Op remember how Holly and your brother treated you when they got married and remember not to invite them to your wedding in the future. Hire security if need be to make sure that they aren't there. Tell them that you simply don't want cheaters at your wedding as it's a bad omen.
If you gain a relationship through cheating you're likely to lose that same relationship through cheating. OP's brother and Holly will not last. She will cheat, or he will cheat, or they both will cheat. OP will get the last laugh.
What tf is wrong with some of these people? What sort of dysfunctional family do you have to be to allow that sort of thing to happen to one of your own? Trusting the words of strangers over the words of your own kin? And that creature is not a brother. No real brother would allow for his sister to be treated like trash by anyone(unless the sister is actual trash). If my fiance did that to my sister she would find herself single the moment I found out the truth.
My petty ass would go to the dress shop and get the video to confirm SIL hypeing the dress up n telling you to buy it would then post it along with the receipt n then tag everyone who was at the wedding n then ask brother n SIL n bridesmaids to repeat their storys they were spreading on the wedding day for everyone to see 😂
Biggest AH is the brother who's a cheater. Second is Holly who not only knowingly became an adulteress, but also threw shade on OP for over a year. As for what OP did, yes it was an AH thing to do, but there is a saying about glass houses for a reason, and she only did so when Holly brought it back up.
I'm taking ops side the brother is a scumbag who chose a manipulative homewrecker and the homewrecker should've been disowned by her mom cuz then again the apple doesn't fall far from the tree
This is why u can never be too careful with SIL who marry into the family cause most of the time not always but most is they want to push out or punish or humiliate the sister in order to be number one in the brother/parents eyes everyone always talking about evil/clinging sister to the groom but nobody talks enough about evil SIL who push the siblings away or make them out to be the bad guy just so they can receive sympathy
FYI if you have a brother who is getting married dont mater how kind u THINK the future SIL is make sure you document / collect everything leading up to the wedding day just in case cause she might just throw u under the bus the first chance she gets on her wedding day n yeah her bridesmaids are gonna be there to back her up but hey bet they be looking hella stupid when U play a PowerPoint with all your receipt/messages/videos during your speech at or after the wedding 😂 just saying play stupid games better be prepared for a show ❤
This is what happens wjen you are too nice to the point you cannot stand up for yourself... If you shut her up and confronted her then and there she would jave learned her lesson. And you were enduring all these for who? Your brother who dosent even care abt u or respect you?
Oi!!! Your big "eyes" are universe's gift to all straight man specially to your S.O . If you don't want be noticed by the virtue of having big "eyes" hide them all you want but never be ashamed by them.
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Really pathetic how eveyone ignored that her brother is a pos cheater.
No sane person would say that OP was in the wrong here.
I completely agree
this is like getting bullied for a whole year and finally giving one good punch in return and then everyone gets angry you fought back
Op remember how Holly and your brother treated you when they got married and remember not to invite them to your wedding in the future. Hire security if need be to make sure that they aren't there. Tell them that you simply don't want cheaters at your wedding as it's a bad omen.
"Which is sad but also is kind of not my problem" 😂😂😂
If you gain a relationship through cheating you're likely to lose that same relationship through cheating. OP's brother and Holly will not last. She will cheat, or he will cheat, or they both will cheat. OP will get the last laugh.
People do horrible shit and when someone speaks of it, then that person is the bad guy. HOW THE FUCK COME? Make it make sense.
What tf is wrong with some of these people? What sort of dysfunctional family do you have to be to allow that sort of thing to happen to one of your own? Trusting the words of strangers over the words of your own kin?
And that creature is not a brother. No real brother would allow for his sister to be treated like trash by anyone(unless the sister is actual trash). If my fiance did that to my sister she would find herself single the moment I found out the truth.
Nope. Bet that marriage doesn't last. And don't offer to babysit their kids, either.
My petty ass would go to the dress shop and get the video to confirm SIL hypeing the dress up n telling you to buy it would then post it along with the receipt n then tag everyone who was at the wedding n then ask brother n SIL n bridesmaids to repeat their storys they were spreading on the wedding day for everyone to see 😂
Oh hell naw I be NC with mom and dad and brother
The brother is shit. I feel bad for the ex, I hope she is doing better. IDK why OP went as the bridesmaid.
Nta. The prank was cruel and the brother and sil are both cheaters.
Publicly make a post about what Holly did. Clear your name
Common lets say together “if he/she cheats with you, he/she will cheat on you”
Biggest AH is the brother who's a cheater. Second is Holly who not only knowingly became an adulteress, but also threw shade on OP for over a year.
As for what OP did, yes it was an AH thing to do, but there is a saying about glass houses for a reason, and she only did so when Holly brought it back up.
Not only a cheater but one who didn't take his sister's side
I'm taking ops side the brother is a scumbag who chose a manipulative homewrecker and the homewrecker should've been disowned by her mom cuz then again the apple doesn't fall far from the tree
This is why u can never be too careful with SIL who marry into the family cause most of the time not always but most is they want to push out or punish or humiliate the sister in order to be number one in the brother/parents eyes everyone always talking about evil/clinging sister to the groom but nobody talks enough about evil SIL who push the siblings away or make them out to be the bad guy just so they can receive sympathy
I wouldn’t say she’s the ass but that’s mor3 petty revenge than aita
I wouldn’t have change dresses, if I wore dresses. Don’t have the legs for em. I’m petty
OP FTW
FYI if you have a brother who is getting married dont mater how kind u THINK the future SIL is make sure you document / collect everything leading up to the wedding day just in case cause she might just throw u under the bus the first chance she gets on her wedding day n yeah her bridesmaids are gonna be there to back her up but hey bet they be looking hella stupid when U play a PowerPoint with all your receipt/messages/videos during your speech at or after the wedding 😂 just saying play stupid games better be prepared for a show ❤
Nta
But op could've done things differently,but yeah this way was more effective.
This is what happens wjen you are too nice to the point you cannot stand up for yourself...
If you shut her up and confronted her then and there she would jave learned her lesson. And you were enduring all these for who? Your brother who dosent even care abt u or respect you?
Oi!!!
Your big "eyes" are universe's gift to all straight man specially to your S.O .
If you don't want be noticed by the virtue of having big "eyes" hide them all you want but never be ashamed by them.
OP ITA, but who cares? I'm all for petty revenge, especially from someone legitimately justified. However OP has to live with whatever fallout.
Include some of the comments next time. You would get more subscribers if you include Reddit's reaction.
love the idea...
1. Your brother and your friend weren't married. Holly was not a homewrecker.
The dress. Of course Holly did it on purpose.