12 Insights About Your OCD Control Issues
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ก.พ. 2025
- If you struggle with OCD, you will need to realize that intense control is a major factor that needs to be addressed. With OCD, you live in such a way that you need to maintain a high level of control, with your thoughts, your environment and even your relationships. These control issues keep us in chronic stress, anxiety and exhaustion, but we often don't know any other way. In this broadcast, I want to help you gain discernment in how control issues impact your life and journey of work throught obsessive compulsive struggles.
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HAPPY REFORMATION DAY!
Happy Reformation Day indeed. Amen.
This massage came in the perfect timing. I Shared my intense feelings to my wife that mostly has to do with a lot of worrying and putting myself into a lot of pressure.
I know that I have OCD and Perfectionistic tendencies so the video gave me a much better insight. Now I see things a little bit clearer. Thank you for that. If someone might pray for me I would really appreciate it. Much love to you guys!
Lord, I pray the Power of the Blood of Jesus to cover this man. Rise up, o Spirit of Liberty, for whom the Son sets free is free indeed! May he see & experience that freedom this day as he lets go & trusts in You, his Savior & Lord.
I pray the same for myself & all of us who need help in this area, in Jesus’ Name. Amen!!
In the name of Jesus christ i pray for Nico , i feel what hes going through as i have been dealing with similar things , i pray that through the holy Spirit we are healed and transformed and learn how to have control over our thoughts and mind, I pray that you bring peace and love un to our thoughts and not feel tormented or anxious, in the name of the father, the son and the holy Spirit AMEN❤ AND I PRAY FOR EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD THAT NEEDS JESUS IN THEIR HEARTS 🙏🏾🕊️
I was addicted to meth and opiates for 17 yrs and my life was so out of control. Well actually it was completely controlled by whether I had enough drugs to function or not. Even though I have been sober off those drugs for 5 yrs, I'm still absolutely miserable and your videos are opening my eyes to so many issues I still have that I never realized. This one in particular is hitting home. I'm such a control freak now in every aspect of my life and when things don't go as I have planned, fear and anxiety come in full force and I turn that into thinking God is unhappy with me and punishing me or no longer with me. I so so soooo tired of this to the point I literally just hate life. Really gaining alot of insight from your videos thank you
Thanks!
I tell you man, i got severe mental issues due to wanting to control. Im needing to listen to more songs about not wanting control.
By far, this is the purest, accurate and detailed breakdown of OCD i’ve ever seen to a point I honestly feel better just knowing that at least there’s an explanation i can relate to. Thanks Mr.Mark I really do🙏🏼
Thank you so, so much for your ministry. I feel like I'm drowning trying to find resources that actually address my OCD symptoms through a Christ-centered lens. It's usually either Christian and unhelpful or "manifest your own healing" type messages that actually do address the reality of OCD. I know that Jesus is the answer but you are one of the only people to actually provide legitimate ways of working through these issues. I'm so very grateful for your ministry.
I needed to hear this. I truly wish i had come to these videos much earlier, though who knows, maybe I wouldn't have gotten much out of it before. God works out all things for His good
I never knew that I had these issues until recently I have noticed them.
It's my honor and privilege to be taught what you've learned through your own journey in humility. God bless yall always
Mark, you've been such a blessing from God I was literally scrolling through tik tok comments in a video and someone said to watch Mark DeJesus on youtube and yes indeed I confirmed that I do in fact have OCD, and some may say it's easy to heal (one of them being myself) but it's really a journey in which you literally need to stop being in control, giving it to Jesus and let Him and God heal us. May God keep blessing you and your family, and the Holy Spirit keep talking to you to help heal many with this condition. Blessings!
Keep seeking the Lord and ask him for guidence, and Remember like Mark says Focus on the Love, he loves us no Matter what and we need to love ourselfs, i have been suffering intrusive thoughts but listening to Mark makes me understand It better and not feel bad as those thoughts arent about Who i am, God loves us Jesús loves us and the holy Spirit guides us we just have to keep asking him too and not let those feelings take over ❤
Brother Mark, thank you so much for your ministry and for this video. I have dealt with OCD since I was 8, and your channel has taught me so much truth I never knew. Thank you for representing the love of Christ and ministering on this very needed topic. God bless!
You truly have been there, Mark. You get it. I’ll be using this video as a teaching tool for my partner for them to better understand me within.
thank you for this, mark. i’ve been spinning nonstop ever since the budding of a potential relationship, which i haven’t had in years and especially not a serious one. i keep getting worked up over whether this person will be a good person to be with, what xyz means, i keep feeling like i have to have everything figured out to feel okay. i feel guilty because i know it has made me self-centered to think this way and i am trying to release control back to the Lord. i will try it one day at a time and work on not letting my ocd take control!
Pastor Mark, i seem to draw online and in life people that have big ocd control issues that i keep thinking will help me. My first mistake is thinking that my narcissistic syblings and parents would help me. Man, im terribly does that blow up in my face.
I have control issues + OCD😢 yeap, definitely me 🤦🏻♀️
Thanks yet again :)
This was so timely and helpful! Thank you always for your content and ministry.
Wow, thank you for this, my partner deals with ocd and we are dating, I've been trying to understand this exact thing.
I had OCD but rationalizing it wasn't helping. OCD isn't rational and I was fighting it with the use of reason. I saw a therapist and she helped me get rid of OCD in one session. She just said I would have to "scramble brain signals," and before I knew it, the OCD just ended.
I was skimming through the video to see the 12 points, as I typically do when you post a new video, and I randomly caught your infamous sneeze! 😂 Folks, I have a compilation of Mark’s sneezes on my channel, which I think he was alluding to.
It’s scary cause my ocd gets so bad I start to think if I’m not doing these things it’s not ocd n these are truly my thoughts that’s my biggest fear I love god so much and Jesus they’ve done so much for me so so much🙏
Brother Mark, could you do a video , if you know about this topic, about one being "ashamed" of the reason they started their way to God? Im an "almost Christian" sadly but just because Im ashamed of the reason I got wanting to be a believer, I can psychoanalize myself very well and I know thats the reason Im not a formal Christian, its like I feel acused by myself everytime I go to church or I indulge in faith activities, like Im revealing what I'm hiding somehow and the dark bizarre mess that got me into leaning toward Christianity
And btw yes I have OCD and it makes me unsure about that being the actual reason, maybe some kind of "false memory ocd" but in the end I don't really remember if my reason to lean towards the faith being an atheist was that bizarre fact about myself, Its indeed a part of it surely but Im not sure its the reason and EVERY time I try to pray, read the Bible, go to church, talk to someone at church, study apologetics and theology, etc. my mind goes: "you are only doing all of this to cope and cover your dark past/side". It never lets me in peace, only when Im in a voluntary state of rejection to the faith, not even looking to be a Christian, but if I want to get close to Christ as christians say, it all comes back again, believing Im trying to hide my very dark past and some present flaws under Christianity as a mask
Hi Mark and Melissa! I was wondering if you guys had any insight on losing control over a partner with rocd? I have a fear of abandonment and hurt so it leads me to this need of controlling their thoughts and actions
My control issues are that I feel I can't do anything unless I "feel" good. I don't know how to push myself to do anything when I feel depresses and I am most certainly always depressed. I always have been.. I used to do meth and opiates to feel better until it ruined my entire life and I lost everything I ever loved, now I use Kratom and caffeine to feel "good enough" to function but I now am just so miserable even with those that I don't even know what to do, which feeds my fears, which feeds my addiction. And then all the twisted thoughts and fear and doubt I have about God and Jesus wrapped up in all of it along with the ADHD I'm just a mess but I am dedicated to getting better because I have kids I love that need me
Is it possible to spot on the spot when someone else in your environment has such Bad OCD that it pervades your living?
Is it common with people with OCD too tear up paper break pencils and talk to themselves
I don't know if you'll bother reading this but, what would your advice be for people who have OCD about the Mark of the Beast?
Many OCDers have that as an obsession
@@marktdejesus Knowing your teaching methods on this channel, especially what you say about 'just take a step', I think what you said speaks for itself regarding the question I asked.
Can you do a video about predestination. I just am struggling with feel rejected by God and maybe im someone who will just choose sin and darkness over him. I have such a hard time reading the Bible or even swallowing the words Jesus says. I was reading John 6. “All those the father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.” Verse 38. It feels like it in me to come to him and I worry I won’t or haven’t. “No one can come to the father unless the father has enabled them.” Then in John 8:47 “whoever belongs to God heard what God says l. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God.” I was reading John and I just felt like a Pharisee or someone not believing in Jesus. I don’t get the point of this sometimes, I just wish he would reveal himself to me, it’s just too hard and I can’t keep doing it
A video on predestination would miss the real issue here. OCD is the issue.
I was addicted to meth and opiates for 17 yrs and my life was so out of control. Well actually it was completely controlled by whether I had enough drugs to function or not. Even though I have been sober off those drugs for 5 yrs, I'm still absolutely miserable and your videos are opening my eyes to so many issues I still have that I never realized. This one in particular is hitting home. I'm such a control freak now in every aspect of my life and when things don't go as I have planned, fear and anxiety come in full force and I turn that into thinking God is unhappy with me and punishing me or no longer with me. I so so soooo tired of this to the point I literally just hate life. Really gaining alot of insight from your videos thank you