lack of artifice make for an endearing and fun combination. Keep doing you.
it's not just us giving you time it's your being worth our time, and you are definitely that, which takes more work than I think most folks realize
so thanks🙌
Don't change a thing, we like you as you are. Your perfections and imperfections (if you have any). Its greatly satisfying to see someone living and not just existing.
I think your videos and content are a real change from the high speed and dramas of life we all have to deal with. I think your a lovely person with great views and morals which is a nice reflection of who you are, keep em coming👍
Fun video, thanks! I hadn't known you were classically trained but had always assumed it, partly because your playing and singing are so beautifully polished, but also because your songs are so wonderfully structured and have wonderful arcs. Cheers!
The voice /accent is great!! These questions were thought up JUST to get YOU to answer!!
How on earth can you say you're not brave enough Mary? You are one of the bravest people i know, look at all you have done and acomplished, you are FIERCE and inspiring my friend. 👍❤️
I was signed to a major label in the golden days (pre Napster) and you have to do so much more to maintain your livelihood than I ever had to so you deserve all the love and appreciation. You have to give much more then we ever did when we had labels running the show. Keep it up and onward and upward.
Honest and Authentic ... WTG Mary Spender! Continued success in all you do.
"Mary talking" videos are among my favorites. Smart, direct, knowledgeable. May the music video company continue to thrive and prosper. You've been extraordinarily careful NOT to reveal anything about your love life. I assume you think it's none of our business, and you're correct. I never noticed the switch of ring fingers. I always assumed your nose ring was real, and am happy that you dispensed with it. I've always used a pick, but don't just strum or play chords, which seems (to me) a kind of hybrid technique. Next time you're in the states, Mary, catch a Larkin Poe show if you can - two women of about your age, one with an operatic alto voice, the other an excellent slide guitar player. Their blues rock/hard rock style is not at all like yours, but you have similar musical backgrounds (starting at an early age, though they went public a decade sooner).
Those reflections about being on YT full time, as much of an accomplishment as it is, you "almost" got emotional about it. 😳
Even though i haven't been here since the beginning, im not far from it. And i for one am excited to see that patreon and yt icon pop up so i can see what you've posted! Keep up the awesome work Mary 😁💞
Wow thank you so much. I am constantly emotional about it - in a positive way!
I've been subscribed for a while, and its been so great watching you and the channel grow. So proud to see you've made a passion into a profession; cheer's to the future!
Great episode Miss Spender! I like how you express your learning technique.
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Love the way she is , as a Musician , as a Human being , as a TH-camr.
Thanks Mary for upload these videos 🎸 god bless you
Well, you answered a couple of them and very cleverly dodged the rest; tis your right.
I met (discovered) you when you did Sultans of Swing with Leo. How long has that been now.
Nice getting to know you.❤
Im so happy that you have found your thing in life and that you are able to do what you love. It shows in your videos. Keep up the awsome work you do!
So much love for you and the content you produce. Wonderful TH-camr and musician.
My ‘assumption’ - is that you are a genuine, ‘you get what you see’ sort of person. Love your work, thank you ❤
I really like your honesty! Your humor and most of all your fantastic musicianship.
I just love how kind and creative she is.Such humility and so easygoing. Watching her videos is like relaxing on a comfy couch in front of a fire and just being cozy.....
I can’t be the only one who first fell for her music, and then for her.
- another one of your admirers from across the globe!
I knew I couldn't be the only one. Hope we don't have to duel for her affections one day!
@@jaqcp oh dear... 3 way duel it is sir.. ;-)
I'm way too old - I'll just sit back and watch you guys fight over her.
Good for you and your relationship. 😊
Cracking film Mary. The thing about your channel, you manage to mix the personal with the performative with ease. Oh, and you are so, so easy on those who make wild and provocative assumptions.
You're a very special and talented young lady Mary! Your music and your videos are amazing as is your personality. Looking forward to future videos! Be safe!
The combination of a brain-meltingly gorgeous voice, physical and spiritual beauty, and total “what you see is what you get” honesty makes every one of your videos an absolute joy, whether you pick up a guitar or not. You could start another channel where you just read Shakespeare aloud and you’d get tons of subscribers.
I actually expect there to be more comments about how beautiful her face is. There are very few.
Nice to know more about you now and not having to speculate anymore 😉. Your music is awesome and keep doing what you're doing 😘
You rock! Cheers from a fellow guitarnerd in Sweden, keep up the good work!
You are a natural on screen, brilliant, sweet, hilarious, natural, and incredibly talented and very beautiful. Keep it up.
I really appreciate your honesty and kindness, as well as your confidence in yourself. The questions about relationships, lovers or engagements are tiring, they are only being asked to female musicians and youtubers. Why is nobody asking Adam Neely whether he's engaged or not?
I don't think people realize how much work goes into creating a successful TH-cam channel and actually earning a living from it. Good for you for making it this far! I hope to see you continue creating content and growing your audience.
Lovely response to all the questions. You make marvelous music!
Mary you are such a lovely person and your videos inspire all of us . Really enjoy you talking to camera you are so caring and sincere its a joy to watch . Oh and your guitar playing is amazing . Can't wait until your next video
My assumption…Regardless of how you answered any of those other assumptions, I’ll always come back for the next video. ❤
Mary Spender, love your (natural, of course) accent, prefer no nose ring, and you are just naturally beautiful, incredibly talented and make TH-cam a great internet destination. Thank you for sharing your "career" with us and keep on keep cracking on!
Love your personality, and playing guitar, thanks for all of your work!
its really refreshing someone being open and honest about life, just like music when you play guitar or play any instrument the notes don't lie :) you play how you feel at the time.
Don’t go changing..rearranging..don’t change the color of your hair ..Through all the good time ..Through all the bad times ..I love you just the way you are 💕
Well played sir
Billy Joel: I Love You Just the Way you Are (1977)
Happy for you to have all you want, do what you want and for your dream of a music album to come true. You do good work and you earned it!!
Thanks for sharing Mary. You are a pleasure and your channel is a wonderful channel.
Someone hoping u had a secret girlfriend is just wishfulness. You are an amazing songwriter, musician, producer, editor, performer. All different kinds of people get to be in the front row in this venue. Please keep doing what you do. Enjoy every minute possible. For me, you are an inspiration as well as a joy to hear. Keep being your brilliant self.
not sure what the Miley Cyrus video exposed. but it was a great cover.
@@toddbigeasy the intro skit she says shes single so thats probably it
You seem such a genuine and kind person. I enjoy following your videos, from Australia. Wish you well.
I love you as I'm sure so many do. Your as smooth and placid as a pond with no waves. Your music is really good.
Greetings from one "baby blonde turns into brunette" to another. I started out as a platinum blonde, turned into a brunette which began turning ever darker in my 20s. Then it started turning Grey and fell out. And I started playing guitar because I liked the way a wooden acoustic guitar smelled. Good luck!!! 😅
4:21 You'd think people wouldn't assume this after 30+ years of the "sex, drugs, and rock and roll" era being dead and gone
Thank you for sharing. Loving your music and commentary.
Looking forward to watching your career develop and expand in the coming years.
People are silly 😂
Also, 1st!
Haha - well to be honest I encouraged it!
No, don't do it! Don't go blonde. I guess I'm not a gentleman since I prefer brunettes. (I'm sure she's concerned about being attractive to me.). Thanks for the answers to these burning questions!
It was nice getting to know you better. Thank you.
I enjoy your content.. when I transitioned from a part-time journeyman bassist/guitarist/backing vocalist 25+ years ago to a hobbyist song writer/recorder...I slowly began to miss the regular interaction with other musicians?
Now I participate vicariously through yourself, Rick, and several others.. Thank You ♥️ Didn't know how much I actually missed it, and you and the other creators help fill that spiritual void 👍😁👍... Again, TY.♥️🙏♥️
I have another assumption: Your voice is so soothing, you were recorded while reading a dictionary. This record is sold to people with sleeping issues.
To me, nose rings distract from the face. Ear rings accent the face. Maybe I'm just too old! But Mary, you are beautiful inside and out.
Under 30 and agreed.
Keep it real. Fun and real. Also love the guitar work!
Thanks for sharing a snippet of your life Mary. Wonderful you can make a living through your musical skills. I also enjoy when you partner with Rina singing together.
Nose ring no thank you, much nicer without.........
I think you look better without the nose ring. Maybe I'm just too old to appreciate face jewelry.
Love the video's content, truly enjoy the channel, and you!
Follow your own path. Love your stuff. Keep smiling
We appreciate you Mary. Thanks for all of the cool music and vlogs. I forgot how the algorithm brought me to your channel, but I'm glad to be a fan.
Also, your accent is awesome though that could just be the American in me speaking haha
Mary.. keep being Mary!
I have to admit that you did a great job with the title of this video. It's very entertaining.
What a wonderfully authentic post x
You are so right about Lizzie McAlpine. I took my daughter and her closest friend to see Dodie last February and Lizzie McAlpine opened the show. A truly memorable concert and it was really cool that I may have been the oldest person in the audience that night.
Refreshing in my humble opinion. Thank you MS.
Your a very talented lady your love and passion for music 🎶 🎸 is beautiful ! I truly love watching your videos 📹 keep them coming Mary ! ❤
Continue on your way, Mary. Do what you do. Enrich your zone.
Thank you for continuing to be vulnerable, and sharing the view of an artist.
And may your secret girlfriends, boyfriends, and spouses be similarly blessed.
Amazing Artist. Truthful and Honest.
You answered those questions exceptionally well; especially the ones you avoided answering which didn’t deserve an answer. Great job!
This video encouraged me to subscribe. I've seen many of your videos but this one somehow got my attention.
I love your candor and honesty. I love your videos and appearances with Rick Beato. Keep on keeping on. Lol! Kudos! 👍
Keep up the great work!
Holy crap...people actually ask you this sort of stuff??? Bless your sense of humor and patience. And thank you for your music!
You're so courageous! Thanks for your unassuming ways. Inspirational....