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The sheer amount of patient that guy had to deal with all that- Truly a saint among us.
It's shocking how few item spaces you get to set out in housing. My fc got a mansion and the upstairs/downstairs are almost entirely blocked because there's just not enough slots to decorate nicely and use the entire house.
Yea the large is just too large for the amount of furniture you can place in it I hear
@@pathra It made me sad cause the boss said I could decorate a part when we first got the house but after he was finished there was like 5 slots left. 🥺
I’ve had to use partitions to fill out a lot of the space so it doesn’t feel that empty, also had to block half the downstairs so it isn’t just a big empty room. Houses definitely need more item spaces, mansions most of all
@Alex Renee it’s terrible how little you actually get. And if you want to fill out rooms you’re still going to be left with some open space here and there not to mention you can’t even add the small items to go on a shelf or whatever. I’ve done the best I could to mine but like I said I’ve had to split rooms in half and one room I’ve had to block off altogether.
I'm an omnicrafter myself. I have some friends who likes to ask me to craft new gear sets and such but they always offer to buy all the needed mats, crystals, etc. so that the only thing I am contributing is my time. I never ask for a gil comission if all the mats are supplied (friend discount ). Hearing how the OP is being used is just awful. :(
Yeah, that's more or less my vibe too. Personal friend? Just give me the mats. FC member? Depends on the "job" in question, if it's something trivial I'll just ask for the mats, if it's expert crafting then I demand gil. I don't feel obligated to accept requests if I don't feel like it either, I'm not gonna stop my raid progression to make furniture for someone lol.
Yeah, I craft primal weapons for friends/new folk in my fc all the time, and they always bring me the mats and stuff. I sometimes will offer up my own mats, like when we had a Hallowe'en party with a costume contest. I offered to make primal weapons as prizes, but no one ver just demands I spent my own time and gil to give them things...
This is such a sad situation! OP sounds like a really nice fella and was just trying to be a good friend. Hopefully he's much happier nowadays!
I had to do a double take when it cut to you heading to the beach area because my character is also named Mimi Kyu lol But it's nice to see another one out in the wild!
As for OP's story, I don't have much to say but I'm glad they seem to be happier with their new FC and friends, while also seemingly still on ok terms with some of their old friends. Sometimes irl groups do end up splitting up over the weirdest things when it comes to gaming, but it did also feel like they were taking advantage of the crafting and housing stuff.
Moments like that is partially why I tend to only craft for one person (my bf, as I consider it my payment for all the stuff he has to craft for the both of us, especially when he needs to make two sets of crafting/gathering gear). It's not that I don't trust my other friends, I just don't want to end up being the person they come to every time when they want something crafted (and I can't craft everything anyways, so that's another reason why).
That was such a cozy house to listen to the story in!
I'm very similar in the vain of I'm an omni crafter/gatherer who spent wayyyyy to much time doing side content and putting off story compared to my friends who would blaze to end game.
I would always offer to craft whatever people needed cause I spent so long stockpiling mats and such that I could honestly and easily make whatever for anyone. Many of my friends though often felt a bit awkward about asking for stuff I can make for nearly no Gil, that they would spend around 100k plus on, that I just started asking for tombstone or script mats from them in return. So when I started making rinacita gear sets for them, they would get me around 10k in tombstone mats thet help me make more.
I now employee 1 friend to farm stormsap for me cause they don't wanna work the MB and also give glam advice to others. I do my best to be helpful to people and also give them options to repay me that isn't Gil.
Oh yea i most definitely have been in this situation. I love crafting and became an omnicrafter and joined a growing fc after moving to DC. There were a few of us crafting but slowly one by one stopped crafting and did other content. Me on the other hand though, crafted pots and food for a couple statics in the FC. They were kind enough to help provide me with the mats and i craft massive amounts of raid food for them easily 500+ almost every week and IT WAS TIRING but I did it as I was the only one. Then one day i saw the SB dragon mount. I naturally asked for help to farm them. I already had most of them at that point and needed 2 more. They were rude about it as they raid most of the time and asked me to use PF but like the OP i wanted to play with some friends that ive bonded with PLUS they already had the mount. Some other stuff happened bla bla bla promise broken and lots of disrespect. I left the FC house to make my own for the subs with intentions of not recruiting. I do make friends here and there while gposing other than that i rather be alone.
That is insane, crafting 1 set of food is around 1 minute and crafting 500 of them is easily like 3-4 hours of your time every week, even more considering the time taken to prep and stuff. My FC have a crafting company that is solely dedicated to crafting when patch drops and only for the week when patch drops. We make tons of money and gets everyone geared up with pots and raid food and never touch crafting again until the next patch, if someone needs it then they can just buy/craft it.
@@esra013 thats cool man. I still craft just for minor stuff to sell then log off. But yea it was borderline insane and that doesnt include pots yet. Ive had a couple bad FCs before. Thought this one was different and i was wrong.
Props to you for leaving those "friends". I joined a FC that was nice, truly, but they had their own cliques. If most of their friends had done something that I or any new members asked for help they would tell us to either wait for their friends to join the help or had reasons to not help us. After a while, I felt like it's better that I left so I did
In another FC, there was a male lala who managed the FC the most though he was made an officer only for the ship thingy. Until, most of the officers were offline and he started to take other roles; cleaned and took care of the stables, renovated the mansion sometimes, crafting etc. I did ask him why he did all those every single day and he said he liked it. But I kinda had the feeling it's because he had done all these for months that he probably didn't want to "let go" his efforts. I still felt bad leaving this FC but I had to since I wanted to transfer DC to get better ping
@@MidoriGa95 hey man good for you. When respect leaves the table. So you do 👌
o this one hit close to home
i was with my first FC for a while and was granted a role similar to a glorified gardener. when i was contributing so much to the FC but not seeing any return (thav onions, gil, furniture) - i took my partner and left for a new server, but ultimately couldn't find any other home for a while, until now, where i got a static and friends now :D
Damn this real hits close to home for me. Very similar to my own experience
To talk about your friend who just crafts things for you. They are likely a bit like me in that regard. In which case, I'd like to offer you some insight.
As a fledgling "Omnicrafter" myself (I go up to about level 58 or so, but I struggle with space and finding time to gather all my mats in the limited time I have to play... still, it's my dream to be the max level omnicrafter, since I LOVE crafting!), I often offer to just craft things that I can for people. There are two reasons I do this.
1. I pretty much always need to empty some inventory space. If I can craft you something and it empties some of my mats, then I'm thankful I can do so. In short, you're doing me a favor. Especially since you'll appreciate the item more than the person who would buy it off the Market Board (if and when it sold).
2. I like feeling useful to the FC, even if only a little bit. I don't want to be taken advantage of, but when I can offer something that someone in the FC wants, I feel good about contributing in my own small way.
To that end, I'd also like to explain why they "don't take payment" for things. Here's what is usually my reasoning for turning down payment on things.
1. I don't need anything right this minute. I've got everything I currently want and need, so I'm good. If I do need something, or want something, and you can provide it, I'll ask. Otherwise, it's free. Don't worry about it.
2. If I do eventually need help with something, sometime down the line, I expect you to at least consider helping me and join in if I need it. If I need to clear a piece of content or something and ask for some help, I sort of expect people I've helped to offer me help. This is the unspoken rule of "helping for free". If I help you for free, I expect you to help me when I need it. If you helped me for free, then I keep track and expect to help you when you ask for it.
I would have left after the first realization that they only cared about being a pantry for the FC. I've been jaded enough times that I don't have any cares to stick around for people who don't value me.
I've had plenty of experiences on any game I played of people creating cliques then acting like I no longer exist whenever I wasn't of benefit for them, I used to like playing with statics but I'm the opposite now I prefer trying to do easy stuff with Randoms or solo if I can while trying to avoid interaction as much as possible, so I'm pretty much locked out of anything Extreme or Higher since they a lot of the time require statics otherwise people get discouraged quick and just leave after a wipe when working with Randoms.
your videos make me happy :D i listen while working hehe thank youu!!
Yeah, my current FC treats the person that supply the most gil and time towards housing and decorations... like dirt. One member will go and "check" the property to whine about things that are clipping or placed outside of his tastes, when the happy crafting home decorator announces that she finished a new seasonal theme for the house!
People using other people to keep their FCs seem alive and vibrant isn't just an FFXIV thing, if you've played MMOs before you know that well xD
My girlfriend and I both craft but I didn't have the materia for melding so she crafted my gear/pots/food for me. We both raid together though so it works out, and I make sure to buy the tome mats/gather what I can + I decorated our whole fc house twice over lmao
I learned a good lesson from having friends similar to OPs, don't give anyone the time of day if they won't return the favor.
I don't have crafters leveled up yet, so my lala twin helps me with stuff. I'd know he'd do it for free but I always buy the mats when I need food pots gear etc and if I need orchestrons fixed up I pay him 20k per roll, or if I don't need it let him keep it or sell it.
15:30 I would have kept A-san and block the rest. I feel really bad for the OP, however, on a brighter note, the OP knows officially which ones were rotten in their irl group
the guy on the floor in the photos 😭
They were. After being asked three times and they turn him down, it's already a red flag. I would not come back to the FC whatsoever.
Shouldn't waste time on those people. They weren't friends to begin with it sounds like. If they don't get respect or appreciation then just move on.
One thing I learned playing MMOs that you need to be self suffenant or situations like this crop up I always advocate that to other players as it does help crate a well rounded player.and the OP was being stepped on by folks who were just outright abusing him...
This guy is a sucker xD
it should have been wraps when they started lecturing him after he returned the 1st time but he kept looking to be respected for everything that he did for them that's why he was so patient he wanted to be treated special like receiving loot priority or mog station stuffs.
"you're a victim!"
Is there a way I can submit a story to your lovely series?! This story really hit home and made me want to share my story
Edit: made it to the end of the video >.>
See you in discord
In this not only is it obvious they were taking advantage of the OP but Y-san was the ring leader to it A-san was basically Y-sans crony personally if I had been the OP I woulda put the whole reason why they left the fc not just 3 sentences there was no reason to protect the "friends" and it would of let the other guild members know not only how the leaders treated a founder who had mostly paid for the fc house in the first place along with doing the most work for the fc but how they treated anyone they decided wasn't that useful to them and if the house designer was still in the fc it woulda let them know what happened to
Shiiiii this guy is me XD housing and PvP OwO
Can we define 'IRL friends'? I know it's a ridiculous thing to ask but I'm confused by its usage in the story. Was there no communication outside of the game at all? Did they not do things IRL during this time? If there were issues between them in the game, wouldn't it have spilled over to IRL?
To me, when people say IRL I mostly think they knew each other through in real life first before together playing same game(s). So the context of having conversations in IRL probably through discord or any social platform if all of them no longer live nearby, go to places near their area or it's simply hard for them to meet up IRL anymore. I mean usually that's their reason for talking through online so I wouldn't know how it'd be like if they bump each other in real life but I assume they would just ignore each other
to most people "a friend in real life" is someone that you actually engage with irl, but these are MMO players. "IRL friends" might just mean someone who you have actually met in-person and nothing more.
For some it's not even that - they use "irl friend" to mean those people who they talk to personally, knowing their name and their face etc. So weird to see the phrase degrade as people exist socially outside the internet a little less
IRL is when you know someone in real life and not just in the game.
I'm at 5:25 If the known FC Omnicrafter asked if they wanted to do something, heck yeah I'd freakin do it. I imagine it being all like this super geared warrior dragging the little guy around on all these heckin adventures and I'm here for stuff like that lmao freakin rude AF to say something like that to your support friend like come on man show some respect to the chef!
I dont have a FC (Sargatanas). I was kicked out after not playing for a year (took a break from the game). I keep getting invites from different FCs but have no motivation to play in one now adays. I dont do savages or any hardcore raiding anymore. I can't stand the chest pounding and verbal abuse from folks. I mean shit I come to play a game to get away from drama!
xD theres a term for players who get bothered about the size someone makes their house build- size queen. it just instantly tells me they dont know the first thing about the housing system. imagine getting upset by how someone chooses to creatively express themselves? if you want to actually put detail into the build and make it immersive, you absolutely need to downsize to some extent or you're left with a huge open cavernous area with furniture just sitting in random spots
Heya your videos are the best 🤗
Thank you!!!
In my fc we have multiple crafters (and a whole room in fc house just for crafting and leveling crafters) but only a few super omnicrafters. Fc boss is richest and has the best gear so he can easily craft the newest crafted gear , while some like me have enough stats to craft the newest tinctures but not the gear without a lot of effort(cant afford to meld my tools since i already threw 8 million on crafting materia).
When its a new savage tier tho i and several others pay my fc boss to craft us the newest gear so we can jump into the raid asap, we get a discount ofcourse, bigger discount if we bring some raw materials for the craft. But we still have to pay everything.
Meanwhile i craft food and tinctures in bulk, and sell themdirectly or via my retainer at the fc garden for the members, tho sometimes i wish i could stop the garden retainer from selling to the market board so i can sell discount food to my fc mates without some rando on the market board snatching it up.
For my own mini fc static tho i give them free tinctures and food in exchange for elemental crystals or thavnairian squid(because my fishing luck is so low its in the negatives)
We did used to give 1 srt of free endgame gear to new members whenevr its their first time hitting max level, but after 1 rude asshole exploited us crafters, harassed most of the female fc members, and also swindled hundreds of thousands of money from members, we donxt give free gear anymore
It just takes one asshole.
I like playing games with friends especially with my bros
We talk the most shit to each other and start petty beef with one or another and laugh it off
Yes, you cannot do that with strangers as you do not know who will get "offended".
And the FF14 culture favorites those who are eternally offended. Over those who have ticker skin.
It's pronounce "sun".
I am a housing Junkie- and oh boy, the "Why didnt u use the whole space of the house? - Comment in a very "downlooking on me"-way is so stupid.
And then its "ugly" because its smaller because not all of the House is used.
Those comments are so dumb.
And the reason why i didnt make a Social Media Account to show off my work, because of those comments.
I do it only for friends and known ones and do most designs for free- because i think there are way more better Interior-Designers out there.
I know it's terrible and petty, but if I was in OP's shoes, I'd have torn down the furniture in the old FC because I don't want my work in such scummy hands.
get outside and touch grass.
if you don't know where someone works or goes to school, they aren't your IRL friend. I'm sorry if that makes you sad. With real IRL friends you can even make educated guesses at what they're doing at any given time. Its called actually knowing someone.
*insert oh nononono tiktok bgm*
this is the first time i feels bad for someone being taken advantage of. most of the op were me me me is omnipotence carry everyone savage and caring lonely egirl.
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Seems like a freeloaders company instead of a free company.
What you do not buy in gil, you should pay in helping. Equivalent exchange.
Seems that they only wanted the freebies and not paying for them on any way or form.
Hope the OP left that PC. As they are certainly not his friends.
Looking for nice party (BellaB)
I envy OP for being able to make friends in-game.
The raiding community is really toxic from what I've noticed myself. Giglamesh was full of raiding fcs and I felt like a stranger in them. Never again, left the server for good and such a relief it's been. Finally enjoying the social part of the game.
FFXIV is a great game but it sure brings the worst out of people sometimes.
All MMO do. As there are no consequences from being an a-hole.
You are so cute that I want to hug ❤️💜😍🇷🇺
People need to be more creative when coming up with names in their stories
lol my answer would be no help no gear and raidfood buffs for you