I will ALWAYS miss university when it comes to conversations like these bc we had them anywhere with literally anybody bc the environment allowed for critical thinking and challenging our own perspectives. Ngoku I find that even the little things I do (acts of self preservation) ziveske zibengathi zi defiant to a way that I’m “supposed” to live. Im always so happy to see you on the comment section kesana 😆❤️. Thank you!
Boundaries when it comes to finances is a lesson I learned the hard way. Sana someone still owe me R7K but I'm wiser now. This conversation was much needed I was so obsessed with saving money that I also missed out on the little things that made me happy. Side note you looking absolutely gorgeous ❤
Sana Ayanda, I’ve come to realise that ukungabina boundaries yeyona nto ebuyisela umva. I’m so happy that we’re wiser now bc honestly singaphela!! I’m really sorry about your 7k…that’s a lot of money 😔. Nyanga na nyanga, please treat yourself gorgeous lady ❤️. You work hard and you are deserving!
Aaahhh 😊 this feels like a big fat hug to my little soft girl era that I’m currently in. I’ve recently been doing the inner work, I’ve learned to be more kinder and softer to myself and that looks completely different to the people pleasing, insecure girly, validation seeker and boundary less queen that I was. Now I feel like I’m operating in BIG LETTERS. I see myself, I understand myself, I’m learning and unlearning some of my traumas and I try to make sense of what they appear as in adulthood. This conversation was much needed. ♥️♥️ I wish I could send a VN here 🤣 but thank you sisi, I can’t thank you enough for reaffirming me, I needed to hear this. I wanna watch it kay20. Lol I just wanna hug you 🫂 I love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I am so proud of you. Reading this makes my heart so warm bc I get the sense that you’re truly starting to tap into your highest self. Continue digging… continue figuring out what you like/ don’t like…what you have accepted and what you won’t accept moving forward, continue listening to your heart, your spirit and your intiution. You won’t always get it right, it won’t always feel good, there may be loneliness along the way…but keep at it. Operating in BIG LETTERS is your portion. Speak up, stand your ground and don’t be afraid to lose people along the way. Im actually going to figure out a way where we can actually message (bc I literally also want to vn 🤣❤️). I love you.
Thank you for this conversation B.. Money is a real struggle , I love how you mentioned setting boundaries so that ungazipitsi but how do you handle Family members who always feel entitled to your money even if they are borrowing it but the sense of entitlement is overwhelming ingathi when you say No uyatala😢
Entitlement is truly something else. I’ll private message you to share with you a bit more how I’ve had to liberate myself. Ibewes kethina Ninz we literally earn so little qha some people don’t want to understand that.
Hi Bongani 🥰 I’m a new subscriber to your channel, and I’ve watched all 84 videos on here! 🤩 You’re such a brilliant person - teacher, friend, partner, and all the other roles you play in your life. The topics you’ve covered on your sit downs (including this one) are always so relevant and delivered with so much care and insight. Your vlogs are so fun, and seeing your personality shine through the screen is always a pleasure ☺️ I want to encourage you to keep on creating content for your channel and I hope every upload is a reminder of why you started Alternatives to small 🎉 See you on the next one ke MaDlomo. Nam ndingu MaDlomo and I think that’s another reason ndikuthanda kangaka 🤭❤️
Madlomo ❤️ (uzawbanguMadlomo wam until until kesana 🤣🤣🤣🤞🏾) Yazi, kuye kuthiwe that God sends people at the perfect time… I feel like you finding my channel and leaving this comment here today is such perfect timing. I needed this encouragement, thank you so much for your words. You’ve come at such a good time…I’m so excited for the content that I’m working on and I hope you’ll stay😁. 84 videos will double by the end of this year. I’ll refer back to this dialogue at the end of the year bc I am standing on business 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾. Thank you, see you in a couple of days ke sana…unganqabi kwi comment section it’s such a treat to have you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Conversation that never gets old. Much needed as it helps alot especially with us coming from different backgrounds.
I will ALWAYS miss university when it comes to conversations like these bc we had them anywhere with literally anybody bc the environment allowed for critical thinking and challenging our own perspectives. Ngoku I find that even the little things I do (acts of self preservation) ziveske zibengathi zi defiant to a way that I’m “supposed” to live.
Im always so happy to see you on the comment section kesana 😆❤️. Thank you!
Standing on business! Okay ntombi I’m here for it🔥 let me watch
Literally have to stand on business ngoku! As I speak to you, I’m actually editing 😆😭.
Boundaries when it comes to finances is a lesson I learned the hard way. Sana someone still owe me R7K but I'm wiser now. This conversation was much needed
I was so obsessed with saving money that I also missed out on the little things that made me happy.
Side note you looking absolutely gorgeous ❤
Sana Ayanda, I’ve come to realise that ukungabina boundaries yeyona nto ebuyisela umva. I’m so happy that we’re wiser now bc honestly singaphela!! I’m really sorry about your 7k…that’s a lot of money 😔.
Nyanga na nyanga, please treat yourself gorgeous lady ❤️. You work hard and you are deserving!
We haven’t had a seat down in a while, thank you my ange❤️
Thank YOU ❤️❤️. Ah ah zibuyile iisit downs ngoku best believe 🥰
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❤️🫶🏾
Before even watching your book shelf even the way the books are packed Yho! Can I please have my own space already😢
You will have your own space sana & I know you’ll turn it into a beautiful & peaceful sanctuary for isiqu sakho kunye neentsana zakho 🥰🤞🏾.
Aaahhh 😊 this feels like a big fat hug to my little soft girl era that I’m currently in. I’ve recently been doing the inner work, I’ve learned to be more kinder and softer to myself and that looks completely different to the people pleasing, insecure girly, validation seeker and boundary less queen that I was. Now I feel like I’m operating in BIG LETTERS. I see myself, I understand myself, I’m learning and unlearning some of my traumas and I try to make sense of what they appear as in adulthood. This conversation was much needed. ♥️♥️ I wish I could send a VN here 🤣 but thank you sisi, I can’t thank you enough for reaffirming me, I needed to hear this. I wanna watch it kay20. Lol I just wanna hug you 🫂
I love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I am so proud of you. Reading this makes my heart so warm bc I get the sense that you’re truly starting to tap into your highest self. Continue digging… continue figuring out what you like/ don’t like…what you have accepted and what you won’t accept moving forward, continue listening to your heart, your spirit and your intiution.
You won’t always get it right, it won’t always feel good, there may be loneliness along the way…but keep at it. Operating in BIG LETTERS is your portion.
Speak up, stand your ground and don’t be afraid to lose people along the way. Im actually going to figure out a way where we can actually message (bc I literally also want to vn 🤣❤️).
I love you.
Oh sana awusemhle usiSmomondiya😍😍 this make up look?! Listen you ate!🔥😍
Thank you so much Miiiiiiish wam 🥰
Awusemhle man😍🥺
Thank you baby 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️
Thank you for this conversation B.. Money is a real struggle , I love how you mentioned setting boundaries so that ungazipitsi but how do you handle Family members who always feel entitled to your money even if they are borrowing it but the sense of entitlement is overwhelming ingathi when you say No uyatala😢
Entitlement is truly something else. I’ll private message you to share with you a bit more how I’ve had to liberate myself. Ibewes kethina Ninz we literally earn so little qha some people don’t want to understand that.
Hi Bongani 🥰
I’m a new subscriber to your channel, and I’ve watched all 84 videos on here! 🤩
You’re such a brilliant person - teacher, friend, partner, and all the other roles you play in your life. The topics you’ve covered on your sit downs (including this one) are always so relevant and delivered with so much care and insight. Your vlogs are so fun, and seeing your personality shine through the screen is always a pleasure ☺️
I want to encourage you to keep on creating content for your channel and I hope every upload is a reminder of why you started Alternatives to small 🎉
See you on the next one ke MaDlomo. Nam ndingu MaDlomo and I think that’s another reason ndikuthanda kangaka 🤭❤️
Madlomo ❤️ (uzawbanguMadlomo wam until until kesana 🤣🤣🤣🤞🏾)
Yazi, kuye kuthiwe that God sends people at the perfect time… I feel like you finding my channel and leaving this comment here today is such perfect timing. I needed this encouragement, thank you so much for your words. You’ve come at such a good time…I’m so excited for the content that I’m working on and I hope you’ll stay😁.
84 videos will double by the end of this year. I’ll refer back to this dialogue at the end of the year bc I am standing on business 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾.
Thank you, see you in a couple of days ke sana…unganqabi kwi comment section it’s such a treat to have you 🥰🥰🥰🥰