Yep. The grocery store is a waste. Literally all the staples like fruits and veggies are double the cost of the local open markets (Mercado's) Carendarias and home cooking. A fraction of the cost. Ppl act like it's impossible. But it's so simple. I can eat unlimited veggies and fruit, chicken and fish for $60 a week. Easily.
My man, I love your simple life. Indeed you have mentally liberated yourself from the materialistic and consumerism mentality of the west. Kudos! My 1st time here. Liked this video and thus subscribed. I promise to watch most of your videos and not skip ads.
I live in Bohol and spent 1300 usd a month, we have our own house a car and we eat and drink all we want, dont understand the peolple who say you need 3000, really nice to see that you manage 500 a month👍
And nice to hear you're also doing well on your budget to Frans! That's why this video is important because it's showing others what a realistic hands on monthly budget can be and what they can get
Nice honest video some people will say your not living your just surviving but not me as long as your happy with your life which l am sure you are. I lived on less in Manila the expats used to encourage me to have coffee mornings with them or eat out or go to bares. No thanks l am happy with my life and my wife. But it's nice to be asked. Take care always Regards James
@@jamesdee2434 the irony is that I'm super living. I eat fresh tropical fruit everyday. Seafood multiple times a week. Fresh coconut juice whenever I desire. I go to the beach at my leisure...and play with my beautiful boy everyday. I couldn't do the beach, fruit and seafood so often in the states. I get to have much more of those things here than ever. It's awesome
I'm glad to see another video standing by your word of living on or under a $1000 a month..!😂 I've got 5 yrs til I retire & I'm already chomping at the bit with these $2000 a mo + lifestyle vids..😢
It can definitely be done for less than they say...but, it's not for everyone. Most ppl couldn't. It takes a certain type of person. Just make sure before you commit to anything long term
Thanks a lot Andy. I appreciate your input. I get a bit of flack for it from some guys, but man , I really don't care. I'm in the best space ever in my life. Ppl wonder "how can that be?" But I've just realized what matters most to me, and focus on that. Thanks again bro, take care
@@philippinesxtremes good for you for not caring what others think. As long as you are happy is all that matters. I think that as you get older you realize that material possessions don't really mean that much. A roof over your head for you and your loved ones (and full bellies) is all that really matters. Keep doing what you are doing!!!
I really admired your style, you shut down all the vloggers saying that you need more than a $1000 a month, Or you will be suffering and starving yourself, if you are living below $1000 a month you are proven them wrong more twice, regards from Boston MA!!
Ya evral, it's definitely possible. Xtremely viable. But, not everyone can live without the western products. Not everyone can stand the heat. Not everyone is willing to ride a jeepney or a trike. Buying in a grocery store, running ac, and paying for a automobile literally makes what I do impossible. More power to the dudes that need those things. But to the guys that don't..they need to know what time it is so they can stop withering away in slavery and live on their own terms
Everybody has a different perspective of what a good lifestyle is. That's why I like videos like this for ppl that are looking for an average lifestyle.
I've lived high..and I've lived low. This situation I've created here is light-years better than the crappy pay by the week apartment I had when I was 18 yrs old in downtown Portland Oregon.. cheaper too. And for the money, this place we live in now is double the size of all my neighbors. I feel like this is a score to be honest hehe. You're right, it's all about perspective in that regard. Another major aspect is whether the person is happy internally. If not, not even a mansion will satiate. I'm glad I gave a you a window into what's possible here. Thanks for watching and dropping a comment bro
I'm in cebu now, I met a great woman, and I'll be living here by next summer. Seeing your life is like looking into my future. I'll probably go with a higher budget though. thanks for the video.
Thank you for this vid. Even if it doesn't work for some. It gives a great perspective on what can be found cheap.. Especially if your starting over.. Thanks again
thanks again for the reassurance being able to live well under $1K as opposed to your last vid with the expat having a pension of $5K+ and recommending, what $3-5K+ to survive? come on man. thanks man for the reassurance that it can be done under $1K. Peace! from a fellow Washingtonian!
@@BeerBikes whoa! Long time no see my brother. Hope all's well. And ya it can be done under 1k for sure, but it takes a certain type of person that can enjoy things in such a way. All the extra western style stuff is what costs ya for real. Anyhow. Great to hear from ya. Take care my man
Planning on retirement there. I've been to Cebu like 38 or so years ago. Really enjoy myself. But I'm not interested in going to the big island. Or Manila. I'm liking what you just described about that area. Slow pace but things to do close by. Low cost of living. Like your channel and I'll be watching! Be Safe!
Salamat Scott! Things have changed sooo much in 38 yrs...you probably won't recognize it. Cordova on Mactan is definitely a good location. Kind of a hidden gem of sorts. Check out my next upload where I show a bit of the area..
Oh haha. I was confused. Speaking of confused...when I went to 10k roses. I thought it was going to be a rose garden. With actual roses. I kept saying.."how can they grow roses here?" And no one really answered me. I show up and it's a buncha plastic things 😂..I'm like.."what in the world "? 😂
@@ugenescott111 oh sure Extremely safe. I'm from the nw area of the USA and the crime rates are skyrocketing there. Here, there's barely any of that nonsense. I go out at night. Early early mornings. Philippines is way more safe than most places in the west.
giving that poorest filipinos live under 200PHP per day (3,50 USD), it reasonable to consider cheap options like yours. You are right about western food, that's the main reason expats spend so much, along with luxury condos. Cut the western food and western lifestyle, and your budget drops considerably.
Yes, those 2 factors alone literally bleed the cash. I get that most people think they need those things to be happy though. I just think it's all contrived and kind of a waste. Not judging.. just not for me
Wow thats a great place for just 70$ I always am confused by the guys that say oh u need 1500 USD to live in the Phils I live in the outskirts of Sydney Australia and while i do own my home i have live off about 1200 USD a month for 4 years and still saved money on t hat too. Knowing how to cook well and cheaply is the biggest factor in cheap living
Thanks Jim. I'm just on a tourist visa rn. I get 6 months at a stretch. Next re-up is in October. BUT we're working on the 13a which is a spousal visa. 13a is cheaper and less hassle in the long-run
Definitely Rich. It's dependant on the individual. There's a lot of good options in the 5k range. And for 10k here in Cordova, you can even live in a subdivision. People abroad have a disadvantage in truly knowing that there's a lotta great deals to be had. Helps to be in country and start looking and asking around.
The whole you “need” X/month to live somewhere has always been nonsense. I have a friend whose mortgage here in the U.K. is double my take home pay. I have another friend who take home less than half of what I do. Friend A would probably think it’s tough to survive on my monthly budget and impossible to survive on friend Bs monthly budget. But we all do it. People learn to live within their means - everywhere. Doesn’t look to me like you have a bad life on your budget. Good luck! Subscribed.
Another very nice video sharing of your, very interesting subject regarding "LIVING A GREAT LIFE FOR $500 A MONTH IN CEBU PHILIPPINES"! Full support & Best of luck po/Ned 👏🎉👏
Hello and I will be moving to Cebu in August and have a question. I am quite phobic about cockroaches etc. How is that situation in your apartment. I know it's not a big deal to others but to me it is and that's why I'm asking. Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge.
There's roaches pretty much everywhere here. Even in the grocery stores. We don't have a lot of them in our apartment. The occasional on flies in the window from time to time. Cat chases it around for a few hours.
If you live in a high rise condo there will mainly just be cockroaches in the garbage chute/trash room on your floor. If you put weather seal around the entry door so there are no gaps you can avoid them pretty well. Otherwise they come under the door from the hallway. Florida is the same way. You can also seal all the electrical fixtures and plumbing entry points but they mostly come in through the entry door. The big jumbo cockroaches you mostly see tend not to infest your home like the small German ones do, they prefer to live outside.
9 Work/ +21 Vacation Days/ 41 Calendar Days to Civil Service Retirement/ ~86 Days to Cebu City for a Six Month Trial. I'm going to do IT Park or Business Park to start with & than see what I want as I get acclimated.
@@christaylor7049 thanks Chris. Well my internet is free with the apartment. But you can get high speed anywhere from ₱1299 and up. Before, (in our other apartment) we were paying ₱1500 And Visa was like 11k for 6 months with the acr card. We're working on the permanent residency visa which will save a bundle in the long run.
Bud, there is an infant in your place. It's your child. One thing you put yourself and your wife through so much suffering (including no A/C), but have some mercy on your child for god's sake!
Filipino don't need ac. In fact it makes them cold. My kid is very happy and well cared for. My wife wants for nothing. Your version of contentment is misaligned with mine and countless millions of Filipino.
Many kids all over the world grew up with no A/C and they grew up well and many become world leaders. When did having an A/C become a MUST have for child rearing? Bro, you are displaying classic western consumerism mindset. I hope one day you will liberal yourself from mental slavery. Take care
Many kids grew up hungry and undernourished. Some of them will become so-called world leaders (dirty politicians). It means nothing. No logic here. Next time try to use you chicken brain before calling someone "liberal".
Hi Good morning, I am an expat currently living in UK but have a house in Cordova and intend to Retire next year. Cordova is a very accessible location and Good place to live. How long have you lived in Cordova. Have you tried cordova home village.
No thank you. I started my Philippine adventure almost 9 years ago in Lapu-lapu on around $ 700 US dollars per month. Mactan Island was too crowded and the air quality was terrible. Got my phone stolen on a jeepney, got clipped by a motorcycle, lost 20 pounds in 4 months and returned to the USA. Had an upper chest infection that took 2 rounds of antibiotics. Got food poisoning twice and had a girlfriend who was sending scantily clad pictures to another foreigner. Even with all of that I returned to the Philippines. Now I live in Dumaguete and like it much more than the Cebu area. Good luck in your adventures in the Philippines.
What a rough beginning Willy. Wow. Glad to hear that you didn't throw in the towel because now it seems you've found a sweet spot. Good for u brother 👍
As long as you are happy with what you have. I live in Cebu City with 0 house payment and my budget is $3000(family of 4) because that is what I have to spend. I have travel budget, medical, savings, emergency savings, A/C, SUV payment, eating out, coffee out, western food and love my life style that I worked for 45 years(it's almost 2 times cheaper here than in the States). I just hate "camping" out in my old age. I hate eating dried fish or cheap fish and can't eat rice and my Filipino family loves western food. I hope you have a back up plan for medical and getting out of Dodge. Your little apt is great for where you are at. I could do it, but my Filipina wife would not live in a small place like that. We also have school cost, fees, uniforms, private schooling. I do pray you have back up funds for emergencies.
@@faronray5765 that's awesome faron. Sounds like you're living your best life. You earned it! Since I don't drive or own a home, we don't incur those expenses. Like car payment..home maintenance. It's pretty easy for us right now. Glad you're happy here and enjoying it...too many ppl here have multiple gripes. It's always refreshing to hear from someone who isn't disgruntled. Oh and btw, I can't do dried fish or cheap fish either 😂
Excellent video Ben, I know it’s nearly impossible to list every single peso you spend but this provides a realistic idea of what’s possible if you’re willing to live a live style closer to the way the locals do.
Good on you. Most budget videos are viagra boys bragging about their wad. No grown man should tell another he ain't living right cause you don't live like them.
Comment of the day Robert. Men ain't doing the man thing no more. It's just a bunch of subservient misfits whom of which most all of us would probably avoid in " real life" Fluff em off. They ain't about nuthin'
Sorry, but I cant live without AC in this humidity and heat. Also, I need to eat well and healthy. So I need a good food budget. Lol 😂 Greetings from Manila. GL
I get the A/C part but eating vegetables, fruits, fish and living population free area, lower stress level doesn't sound unhealthy. How do you define healthy lifestyle?
I like the roosters. It's kinda primal after living in the city for 40 years and thinking about the how the concrete jungle used to be a forest and lamenting that loss. I've always had dogs so that's never bothered me. But there's a lotta dogs near me...like a lot. I dunno. I just tune it out.fore it's a good trade over all the negative stuff back where I'm from
Your killing it, you don't live like a local, reminds me of the Barry Jordan style. Think he's still in Mandaue detention center jail. Don't forget to pay your visa. 9:47
@@philippinesxtremesindeed, AC is overrated, lived in Hong-Kong for years without barely using AC. It's a luxury, not essential, mankind has perfectly survived without AC for thousand of years.
@jcg4350 true that brother. I mean I do love that contrast when u walk into a Mall or some place that has ac...but it's like a treat. I worked in Guam and the ac was on perpetually. I'd get cold after just a short time..and developed a cough too. It's pretty unnatural frankly.
500$ a month 😂😂😂😂 is unbelievable. I need 1000$ dollars a day just to keep the basics in my family's life in new York city. My mortgage is 8000$ dollars a month and property taxes are 3,000$ dollars a month my cars cost 3000$ dollars a month. My wife and 3 daughters manicures and pedicures cost me 1000$ dollars a month 😂😂😂. God bless you man
Those stairs is the trick to getting good exercise and staying healthy. In the west it's not encouraged people to take the stairs instead of the elevator, of course with reason
@@thaidawg9231 oh ya, definitely. Tomorrow I'm doing another apartment review video. That'll probably upload in 2 days. There's some really nice subdivisions too
@sdickinson5234 haha. It's funny.. yesterday I was talking to my neighbor and mid Convo we couldn't hear each other cuz a plane was flying over... immediately I thought of this question and was like..dang... maybe I'm just used to it 😂
I would definitely do a lot of what you are doing. There is the exception of the living arrangements. The house is too cramped, and that leads to too much clutter. My mind wouldn't be settled in that apartment. So add 500 for our family. We are 4.
$500 a month with a gf AND a baby ?? Seems almost impossible ? If survival is the goal then I guess but probably not realistic or sustainable..but good luck to you guys, hope all goes well for you !
@@danramsay5844 ya $500. My wife is a province girl. She's used to the food struggle. We struggle for nothing. And eat whenever and whatever she wants. She feels rich in that sense. It's sustainable though. Most people don't realize how affordable it actually is simply buying in the markets and cooking at home. I mean a kilo of my favorite fish is less than $3. That's 2.2 pounds. In other words. 2 full meals. I can also buy a whole chicken for $3.50...also 2 meals. A whole weeks worth of vegetables and spices for $6. I could go on, but you get the drift, I literally could gorge myself on unlimited food and never break the bank. Life is fantastic. The best ever Dan. Truly
I'm a vlogger in the Baranggay here. Everyone knows me. I get all the grass roots info. There's an apartment right across from me for 3k. And another down the road for 3.7k. Not nearly as spacious as mine though. Down at the end, near the school, there's some for 5k. There's a lot of good deals. Just gotta integrate
@Jimbo-v3m Agreed, The U .S. is being set up for a restructure, and not a good one,,, most will be enslaved economically, as we already are, but only worse... Here comes the down fall, and more than likely a civil war...
Do you get a lot of earthquakes there? How far are you from the nearest volcano? On your family budget of three what is your typical day like? Do you both have any hobbies? is your baby walking around a lot at this point? Are you living on Social Security? Where does your income come from? Thanks for the video as I wonder on my $1,221 a month SS how I will be able to live and commute with my bicycle and you tell it like it is and can make it amazingly cheap. I think I can save a lot by not owning a car or motorcycle. How much does gas cost? Thanks for going to the hard work of creating videos!
No not a lotta earthquakes. There was one on a nearby island and Cebu felt some minor trembles from it. Last year. I'm not sure how far away a volcano is from us. But no where near us that's for sure. My day is just family stuff. Neighborhood stuff. It's pretty low key. I'm too young for social security. I get income from a rental I have back in the states..and some online stuff I do. $1221 is a lot more than I have. I personally could make it on that easily..but some people couldn't. You definitely can save just biking it. I'm not sure gas prices because I don't drive so I haven't been tracking it like I would if I had a vehicle. If you set yourself up near all the things you need..like a market/grocery store..you should be fine. Come and explore for a bit. See if it resonates with you. If so, pack it up and get over here 💜
@@philippinesxtremes Thanks so much for taking the time with me amid all of your subscribers and for your videos. I'll watch more. I just thought I remembered that area had a couple of active volcanoes but I suppose that's much farther south in Indonesia. I didn't think you were retirement age at all but thought maybe you had some special form of SS as some receive it at any age for special reasons. An old friend who had an older father started getting SS once his father turned 65 or retired and so from age 12 I think it was through age 18 his SS accumulated and I think he got it all at once or maybe he got it throughout those 6 years. You're so resourceful with rentals in the US and all that you'll come up with a much greater income and own your own home there. All the best to you and yours! I'll pray for you and family.
There's volcanoes in the Philippines and earthquakes too. Especially in Luzon. But down here in Cebu we don't have. Anyhow, I appreciate you. Thanks bro. God bless 🙏
@@philippinesxtremes Yo Bro! It's funny... well I mean in a strange way that I write about or ask about earthquakes in the Philippines and you just got a 7.0 earthquake a few hours ago. Fortunately it was in the mantle and I think it was 381 miles below the surface and off one of your main islands. I was writing about an earthquake a few years ago in my trilogy I've been working on and a sizeable earthquake happened in the same area and across southern California. Yes a magnanimous deed taking your own time and effort to tell others about the Philippines as so many want to go there and watching what they can about it. Sounds like strange new visa laws enacted just a few days ago.
Part two kinda explains my mentality on it..but the Philippines spoiled me years ago. I got infected by the contrasting approach to life here as opposed to the USA. Why not live where I'm happiest? I only got this one life. Gotta live it the most fulfilling way
Wow . It doesn't look like your living a great life. I hope you can get your family back to the US and get back to living well. You have seemed to give up on the American dream ? Its time to go to work...
I would NEVER and I say that loudly..ever, take them to the States. Dream? That's a nightmare. A lie, a fallacy. Happiest I've ever been currently. And wouldn't trade it for the world. Truly blessed
500 usd = 25-28k a month. Many professional heck even call center agent can easily earn 30-35k a month. Your family deserves a better life. Poor girl got stacked with a cheap guy.
Another $500 Budget video ~ 😂 😂 I'm living on $1200 or $1500 near IT PARK I want life LARGE ~ not a local ~ yes I eat at home but I love having the freedom to do stuff like go out everyday or every other day ~ not eating Western food or not traveling ~ My rent is $255 a month ~ Please don't misinform people Yes Im moving to Lapu Lapu for cheaper rent with in 6 months
Misinform how? $500 is possible. I'm living proof. And as states..gotta pay more if u want more. Pretty cut n dry brother Good for u u want large as opposed to local. That's what it's all about. Being content and enjoying the experience right? Not here to judge. Her to do me. As u are here to do u. Philippines is awesome
@@philippinesxtremes OK if u think so? He is not living ~ I'll be renting a 2/1 in Lapu2 ~ I make $9000 a month on my business ~ I am living large for $1500 ~ I just save money??
If you move to somewhere like the Philippines and don’t want to adapt to the corresponding lifestyle, my advice is stay where you are, simple. You definitely have to spend a month or two over there to see if it is for you. I love the small village lifestyle in the Cote D’Azur which is very different to life in the big smoke. Admittedly, the cities are much more accessible. 🇦🇺
@@Bisli61 I dunno bro, I'm not looking for that kinda conventional version of fun so much in life anymore. I get satisfaction out of hanging out with my kid and the people in the neighborhood. Everything here is such a contrast to everything in the states. The jeepneys. The trikes. Everywhere I go there's a friendly face greeting me and happy to see me. It's all so refreshing and uplifting. It's worth it's weight in gold
I came to Australia 25 years ago and a minority of expats (from other 1st world countries) yearned for the life that they have left behind and that is comparing two first world countries. You have to do your due diligence and be prepared to accept the good and bad in your new country
The fun may not be physically but mentally is a freedom. Nothing is more better for your mental health than a simple life full of stress free. The average western has the so called "good life" yet most are unhappy, why is that?
@@jamesgilbert2181 if living large matters?? I'm pretty sure what matters even more, is the human connections. I took the red pill man. There's something amiss in this old world, and I intend to not let the discombobulation derail me from creating a ripple effect 👍
Or maybe this dude is blindsiding his local wife of their real finances. This is why many Filipina still prefers Filipino men coz our men gives their wallet and atms to us wives. We don't have what call Western folks boundaries. What we advocate is transparency on every aspects of the marriage. Once that girl bumps her head hard and realized her pathetic life with you she can easily earn her keeps and leave you for a better life.
Oh lolita, how unfortunate that you can't see the light. My family is provided for. HAPPY. We have a higher purpose. Are we hungry? Naked? Getting rained on? Can we do whatever we want when we want? Indeed. Your social constructs have molded you and directed you into thinking about consumerism and not listening to your spirit. This is temporary. You shouldn't judge.
@@peterpoulter1420 that's the kind of attitude I've evolved from Peter. Ashamed of what? That I took my wife out of REAL poverty? The kind where one is lucky if they get a mere cup of rice in a day? The kind where her nieces and nephews have to skip a day of formula because they can't afford it? Where rain spills in through the cracks in the roof and the blankets get moldy and smell of must? Rats running around and their droppings fall on them when they're sleeping? My wife feels rich. My son wants for nothing. What kind of "bum" has fed over 500 families in two years and has innumerable friends who jump at the chance to help him and invite him to every party and gathering? By the time my kid comes of age he'll have a significant advantage over his peers. Through martial arts and a stellar education in business and philosophy he'll be able to navigate his way into whatever path he chooses. Dual citizenship gives him the ability to go anywhere, do anything. Life is not about money. It's about making your little world better for yourself and all those souls around you. I'm no bum..I'm a blessed guy who loves his life and wouldn't change it for the world
Panabo city here down in davao del Norte I have a budget of $5200 a month but I live like a local ride the trikes and busses and I live with my girlfriend and her family so no rent to pay but I do help out with food, electric bill, saving thousands a month.
Great little video . Looks like you’re living a great life buddy
When I was in Cebu, I didn't even go grocery shopping. I just ate at carenderias. Only cost me less that 2 dollars per meal.
Yep. The grocery store is a waste. Literally all the staples like fruits and veggies are double the cost of the local open markets (Mercado's)
Carendarias and home cooking. A fraction of the cost. Ppl act like it's impossible. But it's so simple. I can eat unlimited veggies and fruit, chicken and fish for $60 a week. Easily.
My man, I love your simple life. Indeed you have mentally liberated yourself from the materialistic and consumerism mentality of the west. Kudos!
My 1st time here. Liked this video and thus subscribed.
I promise to watch most of your videos and not skip ads.
I live in Bohol and spent 1300 usd a month, we have our own house a car and we eat and drink all we want, dont understand the peolple who say you need 3000, really nice to see that you manage 500 a month👍
And nice to hear you're also doing well on your budget to Frans! That's why this video is important because it's showing others what a realistic hands on monthly budget can be and what they can get
Yes agree we also live on a budget of 1300USD and have a good life also eat good , have our own house . Take care !!!
Living the minimalist dream😊
Nice honest video some people will say your not living your just surviving but not me as long as your happy with your life which l am sure you are.
I lived on less in Manila the expats used to encourage me to have coffee mornings with them or eat out or go to bares.
No thanks l am happy with my life and my wife.
But it's nice to be asked.
Take care always
Regards James
@@jamesdee2434 the irony is that I'm super living. I eat fresh tropical fruit everyday. Seafood multiple times a week. Fresh coconut juice whenever I desire. I go to the beach at my leisure...and play with my beautiful boy everyday.
I couldn't do the beach, fruit and seafood so often in the states. I get to have much more of those things here than ever. It's awesome
I'm glad to see another video standing by your word of living on or under a $1000 a month..!😂 I've got 5 yrs til I retire & I'm already chomping at the bit with these $2000 a mo + lifestyle vids..😢
It can definitely be done for less than they say...but, it's not for everyone. Most ppl couldn't. It takes a certain type of person. Just make sure before you commit to anything long term
Great video Ben. The minimalistic lifestyle you lead is very appealing. You definitely are showing how to do that and do it well. Good for you!!!!
Thanks a lot Andy. I appreciate your input. I get a bit of flack for it from some guys, but man , I really don't care. I'm in the best space ever in my life. Ppl wonder "how can that be?" But I've just realized what matters most to me, and focus on that.
Thanks again bro, take care
@@philippinesxtremes good for you for not caring what others think. As long as you are happy is all that matters. I think that as you get older you realize that material possessions don't really mean that much. A roof over your head for you and your loved ones (and full bellies) is all that really matters. Keep doing what you are doing!!!
I really admired your style, you shut down all the vloggers saying that you need more than a $1000 a month, Or you will be suffering and starving yourself, if you are living below $1000 a month you are proven them wrong more twice, regards from Boston MA!!
Ya evral, it's definitely possible. Xtremely viable. But, not everyone can live without the western products. Not everyone can stand the heat. Not everyone is willing to ride a jeepney or a trike.
Buying in a grocery store, running ac, and paying for a automobile literally makes what I do impossible.
More power to the dudes that need those things. But to the guys that don't..they need to know what time it is so they can stop withering away in slavery and live on their own terms
As long as you're content and happy with your life that's all that counts. Who cares what anyone else thinks.
@@Gurkha9 that's right bro, nailed it. Life is good.
Everybody has a different perspective of what a good lifestyle is. That's why I like videos like this for ppl that are looking for an average lifestyle.
I've lived high..and I've lived low. This situation I've created here is light-years better than the crappy pay by the week apartment I had when I was 18 yrs old in downtown Portland Oregon.. cheaper too.
And for the money, this place we live in now is double the size of all my neighbors. I feel like this is a score to be honest hehe.
You're right, it's all about perspective in that regard. Another major aspect is whether the person is happy internally. If not, not even a mansion will satiate.
I'm glad I gave a you a window into what's possible here. Thanks for watching and dropping a comment bro
I'm in cebu now, I met a great woman, and I'll be living here by next summer. Seeing your life is like looking into my future. I'll probably go with a higher budget though. thanks for the video.
Great video as I do my research for what is possible. Very informative. Thanks
Glad to help Steve
Hi Ben .
Great 👍 video on living frugal near the Cebu area.
I just became a new subscriber to your channel.
Take care and keep up the great work.
Hey thanks 🙏. I appreciate that bro
Good video , i agree you can survive with less than 1000USD , well done !!! Take care !!!
Thank you for sharing God bless 🙏
Syempre kaibigan. Ingat
Thanks for sharing!
You bet. And thanks to u for watching
Ganda ng apartment nyo Kaibigan
Good on you and good luck to you and your family!
Thanks for turning in Eamon. Appreciate the well wishes 🙏
Thank you for this vid. Even if it doesn't work for some. It gives a great perspective on what can be found cheap.. Especially if your starting over.. Thanks again
Hey you're welcome kevo. There's something for everyone here.
But how is the noise level?
thanks again for the reassurance being able to live well under $1K as opposed to your last vid with the expat having a pension of $5K+ and recommending, what $3-5K+ to survive? come on man. thanks man for the reassurance that it can be done under $1K. Peace! from a fellow Washingtonian!
@@BeerBikes whoa! Long time no see my brother. Hope all's well.
And ya it can be done under 1k for sure, but it takes a certain type of person that can enjoy things in such a way.
All the extra western style stuff is what costs ya for real.
Anyhow. Great to hear from ya. Take care my man
Great video. I live in Cebu City for $2k monthly and I've seen apartments here for $90 monthly, but I like eating out, having a pool and gym.
Thanks Carl. If you're happy at whatever budget. That's All that matters
Bless you need fam
@@rubend413 blessing to you too friend
I like how you are living.
Thanks Paul! We are super happy. And you can be too, with the right mentality/approach
Thanks a lot ben for sharing
You bet Alan! Thanks for watching and commenting as usual.
Hope all's well 🙏
maayong adlaw pud. good thumbnail and title, i hope this one does well
Thanks bro. I'd be happy with 500 views at this point 😂
@@philippinesxtremes 830 and counting
1.5 k now 😂. Someone must of greased some palms or something
@@philippinesxtremes no it’s the great thumbnail and category. People eat up 3 types of Philippines videos. Women, Money and Drama. 😅
Planning on retirement there. I've been to Cebu like 38 or so years ago. Really enjoy myself. But I'm not interested in going to the big island. Or Manila. I'm liking what you just described about that area. Slow pace but things to do close by. Low cost of living. Like your channel and I'll be watching! Be Safe!
Salamat Scott! Things have changed sooo much in 38 yrs...you probably won't recognize it. Cordova on Mactan is definitely a good location. Kind of a hidden gem of sorts. Check out my next upload where I show a bit of the area..
@@philippinesxtremes will be watching for it. Thx
great video Ben
Salamat kuya.
10,000 Roses Bro
@@TomandAmyinthePI ??
@@philippinesxtremes That's the only place we have been in Cordova..... Lol
Oh haha. I was confused.
Speaking of confused...when I went to 10k roses. I thought it was going to be a rose garden. With actual roses. I kept saying.."how can they grow roses here?" And no one really answered me. I show up and it's a buncha plastic things 😂..I'm like.."what in the world "? 😂
Pretty informative!
@@boriszhukov3174 got dat ryte ffs
Magandang araw Kaibigan napaka galing u gumawa ng video
Do you feel safe ? Why or what do you believe makes you feel safe. I'm just wondering. Good for you from what I see enjoy your life brother 👍🙏☦
@@ugenescott111 oh sure
Extremely safe. I'm from the nw area of the USA and the crime rates are skyrocketing there. Here, there's barely any of that nonsense.
I go out at night. Early early mornings. Philippines is way more safe than most places in the west.
giving that poorest filipinos live under 200PHP per day (3,50 USD), it reasonable to consider cheap options like yours. You are right about western food, that's the main reason expats spend so much, along with luxury condos. Cut the western food and western lifestyle, and your budget drops considerably.
Yes, those 2 factors alone literally bleed the cash.
I get that most people think they need those things to be happy though. I just think it's all contrived and kind of a waste. Not judging.. just not for me
Wow thats a great place for just 70$ I always am confused by the guys that say oh u need 1500 USD to live in the Phils I live in the outskirts of Sydney Australia and while i do own my home i have live off about 1200 USD a month for 4 years and still saved money on t hat too. Knowing how to cook well and cheaply is the biggest factor in cheap living
Ya man. It's good. And there's more like it if u really look around. If u can make it on that in Australia.. could definitely make it here bro
My 15 days of expenses was 23k peso. That's with out rent. True story. No frills.
@@mitch8575 good job Mitch! Don't need a ton and u know it now first hand
I do have 1 kilo austrailian beef Patty's and some can goods
Impressive budget setup! Well done. What are you doing Visa-wise?
Thanks Jim. I'm just on a tourist visa rn. I get 6 months at a stretch. Next re-up is in October. BUT we're working on the 13a which is a spousal visa. 13a is cheaper and less hassle in the long-run
Great video, proof a foreigner a lone like me could even live on less
Definitely Rich. It's dependant on the individual. There's a lot of good options in the 5k range. And for 10k here in Cordova, you can even live in a subdivision.
People abroad have a disadvantage in truly knowing that there's a lotta great deals to be had. Helps to be in country and start looking and asking around.
true and correct you can live 1 dollar or 100 dollars in one meal it just depends how u treat yourself or deal with it in a certain way.
That's right Melbourne. It's all perspective in that regard
The whole you “need” X/month to live somewhere has always been nonsense.
I have a friend whose mortgage here in the U.K. is double my take home pay. I have another friend who take home less than half of what I do. Friend A would probably think it’s tough to survive on my monthly budget and impossible to survive on friend Bs monthly budget. But we all do it. People learn to live within their means - everywhere.
Doesn’t look to me like you have a bad life on your budget. Good luck! Subscribed.
Exactly. It all depends on the individual. Good points made bro. Appreciate you signing on to the channel, and taking the time to share your thoughts.
Another very nice video sharing of your, very interesting subject regarding "LIVING A GREAT LIFE FOR $500 A MONTH IN CEBU PHILIPPINES"! Full support & Best of luck po/Ned 👏🎉👏
@@PhilippinesMyParadise I really appreciate you Ned. Always here supporting me. That's awesome
@@philippinesxtremes 🤝
Hello and I will be moving to Cebu in August and have a question. I am quite phobic about cockroaches etc. How is that situation in your apartment. I know it's not a big deal to others but to me it is and that's why I'm asking. Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge.
There's roaches pretty much everywhere here. Even in the grocery stores.
We don't have a lot of them in our apartment. The occasional on flies in the window from time to time. Cat chases it around for a few hours.
If you live in a high rise condo there will mainly just be cockroaches in the garbage chute/trash room on your floor. If you put weather seal around the entry door so there are no gaps you can avoid them pretty well. Otherwise they come under the door from the hallway. Florida is the same way. You can also seal all the electrical fixtures and plumbing entry points but they mostly come in through the entry door. The big jumbo cockroaches you mostly see tend not to infest your home like the small German ones do, they prefer to live outside.
@@sdickinson5234 Thanks!
@@philippinesxtremes Thanks!
9 Work/ +21 Vacation Days/ 41 Calendar Days to Civil Service Retirement/ ~86 Days to Cebu City for a Six Month Trial. I'm going to do IT Park or Business Park to start with & than see what I want as I get acclimated.
@@tedjohnson4451 do your thing and find your necessary style. Lot of great options here in the Cebu area. Enjoy!
My fiancés parents will be looking for a smaller place once she moves to the US. Is there parking available in the area for a motorbike or a car?
@@dennisboulis1859 all kinds of options here in Cordova for all budgets and needs for sure Dennis
Very good blog, can I ask you about your internet and visa costs. Thanks
@@christaylor7049 thanks Chris. Well my internet is free with the apartment. But you can get high speed anywhere from ₱1299 and up. Before, (in our other apartment) we were paying ₱1500
And Visa was like 11k for 6 months with the acr card. We're working on the permanent residency visa which will save a bundle in the long run.
Bud, there is an infant in your place. It's your child. One thing you put yourself and your wife through so much suffering (including no A/C), but have some mercy on your child for god's sake!
Filipino don't need ac. In fact it makes them cold. My kid is very happy and well cared for. My wife wants for nothing. Your version of contentment is misaligned with mine and countless millions of Filipino.
Many kids all over the world grew up with no A/C and they grew up well and many become world leaders. When did having an A/C become a MUST have for child rearing?
Bro, you are displaying classic western consumerism mindset. I hope one day you will liberal yourself from mental slavery.
Take care
Many kids grew up hungry and undernourished. Some of them will become so-called world leaders (dirty politicians). It means nothing. No logic here. Next time try to use you chicken brain before calling someone "liberal".
Hi Good morning, I am an expat currently living in UK but have a house in Cordova and intend to Retire next year. Cordova is a very accessible location and Good place to live. How long have you lived in Cordova. Have you tried cordova home village.
Hi Scot. We love Cordova too. We've been here close to 2 years. We haven't tried Cordova home village. But I have a friend who lives there
How did you find your apartment?
Word of mouth basically.
Are there many expats in your city? My mate lives in Mactan
There's some ya. Not as many in Cordova tho. Which is good
Its about choice, safety , managing funds , i can live in US on $500 a month , i know I did it , its nit how much you make its how much yiu keep
No thank you. I started my Philippine adventure almost 9 years ago in Lapu-lapu on around $ 700 US dollars per month. Mactan Island was too crowded and the air quality was terrible. Got my phone stolen on a jeepney, got clipped by a motorcycle, lost 20 pounds in 4 months and returned to the USA. Had an upper chest infection that took 2 rounds of antibiotics. Got food poisoning twice and had a girlfriend who was sending scantily clad pictures to another foreigner. Even with all of that I returned to the Philippines. Now I live in Dumaguete and like it much more than the Cebu area. Good luck in your adventures in the Philippines.
What a rough beginning Willy. Wow. Glad to hear that you didn't throw in the towel because now it seems you've found a sweet spot. Good for u brother 👍
Hey brother. Come visit us in Iloilo
HI! 👋 Long time no see.. Iloilo would be amazing to see. I bet you're loving life!
As long as you are happy with what you have. I live in Cebu City with 0 house payment and my budget is $3000(family of 4) because that is what I have to spend. I have travel budget, medical, savings, emergency savings, A/C, SUV payment, eating out, coffee out, western food and love my life style that I worked for 45 years(it's almost 2 times cheaper here than in the States). I just hate "camping" out in my old age. I hate eating dried fish or cheap fish and can't eat rice and my Filipino family loves western food. I hope you have a back up plan for medical and getting out of Dodge. Your little apt is great for where you are at. I could do it, but my Filipina wife would not live in a small place like that. We also have school cost, fees, uniforms, private schooling. I do pray you have back up funds for emergencies.
@@faronray5765 that's awesome faron. Sounds like you're living your best life. You earned it!
Since I don't drive or own a home, we don't incur those expenses. Like car payment..home maintenance.
It's pretty easy for us right now.
Glad you're happy here and enjoying it...too many ppl here have multiple gripes. It's always refreshing to hear from someone who isn't disgruntled.
Oh and btw, I can't do dried fish or cheap fish either 😂
Excellent video Ben, I know it’s nearly impossible to list every single peso you spend but this provides a realistic idea of what’s possible if you’re willing to live a live style closer to the way the locals do.
Thanks a bunch man. I hope it gives a viewer the gist of it. It's pretty straight forward for us. Sparring the occasional meet up with pals at ajoya 😉
Good on you. Most budget videos are viagra boys bragging about their wad. No grown man should tell another he ain't living right cause you don't live like them.
Comment of the day Robert. Men ain't doing the man thing no more. It's just a bunch of subservient misfits whom of which most all of us would probably avoid in " real life"
Fluff em off. They ain't about nuthin'
I heard viagra is expensive in the Philippines 😂
Sorry, but I cant live without AC in this humidity and heat. Also, I need to eat well and healthy. So I need a good food budget. Lol 😂 Greetings from Manila. GL
Understandable jet...too hot for a lotta people. We cook at home. It's pretty healthy.
I get the A/C part but eating vegetables, fruits, fish and living population free area, lower stress level doesn't sound unhealthy.
How do you define healthy lifestyle?
I do it for $1000, my monthly rental is included.
Good on ya bro. Couldn't ever live as good on that amount in your homeland. Amazing
How do you sleep with the Rosters & dogs going off all night?
After a while you don't hear them
It's true, after awhile you just tune them out. Only time I notice the noise is when I'm trying to record audio for something.
I like the roosters. It's kinda primal after living in the city for 40 years and thinking about the how the concrete jungle used to be a forest and lamenting that loss.
I've always had dogs so that's never bothered me.
But there's a lotta dogs near me...like a lot. I dunno. I just tune it out.fore it's a good trade over all the negative stuff back where I'm from
@@Traveler-PKK and on another note...... I take it your a city boy.
Roosters don't crow at night 😂 (with the exception of them sensing a predator)
You have never been to Hawaii have you. It is the same roosters every morning even where it's expensive especially on Kauai. 😉
Your killing it, you don't live like a local, reminds me of the Barry Jordan style. Think he's still in Mandaue detention center jail. Don't forget to pay your visa. 9:47
Good advice.
@Cebubossman7615
Barry and Paul got the raddest pad on Mactan
@@philippinesxtremes damn skippy
What about getting used to perspiring constantly when you don't have aircon?
I go out walking everyday. Work up a sweat.. come home and shower and sit by the fan. It cools me off. I just got used to it
@@philippinesxtremesindeed, AC is overrated, lived in Hong-Kong for years without barely using AC. It's a luxury, not essential, mankind has perfectly survived without AC for thousand of years.
@jcg4350 true that brother. I mean I do love that contrast when u walk into a Mall or some place that has ac...but it's like a treat.
I worked in Guam and the ac was on perpetually. I'd get cold after just a short time..and developed a cough too. It's pretty unnatural frankly.
500$ a month 😂😂😂😂 is unbelievable. I need 1000$ dollars a day just to keep the basics in my family's life in new York city. My mortgage is 8000$ dollars a month and property taxes are 3,000$ dollars a month my cars cost 3000$ dollars a month. My wife and 3 daughters manicures and pedicures cost me 1000$ dollars a month 😂😂😂. God bless you man
Wow! That's some high dollar living you have going there my brother. Hopefully you're happy in that situation. That's all that matters
Wow..if you want to do that fine and great!..for me, climbing those stairs and no A/C alone would be impossible.
It's only 8 steps bro. You could make it
Those stairs is the trick to getting good exercise and staying healthy. In the west it's not encouraged people to take the stairs instead of the elevator, of course with reason
Are there western style apartments there in Cordova ?
@@thaidawg9231 oh ya, definitely.
Tomorrow I'm doing another apartment review video.
That'll probably upload in 2 days.
There's some really nice subdivisions too
Have a friend who lives in a nice gated subdivision there on Mactan but the only problem is that it's underneath the airport flightpath. 😢
Ouch. That sucks. Over in Cordova it's quiet. You see planes but the noise level is minimal
@@mattchapelle5611 To paraphrase a quote from the Blues Brothers - "How often do the planes go by?" "So often you won't even notice it."
@sdickinson5234 haha. It's funny.. yesterday I was talking to my neighbor and mid Convo we couldn't hear each other cuz a plane was flying over... immediately I thought of this question and was like..dang... maybe I'm just used to it 😂
I would definitely do a lot of what you are doing. There is the exception of the living arrangements. The house is too cramped, and that leads to too much clutter. My mind wouldn't be settled in that apartment. So add 500 for our family. We are 4.
Ya you need a bigger place for that many people for sure. Our baby is just 7 months so he doesn't take up much space.
$500 a month with a gf AND a baby ?? Seems almost impossible ? If survival is the goal then I guess but probably not
realistic or sustainable..but good luck to you guys, hope all goes well for you !
@@danramsay5844 ya $500. My wife is a province girl. She's used to the food struggle. We struggle for nothing. And eat whenever and whatever she wants. She feels rich in that sense.
It's sustainable though. Most people don't realize how affordable it actually is simply buying in the markets and cooking at home.
I mean a kilo of my favorite fish is less than $3. That's 2.2 pounds. In other words. 2 full meals. I can also buy a whole chicken for $3.50...also 2 meals. A whole weeks worth of vegetables and spices for $6.
I could go on, but you get the drift, I literally could gorge myself on unlimited food and never break the bank.
Life is fantastic. The best ever Dan. Truly
I have never seen apartment that cheap in our area.
I'm a vlogger in the Baranggay here. Everyone knows me. I get all the grass roots info. There's an apartment right across from me for 3k. And another down the road for 3.7k.
Not nearly as spacious as mine though. Down at the end, near the school, there's some for 5k.
There's a lot of good deals. Just gotta integrate
I couldn't live like that but good on you.
Everyone has different needs for sure. I'm content
actually give it a year or two and you WILL be living like that in America soon.
@Jimbo-v3m
Agreed, The U .S. is being set up for a restructure, and not a good one,,, most will be enslaved economically, as we already are, but only worse... Here comes the down fall, and more than likely a civil war...
Ur doing the Bossa Nova in Cordova
Got dat ryte brudda
I'm sure those stairs are up to code. Lol
@@thomaspoore3615 😂😂 that's hilarious because that's EXACTLY the joke I made the first time I walked up them 😂
I’ve seen some hilarious stair cases here 😂
you must have found your wife in the mountains
Indeed 👍
you can live on 500 but remember Murphy's Law- what could go wrong will. wish you the best
Salamat kuya. Appreciate it
Do you get a lot of earthquakes there? How far are you from the nearest volcano? On your family budget of three what is your typical day like? Do you both have any hobbies? is your baby walking around a lot at this point? Are you living on Social Security? Where does your income come from? Thanks for the video as I wonder on my $1,221 a month SS how I will be able to live and commute with my bicycle and you tell it like it is and can make it amazingly cheap. I think I can save a lot by not owning a car or motorcycle. How much does gas cost? Thanks for going to the hard work of creating videos!
No not a lotta earthquakes. There was one on a nearby island and Cebu felt some minor trembles from it. Last year.
I'm not sure how far away a volcano is from us. But no where near us that's for sure.
My day is just family stuff. Neighborhood stuff.
It's pretty low key.
I'm too young for social security. I get income from a rental I have back in the states..and some online stuff I do.
$1221 is a lot more than I have. I personally could make it on that easily..but some people couldn't.
You definitely can save just biking it.
I'm not sure gas prices because I don't drive so I haven't been tracking it like I would if I had a vehicle.
If you set yourself up near all the things you need..like a market/grocery store..you should be fine.
Come and explore for a bit. See if it resonates with you. If so, pack it up and get over here 💜
@@philippinesxtremes Thanks so much for taking the time with me amid all of your subscribers and for your videos. I'll watch more. I just thought I remembered that area had a couple of active volcanoes but I suppose that's much farther south in Indonesia. I didn't think you were retirement age at all but thought maybe you had some special form of SS as some receive it at any age for special reasons. An old friend who had an older father started getting SS once his father turned 65 or retired and so from age 12 I think it was through age 18 his SS accumulated and I think he got it all at once or maybe he got it throughout those 6 years. You're so resourceful with rentals in the US and all that you'll come up with a much greater income and own your own home there. All the best to you and yours! I'll pray for you and family.
There's volcanoes in the Philippines and earthquakes too. Especially in Luzon. But down here in Cebu we don't have.
Anyhow, I appreciate you. Thanks bro. God bless 🙏
@@philippinesxtremes Yo Bro! It's funny... well I mean in a strange way that I write about or ask about earthquakes in the Philippines and you just got a 7.0 earthquake a few hours ago. Fortunately it was in the mantle and I think it was 381 miles below the surface and off one of your main islands. I was writing about an earthquake a few years ago in my trilogy I've been working on and a sizeable earthquake happened in the same area and across southern California. Yes a magnanimous deed taking your own time and effort to tell others about the Philippines as so many want to go there and watching what they can about it. Sounds like strange new visa laws enacted just a few days ago.
As a young guy from a first world country. Why do you choose to live on a tight budget in the Philippines
Part two kinda explains my mentality on it..but the Philippines spoiled me years ago. I got infected by the contrasting approach to life here as opposed to the USA.
Why not live where I'm happiest? I only got this one life. Gotta live it the most fulfilling way
If you and your wife are happy that’s what matters . I want to retire there soon on $1700.
$1700 is a good amount of dough. You'd be fine
Can't never could and then can do took over !
It's Evolution man 👍
Wow . It doesn't look like your living a great life. I hope you can get your family back to the US and get back to living well. You have seemed to give up on the American dream ? Its time to go to work...
I would NEVER and I say that loudly..ever, take them to the States. Dream? That's a nightmare. A lie, a fallacy.
Happiest I've ever been currently. And wouldn't trade it for the world. Truly blessed
Is there such thing as the "American dream"? Come on bro, where have you been last 30 years
@@philippinesxtremes
Bro many westerners are brainwashed by the elites with the idea of you have ALL just to enslave them
@Ego-Kills I'm living the American dream been retired for 14 years. I have travelled around the world 9 times..
wow that is a mansion
To each their own brother
Mansion for the mentally liberated people
your wife is hiding 😊
Camera shy 😂
Yes hiding because of modesty unlike our women in the west who lack modesty
500 usd = 25-28k a month. Many professional heck even call center agent can easily earn 30-35k a month. Your family deserves a better life. Poor girl got stacked with a cheap guy.
You should be ashamed of yourself for passing so much judgement and showing how materialistic you are.
Here we go again, typical materialistic Western mindset
Another $500 Budget video ~ 😂 😂 I'm living on $1200 or $1500 near IT PARK I want life LARGE ~ not a local ~ yes I eat at home but I love having the freedom to do stuff like go out everyday or every other day ~ not eating Western food or not traveling ~ My rent is $255 a month ~ Please don't misinform people Yes Im moving to Lapu Lapu for cheaper rent with in 6 months
ok
Misinform how?
$500 is possible. I'm living proof. And as states..gotta pay more if u want more. Pretty cut n dry brother
Good for u u want large as opposed to local. That's what it's all about. Being content and enjoying the experience right?
Not here to judge. Her to do me. As u are here to do u.
Philippines is awesome
If you are paying $250 rent close to IT park, surely Ben's $75 rent in Cordova makes sense. Everything is relative. You compare people's lifestyle.
@@philippinesxtremes OK if u think so? He is not living ~ I'll be renting a 2/1 in Lapu2 ~ I make $9000 a month on my business ~ I am living large for $1500 ~ I just save money??
I don't understand what's so fun about living like this in the Philippines
If you move to somewhere like the Philippines and don’t want to adapt to the corresponding lifestyle, my advice is stay where you are, simple. You definitely have to spend a month or two over there to see if it is for you.
I love the small village lifestyle in the Cote D’Azur which is very different to life in the big smoke. Admittedly, the cities are much more accessible.
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@@Bisli61 I dunno bro, I'm not looking for that kinda conventional version of fun so much in life anymore.
I get satisfaction out of hanging out with my kid and the people in the neighborhood.
Everything here is such a contrast to everything in the states.
The jeepneys. The trikes.
Everywhere I go there's a friendly face greeting me and happy to see me.
It's all so refreshing and uplifting. It's worth it's weight in gold
@hardmanst excellent advice bro. Too many can't seem to figure that out
I came to Australia 25 years ago and a minority of expats (from other 1st world countries) yearned for the life that they have left behind and that is comparing two first world countries. You have to do your due diligence and be prepared to accept the good and bad in your new country
The fun may not be physically but mentally is a freedom. Nothing is more better for your mental health than a simple life full of stress free.
The average western has the so called "good life" yet most are unhappy, why is that?
so show us the view from your window , like your click bait thumbnail
That pic is 10 mins from my house in Cordova. I can walk there if I wanted
that looks like your living large hahaha
@@jamesgilbert2181 if living large matters?? I'm pretty sure what matters even more, is the human connections.
I took the red pill man. There's something amiss in this old world, and I intend to not let the discombobulation derail me from creating a ripple effect 👍
Some say 'living the life' more like 'gave up on life'.
That's your take away from it ? For real? Couldn't be further from the mark man.
Everyone has different definition for living the life. Keep moving idiot
Or maybe this dude is blindsiding his local wife of their real finances. This is why many Filipina still prefers Filipino men coz our men gives their wallet and atms to us wives. We don't have what call Western folks boundaries. What we advocate is transparency on every aspects of the marriage. Once that girl bumps her head hard and realized her pathetic life with you she can easily earn her keeps and leave you for a better life.
You're the type of Filipina all guys should avoid. Judgemental rude and westernized.
You have a wife and a baby..you are so stingy
Oh lolita, how unfortunate that you can't see the light. My family is provided for. HAPPY. We have a higher purpose. Are we hungry? Naked? Getting rained on? Can we do whatever we want when we want? Indeed.
Your social constructs have molded you and directed you into thinking about consumerism and not listening to your spirit. This is temporary. You shouldn't judge.
Honestly friend how can you bring a wife and a child up in an environment like that you should be ashamed come on man your living like a bum .
@@peterpoulter1420 that's the kind of attitude I've evolved from Peter.
Ashamed of what? That I took my wife out of REAL poverty? The kind where one is lucky if they get a mere cup of rice in a day?
The kind where her nieces and nephews have to skip a day of formula because they can't afford it? Where rain spills in through the cracks in the roof and the blankets get moldy and smell of must? Rats running around and their droppings fall on them when they're sleeping?
My wife feels rich.
My son wants for nothing. What kind of "bum" has fed over 500 families in two years and has innumerable friends who jump at the chance to help him and invite him to every party and gathering?
By the time my kid comes of age he'll have a significant advantage over his peers. Through martial arts and a stellar education in business and philosophy he'll be able to navigate his way into whatever path he chooses. Dual citizenship gives him the ability to go anywhere, do anything.
Life is not about money. It's about making your little world better for yourself and all those souls around you.
I'm no bum..I'm a blessed guy who loves his life and wouldn't change it for the world
Panabo city here down in davao del Norte I have a budget of $5200 a month but I live like a local ride the trikes and busses and I live with my girlfriend and her family so no rent to pay but I do help out with food, electric bill, saving thousands a month.
Socking it away. That's good I guess. It's great to experience a different culture and lifestyle ya?
Thanks for sharing !
Thank you for sharing God bless 🙏
Thanks Angelo