He never acknowladged his mistake in the relationship.And it was so sad "Give me a hug so that people know it's all good". Sir, she ain't a child who had a tantrum 👀
I know people have commented on other videos that cast members can be fined if they don’t move forward with the wedding, so I’m wondering how that works here…
Kenneth literally gaslit Brittany for the entirety of that last conversation. He checked out long before they made it back home. He was one of the biggest letdowns of this season. Brittany is such a prize!
@@HishamMahmudinOCclay isn’t just being honest. He’s giving her heads up that he will cheat in the future and I hope she takes heed or just swallow it after she herself said she’s ‘captain fix a ho’
Netflix is pissing me off with not showing Kenneth was married before but making a big deal about Chelsea being married. Same with the Megan Fox stuff but not showing what Jimmy said about Christian McCafferty.
I think you went too soft on Clay not brining up his body issues. His comment c at lunch about how hes not gonna let her gain weight and will force her to the gym was gross!
I don't think Clay is being genuinely honest. I feel that every time he expresses something related to how exposed he has been to unfaithful relationships, it is simply him warning AD that if he is unfaithful at any time it is for those reasons so that then she doesn't hold him responsible for his actions. I feel that most of these men just ener the show to become famous and are not ready for serious commitments.
The success rate of condoms vs the success rate of birth control is a marginal difference, to be perfectly fair. Pressuring her to go on the pill when she has a right not to take medication that messes with hormones is not an ideal take. Condoms aren't 100% effective, but neither is the pill. Condoms + pulling out might be the best way to go.
Natalie just being "Sarah Ann is a fucking SNAKE" took me OUT. But then later she follows it up with "It sounds like Sarah Ann doesn't have a lot of, you know, morals" kdhsdjfhsd I'm screaming.
What I most surprised at with the conversation happening about LIB, AD being sexualized is being pushed by the women. If my partner commented on my friend’s body, I would never shout it out across a room. And I would never sexualize my friends with my partner. We as women are fighting hard to be seen as equals and yet we are so ready to pull our own down. I believe Chelsea and Laura should be held accountable.
I agree. Should jimmy have said that about AD, no. Should Chelsea have said it out loud, also no. If she was upset by his comment, she should’ve have had a conversation with him about why she didn’t like that instead of making AD uncomfortable. Same thing with Lauren. Don’t know why she said that thing to Jearmey.
Yes, I think Deepti was being way too soft on Laura, who asked her partner to s€xu@lly a salt AD and then downplayed it, refused to apologize, and somehow made herself out to be the victim. Laura displayed even more snake-like behavior than Sarah Ann did.
She’s just doing what the producers told her to do. No person who truly seek vindication would talk and act like her with the cameras on her. She got herself a spot on The Perfect Match right after. She wants clout.
I think Jess has always just wanted screen time. I think it’s weird she took two days to get back her daughter that she missed so much. Putting your kid in a situation where they potentially could have a stranger move in….so weird.
Completely agree. I always saw her as too polished in everything she said. I don't understand why people loved the whole EpiPen thing; to me, it felt scripted. It's just a gut feeling, but nothing she says convinces me. My suspicions are confirmed when she comments at least 3 times on every LIB post. In my opinion, she just wanted to be an influencer.
she was entertaining I will give her that, but definitely not serious about finding a match. I think she really wanted to be memorable though so I agree that her monologue felt so rehearsed.
Thank you! I keep saying this. I hate how they blame AD. If he really loved her that simple conversation wouldn’t have an effect on him. Love is too strong for AD to had been the reason.
I feel like Kenneth used the race thing as an excuse to leave Brittany. I don’t think one conversation about race would make him have an issue with someone he claims to love. Also, when she asked what he would need from her to feel comfortable, he seemed taken aback. I feel like he said that to her thinking she’d get upset and then they could have a reason to breakup
@victoriaemerson-ds8du I thought they were connecting in the pods, but yeah he seemed disinterested when they saw each other. I think people don't see it because Britanny is very attractive and seemed so sweet.
Gotta disagree. It was very intuitively obvious from the get go, that dating a white woman was going to be an issue for him. He backed it up with facts by saying he's never dated a white woman, and it seems that conversation with AD kind of sealed the deal for him. Likely on top of it, he just wasn't that into Brittany. I think it's totally fine if that's not his comfort zone and/or type, it's just the way he ultimately handled it that was pure scum on his part.
Oh that's absolutely enough for someone to rethink a relationship. I never bought that he was fully invested anyway but a conversation around whether someone is ready to raise mixed kids in NC giving them pause is valid.
I don’t like Laura. Her joke was distasteful & she blamed Jeramy for repeating it. She poked fun of Johnny’s hair, Jimmy’s shirts. Came off controlling. I don’t like overanalyzing SM reactions (although her instincts were right, & the nicest thing I can say about her), but she did look worse calling him out in front of her family. She’s a bit of a sh*t stirrer, kinda flocks to the drama. I see her draining the life out of me quick. Not defending Jeramy. Let’s just say they both can be awful. I haven’t heard one person say a good thing about her aside from her catching Jeramy lying.
Omg same! Like the joke was borderline SA and saying that about another woman is gross regardless. And she was so mean to Jeramy over and over again in front of his family, also for her to egg Jess on but be mad at Sarah Ann. Like bffr.
Agree. Her telling AD, "It's giving childish" made me want to bean dip her face. She is encouraging Jessica (even though she apparently thinks Jess should be "repulsed" by Jimmy), but mad at Sarah? Even her parents seemed exhausted by her. Jeramey is trash, but also, he maybe dodge a messy bullet.
Yea I don’t care for Laura. Also kind of bothers me that she’s condemning Sarah Ann for dming Jeramey but then is hyping up Jess to go after Jimmy. I feel like it’s hypocritical and mean girl and two faced
Do I think that any of these people actually want to get engaged and went on the show for the right reason? No. The show has become so big and when people get the opportunity to go on the show, they take it. Getting engaged in ten days is wild. Then getting married right after is even crazier. We also have to give these people some grace….
I’m not surprised Jeramey did what he did. Laura, to me, came across as if she was trying to build a bear. She wanted him to be someone she wanted to be in a relationship with and didn’t care about his wants. If you re-watch bean dip gate Jeramey says Laura told him to do it to AD. Laura then flipped it around and made it seem like Jeramey was out of line when she was laughing about it at first. Also, I can see him getting irritated with her especially when her family was there. Jeramey was still dead wrong for what he did in this last episode but Laura isn’t squeaky clean.
I agree! To me Laura had so many red flags. There was one episode where she made snide comments about him not being college-educated that really turned me off. Also making a big deal about Hawaiian shirts. She obviously didn’t want to accept him for who he’s for. Maybe Jeramy just wanted to see what he could have had with Sara Ann. Like maybe she would love him for who he is 🤷🏻♀️ I don’t know, I’m not done with the episodes yet. Also editing, we don’t know what really happened, just want they want us to understand and these people are super messy on social media.
A.D. completely planted a seed in Kenneth’s mind. His demeanor towards Brittany completely changed after that conversation and for some reason A.D. was never called out for creating a wedge and ruining their relationship
I think Chelsea is just that way. I wouldn’t attribute it to the situation with Jessica. She comes off very whiny and unfortunately, Jimmy calling her needy fits the bill. She creates a scenario in her head and runs with it. Regardless of what happens with Jimmy and Jessica this week, I truly believe that she would behave that way in any other situation. I believe she experiences more paranoia than intuition.
Saying that Jimmy is people pleasing is a good way to put it. From my perception Jimmy doesn't want to hurt Chelsea's feelings but I still don't think he's super into her physically. The next coming episodes will be very interesting.
What I don't get is why the f do some of these people go on Love is Blind if the potential isn't to get married? If you are afraid of commitment and marriage THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE. You don't get a good look for whatever platform you got going for you and correct me if I'm wrong but you don't exactly look favorable to the public when you do this. What's really pissing in my Cheerios though is production having casting reach out to cast rather than recruiting based on people who actively want to apply to the show. Unreality tv really ruins the experience for people who want a genuine shot.
The point about Clay not wanting to drive an hour to be home with his future wife is concerning. 1hr is not a long drive in realty, my husband and many friends have to do that drive for work and never complain. Maybe it’s just because we are rural and more used to long car trips but it’s unacceptable this early on in their relationship - in my humble opinion.
Agreed I once dated someone that drove 2 hours after work just to go on dates with me he would then have to drive back since we hadn't gotten to the point that we were intimate yet. Clay's lack of commitment is evident. @@macymiller3417
I might be crazy or blind but I do see the resemblance between Chelsea and Megan Fox 😅 They have the same eyes/nose/cheeks combo and the lips are fairly similar.
I see it too. Just cuz she may not be as "fit" as a woman who's built a career being sexualized on film doesn't mean she's fully wrong. A lot of actors have intense workout routines around filming that no one who has a regular job would be able to maintain. Also she said it's probably just her hair/eye colour she doesn't see it fully.
AD’s convo with Kenneth made me wonder if she was worried about Matthew raising black children. Did they discuss that? It didn’t seem that they did, because she didn’t want to talk about her appearance. So her talk with Kenneth came off as hypocritical to me. I love AD, but real talk here: she was questioning Kenneth’s relationship but not her own? Yikes.
I think Jimmy hooked up with one of his girl best friends either in the past or present. It’s the only person that would warrant that reaction from Chelsea that makes sense to me!
Laura should have apologized to AD for even making the joke to begin with. You didn't want it to get out sure, but now it did and now it's a weird inappropriate joke where AD is the butt of it. She took no accountability for it.
Why aren’t we talking about the fact that AD saw all these red flags in the pods and literally said “sign me up!” I mean idk what her exact words were but something like, sure, I’ll try and fix you - why not?!
HEAR ME OUR YALL, I HAVE A THEORY: REMEMBER the recent ''alleged'' text messages that were shared of Trevor saying he met someone on the plane and that they agreed on doing the same thing and just getting screen time but not getting married, remember on the show, TREVOR AND JIMMY kept saying they respected each other and that they would not be mad if one of them got to marry Chelsea because they ''liked and respected'' each other. I thought that was wholesome and supportive AF at first and super mature even.... BUT WHAT IF: JIMMY IS THE GUY TREVOR MET ON THE PLANE!!?? AND THAT IS WHY WE CANNOT BELIEVE JIMMY AND HE WILL RIDE IT UNTIL THE END BUT NOT GET MARRIED. HE ALSO KNOWS HOW TO SEEM ''GOOD'' ON CAMERA, LIKE TREVOR!
In the Nick Vaill interview Jess said that Kenneth and Brittany had multiple conversations about where their relationship was headed and came to the conclusion to end it before the aired scene was filmed. She said this might be why he behaves like this during the breakup scene.
I really appreciate the details in yalls conversation. It is clear that you do your research and just dont talk out of ur ass as some ppl on podcasts do lol. Love this ep
Not just you. His overuse of the word makes me wonder if he's worrying he'll call AD by an exes name or something. In my experience, guys who overuse terms of endearment are being unfaithful in some way. Perhaps it's me projecting there, but this, added to over blinking and constantly soft prepping AD for him potentially being his father's son as a cheater makes me think he's not fully convinced and committed to the marriage. Might be wrong though. The reunion will be interesting for a few of these storylines!
Girls I just wanted to say that I looooove this podcast since none of my friends watch the show, and I get my husband to watch it like one episode per season 😅 anyways, I listen to you and it's like gossiping about it with you ❤
Chelsea is clingy. And some of her clingy ways may stem from her lack of confidence. His delivery was not the greatest, but as her fiancé he should be able to express that and they both come to an understanding about how they can EACH do better.
And Chelsea looks a bit like young M. Fox. In fact, she looks more like M. Fox than the currant M. Fox looks like M. Fox. Some people see it. Especially when she smiles.
23:39 Kenny said in the very beginning he has only been with and dated Black women and that’s obviously what he wanted and that conversation was had with AD otherwise there wouldn’t have been a point for AD to bring it up. You can’t plant a seed when the dirt is hard
I loooove how straightforward & blunt Natalie is. Deepti is always twerking on the fence and trying not to say something wrong so as not to offend the cast mates and I get it and love the balance anyways just thought to point it out
Re: Johnny refusing to be intimate - one theory could be he's just on the show for fake reasons and has a partner off camera, and he's just trying not to actually cheat on them. It's probably not that! Just crossed my mind.
Never thought Kenneth will be the villain. He definitely showed his true colors. And FYI not all Christians are like Kenneth. His church should take away his “leader” position. Jesus is love and that’s something he definitely lacks
I was sad to see how their relationship ended. I was pulling for them. Along with the other couples, new information had come to light and Brittany has shed light on somethings in a recent interview. She noted that the "editing"'didn't show that she was the one who actually initiated the break up and that the phone was not an issue in their relationship in spite of the way it was edited. She also noted that she still believes that he is a good man. I wouldn't rush to ruin his career due to this portrayal. He clearly has some maturing to do and may have some other issues to deal with according to some other information that has been alleged but not confirmed. Unfortunately it makes it hard to trust what is being shown.
I honestly cannot believe that the two of you are not disecting Chelsea a bit more. She honestly makes me physically CRINGE. Sorry, but she IS clingly - actually, she is suffocating. IMO, she is an emotional vampire - and until she does some real work on herself, she is going to emotionally suck the life out of every relationship she's involved with. More than any other person on the show, she is my least favorite person. Jimmy has bent over backwards to do everything he can, to keep her happy. She on the other hand, has emotional meltdowns over every little thing. She makes mountains out of molehills. Also, if I hear " i'm going to puke" ONE MORE TIME - again, she makes me cringe.
I see where you're coming from but I think she can pick up on Jimmy's disappointment that she doesn't look like Megan Fox. He's technically saying all the right things so it temporarily soothes her doubt but she probably can, at the very least subconsciously, tell he's not SUPER into her. At least the editing makes it seem like he's not. Especially at that reveal. Yeesh.
@@deadams8905 i really don't think the megan fox comment was as detrimental as everyone is making it out to be. chelsea is annoying, overly needy, and it all stems from her projecting her past experiences onto a man she barely knows. she needs extensive therapy and to take time to herself before she thinks about being with anyone period. we as viewers cannot blame everything on the edit. also, i'm not giving jimmy any leeway lol. all of the men this season are garbage.
She's an emotional person and probably just needs a partner who is also emotional. She definitely feels the lack of attraction on Jimmy's behalf and when it is brought up, he won't tell the truth. That would make anyone act crazy.
I LOVE when Laura exposes Jeramey to the fire and roasts his ass, but I still don't like her. I respect it, but they're still both trash. Feels like they're both conspiring against Jimmy and Chelsea's relationship. Jeramey is the one who showed Jimmy Jessica's picture, and Laura is the one egging on Jessica to swoop in and talk to Jimmy. The Sarah Anne incident is karma for both of them.
You never blame the other person UNLESS they are well aware that the person is in a relationship. That's why Jessica is also at fault for flirting with/ wanting to get back at Jimmy
When Matthew walks out of the pods there is a camera shot above the pods and there is no one sitting on Sara’s side. So they edited to look like he walked out on her.
It's hard to say Jeramey is in the wrong when Laura is a total KAREN to him. If her dad says she takes advantage of people who let her, what does that say about her character? Apparently a college degree defines intelligence? She's the piece of America we are trying to eliminate, people taking advantage where they have power. LAURA IS A TOTAL ICK! Jaramey is engaged to a Karen, give him grace! Thank you! I was so happy to see the early release.
I feel like Jimmy is saying what he thinks are the right things to stay in the public favor, but you can tell he doesn't mean any of it. And that paired with the fact that he and Chelsea are having sex is messing with her head which is making her already insecure thoughts worse. She doesn't handle it well, but I just think Jimmy is making her feel crazy gaslighting her.
The issue regarding the Megan fox comment is that Chelsea brought up the topic. On a show based entirely on do looks really matter. She knew what she was doing.
Why r people behaving that having black children is like having children with a disability?? Like its soooo challenging like they’re aliens or something
Love your guys point of view on the show and love this season. I think Jeramy is getting some heat for no reason. I get that he was recently engaged, but he was single when he went on the show. I don’t like him, but he was single and I think it’s weird for his exs family to blast him. Trevor on the other hand is a POS for what he did. So many clout chasers …
I saw an interview with Jimmy, he’s not a fan of Jess present day. I don’t think anything happened with them. I think Chelsea was just being insecure in the trailer….
I'm glad you guys pointed out Laura being a hypocrite when she encourages Jess about seeing Jimmy or potentially stirring the pot, when that's literally what Sarah Ann did to her and Jeramy. Even if the questions were prompted by the producers Laura still leans into them pretty hard. I'm not a fan of the one on one scene with Jess where she's talking about dangling temptation in front of Jimmy, but I'm also pretty sure some alcohol went into that conversation because of how brazen she was. But also there's a big difference between having a discussion with your friend about the possibilities, and actually doing it like Sarah Ann did. I feel like Sarah Ann didn't even talk to her friends before she sent that message, because a GOOD friend would have smacked her on the nose with a rolled up newspaper.
They explained this before in one of their previous episodes. He did say Shaina, but there were clips from another fight pertaining to Deepti that was used and shown as a reaction to that. Deepti said the same thing. The editors basically spliced scenes together @@cct306. That's why Natalie didn't know about Shaina's connection with Shayne until S2 aired because Deepti was the one they argued about
16:44 I recall Raven citing one of those trendy dishonest TikTok’s when the S3 cast was still coming at Cole after the show - vid didn’t mention him by name. Yikes.
YES - absolutely agree that Laura was the one at fault for even bringing the "bean dip" comment up.. why even make a joke like that and involve AD? Then Laura shut down and blamed it all on Jeramy, whereas it looked to me like AD in the moment was looking to Laura more for an apology and explanation for why even make that sort of comment to Jeramy, let alone to then have it brought up to everyone. Jeramy and Laura handled the situation in the moment horribly and then I guess apologized and made things right. They ended up being a disaster couple anyways by the end of the next weeks' episodes so I guess it doesn't matter lol
@@sharonmukuwa9317 yea he said he told her off camera bc he wanted to be honest about it with Chelsea but he wanted to respect his friends privacy. that didn't come out until episode 10 or 11 I think tho. but either way he told her and it was only once. she's really insecure and fussing for things to be upset at so she can blame him for her insecurity
21:33 my thoughts are: she told him the day prior (according to the edit) that she’s been cheated on in almost every relationship and that she never wants to even have to question it…and the very next day he’s telling her he finds another woman attractive? He needed to apologize. That was effed.
I heard people saying they think the preview with Chelsea yelling to Jimmy about him f--ing someone will be Chelsea finding out he's slept with one of his female friends in the past. I reckon it could be true, and would definitely explain the reaction as Chelsea's said she's always had to be weary of her man's female friends.
Deeps hit the nail on the head with Kenneth. I think he was purposely irritating Britt so that she would be the one to break it off.
He never acknowladged his mistake in the relationship.And it was so sad "Give me a hug so that people know it's all good". Sir, she ain't a child who had a tantrum 👀
Will that mean he didnt do anything against contract😢
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Yeah I think after his convo with AD and his normal attraction isn't Britt he lost interest but he didn't want to say that outright.
I know people have commented on other videos that cast members can be fined if they don’t move forward with the wedding, so I’m wondering how that works here…
Clay talks like he’s on a forever job interview. When he met AD’s mom, it was like he was just telling her what she wanted to hear.
Kenneth literally gaslit Brittany for the entirety of that last conversation. He checked out long before they made it back home. He was one of the biggest letdowns of this season. Brittany is such a prize!
I laughed when y’all say season 4 wasn’t as messy. Y’all don’t remember Jackie’s leaked texts where she was bashing Marshall to her friends? 😂
Brett drove 3 hours to and fro to see Tiffany. No excuses 💯
Love you 2 on the sofa 🛋️ chatting to each other like no one on TH-cam is watching 👀 😊
Remember in the pods, Sara Ann told Laura "don't worry, I'll have my moment "... super snake behavior!!!!!
THE MEN THIS SEASON ARE TRASH🥴
What about Johnny & Jimmy? & Clay simply getting a bad rap just for being brutally honest about trauma with his philandering dad 🤷🏾♂
@@HishamMahmudinOCclay isn’t just being honest. He’s giving her heads up that he will cheat in the future and I hope she takes heed or just swallow it after she herself said she’s ‘captain fix a ho’
I agree. They are all hugely disappointing in my opinion.
@@HishamMahmudinOCJimmy isn’t trash for objectifying AD’s physical appearance in front of both his and her partners?
the women also
Netflix is pissing me off with not showing Kenneth was married before but making a big deal about Chelsea being married. Same with the Megan Fox stuff but not showing what Jimmy said about Christian McCafferty.
I think you meant Jimmy not Kenneth
Jimmy was married?
I think you went too soft on Clay not brining up his body issues. His comment c at lunch about how hes not gonna let her gain weight and will force her to the gym was gross!
I totally forgot about that!
“The tea is piping hot” “it was so uncomfy” season 6 phrases used in a sentence here haha
I don't think Clay is being genuinely honest. I feel that every time he expresses something related to how exposed he has been to unfaithful relationships, it is simply him warning AD that if he is unfaithful at any time it is
for those reasons so that then she doesn't hold him responsible for his actions. I feel that most of these men just ener the show to become famous and are not ready for serious commitments.
I feel like everyone is missing when Amy said, “condoms aren’t enough for Johnny”
Then pull out as well!
Spermicide. Diaphragm. It's so many things
Agree. And condoms really aren't enough!
The success rate of condoms vs the success rate of birth control is a marginal difference, to be perfectly fair. Pressuring her to go on the pill when she has a right not to take medication that messes with hormones is not an ideal take. Condoms aren't 100% effective, but neither is the pill. Condoms + pulling out might be the best way to go.
Condom + Monitor cycle with temp + Pull out and spermicide 😅
Kenneth chilled me to the bone. He was so rude, so sanctimonious, so unfeeling.
Natalie just being "Sarah Ann is a fucking SNAKE" took me OUT. But then later she follows it up with "It sounds like Sarah Ann doesn't have a lot of, you know, morals" kdhsdjfhsd I'm screaming.
Lmfaoooo and she ain’t lie either smh
Someone had to say it, we’re all thinking it! Lmao
What I most surprised at with the conversation happening about LIB, AD being sexualized is being pushed by the women. If my partner commented on my friend’s body, I would never shout it out across a room. And I would never sexualize my friends with my partner.
We as women are fighting hard to be seen as equals and yet we are so ready to pull our own down. I believe Chelsea and Laura should be held accountable.
I agree. Should jimmy have said that about AD, no. Should Chelsea have said it out loud, also no. If she was upset by his comment, she should’ve have had a conversation with him about why she didn’t like that instead of making AD uncomfortable. Same thing with Lauren. Don’t know why she said that thing to Jearmey.
Yes, I think Deepti was being way too soft on Laura, who asked her partner to s€xu@lly a salt AD and then downplayed it, refused to apologize, and somehow made herself out to be the victim. Laura displayed even more snake-like behavior than Sarah Ann did.
Jess doesn't want Jimmy, she wants vindication...
She’s just doing what the producers told her to do. No person who truly seek vindication would talk and act like her with the cameras on her. She got herself a spot on The Perfect Match right after. She wants clout.
I think Jess has always just wanted screen time. I think it’s weird she took two days to get back her daughter that she missed so much. Putting your kid in a situation where they potentially could have a stranger move in….so weird.
Completely agree. I always saw her as too polished in everything she said. I don't understand why people loved the whole EpiPen thing; to me, it felt scripted. It's just a gut feeling, but nothing she says convinces me. My suspicions are confirmed when she comments at least 3 times on every LIB post. In my opinion, she just wanted to be an influencer.
she was entertaining I will give her that, but definitely not serious about finding a match. I think she really wanted to be memorable though so I agree that her monologue felt so rehearsed.
@@natacv.1 💯
I think Jess met up with another guy from the pods and that’s why she didn’t pick up her daughter right away.
The psych evals "oh you're crazy, you're going on the show" 😅🤣😂
Love your insight of how these shows are edited. So glad the two of you are best friends as we suffered with both of you during your season. ❤️
Kenneth wears a mask. That conversation with AD didn’t sway him, he was simply looking for an out of a relationship he didn’t really want.
Thank you! I keep saying this. I hate how they blame AD. If he really loved her that simple conversation wouldn’t have an effect on him. Love is too strong for AD to had been the reason.
"she is a fucking snake" I LOVE YOU Natalieeeee lol
I feel like Kenneth used the race thing as an excuse to leave Brittany. I don’t think one conversation about race would make him have an issue with someone he claims to love. Also, when she asked what he would need from her to feel comfortable, he seemed taken aback. I feel like he said that to her thinking she’d get upset and then they could have a reason to breakup
Am I the only person who never thought Kenneth was into Brittney? I never saw it.
@victoriaemerson-ds8du I thought they were connecting in the pods, but yeah he seemed disinterested when they saw each other. I think people don't see it because Britanny is very attractive and seemed so sweet.
Gotta disagree. It was very intuitively obvious from the get go, that dating a white woman was going to be an issue for him. He backed it up with facts by saying he's never dated a white woman, and it seems that conversation with AD kind of sealed the deal for him. Likely on top of it, he just wasn't that into Brittany. I think it's totally fine if that's not his comfort zone and/or type, it's just the way he ultimately handled it that was pure scum on his part.
Oh that's absolutely enough for someone to rethink a relationship. I never bought that he was fully invested anyway but a conversation around whether someone is ready to raise mixed kids in NC giving them pause is valid.
I don’t like Laura. Her joke was distasteful & she blamed Jeramy for repeating it. She poked fun of Johnny’s hair, Jimmy’s shirts. Came off controlling. I don’t like overanalyzing SM reactions (although her instincts were right, & the nicest thing I can say about her), but she did look worse calling him out in front of her family. She’s a bit of a sh*t stirrer, kinda flocks to the drama. I see her draining the life out of me quick. Not defending Jeramy. Let’s just say they both can be awful. I haven’t heard one person say a good thing about her aside from her catching Jeramy lying.
Omg same! Like the joke was borderline SA and saying that about another woman is gross regardless. And she was so mean to Jeramy over and over again in front of his family, also for her to egg Jess on but be mad at Sarah Ann. Like bffr.
Agree! Is Laura a 'Karen' to anyone else?
Agree. Her telling AD, "It's giving childish" made me want to bean dip her face. She is encouraging Jessica (even though she apparently thinks Jess should be "repulsed" by Jimmy), but mad at Sarah? Even her parents seemed exhausted by her. Jeramey is trash, but also, he maybe dodge a messy bullet.
I don’t like her either!
Yea I don’t care for Laura. Also kind of bothers me that she’s condemning Sarah Ann for dming Jeramey but then is hyping up Jess to go after Jimmy. I feel like it’s hypocritical and mean girl and two faced
I know this season is good because my boyfriend is invested in it too 😂😂😂
Both of you have great soft voices to hear... I love this just by that!
Kenneth was a coward. He absolutely was gaslighting Brittany and was forcing her hand to break up with him. He doesnt like women 🙃
Do I think that any of these people actually want to get engaged and went on the show for the right reason? No. The show has become so big and when people get the opportunity to go on the show, they take it. Getting engaged in ten days is wild. Then getting married right after is even crazier. We also have to give these people some grace….
I’m not surprised Jeramey did what he did. Laura, to me, came across as if she was trying to build a bear. She wanted him to be someone she wanted to be in a relationship with and didn’t care about his wants. If you re-watch bean dip gate Jeramey says Laura told him to do it to AD. Laura then flipped it around and made it seem like Jeramey was out of line when she was laughing about it at first. Also, I can see him getting irritated with her especially when her family was there. Jeramey was still dead wrong for what he did in this last episode but Laura isn’t squeaky clean.
Yes!
I agree! To me Laura had so many red flags. There was one episode where she made snide comments about him not being college-educated that really turned me off. Also making a big deal about Hawaiian shirts. She obviously didn’t want to accept him for who he’s for. Maybe Jeramy just wanted to see what he could have had with Sara Ann. Like maybe she would love him for who he is 🤷🏻♀️ I don’t know, I’m not done with the episodes yet. Also editing, we don’t know what really happened, just want they want us to understand and these people are super messy on social media.
A.D. completely planted a seed in Kenneth’s mind. His demeanor towards Brittany completely changed after that conversation and for some reason A.D. was never called out for creating a wedge and ruining their relationship
I think Chelsea is just that way. I wouldn’t attribute it to the situation with Jessica. She comes off very whiny and unfortunately, Jimmy calling her needy fits the bill. She creates a scenario in her head and runs with it. Regardless of what happens with Jimmy and Jessica this week, I truly believe that she would behave that way in any other situation.
I believe she experiences more paranoia than intuition.
The Apple Watch theory makes so much sense! He looked SHIT SCARED when he got caught
Kenneth’s cousin outed him recently as being gay….I think that’s so messed up…
I missed this somehow! That’s so messed up
I wonder if that was real!
I hope that's not true. Gay men are kinder to women than he was.
Source?
Wtf?!?! I had my suspicions but damn!
Saying that Jimmy is people pleasing is a good way to put it. From my perception Jimmy doesn't want to hurt Chelsea's feelings but I still don't think he's super into her physically. The next coming episodes will be very interesting.
What I don't get is why the f do some of these people go on Love is Blind if the potential isn't to get married? If you are afraid of commitment and marriage THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE.
You don't get a good look for whatever platform you got going for you and correct me if I'm wrong but you don't exactly look favorable to the public when you do this.
What's really pissing in my Cheerios though is production having casting reach out to cast rather than recruiting based on people who actively want to apply to the show. Unreality tv really ruins the experience for people who want a genuine shot.
Come on, it's a TV show... people are here for the drama. If there were only people who got their shit together, it would be boring AF
The point about Clay not wanting to drive an hour to be home with his future wife is concerning. 1hr is not a long drive in realty, my husband and many friends have to do that drive for work and never complain. Maybe it’s just because we are rural and more used to long car trips but it’s unacceptable this early on in their relationship - in my humble opinion.
I 100% agree. My husband and I drove 2 hours back and forth every week to see each other for YEARS. It’s the effort that matters and clay got NONE.
Agreed I once dated someone that drove 2 hours after work just to go on dates with me he would then have to drive back since we hadn't gotten to the point that we were intimate yet. Clay's lack of commitment is evident. @@macymiller3417
Saying “uncomfy” makes me chuckle 😂😂
There’s also some tea on Jess. She has pics circulating with her and Harry. Apparently they met on Perfect match …
I might be crazy or blind but I do see the resemblance between Chelsea and Megan Fox 😅 They have the same eyes/nose/cheeks combo and the lips are fairly similar.
I agree, it doesn't mean that she was the spitting image of Megan Fox but I do see similar facial features.
I see it too. Just cuz she may not be as "fit" as a woman who's built a career being sexualized on film doesn't mean she's fully wrong. A lot of actors have intense workout routines around filming that no one who has a regular job would be able to maintain. Also she said it's probably just her hair/eye colour she doesn't see it fully.
Agree. People keep showing side by side photos of an older, sultrier Megan Fox when the better comparison is to a younger Megan Fox.
I see Miley Cyrus. Not in her photos but on video on the show.
I thought it before she said it….! As soon as she asked the question I knew what her answer was going to be 😂
Even with a bad edit, Matthew said some ick worthy things with mysogonystic undertones. Its giving "Nice Guy"
AD’s convo with Kenneth made me wonder if she was worried about Matthew raising black children. Did they discuss that? It didn’t seem that they did, because she didn’t want to talk about her appearance. So her talk with Kenneth came off as hypocritical to me. I love AD, but real talk here: she was questioning Kenneth’s relationship but not her own? Yikes.
It wasn’t AD’s place to bring that up. Brittney showed a lot of grace in responding to it.
I think Jimmy hooked up with one of his girl best friends either in the past or present. It’s the only person that would warrant that reaction from Chelsea that makes sense to me!
I love listening to you ladies! Y'all are my comfort pod.
Laura should have apologized to AD for even making the joke to begin with. You didn't want it to get out sure, but now it did and now it's a weird inappropriate joke where AD is the butt of it. She took no accountability for it.
Im calling it now only jonny and amy will get married
Something tells me they won’t get married 😢
My friend & I have been saying this for a couple of weeks. Johnny and Amy seem to be the only really solid couple.
They should be the only ones getting married. lol 😂
Deepti - "Sometimes if you soften the blow, they don't understand" Hell yea
LOVE your takes on Kenneth 🥰🩵💯
Jimmy looks like an NFL star alright. Payton Manning. 😂😂😂
That’s what I said!! 😂
Why aren’t we talking about the fact that AD saw all these red flags in the pods and literally said “sign me up!” I mean idk what her exact words were but something like, sure, I’ll try and fix you - why not?!
HEAR ME OUR YALL, I HAVE A THEORY: REMEMBER the recent ''alleged'' text messages that were shared of Trevor saying he met someone on the plane and that they agreed on doing the same thing and just getting screen time but not getting married, remember on the show, TREVOR AND JIMMY kept saying they respected each other and that they would not be mad if one of them got to marry Chelsea because they ''liked and respected'' each other. I thought that was wholesome and supportive AF at first and super mature even.... BUT WHAT IF: JIMMY IS THE GUY TREVOR MET ON THE PLANE!!?? AND THAT IS WHY WE CANNOT BELIEVE JIMMY AND HE WILL RIDE IT UNTIL THE END BUT NOT GET MARRIED. HE ALSO KNOWS HOW TO SEEM ''GOOD'' ON CAMERA, LIKE TREVOR!
In the Nick Vaill interview Jess said that Kenneth and Brittany had multiple conversations about where their relationship was headed and came to the conclusion to end it before the aired scene was filmed. She said this might be why he behaves like this during the breakup scene.
It's out there that Trevor and Jessica are going on The Perfect Match!!
I really appreciate the details in yalls conversation. It is clear that you do your research and just dont talk out of ur ass as some ppl on podcasts do lol. Love this ep
I think this could be the first season where no one says yes. Or at least it should be lol
Am I the only one who finds Clay annoying? His overuse of the word ‘baby’ is irritating.
Not just you. His overuse of the word makes me wonder if he's worrying he'll call AD by an exes name or something. In my experience, guys who overuse terms of endearment are being unfaithful in some way. Perhaps it's me projecting there, but this, added to over blinking and constantly soft prepping AD for him potentially being his father's son as a cheater makes me think he's not fully convinced and committed to the marriage. Might be wrong though. The reunion will be interesting for a few of these storylines!
Girls I just wanted to say that I looooove this podcast since none of my friends watch the show, and I get my husband to watch it like one episode per season 😅 anyways, I listen to you and it's like gossiping about it with you ❤
Natalie’s sensible & pretty accurate in her assessment
Love this set up 😍 it’s so cute and cozy 🌿💕
So glad to have found your channel, I love to hear your point of view as you ladies went through this experience. Also, I enjoyed watching you on LIB.
He's just asking for permission to cheat. Might as well just ask her if she's down for an open marriage.
At this point the only couple I have hope for this season is Amy & Johnny. The rest have parked up even before officially saying the words
Chelsea is clingy. And some of her clingy ways may stem from her lack of confidence. His delivery was not the greatest, but as her fiancé he should be able to express that and they both come to an understanding about how they can EACH do better.
Jimmy does look a bit like him though. And Chelsea brought up the topic
Exactly.
And Chelsea looks a bit like young M. Fox. In fact, she looks more like M. Fox than the currant M. Fox looks like M. Fox. Some people see it. Especially when she smiles.
23:39 Kenny said in the very beginning he has only been with and dated Black women and that’s obviously what he wanted and that conversation was had with AD otherwise there wouldn’t have been a point for AD to bring it up. You can’t plant a seed when the dirt is hard
@@Jess_cool25 maybe but he can’t be penalized for trying something new. Maybe it would’ve worked and she was “the one”
@@Jess_cool25 I fully agree. That fantasy bubble popped really quickly in DR
I loooove how straightforward & blunt Natalie is. Deepti is always twerking on the fence and trying not to say something wrong so as not to offend the cast mates and I get it and love the balance anyways just thought to point it out
Thank you girls!! Love and hugs from the DR 🇩🇴
Re: Johnny refusing to be intimate - one theory could be he's just on the show for fake reasons and has a partner off camera, and he's just trying not to actually cheat on them. It's probably not that! Just crossed my mind.
He is kissing and intimate with his girlfriend, isn't that cheating?
That isn’t a bad theory but since his sisters were so enthusiastic about meeting Amy I don’t think he has a secret relationship.
Oh great recap fi-na-lly❤️❤️ we missed these no bullshitting commentary from you 🎉
So I guess, I’m not going to bed tonight! 🎉
Same ❤
Same
How dare you think about sleep 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never thought Kenneth will be the villain. He definitely showed his true colors. And FYI not all Christians are like Kenneth. His church should take away his “leader” position. Jesus is love and that’s something he definitely lacks
I was sad to see how their relationship ended. I was pulling for them. Along with the other couples, new information had come to light and Brittany has shed light on somethings in a recent interview. She noted that the "editing"'didn't show that she was the one who actually initiated the break up and that the phone was not an issue in their relationship in spite of the way it was edited. She also noted that she still believes that he is a good man. I wouldn't rush to ruin his career due to this portrayal. He clearly has some maturing to do and may have some other issues to deal with according to some other information that has been alleged but not confirmed. Unfortunately it makes it hard to trust what is being shown.
I’d love if you guys add pictures of the receipts or pop ups here and there
I honestly cannot believe that the two of you are not disecting Chelsea a bit more. She honestly makes me physically CRINGE. Sorry, but she IS clingly - actually, she is suffocating. IMO, she is an emotional vampire - and until she does some real work on herself, she is going to emotionally suck the life out of every relationship she's involved with. More than any other person on the show, she is my least favorite person. Jimmy has bent over backwards to do everything he can, to keep her happy. She on the other hand, has emotional meltdowns over every little thing. She makes mountains out of molehills. Also, if I hear " i'm going to puke" ONE MORE TIME - again, she makes me cringe.
you mean, her edit makes you cringe.
@@elvishkatchelsea is incredibly insecure and needs a therapist. lol
I see where you're coming from but I think she can pick up on Jimmy's disappointment that she doesn't look like Megan Fox. He's technically saying all the right things so it temporarily soothes her doubt but she probably can, at the very least subconsciously, tell he's not SUPER into her. At least the editing makes it seem like he's not. Especially at that reveal. Yeesh.
@@deadams8905 i really don't think the megan fox comment was as detrimental as everyone is making it out to be. chelsea is annoying, overly needy, and it all stems from her projecting her past experiences onto a man she barely knows. she needs extensive therapy and to take time to herself before she thinks about being with anyone period. we as viewers cannot blame everything on the edit. also, i'm not giving jimmy any leeway lol. all of the men this season are garbage.
She's an emotional person and probably just needs a partner who is also emotional. She definitely feels the lack of attraction on Jimmy's behalf and when it is brought up, he won't tell the truth. That would make anyone act crazy.
Ask Nick and Vanessa if y'all can host the reunion
Omg when you said this man is playing Candy Crush😂😂😂😂
I LOVE when Laura exposes Jeramey to the fire and roasts his ass, but I still don't like her. I respect it, but they're still both trash.
Feels like they're both conspiring against Jimmy and Chelsea's relationship. Jeramey is the one who showed Jimmy Jessica's picture, and Laura is the one egging on Jessica to swoop in and talk to Jimmy. The Sarah Anne incident is karma for both of them.
Please add pictures when you talk about the cast they are so many thay I can't keep up with their names haha
On point with your opinion on Kenneth 🙌🏻
You never blame the other person UNLESS they are well aware that the person is in a relationship. That's why Jessica is also at fault for flirting with/ wanting to get back at Jimmy
When Matthew walks out of the pods there is a camera shot above the pods and there is no one sitting on Sara’s side. So they edited to look like he walked out on her.
It's hard to say Jeramey is in the wrong when Laura is a total KAREN to him. If her dad says she takes advantage of people who let her, what does that say about her character? Apparently a college degree defines intelligence? She's the piece of America we are trying to eliminate, people taking advantage where they have power. LAURA IS A TOTAL ICK! Jaramey is engaged to a Karen, give him grace!
Thank you! I was so happy to see the early release.
I feel like Jimmy is saying what he thinks are the right things to stay in the public favor, but you can tell he doesn't mean any of it. And that paired with the fact that he and Chelsea are having sex is messing with her head which is making her already insecure thoughts worse. She doesn't handle it well, but I just think Jimmy is making her feel crazy gaslighting her.
I do agree with Natalie on the whole bean dip situation
For what are the headphones??
The issue regarding the Megan fox comment is that Chelsea brought up the topic. On a show based entirely on do looks really matter. She knew what she was doing.
Why r people behaving that having black children is like having children with a disability?? Like its soooo challenging like they’re aliens or something
Love your guys point of view on the show and love this season. I think Jeramy is getting some heat for no reason. I get that he was recently engaged, but he was single when he went on the show. I don’t like him, but he was single and I think it’s weird for his exs family to blast him. Trevor on the other hand is a POS for what he did. So many clout chasers …
I saw an interview with Jimmy, he’s not a fan of Jess present day. I don’t think anything happened with them. I think Chelsea was just being insecure in the trailer….
OMG HOW EXCITED!!! So happy this is up!
I'm glad you guys pointed out Laura being a hypocrite when she encourages Jess about seeing Jimmy or potentially stirring the pot, when that's literally what Sarah Ann did to her and Jeramy. Even if the questions were prompted by the producers Laura still leans into them pretty hard. I'm not a fan of the one on one scene with Jess where she's talking about dangling temptation in front of Jimmy, but I'm also pretty sure some alcohol went into that conversation because of how brazen she was. But also there's a big difference between having a discussion with your friend about the possibilities, and actually doing it like Sarah Ann did. I feel like Sarah Ann didn't even talk to her friends before she sent that message, because a GOOD friend would have smacked her on the nose with a rolled up newspaper.
Can you explain how the scene of Shane calling you Shaina was edited? He said “Shaina” I am confused
They explained this before in one of their previous episodes. He did say Shaina, but there were clips from another fight pertaining to Deepti that was used and shown as a reaction to that. Deepti said the same thing. The editors basically spliced scenes together @@cct306. That's why Natalie didn't know about Shaina's connection with Shayne until S2 aired because Deepti was the one they argued about
16:44 I recall Raven citing one of those trendy dishonest TikTok’s when the S3 cast was still coming at Cole after the show - vid didn’t mention him by name. Yikes.
Everyone was reaching for something to make Cole a villain.
YES - absolutely agree that Laura was the one at fault for even bringing the "bean dip" comment up.. why even make a joke like that and involve AD? Then Laura shut down and blamed it all on Jeramy, whereas it looked to me like AD in the moment was looking to Laura more for an apology and explanation for why even make that sort of comment to Jeramy, let alone to then have it brought up to everyone. Jeramy and Laura handled the situation in the moment horribly and then I guess apologized and made things right. They ended up being a disaster couple anyways by the end of the next weeks' episodes so I guess it doesn't matter lol
Jess didn’t DM the guy. BIG difference between saying things and acting on it. Sarah the snake messaged Jeramy the Joker.
AD is always concerned about everyone 😅
I think Chelsea might be overthinking that Jimmy slept with one of his girl best friends. She overthinks way too much
IDK the friend knew he cried during sex 🙃
@@amberevolThats what I thought too. sussss
Didn't he admit doing it once? I think I heard something like that in one of yesterday's episodes
@@sharonmukuwa9317 yea he said he told her off camera bc he wanted to be honest about it with Chelsea but he wanted to respect his friends privacy. that didn't come out until episode 10 or 11 I think tho. but either way he told her and it was only once. she's really insecure and fussing for things to be upset at so she can blame him for her insecurity
@@sharonmukuwa9317yeah, I wrote that when the episode wasn’t out yet. I predicted it correctly
Hey girls! Big fan of both of you from Italy, never miss a podcast
21:33 my thoughts are: she told him the day prior (according to the edit) that she’s been cheated on in almost every relationship and that she never wants to even have to question it…and the very next day he’s telling her he finds another woman attractive? He needed to apologize. That was effed.
I heard people saying they think the preview with Chelsea yelling to Jimmy about him f--ing someone will be Chelsea finding out he's slept with one of his female friends in the past. I reckon it could be true, and would definitely explain the reaction as Chelsea's said she's always had to be weary of her man's female friends.
I think I remember them teasing AD making it to the alter because they showed the “Til Death Do Us Part” vail she tried on at the wedding dress shop
Oof, the "you're gonna cook" pissed me offfff