Learn The Gentle Art of Saying ‘No’ without being rude - Improve Your Communication Skills
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- Learn The Gentle Art of Saying ‘No’ without being rude - Improve Your Communication Skills.
In order to be productive and focused at your tasks you need to learn the art of saying ‘No’ in a gentle way. Saying No is the most difficult thing many people face. Saying Yes to everything could ruin things for you and you would not be able to get anything done, at least not on time and up to the mark. This communication skills training video by Skillopedia you will learn how to say No without offending anyone or in a Gentle way. At times we are afraid to say No because we don’t want to hurt people or do not want to be in their bad books, but saying Yes lands you in trouble as you invite stress and problems for yourself.
So, what’s so hard about saying No, it doesn’t have to be difficult with these 7 easy steps with your life coach Michelle. Watch the complete video and apply these steps whenever you have to say No. For complete video transcript visit - www.learnex.in/gentle-art-sayi...
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Trying to be nice all the time can cost us a lot of things including our peace.
Yeh right now suffering from this. Can anyone help
Same things are happening with me.
I’m a 15 yrs old and said yes till now and who I favoured now turned against me I understand now that I will never say yes to someone where I don’t find any profit.
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"Stop being nice to all" Nice one.
yes
This is damn good.
But the fact that if you not become nice to all, there'll be one who'll back stab us on our critical situation.
Yes even I cannot say no to everyone n help out them in every situation but during my request to them, the answers would alyz be some excuses like have some work. thia has happened to me not just once but most of he time ..so I have thought now to just say nothing n do nothing about it.....just that would be good for all I guess......
Gautama, can't be achieved by not being nice.
Know how important your time is
Practice saying no
Be unapologetic for guarding your time
You can't be nice to everyone around you
Saying the hardest 'no'
Pre-empt the request
Give a thought before saying yes
It's not you, it's me
yes we can't be nice to everyone
I also can't say no, but now onwards I will start saying that...
Thank you.....
I totally agree,sometimes is very difficult to say no..
But we can't make the wishes of everyone
You should be a poet ✌
Sometimes if we often help people without saying no,they take us for granted and also their work will become your work in future.
If we don't do some time they will even question you.
The same thing happened with me
How can you overcome?
Suffering with these
Let's understand why you can't say no to people because you have fear of loosing them . If the person is your boss you will have fear of creating good impression on your boss . So ultimately thing is you have fear of loosing things .
If you really don't want to do that work just say no to it.
Same happened to me. I used to help my friends a lot . But people take it for granded and extend their demand more n more. I used to feel guilty saying no and always ended up saying ok. One day i get their work done and after completing their work i said them it's difficult for me to do so please from next time don't tell me. nowadays they talk lesser than they used to earlier but that's good for me bcz i also don't want to be in touch with people who don't think of others difficulty and think about themselves only.
This video will help me a lot!!! Now I can say to my friends no to not get into problems of so many commitments!!! Great Tips I will practice it and then use it because saying No is must have a part of your life!!!
Me : I love you.
Her , after watching this video :
Expectations :
Ok so as you can see I'm busy and I don't have time to waste in this mess , hence try forgive me because I'm not worthy for your love.
Reality : *EWWW...* .
It's very helpful 😂😂😂😂keep it up
You are one f the best teachers. Keep up the good work. I love your videos
Thank you so much ma'am, please pray so that I can say no , everybody came & just use my time and then byee bye.
As u said its difficult to say no without breaking relation,closeness but I'm sure that this video might helpful to me
Same happened to me. I used to help my friends a lot . But people take it for granded and extend their demand more n more. I used to feel guilty saying no and always ended up saying ok. One day i get their work done and after completing their work i said them it's difficult for me to do so please from next time don't tell me. nowadays they talk lesser than they used to earlier but that's good for me bcz i also don't want to be in touch with people who don't think of others difficulty and think about themselves only.
Value your time is the best massage I have got from this video
This lessons is literally productive for me..and iam going apply it in my daily basis when I had to refuse someone else for something which i don't care..so set the priority on yourself not others keep growing and learn the very basic skill of saying no..to the people around you 👍
At the beginning of this video ,for the few minutes I was amazingly staring at you forgetting about why I was here to looking for haha . Thank you Michelle . It was a worth watching video . Bring us more like this. Love you! ❤
Thankyou madam
Literally nice information... Thank you...
I usually never say reject friends. I remember when I was 14 and got fed up of mom and told her “no I won’t go out of the house to make friends” I got kicked out of home accompanied some huge drama from her. Now many years later I realize that I barely ever say no, and many friends of old friends of mine (like we met years ago) are rude or audacious to me in average.
Others have leverage against you because you needed support from your mother, who couldn't provide it for whatever reason. You seek support (rightfully) and some others see this as an opportunity to exploit you.
Please make a learning video (teaching) on HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES so people won't walk all over us or take us for granted.
Thank you! You taught me a great lesson which I was lacking and seeking!
Thanks Michelle for came in my life and changed it. Thankyou !
All the teachers have a good teaching skills. Thanks a lot to let's talk channel.
Excellent.thanks a lot..clear points and very helpful
I love this channel.
Watching this after 5 years and I must say THANK YOU for sharing.
I will be making use of some points from this video when I am making my video, I actually search for content that revolves around saying No because I want to make content on it and I am glad I came across this.
Thank you 😍
Worth watching.
Love it!!
Thanks you Michael
thanxx
Thank you for being a great teacher ❤️
Hello Michelle 😃 Thank you
Great video. Kudos to the creators.
Very good .. Thank you.
U r greatmam..love ur teaching
When ever i meet any new person thy just leave the work n start flirting how to say no .plzzzz plzzzz tell me .
Thank you very much in advance for this lesson I often say yes everything let everyone wants me to do and that's fully walking into my Independence and I'm taking that back by saying no
Really Loaded with useful information... and some Helpful techniques too thanks a lot for it and keep your good work go
Moon is explained very well. Love u
Mam you are very nice teacher
Kindly continue the good work
*Best potic covered by best teacher*
Thanks Teacher
I liked the 4th tip
Be un-apologizing
hi plaise i need lesson of 2 as if you have
thanks mam .
I actually agree strongly about being taken advantage of all the time by always saying yet way too often even though we may sometimes with certain people only show favouritism behind other people's backs who we may have rejected and turned down in some sort of form or way and sometimes not for a very good reason either since there's also such thing as backstabbing and betraying such as unfairness which is where the Favouritism part comes into play...But depending up on the time and place that the saying yes to certain people only and not to other individuals who feel and felt left out or being misunderstood after they got turned down and ("rejected") by certain people who got the wrong impression and thought the other person was trying to take Advantage over them but not neccessarily except for only wanting to get and make a memory with them like asking for a picture photo or selfie together during wedding or retirement party, well when it comes to time and place for example such as like if people are the friends and colleagues of your mom or dad and you're somebody or someone like myself with mild but not severe autism and bipolar disease...Well if you saw other people making approvals to your parents during your mom's colleagues retirement or celebration party and they never did with you for example, well you have every Legitamate and Understandable Personal reason in the world to actually be outraged and furious, never be afraid to tell those people to their faces or your own parents Because colleaugues like that should also have a heart for their coworkers biological son or daughter doesn't matter what job occuppation they do for a living and they also don't neccessarily need to act uncommunitywise nor uncommunity like either while people can also openly express themselves and vulnerable victims through a piece of paper or through email to the workplace of their mom or dad's employment...I mean we've all seen Jerkishness before inside and out within the personalities of certain people but I also feel this can actually be Improved.!!! Depending on the reasons for the turn down or Rejection Dissapproval, well then if it's because they don't want to be taken advantage over or doesn't tend to seem to have an interest in you personally in being friends or does but just doesn't no you very well if they had only just met you for the first time which is an excuse if you're the biological teenage or young adult child or their coworker of either the same or opposite gender as the colleauge of the biological parent who turned you down when that actually could've had a heart at least...Social Media isn't even always perfect and it's not quite as good as it used to be except for during certain occassions.!!! Also doesn't Neccessarily mean that the vulnerable person who got turned down has to like or accept it either, they need to be understood first by their parents colleagues and they parents should stop being jerkish and should always be there for their child, when you explain it like that out of innoccent human expression...Well those reasons are worth making your parent's colleagues miserable while the Rainbow Represents Human Rights while Blue was also the same Liberally while Red Flags mean nothing, people can be more Considerate than that like giving and handing out a reason for the dissapproval.!!! A quick short but simple one too, yeah I mean having to mention and openly come out and express hardcore toxic feelings isn't always an easy thing to do for certain...But yeah, it's because they don't have personal interest in being friends that's understandable, but if they're your biological parents colleagues and doesn't know you very well yet and just met you fir the very first time, well then it's and excuse and can make their child feel wanted.
When you get success and the friend who used to avoid you when you were not succeed and they suddenly start asking for your number from you..after you get successed than what are the ways we can 'no' to them politely...??? If we don't want to give
No sis
Say " Sorry but I don't use phone anymore" 🙂
Ignore them in kind manner for long time they’ll realize automatically and it’s good to have less friends who gives priority to you when you have nothing
Love you ❤️
I used to be a people pleaser-After I came to the realization that there's no such thing as friends---I started saying "NO" and guess what?? Everybody that I knew has disappeared out of nowhere. My pops always told me that there's no such thing as friends, people only around you if they want something from you--rather its money, sex, etc
lovely explanation 😘
this was great
Well said💖😊
I’m a 15 yrs old and said yes till now and who I favoured now turned against me I understand now that I will never say yes to someone where I don’t find any profit.
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Great one👍
I love you this video
superb tip's ma'am .
Beautiful
Thanx
Good work... :)
Very good
Very useful of your video. I like all of your video.
#diaryentry
I'm watching it as I found saying no to my boss really hard... So trying to learn how to say no to boss....
I've recently got a job as a team leader and data analyst... And My reporting head is the CEO and his wife is president of the company... My CEO has given me clear instructions to observe only... But on my 6th day, his wife and president of the company asked why I've not done *data analysis* and data entry (as the data entry operator was absent)... I reminded her *"I am instructed by your husband and the CEO to observe only... And yesterday you instructed me to work on modern trade... since then, my brain had been trying to learn that (Firstly she said she'd not instructed me to do that... She manuplated by saying she simply instructed to search a presentable outspoken female candidate for modern trade,and secondly she objected to my learning it and instructed to learn it at home and in the very next breath, she said that her husband and she had a discussion on giving me the role in modern trade then I reminded her that she handed me over the keys to office to reach early and search modern trade clients)* ...secondly she insisted twice on a few market visits (so that I might understand the whole process and analyse data better) which I didn't want to do alone and found denying it the hardest...(actually, in previous two days, I'd already been visiting the market with SO and CEO)...and a "yes" slipped out of my mouth... In fact, later I re-assured her by saying "I'll definitely do it"
I must have answered her second demand by saying,
*"It sounds like an interesting opportunity...I'd like to do a part part of it... I'll like to have thought on it... How about if I let you know my stand tomorrow morning? "*
In fact from the very moment, she demanded to work on modern trade, I'd been feeling distracted from my current commitment of observations and found my productivity severely reduced!
Thank you so much Michael for this beautifully explained and pacifying video content!I wish I could have been useful to you some way...
Tank u madam .gOd bless u
Recently I watched movie "Yes man"😂
Awesome
Nice one
Good!
Some people peak nose into everything but when we set border they will act like we did a sin
Michele mam is my favourite
Thnks mishel... It's very hlpful
Thanks Michel Madam It's very helpful
yes
Thank you so much, i wish had seen this video many years ago, i had people using me just because i could not say no, i feel like such an idiot, i was such people pleaser,
How to overcome a break up or the thoughts of someone off from our mindset who had once insulted us... Plz make a video regarding that... But don't say no here😊
Adopt a dog and see ur life will change... I did the same 😀
Talk to me you will be fine 😀
Good talking skill
Smart tricks )
Can anyone say the meaning of moving index and middle fingers together up and down...
Hardest 'no' is not saying no to our boss
But the one who loves us like a girl
So how to say no to the one who loves u.........
You don't, they will understand.
Thank you.
nice information
Thank you
if somebody says no when he/she unable to do it but sometimes it may contradict in some cases if you want to do that task by yourself but you already say it no. So how to deal with that situation?
Nice
Haha what if I tried this everyday to with my mom and dad then flying shoes came to me on my face every single time i say no 😁😁😁 but yeah its effective way to say no loved it keep going
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Hahaha
Grown up! This topic not regarding to your parents?.
very nice and helpful video
Waoo stop saying yes to all.Thks
leaning to amazing my dear😊 take care🙏
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So saying no to boss for another project and telling I have to complete the current one I have to work. The only reason we are saying no to boss was not to do extra work .so how is it going to help us
🥀🥀🥀 Excellent 🥀🥀🥀
Great video as always but can you please reduce the number of ads in your videos if possible
Speak directly
In this video you are looking gorgeous mam..... 💖
I got my answer
Yes thanks because I am tired of people asking me for rides home from work. It's ridiculous.
Very helpful 👌 but mic is lucky 💐
Make more of these videos. I also recently shot a video on the same topic, you can watch! I will be glad to everyone!
Ur good a vocabulary
But it is really hard for me to say no because i don't want to disappoint anyone.but sometimes this additude makes me hurt. So i decided to say no ✋
Same here
TH-camr asked me to subscribe the channel
I said NO
Thanks I learnt
Love you dear maám.... take care
Plz make a bideo on problem of being antisocial.
While watching this video ....
My girlfriend calling me then I say NO 😃
how to accept "NO" peacefully?
*No* *Period* *HeartEmoji*
Good video but cmon like 10 comercials