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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.พ. 2024
  • my ig: / itsraylikesunshine
    Today we're looking at the worst grooms of tiktok, from cake flips to vows that would make a frat president proud.
    Okay thanks for watching imma go back to playing helldivers :)

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  • @thegreivousone2444
    @thegreivousone2444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2652

    7:35
    As a caucasian, no wtf

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +627

      okay cool ya boi had to check

    • @Lovefortea448
      @Lovefortea448 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +524

      The caucacity

    • @total_eclipsegacha
      @total_eclipsegacha 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      ​@@Lovefortea448 LMAOOOO 😭

    • @GenZDoomer9000
      @GenZDoomer9000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a white person and anthropologist
      no literally no culture does this. Not black people not white people not Chinese people not the Sentinelese. No culture talks about their sex life in front of their in laws at the wedding.

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      Real if someone said this to me I'd cry

  • @Hepheat75
    @Hepheat75 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3161

    I feel sorry for these poor girls. To be embarrassed at your wedding is horrible, and to have the groom downright be the cause of the embarrassment is insane.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +426

      I have a feeling these girls lack positive support systems, or else these men would've been voted off the island from day 1

    • @boopbooperson1654
      @boopbooperson1654 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      ​​​@@RayLikeSunshineCompletely agree. A lot of women are raised to have co-dependent caretaker mindset, but with an unhealthy added dose of having her self-esteem, dignity and boundaries emotionally/psychologically beaten out of her before she's 15, and then men like this just view her as a replacement to his mother + meat sock to use (I think the first clip portrays this perfectly). Frankly, if I had a to-be husband who said these things at the wedding, I'd leave and remove him from my life. Like, do these men even like women, let alone love their fiancee? Makes you wonder how many other red flags he showed during the relationship before the marriage, that the girlfriend just knacked up to "oh he'll change and grow up, because I'll show him the way and fix him." [Obviously men have the same types or similar issues that effect their self-worth and ability to hold healthy boundaries, but for the sake of video relevancy I'm addressing women's side of the coin.]
      This goes for both men and women: KNOW YOUR WORTH. Better to be alone than to settle for someone who drags your spirit and esteem downwards.

    • @ohjonash
      @ohjonash 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Ugh the second wife apparently came to his defense and said that was just his sense of humor and she liked it and I’m just like. I’m embarrassed FOR her.

    • @user_7239
      @user_7239 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@boopbooperson1654nailed it.

    • @meganrogers3571
      @meganrogers3571 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@ohjonashSecond wife out of how many?!

  • @strawburrymilk195
    @strawburrymilk195 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2642

    At least bridezillas try to make their weddings perfect, groomzillas just out here trying to mess it up as hard and fast as possible

    • @cynister7384
      @cynister7384 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      Divorce speedrun any%

    • @flickcentergaming680
      @flickcentergaming680 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Very true.

    • @AuntieAntifa
      @AuntieAntifa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      THIS 😆😅

    • @goofy_goober-dk5bc
      @goofy_goober-dk5bc 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can admire bridezillas because they just want their wedding to go perfect like you said, groomzillas are genuinely just lazy fucks

    • @jamesringo7070
      @jamesringo7070 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bridezillas have definitely never ruined their own wedding lmao

  • @matthewsanchez7953
    @matthewsanchez7953 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1489

    _"I fell in love with him because of his sense of humor!"_
    *His sense of humor:*

    • @WonderWopunny
      @WonderWopunny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      No because their 'humor', is I should be going to prison level.

    • @compassrose1466
      @compassrose1466 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      “ I love his humor so much 🥰🥰🥰”
      Him saying the most completely shitty, abusive, and even misogynistic “joke” try can:

    • @WonderWopunny
      @WonderWopunny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@compassrose1466
      "Yall, he loves me, and cares for my mental health.."
      Meanwhile he doesn't even believe it's a real thing

    • @CatwHolyWater
      @CatwHolyWater 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The only way I can see someone falling for that sense of humour is on their face, like groom bye-

    • @heyizz
      @heyizz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This is the "reward" women get for being pick mes or settling. This kind of leftover man that insist on how funny they are tend to be the least funny people I've ever met.

  • @the_magic_celery
    @the_magic_celery 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4014

    Help my mum watches married at first sight and one of the grooms was literally like "I'm a dominant alpha" completely unironically

    • @f15hed
      @f15hed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +321

      HELP THATS SO VILE 😭

    • @Teagancapricestars
      @Teagancapricestars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

      He def used to bark at his lunch ladies@@f15hed

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +578

      reminds of of that one Tywin Lannister quote.... "Any man that must say "I am the King", is no true King"

    • @BittyBookishBoo
      @BittyBookishBoo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

      Similar but not wedding related - a few years back in middle school a guy did a presentation about how he is the alpha wolf and dominant above everyone in his “pack”… he was like 12… he went on about how all women like that… it is scarred into my brain…

    • @LadyMajolish
      @LadyMajolish 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Oh my god, they are like the ones from Wattpad…. 😦

  • @user-hg1le2tc4g
    @user-hg1le2tc4g 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1623

    Grooms are not supposed to embarrass themselves. That’s the best man’s job.

    • @ellismith2745
      @ellismith2745 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

      Let's not embarrass anyone at a wedding thank you

    • @lxmesoda
      @lxmesoda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      ​@@ellismith2745true tho

    • @jglobetrotter2830
      @jglobetrotter2830 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +234

      I attended a wedding where the best man said “I was told to prepare a toast.” And the presented the bride and groom with a plate of buttered toast. Honestly, still one of my favorite wedding speeches ever.

    • @flickcentergaming680
      @flickcentergaming680 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@@jglobetrotter2830 love this.

    • @Matty002
      @Matty002 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ​@@jglobetrotter2830as a lover of buttered toast, im jealous

  • @maira.azzara
    @maira.azzara 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +816

    the amount of men who proudly hate their wives makes me sad

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Agreed

    • @amybess
      @amybess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Look up what a shut up ring is

    • @sillygo0oser
      @sillygo0oser 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@amybess omg my brother is doing this to his gf

    • @Trinidadianlove
      @Trinidadianlove หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please tell her ​@@sillygo0oser

  • @ninniepd
    @ninniepd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1346

    I'm almost impressed by the audacity some of these men possess. You're trying to tell me you sat down and wrote your vows (which you KNOW you will be saying in front of...so many people) and still decided to put in sex jokes that a 13 year old could've written?? I'm really failing to understand the thought process

    • @acelovesdiyschristopher7023
      @acelovesdiyschristopher7023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      They weren't even well thought out!

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

      yeah at least have some originality, and not a single "deez nutz" joke? be forreal

    • @lxmesoda
      @lxmesoda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      wedding vows if they were written by vivziepop

    • @tinkallie
      @tinkallie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@lxmesoda HELLLP

    • @beatrice4628
      @beatrice4628 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      If I remember correctly their kids were present as well

  • @Boredom-Incorporated
    @Boredom-Incorporated 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +572

    As a white person no we don’t say that and we disown those weird people and I’m so white that I can speak for all of us

    • @UnkownWonders
      @UnkownWonders 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

      It's very calming to know a white sheet of paper was able to give the rest of us confirmation and confirmation they are disowned for their actions /hj. Makes it easier to rest us well now

    • @Boredom-Incorporated
      @Boredom-Incorporated 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      @@UnkownWonders no problem just doing my duty of whiteness

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

      THE BEACONS ARE LIT. GONDOR CALLS FOR AID

    • @flickcentergaming680
      @flickcentergaming680 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As another extremely pale white person from Buttfuck, Nowhere, I must concurr.

    • @Shammrye
      @Shammrye 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you so much for doing this solemn duty

  • @mitsubachi6865
    @mitsubachi6865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +380

    The mother is absolutely not OK with it. She is only remaining super calm in order to avoid adding any extra embarrassment to this already awful situation.

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      She is so unbelievably disappointed lol

    • @Sleipnirseight
      @Sleipnirseight 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's not what it looks like to me. She looks like she's playing into the joke for the sake of the audience. Spineless joking and lack of parenting is why that man turned out to be such a selfish, disrespectful POS with zero understanding of accountability.

    • @contemporarydncethot0382
      @contemporarydncethot0382 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      The priest was upset too. I hope she got this annulled. I bet the mother told her too.

  • @LadyMajolish
    @LadyMajolish 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1257

    imagine it is your best day when you and your partner exchange vows, and then all of a sudden when your partner is saying their full vows as they are saying the most wildest shit in front of everybody you know and right in your face, seriously can't imagine being in their position or even process that.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

      these brides should 100% have walked out imo

    • @ari_ismynameee
      @ari_ismynameee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      I’d just leave the alter at that point. If my significant other can’t write how much they love me and yadadada, then I don’t want them.

    • @flickcentergaming680
      @flickcentergaming680 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@ari_ismynameeeall I ask is that he says something classy.

  • @prenimystic
    @prenimystic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +523

    If I ever fall in love with someone, spend years with them, and decide to spend THOUSANDS to marry them - let alone just simply MARRY them - and all of the sudden, this person that I have come to love pulls this sh*t on me ○_○
    I am kicking off my shoes, picking up my dress, and RUNNING like an Olympic track star OUT OF THERE. Everything - I'm breaking off everything.

    • @kickmuncher3
      @kickmuncher3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      it wouldn't be that sudden... trust me that these women knew who they were marrying... I bet one of them even spoke to him before and asked him to keep it appropriate lol

  • @ayla8345
    @ayla8345 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +524

    The first guy was too lazy to write vows, the second was like “I need to get this off my chest. This needs to be said” and wrote an entire paragraph.

    • @boopbooperson1654
      @boopbooperson1654 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Easy to be lazy when you don't care. He clearly has no respect or care for his to-be wife.

    • @Pugkin5405
      @Pugkin5405 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      ​@@boopbooperson1654I looked the two of them up and apparently the guy marrying them is the bride's uncle. He said the groom was nervous and tried a joke that didn't land, bit the two are happily married and both really care about each other
      I don't know if it's true or not, but as long as the bride is happy I don't care how bad the first guy did. It's their relationship and they can decide if it's worth it or not

  • @DoxieCarter
    @DoxieCarter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +337

    The priest was so disappointed in him. I’m so disgusted right now in him

  • @mazzy_vc
    @mazzy_vc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +756

    I don't think the brides can be blamed here at all. The fact that their parents and family or even friends didn't object and prevent these weddings from happening when they heard the vows (although I'm sure there was plenty of other red flags they completely ignored too) speaks to what kind of people are in these women's lives. If their own parents don't love them or respect them, its no wonder they grew up to get with men that likewise don't love or respect them. These poor women don't know what it is to be treated with dignity and have been convinced disrespect and dismissal is normal so accept that for their relationships.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

      I would agree, I think these people lack positive support structures, and sometimes it's the partner who is cutting off those support structures through gaslighting and manipulation. But I have had friends who have been in that position.... and it's extremely taxing for one's own mental health to constantly have to be there to support that friend who's in an abusive relationship, especially when they keep going headfirst into the cycle over and over again.
      I guess what I'm trying to figure out is... at what point is it fully on all parties except for the bride and at what point can you say that the bride still has free will and has to break out of that relationship at their own volition?

    • @mazzy_vc
      @mazzy_vc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      @@RayLikeSunshine I understand it can be a lot to try and help someone who continues returning to an abuser and certainly no one can break out of that if they don't have the will to do so, but at the same time its important to remember that as difficult as it is to help someone in that situation, its so much more difficult to be the person in that situation. Victims will on average return to their abusers 7 times. That shows women are desperately trying to escape and often do, but the mental affects and the consequences are strong enough to drag them right back in. So I will amend my statement that the brides are without fault, but certainly their family and friends should have refused to attend to make it clear they do not support these very obviously toxic relationships.

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Why are you trying to blame the brides in the first place? They weren’t the ones who chose to humiliate their partners.

    • @TheDemonCaine
      @TheDemonCaine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      So you can blame the family but not the fully grown adult who chooses to say yes to marrying these men? Give me a break. No accountability for your own choices.

    • @Sleipnirseight
      @Sleipnirseight 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      THIS. Also a great example of "EVERYBODY should have a therapist, just like everybody should have a primary care doctor"

  • @user-mp1is6ys7m
    @user-mp1is6ys7m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +322

    There's wooden or plastic dowells in tall cakes for structure so they don't fall apart. That can seriously hurt someone like it can go in her eye

    • @mssunnylunarain7
      @mssunnylunarain7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      There is actually a video on TH-cam of a man getting impaled by one when his face was shoved down.

    • @audreyquinn73
      @audreyquinn73 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Aside from the potentialphysical harm, which is truly scary, the bride spent loads of money on hair, makeup- not to mention the dress- in order to look her very best on their most special day, and now she's covered in sticky cake icing and humiliation. 😢

  • @Pickled_Off
    @Pickled_Off 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    I genuinely think the only reason half of these people stay in the relationship after is because they already have kids

  • @bran5267
    @bran5267 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    This ain’t a white person thing, I’m white and I think my whole family would abandon me if I said shit like this, and my gf would sure as hell leave my ass in the dust bro 😂

  • @siimsimmy
    @siimsimmy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +196

    why use your wedding vows to express your love and adoration for your wife when instead you can slowly let everyone around her know you might ✨hate her✨

  • @justinwatson1510
    @justinwatson1510 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +753

    I was raised in the Southeastern United States, and the groom's behavior wasn't surprising to me. I'm pretty sure one of my cousins got cake crammed into her face at her wedding; southern men are raised to never develop emotionally beyond 12 and southern women are raised to spend their lives serving southern men.

    • @Shima0000
      @Shima0000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

      That is so sad..😩I would RUN if I get a cake smashed in my face. I mean why would you do that to your wife in front of everyone…and all the expensive makeup and dress will be ruined too…

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

      may as well have a dunk tank full of cake than just a cake

    • @ranchdressingisablessing8082
      @ranchdressingisablessing8082 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I’m from the Deep South & your generalizations are crazyyy lol

    • @justinwatson1510
      @justinwatson1510 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

      @@ranchdressingisablessing8082 what generalizations? My mom never taught me how to cook because "you'll have a wife who will do that for you," and I had male friends growing up so I got to see that I was not being raised much differently. We are raised to be helpless in addition to sexist and racist. I hope you had a different experience; I would love to see America, especially the South, turn into a less awful society. I'm not holding my breath, though.

    • @ranchdressingisablessing8082
      @ranchdressingisablessing8082 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justinwatson1510 sounds like your mom just sucked lol my husband cooks for me & our kids half the time, we’ve been together for 13 years and have a great relationship as do most married couples I know here in the Deep South. I love the south & it’s people like you who give us a bad name but I’m also ok with that bc I don’t want people moving here :)

  • @ludicrouspotatoe5565
    @ludicrouspotatoe5565 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    As a white woman, this is absolutely NOT a thing oh my goodness my parents would absolutely pass away on impact the moment any semblance of those man's words met their ears. I married a Chinese man so his parents would similarly combust like mine.

  • @panda2178
    @panda2178 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +364

    The AUDACITY of these men ....

  • @RazorRevenge
    @RazorRevenge 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I’ve told everyone that if my future husband ever says anything like that at my wedding I’ll leave them then and there on the alter. No marriage for you, buddy. You want your balls empty you’ll have to find someone else to put up with you.

  • @kateemma22
    @kateemma22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    These Tik Toks are gonna be great media examples of Stockholm Syndrome in a future psychology student’s presentation.

  • @HazZzel-
    @HazZzel- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    These men make me question if I really do like men 😭
    Also I love the way you edit an overwhelming amount. Like, this is the peak of comedy

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      i keep my editor in the dungeon 24/7 (my editor is me)

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@RayLikeSunshine Omg add some aesthetic lighting to the dungeon so you don't get sad

    • @kukundalaura8688
      @kukundalaura8688 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Honestly same it’s hard out here 😭😭 I don’t even think I might date till
      I’m like 25

    • @asskayzac
      @asskayzac 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kukundalaura8688well there are good men out there, just hard to find but it’s possible

    • @fimbulsummer
      @fimbulsummer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@RayLikeSunshineWe don’t kink shame

  • @bonyeni
    @bonyeni 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    I am genuinely curious if these people make fake vows for content and have the family watch

    • @UnkownWonders
      @UnkownWonders 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      If yes they better get paid for this or get drunk for that. Cuz ain't no way anyone would do that for free or sober

    • @sidneyboo9704
      @sidneyboo9704 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah but thats expensive day to bullshit around.

    • @UnkownWonders
      @UnkownWonders 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sidneyboo9704 yea which makes groomzillas even worse and the reason they get their ass divorced withing a week 💀🤚

  • @VTPPGLVR
    @VTPPGLVR หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    “The only thing worse than being single and lonely is being married and lonely.” - my dad, who had a good marriage but witnessed enough damaging marriages to encourage my sisters and I to **NOT** fall for immature jerks

  • @imdani4997
    @imdani4997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    Bridezilla : trying to make the wedding as perfect as to her liking
    Groomzilla : trying to make the wedding as awful as to his liking
    Both have different goal but still equally unbearable

    • @luciferia.1313
      @luciferia.1313 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Where did you get the assumtion that the bride made her entire wedding to only fit HER when its literally, quiet obviously for the whole family? Who the fuck makes a wedding to only suit their tastes while the guests feel shit? Seriously. Quit trying to make women seem bad out of assumtions just to sace the man SOMEHOW.

    • @imdani4997
      @imdani4997 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@luciferia.1313 ops found one lol. Anyway, everyone had heard stories about bridezillas and they're just as awful. A lot of them actually burden their family members and even guests (strictly want everyone to follow her rules, throwing tantrum to slightest thing that doesn't suit her taste, etc) let's not pretend any of them are bearable

    • @luciferia.1313
      @luciferia.1313 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@imdani4997 Lets not pretend like they would make the vast majority as much of like grooms do. Yes, Bridezillas are awful as fuck, but Groomzillas are just straight from hell.

    • @imdani4997
      @imdani4997 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@luciferia.1313 meh both are a pain in the ass but in different ways. I'm not gonna spend my time defending any of them so whatever

  • @ames_elaine
    @ames_elaine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    this just reminds me of my mom telling me how her wedding was one of the worst days of her life. my mom is the who proposed after they got pregnant w/ me *she begged him deadass*, one of her sisters wore white to the wedding & my grandma threw a tantrum during the reception. 25+ yrs he didn't do a single thing for her birthday or their anniversary. ladies never fucking settle unless you want to have an extra kid your entire life.

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry your dad is so awful but I’m sure she thought at the time marriage was the most sensible option

  • @ll2323
    @ll2323 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    That fact that these women continued to marry men that clearly need more maturity. I don’t understand them.

    • @aikotitilai3820
      @aikotitilai3820 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      They say love makes people blind....
      But that aside, the only explanation I see is that they didn't have a good support system or a good father figure to show them what a good man is supposed to be like. Someone who only had crap to eat will think something out of a dumpster is top cuisine when everyone else will be disgusted

  • @Theunscrupulousone
    @Theunscrupulousone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +208

    You know this actually fills me with joy. If these “men” could get married then there’s hope for the rest of us. Let’s go boys!💪🏾

    • @courtneylust
      @courtneylust 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      so true haha

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      kicking and screaming rn

    • @Janary08
      @Janary08 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      The standards getting lower 😬

    • @monikapp3981
      @monikapp3981 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      LMAO

    • @luciferia.1313
      @luciferia.1313 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah no, this aint a flex.

  • @sunnycrescent
    @sunnycrescent 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    nah if something like that happens at *my* wedding, I’m filing for divorce, you cannot convince me otherwise

    • @susanrichardson631
      @susanrichardson631 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm pretty sure it's happened. There was one case where a bride left her husband because she told him not to smash her in the face with cake and he did it anyway.

    • @jessislistless
      @jessislistless 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      An annulment is way cheaper

  • @SteezySteez2011
    @SteezySteez2011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I’m white and my parents would bury me, if I embarrassed my wife-to-be in such a way.

  • @83shaunam
    @83shaunam 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I'm a pretty easy going person, and if I marry my bf, I can see him cracking a joke or two in his vows and I'd be fine with that. That's just the kind of person he is, and it's one reason I love him. But THIS....this is just disgusting. I can't imagine any woman being ok with this. Making sexual jokes, and specifically sexual FLUID jokes, in front of all your friends and family....BARF.

  • @TrueImmortality
    @TrueImmortality 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    If I were that officiate, I would have to stop the wedding until that dude actually came up with something nice to say to HIS WIFE. Like "oh no, we're all waiting for you to be serious. Do go on" 😐😐😐 But that's why the Lord didn't call me to ministry I guess lol

    • @lkf8799
      @lkf8799 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that he tried 😮‍💨

    • @contemporarydncethot0382
      @contemporarydncethot0382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, like I was called to ministy and after this I'd privately meet with the bride and a parent and offer to annul the marriage papers 😮😢
      They can always say no, but I'd do everything possible to give her an out. Some states give up to 30 days to annul your wedding vows

    • @TrueImmortality
      @TrueImmortality 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@contemporarydncethot0382 Good thinking! Let them know that is an option.

  • @seoul04
    @seoul04 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    YOOO POSTED ONE MINUTE AGO! I’m glad you’re covering these grooms bro since they are feral 💀💀

  • @Eeppydeepy
    @Eeppydeepy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    It’s def a trashy person thing

  • @Jas-rt3th
    @Jas-rt3th 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    I genuinely have no idea how these men even get engaged, i feel awful for the women being in those relationships. But also side note loved the pizza ship lmao

    • @audreyquinn73
      @audreyquinn73 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm going to introduce "pizza ship" to my friends so we can use that cuss word euphemism around the kids. It'll be hilarious to see the kids react to this as well. They're going to be so confused. 🔥
      Edit: misspelling corrected

  • @AutumnReeves887
    @AutumnReeves887 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    you are slowly becoming my favorite youtuber your videos are just so good 😭😭

    • @HazZzel-
      @HazZzel- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Real

  • @ashwee280
    @ashwee280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Home boy is popping all these videos like a 17 year old trying to pay rent and pay for college

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      breathing is expensive

  • @rye3752
    @rye3752 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Loved the ending. And the very bad sunshine-jokes. And the cat photo. And the rest of the video, but that were definitely very cool additions!

  • @DimaRakesah
    @DimaRakesah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Toxic masculinity hurts men too! Like on their wedding day when they can't publicly show genuine love and affection to the woman they are marrying.

  • @RIPPLE-DAP
    @RIPPLE-DAP 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    nah these poor women, ik we obviously can’t judge their relationship based on a minute clip but… they’re getting married, this isn’t just a casual get up with family and friends, this is their WEDDING

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That first wedding! Oof, poor bride AND poor pastor. The guy was trying to please TRY to make some vows.

  • @virginiaf4117
    @virginiaf4117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    That transition from wedding music to circus music was too clean

  • @oo0o227
    @oo0o227 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Not only was the second guy saying the most obscene shit ever he also said it in THE MOST MONOTONOUS VOICE. HE REALLY COULD. NOT HAVE CARED LESS TO BE IN THAT WEDDING...

  • @user-fy4uv9wb7o
    @user-fy4uv9wb7o 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I know it was a joke, but I still gotta point out that NO, being married just in general is not automatically better than being single. Yeah, luckily for them they don’t have to date anymore, sure, but I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life than be married to any of the doofuses in this video lol

  • @PiemanPerkins
    @PiemanPerkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    7:35 Sorry for being late to the party (the algorithm didn't show me your stuff until today). But as a Caucasian who lives in the Red State Hellacape where these types of weddings tend to happen, I can shed some light on this. These videos reek of White Trash Shotgun wedding. This is what happens when you live a place where Pro Life rules all, the bride is told she has to marry and be subservient to her baby daddy or she'll go to hell, and the groom doesn't want to be there but he was guilt tripped into the marriage by his mama and pastor. On the plus side, if you're a fan of drinking, these wedding receptions are incredible. Hope that helps. Love your content!

  • @mariaberryblossom
    @mariaberryblossom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I am a huge fan of the cinematic intro, truly artistic 🙏✨made the clips 1% less cringey

  • @scaramouche.xo..
    @scaramouche.xo.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Always a pleasure to be on the light side of the internet, my liege.

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      many of you may cringe, but that is a sacrifice i.... am willing to make

  • @kanakrandheer
    @kanakrandheer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    ngl grooms that act like complete red flags, throwing cakes on their to be wife, saying the most down bad or just no effort shit as their vows, and just having no awareness about what their actions and its impact on others, i tend to blame their upbringing. because these are skills you gain when you are still a kid, you cant expect an adult to act that way yk?

  • @heyvedur
    @heyvedur 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    And people like this are probably the reason why [in Germany] there once was a time window after your wedding where you could just basically undo it instantly.
    Walk in there the next morning with very little formalities and go: "So remember when I said _I do_ yesterday? Yeah, scratch that whole part. Thank you and see you again in 4 years with another bad life choice of mine."

  • @sidneyboo9704
    @sidneyboo9704 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You can tell with the second bride that she thought it was funny first part and not so much later. My husband has never said anything remotely like that even in private.

  • @jip230
    @jip230 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    At least these men are willing to publicly proclaim themselves as true garbage. When the divorce happens, everyone who attended that wedding will be like...."well yeah". Believe me, this isn't the first time these men acted in a very degrading and inappropriate way towards their spouses in public. Won't be the last. That's why the woman doesn't just walk off and leave the groom looking like an idiot

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Honey, I swear, I got a snapchat from Margot Robbie!"
    "We are THROUGH, Jason!"
    "But Kelly-"
    She doesn't look back. Jason, alone, sits on the curb outside the church, phone in his hand, his only refuge. A ding from his phone!
    A message:
    *no one will believe you*

  • @AMWZPN
    @AMWZPN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    4:30 An even better example would be if he was on “Let’s make a deal” and purposely picked a zonk after they showed what’s behinds the curtains. (I have to believe that these women gaslight themselves into accepting this behavior.)

  • @wunderbud628
    @wunderbud628 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    You're such an underrated channel istg

  • @the_day_you_try388
    @the_day_you_try388 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    as a lonely guy (working on himself now, but faced lots of rejections), who just wants a soul mate, this video made me cry lol

  • @apriljk6557
    @apriljk6557 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Do yourselves a favor readers, don't handcuff yourself to someone with arrested development. When you're young, it might seem funny, and you probably have the energy and time for always navigating around their zingers to get to the point. But you're going to end up parenting them. Nothing makes you resent your other more than not being able to trust them to behave in public, be present with you, or help you with whatever you got going on, especially if it's their kids. They're not going to know how to show up for you, and if there's kids, welp, you'll be a lonely married single parent. Beware!!

  • @amybess
    @amybess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The "keep my balls empty" vows video was how I learned what a "shut up" ring was.

  • @urtruthinapril
    @urtruthinapril 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i just found ur channel and its honestly so refreshing to see more diversity in the commentary genre. as someone who loves watching ppl like danny, kurtis, and drew and as someone who is also a first gen asian its so cool to see myself represented. love what ur doing and ur vids

  • @tbarnestb
    @tbarnestb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Ray, I have watched all of your videos you've ever posted in just a few days. You have perfectly encapsulated my humor and you are the most enjoyable youtuber I watch. Thank you ❤

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      omg you shouldn't havee

  • @marymurphy1877
    @marymurphy1877 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    it's wild bc... you dont HAVE to say your own vows. We didn't - my husband isn't good with words and I get stage fright so we opted out. you dont have to do this!

  • @lilgrimmyreaps
    @lilgrimmyreaps 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    your content never fails to make me laugh and smile, thank you for all the work you put into your videos and for you being you, Ray! 🌻

  • @monse6224
    @monse6224 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    but thank you so much for posting even when your sick we appreciated

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      anything for my (insert fandom name here to be decided) :)

  • @FruitManxSmolBean
    @FruitManxSmolBean 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    YOU WHOULD LOOK SO GOOD WITH BRIGHT RED LIPSTICK AND EYELINER

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      eyeliner do be looking good on me factual but i'm more of a dark red lipstick guy

    • @FruitManxSmolBean
      @FruitManxSmolBean 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Understandable, your complexion would suit a burgundy or perhaps a deep merlot, paired with a fox eye eyeliner look and you would catch the attention of all at the next met gala.@@RayLikeSunshine

  • @lifesyphon1
    @lifesyphon1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve been married 13 years, we went to the courthouse! Cost us like 80 bucks, it was the best day of my life hands down!

  • @chri_sph
    @chri_sph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    love how you added the happy stuff at the end, honestly it gets discouraging to just hear about bad couple after bad couple.

  • @gothic_llama
    @gothic_llama 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    As a Polish person who has been to a couple of weddings - I've only seen this type of groomzilla shit in videos of American weddings, so I guess it's mostly and American thing? Here in Poland we don't even have self written vows, the bride and the groom just repeat after the priest the official vows and that's it.

    • @user-lt1jd1ye3v
      @user-lt1jd1ye3v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s normally how an American religious wedding would be too. They don’t always do the vows, that’s somewhat rare. And yeah it’s not all Americans so don’t get ahead of yourself. Huge country, most of us are normal, these grooms are just trash cans.

  • @Ilostmyboots
    @Ilostmyboots 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    RAYYYY it's past Valentine day but you ARE LOVEDDDD

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      playing valentine by laufey on repeat brb

  • @paishaish
    @paishaish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The first guy is the definition of acting cool in front of the boys

  • @lis2286
    @lis2286 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t think it’s fair to judge women for being with men like these. How are women always blamed for their partner's behavior, even when they’re the ones taking the brunt of it? Women grow up in a society where men's bad behavior and immaturity is constantly excused. Don’t blame the women, blame the men.

    • @peachyarts386
      @peachyarts386 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know what society you live in but the society I live in which is modern society men get so much shit for simply existing at this point... it's more common that women's bad behavior gets excused so guess you been living under a rock-

    • @pigeondance
      @pigeondance 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@peachyarts386 did you get picked, felicia?

  • @Crabernacker
    @Crabernacker 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Moistcritical shouted you out on his recent vid! Great job!

  • @InternetPixellUchuu
    @InternetPixellUchuu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    grombillas

  • @elin_
    @elin_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'd be absolutely livid if a man I'm marrying uses the vows to make dirty jokes.. I'd be embarrassed outta my mind and I'd probably walk away crying, leaving my low effort almost-hudband on the aisle to feel ashamed of himself. Weddings are supposed to be sweet and sappy.. not some makeshift comedy standup.

  • @heroes-of-balkan
    @heroes-of-balkan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That transition from wedding ceremony to circus song theme is pure gold!

  • @Your_local_bandaid._.
    @Your_local_bandaid._. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Dropping everything to watch ray >>>>

    • @RayLikeSunshine
      @RayLikeSunshine  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      inaccurate username o.O

  • @That1KarGuy
    @That1KarGuy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The cargo pants, the holstered sidearm, the open shirt AND the crappy trucker cap really should have been a sign to call off the wedding then and there

  • @compassrose1466
    @compassrose1466 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    With the cake thing btw most wedding cakes have WOODEN SPIKES to hold the tiers together. If one of those went through her eye it could have killed her. To it was not only rude and thoughtless IT COULD HAVE HURT HER SEVERELY WTF IS WEONG WITH PEOPLE

  • @Toast_edd
    @Toast_edd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    0:41 The rhyming, you’re a poet
    I love your videos they’re just hilarious!!🫶

  • @sarahgore7756
    @sarahgore7756 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your personality. Your videos give me life! Thank you!

  • @krushkannon
    @krushkannon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    im actually so glad u gave ur hot take abt men acting poorly and women accepting that bc i said something similar in my own video. when someone presents CRIMSON FLAGS proudly, you essentially make a choice to ignore them. can't be mad at some point for ur choice lol

  • @ankeeno
    @ankeeno 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I absolutely love your sense of humour, happy to see your channel growing! Please keep on making videos, you're making my day better

  • @boopbooperson1654
    @boopbooperson1654 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Do these men even actually like women? Let alone actually love their fiancee?

  • @Kate-pi6yb
    @Kate-pi6yb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    As a caucasian this is not normal or acceptable amongst us

  • @sambored9387
    @sambored9387 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the last one is so sweet, if my parnter doesn't cry when they see me I don't want them (I know i'll cry too)

  • @Floopsiedaysie
    @Floopsiedaysie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The only way i could get through those horrors was with Ray guiding us through the dark side of the internet with his sunshine attitude ✨✨♥️

  • @tripunk
    @tripunk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    9:17
    That wasn’t a hot take; seems a little victim blaming. Women have a lot of pressure to find a guy and are often pressured to then settle for trash ones, told to ignore things and suppress their discomfort and concerns. The responsibility lies solely w these childish grooms, who make the decision to disrespect their future wives.

  • @CandyThePuppy
    @CandyThePuppy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    0:30 lookin kinda comfy tho (in a completely platonic way)

  • @ironman_546
    @ironman_546 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband and I didn't have a ceremony yet, but the way he writes me and writes to me, I know he will have to say his vows after I say mine because his will be so touching, so emotional and in depth, that I will be crying so hard I won't be able to get mine out.

  • @SmellyBees
    @SmellyBees 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just found your channel and you're my new favorite youtuber, i love your sense of humor 😆

  • @blue4155
    @blue4155 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I still can't believe he said all that about gagging and headboard banging in front of his mother AND HIS KIDS??!??!

  • @Dwightknignt
    @Dwightknignt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I just started watching raylike sunshine and I’ve been enjoying him so much I forgot to feed my 5 kids, well it’s a shame that they’re starving (worth it)

  • @paracosm_7
    @paracosm_7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You , chadchad( btw need a collab video from u guys ✨), kurtis , danny are literally my top fav
    even though i discovered u yesterday i binged all ur videos and can safely say you are my favourite and gonna be one of the top commentary youtuber.. i can feel it in my left pinky toe 😌
    btw , what is the name for your fans/ fandom

    • @adalette
      @adalette 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      obviously it’s beams, as in beams of sunshine

  • @_ghost_7121
    @_ghost_7121 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I recently started watching your vids and i love them so much :3
    They're so nice to watch while i do things and i enjoy them alot!!!

  • @JellyLancelot
    @JellyLancelot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man thanks for the Ray of sunshine, that ending was lovely! ❤

  • @user-ce9vi9wb9w
    @user-ce9vi9wb9w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I LOVE your channel!! 😂😂😂

  • @KarenAMathis
    @KarenAMathis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First time watching and I was laughing so hard in the first minute, and your wrapup was so nice. I'll definitely be sticking around.

  • @GusTheAnus
    @GusTheAnus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    5:44 nothing says _”i’ll love you until the day i die!”_ like boredom when reciting your own vows.

  • @XluthiferX
    @XluthiferX 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can watch 10,000 videos about groomzilla's and still be shocked every single time that ppl act this insane 😭