Why does bad stuff happen to me?

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  • @MrGregbracken
    @MrGregbracken 12 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm an agnostic Irishman living in England. I chanced upon Guruka Singh's videos on You Tube this morning. He is a very well-balanced, extremely insightful and inspirational human being and also appears to be extremely considerate. What a wonderful friend he must be.

  • @SavannahVu1985
    @SavannahVu1985 11 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love how he explains everything in a manner that everyone can understand. I'm 21 and catholic but I love listening to him and his wise words. So wise and down to earth.

    • @Harmuthkuthanapalithi
      @Harmuthkuthanapalithi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      as long as you are true to your path and dharam you are a khalsa in the eyes of god free from 5 vices

  • @happyday5036
    @happyday5036 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    a beautiful and kind human being

  • @hemrav269
    @hemrav269 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Satnam!..God bless Guruka Singhji and his team for all these videos and enlightenment

  • @xckthxvrna
    @xckthxvrna 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Whatever happens is sweet" ...my prayer is that I remember this!

  • @dineshsinghyadav9760
    @dineshsinghyadav9760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    watching Guru ka Singh’s video and seeing him answering questions is so therapeutic

  • @MagicandMantra
    @MagicandMantra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow i just got into a bad fender bender and was so upset by this . When the rental car driver picked me up , i started reliving it sadly.... he answer back to me was “shit happens” and nothing more . It really struck me as enlightening. And now here I stumble across this video . Wahe Guru thank you so much

  • @punkaliciouzz121
    @punkaliciouzz121 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You! It's just what I needed. I was thinking to myself today..I had a crappy time at work but had an awesome time afterwards at soccer practice. I saw the first one as a "bad" thing and the 2nd one as a "good" thing..but now I see they were both gifts from the guru and its all about how I view it.
    P.S. I subscribed to the daily hukamnama. Its great. I feel closer to the Lord.

  • @batalvitrinidad
    @batalvitrinidad 13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *hugs to Gurukha Singh. ur the bomb!

  • @mountainbliss4u
    @mountainbliss4u 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is simply brilliant. I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @mysticarts8787
    @mysticarts8787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel sooo honored to even get to listen to you...waheguru ji bless you all..i loveeee loveee absolutely loveeee you all and ur work..im speechless.....

  • @AprilMelodyVlogs
    @AprilMelodyVlogs 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a Theravada Buddhist but I think this was very wise. It's a good video :)

  • @8draupadi
    @8draupadi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this simplicity

  • @jmo1225
    @jmo1225 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im really enjoying watching these videos hearing his wisdom.

  • @derekderek
    @derekderek 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so good! thank you... "a reward thing"... amazing

  • @xckthxvrna
    @xckthxvrna 13 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Don't ask why, ask WHAT.." that's what my teacher tells me. What is the lesson that I must learn? What is the way that I must grow because of this hardship? Asking 'Why God why?' is a waste of energy

  • @samhomer5670
    @samhomer5670 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I need to do revision on philosophy and ethics and i have been watching him loads such a great teacher

  • @sharanbordeaux2654
    @sharanbordeaux2654 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video is a beautiful lesson. thank you.

  • @tejjdja9576
    @tejjdja9576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, Sikh net actually answers most of my queries

  • @quitaddiction4589
    @quitaddiction4589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waheguru ji da khalsa waheguru ji di fathe 🙏

  • @inderishwer
    @inderishwer 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For Gurmustuk: at around 6:00 when you say about the negativity. I am a college student and everyone around me is a teen (including me) Trust me! we teens have lot of problems and questions, we are curious and are not easily satisfied. But whenever i have any question, i first of all search for your videos, and i always get my answer. I recommend these videos to my friends and they also thank me for referring these videos. These videos are great,, keep up the good work.. And i

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      @abrar240484 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @abrar240484 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @alicebjorgtryggvason6833
    @alicebjorgtryggvason6833 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sat Nam thank you 🙏
    Just love 💕 your wonderful videos

  • @GurpreetKaur-hj9xg
    @GurpreetKaur-hj9xg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Glow on his face shows who he is as a person.

  • @PavinderSingh99
    @PavinderSingh99 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waheguru!

  • @sofiaskan79
    @sofiaskan79 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a moslem and ur teaching or ur values are in line with Islam values. I love to listen and watch ur video. God bless you.

  • @juliantreidiii
    @juliantreidiii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was, Born dead, orphan, poor, handicapped, born into family of hellish abuse, poor health my hole life, who can say if it is good or bad. The Tao is in accepting what is.

  • @sisterdiggins
    @sisterdiggins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The frame of reference ! Yes !

  • @Booklover32
    @Booklover32 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    larry monroe You bring up a valid counter-argument and I'm grateful for that. It is always good to question. This is similar to the beliefs in the philosophy Stoicism. Evil is in your opinion of evil. Like your opinion leads to more suffering. Why does one man eagerly kill himself while another man fights his attacker but is murdered? The difference is in their opinions. The Stoics did not advocate rape or murder, in fact, they were staunchly against these things. But they taught that your opinion is what causes your suffering. Similar to what is said here only in different words.

  • @Test-ot9lr
    @Test-ot9lr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said Sir

  • @gurcharanbrar4133
    @gurcharanbrar4133 ปีที่แล้ว

    wahegure wahegure ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Thisisit2714
    @Thisisit2714 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi please can you explain me how I can get rid of useless thoughts they keep going on and on in mind and they really make me hate people who have ruined things for me , my life.I try to do simran when things start coming in my mind.I hate to hate someone but these thoughts keep reminding what they have done how they hurt me and my parents how to cope up with that.please help me.i cant concentrate im loosing my remembering power (new things).I am looking forward to hear from you.thank you.

  • @GurvinderSingh1
    @GurvinderSingh1 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    now every time you see a video of them .. suggest it to me also..

  • @TrueDominguez
    @TrueDominguez 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    pain and suffering is an opportunity to grow
    and to be honest if i didnt go thru all the bullshit that i went thru i dont think i would be the man that i am today
    how can there be good without the bad?

  • @mrcocoloco7200
    @mrcocoloco7200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Huh good point.

  • @excite236
    @excite236 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    guru ji i love you man

    • @84LA84
      @84LA84 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guru Ji?

  • @Rachna888
    @Rachna888 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your video keepam coming :)

  • @jagster678
    @jagster678 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doesn't bad also happen to make you realise how good you feel when good things happen you to

  • @ElissaNWOPrincess
    @ElissaNWOPrincess 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos

  • @crocodylus73
    @crocodylus73 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the significance of allowing oneself to be served?

  • @allthatgirlcoronado
    @allthatgirlcoronado 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a spiritual .

  • @snapsnapdik
    @snapsnapdik 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bad and good are things made up by our minds. Healthy and unhealthy are natural laws and will be the same for everyone. Rape is an act from a disturbed mind, murder comes from a disturbed mind, but you can't label them as right or wrong, as that opinion differs from person to person. Don't use the label bad or good, use healthy and unhealthy and grow from there.

  • @jaybishop1533
    @jaybishop1533 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get bullied and hate it on everyday now and i can't find other way for peace noting but darkness all around and they say good things can happen but not for me so that means karma and good not real anymore

    • @93Dholi
      @93Dholi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Understand that in life there are things that happen, some will class it as good where as others will class that exact thing as bad. Getting bullied is obviously not great, but what you need to realise is you cannot control others actions but this doesnt mean do nothing, it means you need to get out of the situation. How? Well first confide in people and let them know what is happening to you. Use this experience to make yourself stronger. Why are you getting bullied, is it just a mean kid or have you done something to them and hence this is their reaction. You need to step back and assess the situation. Tell your parents teachers and other that can help what the problem is and what your feeling. The type of thought you heard in this video wont make sense to you yet because your in a situation that society classes as bad. But once you are out of the situation and you have gotten help and you are no longer being bullied, then think about the past and better yourself for the future. Only then when you have done that you will realise that what was happening to you has happened and made you who you are today and that although it seemed bad then, now you understand why it happened and how it helped you become who you are today. I know this as i too was bullied and even though i still feel like i wish everything was perfect the reality is nothing in this world is perfect and nor will it be. Everyone has phases in life that they class as good or bad but know this, in life what is good or bad is based on perception and everyone has their own opinions on perception. Try and seek help and get out of this situation and then once your out look for ways to prevent it happening again and ways to better yourself

  • @appaapnafurka
    @appaapnafurka ปีที่แล้ว

    Waheguru

  • @conormcgregor4083
    @conormcgregor4083 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can there be not good and not bad. There's the devil and there's god. That's good and bad. Good makes you feel happy and bad makes you suffer. It's the way you feel. You can't change that.

  • @Beanmachine91
    @Beanmachine91 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    some people are just plain asking for it

  • @7777verena
    @7777verena 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    danke

  • @gareththomas8199
    @gareththomas8199 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just found your channel , l dont believe in god , l do like your wisdom

  • @xxalphakratosxx
    @xxalphakratosxx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    story of my life:shit happens.....

  • @Youareashoe
    @Youareashoe 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @desifool2cool4ya Whatever is going to happen is based on karma wearing rocks isn't going to stop karma

  • @Singh-vc6yc
    @Singh-vc6yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So if sombody abuses you, it is a good thing??😂😂😂😂😀😀

  • @LarryMonroe26
    @LarryMonroe26 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If someone gets raped isn't that bad? If innocent people are murdered for no reason, isn't that bad? I don't see how violence and other horrible things that happen in this world can't be seen as bad. Please explain how these things aren't bad.

    • @mrcocoloco7200
      @mrcocoloco7200 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh deer man you don't get it.

  • @MarilenaDuca
    @MarilenaDuca 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @michaylarapps5128
    @michaylarapps5128 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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