When will my one-sided love end?He doesn't know how I feel😭[Hello Counselor Sub: ENG,THA/2018.05.07]
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Hello Counselor EP.363
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The idea that people can change like that after marriage is scary...
Sally Sam yeah even worse if the partner becomes an abuser after marriage
Exactly. Hence why I'm not ganna get married. I don't like changes in my life, it's perfect the way it is.
For a unmarried people like me. it going to be hard for me to trust anyone because of problems like this
this is truly scary for me. that's why i think marriage is not fit for me. it's just might my imagination that scary..
Sally Sam this is something what scares me the most 😖😖😖
"i don't find you attractive" "she's like a sister to me now" damn, the only thing left to be said is that he doesn't love her anymore. this girl deserves better, not this trash.
k h she need to leave him period.
Yeah, probably a "trash"z
the son wants his biological father so she needs to stay
yeah leave and don't even think of her child but just her desires....wow you guys shoukd never do counselling.
@@lasttofirst3335 I've seen people suddenly turn their wives into just friends and sisters basically just start cheating eventually or do that while already cheating. True, the kid might suffer. If it gets a little more serious, I think it's best to leave her. even for the kid.
Who the hell says to a wife she's like a sister!?
Imbhattman cheating husbands, trust me, I've seen a husband say that about his wife before, he was cheating on her.
I Feel so bad for her, she deserves better!
or a mom??
A husband who wants to be thrown out of the house. I'd file for Divorce. She is beautiful & he treats her like crap. His excuse is he's shy or he can't express himself. Man up & be a good husband. Ugh I wanted to slap him.
Sassy bre yeah that’s the sad part, divorced “moms” in Korea are looked down on as if they failed in life or something. That’s why, if u watched enough episodes of hello counselor with couple problems and where the man is at fault, they always have that sick logic “she already married me, she already has my child, she can’t leave me” it’s so annoying
The wife is so pretty and funny like it so messed up the husband ignores her
Yusra M you know she could totally get someone else in a flash if she chose to. He shouldn't be all "oh she's in my tank so I'm good" boo on him.
IF my husband said on National TV he saw me as his sister. It's OVER! My life is too precious to be wasted away with a man who doesn't desire me or love me. This lady needs to move on IF her husband doesn't start treating her like a precious wife.
Sassy bre I think she is worrying about her 6yo son
Coeli Mae Peralta Thats why when you married and have child everything is tied and complicated.
Coeli Mae Peralta Nobody ever said Marriage is a picnic or a walk in the park but IF your husband can’t RESPECT you & TREAT you like a precious Jewel 💎 walk away or get the best marriage Counseling to see IF he wants to change.
You are right. We don't know what happens behind closed doors in a marriage. They are on this show & she opened up her Marriage & struggles & I'm just making a comment what I would do. I'm just saying why stay in a marriage even if there are children involved when he has zero Respect for you as a woman & a wife. He said He saw her as a sister! Sorry If my husband felt that way It's OVER. His attitude towards his wife isn't healthy for her or their children. It's never easy to leave a marriage or end a toxic relationship.
if my wife talked about this issue on national tv i would divorce her! this was very private matter and she made him a joke material for other people.this was not the way to handle that problem.i can't believe there isn't a single comment about this!!
These cases kind of make me scared of marriage. How devasted she must feel to be left out in relationship that she thought would last a lifetime. You should totally give time to your relationship before marriage.
That's I don't want to get married. From this program, I learnt that husband can change drammatically after marriage, it doesn't make sense to get settled with a man imho
what even I don't think every men is like that obviously, but there is a high chance. My opinion is not based just on people I saw on tv, I am talking about real cases (relative, friends having husbands that changed completely after marriage, showing their true themselves when the contract was already signed). Why should I put myself in that position? No, thanks.
Shimrbae 482 right girl that s why i can t get married i feel comfortable being alone eventhough a good marriage is better than living alone
What I’ve learned so far about Korean marriage is, that the biggest problem lies in shaming women if they get divorced. This might be the reason why some Korean men sometimes change suddenly after the marriage. They’re like gentlemen until they got the woman the want into a marriage. Because they know that their wives wouldn’t easily ask for divorce (especially with kids), they suddenly show their true face and the women are trapped. Like Kyungho and her friend said.
Other countries see divorces completely different, for some it‘s even normal that every 2nd or 3rd marriage ends like that and you go looking for someone else.
Shimrbae 482 ,same here..thats why i am still single. I don't need much or material things. I just need a man who is proud of me,have time with me and loyal...
Embarassing her by treating her like a dirt is totally not fine when she only wants affection from you.. plus skinship.
oh come on, give him a break. she made him look worse than he actually is negleccting to mention that he actually works 17 hours a day and is stressed out to hell. Yeah he says some and does some insensitive things but he's superman honestly, working 17 hours a day 7 days a week. I used to work 16 hours 5 days a week and when I came home I'd be so exhausted I don't want anyone touching me either.
chelecovers just bcuz he is exhausted doesnt mean he can take it put on her and be mean go her,embarrass her infront of their friends and say he thinks of her as a sister
Sparkles in the midnight while i agree he is insensitive and borderline hurtful, there is an argument to be made that we are living in a duel income economy and that rather than force affection from him at 3 in the morning she should get off her ass and get a job so that her husband doesn't have to work as much and would have the energy she so desires. She is not blameless either imo. He may be saying those things out of a subconscious resentment he has for her.
Second, I really think you underestimate just how hard he works. Ever gone on a road trip with someone? After a few hours you get tired and switch drivers right? Imagine going on a road trip by yourself everyday for 17 hours. Only someone who has worked like that can ever understand the kind of stress that produces. It can someone incredibly irritable.
chelecovers How do you know she doesn’t have a job?
@Gray Kin Please don't look down on a whole gender. Also, other concerns on the show of men expecting the woman to work many jobs too and the men don't care or the men have issues with working/parenting mother not giving them affection. So both genders have the same issues with communication and understanding.
Anyways, I completely agree with your other points. This man is overworked and stress, if she had a job it would have been said. His mental health is prob not good he works for too long and maybe he's so stressed he doesn't wanna do skinship. He's not a horrible person, in fact, it seems like he works extremely hard for the family. A real solution could be her getting a part-time job (her kid is in school and she only has one) but no one is thinking about how stressed he is. Shame on the commenter and the wife for not considering his stress too. It takes two in order to fix issues, I don't think this woman is considering him.
I wish Yeonja too one day will find someone who will adore her just like the amazing, funny, caring and wise woman she is!😁
It always break my heart when she is being teased too much or when she speaks like it's something that is impossible for her... I wish she find an admirable person just like her !😀
Abigail Réau This is my wish every week I watch this show. I respect her a lot and like you said, imo she's one of best celebrities/comedian with great personality. She deserves her own love story right..
Abigail Réau s she should find someone
I think she is gonna find someone when she opens her mind. If she thinks its impossible is never gonna happen. I think if she just traveled more she could get a good hubby, outside on the world she could be more apreciated, her streght, wise and funny personality.
In Korea although she is seen as a gag or the jokes of the show, trust me many have admired her due to her smart, witty sense of humour! This year is definitely her year! I read many articles where she is being praised heaps for her humour capabilities and it’s great to see :)
Trust me I’m sure many will realise how great of a woman she is!
Ikr!!! She is good-natured and funny and kind...also personally I find her cute looking!!! Like the way she smiles and laughs I want her to find someone kind and nice too TT
I'm not very far in, but it sounds like he liked dating her for the physical side of the relationship and they got married bc she got pregnant, but he clearly wasn't interested in her for a long term relationship.
Jamie Morrow
There's many people like that. It's awful for the person who wants a long-term relationship. He should just dated a woman who just wants a fling.
but he said he dosn't regret marrying her , i think he just a workholic
Maybe you should keep watching because it’s more than just what you’ve perceived
That's exactly why you should watch the whole thing
except it doesn't mean he's telling the truth. Nothing is stopping him from lying. In the end obviously we won't know, so I do hope he's being honest.
Why did yeongja praise him so much that irritated me so much. He treats her like shit and I would of left him. He’s either gay or he’s cheating on her I don’t care. The disrespect is shocking, I understand he’s tired but that doesn’t justify neglecting your life long partner
finally...i read the comment i was yearning to see....i was really disappointed and irritated with yeongja in this episode too...😓that husband needs to consider his priorities in life..
She praised his work ethic. Also some guys will have sex and leave the girl to worry about birth control...even if they can't afford a kid. but yeah you are right...
She was kind of off the mark.
i think yeongja praise him because he thinks before do, like how he works hard to support his family without any c/o when most people his age usually go to club to enjoy and how he thinks of what could happen if his wife get pregnant again n etc, but it still doesnt make it okay for him to treat his wife like that.
Idk why but I keep thinking he has erectile dysfunction and doesnt want to tell anyone. He says hes healthy one minute then the next he says he was young and healthy back then meaning he probs has some health problems like that. I just like giving the benefit of the doubt tho, I hope he's not cheating
You are right in some things but it seems she doesn’t care. She probably doesn’t want a divorce and is willing to stay with him. Sometimes we have to take the hints the other person is giving us. She’s being just as bad as him.
If he doesn't see her as a woman and doesnt love her anymore , it clearly shows that he's into another woman though , his love is already for another woman . I kinda bet he's had affair before . I hope that he didn't realise her as a sis anymore..
I'm sorry but this show needs to stop asking and applauding the bare minimum from these husbands. Regardless of what job he does and how tired he is, it's incredibly horrible to push your wife to the side. A simple kiss and hug is such a stretch to him? Sis, you're cute and you seem lovely so LET THAT MAN GO!
Radiant Melanin I am pretty sure that he doesn't work every day and I really hope that his child knows who his father looks like.
Radiant Melanin Y.E.S
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 🗣
think about the son a divorce will mess the son up
@@joblupata3673 the problem in western countries is that everyone just divorces at least the wife is trying to fix this issue and while we do not know if it is or not at least she is taking steps and trying. Personally I think that is admirable.
If I was her, I'd get a divorce as fast as possible. It's not only about physical affection, he doesn't even care about her and her feelings, problems. He is very selfish and I don't think they'll make it, he's not even trying to understand her... I wouldn't want to live in a relationship without understanding and support.
꽃 its not that he doesnt care about her feelings, its just that hes extremely extremely busy. The woman should also be understanding as well not only the husband. He comes back home 3am almost everyday. How does he have the strength to fulfil the wifes desires?
꽃 he works from 10 am to 3 am and has to sleep in between that time……
if you know that and still have this opinion, i guess people just have different values
꽃 what a selfish thought. He’s grinding hard for his family but all the woman thinks about is her needs. Sometimes she can relieve his stress by talking or doing something nice for him. Understandably she is frustrated because she’s not getting any skinship but still think she should give him some love for other reasons beside making another baby.
So being extremely busy and having to work from 10 am to 3 am allows him to disrespect and insult his wife in front of his friends?? Embarrass her in public?? I think the wife is understanding enough that she doesn't bring up about looking after their child on her own as her husband works long hours. She doesn't nag about house chores etc. She only wants her husband's attention, and that's needy?? lol some of u guys are impossible. She has tried her best for him, staying up late to wait for him to come home but he won't even acknowledge her effort. Even their dog gets better treatment from the husband for gods sake!
Did you even watch the whole thing
Seeing her as his sister is a lost case...cos that's the worst..and i think they got married cos she got pregnant and that's the problem in most Korean marriages...
PROUD PAPA YG Side Chick
You are right
So true
yahh. *shotgun marriage* sigh
MountainRain it not horrible.. It reality
MountainRain it's obvious if you actually use your brain :)
I wouldn’t say most....👀
I love how entertaining the couple host in this episode😂
sending her the power she needs to leave that guy and find someone who will love her better
honestly i've seen so many women her age send in concerns about their husbands and they always look like him fisdkskdk those guys should be grateful that those women love them and wanted to marry them. looks aren't everything and i'm 100% sure that those women considered their personalities instead.. but seriously, those men are lucky that those women even looked their way
just tell me why you made My day😂
We need an update later to see if his lying ass stayed true to his word lmao "starting tonight at 3am" 🤣🤣
umm if I was working my ass off that hard I'd want affection from my partner whenever I'd come home to relieve stress. the dude doesn't even make the slightest bit of effort. clearly he's not that into her anymore, especially after hearing that he only sees her as his sister now 😐
lunarainsky maybe she’s sitting around doing nothing and expecting him to fulfill her needs. We don’t have the full story.
JKWongFuCommunityHiga true !!that but wouldn’t be say that?? I mean he embarrassed her before so he wouldn’t hesitate now .
JKWongFuCommunityHiga i dont think so, if that was true he would pull that card on the show. I think this have mire things going on, maybe he is a working or maybe not. Or maybe he needs to set its priorityd right.
this statement is a clear indication that you have either never worked your ass off that hard or you have never had sex. sex requires quite a bit of stamina and energy especially from the male's end. There's no way you'd want sex after working 17 hours a day 7 days a week. you'd just want to eat and sleep. I used to work 16 hours a day 5 days a week, my bf knows I would cut his thing off if he even tried to come on to me in the middle of my work week.
chelecovers I get your point but I'm not even talking about that in particular. Affection doesn't always mean sex I was referring to simple actions like being genuinely nice to her, greeting her when he comes home from work, or whatever to increase affection/maintain a healthy relationship at least. I understand that he works long hours but it doesn't take much energy and stamina to say hi y'know? I mean in the video he was cuddling the dog instead of his wife and he tells her to go away. He shows more effort and love to their dog than his wife.
PS:
Please don't make claims about people based on their comments, saying their comments are clear indications. Thanks.
she's too good for him...
What? You see your wife as a sister now??? That just shows there's no romantic love anymore. I hope they get marriage counseling after the program and sort their relationship.
im a single mother and this reminds me of when my ex cheated. he even said the other girl is half of my size because i gained weight then and that i looked like a guy because of my short hair.
and girl, dont have another kid with that guy.
thanks for the encouragement. i really need that...😊😊😊
well that's his loss. you're way out of his league ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You look hot though.🔥
she is waaaayyy out of his league...
That's why he's treating her like trash.
She deserves better
Honestly, they need real counseling. If the counselling doesn't work, she should divorce him. He sees her as his sister. That's a hard place to come back from mentally and emotionally. On top of that. he seems to value his own thoughts and feelings above his wife. She seems to genuinely love him, and he doesn't even treat her like someone he genuinely loves. He's gonna be screwed if she ever falls out of love with him. She knows she's a catch, and there are other dudes in the world who know it, too.
I think he might be into something/someone else 😷😷
Tai J my thoughts exactly
I think the same...especially when he brought out the sister card.
The dog.
MountainRain Yes I agree that's why I put "/something else" also ..
With ED he should be able to talk to his wife about it since they are married.. But he doesn't even want to talk to her or look at her in the eyes you saw how he was when he had to hug her at 20:35
I thought the same thing.
I don't get it. Doesn't this just mean he doesn't like her anymore.
otahiss But they're married. If he didn't truly love her he shouldn't have married her. He just got her hopes up and then put a wall up. 😒😡 A HUSBAND should NOT treat his WIFE like she's nothing.
Not necessarily. I've cheated on a bf when i was young and dumb, and I've also been married and been cheated on.
Don't ever cheat...you feel guilty, and are mean to the innocent partner because you feel like poo.
You also don't want to have physical contact with them. That can be a combination of guilt, or that you are not attracted to them.
He totally seems like he cheated to me. He is also possibly resentful that he is the only one working, they are broke...and she is trying to trap him into having another kid.
She seems like she is living in dreamland. They have no money, and relationship problems...will another child make that better?
He's either currently cheating on her, has in the past, or will in the future. He's a guy after all and if he doesn't even like physical contact from his own wife he is getting it somewhere else. She needs to leave his ass.
Two words: leave him
The problem is their culture, once a woman give birth there then it'll become impossible for divorce because korean society looks down divorce woman with children. That's why korean men take their wife granted after having children.
They should get divorced. He doesn't love her and she deserves to be loved. But they have a child. I feel bad for her.
TheGingerLady how i wish we can turn back the clock
The problem is that he lusted for her and they both misunderstood that for love...feel horrible for that woman...he is the worst....
But is he really working until 3am tho? Homeboy is having an affair.
hayatochan korean is well known to over worked them selves coz of financial issues.
My boyfriend also works as a chauffeur, well he works in a car company in the morning start from 7 until 9 at night, he then works as a chauffeur until 12 or 1 am.
A lot of chauffeurs work even harder, just like the man in this eps. And this job is not easy at all, as my bf does, he drives to certain place, waiting for drunk ppl to call, then he takes the customer home using customers' car ofc, then he needs to take bus/ train to go back.
My other friend works at the club as a bartender until 4/5 in the morning.
So yeah, i dun say that the husband is "normal" but it is true that ppl in south korea work that much.
Thats what I was thinking he probably has another wife somewhere
ccchoice _ yeah but that doesn’t explain why he’s so cold and unaffectionate towards his wife. He’s defined getting some ass somewhere else or there’s just something physically or mentally wrong with the dude.
*definitely
hayatochan thats why i said "i dont say the husband is normal" i just wanted to tell u that most of korean work till late at night.
I seriously hate the gut of this guy! How can he say she's being immature when she's just being honest in what she felt. At first i thought there must be a reasonable reason but all his reasons are totally nonsense. Tsk. What does he think he is? wasting his amazing wife's efforts! But he got a point on finance tho, it's a problem that is always present.
It's okay to fight for someone who loves you.
It's not okay to fight for someone to love you.
There's a huge difference.
Marriage is so scary. The
When he said he thought of her as a sister.that would of been it for me.I think he fell hard for her but they had a child and it fizzled.
KBS really needs to give all the comments here to that guy so that he knows the world especially women despise this type of man the most. And I hope that woman will file a divorce towards him. He doesnt deserve the slightest love from that woman at all.
Sometimes I'm really insecure about myself because in standards I couldn't pass as pretty but hearing this story it seems that my prejudice about beautiful women having to get a nicer man for themselves were wrong. We really don't know what will happen in someone's life. No matter how perfect a relationship might be during dating years anything could actually go wrong on marriages. It's kind of scary, yeah, but life's life. We gotta deal with it.
G-IDLE'S TRASH The grass is always greener on the other side. They might look perfect and all but we don't know what they don't want to show to the world.
True......
I can't believe he said he will touch her when he gets settled...hahahs
PROUD PAPA YG Side Chick i see papa YG 😁
rarapriska yuniar oh yeah..I love me some Yang Hyunsuk
Never Do Wifey Duties At Girlfriend Price IKR, WT*
10:54 good job, Yun Hyeongbin😆👍
The moment he said he saw her as his sister... I was like this marriage is a lost cause.
Sadly, I thought the same thing.
Women has sexual desires too. I hope he is not cheating on her, get a job girl just in case you need to leave ~
SHES NOT EVEN FRIENDZONED SHES SIBLING ZONED 😂😂😂
Like Ichigo
This is weird! 😅How does someone even develop a brotherly feeling for someone you have already slept with. For God's sake, she's your wife. You have a 6 year old, the storks didn't fly the kid in, did they now!!?
everyone is stressed in life...you can either push away the people closest to you or let them be there to support you. skinship literally makes people feel happier, comforted, less stressed. we're biologically made to want affection and comfort. i think he's taking it the wrong way by thinking touching, or even emotionally being there for his wife and letting her be there for him, is a burden.
It's time to leave him sis. He clearly doesn't want you anymore and girl don't stress over a man who doesn't want you anymore, he's far from worth stressing over. He sounds like he might be cheating too so it's extra time to leave him.
This guy is either cheating or gay. Please move on and find someone who would care for all of your needs. Good luck!
ZuccStain both 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
ZuccStain I know the way he sighed when they looked into each other’s eyes and that cringe kiss, I think he is batting for the other team. No matter how tired you are to push sexual urges aside makes no sense unless the person beside you can’t fulfill it. Are we going to sit here and believe he works 10am to 3am everyday no vacation 😑. Even if you don’t want another child just wear a condom or the pill.
SNAP!!!! Definitely Gay or getting it from somewhere else! The moment he said he "sees her as a sister" that was all I needed to know the truth! haha
when he said she is like a sister even i felt it damn, that’s so hurtfull. She is so loving and pretty, with a great sense of humour. I hope they can overcome this, i actually think he might be depressed or something because i push everyone away when i am. i really hope he’s not into someone else...
It's not immature to want affection from your spouse...if I was her, I would have had a talk with him and ask in all seriousness if I looked unattractive and have a sisterly feelings in his eyes, and if he replied yes then I would have asked for a divorce. Because she married him as a husband not as a brother. And it doesn't matter where he is from, being affectionate, even if it is as simple as a kiss on the cheek or holding hands, is part of a healthy, normal marriage. I hope everything went well for her after this show and her marriage is better, for the sake of herself as a woman and mother and of their child.
Just pretend like you dont care and that you have found an other men and then he will act like crazy serves him right
Sex
i think he's on this show for some reason but i'm 99% sure he doesn't want to make it up to his wife . this big issue can't be fixed overnight
The most honest guy in Korea.
his wife is so beautiful and seems so affectionate i can’t believe he pushes her away like that...god some people make me so angry :(
She still young and beautiful she deserve better it’s a shame to waste her youth on a man like that
i can relate him with my bf. he was so lovey to me a year ago. but now he has changed and it hurts me. so i cant see him as my future husband by treating me nicely...somehow i feel her. i cried while watching this.
Hara Chin oh no! How are things now if you don't mind me asking?
I can relate to that a bit. My boyfriend and me have been dating for 4 years. We had ups and downs in the relationship, sometimes I got really insecure about it. The best advise I can give is to talk about everything. Your expectations, his expectations your plans for the future etc.
And honestly don't settle for less. I am not talking about small, unimportant parts. You can always compromise on that. But don't compromise on things that are really important to you. Don't stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy. No relationship is perfect, relationships are hard work and you need to communicate. But some just don't work out. Not because someone is mean, or abusive or controlling but because the people in the relationship are just not expecting and wanting the same in and from the relationship.
Sorry for the long text. I hope you will be happier soon.
Moomoo thanks for ur concerned! even 'till now i tried everything i can to make things better..but he seems like have lost interest at me. how dissapointed..nowadays he refused to have long conversations either on phone or chats. he dissapoints me tooooo much since the day i got to know him. but i chose to be considerate to him. my friends pursued me to leave him since then. i guess i am way too stubborn to do it. i love him so much but he had change...and now i have decided to permanently leave him. he had hurts me alot...i suffered for more than one year(i cant believe that woman on the vid can stand that whole 6+ years) my bf doesnt know how to appreciate me properly. he said that i have never understand me but the fact is, he is the one who have never understand me...
Tinka16111 thank you for ur advices! i do cherish it! i'll try my best to sort this out...wish me luck!
what even yeah yeah i know that normal girl will definitely leave that kind of guy. i ever asked to my friends and their answers are same as yours 😊. i know i made the wronged decision by trying hard to hold on the relationship. Even to me to, this isnt a true love at all haha..but i'm the type that will truely love a guy and hardly turn back. it's my mistake after all right hahaha..i've thought once again about leaving him, im going to do it before the mid of May coming. Wish me luck and leaving him without tears haha!
he knows he doesn't have a health issue because he's cheating on her, that's quite obvious
With a guy
Idk he hesitated when they said how do he know that hes healthy, and then the next minute said he was young and healthy back then meaning he probably actually has a problem down there
Ikr
I really hate guys like him. I feel sorry for the girl, she is smiling but I know how much she is hurt inside knowing your husband treats you as her sister. If I were her I will leave him and find a man who can give back my love forever and doesn't treat me like a trash.
Baekhunnie Byun sometimes we don’t know we are lucky or unlucky.marriage is like a gamble i guessed
@22:00 that dude knows what's up. it IS a concern... sometimes this show has such over-simplified "resolutions." we all know this problem wasn't solved. his heart isnt with her.
I understand the husband just tired because he works really really hard to keep the family afloat, but he doesn't have to say the wife is like his siter or that he doesn't see her as a woman. That's something else. Rude and disrespectful.
He doesn't love her anymore. Period.
"You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world. Because they got a hot girl, they can be horrible?"
- Billie Eilish
What a jerk. He acts like he's so important.
She’s so patient and pretty, she needs to find herself a better man
i really thought after marriage everything will be as sweet as sugar but um watching this concern, i’m getting more concerned???? i really hope the husband will change soon
In this program, there are sooooo many cases of husbands changing drammatically after marriage. This is one of the reasons I will not get married
Eli Ri i have the same reason as yours too omg i’m so afraid to get marry soon
Every relationship needs maintenance and constant effort. Most of the things you see in romantic movies are not true in real life. I also had illusions about relationships but now I see them in different light. The same thing goes for marriages too. I think you need to know your partner really well and it's best if you went through a lot together (good and bad situations), but even then it's not an indicator of a successful marriage. Both partners should strive to have a great marriage but if it's just one sided than, I would say, the marriage is doomed. I think a lot of people have illusions about relationships and marriage, and they end up disappointed, it's not what they have imagined and the reality becomes tough for them.
Moon Gloss i know right! that’s the point👍🏻
...you've seen first hand of a marriage like your parents'.
Are their marriage sweet or sweet with ups and downs or something else?
If you are of a single parent then that should be clear that marriages/relationships ain't all rosy.
I can't say that I got sad for Yeonja for not having a man in her life cause having one isn't the key to happiness but the way she looked at the end makes her want to have someone by her side. Love you so much Yeonja!
"I will be affectionate that you will never crave for it again."
wtf that sounded more like a threat to her. I seriously hope he was gentle to her that night if they ever ended up doing it. You dont have to immediately do it if you havent even touched her for god knows how long already. Start over with the basic steps like hugging her affectionately or holding hands again will be a good startover.
But personally I think something happened between the married couple that affected the trust of either one of them and probably made the husband suspicious or something. They should seriously sit down and talk it out because there is still hope to get this marriage fixed again. Their problem doesnt seem to be that serious yet like other stories involving alcoholic abuse etc.
Though it would be also the most saddest thing ever if his real reason was because he was simply bored of her as a wife and looked at her as a sister, or like another fish in a tank.
Watching marriage maelstrom stories like this always gives me a good strong reminder to never think of marrying someone for looks only.
When she’s so cute and pretty how the smacks could he not be attracted to her? What a fool!
Anyway, I say it’s definitely a concern and I hope he really will change. I know it’s hard but he means so much to her. She has to be able to feel his love. That’s a big part of what helps us get through the day.
can't sit thru the whole thing. if he doesn't love you, leave him sis
you're so pretty and deserves way more than this
Or maybe depressed...sometimes when u have it its hard to enjoy things u used to love to do so much...its hard to talk about too especially if you cant afford to be weak because everyone is relying on you
He's cheating on you sis
He is probably cheating,gay or both. I mean people want affection from their spouses no matter how hard they work. She seems like a nice girl, she so does not deserve this.
“YUA” 😂
He works from 10 a.m. to 3 a.m. thats 17 hours ,he works 17 hours to support her and their child, he doesnt want another child because she had premature labor and was in the hospital for 2 months he is scared for her and because of finance situation, he comes home after 3 a.m. and sleeps to 9 a.m. thats like 4-5 hours of sleep depends on when he is home from work and people in the comment section say that she should leave him because he isnt showing affection to her. He may not show affection but he is showing true love of a man to his woman and child by working 17 hours a day paying the loan, the bills, the rent putting food on the table and securing the future of their child, he is sacrificing alot of his time on work for his family other guys at hs age are just going out and drinking but this guy is true alpha male nothing but respect. 👌👍👏👏👊👊✊✊
jerome san You are right.
He is being responsible. But I've never met a guy who can live without sex. That part is giving me pause...
i'd prefer a guy who worked half the time he did, earned half the money but showed love to me and our son. What good is being married if you never see the person!!?!? their son never sees his dad. honestly money isn't everything, love is much more important.
@@kittyfairy662 💯💯💯👐
She's absolutely gorgeous and she seems so sweet. God, what would I give to have a wife like her. He doesn't deserve her in the slightest.
Ow they're matchy-matchy. It's good that he's responsible but he can be without being boring you know spice up your marriage once in a while.
Something Park how? He's literally working 17 hours a day..
Fu Rii act sweet?
Something Park wow what a way to spice it up..
Wtf! What were you watching?
he might be in an affair ☠☠
This answer why people prefer to have a live-in situation than getting married.
she is so beautiful i really hope he kept his promise cause she deserves someone who would love her i think
Youngja is so cute and that green looks good on her😍😍love her so much
She's stunning, the hell is wrong with him !
This is so obvious i live in africa Angola here its comon for men to have more than one women in his life known as mistress unfortunely a lot of times womens tend to become submessive and used to it. I was raised around my parents and this are symptons that his cheating im sorry but no man no matter what Or how tired he is. its suprising how he doesnt feel the need to touch her. he has someone he dated her for the looks and only liked touching her. he clearly has cheated after the stuff he said to her. i have no doubt
lol yep
Poor woman. I hope that he hasn't cheated on her but wouldn't be surprised if he had.
What if after the show, when they get home, he said, "hey, i wouldn't even want to do it even though you beg for me. Stay away, the show was just a formality."
Maybe he's cheating on her??
He's gay. I mean how could he not want to have skinship with his wife when she's that beautiful.
мαяιє or having an affair
мαяιє he works for 17 hours a day and he said he’s tired....
That's not a good enough excuse. Are you telling me he's too tired to even say a kind word to his wife or even give her a small peak on the lips. How much energy does it take to do that?? She said she doesn't even remember the last time they held hands...Are you fr?? He needs to understand what's more important his family or work and if he can't separate that or at least balance between the two he shouldn't even be married.
terabithia he said she was like a sister to him
are you dumb?
I hope they can have a great marriage together the rest of their life’s and be happy with each other and express their feelings more their a very cute couple they look great together wish them the best of luck
from wat i got from tis video..i think main reason was tat they got married too early...
u'll actually see alot of these happens in young married couple...
I love them and this show so much it’s crazy
I’ve watched this one so many times and I’ll just never understand. She’s so pretty!! Like. Oh my god. How could your perception of her switch with just the snap of a finger?!
that moment when u think of marrying sinb or yuju or any gfriend member so that they wont have to go through this xD
Just laugh at the first 1:00 😂 Dongyeob we know that, we know, just don't get excited by yourself 😂
1:30 dump his ass. That's all I needed to hear before knowing what to do with him. And then 11:47 dude this is the mother of your child just look at her face - it looked like she was ready to cry
This Marriage is over, She is young and pretty go find yourself someone who will love you and your child
you talk about this like its a piece of cake
geh! husband knows his responsibilty for his family. but he doesn't treat his wife very well. such a waste! -___-
AHHHH KIM KYUNG HO!!!! I LOVE!!!!!!!
I feel bad for both of them.. he is only 28, works a lot, has a lot of stress. But that's not a reason to talk to your beloved wife like this.
You get married to your other half to stay together till the day you die and yet you’re shoving her away. See your wife as a trophy that no one can ever have. A precious one that only you can touch
They have a kid together yet he says he sees her as his sister?! Why would you marry her and have sex with her if she was just like a sister?! That's just not right, that poor girl if I was her when he said that I would have burst out into tears right then and there, she needs to leave him and find someone who truly loves her.
Yongja forgot Yuju's name kills all the fire inside me hahahahahhaahahhahahahaah
🙋🏻. From. 🇺🇸. I am so disgusted with the husband because this is a serious subject and he laughs at the inappropriate moments🤬 the “ I don’t remember “ is a lie 👎. To say his wife is not attractive in front of his friends is a very hurtful statement 😤 And he has enough energy after work to pickup the dog for some loving and not give any attention to his wife to me is an abuser mentally 😡. If she doesn’t want to leave him then she should take a months break and see if he misses her and if he doesn’t, he needs counseling. 🤷🏻♀️
He surely have a mistress or a woman he likes at work
She deserves more than that
Hyeongbin is hilarious. I totally get the hugging thing, I go for my girlfriends belly when we hug too. It's so comfy... Lol
Oh my god, no. I would get so embarassed. lol
quixotic sonnet I don't do it in public though! Lol