Which one was better? With or without body language? 👀
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Body language is completely natural and can be effective if done right but it can also make people seem stupid, out of control, or lacking in sophistication and elegance.
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With body language
Love how you're trying so hard not to hand signal, little thumb still twitching, palm still bouncing to the rhythm.
😂😂
I noticed that! He's really internalized how to use body language. I've always spoken with my hands, but I've been using these to learn how to better match it to my own rhythm.
Man you got good eyes
The head is doing its most 😂
Nice catch
For Introvert's this is a no less from a nightmare. For extroverts, it's just another Tuesday 💀
I saw many introverts with great body language.
Introversion is not the same as social anxiety
@@Zlouch its sad it's 2024 and people still don't know what introvertion is
You can actually be extrovert and have social anxiety, while you can be an introvert and have this amazing body language, and being able to excellently communicate with other people, it’s just really depends.
M. Bison still relevant today.
I’ve been in US for 3 months and recently started watching your videos and I fell in love with them. Vinh you’re incredible. Your lessons help me to improve not only my vocabulary, but accent, speech and voice itself. Keep doing what you do. And I hope one day I will be on one of your performances!
He really good at what he does right? I've been following this guy for a while now and my only regret was why I hadn't done it sooner.
Thank you so much!!
we have very similar profile pictures
@@MrImaginsugoi desi ne
Welcome to the States from the Kentucky way!
I do agree it’s better but you also used more direct and clear language making the second one look better
Exactly!!!
Absolutely, but it's important to remember that we don't merely use body language to supplement verbal language - the two are intrinsically intertwined. Our body language influences our speech, just as our speech influences our body language. They are not separate activities, but rather a synchronized performance.
People may shy away from using their bodies as tools for expression because they're simply not accustomed to it. Nonverbal communication can be as layered and nuanced as verbal communication, and in some cases, even more so. It's akin to learning a second language. Just as we don't consciously scrutinize every word that slips off our tongues - unless we're discussing something unfamiliar or under stress - the same applies to our body language.
As we grow more comfortable with nonverbal expression, and thereby expand our nonverbal 'vocabulary', this process becomes second nature. You might even find it begins to impact your tone, volume, and pace, acting like an inbuilt metronome.
And let's not forget, physically shifting your body can have direct effects on your physiological state. Constant movement can increase blood flow and core temperature, while slower movements can boost focus and blood pressure. Likewise, open gestures can enhance respiratory function, while more closed, focused movements may concentrate your vocal output.
For example, when I'm talking to someone over the phone, I find myself needing to walk around or at least stand. There's no denying that some of these actions may seem exaggerated, but they are rooted in truth. Public speaking is indeed a full body exercise. Otherwise, why would we bother presenting in person rather than just playing a pre-recorded audio file on an empty stage?
And the tone is different as well.
@SympatheticMonster I would like to say, "THANK YOU," for such an in-depth reply! I also agree with all your po8nts because it is natural to see and feel how everything in our bodies work together to act out all processes.
It’s so much harder to project and be excited when you’re not moving your body. That’s the whole point of why he’s more engaging, because it comes naturally when you give your whole body to what you’re saying
Interesting how the wording also influences how his message is received:
In the first bit he draws the attention to the negative aspects and tesults: "YOU (!) HAVE to learn".. "otherwise you won't be able to.. "
In the second bit he focuses more on the positive aspects. He will lead through this and WE (!) will achieve something good.
That's very eye opening actually.
Clear and straight to the point.
I really liked this video on the importance of expressing yourself however your head movements (probably unconscious) made your movements less stiff.
It reminds me of a speed date with a woman with no arms who would focus the majority of her energy into facial expressions.
Great video.
Second one also had tone, inflection, cadence, emphasis, and enthusiasm.
I am very thankful that I use body language naturally, like I didn’t need to learn it. I have been praised by some of my teachers for it.
I’ve always talked with my hands. I tried multiple ways of becoming successful and the only thing I’m a leader of is being broke and frustrated.
On the first part, you could see this guy fighting his hands to not use body language. That just goes to show you that body language is a great communicator.
Constant practice, great body language comes from countless hours in mirror practicing
I suddenly felt the facts bro was speaking in the body language parts
Body language just makes the thing you're talking about seem even more important
Love listening to you. You're amazing.
The premise of this extent is to expose yourself, your inner thoughts to the physical world as much as you can through expressions. Just expose yourself to the outer world. Not to keep those utter burdens in yourselves for being unexpressive. Express your inner things including your thoughts and expressions, split it out. To make yourself light which is essential for giving much energy to the world with which we're interacting. It makes you look determined and real in your conversations too.
Your course changed my life. Worth every penny.
Vinh is amazing
Everything he says is just as useful as this
You should check him out and apply what he's saying. Don't just let it sit at the back of your mind.
The first one was hilarious. 😂😂😂
It seemed as if you didn't want to improve anyone's life, but were rather sent to the session forcefully.
I am working from home and using these gestures in my day to day audio calls. I can't wait for my promotion.
He is better than me even without body language.
Sign language together with talking. One of the answers is confident. We need a confident whenever we want to lead
So just wave your hands all over the place. Got it!
With body language is muchh better than without 😊
Over complication of things is the very reason we are where we are today. Too much of wanting is good for nothing.
People make fun of me when i use body language and dont just stand around still talking, but here is the best part, i dont care
Make. Them. Mad.
@@ajasilikonreffkmimmon how?
@@tomnook6751 They're boring, bereft of expressiveness.
Keep up your style, but don't show off.
@@ajasilikonreffkmimmon show off? Okay😂, i dont think you can show off this, but thanks.
I am not a person who gives up here things, just because other think it differnt and there for "bad"
Behold the great guru of deep fakeness and profundity!
He gave me confidence🗿
Its because gesturing helos understanding, and leaders need to express themselves clearly. So we associate "clear instruction" with "good instructioner", wich is actually a somewhat correct assocation.
With
My mentor said to move as little as possible while being filmed so that I don’t seem nervous. I talk with my hands all the time. Think I’ll just be me and go with it. This seems so much more natural.
Body language isn't just about moving hands , facial expressions play major role,
This guy teach us today
“And we are all leaders in some place in our lives”
Easy to forget sometimes
I think first was better
I like language 😮
Tim Cook is Prime Example ❤
I watch keynote just to watch Tim Cook speech and body language 😮
I think this is why people say I make a good leader, when in fact, I absolutely would not. It is because I talk with my hands! Not literally, but I am very expressive with my hands when I talk naturally. My Mom always used to say it was the Italian in us.
If one can have emotions trust come naturally! Body language is like literature of speech
Mix. Silence of the body will amplify the words as well.
Honestly the first one with some gestures felt a lot more genuine, if I’m watching a keynote and the speaker starts flailing his hands around you know they’re grasping straws
also the speech was different and so was the range and clear use of emphasizing some words. It was not just body language.
Body language plays a part in speech that’s why so many voice actors if you see them behind the scenes are still physically acting it’s near impossible to get that level of emotion or get the right tone without body language it’s impossible to voice act and sound genuinely mad when you’re not physically acting mad idk what it is whether it’s psychological or just smth with how he we speak and how different body movements influence emotion but it’s a real thing you can look up for yourself
@@TitankroW What about the speech? You can use body language with out tone and emphasizing words. You can do it without body language, it is not required, you can look it up also.
It just make it seem more like music in a movie seen. A seen can seem scary just by the music alone yet the same seen can seem like lovers.
Also lighting and shadowing has it part not just music all this to say body language is like music its not the main thing it is one of many different elements and variables that take part and play into a bigger picture.
He did very well without body language. In fact, his body still jolted when emphasizing certain syllables. Very hard to just talk without using the body. @@lexbustamante757
I like this guy because unlike 99% of "gurus" selling something... he can successfully show you it works in under 60 seconds
I’m I the only person who appreciates the first walk out more? It feels more genuine and less of a performance for the audience.
Below is better
Body language is the best way to present anything .
“APPLY what is useful, DISCARD was it not”
We all know what we need to do the struggle is in the application
The first one still had some body language in the face and head
im not trying to dispute that body language is important but i actually observed a noticeable difference in speech between both examples. I think its possible that not only does body language enhance your speach, it also is a sign to yourself that you are comfortable and confident and you feel at ease and more lively. perhaps the effects of body language are magnified because the people who are comfortable with their body language tend to also be more confident.
The second one is how I usually talk, my friend even pointed it out once how I use my arms for a lot of expressions I make and it really helps getting your point through
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Thank You Vinh , we learn a lot from you
So hands is everything
So cool he said we're all leaders.
I personally think this is useful for people who have no interest, but whne you interested in a topic , you don't care the teachers body language as long as it is normal human behaviour
I love that in the first part his hands were dying to show body language and his head was still going with it
The first one look like you aren't paid enough for this and the second was like you are really motivated to do this
How to we know what is the right movements and wrong movements? As in, how do you avoid coming off as aggressive and more open and welcoming?
I can hear a tone difference and that’s the biggest for me
I was honestly able to pay more attention without his hands moving 🤔 both work but not having to pay attention to his hands moving helped. My focus and attention takes a lot more effort. Certain things that are engaging and helpful for most are a distraction for some. 🤷♀️ either way great presentation!
The body language part is more understandable, and shows confidence and you would receive respect from other people.
First one. Way more convincing and genuine.
❤❤❤So vital point! Very true!👍👍👍💐💐💐
I've been watching a ton of your video, excellent content. Fun fact, when I was taking college communication course they actively tried to teach us not to move our hands because it would be "distracting" to the listeners.
You look so robotic without body language. It's wild how much body movements convey on their own
Body language is better you show the veiwers how confident you are into the speech you addressing to the public
I have been watching your channel for a while and i am learning a lot about communication
Speech 100, my man is leveling up his speech
Best content watched in 2023!❤
Part 1 was literally me
I want to improve my communication
Do you ever worry about coming across as insincere though? Like it's putting on a performance to persuade rather than genuinely connecting?
Love your work and lessons, please know it's an honest question.
Bro not only did the change in body language but also change in vocals and word choice
I find the first more genuine and the second more likely to be in it to make a quick buck.
It's worthless for me who didn't know how to communicate in English😢
Body language. Just like a great dancer on a dance floor. Makes you pay attention.
We are all leaders in some place of our lives ❤
Number 1 seems more honest and trustworthy
This guy is awesome
The one without body language looks more genuine ngl
The last statement is so true
Exactly its stimulation for the eye which is why we enjoy subway sufer videos. So if more videos included hand movements maybe we wouldnt need other clips to concentrate
Well for me it's the energy in the second one compared to the full introduction in the first
while his point still stands, its clear that some of the words had a different intonation and intensity to them between the two clips
im 52. I only speak English and I just moved to Cote d'Ivoire which is a French speaking country in West Africa and after 6 months and speaking with my girlfriend and others i am still having trouble picking up the language any tips on how I can learn French easier and also to understand what I'm hearing from people because that seems to be my biggest obstacle. 😢
First one is better. The second one it's obvious you're putting on an act to get what you want. Pretentious and transparent.
I’ve always wondered why people perceived me as a leader when I was younger and if you’re trying to tell me it’s because I grew up around Italians who expressed everything with their hands I’m gonna lose it.
Honesty and not masquerading as something you aren't is the better one.
Your teaching how to avoid questions you don't know says it all, instead of saying sorry I don't much about that subject I get back to you. You teach I speak with you after the meeting and avoidance instead. This is why people don't like politicians for putting on a fake front and pretending they know subjects and faking it.
First one could be Good too..if you were not so Tense and Mantained a Strong posture..
I do not have a body, what should do?
I think that is commen sense
What about body language during a normal conversation?
The first one still had some body language in the face head 😊
Love your vids Vinh!
It's important to remember that we don't merely use body language to supplement verbal language - the two are intrinsically intertwined. Our body language influences our speech, just as our speech influences our body language. They are not separate activities, but rather a synchronized performance.
People may shy away from using their bodies as tools for expression because they're simply not accustomed to it. Nonverbal communication can be as layered and nuanced as verbal communication, and in some cases, even more so. It's akin to learning a second language. Just as we don't consciously scrutinize every word that slips off our tongues - unless we're discussing something unfamiliar or under stress - the same applies to our body language.
As we grow more comfortable with nonverbal expression, and thereby expand our nonverbal 'vocabulary', this process becomes second nature. You might even find it begins to impact your tone, volume, and pace, acting like an inbuilt metronome.
And let's not forget, physically shifting your body can have direct effects on your physiological state. Constant movement can increase blood flow and core temperature, while slower movements can boost focus and blood pressure. Likewise, open gestures can enhance respiratory function, while more closed, focused movements may concentrate your vocal output.
For example, when I'm talking to someone over the phone, I find myself needing to walk around or at least stand. There's no denying that some of these actions may seem exaggerated, but they are rooted in truth. Public speaking is indeed a full body exercise. Otherwise, why would we bother presenting in person rather than just playing a pre-recorded audio file on an empty stage?
p.s. wrote this in response to one of the comments, but I figured it would be worthwhile to post it as a stand alone comment as well.
I think body language is as important as spoken word, in this context.
They should have classes about proper use when public speaking, specifically what not to do. (They probably do, I don't know, I'm a plumber)
I would prefer the 1st.
With body language is very best
maybe its because you changed the entire speech for the second one to make it more convincing
lol I thought body language was a bit over the top until now. sometimes I've felt uncomfortable at times because most don't. nice that it's a positive trait. 🤩
I don't know. The first one is EXACTLY how Stewart Cheifet presented his programs and he entertained, informed and shaped several generations of people with his show. Not everything is about bravado.
The one without the italian imitation was better, because I wasn't focusing on what you are trying to hit, but instead on what you were saying.
Great videos. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Thats nice.
Personally ive been contradicting myself for a while or doing something similar to that, like for example being a leader , every time i find something that i can relate to which in turn makes me a better leader seems to contradict itself with another factor similar to it.
Its pretty wierd tbh .
Good video though :)