Why a Man Who Loves You Might Ignore You - Jordan Peterson Reveals the Truth

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  • @JBRify
    @JBRify 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I haven’t met a single man who is that noble (albeit cowardly either way). When a man ignores you, it entirely means because he’s not into you, he’s doesn’t care about you, he has replaced you with a new woman or women, he does not cherish you anywhere close enough to consider your feelings. When a man ignores you, it’s because you don’t matter to him. Stop spreading lies and nonsense to give hope to heart broken women who were misled and used by men, who are almost entirely cowardly, selfish and cruel.

    • @miradl7968
      @miradl7968 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      It's about men with avoidant attachment styles, they distance when there are actual deep feelings

    • @rebekahorst
      @rebekahorst 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      My heart goes out to you for the very real pain and suffering you have experienced.
      However, your pain and suffering does not invalidate anything Peterson said in this recording.
      You haven’t encountered the men he is referring to but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist.

    • @dannyaprilthemelophilartis1966
      @dannyaprilthemelophilartis1966 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I can agree to this too, have not yet met a noble male, don't think I will in this lifetime, just out for fun...the males these days

    • @QuanHoang2x01
      @QuanHoang2x01 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      If you have yet to meet that type of man then maybe you are the type of woman this type of man does not want. Have you ever considered that? If not, then we know the answer.
      At the end of the day, there are good men and women. If you fail to attract the other side, it is on you. The fact that you dismiss the existence of good men and do not take any accountability for your flaws and dismissiveness is telling. Do you think a good man wants a dismissive woman who cannot take accountability? The answer is obvious but I doubt you are honest with yourself enough to say the truth

    • @kjb17
      @kjb17 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Perfect comment! He can also ignore you as a trick to see if you chase him for his own validation. He can also ignore you when he is insecure and thinks that you can do better than him. Lots of reasons - none of them justify this behaviour and you should move on with your life.

  • @ofrarose
    @ofrarose 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is so accurate. Even happened to my parents before they got married.

  • @alexandras8534
    @alexandras8534 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you so much for this video, this is healing me when I needed the most. Thank you

  • @jasmineb7106
    @jasmineb7106 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I do agree with Peterson having known a few men who ignored the other intermittently because of low self-esteem, rejection, trust issues, etc. I've also known men who had the ability to make one feel invisible because there were no real feelings or they were anticipating a better model might enter the picture, yet they didn't want to be alone and thought breadcrumbing would keep the devalued party in a holding pattern.

  • @MandeeMoore25
    @MandeeMoore25 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Gonna listen to this again bc it’s answered many questions I’ve personally pondered in my own life. Thank you for putting time into these videos. Quality content on your page. Not only are they aesthetically pleasing but profound. Impressive. More. 🙇🏼‍♀️⛲️📝❤

  • @rebekahorst
    @rebekahorst 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Beautifully spoken Dr. Peterson! I love love love this!

  • @jesseshepademic
    @jesseshepademic 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    JP you are an angel on earth. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @jenofhearts
    @jenofhearts 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Every woman who loves a man should watch this, thank you Jordan ❤

    • @Livinglovegoddess
      @Livinglovegoddess 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @jenofhearts Every man that loves a woman should get in her life if he actually loves her. Because if he can't that's not real love.

  • @irenedornauer65
    @irenedornauer65 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now a video of how the counter part can participate by reassurance or to encourage

  • @Itslizyall
    @Itslizyall 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    15:43 yes
    I mean all of this yes but
    I'm a woman with a man whose been ignored so hard for so long by my partner and I've filed all the complaints u hear here as the ignored one..
    This gave me peace

    • @BUBBLESPOGO
      @BUBBLESPOGO 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      what did you stay with him for?? You allowed it, so you want sympathy?

    • @Itslizyall
      @Itslizyall 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @BUBBLESPOGO no I Def did allow it.. so, no... not sympathy but advice is what I'm hunting bc as crazy as it sounds?.. I'm still not leaving him
      Also as crazy as it sounds I'm not leaving bc I long for, and hope for, the man back that I know he can be
      And yes
      I hear myself

    • @miradl7968
      @miradl7968 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Does it sound like somebody with an avoidant attachment?

    • @Itslizyall
      @Itslizyall 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @miradl7968 what's that

    • @miradl7968
      @miradl7968 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Itslizyall check it. It's about people who are scared of closeness and love, they distance time to time

  • @EireejoSiga
    @EireejoSiga 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I learnt ALOT, that I didnt and appreciate the insights 11:50.

  • @PEACHYPRACHI
    @PEACHYPRACHI 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But I'm so dumb and I have become so numb due to terrible past that I demand HIM to show utmost grandiose gestures that proves his love for ME!

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This clarifies so much of the last year ❤

  • @orange-juice-me
    @orange-juice-me 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you, Jordan 😊.

  • @rachelross5829
    @rachelross5829 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks for feeding my dellsuions 😂❤
    I didn't activate him so hes not mine😢
    He knows who he is so much so it refelcted who i was back.
    Hes probably an alien 😂

  • @sylviesauvageau6553
    @sylviesauvageau6553 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ça arrive juste au bon moment, au moment où il prend du recul et que moi, jai craint l'abandon..

  • @MiichelleMariie1221
    @MiichelleMariie1221 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🩵🩵🩵 20:33