Thank you so much for you acknowledgment my friend! I appreciate it a ton 🙏🏽 If you have any questions or video suggestions please let me know, I GOT YOU, stay strong 💪🏽
I let my anxious male cousin convince me to break no contact. Immediately regretted it and I was left on read. He will NEVER hear from me again. I rather a guy that can at least communicate.. he knows the own thing I asked of him while dating is to not ghost me, I even explained why and how I am working on my triggers. So to me, his no response was and is a choice. He can kick rocks. How a man acts during a break up to me shows their true character, and I don’t rock with people that are ok with dismissing someone’s feelings especially a person they claim to want to stay friends with. Clearly that was all cap to keep me pliable.
I’m sorry to hear that. They say they want to be friends just to be nice and not make themselves feel bad. My exgf basically broke up with me ( wanted spaced / but I basically said you mean break up and she just nodded yes). I get the things she said I said I’d work on it like my insecurities. But you’re right. Remember if they dumped you, they feel more “powerful”. He doesn’t want to give you false hope. Which sucks to know. Keep staying strong. Workout, wake up early , eat right and love yourself just as you loved you others. Take care sis.
I did the same thing brother..I feel cringe after reading my response now lol. But I think it’s defense mechanism after getting dumped. Just like how you feel they are cold/emotional less while doing it. Let us know if they reach out!
@@aidanmohrman9493 From some research, it would be to understand your attachment style and work on becoming secure. But it would be nice to have clear definitions & examples. Also working on the issues that caused the breakup, because it didn’t happen without a cause. For me, I had some financial issues that were causing me to be an avoidant and not be able to communicate with my s.o. in fear that they would reject me. I’m ahead now, I’m proud of myself for reflecting & recognizing my flaws and improving them. That’s our mission for now: Become emotionally healthy and have a solid plan for our lives. + have fun and enjoy life 😎🤘 cheers to life bro🥂
What about if it has been 3.5-4 months or more? My realtionship is ended kinda because of me so In this separation process, I try to repair the faulty parts I have seen in myself and to mature more and more.
@@vipulshrivastava4268 She is still following me on social media soo yea she is watching every story I post it. It's actually been 2.5 months and I think that I can reach out to her if she If she doesn't reach me first at the 3.5-4 month mark. When I am okay for both of the outcomes I am gonna try one time I guess.
"In order for them to have the space to miss you, you gotta be f*cking missing!"
100% true.
Love the vids brother. Can you make a video on your thoughts on breaking up getting back together and breaking up again?
Omg you saved me. This video is fire 🔥
I honestly love your spicy langy
Thank you so much for you acknowledgment my friend! I appreciate it a ton 🙏🏽
If you have any questions or video suggestions please let me know, I GOT YOU, stay strong 💪🏽
I let my anxious male cousin convince me to break no contact. Immediately regretted it and I was left on read. He will NEVER hear from me again. I rather a guy that can at least communicate.. he knows the own thing I asked of him while dating is to not ghost me, I even explained why and how I am working on my triggers. So to me, his no response was and is a choice. He can kick rocks. How a man acts during a break up to me shows their true character, and I don’t rock with people that are ok with dismissing someone’s feelings especially a person they claim to want to stay friends with. Clearly that was all cap to keep me pliable.
I’m sorry to hear that. They say they want to be friends just to be nice and not make themselves feel bad.
My exgf basically broke up with me ( wanted spaced / but I basically said you mean break up and she just nodded yes).
I get the things she said I said I’d work on it like my insecurities.
But you’re right. Remember if they dumped you, they feel more “powerful”. He doesn’t want to give you false hope. Which sucks to know.
Keep staying strong. Workout, wake up early , eat right and love yourself just as you loved you others.
Take care sis.
What if they broke it but you responded negative and pushed them away? Do you contact them to fix it or give it time again?
Surely they will msge again 😅
Im one of them who responded with too much toxicity words 😂
@@nirjal6212 😂 And they reached out again? If so how long did it take them to msg again
Why guys why? Why you had to turn it into a negative situation 😅
@@vipulshrivastava4268 Emotional response. Definitely wasn’t intentionally trying to turn it negative
I did the same thing brother..I feel cringe after reading my response now lol. But I think it’s defense mechanism after getting dumped. Just like how you feel they are cold/emotional less while doing it. Let us know if they reach out!
What exactly does “doing the healing work” mean?
Year for real….everyone says this but it makes no fukin sense. I don’t think the people saying it even know what it means.
@@aidanmohrman9493 From some research, it would be to understand your attachment style and work on becoming secure. But it would be nice to have clear definitions & examples. Also working on the issues that caused the breakup, because it didn’t happen without a cause. For me, I had some financial issues that were causing me to be an avoidant and not be able to communicate with my s.o. in fear that they would reject me. I’m ahead now, I’m proud of myself for reflecting & recognizing my flaws and improving them. That’s our mission for now: Become emotionally healthy and have a solid plan for our lives. + have fun and enjoy life 😎🤘 cheers to life bro🥂
See a psychologist
What about if it has been 3.5-4 months or more? My realtionship is ended kinda because of me so In this separation process, I try to repair the faulty parts I have seen in myself and to mature more and more.
Are you seeing any signs that they are missing you .. ! Like watching your stories or are you being stalled by fake profiles?
@@vipulshrivastava4268 She is still following me on social media soo yea she is watching every story I post it. It's actually been 2.5 months and I think that I can reach out to her if she If she doesn't reach me first at the 3.5-4 month mark. When I am okay for both of the outcomes I am gonna try one time I guess.