How We Use Reality TV to Escape Our Pain - Love is Blind

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  • My take on the first 9 episodes of Love is Blind season 6.
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    #loveisblind #dragtherapy #loveisblindseason6 #delusional

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  • @keralytekid
    @keralytekid 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    Your introspective nature is truly remarkable. The way you navigate your thoughts and emotions with such depth and insight is inspiring.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      appreciate that!

    • @BeyondBeliefBelle
      @BeyondBeliefBelle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I second this thought. The first time I watched one of his videos, I was just kinda blown away by how insightful he was. A pleasure to watch.

    • @kaylathreadgill4177
      @kaylathreadgill4177 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😊

    • @kelsiokeefe6616
      @kelsiokeefe6616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Truly remarkable.

  • @MomandBuggs
    @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +380

    Jimmy trying to convince himself he doesn't care about looks when he really does care about looks😭

    • @jenayrandall9358
      @jenayrandall9358 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      And? So does Chelsea. Literally tripping and stumbling over Trevor. Let’s not forget her reaction to the reveal was that he’s not her type. Jimmy is the victim in their situation.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      agree that Jimmy is as much a victim as she is. I feel for the guy

    • @Lei-AICPhD
      @Lei-AICPhD 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jenayrandall9358you know I agree a million percent

    • @flexaeona
      @flexaeona 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Until we wake up, the reality is we all are victims.

    • @portialujabe3121
      @portialujabe3121 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think looks mattered initially for Jimmy, but I actually believe she grew on him. He did feel a physical connection to her eventually, it just took a little while.

  • @tgfitzgerald
    @tgfitzgerald 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    I don't even judge the contestants so much for their insecurities, flaws, and weaknesses. I judge the ones who refuse to take accountability for them when they're called out. And especially when they turn it around and attack the messenger because they'd rather hurt another person than own their shit

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      good distinction to make

    • @rosaperks1873
      @rosaperks1873 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes

    • @inkassosjefen6315
      @inkassosjefen6315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thats easy to say, but in my life from birth to this day i have only met a handfull of people who doesnt do that

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@inkassosjefen6315yeah, that’s exactly why it’s so remarkable, commendable, & sought after.

    • @pnwlady
      @pnwlady 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes! We are all flawed and make mistakes. But are we willing to face and fix them?

  • @salamander8301
    @salamander8301 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Thank you for being such a force of empathy on the internet. it's needed with all this cancel culture and condemnation going on.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      thank you for watching long time subscriber 🤗

    • @salamander8301
      @salamander8301 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@dragtherapy you keep putting them out I'll keep tuning in!! Xxx

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    You are so right. Because psychology in Seattle, dr Honda, he says the same “romantic triggers” and Esther Perel says also “you think you are healed but you won’t know till you get again in a love relationship”…
    I am codependent people pleaser and have adhd

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ooohhh. that quote from Esther is next level 👌

    • @meli7315
      @meli7315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@dragtherapy I really love her 😻

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@meli7315 very wise! if you like her, you might also enjoy dr. Orna. she is the therapist on a show called Couples Therapy. that shit is next level!

    • @meli7315
      @meli7315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@dragtherapy oh wow thank you 🥹 I will have a look! Which I always watch is psychology in Seattle (dr Honda)

    • @Selsmittenxo
      @Selsmittenxo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm in the exact predicament 😢

  • @RahmaSheikh
    @RahmaSheikh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    I have been waiting for you to drop a video about love is blind! I hope all is well with you! It's a super heavy time right now but so glad to see you are in good health and spirits! Sending love ❤🍉

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      thank you sweetie. trying my best

    • @real_human_bean_
      @real_human_bean_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Same! I can’t imagine how hard it is to make a video about this stuff right now. We love you so much Indie Nile! 🇵🇸🍉❤️💚🤍🖤

    • @Pookah
      @Pookah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love you indie ❤

  • @sofiaa5255
    @sofiaa5255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I realized I was being needy and insecure as Chelsea until I watched this video. Thank you for your on point commentary

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      yes same I think Chelsea is an extreme manifestation of how a lot of us feel on the inside

  • @hildeyogaanddance6919
    @hildeyogaanddance6919 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    I really liked Chelsea in the pods, she seemed lighthearted and fun. But there was one thing that was weird about her, these two guys were so into her but she was really into them being into her. She didn’t seem to really be interested in them as a person, but more in the fact they liked HER. That was a bit of a red flag for me, which then got confirmed through her arguments with Jimmy. It’s all about her feelings. I also noticed it’s heightened when she drinks cause she just doesn’t make any sense in the way she turns herself into a victim. I recognised the lightheartedness when she was with his friends or family but other times, she did seem incredibly whiny and clingy…

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      she did indeed have a very different vibe in the pods

    • @amandawebster7244
      @amandawebster7244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally agree with this.

  • @TheMaxymama
    @TheMaxymama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I know that Clay look, when youre internally having an existential crisis but trying to convince yourself everything's okay 😂😂

  • @thecorporatemom4
    @thecorporatemom4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I feel checked on the judgmental piece ! We definitely love to throw stones from the comfort of our homes and they make it so easy ! Gotta work on that !
    Glad to see you back. Sending love 🍉

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you. lots of love back

    • @pnwlady
      @pnwlady 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We would all look good and bad on tv. I wonder what a 40 or 50 something show would look like. Older people problems or same stuff in older bodies? But mainly I think people who seek out tv are more interested in the pay off of being on tv. And people who aren’t would be more interesting to watch.

  • @thatytininha
    @thatytininha 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I love your understanding of this show. For many, this show is a waste of time and stupid but for me there is the fascination of having the opportunity to see human behavior in relation to love and see me there in so many people who appear in the show and being able to analyze myself and improve many things in myself. For me it's like opening my eyes to my reality. It's also, I'm not going to lie that it's highly entertaining!! 😂
    Send you lost of love❤
    Can't wait for the next video!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      lots of love back

  • @MomandBuggs
    @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    People get unfairly judged as narcissistic on this show when they probably just have cptsd, anxiety, and blind spots. Yes they are really eager for love which can make someone do crazy, erratic stuff.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      true!

    • @yungnonsense69
      @yungnonsense69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You can have all these things and still be a narcissist as many narcissist have dealt with ctpsd anxiety etc

    • @MomandBuggs
      @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah but these things don't mean you are exploitative, can't reflect, need a punching bag, want to destroy. Maybe self centered, blind, or trying to survive.@@yungnonsense69

    • @Biggums_Tyrone
      @Biggums_Tyrone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not everyone is mentally ill some people just aren’t great or very bright 😂

    • @MomandBuggs
      @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes some people are just unaware or clueless. The really great partners want to learn and grow. It would be nice if they would have the couples talk to a therapist or counselor before getting married.@@Biggums_Tyrone

  • @marymuir8735
    @marymuir8735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    it is an escape, because with this show, the contestants are put in an artificial environment where there is nothing else to do all day but talk to people through walls. No distractions. It makes for a quick intimacy and because they can't see each other, they are encouraged to reveal more about themselves than they normally would.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      agreed. i find there is such a disconnect between the time in the pods and outside. it's almost like 2 different shows

    • @rosaperks1873
      @rosaperks1873 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many aren't revealing themselves. They are lying , gas lighting and manufacturing who they are in the pods.

  • @loptylou4727
    @loptylou4727 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    This has absolutely MADE MY DAY I’m so excited to watch this video, it’s part of the best part of this show.
    All of the hard work you’ve been doing on your channel, and all of the passion you put into your work, this is a lovely surprise and a well deserved break from a horrific tragedy.
    Thank you ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🤗❤️

    • @MsInreality12
      @MsInreality12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!!! I only watch YT now for these videos. I love how he talks and it feels like connecting with a friend and having a conversation with them!

  • @christianmontealegre6804
    @christianmontealegre6804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The best thing of love is blind are your videos. I watched the season just to be prepare for your videos!

    • @danross4953
      @danross4953 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣😂

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you! 🤗

  • @ningyding
    @ningyding 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I really am amazed by how good of an actor Trevor is. Esp in episode 11.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      right?? i was just watching that now. oscar-worthy level of acting...the way he does the goofy shtick. he should give a masterclass

    • @amberevol
      @amberevol 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I'm so mad at how fake he is and how I fell for it while they were in the pods 😭

  • @Sara.S.Alshamsi
    @Sara.S.Alshamsi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You you youuuuuuuu, I will book a therapy session right now. I was triggered i never though I would be thank you I appreciate it

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you Sara ❤️🤗

  • @tatyana5028
    @tatyana5028 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Why did hearing Clay say “I’m a baby” make me tear up? 🥺Some of our inner children are SO apparent and it’s so sad. I missed it on the first watched. This was such a compassionate take of the contestants. Thank you!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      most welcome. thanks for watching!

  • @eastwestunity
    @eastwestunity 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    This is good, Indie. Truth. Honesty. The real deal.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you!

  • @ninamariaDS
    @ninamariaDS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Chelsea literally told Jimmy she felt she loved him the most when they had the worse fight...very toxic attachment vibe. She is super insecure.
    I agree, its hard to not feel any emiotions watching them.
    I feel like AD and Clay are going ro be together, but you showed me some interesting points, I never saw

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      i think Clay and AD are cute separately but not sure he is into her

    • @hmmm2564
      @hmmm2564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@dragtherapyI don't think AD is even into him. But they both think that they should be together

  • @peppersnapz5102
    @peppersnapz5102 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    It's so crazy that you mentioned feeling like there something about love that just seems trapped behind a wall or something because I was just describing that feeling to my friend, like there's something about it that seems out of reach. I'm glad to hear someone else describe it like that, I've been considering going back to therapy too because of this. I wish you the best with your therapy journey :)

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      glad i'm not alone in this wall thing

  • @missyoobini
    @missyoobini 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You are such a blessing to this community. You offer so much joy and wisdom with every video you make- I’m so grateful to be here!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!

  • @crazy4catsRL
    @crazy4catsRL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I always love your take on LIB!! Your latest videos on the issues in Gaza have also been eye opening. It must be so hard seeing your country go through that. I’m so sorry! All we can really do is keep moving forward and do the next right thing. Hope you’re well Indie!!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      thanks for opening your heart to Gaza. love hearing that

  • @KateLisgar
    @KateLisgar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Ok, your music choice for Chelsea's run-thing.....😂 Love your keffiyeh

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      thank you sweetie

  • @TheMaxymama
    @TheMaxymama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Jimmy is so invested in lying to himself that he tries to convince everyone how good his relationship is. He literally gets offended when Chelsea points out that another couple could be stronger than them.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      what i find puzzling about Jimmy is that his parents seem to be in a stable longterm marriage that has ease, joy and laughter yet he is drawn to toxic dynamics

    • @hmmm2564
      @hmmm2564 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@dragtherapyI wonder if he is struggling with having too much

    • @fluffyclouds555
      @fluffyclouds555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dragtherapyyou can never truly tell about his parents. Something telling was Jimmy made a joke about not letting his dad know he was being emotional. He clearly has issues with expressing and accessing emotion and it seems established from childhood and partially due to personality type

  • @SashaBlake
    @SashaBlake 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    At this point Netflix needs to add your analysis at the end of each season. It’s soooooo good!

  • @SamiaJamal
    @SamiaJamal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Been following you since before I knew you were from Palestine. Love the way you do your in depth analysis! I don’t feel so alone in the over analyzing club (in a good way!). Admired you when I discovered your videos and even more now. Will always stand by Palestinians and continue march for Palestinian freedom. I hope you are doing okay, I’m sending my prayers for you to find what you are looking for in life! You’re awesome and deserve amazing things.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      thank you sweetie. that's a very thoughtful message

  • @amandawebster7244
    @amandawebster7244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    So, I just wanted to make an observation. Your bravery in discussing the tragedy in Gaza has made you so fearless. You are so brave in your topic selection. I’m really proud of you. I’ve always loved your content, but it’s next level now.
    Just my opinion. ❤❤❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      and i just wanna give you the biggest warmest hug for this observation 😊

    • @amandawebster7244
      @amandawebster7244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awe. Anytime. Sensitive souls gotta look out for each other. ❤❤❤

  • @blessedetfavored
    @blessedetfavored 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for consistently delivering high-quality videos accompanied by insightful commentary. Praying for your loved ones and Palestine ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you dear

  • @trlandrew
    @trlandrew 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I love you for all your content. Thank you for working hard to keep us all informed, entertained and in touch with ourselves. I agree with you about Brene Brown... she needs to take her own advice. Very disappointing.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are so welcome! ❤️ that's such a beautiful comment

  • @mumumaxima
    @mumumaxima 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This season is so wild 😂 It's like looking at myself in the past! But I gotta say, I love the way you explain things. You sound just like my therapist. It's really calming ❤️

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yes exactly, same for me. it's like a window into my past. praying that the future will be different

  • @helloleesh
    @helloleesh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The self awareness and growth you exhibit at the very beginning of this video is SO NEEDED in the commentary space! Yes! Normalize calling ourselves out if we’re going to call out others. It doesn’t mean we need to go back and delete old videos. We are able to grow as we analyze. I love to see it. And love to see you at 47k now!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you ❤️🤗

  • @jennifers1040
    @jennifers1040 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Chelsea and Jimmy are not right for each other at all. He doesn't love her the way he wants to love her and she can feel it.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      exactly

    • @fluffyclouds555
      @fluffyclouds555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We can all feel it

  • @tyrrtyrr0301
    @tyrrtyrr0301 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yay! Always excited to see you upload

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you enjoy!

  • @Peaceonearth2024
    @Peaceonearth2024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m so glad I found your channel!
    I care deeply about what is happening in Palestine and feel guilty at times when watching shows like this.
    I appreciated what you said about our need to have a sense of escape/distraction.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤗❤️‍🩹🍉

  • @mariambajalan9515
    @mariambajalan9515 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have been waiting for you to cover Love Is Blind! Your perspective is always on point

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for waiting ❤️

  • @wildflower41
    @wildflower41 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Great commentary as usual. Praying for your people and for all oppressed people all over the world!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Thank you! Palestine will free us all in the end

  • @NoNameNomad....
    @NoNameNomad.... 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Alan Watts "sitting" in the pods educating the contestants was hilarious and educational, love that guy.
    Also, ive never clicked on a sponsor before, but if they're supporting a video on Palestine, they can have my coin!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah that white teeth thing had me rolling on the floor in laughter....and yes! i'm getting my first sponsor soon. just signed the contract with them. video coming later in march. it needs extra cooking this one

  • @Lunchtable94
    @Lunchtable94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Grateful to have you post for our mere entertainment and of course to provide us with your insight! Love that you were able to let go and find your niche. Keep your spirits up boo.. we are going through some troubling times but keep them spirits up !!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 🤗❤️

  • @jana7475
    @jana7475 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Always excited for your videos. Great analysis once again

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much appreciated!

  • @Sam-zz6pr
    @Sam-zz6pr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also I have watched so many videos about love is blind and this is the only one with this perspective and just wow. So much yes

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊 appreciate that

  • @feelingscheck405
    @feelingscheck405 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s so good to see your face, friend. I love your content because when I watch, I feel like I’m actually hanging out with a close friend. You’ve been on my mind and in my prayers for the past few months too 🍉 Please make sure you’re taking care of yourself ❤️ Love to you always 🫶🏼

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 🤗❤️

  • @rinverno9
    @rinverno9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    girl, I was kinda bitting my nails for your your review. and you really hit the nail on this one; some scenes are so hard to watch because we definitely see yourselves in that. Unfortunately, my cooping mechanism is to shut down completely and avoid it of all cost, something I need to work on. Will wait patiently (now that i dont have nails :D) for the doc on gaza, lots of love

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you for supporting the different ways my journey as creator goes. from reality to gaza, you've always been there 🤗

  • @hannahchesby
    @hannahchesby 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your work Indie! Your warm and gentle heart is so evident through your video essays. I live in the UK and the people are disgusted by our government, they do not represent us. I have been moved and forever changed bearing witness to the atrocities in Palestine, and it is most evident that the people of Palestine hold deep love and faith in their hearts. Your people have taught me so much. As you have commented here, Palestine will free us all in the end. Thank you for sharing with us ♥️

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you dear. I've been following the UK. it's amazing to me how everyday people are in full support of Palestine yet those psychotic governments don't care. love that you say Palestine will free us all in the end

  • @taechic
    @taechic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yay! I was hoping to hear from you! Excited to watch this video!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hope you enjoyed it

  • @beritter
    @beritter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I was so excited to see this video pop up! It’s so true how we (definitely me, I’ll admit it) are so judgemental of these people. I was talking to my daughter about it and asked her how she thought the producers would portray me and she said “bossy and like you didn’t care about anyone else’s opinion” Damn!! 😂🤣 Needless to say I would never want to be on one of these shows! Sending you lots of love during a very heavy time 🧡

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thanks for the love

    • @MoroccanSama
      @MoroccanSama 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's indirectly trying to tell you something. I would have a good open conversation with her about it...if you care about her opnion☺️

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@MoroccanSama good point!

    • @beritter
      @beritter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks, it is my daughter after all so I understood the message and we talked about it

  • @Sam-zz6pr
    @Sam-zz6pr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I knew I had to come mentally prepared for this one. You are a gem.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you dear ❤️

  • @melissadejesus8385
    @melissadejesus8385 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ayyy Indie I hope you know how much love and respect I have for you. Sending you my warmest hug from Puerto Rico. Excellent video as usual. I loved this season in particular, I feel for Chelsea so bad because I saw myself in her. The anxious attachment, the baby voice, the checking regularly. And she’s not aware at all. The way she responds in social media to the backlash but then again she is a human person!!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much! lots of love back from Amsterdam

  • @ladydiamond6611
    @ladydiamond6611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My favourite part about Love Is Blind is getting an Indie Nile video on it!!! ^^

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you for that sweetie ❤️

  • @aloweiny1
    @aloweiny1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!

    • @aloweiny1
      @aloweiny1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are the best ❤

  • @mmirandaaaax
    @mmirandaaaax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yaayyy been waiting for this. Your other vids didn’t show up in my feed I will go watch them next. Sending love and hugs

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh interesting that the other videos haven't shown up in the feeds. yes please do check out my videos on Palestine

  • @faitht.4244
    @faitht.4244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. You dropped a lot of gems. Also from your analysis, nit just occured to me that one good signal that a person is healing is their ability to confront their emotions and take it for what it is and be truthful about it. Instead of shoving it down as most of the characters do.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️👌

  • @TheOdge89
    @TheOdge89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Indie! Actually this was helpful to validate how much i relate to all these people. I see Chelsea and I'm like holy shit, ive done that. I have a lot of compassion for her even if i see her doing toxic things. I know some people are not a great mix too and bring out the worst in you. I'm glad you made this video! And it's great to see you again!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      that's a good point about people bringing out the worst in each other. it makes me think that part of healing is recognizing who's good for you as well. the discernment

  • @JillT123
    @JillT123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video. First found your Palestine content, as since October I focus only on that. But this I needed, you are so brilliant. Haven’t watched the LIB show yet but reality love shows have always been my go-to escapism. Now you together with Matt Lieb will be keeping me sane. You are amazing. Free Palestine🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @sunnypie2
    @sunnypie2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great analysis! I love this more than the show. Great insight and I learned a lot. Looking forward to your future analysis ! Good job ✅

    • @kattell5183
      @kattell5183 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      me too

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much! nice to hear from you again

  • @CaulkMongler
    @CaulkMongler 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh man, just the compilation of clips in the beginning is… *chefs kiss* gives you a taste of how absolutely messy this season is compared to previous ones. Entirely unhinged.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you. love it when people appreciate my editing 🤗

  • @platanoluver
    @platanoluver 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    your analysis on the guy being gay lmfao i caught it too and i havent even seen the show 💀

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      yeah it radiates off him 😎

    • @SashaBlake
      @SashaBlake 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which guy? How did I miss that part…

  • @IAmJillsBrokenHeart
    @IAmJillsBrokenHeart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love how you made it seem like the entire cast was listening to you speak. That was great!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you!

  • @ChannelMath
    @ChannelMath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never consciously thought about the reason we like to watch destruction, but the second you said it, I felt I knew it all along. But you also made me realize the problem: we think that particular disaster is more likely than it is

  • @oa194
    @oa194 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOVE your recap and insight! Adding Alan Watts to the mix was just 👌🏻. Thank you for you wise and kind words. SUBSCRIBED! ❤️🇵🇸🍉

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      my absolute pleasure. welcome aboard the Indie train

  • @michellepittman7886
    @michellepittman7886 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your editing of this video! The way you present the drag therapist with clips from the show is top tier!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much. means a lot when someone notices my filmmaking :)

  • @Leila-q5i
    @Leila-q5i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Brilliant!!! Perfect timing 💗

  • @gabriellaberman
    @gabriellaberman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    sending you loads of love and warmth right now 💖🍉 look after yourself

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      thank you sweetie 🤗

  • @lilyxo6914
    @lilyxo6914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your makeup and wig were so well done in this video. You have a talent!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

    • @MuseSunflower
      @MuseSunflower 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a wig? 😮😮😮 the hairline looks so natural

  • @JasmineDev
    @JasmineDev 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First time watching you. I was so happy to find someone else who is escaping the pain of the real world tragedies happening. I am no longer delusional so I can watch these people, with relief that I don’t need validation from anyone. Almost 20 yrs of being happily single has taught me that I can buy myself flowers! 😁

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nice. never bought myself flowers and finally started doing it this year, although would be nice if someone sweet were to buy me flowers :)

  • @daianeS2
    @daianeS2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The best thing about a new season of love is blind is your vídeos ❤❤❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 🤗

  • @traumaqueeen
    @traumaqueeen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found your channel yesterday, its amazing. You really understand humans and break things down brilliantly. 🌸❤🌸❤🌸

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome aboard!

  • @non-stickbakingpaper6784
    @non-stickbakingpaper6784 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was so worried when I couldn't see your video on love is blind. I'm glad you're back, and I am really looking forward to your documentary on Palestine. 🙏 Lots of love

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @LBoogie49
    @LBoogie49 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ohhhh how I’ve been waiting for youuuuuu Indie! Amazing analysis and insights as per usual ❤ I definitely see myself in multiple ppl/situations in almost every season….and these therapist breakdowns are helping me understand myself while in relationship….Thanks so much! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 Praying for Palestine🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you sweetie 🍉❤️🤗

  • @manvinderkaur6035
    @manvinderkaur6035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve been waiting for this! I love watching your commentary.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for waiting

  • @thepearlswirl
    @thepearlswirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was JUST checking to see if you posted about this season a couple days ago. Thank you so much❤ i loveeee your videos on love is blind!!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you!

  • @salomeprudhoe5471
    @salomeprudhoe5471 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart goes out to you at such a difficult time. As the daughter of a survivor, I feel like there is a new generation being created that will have to struggle with the trauma, hopelessness and despair of living in a landscape of loss.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you for that dear ❤️‍🩹

  • @DejaCamacho
    @DejaCamacho 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so glad you’re back!!! Most of the time I watch reviewers to point out things I missed in the episode, but I appreciate the empathy you have for these contestants. This season is interesting because some of the contestants have a vulnerability to them that we haven’t seen before so your empathy is perfect.
    Alsooooo the edit for Chelsea’s run is my fav thing I’ll see on the internet forever 😂😂😂

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      haha, that Chelsea sure is a source of inspiration for shadiness. she is truly her worst enemy

  • @CruzWalls
    @CruzWalls 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Indie! Also was craaving and waiting to see your perspectives and views on this season. Love the part on which you reflect on why we are so attracted to see this show and somehow for sure we see ourselves reflected, for some of us we acted, or keep acting like these people in any moment in our lives. Love, Love, Love your Channel! keep it up! ohhh guess what I´m from the Dominican Republic, haha so was so happy they filmed here. 😆

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! your country looks stunning. glad they filmed there too

    • @CruzWalls
      @CruzWalls 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊@@dragtherapy

  • @Realtor365
    @Realtor365 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have just found you, and you sir, are a genius. Incredibly clever and well done ☺️

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much 🤗

  • @mirandaholliday2776
    @mirandaholliday2776 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your videos so much, you have great takes on all of this stuff. The title took me out like YUP. sending so much love .

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! lots of love back

  • @eleniantoniou8287
    @eleniantoniou8287 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was like a therapy session! Love it 🙌❤️subscribed

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks! welcome aboard the Indie train

  • @ElleeSea
    @ElleeSea 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how you break the episodes down! 🍉🍉🍉❤️❤️❤️

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you sweetie 😍

  • @luminescent_tides
    @luminescent_tides 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found your channel today and I swear, it’s divine timing…
    Your voice, your sense of humor, the incredible and unique impersonation and lip sync bits you do…
    It’s such delicious soup for my soul, I’m so excited to find you and can’t wait to start binging your videos!
    🩷🤭🫣🩷

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welcome aboard! 🤗 soup for the soul is a compliment i'm going to bask in. thank you!

  • @isabellarodriguez1022
    @isabellarodriguez1022 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been eagerly waiting for your take on this new season! Thank you!!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you for waiting!

  • @louiseswain2010
    @louiseswain2010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant ❤ Loved the Alan Watts segment

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much!

  • @katherinebird5838
    @katherinebird5838 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So appreciate your views and how much you put into this work. Holding your heart and all those affected by this unfolding tragedy we are witnessing. ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you dear. i feel your heart in this comment ❤️‍🩹

  • @kseniaeverton8089
    @kseniaeverton8089 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Indie, I saw this video drop and decided to "watch" (by skipping forward a bunch) the first few episodes so I can enjoy your video. I'm from Ukraine and can relate to wanting some escape through these shows. And I can relate to the David vs. Goliath thing... Thank you for posting this.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you for watching sweetie ❤️ praying that the people of Gaza and Ukraine experience peace

  • @soukainaettajani5434
    @soukainaettajani5434 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ommmg sooo goood to see you again!! Plz keep dropping videos!!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @hashtagmate
    @hashtagmate 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I forgot what an absolute artist you are with your videos

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 😊 🤗 sorry been away from Love is Blind content but been pouring myself into videos about Palestine which by the way have a lot of drag artistry in them in case you feel like checking those out 😎

  • @BillieDixonProductions
    @BillieDixonProductions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of my favorite creators! ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you!

  • @arcitita
    @arcitita 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Indie Nile is such a pocket of peace in my life, I really can’t express the tranquility this gives me, and how it helps me be both introspective and kind to myself, as someone who has a tendency to be quite mean to myself

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i feel you on that one. it takes lots of practice to even start noticing how we are cruel to ourselves. you got this. WE got this!

  • @sunflowerlady2057
    @sunflowerlady2057 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know I caught one of your earlier videos on LIB about a year ago. Loved it, but I’m loving this new perspective and growth ❤ this was very well done. Thank you for this insightful and mirroring commentary, it really encourages to look at ourselves. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it means a lot that you notice a growth. something in me was different while watching this season. i kept thinking to myself, who am i to judge these people? finding love is hard as shit for ALL of us

  • @djwemi5417
    @djwemi5417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's such a pleasure to watch your videos. This was so good. I believe that reality tv stars have loads of insecurities which is why they get chosen to be on certain shows in the first place. The more wacky they are , it makes for good tv which is done on purpose. So i don't really think you're "judging" per say, i believe you're highlighting very amazingly the inner struggles the people go through.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much ❤️

  • @themissmay
    @themissmay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love watching love is blind. I watch it when I get off from work super late at night and I sit and I smoke weed and I watch the show and it helps me destress from the day. Love it.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that sounds like a vibe

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was checking daily if you upload and I am happy having your together with my morning coffee 😍🌹😃 thank you and god bless you 🙏 love and light to your soul 💜💙

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      love and light to you too ❤️

    • @meli7315
      @meli7315 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dragtherapy thank you 😊

    • @montserrattorresnadal5087
      @montserrattorresnadal5087 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perfect timing!! ❤

  • @s.w.94
    @s.w.94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much! Love your analyses as much as the show.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoy it! ❤️

  • @Brenchy80
    @Brenchy80 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your analytic and honest mind, and your quirkiness, and you rock ❤

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you sweetie. appreciate that ❤️

  • @divinesintervention
    @divinesintervention 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My Fav posted 😫♥️♥️♥️ I absolutely love your channel and videos! You bring awareness to those in need and educate the masses on so many matters. It takes a lot of effort and talent to do so, thank you Indie for blessing us with your wisdom :)

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank YOU! for this lovely comment that started my day just right 🤗

  • @amandac3362
    @amandac3362 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this so much and relate to you do much too --all of your lip syc choices are the best --this alan watss one is my favorite thing I've ever heard now lol

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nice! i love me some Alan Watts. he can find the humor and levity in anything. he's actually one of my main inspirations for doing drag

  • @jazmynshepherd4161
    @jazmynshepherd4161 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AHHHH FINALLY! I’ve been waiting for this!

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for waiting

  • @msmichydo
    @msmichydo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’ve been so dearly missed. Thank you for your amazing content. And for all the Gaza insight. I’m sending you so much love and standing with you in solidarity.
    Chelsea and Jimmy give me (early) Amber Heard-Johnny Depp vibes.

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ooh the Amber/Johnny comparison is a good one. although Chelsea seems a bit kinder than Amber. the crazy is there though ;)

  • @Jay-gv7jm
    @Jay-gv7jm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my first video of yours and you are so much fun. Loved it, felt like talking with my girls

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yay! Thank you! welcome aboard the Indie train

  • @m.aliciavela4058
    @m.aliciavela4058 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just laughed when you said ahhh, suscribe! haha You are the best, thank you for sharing your insights about previous videos and how you have changed you mind and opinions. Love from Ecuador

    • @dragtherapy
      @dragtherapy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lots of love back from Amsterdam

  • @astrameli
    @astrameli 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are sooooo good !! Thank you ❤