raise your standards for a better life
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we're somewhat conditioned in today's society to not love ourselves fully. many of us don't believe that we deserve the best of the best, so we settle for sub par in different areas of our lives, which in turn tells our subconscious mind that we don't deserve better. in this video, I share the 3 foundational areas you can focus on raising your standards in to rewire your brain & show your subconscious mind that you do love yourself & deserve the reality you want.
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I was raised by insecure people who would automatically use me being “selfish” to get me to do things I wasn’t comfortable with. Set me up for being used, abused, assaulted. No more. I don’t care if I come off as standoffish or rude or picky. I have to take care of myself, and be so careful about who I open myself to and show love towards.
so fuckin real. same boat n jus got out of the most abusive relationship ive ever been in. self worth is currently shit n realizing jus how much ive let others abuse me
Yes, same here.
this exactly.
raising my standards used to be such a "cold hearted" approach to things to me but little did i know, i had no idea what loving myself meant. raising my standards doesn't mean to be better than anyone or anything but to understand my own needs and live accordingly to them without "settling for less" because I'm afraid to give myself true self love.
you always voice your streams of consciousness so well, lynette. thank you so much for always raising my vibes for the day
So true, right now as I continue to shift I am more intentional with the relationships I want to cultivate with another person, because I want to make sure my mind, body, and soul are in the right place 💛✨
I’m currently in this exact shift.. and you’re so right cause I didn’t realize how hijacking it is to your entire being to even at its core, to have just ONE thought coming from a place that has the energetic power to make or break your reality.. self love means that you really don’t play about yourself. Being ready to walk away from whatever doesn’t serve you at any minute.
this was such a much needed reminder and the different angles and locations are visually fun!
Yes! A year ago I started practicing mindful eating in which I expressed gratitude for the entire process (farm to table) and I noticed a huge shift in my energy and actually felt the nourishment of everything that went into my body.
Yes to everything in this video! I’ve changed my diet (as in what I eat, no red meat & cut back on caffeine), set hard boundaries with family members, working on my patience level, doing more of what makes me happy & it’s made a huge difference in my life now vs a year ago. 😊
Lynette your videos are always on time and the topic is always what I neeeeeddd
I’m guilty of not taking care of myself. I feel the worst I have ever felt. Everyday life is a struggle for me. I feel so alone but I know I have to do the work. 🙏🏽
You put everything into words so eloquently, Lynette. I’ve been experiencing all of the shifts that you mentioned above. It feels so good to find someone who’s values that I align with. No one talks about how alienating this process of expanding your consciousness can be especially when so many around you aren’t aware enough to understand the shifts. This video is such good confirmation for me to keep doing the work, trusting myself, and stepping into the beauty of the unknown. Thank you.
Omg, thank you so much for this video. I am trying to lose weight and my biggest struggle is eating clean. I am always struggling with my diet. I decided to look at the reasons I struggle with clean eating. Decided to tackle those excuses a little each week. I organized my fridge to avoid losing food. I downloaded two food management apps. Last, night I was watching the anime Baki season 2 and one of the main characters was talking about mindful eating. And now you mentioned it so this is my sign to stop looking at cleaning my diet up as this difficult thing. You are so wise beyond your years. Yes, all the media we consume can be so toxic. I remember watching the 4th season of power and having nightmares after the main character Angela died. I no longer could watch the series from their I watched less and less. I still watch a few reality black entertainment but less and less since it's always filled with anger and violence. I appreciate everything.
The timing is actually crazy
this video literally came right on time. as i get older, i’m starting to notice how important boundaries are to my growth. i also feel like sometimes i set boundaries and then break them down during some moments and that’s acting as a blockage to what i have been praying for. thank you so so much for this video 🤍
Heavyyyy on the media! I’m a rap lover through and through but I had to stop listening to music thay glorifies violence/drug use/etc. I even had to stop listening to Meg Thee Stallion because I realized I had such a hypersexualized view of myself under the guise of liberation-there’s such a fine line there and I was on the wrong side of it fr
sending love ✨i’ve always loved your sit down chit chat videos im here for it always 🤍
Literally paused and stared at the screen as you said the number one thing was food with a mouth full of cherry cheesecake in my mouth😭😭😭😭
This video came at perfect timing
Amazing video & topic! Thanks for discussing this... Needed to be reminded of this, for sure 🥰
Thank you for this girl 💗
Thanks girlie 💙. Divine timing on this one!
Here early! I love your videos & this was a great message as always ✨❤️🤌🏽
This is exactly where I’m at in my life right now! Good stuff Lynette 🙌🏽
Girl ! This video is everything ❤❤
This is the exact frequency I’ve been on right now and this video has just solidified how important this is right now ❤
Maaam!!! I missed these sit down videos bc your mind>>>> love you babessss ❤
Thank you for sharing exactly what I’m going through rn. I love raising my standards, life has improved so much already!
Great message! Love your channel!🫶🏽
i’m so happy i found your channel!!! you’re amazing! so much beautiful insight & empathy. thank you so much for being you!
Lynette you always inspire me to do better when I’m feeling low and doing low vibrational things you motivate me to stop justifying my shit at times you are truly an accountability internet friend ☺️
Needed this ❤❤
i love watching your videos when i’m falling off track. they always remind me what i need to be doin. graffitied to you love, light, and blessings
Needed this message. Thanks Lynette!
This is on point! 🎤💪🔥
Literally just left McDonald's but I one hundred percent agree with you 😅
Same I got Wendy’s 😭
These videos are always right on time 🫡😭👏🏾
Yes! I love when you mentioned the part about who you let access your body . I truly believe in soul ties . You really spoke on a lot of real shit with how media consumption can change are vibrations.
I been waiting on a video from you!!!
So well said yet again 👏🏼
This video came at the perfect time for me. Ty!
love your videos lynette, so good always!
Lynette is back with another banger! 🔥❤️
I needed this, this video came at the right time
Wow. Great video, and just what I needed to hear today. 🙏
Thank you.
Thank you thank you thank you 🤎🤎🤎
Amazing video, really opened up my eyes.
omg yesss pleaseee do a vid on hookup culture, dating & making friends or being selective ❤
Well done ❤️ media is far and away the biggest toxic influence in life and anyone who wants to learn to love themselves will at some point need to unplug from almost every media source with exception of this type of video. God bless ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for this!
You are just an angel it’s been one year I watch your videos it’s just a pleasure, I look up to your mindset your spiritual path and it’s just amazing ❤❤❤❤ maybe one day we will meet each other 😊
Talk about it 🙌🏾 We not allowing this crap in our lives anymore!
Also you spit FACTS in this video 👏🏽👏🏽
Love your videos and what you are doing with your time ❤ Also you have inspired me to start creating content too. Lots of love 😘
Ok I have some thoughts on the "access to your body" bit! I think it's unfair to equate casual sex/relationships to low self-respect, *but* I absolutely think that raising your standards is compatible with (and even crucial to) engaging in that kind of behavior--just because you're keeping things casual with someone doesn't mean you don't deserve to have a foundation of mutual respect in that relationship. (And if you don't like casual stuff, that's also totally fine, of course!)
Absolutely amazing
GUD oneee sis 👏
YES I agree with food! Can you make recommendations on what nutritious foods to eat? :) much love to you lynette❤
We really need to demand affordable access to healthy organic food. It's disgusting that poorer people are forced to eat lower quality, chemically saturated foods.
I always lovs your video's Lynette definitely got thd point and applying some of these things you pointed out, to my life. Thank you for the encouragement and inspiration my dear much Love too you boo. And we're approaching fall Season which is always to let go of thing's that don't serve us and begin a New 🍁🍂💛 😘
Facts, facts, facts👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I used to be involved in the hookup culture and i enjoyed it but now with me glowing up and leveling up I am like NO because y'all need to get tf away from me with that lmao like I don't even miss the hookups lol
Hey Queen Lynette ❤
I think the hardest part for me is surrounding myself with people who are uplifting and supportive because I only have two friends and they definitely don’t have a high standard for life. They think that they have to suffer and it’s really depressing to watch. I thought I might be able to help them but it’s becoming more clear that they just want to drag me down to their level. I don’t know how to let them go because I’m so afraid of being completely alone. How do I attract people who want to improve their life like I do? 😔
This might seem a bit obvious but how about becoming the person that's actively improving their life? So let go of the relationships from the place of "this is the next step for me in my growth and becoming the person I want to be." Accept that you will go through a time when because of that decision you'll have to be alone. Don't make that loneliness into a problem, just accept and work with it. And then a person or people will come that has the same attitude towards life as you. That's what's worked for me. You can't have something you aren't yourself first. This advice is based on what I've learnt from following Eckhart Tolle's teaching. Reading his books might help
Modern hip hop and r&b and modern shows, social media are just so toxic. Can’t even listen or watch cause it bothers my spirit.
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I agree the right foods is important. I thin junk food can make people feel tired.
YES please video about hookup culture!
So true!! The hook up culture is dead!
Music can be a struggle for me. I love hyperpop, digicore, sometimes even metal. But the lyrics are often so depressing and I can feel them seeping into my subconscious beliefs :,(
I am careful with my depressed music doses lmao.
Omg Yes!!!
I fucking love you!!!
I Feel Fryd 😂
Yes PLEASE make a video on hook culture!!
The luxury porn is soo low vibrational to me these days.
I unfollowed a lot of luxury/ lifestyle content because I felt like I was subconsciously competing 😵💫
I feel like the more I try to move in a better direction from myself people always try and get you back into old habits. Or making me feel guilty for wanting to spend more time within. It’s something I’m definitely working on.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
SO grateful to have the consistent videos back from you 🫶🏽
THANK YOU for mentioning social media for the black community because I definitely noticed how horrible it is becoming because the content is overly sexual and very negative! Everyday I would unfollow and block people and pages but there are soo many so now I just ignore it lol I noticed the rap music I used to listen to I cant get into as much as I once did (but I still do listen to rap because yes but I am starting to like other genres)...I love Lana del rey as well but GIRL her music be DARK lowkey lmao
Lynette I get u but we haven't got long left ❤
So true. So many negative things are happening in the world right now. People are still wasting so much time chasing things. In the end none of it will matter no way.
Animal foods carry so much stress in them due the cruel life the animals have had to endure. so please limit animal products as much as possible even if just for your own peace. And if you choose to eat animal products then try to buy from local farms who has ethical practices. ❤
Getting my dosis of inspiration here 🩷✨
I needed to hear this message Thank you darling 🩷✨🙏
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