Mommy didn't raise a pick me

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  • Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook! Today, we’re diving into another series of “It Girl Lessons from It Girls.” In this episode, we explore why you should never wait on a man, inspired by entrepreneur and loving mother Marjorie Harvey.
    Marjorie’s journey with Steve Harvey shows that if it’s meant to be, it will be. They both married different people first, but eventually found their way back to each other. Marjorie didn’t wait around for Steve to become successful; she lived her life. Now, they have a beautiful marriage, and Steve is the successful man he is today, thanks to Marjorie’s support.
    So, ladies…Know your worth, prioritize yourself, and never settle for less. Marjorie's story teaches us to never wait on a man to get his act together or to change. If he wants to be with you, he will be!
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  • @JL-ow5hp
    @JL-ow5hp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    This reminds me of Samantha jones from S*x and the city whith the mindset of “I love you, but I love me more”. It’s not that Marjorie doesn’t love Steve, she probably does but she loves herself more to walk out.

  • @bougiepeaches5497
    @bougiepeaches5497 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    Being called a gold digger is a compliment for me. Only pickmes thinks that it’s an insult.

    • @ShaiLai
      @ShaiLai 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Only pick mes call other girls pick mes for having a different opinion, swear women like you always bring up pick mes everywhere 🙄

    • @bougiepeaches5497
      @bougiepeaches5497 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@ShaiLai oh well cry about it. Men call us gold diggers to manipulate us into letting them gain access to us without any effort. I’m taking my power back by looking at it as a compliment because they can’t handle the fact that we’re not insulted by it.

    • @sundaylibre
      @sundaylibre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@ShaiLaiPick me’s were going to be brought up because of the title of video and the topic babe.

    • @ShaiLai
      @ShaiLai 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@sundaylibre except her comment had no relevance to actual pick mes she just felt like attacking other women bAbEs

    • @mouniiira
      @mouniiira 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@bougiepeaches5497 if *you* want to "take your power back" by feeling "empowered" to be insulted that's on you, there's no need to attack any other girl who doesn't want to. And if men are the problem why bring up other girls? Yall mad weird calling everyone a pick me for no reason

  • @VioletMugabi
    @VioletMugabi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    No playing manipulation mind games. Communicate clearly with your words and actions. Games are for children and we are way too grown for that shit.

  • @Morrocanprincess
    @Morrocanprincess 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Jeff Bezos left for a more conventionally attractive woman. His now fiance is the same age as his ex-wife (both 54). Bezos's ex Mackenzie left with BILLIONS (some she even donated). Most Barbra the Builder, Pick Me women leave with NOTHING but wasted yrs, premature aging, intense bitterness and a bunch of kids they have to work to the bone to take care of! The life of a Pick Me usually is very sad! I LOVE how Marjorie taught Lori to never pedestalize men in relationships. That girl knows she's THE PRIZE.

  • @jaimiejin7992
    @jaimiejin7992 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I love this story so much. She has so much self-respect and she values herself so much that she wouldn't let Steve Harvey walk all over her. And she's not the prettiest woman in my opinion! She stands up for herself. If I asked myself, I've always been someone that strives for the best. Whether I have money or not, I own the fact that I'm a gold digger. It's in me to want the best for myself, and just in case I have children in the future, the best father for my future children. To do that, I must be my own incredible dream girl.

  • @jaimiejin7992
    @jaimiejin7992 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    When I think about it, there's someone who I still think about to this day. We dated for a year, and he's just not financially ready. He let me go and told me that I could date other men, because he's not ready. I have so much respect for him, and that's a man who has a provider core. He wants to provide but he's unable to. And everyone told me not to wait around for him, and I should try to look for someone who's made, who meets the standard of being a provider.

  • @haahmayan9637
    @haahmayan9637 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Me too as a woman I’m a conditional lover my current husband provides everything I need and goes above and beyond he even flew me out the country multiple times and spent $11k to get me straight where we live in here in the Bahamas in the islands ❤ if I was a pickmeisha I’d still be stuck in London putting up with bs 😂 I’m a gold digger through and through!

  • @asenetaoliver
    @asenetaoliver 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    so that’s where Lori gets it from. a boss who knows what she wants

  • @ShardaPawar-qo1wh
    @ShardaPawar-qo1wh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Hi! I am really fan of this channel like I am getting better day by day my mindset is changed I am kinda obsessed with myself but can u make video on anok yai mystique and her personality she literally the most gorgeous supermodel but something about her really captivates people can u plss make the video on it

    • @itgirlplaybook
      @itgirlplaybook  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm so happy for you. I'm not too familiar with Anok Yai but I'm happy to explore your suggestion more

    • @PrettyyAngell
      @PrettyyAngell 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@itgirlplaybook yes!! Anok Yai is a Sudanese model and she is gorgeous 😍

  • @mdas0406
    @mdas0406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Why am I loving this series so much?😍

  • @gabisantos4883
    @gabisantos4883 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    please do elle woods or serena next!!

  • @clarissaywy
    @clarissaywy 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I feel like whenever I tell my girlfriends this, they will all say its 2024, modern women should be independent and also can chase a man if she wants to. I had even gotten into arguments with this. Its sad that a lot of women don't think its possible for a man to provide for her and receive princess treatment, or that its wrong to expect those things. These friends I have really made me seem like a bitch gold digger that every man should beware of. SO glad I found this channel that preaches this to women. What's wrong with wanting the best for ourselves? And if there are girls that get princess treatment, it shows that its possible for all of us.

  • @nazeeyaheeroluwa
    @nazeeyaheeroluwa 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I loved this🩷

  • @leslyarce.
    @leslyarce. 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what if yall the couple that’s together for 30 years like since 15 , how do you support him but not help him

  • @AngelinaA1824
    @AngelinaA1824 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

  • @Halimahk-fu9qx
    @Halimahk-fu9qx 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I thought she cheated on him :"?

  • @shrutitiwari4469
    @shrutitiwari4469 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hiii!! Ily n ur videos, I really need advice frm you!!
    Soo there's this guy, Harry who was very good to me, come up n tall to me always, always noticed even the smallest things abt me was my good friend until now.. I heard him telling his friends that he liked me.. But now there's a sudden shift.. In between he had joined some camp so we couldn't talk much... so since im an extrovert i started talking to othr guys as well n more specific ally with i guy named James tho we were just frnds in fact i treatee James like my brother.. But now ig Harry is jealous n so he doesn't talk much.. Instead now he talks to othr girls n back hugs them(gets close with them) ig he's doing all this just to make me jealous.. So, i didn't talk to him as well cause he was being too tochy with them tho he knew it would make me get angry..however recently we talked about our exam scores n stuff.. But we didn't talk anything personal like we used to do b4.. Since ig ik that he isn't talking to me cause he's jealous should i go n tell him tht James n I are not dating.. So tht we can talk like we used to do. I feel bad as he didn't confirm all this with me n simply started not to talk.. Lemme also give you some background.. I'm not boasting but everyone says tht I'm the prettiest.. So ig im the prettiest girl, well harry is quite handome too n i had a crush on him as well. Many people told me tht we looked good together n we should date n stuff.. So basically they shipped us.
    So I wanna ask you if i should clear this misunderstanding.. Or leave it on him n continue not to talk..
    Pls replyy 🙏🙏
    Btw I'm a new subcriber.. Ur videos r very motivating n encouraging. I love ur positivity.. I hope u gain a lot more subscribers..❤❤

    • @lauragg9121
      @lauragg9121 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello, girl, not the one who you ask for, but hope o give you the answear you need.
      First things first, how old are you guys? And im asking cuz it sounds like some teens doing this, and if not... Well, lemme tell you he's pretty inmature.
      I do understand the feeling of having someone who understands you deeply and values you, thats such a great experience! However, i think that a) if he really knows you, he should know you are an extrovert who loves ppl b) acting out just for jelousy is straight up childish, do you really want that?
      You also need to understand that ppl do get busy, that's pretty normal, but he also needs to understand that if you are interested in someone, you should at least stay un touch, or at least warn that you may be busy and would not answer, like, that's basic bro....
      If you really like this guy, talk to him straight up, don't be mean, but comunicate, the way he answers is going to tell you everything you need to know.
      Hope this helps ❤

  • @Chrisbeth-q4j
    @Chrisbeth-q4j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Marjorie cheated on him with his security guard 😂 😂 you’re not educated on there topics

    • @itgirlplaybook
      @itgirlplaybook  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      the rumor that was cleared up?

    • @paulacurrie2441
      @paulacurrie2441 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@itgirlplaybook 2:52 I thinks it’s the “now they have a beautiful marriage” part for me….chile please!

  • @A25665
    @A25665 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, you don't even know the correct meaning of Gold digger😅