Man finds out his girlfriend keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriends! [Hello Counselor / 2017.08.07]
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Taejoon's man instincts are so damn sharp. He knew immediately it was an ex.
janiceonlyb2st yeh
True and honestly his man instinct is just tooo hot
@@yangyangexo-l5214 he hot
@JEON JUNGKOOK no actor
Yes and Park Shin Hye's boyfriend :)
The amount of side eye this girl is getting from all the women in the audience is pretty funny
And I’m here for it😂🤣😂
i don't know why but i reaaally did'nt liked it
@ッperiodt bish periodt oh right you are a hater
@SWATHI PRAMOD yeah she was hating on a group... I forgot which group....lmao
@@Ms.Nini_ ĺp
She must not love this guy at all. Having male friends is fine, but there are boundaries: spending the night with them is a definite “no.”
GIRL THANK YOU for saying it. Boundaries. B o u n d a r i e s
Yeah big no no. I mean, I would get it if they are childhood friends or somwthing but then, normally, the boyfriend would know that male friend to and could see that nothings going on and they can sleep in a room together if thats fine with him. But just any male friend? Hell no
shes playgirl, thats it 🤣
My childhood frnd is a guy n it's nothing wrong. I love my bf but then I share a room with my childhood frnd
I agree, there are boundaries. This goes for me as well because I have guy friends, but they think of me as a dude,because I am a tomboy, that’s what they say.
I know it's bad but I sincerely pray for thier breakup
Same here 😅 i dont understand with the gf
Same thought here
Same, I'll turn my back on any man that walks out on a scheduled date with me, even if its work.
Same.. I don't understand what this girl's point.. It really crossed the line.. She should focus and love the current man that really do love her...Going out with a guy when you're in a relationship damn
Well i bet they broken up now right?
Who tf buys "a friend" jewelry for 200$????
More importantly, where can my broke ass find friends like that
Billy Jean hahahahh me too!! I'm with u!!
Simple. date someone, break up with him, keep in touch, give him something, let him hear that you are supposed to buy something you like and voila!
That was when I switched sides. Like I have male friends, but we don't even spend $15 on gifts for each other.
my guy friend got me gift from dollar trees to be honest 😂😂😂😂
Billy Jean I have friends like that. But I also buy $200-$300 gifts for them. My ex bought me 1k necklace and after we broke up we are still friends and buy each other nice dinners. My other guy friends do the same. My guy childhood friends bought me silver and gold pieces for birthdays. I only dated one and never did something innapropriate. With some of my male friends I became a Best man, with other I became a godmother to their children. I was there when they had breakups, married or ended up sick in the hospital. I don't have many friends but those I do are precious and more like older or younger brothers. I've been traveling with some as a group as well, I find Korea weird to think males and females can't be friends if someone is dating. It's the way you look at someone that is important.
I feel that this girl is behaving wrongly tho
Its fine having guy friends. But leaving your boyfriend to hangout with ur guy friends?? Having to have an overnight trip with a guy friend?? GURL U HAVE A BOYFRIEND. That guy should breakup with her
Mhmm, 100% agreed
Agree
Yeah she's not even that pretty. Acts as if she is.. my blood is boiling 😤
Leaving her boyfriend is really terrible, but I don't see how travelling with her friend is bad. You don't need to do everything together just because you are dating, although it's understandable her boyfriend being insecure about it.
@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 she's going with her ex though, how can it be not a big deal?
Someone says these words:
Being friend to your ex have 2 reasons
1. You didn’t really loved that person.
2. You haven’t moved on from that person
3. he just love collecting men
@@chuchuaa *she
4. you’re mature enough to move on from what happened
@@melllo3966 clearly not in this case
sholos 👍🏻
The girl looks older than him!!😂 He seems to be a great boyfriend.. He's wasting his time dating her.. he should just date me instead 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree, he should just date you instead
@@kokomhie1809 😏😏😏
@@winwinslinesarehidinginsms7402 😕
@@kokomhie1809 wot?
@@winwinslinesarehidinginsms7402 wat
She needs to understand that it is inappropriate to stay overnight with other men. This is NOT a cultural difference, this is normal in North America too. She's just looking for an excuse to do whatever she wants
EV it’s basically cheating lol
@@melaxy33 if being around another guy is cheating then LOD OH LORD will you have a boring life one day. It is inappropriate and a taboo but cheating? Come on..
@@PrincessRomi1 Are you purposely trying to be outraged? Sleeping with another guy in the same room on an overnight trip is obviously cheating. No way around it.
@@Sarah-sk4fm so in your opinion cheating doesn't need to involve anything sexual or romantical to be cheating?? Is sitting in the same room with another guy cheating too then? Or talking to them? Or existing around them?
ethereal princess but the thing is how can u be sure they were just “ sitting “ in the room they could be doing other things. How would u like it if ur boyfriend sleeps in a room with his ex . 😌
If I was the dude, I'd break up, he deserves better
Edit : The replies need to re-evaluate the issue here- this woman is not fat or chubby, and she looks absolutely fine. The issue is her character and lack of understanding- get all of your heads screwed on right. Criticise someone for what matters rather than what doesn't.
ThisIsACrappyUsername Anyone deserves better, she is not in any way shape or form is not able to say anything lookin like that
@L N Lol! I was wondering that too! Shes not even that cute.
@L N preach! 👏🏾
@L N chubby isn't equivalent to being unfit or unhealthy.
Honestly , dont normalize being fat yall , Its not about the appearance , its more of health , Being fat isnt good at all , Dont normalize being fat , It has nothing to do with beauty , everyone is beautiful in their own ways , But being fat is not good for health and can cause many issues
"I'm always considerate."
Oh, shut up.
I'm a female and I'm just getting pissed by this woman's non-existent intelligence. She contradicts herself too often and makes up more excuses.
In my opinion, she KNOWS what's the issue of having contact with your ex, but she doesn't want to ACKNOWLEDGE it.
Exactly! She's gaslighting him. And trying to gaslight the rest of the audience too, but it didn't work this time. What is wrong, IS wrong! No matter how she sugarcoats it.
wahh this girl is really.... just hearing her answers pisses me off like is she serious????????????? MYGOSH I'M REALLY PISSED.
I was just thinking the same thing. Witch please.. just go and drink yourself to...
So it's obvious this girl has no sense of boundaries. I also think she likes to string guys along. I personally get along better with guys than with girls, but I wouldn't agree with a lot of this girl's views. Not telling people she has a boyfriend unless asked, leaving a date to go drinking, accepting expensive gifts from old boyfriends...this is disrespectful to her current relationship. I can see why she has several ex's she keeps in touch with, since she doesn't respect her relationships.
Burgh Dutchess AMEN PERFECTLY SAID
Agreed. I feel she's allowed to have male friends and go hang out with them, but everything you listed is definitely too much
Yea it's too much. I've hung out and drank with guy friends, but they know I'm in a relationship and how serious I am about it. I had to end a friendship because he couldn't stop crossing the line with me and gave me gifts he knew would make my partner pissed. But everyone else is just happy for me and I'm just one of the guys talking sports and drinking beers otherwise. So it's possible. She just has to draw the line.
i like the fact tht u knew where to draw the line....whereas the girl in the video doesn't understand any shit like tht.....i think she's jus trying to draw more attention
yea . a surprise this guy stay
THEIR FREAKING FACES WHEN SHE SAID HE WAS THE EX... Jaw DROPPED This girl does NOT know boundaries.
That's for sure
She just keeping them as spair
The guy who mentioned that is so smart! Taejoon right?
I think she knows, she's just playin' the exes. ...and how does she say they "don't see her as a girl" when they are exes?? If folks are falling for that, I've got a causeway in Louisiana that I'd be happy to sell to them for a good price. **smirk**
That's right!!!
This comment section is the only thing in this world that gives me hope that still everyone think that there should be boundaries and the girl partner shouldn't do whatever they feel like just because of modernization or platonic behaviour. Thank you guys.
16:04 props to this guy.
He just cracked the case lmao
his face and the zoom in lmao mad edits
Lawyer ji eun hyuk!!!
Straight Checkmate move.👏👍
I wish they stopped teasing Yeongja because of her looks
I know she is my favorite on this show. But I think they ask before hand and if they are close friends they know what boundaries not to cross
I know, she handles it so well. I'm glad she has spunk and attacks then with her cuddle pillow like "silence big head!!" When they go to far
I actually thinks she's pretty. Her personality really shines too!
I wish that too
Euforia I love yeongja sm
Can we talk about how the girl looks older than him? Or is it just me.....
Well you are not the only one, dear. 🤣
She doesnt look that much older than him maybe 5 years or something. I notice people are a lot harser with couples where the woman looks slightly older than the other way around
Park_ Chanyeol your not the only one
Park_ Chanyeol you'r not the only one
yeah she look older than her age
maybe because she love drink while her bf is not drink ~
are we gonna ignore that his shirt says 'yes of course it hurts' :(
it was written"yes of course it hurts" in the boyfriend's shirt
maybe he wanted his girlfriend to know that too
I think she just likes the attention.
I think so as well and that doesn't mean she does anything bad.
Exactly
R I think so too
you just want attention, you don't want my heart~
she leaves her boyfriend to go and meet her guy _friends,_ but no, she just wants attention
She loves the attention and being admired. Telling she has a boyfriend would put a stop to it, so she keeps it a secret. But keeps a boyfriend as an emotional safety blanket. Selfish par excellence.
n..no that's not how this works. If she has a boyfriend people should accept that. If they want to continue drinking with her in a respectful way (they shouldn't in the first place) then fine but either way the she should be respecting his wishes and concerns about her since she hangs out with her exes and she won't let him do/go anywhere with his female friends. A.K.A selfish and self centered.
@@Cinnamonhopeful What? It is her who is in relationship and it is only her duty to be faitfull to him bot other guys that doesn't know him too well... you are spiitting nonsense
I’m a year behind but. He should just leave her wtf. It seems like she wants an open relationship 🤦🏻♂️
This girl really is something like,,,, her answers are driving me crazy as heckkkkkk, gurl WHATTTTTT
She seems very troublesome and inconsiderate to her current boyfriend. He should just break up with her bc obviously she doesn't care about his feelings. She's too caught up in pretending to be ignorant about the situation to assess his feelings and be respectful.
The girl is the one who looks 11 years older lol
Dian Dayns yesssss
HAHA RIGHT? I was thinking the same thing lol
Dian Dayns this is funny cuz it's true lmao
probably because she's an alcoholic
I was thinking that but I didn't want to say 😭
She cheated on him and keeps doing it dude is being played
Throughout all of the various episodes of Happy Together I've watched so far, I'm really convinced and impressed that Choi Taejoon really is a quick-witted, observant and smart person. Respect.
anyone defending his 'girlfriend' can pretend to put yourself in his shoes. maybe you wouldn't be so much of the saint you try to sound like. if my boyfriend goes out and does that on a regular basis he would have had to move out eons ago. relationships are about compromises so if she's way too free spirited for him and doesn't consider his feelings then she shouldn't waste his time anymore. he's better off with someone who's more invested in the relationship--feeling one-sided is in no way healthy for any party involved and by this I mean for both sexes.
I think having male friends is not the issue, she could have them and hang out with them like she's been doing, and still make her boyfriend feel secure and respected. There are people who do this, but they actually practice consideration for their partners and make sure their partners are part of the equation. They make sure their partners feel their consideration, and they communicate clearly their priorities. The real problem here is the girl's mindset and attitude. They would not last long in a marriage.
starsaint I agree 100%, this is the comment I've been looking for.
Super late to this chat, but agreed. I commented something on here too, and many probably won't agree with it because it is unusual, but I couldn't have said it better myself. Relationships are about trust, respect, and boundaries among other things. I'm close with my ex and for about a year we lived together at school with our other friends. But at the same time we respected and still do respect each other's boundaries and new relationships because that's how it's supposed to be with any relationship.
I have a lot of male friends too and I go out with them once in a while under my boyfriend’s permission. He does have a lot of female friends too, way more than close male friends. HOWEVER, boundaries are clearly to be set and there’s DEFINITELY a fine line between treating your male friends and prioritizing your partner.
She is cheating on him with bunch of boys xD wake up man WTF
I'm shook, I thought the guy was 27 and she was 38 but no.... Waaah she looks so old! Drinking every night is not helping her skin lol...
seeing her makes me think that the guy doesn't deserve that kind of girl. Let her go, you deserve someone way better than her.
I’m assuming that you mean that she doesn’t deserve him?
@@ratthing8645 she probably doesn't respect his feelings and try to understand him.
I mean, there are bounderies between friends. Sleeping in the same room on a trip with just the two of you is one of them. Of course the boyfriend wouldn't like it bc you'll be sleeping with another guy! You never know what could happen!
kenga yah like ikr who would be comfortable being with their s/o being so close (physically and emotionally) to someone else
one of my bestfriends is a boy and im v comfortable with him, its possible to be close and not have feelings tbh
the girl still has no sense of how her bf feels tho rip
TheMystery30 depends i have a few guy friends and i dont have feelings for all them..plus by that logic i cant be just friends with girls either cause im bi lol
...i wasnt judging but ok
여자 외모보니까 걱정안해도 될것같은데
여자 마인드 자체가 잘못됐네
남자분 빨리 헤어지고 좋은분 만나셨으면...
MC: then where would you sleep? In separate rooms?
The girl: no, in the same room.
All the girls in the audience: 👁👄👁
I know a lot of people think this is a cultural thing, but think of this way; going on an overnight trip with a guy is usually code for "let's go have sex in a place where no one knows us cause we either live at home or in a tiny apartment with thin walls"
Would you think it's still ok?
I'm not saying that's what she's doing but I can see why her bf is concerned and he probably doesn't really trust her to begin with.
Cathy Nguyen it really isnt a cultural code and you are so right girl!
Lmao so she has to suffer because her society is dumb enough to not consider frienship with opposite sex a thing ? yes let's blame her better than getting a better society
yep you're right..got a lot of guy friends like that...it's like giving them a green light to just do whatever they wanted...plus that girl is a heavy drinker like she won't remember shit..i won't surprise if she went for overnight trip with A GUY and ended up having sex...duhhhh....
Théophile C. No, she's drinking with other guys everyday, it's natural to get concerned. Even if SHE'S not doing anythinf, how do we know the men aren't taking advantage of her? What if she gets hurt? Its natural to worry when someone you love is doing this. She even left a date to drinking with other men, that's just rude.
Cathy Nguyen i
the girl looks older than his boyfriend tho 😂
@Ara Basinillo definitely she's drink like those bar girls you never want to run into.
I was expecting a pretty young girl hahahahahahahahha
Joanne EnnaJo i think she is pretty..
@@foreverinbloom14 Lol the guy looks younger and prettier than her.
The shade... Lol.
Same here
Y'all who insulting her looks is no different from her lol hyprocitism everywhere
Such a good looking man, I hope he’s happy wherever he is and is with someone who gives him their 100% all , time and respect.
Why would your Ex gave you expensive gift😑..this girl surely think she is the hottest girl af.Get lost girl. Just find another woman dude
Lol she's not even that pretty. She's just having fun getting all the attention and having multiple bf spares.
Yo kyunghoon should be lucky heechul wasnt there cuz *hold mic to head* "your memory~~~"
Yes xD
nexcethecat he name is min kyunghoon
Beuty Yuseul94 ik i just wanted to short his name out sorry if that bother you '_'
nexcethecat is not bother me.. i though you wrong he name.. sory 4 my bad eng
nexcethecat 😂😂😂😂ikr
She literally had the audacity to sit there and be shy while talking about her ex like a highschool girl. Girl, this is cheating. Idk which world you live in but it's cheating to prioritise your ex or any guy over your own boyfriend, you don't need to be physically involved. This is cheating right here
!!!!! Taejoon’s lil snap point when he realized the guys could be her ex 😭 god he’s so cute I love him
LOL to all the people saying this is cultural difference. Im sorry but I don't want my boyfriend going on over night holidays with a random girl. Its not about trust its the principle. She should be empathetic towards her boyfriend and understand it from his perspective. And I'm sorry there being on good terms with your ex's and there is buying gifts and meeting up. Sorry I as a Brit totally understand his concern.
Yazaku Chan x .
Yazaku Chan x
Thank you for saying that. And i very well agree. Even if she didn't do anything..she should try to stop worrying him and try hard so he could feel at peace with her. Someone who doesn't even understand that, just shows how much she thinks of him. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to stay a night with a random girl. Friends or not.
As a Brit myself, I get half of his point. Saying that “men and women can’t be friends” is bullshit though, and saying “no matter how close friends are you can’t buy them jewellery” is also bullshit. But I get the whole staying overnight thing. They need to go on the Jeremy Kyle Show and take a lie detector test.
as another brit I agree
As a Dutch woman I fully agree to this...
I think they should just break up. She's probably really faithful but they have different expectations and are just different people.
Hey Danielle I agree that they should break up.Yet different people can be together it's whether if you put their feelings first. And being in a relationship involves putting someone first before yourself no matter the difference. If you're doing something that makes you're partner uncomfortable consider their thoughts and feelings. Because relationships involve having a strong security with each other.
Danielle Okonkwo Yeah she just doesn't fit with his mindset and he doesn't fit with hers. So they should definitely go their own ways.
He's also hasnt met many of her friends, he also said that he never met any of her friends that are girls and she only talks about her guy friends and she didnt tell him that she was hanging out with exes who def wouldnt see her as just another friend, also sounds bored on dates, texting other guys and being on a long call on the date, leaving during the date and why go on an overnight trip with a friend rather than your boyfriend?
It's not about the mindset it's about her attitude she's disrespectful and no one would like to be treated in such a way in a relationship, from what I saw too the boyfriend was shocked when she said she keeps in touch with all her exs, seems like he never heard of that, I don't blame him at all, and if you like to be treated like that or think it's ok then there's something wrong with you smh
Not to mention, try to put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes, you would get suspicious too, don't come at me with the "I don't have trust issues" because getting jealous and feeling worried like that is a normal reaction, she really needs to be considerate for her current relationship because that is NOT ok
Tae joon's light bulb moment! He's so clever sometimes. I like watching this show more because of him.
As for the girl, we all have friends with opposite sex. That's not a big deal. But you should have boundaries. Ditching your date because of friends is a no no. Travelling just the two of you is terrible. People would think she's easy because of these. She should be considerate as well knowing that she already has a boyfriend.
I know i'm late but she must be thinking that she's so hot and popular huh? Considering how confident she was. 🙄
I'll die laughing if he turns into an Ex-boyfriend and she's like "I'll keep in touch with you" xD
I think she will spend more time with him as an ex rather than when they used to be a couple!
😂😂😂😂
@@70foxy 😂😂😂😂😂 👍👍👍👍
@@70foxy LMAOOO
@@70foxy Spot on😁😁😁 Despite all this, I'm 200% sure she wouldn't have changed her ways AT ALL😅
I don't understand why she have to go overnight with only man friends? And why she accepts a gift from her ex? Isn't she have a boyfriend now? You may can have a male friend's but going trip overnight Only 2 people 🤔🤔🤔 are you sure there's nothing happen with them? He's just break up with her please 😑😑 don't waste you're time with girl like that
GOT7_Noona 7⃣ for 7⃣ you’re a dumbass
Eva
Disappointed, you called someone something bad and gave no explanation why.
Tracy Davis stfu dumb bitch
Tracy Davis just get out of here with your stupid promotion shit. No one cares
get lost shitty personality
My fave part 16:04 Tae Joon's intuition is so hot, so is he.
He caught onto her exes so fast omg
That guys shirt tho it makes sense Yes of course it hurts
Peace out Jungshook lmao
taejoon's light bulb moment was so funny ahaha
normally i'd be on the girl's side but she honestly is taking it too far and it's not like the boyfriend's saying she can't have guy friends (he just wants her to be more considerate and conscious of the fact she aint single anymore and that some actions can be deemed inappropriate for a person in a relationship)
TF BOI JUST BREAK UP WITH HER!!! 🤷♀️🤷♂️
I can say Taejoon visual is on par with Shin Hye...very compatible....their child should be the cutest ☺️ after watching him in this show, i realize he's a smart n nice guy, maybe that's why shin hye like him
Breakup 😶
that what I was thinking about
Same
👐
He deserve better woman.
I hope they're not together anymore ugh she's stresses me out
did anyone else noticed his shirt saying '' yes ofc it hurts'' ?
Did anyone notice that the guest’s shirt say “yes of course it hurts”
두루두루 여러사람한테 관심받고 싶어서 딱히 선안긋고 즐기면서 남친 병신만들면서 다님....
관심받고싶고 외로움을 채우고싶은.
....하지만 구걸하는 모습이싫어서 여러 남자한테 여지주고 잘웃어주고 하면서 외로움과 관심을 채우는것 같음...
Why i think she was like playgirl🌝
Min Chim nono. she doesnt have good face to start with
It's the sly shy smile she gives. Like some girls/guys don't need a good face to be a playboy/playgirl but more like the way they act and mostly their facial expression that pulls people into their trap lmao
yes she is , she understand the situation very well but pretend that she doesn't
Nah nah, just slutty women..
He should break up with her its clearly she cheating on him
nanthaly phommavong
Nevermind cheating, she gives no importance to him at all.
They need to break up, shes the type of girl that loves male attention. I know lots like her, she hangs out with guys that either have a crush on her/liked her because she loves the attention and leasing guys on and some men love chasing girls. You can see how excited she got when she mentioned how her ex got her a gift, shes clearly enjoying this. This is also why she never mentions her bf because she doesnt like turning them off. Its not about friendship either, otherwise she could go drinking/tripping with some girlfriends. This is just gonna stress the man out and any future boyfriends
Poor guy .just ship it out..you deserve the best..you don't need that kind of girl.start go fishing there's millions fish out there..😂😂😂
I have a lot of male friends but they don’t cross the line of my boundaries. I just cannot understand how this girl’s mind works.
There's nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite sex but if you're in a relationship with someone you also have to respect the person you're with there's a fine line also she contradicted herself and didn't make any sense at times going out and drinking with her male friends is ok but the sleeping in the same room even though it was in different beds she also said he couldn't go if the roles were reversed
I'm personally friends with guy friends, and I'm friends with one of my exes. I also lived with him and another guy friend and my own roomie who is a girl. Reason why, 1. we didn't work out together 2. the chemistry was bad 3. we're better as friends 4. we respect each other's boundaries and new relationships 5. we were mature enough to get past it
Everyone has their own personal boundaries and yes, a majority of the time, I can understand why people would be uncomfortable with it, however, in my own personal experience, my ex and I are close and we work as friends. Nothing inappropriate or anything like that. People can disagree if they want and I can understand both points of view. I also don't see a problem with being friends with guys either or the opposite gender
In this case specifically, no, it's not okay. Every relationship has boundaries and those boundaries should be respected and if they can't, then don't be together. And especially don't leave your boyfriend when you're together to hang out with your other friends, guys or not... geez...
I am honestly surprised at the amount of people saying that it isn't fine sleeping in the same room with a guy friend, like, people seem to have never had an actual opposite gender friend that was just that. Being in the same room or spending a lot of time with guy friends as a girl isn't wrong. I personally have more guy friends than girls, I love hugging them, and spending time with them. I stopped being so affectionate out of respect for my boyfriend, but he also learned to be more understanding of my actions, that they didn't mean any more than that, and that my friends also saw me as a little sister and nothing else. I do believe this girl had to change some things since she is in a relationship and they both have to find common ground. But I can't believe how many people don't seem to actually have friends that are only that.
@@cristal1460 I agree. Also, if I was going to date my guy friends, trust me honey, I would have already 😂 like gross... like, as long as it's two girls who cuddle and hug all the time and talk and hang out it's fine, but as soon as it becomes the opposite gender. oh hell no. it's just how our society is unfortunately and it's places like tiktok and social media that these unhealthy mentalities are not only promoted but fuels others to continue it and it's sickening
@@marialeonard2204 well everyone has different boundaries and it's not the fact that she is close to her male friends or exes that bugs me the most but that her bf seems like a genuinely good guy but she has no empathy for his hurt at all... if you care about your partner you could show some consideration for his concerns but she just brushes it off... doesn't seem like she respects his opinions or feelings whatsoever, and it's hypocritical as well since she said to him that he can't do the same things with female friends
for me personally there were guys where i was 100٪ fine with their close friendship with other females but other guys i wasn't cause it was indeed fishy, i can smell bs from miles away 😂
@@AyanamiRei5kyu Well, if you fully read my original comment you would probably see that I did say that everyone has their own personal boundaries and that I did say that in this case it wasn't okay. I don't agree with her or the way she handles it. It's clear to me that he's a good person and that they shouldn't be in a relationship together or they need to better figure out how to manage their relationship. So what you are saying is stuff I agree with anyways.
I've always had a group of "bros" that I've known and hung out with since high school. We're all between 40 and 45 now. We used to go camping together, go on trips where yes, we'd all stay in the same room. But if one of them had a girlfriend or if I was dating someone, there is NO way in hell that I'd even allow any of the nonsense that she's trying to justify. Boundaries are important even if you are only "just" friends because you respect and love the people you're friends with. She just likes male attention and drinking. It's not about real relationships/friendships.
The question is, how is he 38? and can he please be my daddy?
me lol
What kind of daddy ?? 😏😂
The kinky kind
he's hot right😍
Honestly lol
It is scientifically proven that friendships between women and men would most probably end up with one of the two being attracted by the other.... i totally understand his point of view.
Electre you dont have any male friends?
I love u but i have one really close male friend and we've known each other for almost 14 years we literally are like brother and sister....what i said on my comment is that those friendships can "most probably" end up in an attraction, thus I am not sayin that it is impossible to have a male friend, it is just difficult to not develop any sort of attraction (but not impossible) and this segment is a proof of what i said since all of her friends are ex boyfriends.
Electre this segment doesnt prove anything bc this girl is an unusual specimen, you see when they asked the audience who can understand her, no one raised their hand. I used to hear "men and women cant be friends" a lot too, but once i go to college, it seems that everyone is friends with everyone so not sure if that saying still applies today
I love u but it is indeed ....attraction occurs most of the times but since we are educated human beings we know how to refrain ourselves that's why we don't follow each guy/girl that we may like even just a tiny bit ....the thing is that she goes to drink alone with a guy (who is an ex, so she had feelings for him) and she also sleeps in the same room with her male friends ....i mean this may be a cultural gap but i honestly think it to be a bit dangerous....you never know what may happen between a guy and a girl.
"scientifically proven" "I have a friends and we're brother and sister" lmaoooooooooooooooooo
I can't even count how many times I face palmed myself. Oh Lord he deserves better!
이해안되는척 나 이런사람이다 질투유발도 있는듯하고 저런여자랑은 안만나는게 나을듯.
남자분이 정말 아깝네요. 외모나 모든면에서요,
17:17 lmfao the girl in the white cardigan didn’t clap for her
That is me
@@anak4600 S A M E
So?
she did she only did it later like most of the cast did only after the guy started clapping i think they were just too shooked and wondering if they really heard right :D
@@blacksakura277 IMO, I think the whole people there were just ridiculing her throwing shade lmao
Anybody notices the words in his shirt?? "Yes, of course it hurts" 😂😂
I see red flags with both of them. Personally, if they want their relationship to work, they need to communicate. One create boundaries with their friends and two talks about their insecurities.
There actually was someone in the crowd that raised their hand the second time around, but they didn't put their arm fully up.
11:17 someone in the middle row behind second blue wall. It doesn't really matter, but i just wanted to share.
That was the gf who lift her hand up
@@misakisinsornot no its two rows behind the gf theyre mostly hidden by the announcement on the screen tho
Ah yes, the one beside girl in blue shirt
I had a friend like her during my study abroad and she wouldn't tell people that she had a boyfriend when we went out for a drink.
When I talked to her guy friends about her boyfriend, I was like them equally shocked since they didn't know that she was in a relationship.
btw I still don't know how her boyfriend looks like and she even told me that they live together and thought about marriage and babies. She wanted to show me a picture when we were at a karaoke bar but she excused herself quickly and said she'll show me later when no one is around..wtf
and she quickly abandoned the idea of having an early marriage when she made plenty guy friends later.
I really hate people like that who pretend to be innocent and hurt their 'significant' other because they want to have fun or need to feel wanted..
parfee Yes! I've recently have befriended a girl during my college tour, and she would act friendly with many guys including myself. (Not that it was her job, she was voluntarily placing hands and talking about vulgar subjects) It was until recently that we've met with her friends, and they were shocked when we didn't know that she had a boyfriend and was planning to marry during her third year of college. Even her sister didn't even know what her boyfriend looked like.
okay no this girl was lost ..she doesn't make sense
저 남자는 저 여자랑 헤어지는게 정답임.저 여자분은 어려서 그런게 아니라 개념이 없는거임.저 여자분은 저 남자분 놓치면 더 좋은 남자 만나기 어렵다는거....
정답
The way she said "in the same room of course" with such indifference, knowing so well how he feels about it shows how inconsiderate she is to his feelings, although it's okay to have male friends the issue here with doing things you won't accept if the other one did to you, it shows that you're just a narcissist and a selfish person (saying she won't accept it if he drank with a girl when she drinks with guys til 5 am, and then saying "they don't see me as a girl", then why not thinking "oh my bf doesn't see his female friends as girls"?) , from what I've seen she doesn't try to understand him at all and it's almost as if she's doing it on purpose to frustrate him, the smile on her face when he was talking about the 15 min phone call made me think that she was content to hear that the guy had feelings for her, she enjoys the attention of them and she likes the safety her boyfriend makes her feel, as I said nothing wrong with having friends but making them a priority to the extent where you'd leave your partner in the middle of a date is telling a lot.
I really think that he deserves better.
this girl just looking for attention fr guys
They should just break up, she doesn't seem to care about her boyfriend or his feelings at all I'm not even sure if she even likes him. If she prefers hanging out with her exes and other guy friends than her own boyfriend then I doubt she has any feelings for him. They aren't going to last, they just aren't suitable for each other. Both their views on things are totally different, he's more conservative than her so of course they won't get along. I don't think she's serious about dating tbh, she's probably just having fun and she should she's really young, why should a boyfriend stop her from experiencing things
taejoon reaction's always besttt!😂
I literally love how everyone who is commenting are almost similar 🥺and everyone know how should a relationship work and what people deserve
I like how Taejoon is always spot on! Will miss him in the show
Yes, she can be friends with tons of males. But this is too much. She ignores her boyfriend on dates to text friends, she leaves mid-date to hang out with friends. She's just a shitty girlfriend, regardless of the gender of the friends. This is the time the two of you set aside to enjoy each others company and by ignoring him and leaving to be with other means she doesn't appreciate him.
She LOVES the attention and is gaslighting everything. Break it off, not worth the heartache.
Ufff this gurl!
*Red flag* *Red flag* *Red flag*
Just Break up already!
What an attractive boyfriend tho. He doesn't drink, doesn't get drunk, treat his health, also worries for her a lot. Is she in love with him? Cause the kind of guy isn't easy to find and isn't a thing to take for granted. The girl shoulda be more thankful.
Honestly it all depends. Looking at it from his point of view, and me also being a jealous person, I can see where he's coming from. But if he knew she had a lot of guy friends when they got together, why did he stay with her? If she's been hanging out with guy friends almost her whole life, then who is he to tell her not to hang out with them?
Love is more important, the fact she wanted too marry him show's that friend's are friend's you can make more but if you love someone you would make them happy more than your friend's.
The LoudAssasin but if you're going to marry, you're usually on the same page as each other. Even if you have different personalities and/or lifestyles you learn to compromise. I know they're not married, but they kind of have polar opposite beliefs. But idk. In my opinion neither of them are in the right.
Yeah, if they're not working out as a couple, they should have just split up, unless they have some tie with each other that's not romance.
She will go in a trip with a guy friend. She's in touch with her ex-boyfriends. Receive gifts from them. Cancel / or just go of their dates with her boyfriend just to be with them. And you will tell me there's nothing wrong? OMG I'm so shook ;-; I'm sorry
He wanted her to change and hoping she would which is the purpose they went on this show. Thats why he stayed. Couples who are polar opposites that argue all the time have this tendency to think in time, the other will change and come to the same understanding as them. Hope keeps relationships together even though its a shaky one. Once this guy loses that hope, he is gonna start the ball rolling and ask for a breakup. Same goes for her.
“We did everything we could on our dates. Then I feeling having a drink, so I leave (with guy friend)”
Girl this isn’t a soccer game, there’s no break time on a date.
Edit: AND SHE STILL TALKS TO HER EX? I’m sorry but if you’re still close friends with an ex, it’s completely fair for your current significant other to be suspicious. She keeps laughing and giggling instead of trying to understand her boyfriend I just wanna🤜🏼🤜🏼🤜🏼
Im so pissed off with this woman. I wouldnt even feel shocked if it turned out to be she secretly sleeping with all her guy friends / ex.
the guy should find someone who will appreciate him more, she's not the only girl alive.its good thing you are experiencing this while not yet married so you can still stop a bad relationship.
For those who sides with the girl saying her bf needs to have trust in her. Love is not only about trust people. It's about compromises too. Especially if there's expectations of tying the knot/settling. She has to calm herself down and also has to start respect him 'cause right now she doesn't and is really unconsiderate of him. I'm not saying she can't have guy friends, it's just that she needs to set a limit. But, for real, the worrying side of this concern is her drinking obsession. I hope she find a way to stop and that their relatinship improves for the better ... (I doubt it a little bit let's hope)
Shawol who got Jams She never disclosed that she’s got a boyfriend to her guy friends. Well she isn’t honest to her friends and those fellas don’t mind her being a basic bitch.
The bf is so handsome bruh he's too good for her ;-;
I felt some type of way when they said friends don’t buy each other expensive gifts like that cause my friends and I always do IDNFKND
Am I the only one facepalming at every answer she gives?
Nope.
Now, many would disagree with his concern but this is too much. Yes, she can meet with her guy friends but she honestly does too much. One she does not mention that she is in a relationship; that can lead to many things as well as her boyfriend not trusting her. Two, she puts her boyfriend aside even when they are together. Who would leave their significant other just to hang out with friends? That is not right. Three, she drinks with them till dawn. Now, not all guys are like this but most would take advantage of her or she can do something out of line. I personally think he should end his relationship with her but that is just my opinion.
I saw the title and i was like '' ok and ? '' then i heard the story then i was like '' ooohhhhh ok ''
It makes me mad how trusting she is towards some of these guys. They could be all nice people but there will be some who take advantage of her sooner or later. She goes out drinking until 5am with a group of men, some of who don't even know she has a boyfriend and the fact that she doesn't see anything wrong with that makes me furious. She's way too gullible