Also when it showed the dad banging his project with a bat and Then falling down and Bart picks up the bat and threw dad says “do it” and then Bart sets the bat down and carried the dad to the bed and the dad sleeps and Bart says “you have questions I can show you how” and then goes upstairs and that one time when Bart was at the summer church camp, the preacher said write in ur notebook on someone you forgive so Bart goes upstairs and writes “my dad” on the blanks
I love this clip because you can see repentance on his dads face. And that is beautiful . I'm 67 years old, it took me 56 years to get over what my dad done to me and my brothers and sister, I forgave him and then gave him Mercy and Grace , just like God did to me
My father was verbally abusive when I was growing up because he was doing drugs. When he was not doing drugs, he was nice and kind. He and my mom divorced in 2003 and I only got to see him twice. Once close to the end of 2003 and once in the beginning of 2004. I saw him back in May of 2017 at my sister's graduation on his side of the family. In 2018, I sent him a video of me playing the guitar and he told me that he was proud of me and as I got close to the end of the message he said this. I'm sorry I messed up over a decade of our time. I was stupid and didn't know what I had. Your mom gave me plenty of chances and I still screwed up. I'm to blame for that lost time. I miss you buddy and I love you. I was so happy when he told me that. I cried tears of joy.
@wadeunderhile7977 I can understand it took you that long and why. Believe it or not, my father and I weren’t on the very best of terms. In fact, we’ve had a lot more than our shares of ups and downs and all and whatnot, especially with his obsessions and all and whatnot. I remember one December 2010, I was going through momentums of stress, anxieties, hardships and trauma that went on for a year and a half, what with the broken promises and manipulative guilt and whatnot. That night, I was strolling through online quizzes to take to even get off of the hardships and with the broken promises and whatnot, and my father being so obsessed with his ideologies and ideas of so-called “jokes” and all, I was trying to get him to stop, and I didn’t even raise my voice, and he got all belligerent at me with his own yelling at me and falsely accusing me of yelling at him which I didn’t, and while I was trying to resolve the whole thing. He got all belligerent with me and sent me to bed and told me I should be mad at myself and for what “I did”, which I didn’t do. It took every ounce of my energy not to hit him, and under his manipulation and insane ideology, I scraped my arm with pumice stone. The years went by and he still continued his so-called jokes and all and his obsessions and all. In September 2016, he had a stroke. He was already losing his vision, and he started having questions about himself and amongst himself he couldn’t seem to find answers himself to. Time flew by and we still had some heated tension, even though it wasn’t really because of me or even me at all, or even all me, though the tension didn’t last very long. However, I never thought I’d be able to confront him on what I could still remember that one December 2010. Long story short, I told him the whole thing and how I remember exactly how it happened and how it gave me nightmares and the nightmares still followed me and even the memories of the nightmares when awake and all. He seemingly didn’t even remember it at all. He told meme, “If that was me that did that, then I’m sorry. And how ever long that’s been, I don’t remember any of it. And I had no idea you didn’t yell at me that day. And I’m sorry that I ever told everyone and even the family the lies and swore they were true. I hope you can find it you and forgive me of it, because I never wanted there to be any trouble for you, especially between us, and even by me.” After thinking it and processing it and realizing that he forgot all about what happened that December 2010, I looked him in the eye and said, “Yes, Dad. I forgive you.” Earlier this year, February 9th, 2023, my pops died of congestive heart failure with a ruptured spleen from his respiratory distress. Just the other day, I was thinking about him and my mom and everything ever been through and all. I even started remembering everything that happened and the time to where I confronted him about that December 2010 conflict and him telling me he’s sorry it ever happened and asked if I could forgive him and I said I do. The other night, remembering it all and all that, I broke down in tears. I realize now that when people really do show you that they have changed and they ask if you can forgive them, forgiveness is for everyone.
J. Michael Finley needs to start being in movies more. He is really good at acting. Anyways this movie is so sad and so is this scene, but it is also a good movie.
funny how the mom gets a free ticket in the movie after leaving her son with an abusive Dad... she was no better and even worse to abandon him.... At least the Dad faced his demons and even if it was just in the end...
I felt so bad for him as he was stumbling through his words. He had to start somewhere. He could have gotten really upset and relapsed easily when Bart threw away his letters, but he kept his composure and remembered the change he was trying to start.
This scene is so sad because Bart's dad puts in his best effort to bond with him and make things right but yet Bart still can't find it in his heart to forgive him and walks out on him until he discovers that his dad is dying of pancreatic cancer.
@@lifeofasurvivor5555 Thank you. That's what a lot of people seem to forget. At one time or another in your life you desperately want God's forgiveness. So if He's willing to forgive us then how can we have the AUDACITY to withhold forgiveness from others? We have to try to follow God's example even though we are nowhere near as perfect as He is.
@@jarodarevalo7986 But we are no better than God is. And Jesus is the only one who NEVER sinned. Everyone needs forgiveness from Him when tbry do evil deeds. But when we refuse to forgive others, it is like we are telling Jesus that His sacrifice for us wasn't good enough for us. Because compared to us, He went through the most agony and pain and heartbreak and torture humanly possible. He was willing to do it though because of His great love for us. If He had to go through all that and was still willing to forgive and even cried, "Father forgive them for they know not what they do!", then how can we act liks somebody has done too much to us for us to be willing to forgive them? If Jesus can forgive us, then He gives us the grace to forgive others for their trespasses against us.
I'm devastated right now I'm 22 just getting my start in life and just learned a few weeks ago my dad most likely has prostate cancer I despised the way he abused my mom and I growing up part of me just wants to black his number and let him rot but I still love my dad too I can't give up on him
My sister used to treat me really badly. But as the years went by, she tried to make up for how she treated me and I threw it in her face exactly like how Bart did to Arthur. But that was over 10 years ago. Me and my siblings are better than ever now
I was doing good the entire movie but it was hard to get through this part. How many of us would do anything to have this kind of sit down with our old man? This scene hit home for me
This is how I see me and my dad when me and him are sitting at the table across from each other him on the left side and me on the right side straight. Straight down the middle. When Bart says “What are you doing?” “What is this”?. Every time when Bart, says “What are you doing “? “What is this “? It reminds me of me saying this to my biological dad. I remember one time my dad threw a glass plate at me. Hit me, pushed me towards and against the wall and door. I hit my head on the door knob, and my face hit the floor really hard and badly. And the bad part is that I have seizures. So my dad can get arrested for hitting me and punching me and pushing. My dad, also almost punched me in the eye, but he didn’t he just raised his fist all the way close close enough to my eyes and to my eyelids. I’m glad I moved out of my dad’s house. Thanks, GOD for living with my mom now.
...Why do we always want to gloss over characters' flaws, I wonder... Sure, we hate those flaws, but they're what make us human and relatable. It's necessary to show people messing up and trudging through difficult stuff because when they decide to trust God's way of doing things and push through all of that pain and still walk in a way the Lord would approve of... Those victories are the ones we should look up to and aspire towards.
Every time I watch this scene in the movie. It reminds me of me and my dad always having an awkward conversation moments and hesitating to talk about anything. I remember one time my dad threw a glass plate at me not on my head but at me.
He wanted to get the jeep running with his son, the his Dad wanted to know his son had read his letter that apparently he just tossed out…the Dad here is still trying to be a father but he is sorry for the times he apparently also got angry. Such a powerful movie. Forgiveness is what exactly happens through the young man’s music. And I believe God gave him the power to forgive his father. Amen.
This kind of reminds of the movie Moonlight where Chiron confronts his mother about not being there for him during his childhood. I can see the parallel a little bit, which makes this scene very powerful.
That was a hard thing to watch because my dad died when I was Age 8 and my dad was like his dad when I was little but I still for gave my dad you should always be happy to have a dad before but he is gone or your mom could you only have one set of Paris you can never get them back when they die so that’s why I start crying when he was screaming at the dad
I never knew my dad he used to beat on my mom and with my anger issues I have i get aggressive not towards my mom but my surroundings and I see I'm slowly turning into my dad and God is always there with me he is continuing to mold me daily 💓
That part and when Bart told him to give on his dream that keeps him from what’s real and the look of hurt on his dad’s face absolutely cut so deep like a knife.😢😢
While the story of Bart and his father's abusive behavior is exaggerated, it actually is true that Bart's father once beat him that badly. In real life, however, he sent Bart to live with his aunt for a while because he felt guilty and didn't want to endanger his son further. I kinda wish the movie would've shown more about how dynamic Bart's father's personality was. He was a "teddy bear" according to his wife, until he suffered a head injury and woke up form an 8 week coma with a terrible temper. His abusive behavior was also not the reason his wife left (they divorced when Bart was 8), and his abusive behavior was also not consistently long-standing. Bart did suffer great abuse, but does recall good memories with his father (though his brother only has good memories) and genuinely believed him to be the greatest man he'd ever known when he passed.
After all is said and done, it's never to late to ask or show kindness to mend fences. It won't ever be forgotten, but with time it may be able to forgive someone, none of us are perfect. Scares of life some of them never heal, but there may come a time where healing can begin to lessen the hurt. I am beyond sorry for anyone that has those deep settled scares, l was blessed with good parents. If anyone doesn't find someone to talk to. Priests don't cost nothing, true blue friend doesn't cost anything. If you can not find someone ask someone. God doesn't cost anything. When someone makes the comment why does He (God) let things like that happen, my response is He doesn't however time on this earth does. It's know as free will. I know not all will agree with me and that's ok. One day it will all be made right, and once again find someone to confide in. Life might just have a light on at the end of a very dark tunnel. I pray for all of us, past, present, and future people. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing.
This was definitely one of the hardest scenes to watch in any movie ever… not only does his dad try to make things right, his son had no clue his dad was dying of cancer. This scene makes me tear up every time especially since we’re raising two boys, 1, and 2 years old. Great movie. One of the best ever made.
..was watching this movie today...crying..my wife told to see therapy for a hard childhood like Bart...i told her that only the Lord can heal these wounds and listening to this song have given me the peace to go on and be a better father for my kids.....
My dad worked very hard 15 hrs a day there were times we got mad at each other but I miss him everyday I'm sure many kids have gone threw what Burt did very sad
This reminds me of my father so much in a sense that he has survived 4 cancers before and me being the youngest son thought i was the useless one yet i try to be the most useful one
If Bart didn't think it was safe - a good idea - to come back in the first place, he shouldn't have - he didn't have to - in the first place, but he did! LOVE and FORGIVE, otherwise, you will never be safe (saved)!
This is the honest opinion I am so glad they reconciled before he died my mom did some things to me gave me booze at nine years old and at 12 years old and took me out of school for two months and she was verbally abusive I love my mom but that’s just the honest truth❤ watching this makes me really think of that I need to do this with my mom someday I guess I’m a unicorn because I actually still love my mom after all of this❤ I love you mom :)
I have an abusive mom she tears me apart with her words. Honestly I can relate to Bart. We have 2 parents the only set of people in the world who aren’t supposed to hurt us and that’s why it’s so hard for us to forgive them when they do. See that’s what people who don’t come from dysfunctional families don’t understand. I’m not bashing on these people they just don’t understand.
@@zacharycarrier2890 He's not the only physically abusive asshole in the world. My point is, he is trying to change and he even told his son that he wanted to make things right between the two of them. He realized how he screwed up. Now how would you feel if God refused to forgive you for your trespasses against others? Because that is just exactly what will happen when you refuse to forgive someone for their trespasses against you. It's that simple and that's exactly how God works. If you carry unforgiveness and hatred in your heart, then have the AUDACITY to ask God to forgive you when you haven't forgiven others? I'm sorry to say but that's pretty much being a hypocrite.
Little bit of advice: lots of people base their songs of of past experiences; and sadly, lots of people have bad past experiences. I am willing to bet, "Walk the Line" wasn't the first with this story style.
My dad was a drunk and you to get mad and break stuff! Me and my brothers and sister would protect our mom! Now as a 19! I would still argue with my dad but sometimes he acts like this and it’s so hard for me to believe he change! This scene was hard cause I watched it with my dad but it’s hard to trust him again!!!😞
I'm sorry but for all of this I still believe he is a complete hypocrite. He was unwilling to forgive his dad until he found out the man was dying? Yeah....why does that change anything? I mean the old man could have easily dropped dead after that conversation from a heart attack and fatboy would have been left with the knowledge that he should have let go of his anger as God intended, but failed to do so. If so would it have been more of an awakening? Yes, I know that the human psyche doesn't permit us to completely compartmentalize our emotions and logic, but forgiveness is an absolute. No half-measures. The whole "God forgives, I can't" isn't walking the true path. You do, or you do not.
You forgive if you have too. Not everybody believes what their parents have to believe, especially about GOD. Who cares? He chose his path and the father doesn't know how to talk to his son. I do that too if my father wasn't around.
Sometimes its easy to say when u havent been thru it if u havent.ive been thru ALOT of abuse n it took God to help me to forgive let go n get healed of it.some wounds are oceans deep while others a just ant bite
You aren't in any position to judge, any dad or mother who walks out on their kid, fuck em, I hope they die and burn in hell for eternity, I wouldn't forgive, and don't give me that God forgives so I should to bullshit, not everybody has to forgive, some don't deserve it, father was at least trying to make amends but he doesn't deserve forgiveness, abandoning your family immediately deems you a degenerate
It wasn't just the fact his dad was dying that changed his mind - it was the fact he war realizing his dad was truly being sincere. And for now on, simple thing I want to you do: NEVER yell or get upset or ANYTHING the next time people cut you off on the road, speed past you, wreck into you, treat you bad, etc. I'm sure you will come back with "I don't any ways - and I HIGHLY doubt that. We are humans, we are flawed. To act other wise is unkind to others and possibly acting as though you are better than others.
It's easy to say, if you're not at that situation. Being abandoned by true parents is not that easy. In your heart you forgive them but the love you have for them is completely different. It's like you missed them but the feelings towards them are like normal and like it's okay without them. It's so awkward feelings. Deep sadness from your childhood will stay in your heart probably forever. But forgiveness is there.
I'm sorry but for all of this I still believe he is a complete hypocrite. He was unwilling to forgive his dad until he found out the man was dying? Yeah....why does that change anything? I mean the old man could have easily dropped dead after that conversation from a heart attack and fatboy would have been left with the knowledge that he should have let go of his anger as God intended, but failed to do so. If so would it have been more of an awakening? Yes, I know that the human psyche doesn't permit us to completely compartmentalize our emotions and logic, but forgiveness is an absolute. No half-measures. The whole "God forgives, I can't" isn't walking the true path. You do, or you do not.
What are you talking about dude? You're missing the point of all this Bart was mad at his father for all the abuse and pain he cause from when he was a little kid till Now When his father was listening to his son singing on the radio he realized that His son had something that made him sad and disappointed that he didn't see it in him before when bart came back home his father was asking for forgiveness and bart was still mad at him you can tell that God was like bart you need to forgive your father now bart went back inside his house and went to the barn where his father was his father tells him all the things that he felt sorry about bart actually forgave his father before he died from the heart attack bart even said at his concerts he didn't know God can turn someone that he hated into someone he wanted to be.
@@williamgaines9879 All good points. I suppose I just look at it this way, his father asked for his forgiveness and Bart threw it back in his face until he saw the letter and the diagnosis. I believe that love and forgiveness, as well as hate and anger, are absolutes with no middle ground. That's why it is better not to hate. That eats you up.
I totally agree. Being angry doesn't give you the license to condemn someone, hold a grudge against them forever and keep refusing to forgive. I can't stand it when someone claims to forgive me but then they keep throwing what I did back up in my face. Bart had some serious HATRED issues here.
This was the hardest scene to watch of the whole movie
I lost it watching the scene where Bart talks about his dad 😭 "Let That Pain Become Your Inspiration" ⛪
Yep
For sure
Especially when the dad asked if he could give him a chance and bart said no
Also when it showed the dad banging his project with a bat and Then falling down and Bart picks up the bat and threw dad says “do it” and then Bart sets the bat down and carried the dad to the bed and the dad sleeps and Bart says “you have questions I can show you how” and then goes upstairs and that one time when Bart was at the summer church camp, the preacher said write in ur notebook on someone you forgive so Bart goes upstairs and writes “my dad” on the blanks
I love this clip because you can see repentance on his dads face. And that is beautiful . I'm 67 years old, it took me 56 years to get over what my dad done to me and my brothers and sister, I forgave him and then gave him Mercy and Grace , just like God did to me
My father was verbally abusive when I was growing up because he was doing drugs. When he was not doing drugs, he was nice and kind. He and my mom divorced in 2003 and I only got to see him twice. Once close to the end of 2003 and once in the beginning of 2004. I saw him back in May of 2017 at my sister's graduation on his side of the family. In 2018, I sent him a video of me playing the guitar and he told me that he was proud of me and as I got close to the end of the message he said this. I'm sorry I messed up over a decade of our time. I was stupid and didn't know what I had. Your mom gave me plenty of chances and I still screwed up. I'm to blame for that lost time. I miss you buddy and I love you. I was so happy when he told me that. I cried tears of joy.
@wadeunderhile7977 I can understand it took you that long and why. Believe it or not, my father and I weren’t on the very best of terms. In fact, we’ve had a lot more than our shares of ups and downs and all and whatnot, especially with his obsessions and all and whatnot.
I remember one December 2010, I was going through momentums of stress, anxieties, hardships and trauma that went on for a year and a half, what with the broken promises and manipulative guilt and whatnot. That night, I was strolling through online quizzes to take to even get off of the hardships and with the broken promises and whatnot, and my father being so obsessed with his ideologies and ideas of so-called “jokes” and all, I was trying to get him to stop, and I didn’t even raise my voice, and he got all belligerent at me with his own yelling at me and falsely accusing me of yelling at him which I didn’t, and while I was trying to resolve the whole thing. He got all belligerent with me and sent me to bed and told me I should be mad at myself and for what “I did”, which I didn’t do. It took every ounce of my energy not to hit him, and under his manipulation and insane ideology, I scraped my arm with pumice stone. The years went by and he still continued his so-called jokes and all and his obsessions and all. In September 2016, he had a stroke. He was already losing his vision, and he started having questions about himself and amongst himself he couldn’t seem to find answers himself to. Time flew by and we still had some heated tension, even though it wasn’t really because of me or even me at all, or even all me, though the tension didn’t last very long. However, I never thought I’d be able to confront him on what I could still remember that one December 2010. Long story short, I told him the whole thing and how I remember exactly how it happened and how it gave me nightmares and the nightmares still followed me and even the memories of the nightmares when awake and all. He seemingly didn’t even remember it at all. He told meme, “If that was me that did that, then I’m sorry. And how ever long that’s been, I don’t remember any of it. And I had no idea you didn’t yell at me that day. And I’m sorry that I ever told everyone and even the family the lies and swore they were true. I hope you can find it you and forgive me of it, because I never wanted there to be any trouble for you, especially between us, and even by me.” After thinking it and processing it and realizing that he forgot all about what happened that December 2010, I looked him in the eye and said, “Yes, Dad. I forgive you.”
Earlier this year, February 9th, 2023, my pops died of congestive heart failure with a ruptured spleen from his respiratory distress.
Just the other day, I was thinking about him and my mom and everything ever been through and all. I even started remembering everything that happened and the time to where I confronted him about that December 2010 conflict and him telling me he’s sorry it ever happened and asked if I could forgive him and I said I do. The other night, remembering it all and all that, I broke down in tears. I realize now that when people really do show you that they have changed and they ask if you can forgive them, forgiveness is for everyone.
You both are real Follower of Jesus Christ.. Amen Amen
Rub-a-dub-dub thanks for the grub. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That part cracked me up when I saw this in theaters.
Me too Curtis. I burst it out laughing 😂
@@jeffreyhunter4966 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gets me everytime🤣🤣🤣
Agree I was crying 😭 emotional but in that scene we was laughing 😂❤
J. Michael Finley needs to start being in movies more. He is really good at acting. Anyways this movie is so sad and so is this scene, but it is also a good movie.
I’m guessing his intention was never to be an actor. Just kinda happened. Who knows?
“I’m gonna say grace.”
“What?”
That was amazing. His reaction was what we the audience all felt. Wait, is that happening?
funny how the mom gets a free ticket in the movie after leaving her son with an abusive Dad... she was no better and even worse to abandon him.... At least the Dad faced his demons and even if it was just in the end...
I felt so bad for him as he was stumbling through his words. He had to start somewhere. He could have gotten really upset and relapsed easily when Bart threw away his letters, but he kept his composure and remembered the change he was trying to start.
This scene is so sad because Bart's dad puts in his best effort to bond with him and make things right but yet Bart still can't find it in his heart to forgive him and walks out on him until he discovers that his dad is dying of pancreatic cancer.
Yeah. It does say in the Bible that you are supposed to forgive people.
@@lifeofasurvivor5555 Thank you. That's what a lot of people seem to forget. At one time or another in your life you desperately want God's forgiveness. So if He's willing to forgive us then how can we have the AUDACITY to withhold forgiveness from others? We have to try to follow God's example even though we are nowhere near as perfect as He is.
@@patriciaedwards6793 but were not angels. Were humans. Sometimes we say "fuck forgiveness" bc of the trauma
@@jarodarevalo7986 But we are no better than God is. And Jesus is the only one who NEVER sinned. Everyone needs forgiveness from Him when tbry do evil deeds. But when we refuse to forgive others, it is like we are telling Jesus that His sacrifice for us wasn't good enough for us. Because compared to us, He went through the most agony and pain and heartbreak and torture humanly possible. He was willing to do it though because of His great love for us. If He had to go through all that and was still willing to forgive and even cried, "Father forgive them for they know not what they do!", then how can we act liks somebody has done too much to us for us to be willing to forgive them? If Jesus can forgive us, then He gives us the grace to forgive others for their trespasses against us.
He's under no obligation to forgive his father. That's incredibly selfish thinking.
I was so worried during this scene thinking Bart's dad was gonna go off on him.
I'm glad he made up with his dad before he passed away
I'm devastated right now I'm 22 just getting my start in life and just learned a few weeks ago my dad most likely has prostate cancer I despised the way he abused my mom and I growing up part of me just wants to black his number and let him rot but I still love my dad too I can't give up on him
I’ve never held back tears like I did in this movie
I didnt hold them back 😅
I am still praying for this moment with my mom. 😢 Im not forcing it anymore. Im happy without her in my life.
This scene makes me bawl
This scean was so good I’m happy that this was in there. This scene completely shows how god can do great things I just hope my dad will change to
My sister used to treat me really badly. But as the years went by, she tried to make up for how she treated me and I threw it in her face exactly like how Bart did to Arthur. But that was over 10 years ago. Me and my siblings are better than ever now
I was doing good the entire movie but it was hard to get through this part. How many of us would do anything to have this kind of sit down with our old man? This scene hit home for me
This is how I see me and my dad when me and him are sitting at the table across from each other him on the left side and me on the right side straight. Straight down the middle. When Bart says “What are you doing?” “What is this”?. Every time when Bart, says “What are you doing “? “What is this “? It reminds me of me saying this to my biological dad. I remember one time my dad threw a glass plate at me. Hit me, pushed me towards and against the wall and door. I hit my head on the door knob, and my face hit the floor really hard and badly. And the bad part is that I have seizures. So my dad can get arrested for hitting me and punching me and pushing. My dad, also almost punched me in the eye, but he didn’t he just raised his fist all the way close close enough to my eyes and to my eyelids. I’m glad I moved out of my dad’s house. Thanks, GOD for living with my mom now.
They need more scenes like this in christain movies.
...Why do we always want to gloss over characters' flaws, I wonder... Sure, we hate those flaws, but they're what make us human and relatable. It's necessary to show people messing up and trudging through difficult stuff because when they decide to trust God's way of doing things and push through all of that pain and still walk in a way the Lord would approve of... Those victories are the ones we should look up to and aspire towards.
Every time I watch this scene in the movie. It reminds me of me and my dad always having an awkward conversation moments and hesitating to talk about anything. I remember one time my dad threw a glass plate at me not on my head but at me.
He wanted to get the jeep running with his son, the his Dad wanted to know his son had read his letter that apparently he just tossed out…the Dad here is still trying to be a father but he is sorry for the times he apparently also got angry. Such a powerful movie. Forgiveness is what exactly happens through the young man’s music. And I believe God gave him the power to forgive his father. Amen.
This kind of reminds of the movie Moonlight where Chiron confronts his mother about not being there for him during his childhood. I can see the parallel a little bit, which makes this scene very powerful.
That was a hard thing to watch because my dad died when I was Age 8 and my dad was like his dad when I was little but I still for gave my dad you should always be happy to have a dad before but he is gone or your mom could you only have one set of Paris you can never get them back when they die so that’s why I start crying when he was screaming at the dad
One of the best scenes... 😭♥️♥️
I never knew my dad he used to beat on my mom and with my anger issues I have i get aggressive not towards my mom but my surroundings and I see I'm slowly turning into my dad and God is always there with me he is continuing to mold me daily 💓
God bless you
God has a wonderful life planned for you
“Rub a dub dub. Thanks for the grub” made me and mom laugh.
This scene is amazing and heartbreaking 🥺
The hardest part in that whole scene... (makes me cry and really humbles me) : "God can forgive you...
I can't" (Bart)
And by saying that, he's professing to be better than God. Even though God can forgive him, he CAN'T forgive him?? That's being self-righteous
@@patriciaedwards6793 thank you so much for this comment I had not seen it like this you open up a whole new perspective
What happened to Barts mom? She wasn’t mentioned after she left when Bart was a kid and she wasn’t at Arthur’s funeral.
She wasn't at his funeral because apparently she never loved him
Sure Bart is in shock, his dad has changed for the good ,it’s hard for anyone to believe that his father is good now, why,😢😊
That expression Arthur gave when Bart told him he threw his letters away
That part and when Bart told him to give on his dream that keeps him from what’s real and the look of hurt on his dad’s face absolutely cut so deep like a knife.😢😢
I dont hear much credit to J. Michael Finley when they won an award. I hope they gave him some props too.
His daddy treat him like that no excuse he needs to be accountable for his actions...
sad but true
donici bianca yeah it’s hard to heal from that. I understand. God helps us to heal and forgive. Hard process believe me
yes indeed.
Healing is a hard process but ....this movie is very based on Faith sometimes healing is good but ...his memories are his own...
forgiveness it is good for your own sanity but sometimes forget not.
He was held accountable for his actions. Pancreatic cancer is no joke.
Is true history but is many father snd mother hsve bad relation with their kid, but God is restore family.
While the story of Bart and his father's abusive behavior is exaggerated, it actually is true that Bart's father once beat him that badly. In real life, however, he sent Bart to live with his aunt for a while because he felt guilty and didn't want to endanger his son further.
I kinda wish the movie would've shown more about how dynamic Bart's father's personality was. He was a "teddy bear" according to his wife, until he suffered a head injury and woke up form an 8 week coma with a terrible temper. His abusive behavior was also not the reason his wife left (they divorced when Bart was 8), and his abusive behavior was also not consistently long-standing. Bart did suffer great abuse, but does recall good memories with his father (though his brother only has good memories) and genuinely believed him to be the greatest man he'd ever known when he passed.
Why would the mother of Bart abandon Bart and his father
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After all is said and done, it's never to late to ask or show kindness to mend fences. It won't ever be forgotten, but with time it may be able to forgive someone, none of us are perfect. Scares of life some of them never heal, but there may come a time where healing can begin to lessen the hurt. I am beyond sorry for anyone that has those deep settled scares, l was blessed with good parents. If anyone doesn't find someone to talk to. Priests don't cost nothing, true blue friend doesn't cost anything. If you can not find someone ask someone. God doesn't cost anything. When someone makes the comment why does He (God) let things like that happen, my response is He doesn't however time on this earth does. It's know as free will. I know not all will agree with me and that's ok. One day it will all be made right, and once again find someone to confide in. Life might just have a light on at the end of a very dark tunnel. I pray for all of us, past, present, and future people. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing.
This was definitely one of the hardest scenes to watch in any movie ever… not only does his dad try to make things right, his son had no clue his dad was dying of cancer. This scene makes me tear up every time especially since we’re raising two boys, 1, and 2 years old. Great movie. One of the best ever made.
..was watching this movie today...crying..my wife told to see therapy for a hard childhood like Bart...i told her that only the Lord can heal these wounds and listening to this song have given me the peace to go on and be a better father for my kids.....
Neither can I. I couldn’t do this with my dad. After all he did, I will never forgive him.
My dad worked very hard 15 hrs a day there were times we got mad at each other but I miss him everyday I'm sure many kids have gone threw what Burt did very sad
I always thought my dad would have a happy ending, too. Didn't happen for me, but glad it did for you. Can't wait to see you March 31!
When I first seen the movie. I balled like a baby. Oh this scene was so powerful
This reminds me of my father so much in a sense that he has survived 4 cancers before and me being the youngest son thought i was the useless one yet i try to be the most useful one
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Always forgiven
Who should I blame the abusing dad or the son
Dad, shouldn't have walked out on the son, I understand the sons pain and resentment but he didn't make the situation any better
I cried from this...
If Bart didn't think it was safe - a good idea - to come back in the first place, he shouldn't have - he didn't have to - in the first place, but he did! LOVE and FORGIVE, otherwise, you will never be safe (saved)!
this part made me cry so much :O :(
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This is the honest opinion I am so glad they reconciled before he died my mom did some things to me gave me booze at nine years old and at 12 years old and took me out of school for two months and she was verbally abusive I love my mom but that’s just the honest truth❤ watching this makes me really think of that I need to do this with my mom someday I guess I’m a unicorn because I actually still love my mom after all of this❤ I love you mom :)
God is good.
I’ve heard the song witch is my favorite but I have not seen the movie
The som sure looks cool 😎 with a beard!
He has the best dad ever he cook him a kings feast for breakfast
Reminds me of the movie "Brennan"
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Why couldn't he be more willing to forgive his dad than this?
He abused him and broke a plate over his head i can understand why he would hesitate.
I have an abusive mom she tears me apart with her words. Honestly I can relate to Bart. We have 2 parents the only set of people in the world who aren’t supposed to hurt us and that’s why it’s so hard for us to forgive them when they do. See that’s what people who don’t come from dysfunctional families don’t understand. I’m not bashing on these people they just don’t understand.
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Because he's a physically abusive asshole?
@@zacharycarrier2890 He's not the only physically abusive asshole in the world. My point is, he is trying to change and he even told his son that he wanted to make things right between the two of them. He realized how he screwed up. Now how would you feel if God refused to forgive you for your trespasses against others? Because that is just exactly what will happen when you refuse to forgive someone for their trespasses against you. It's that simple and that's exactly how God works. If you carry unforgiveness and hatred in your heart, then have the AUDACITY to ask God to forgive you when you haven't forgiven others? I'm sorry to say but that's pretty much being a hypocrite.
It feels like this is a re ripoff of walk the line johnny cash. abusive child hood sing career rant at abusive dad. It feels like it.
This is based off a true story
I know
@@rileysklaymovies9315 wym you know? You sound like you're saying barts life is a rip off of another persons life
I’m not saying that I’m saying they have a similar Back story Bart and Johnny cash
Little bit of advice: lots of people base their songs of of past experiences; and sadly, lots of people have bad past experiences.
I am willing to bet, "Walk the Line" wasn't the first with this story style.
I LOVE THIS MOVIE 🍿
so cute how his dad changed
Woah y u cut out where he get hit wit plate
That was a different scene.
My dad was a drunk and you to get mad and break stuff! Me and my brothers and sister would protect our mom! Now as a 19! I would still argue with my dad but sometimes he acts like this and it’s so hard for me to believe he change! This scene was hard cause I watched it with my dad but it’s hard to trust him again!!!😞
I'm sorry but for all of this I still believe he is a complete hypocrite. He was unwilling to forgive his dad until he found out the man was dying? Yeah....why does that change anything? I mean the old man could have easily dropped dead after that conversation from a heart attack and fatboy would have been left with the knowledge that he should have let go of his anger as God intended, but failed to do so. If so would it have been more of an awakening?
Yes, I know that the human psyche doesn't permit us to completely compartmentalize our emotions and logic, but forgiveness is an absolute. No half-measures. The whole "God forgives, I can't" isn't walking the true path. You do, or you do not.
You forgive if you have too. Not everybody believes what their parents have to believe, especially about GOD. Who cares? He chose his path and the father doesn't know how to talk to his son. I do that too if my father wasn't around.
Sometimes its easy to say when u havent been thru it if u havent.ive been thru ALOT of abuse n it took God to help me to forgive let go n get healed of it.some wounds are oceans deep while others a just ant bite
You aren't in any position to judge, any dad or mother who walks out on their kid, fuck em, I hope they die and burn in hell for eternity, I wouldn't forgive, and don't give me that God forgives so I should to bullshit, not everybody has to forgive, some don't deserve it, father was at least trying to make amends but he doesn't deserve forgiveness, abandoning your family immediately deems you a degenerate
It wasn't just the fact his dad was dying that changed his mind - it was the fact he war realizing his dad was truly being sincere.
And for now on, simple thing I want to you do: NEVER yell or get upset or ANYTHING the next time people cut you off on the road, speed past you, wreck into you, treat you bad, etc.
I'm sure you will come back with "I don't any ways - and I HIGHLY doubt that. We are humans, we are flawed. To act other wise is unkind to others and possibly acting as though you are better than others.
It's easy to say, if you're not at that situation. Being abandoned by true parents is not that easy. In your heart you forgive them but the love you have for them is completely different. It's like you missed them but the feelings towards them are like normal and like it's okay without them. It's so awkward feelings. Deep sadness from your childhood will stay in your heart probably forever. But forgiveness is there.
I'm sorry but for all of this I still believe he is a complete hypocrite. He was unwilling to forgive his dad until he found out the man was dying? Yeah....why does that change anything? I mean the old man could have easily dropped dead after that conversation from a heart attack and fatboy would have been left with the knowledge that he should have let go of his anger as God intended, but failed to do so. If so would it have been more of an awakening?
Yes, I know that the human psyche doesn't permit us to completely compartmentalize our emotions and logic, but forgiveness is an absolute. No half-measures. The whole "God forgives, I can't" isn't walking the true path. You do, or you do not.
So you would respect your family because god made your family beat you up like a dog? You're sick in the head man. Get some help.
What are you talking about dude?
You're missing the point of all this
Bart was mad at his father for all the abuse and pain he cause from when he was a little kid till Now
When his father was listening to his son singing on the radio he realized that His son had something that made him sad and disappointed that he didn't see it in him before when bart came back home his father was asking for forgiveness and bart was still mad at him you can tell that God was like bart you need to forgive your father now bart went back inside his house and went to the barn where his father was his father tells him all the things that he felt sorry about bart actually forgave his father before he died from the heart attack bart even said at his concerts he didn't know God can turn someone that he hated into someone he wanted to be.
@@williamgaines9879 exactly sadly the movie I didn't get to say.
@@williamgaines9879 All good points.
I suppose I just look at it this way, his father asked for his forgiveness and Bart threw it back in his face until he saw the letter and the diagnosis.
I believe that love and forgiveness, as well as hate and anger, are absolutes with no middle ground. That's why it is better not to hate. That eats you up.
I totally agree. Being angry doesn't give you the license to condemn someone, hold a grudge against them forever and keep refusing to forgive. I can't stand it when someone claims to forgive me but then they keep throwing what I did back up in my face. Bart had some serious HATRED issues here.
Not a great movie
Victor Vazquez srsly why
SHUT UP!!
Your not being honest, YOU are defiantly being rude.
XD lmao you troll
Are you kidding??? It's one of the best movies I've seen
This movie is just like any other Christian movies out there, not very good , skip
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Get some help
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Victor Vazquez get the fuck out of here, no one wants to hear your hateful opinions.