"Once a woman gives up financial independence to a mate, it´s over" As single mother child i will say this: She is so damn right Girls and women, listen to her! Thank you Judge.
Many women are financially stuck before they enter relationships or marriage. Women don't have an earning problem they have a spending problem. - 2/3 of college debt is owned by women - 4/5 of consumer debt belongs to women - women spend on average 150% of their yearly earnings. That additional 50% is subsidized by husbands, fathers, brothers, credit, and loans.
"YOU'RE AN IDIOT!!!!!!" "Goodbye!!!!" "Umm is not an answer!!!" "No don't look over there... look over HERE!!!!!" And the best one of all..... "Beauty fades, dumb is forever." Those are just some of my favorite quotes from her 😂😂!! What are yours?? I watch Judge Judy everyday after work. By far my favorite show.
Loved this segment. I'm 26, my mother made me watch judge Judy every day when I came home from school, which sounds hysterical, but quite frankly I am financially independent, I NEVER have let anyone drive my car, and never gave a mate/anyone money that wasn't returned... I really think it made me make better choices! If you're reading, maybe it's a good idea to make your daughter watch too! Haha
I agree! I don't force my 3 yr. old granddaughter to watch Judge Judy with me but she knows not to bug grandma while she watches Judge Judy. You just made me realize that watching the Judge has wonderful lessons about personal responsibility, self-esteem, parenting and not letting little things take over your life. There are so many angry, resentful people out there!
@Sam Brikho honestly your a TROLL your on everyone’s comments and nobody cares what YOU think lmfao!!! Get a life if you can and your Ass isn’t literally fused to your couch find something productive to do . How about that ? Xoxo
I think one reason why women date these men is because they think they can save them or change them. Every romance novel or romantic movie tells women that the bad boy can be saved with love. But that's not realistic, yet so many believe it.
+Amanda Jade so true in high school i asked out this pretty girl on a date she promise to meet me but never showed up then the next day she was making out with another dude who was a jock, turns out she likes hot mean jocks because apparently he would always treat her in the worst way possible, to this day they're still together, i would always say i would treat her better, but i guess she likes being treated like crap
Sooo true. Look at 50 Shades of Grey. The hero is messed up but the heroine fights for him because she believes that she can "heal him". But let's be honest: how many people out there would donate their old lives for a complicated relationship just to save the broken one? Almost none.
It's actually true!!! I PROMISE YOU!!! From the age of 14 my partner was constantly in and out of detention centres and prison, due to petty crimes. Right up to the age of 24 until we met. He's now 36 (I'm now 33) and he hasn't been back in since! NOT ONCE!!!!! I'm not saying the reason for this is me. What I AM saying is...It was him having SOMEONE believe in him. Someone telling him he can be good, that he DOES have a good heart and that yes, he CAN be loved and show love and have his own family and not have the fear that he's not good enough for it or that someone's going to take it away from him at the drop of a hat. That he IS worthy of love! Love conquers all! And I'm a great believer in that!!! He's an amazing partner and father to our now 10 year old daughter and I couldn't be more proud to say that this incredible man is mine and always will be mine! He's my one true hero and I'm so glad we met! Love u baby!
Why did Judge Judy say that the only way women would stop buying a bunch of crap for men and letting them max out their credit cards is if they become financially independent?! Didn't she mean emotionally independent? She said women are so desperate to nest and let men take advantage of them financially, so that suggests to me that these women are already financially independent but emotionally dependent. I think she got confused and thrown off track after Ellen's wild lesbian comment. LMFAO!!!
Judge Judy is what happens when a woman studies hard in school, makes a career, attains financial independence, then gets wiser through experience, all while keeping hold of her sense of humour. Absolutely love that woman - what a role model for girls today!!!
Judge Judy is saving lives literally by giving this straightforward advice in a very humble way which has the greatest impact on women’s lives. If you learn anything from life, Women listen up! Don’t give up your work and gifts up for anyone. Even if you find a good man, most men will die before you. Be financially prepared and be self sufficient.
Judge Judy is a perfect example of a Woman who worked her ass off, played the game that most men control and conquered it. History has not recorded very many women that study law and control it like it a force a nature. Judge Judy is the rare example.
I adore Judge Judy, you can see she genuinely doesn't care what race, gender, sexual orientation, age or anything other than the morals and the values someone shows
Such a smart lady! My aunt ( who died years ago) said my wise grandfather always encouraged his daughters to get college educations. They were very middle class, far from rich and this was back in the 40s. He said they should become teachers so they would NOT have to depend on a man for their living. Very smart advise I - myself- followed (except I didn't become a teacher)...along with work hard and save. I followed that advise and am retired today....living comfortably and happy at 65!
I remember reading this in a self help book that stook in my mind when I was young, "No one can never let you down if you rely on them emotionally or financially".
I can't begin to explain my love and respect for Ellen. She's one of a kind and one of the very few that can constantly make me smile and laugh spontaneously! Love her so much!
+OLegendStudios (Real Pranks From NYC) I could not say that I love her because I don't know her in person. But what she does for a living is amazing. She is most certainly really good at it. :-)
Everyone keeps saying she's mean. She's not mean , she has a very strong presence, and it demands respect and attention haha. It's just something she carries around naturally. You pay attention to what she says, it's like that one person in your life you don't want to disappoint lol she has high standards for humanity and common sense we should all be more like her! ♥️♥️
People often only think of her as a tv personality but forget that she passed The Bar, arguably the most difficult test made by man. Globally. She's incredibly intelligent and knows what she's talking about.
WOW! I can feel the wisdom pouring out of this woman. She is all about TRUTH and RESPONSIBILITY and these are traits that are very much lacking in this world right now. I would be very happy to have her as president.
I think what she said is very important: financial independence. If we have to rely on someone else to make rent, pay for the car, buy food, etc., it's very hard to leave a bad relationship. Financial independence gives us options in life. It gives us freedom.
Love Judge Judy!! She's the best ever!! I'm going to miss her show. I watch her everyday. I love her!! I wish judges in real life would be more like her!! 💖💖💖
+Christa Beery She knows. Ive seen plently of her episodes where she tells women off for using and abusing men, Particularly when they use children as blackmail.
+Christa Beery Maybe this has to do with the way women see their relationships, it is definitely different from men. Maybe women have too many expectations from a relationship and this cause them to always fell used.
I believe this is a " Circle of life lesson from times gone by" My mother gave me very similar advice,as did her mother to her,and so on etc. I hope i have made my mom proud as i believe i am the 1st generation of us that has been strong and individual, just as she "taught me" Glad i heard her words and heeded them. Judy is similar in the face as my late mom,hence i felt i should send this txt. STAY strong my fellow women!! X
+JK193765 She's a horrible judge. I already know the verdict, the instant the litigants for the case walk in! If it's a white vs a black. The white wins. If it's an Asian vs a black. The Asian wins. If it's a Latino vs black? That all depends on whether the Latino speaks with an accent. If they speak with an accent, the black wins. Watch the show! 9 times out of 10, this is true!
I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Judge Judy and her fantastic lie-detector ability and supreme ability to cut through all the BS and get immediately to the truth - I wish we had more judges like her here in the United Kingdom!
Sooooo true! Financial independence is the key!! Believe me I learned the hard way! Even if you find the right man and don't have to work trust me just have something that you can fall back on just in case... have some sort of training or degree because you never know! Even if the man is perfect and would never leave you... he can die tomorrow you would never know it.... never depend fully on a man ladies!!!!
Judge Judy even stated that she wouldn't associate herself with feminism, because she said that she feels being a woman never stopped her or prevented her from making a living and that it all depends on each and every individual how their life turns out.
My mom always taught me that - you need to be financially independent & well educated. Even if you never use it because your husband is very well off, you will always carry yourself as a formidable woman, worthy of the best. Should the unthinkable happen, either divorce or he loses his job, you know you have something to fall back on. Desperation is a foul stench, one that both women and men need to stop wafting. You shouldn’t settle for scraping the barrel or expect people to change themselves entirely.
As I have gotten into being an adult. I have learned that I don't need a man to make me happy or have my end life goal to be married have kids and build a life with someone. I can have kids and built a career and a life all on my own. I feel the reason this woman/ girls get into these relationships is because they are unhappy with their lives and need a man to fill that void. Which is not true no one can make you happy you need to do that for yourself.
Amen! If you want man in your life, he's gotta compliment you, not complete you. Otherwise, you'll go on searching your entire life for that missing piece.
+Ashley Maria Some insights. The dating pool right now is filled with late 30's/low 40's career and independent women who are suddenly turning into white knuckled clingers seemingly because of old maid fears. Not that I wish to date an "clinger" but suddenly tradition has become a very important need for their lives. One can tell that they are jumping fresh into these roles. Biology triumphs and all of the posturing and "free" memes fall short of the prospect of being alone. This dating age bracket is also filled with women "too cool for school" and are now developing into tear eyed clingers. Ideology is a bad partner, especially when facing a future of isolation.
LET'S GO INC. That are just some woman who are doing that. now. In my age group there are a lot of guys who are very immature and don't have their life together. so girls who are more mature look for older (25 - 30) or younger depending.
Everything that Judge Judy says it so dam true! I learned from my mother's prior mistakes in taking in schlabs or my preferred type - Jerks! For this I stand alone instead of cultivating relationships that are bad. You do have to establish yourself financially which is so true. I'm glad I watch Judge Judy because she emphasize women need to take care of their own particular situation. Plus to pass down those values!
This kinda hit home to me. I have my career but no "mate" - so I constantly find a "slum" to be with and I'm always like have this have that but then after I give them something they just walk away. (Don't worry it's never a credit card or anything that could put me in debt, more like clothes or shopping purchases) I'm going to change that. If a guy wants to be in my life, he wouldn't want to take advantage of my money. Thanks Judge Judy!
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Absolutely LOVE this woman. She is a dose of sanity and common sense in a world where there is very little of it left.
I'm assuming you mean judy, becasue ellen is a nasty man hater
My storage is filled up of her recordings
Her vocabulary is amazing!
Drake Reid Because she is well educated.
Drake Reid Could it be that she cracked a book once it a while? Nah, can't be that. Books are ridiculous right
Drake Reid I know ..so articulate
Anja Fourie bitch, shut up.
Drake Reid Your vocabulary sucks, as you just demonstrated.
"Once a woman gives up financial independence to a mate, it´s over"
As single mother child i will say this: She is so damn right Girls and women, listen to her!
Thank you Judge.
Understood 😊
Many women are financially stuck before they enter relationships or marriage. Women don't have an earning problem they have a spending problem.
- 2/3 of college debt is owned by women
- 4/5 of consumer debt belongs to women
- women spend on average 150% of their yearly earnings.
That additional 50% is subsidized by husbands, fathers, brothers, credit, and loans.
@@freudianslip2192 that has nothing to do with financial dependence in a relationship.
So true Dave! My dad raised me better than this and I’m depending on my bf. Time to stack up again!!!! And take control of my life again!
@@freudianslip2192 hopefully awaiting the links to the figures you've posted.
She is one of the most amazing and intelligent people I've seen, there's so much more to her than just yelling at people
💯 I actually read an opinion written by her in law school!
YESSSSSS
"YOU'RE AN IDIOT!!!!!!"
"Goodbye!!!!"
"Umm is not an answer!!!"
"No don't look over there... look over HERE!!!!!"
And the best one of all.....
"Beauty fades, dumb is forever."
Those are just some of my favorite quotes from her 😂😂!! What are yours??
I watch Judge Judy everyday after work. By far my favorite show.
"STOP MAKING BABIES" is another great one
Belleamaro J I was always partial to "don't pee down my leg and tell me it's raining." LOL 😅
thats a bunch of baloney sir
clarkymann bologna. I only know that from the Oscar Mayer commercial. LOL 😉🌹
clarkymann (TH-cam Oscar Mayer commercial 1973) if you haven't seen it it's adorable.
"Don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining!!!"
+Răzvan Mihai Hell yeah! ! !
+Răzvan Mihai Lol yes!!!!
+alexcr555 BALONEY
+alexcr555 I love this expression, priceless.
+alexcr555 smoothly said i liked her since young
Is it just me or does Judy seem like she would be a bomb president
Valerie Valdez If I was American, I’d vote for her
@@marciwahl4331 lol 😂😂😂💣
Factsss
The Left would despise her after she started telling people to get jobs.
She's got my vote!
She still frightens me outside the court room
KeepinItReal Why? IT's not even a real courtroom with real verdicts.
Meine Namen the whole point of the REALITY tv show is that it’s real🙄
😂😂😂
@@tsfbaf303 it is tho, i literally knew someone who went to her show
Loved this segment. I'm 26, my mother made me watch judge Judy every day when I came home from school, which sounds hysterical, but quite frankly I am financially independent, I NEVER have let anyone drive my car, and never gave a mate/anyone money that wasn't returned... I really think it made me make better choices! If you're reading, maybe it's a good idea to make your daughter watch too! Haha
+Mallorysiphone LOL never let anyone drive your car! That's so judge judy :D god bless you sista
ok
My mom and grandparents made me watch Judge Judy as well. I learned a lot of life lessons from her.
I agree! I don't force my 3 yr. old granddaughter to watch Judge Judy with me but she knows not to bug grandma while she watches Judge Judy. You just made me realize that watching the Judge has wonderful lessons about personal responsibility, self-esteem, parenting and not letting little things take over your life. There are so many angry, resentful people out there!
Actually it's "never let anyone who is irresponsible or does not have a drivers license drive your car"!
I really do like Judge Judy a lot. She gives good advise for everyone not just women.
Jeff Scott *advice
HD T. - Calm down Bitch lol
@@_devil__0nline67 you could tell how uncalm they were just by that?
Are you serious?
She really does it's never a waste of time to listen to whatever she has to say
I agree hundred percent with judge judy!
You don't have to tell us if you are agree with her because we DON'T CARE !👊
are you a shlub?
Sam Brikho well the fact that you don't - she doesn't care either..
@Sam Brikho honestly your a TROLL your on everyone’s comments and nobody cares what YOU think lmfao!!! Get a life if you can and your Ass isn’t literally fused to your couch find something productive to do . How about that ? Xoxo
Sam Brikho If you really don't care, you would have scrolled past the comment. So, apparently you care.
I grew up hearing this advice from my mom. ♡
Being financially independent as a woman is invaluable
Be financially independent women and don't lend
ANY MEN MONEY. That is a big no no.
It just changes everything.
I think one reason why women date these men is because they think they can save them or change them. Every romance novel or romantic movie tells women that the bad boy can be saved with love. But that's not realistic, yet so many believe it.
+Amanda Jade so true in high school i asked out this pretty girl on a date she promise to meet me but never showed up then the next day she was making out with another dude who was a jock, turns out she likes hot mean jocks because apparently he would always treat her in the worst way possible, to this day they're still together, i would always say i would treat her better, but i guess she likes being treated like crap
Sooo true. Look at 50 Shades of Grey. The hero is messed up but the heroine fights for him because she believes that she can "heal him". But let's be honest: how many people out there would donate their old lives for a complicated relationship just to save the broken one? Almost none.
It's actually true!!! I PROMISE YOU!!! From the age of 14 my partner was constantly in and out of detention centres and prison, due to petty crimes. Right up to the age of 24 until we met. He's now 36 (I'm now 33) and he hasn't been back in since! NOT ONCE!!!!! I'm not saying the reason for this is me. What I AM saying is...It was him having SOMEONE believe in him. Someone telling him he can be good, that he DOES have a good heart and that yes, he CAN be loved and show love and have his own family and not have the fear that he's not good enough for it or that someone's going to take it away from him at the drop of a hat. That he IS worthy of love! Love conquers all! And I'm a great believer in that!!! He's an amazing partner and father to our now 10 year old daughter and I couldn't be more proud to say that this incredible man is mine and always will be mine! He's my one true hero and I'm so glad we met! Love u baby!
+Chris Koraltan ☝️☝☝
+laila1989ism ☝️☝☝
This maybe your show but this is my episode 😂😂😂
TripleThreat KG haha i remember that one
TripleThreat KG The Best
LOL I get it
Why did Judge Judy say that the only way women would stop buying a bunch of crap for men and letting them max out their credit cards is if they become financially independent?! Didn't she mean emotionally independent? She said women are so desperate to nest and let men take advantage of them financially, so that suggests to me that these women are already financially independent but emotionally dependent. I think she got confused and thrown off track after Ellen's wild lesbian comment. LMFAO!!!
Active-Recon 😂
Judge Judy is what happens when a woman studies hard in school, makes a career, attains financial independence, then gets wiser through experience, all while keeping hold of her sense of humour. Absolutely love that woman - what a role model for girls today!!!
Judge Judy is saving lives literally by giving this straightforward advice in a very humble way which has the greatest impact on women’s lives. If you learn anything from life, Women listen up! Don’t give up your work and gifts up for anyone. Even if you find a good man, most men will die before you. Be financially prepared and be self sufficient.
She's so right! Ladies, remember every word judge Judy said in this interview! You'll thank her and yourself one day.
My mom always told me depend on nobody but yourself! Words to live by!
Judge Judy is a perfect example of a Woman who worked her ass off, played the game that most men control and conquered it. History has not recorded very many women that study law and control it like it a force a nature. Judge Judy is the rare example.
Financial independence is the most valuable thing you can have as an individual .
I adore Judge Judy, you can see she genuinely doesn't care what race, gender, sexual orientation, age or anything other than the morals and the values someone shows
I love how Judge Judy looks in this interview,she looks so young,fresh,and fabulously awesome.
Judge Judy is AMAZING!!!! I LOVE YOU, JUDGE JUDY!
Such a smart lady! My aunt ( who died years ago) said my wise grandfather always encouraged his daughters to get college educations. They were very middle class, far from rich and this was back in the 40s. He said they should become teachers so they would NOT have to depend on a man for their living. Very smart advise I - myself- followed (except I didn't become a teacher)...along with work hard and save. I followed that advise and am retired today....living comfortably and happy at 65!
I remember reading this in a self help book that stook in my mind when I was young, "No one can never let you down if you rely on them emotionally or financially".
I love this. Life lesson. I witnessed this first hand through my mother and now I'm going through it myself. I know for sure my children will not.
My sis needs to watch this. She don't listen to mom or I, and clearly the Judge agrees to what we advise her.
I am from kuwait and i still search judge judy shows on youtube 😻😻😻😻 i love you both ellen 🙌🏻
These two together, 👏👏👏👍👍👍!!!!
I can't begin to explain my love and respect for Ellen. She's one of a kind and one of the very few that can constantly make me smile and laugh spontaneously! Love her so much!
I so agree with you. :-)
I agree. I love ellen too!
So True. She's Amazing. ❤
+OLegendStudios (Real Pranks From NYC) I could not say that I love her because I don't know her in person. But what she does for a living is amazing. She is most certainly really good at it. :-)
You must be very easily amused.
I love when such wise people come on those mainstream tv shows, because it impacts the culture and so many people greatly
I actually agree 💯 percent with her. Great words of wisdom for women.👍 Well spoken...
Judy looks the same as she did in the 90s!
Amanda Brown no stress and lots of money helps with aging or lack thereof
Amanda Brown she's a vegan I think
Her and her husband works out everyday! Judy is all about fitness and health!
my two favorite ladies..together!
Everyone keeps saying she's mean. She's not mean , she has a very strong presence, and it demands respect and attention haha. It's just something she carries around naturally. You pay attention to what she says, it's like that one person in your life you don't want to disappoint lol she has high standards for humanity and common sense we should all be more like her! ♥️♥️
People often only think of her as a tv personality but forget that she passed The Bar, arguably the most difficult test made by man. Globally. She's incredibly intelligent and knows what she's talking about.
WOW! I can feel the wisdom pouring out of this woman. She is all about TRUTH and RESPONSIBILITY and these are traits that are very much lacking in this world right now. I would be very happy to have her as president.
I think what she said is very important: financial independence. If we have to rely on someone else to make rent, pay for the car, buy food, etc., it's very hard to leave a bad relationship. Financial independence gives us options in life. It gives us freedom.
How'd Judge Judy get Michael Jackson's "Thriller" jacket?
It's judge judy. Don't do what she says, you're gonna get your ass roasted.
+Leonardo |-/ She has more money than God. She can get whatever she yells for. LOL!
because she's Judge Judy she's proven that shes got that kind of pull.
She's a judge and executioner
bucket BOW DOWN to that😂
Excellent advice. Never be financially dependent on a man because you end up being stuck.
I'm so glad your show is in England now! 😍💜
I love judge Judy . Her voice is wonderful I think. I remember my dad watched Judge Judy everyday, I'd come home from school and I'd pass out.. Lol
Love Judge Judy - class woman, so intelligent and on top of that, blessed with common sense and insight 👌🏻
Love Judge Judy!! She's the best ever!! I'm going to miss her show. I watch her everyday. I love her!! I wish judges in real life would be more like her!! 💖💖💖
I'd just like to add that it goes both ways, men are also taken advantage of.
it's more likely a woman to get used and abused than a man. that's why they said what was said.
+Ashley Borges (ashlingmua0916) Citation needed.
+Christa Beery She knows. Ive seen plently of her episodes where she tells women off for using and abusing men, Particularly when they use children as blackmail.
+Christa Beery Maybe this has to do with the way women see their relationships, it is definitely different from men. Maybe women have too many expectations from a relationship and this cause them to always fell used.
+Ashley Borges (ashlingmua0916) your an idiot, men get abused by women way more & taken advantage of financially.
"shlubs" haha!! but yes wise words 🙌🏻u go judge judy
I believe this is a " Circle of life lesson from times gone by" My mother gave me very similar advice,as did her mother to her,and so on etc. I hope i have made my mom proud as i believe i am the 1st generation of us that has been strong and individual, just as she "taught me" Glad i heard her words and heeded them. Judy is similar in the face as my late mom,hence i felt i should send this txt. STAY strong my fellow women!! X
I wish I could be as articulate as she is in a way that gets gets through to "brighter" people and also the not so "bright" a marvellous talent
I fkn love this woman .. what an inspiration .. I hope she lives to be super old
Please invite judge judy again!!!! I Love her!!!!
She looks really weird without her Judge's robe on.
Lmfao
OMG RITE.
+JK193765 She's a horrible judge. I already know the verdict, the instant the litigants for the case walk in! If it's a white vs a black. The white wins. If it's an Asian vs a black. The Asian wins. If it's a Latino vs black? That all depends on whether the Latino speaks with an accent. If they speak with an accent, the black wins. Watch the show! 9 times out of 10, this is true!
It's like when you see your teacher in public 😂
+Janet Wood why are u so rude your making assumptions and saying she's things she's not
JUDGE JUDY IS EXTREMELY JUDICIOUS, BRIEF AND TO THE POINT. SHE'S GOT THE MIDAS TOUCH !! SHE IS TO BE ADMIRED!
I'm from the uk but I love your show😀p.s much love from the uk❤️
I love the way she talks... Like not only what she says but like.... The way her mouth makes noises when she speaks. I CANT be the only one ahaha
Judge Judy is smart. Kinda mean LOL but smart. I love everything she said. And I LOVE Ellen!
i dont care that this video is 2 yrs old.... i LOVE Ellen's blue eyes!!! 😍😍😍
i love both of them :)
Who cares !!
I love them tooooo there both amazing women !!
Kirstin Of course you do. Most thots love Judy.
I swear judge judy is THE BEST, Amazing smart women! She's so true
I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Judge Judy and her fantastic lie-detector ability and supreme ability to cut through all the BS and get immediately to the truth - I wish we had more judges like her here in the United Kingdom!
Judge Judy never fails to quote a fact🙌💖
really really great advice thanks judge
Happy 75th Birthday Judge Judy
She is honestly so funny and cool.
I love this lady and watch her show everyday
I love judge Judy so much
Two of my favorite shows of all time!
Hearing her talk so calm and quite is amazing lol
Love both of u need some judge like Judge Judy in 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
All I can think about is Where in the bloody he'll did she get that jacket? I want one.
Does judge dudy wear a wig
Judge Judy opened my mind
Sooooo true! Financial independence is the key!! Believe me I learned the hard way! Even if you find the right man and don't have to work trust me just have something that you can fall back on just in case... have some sort of training or degree because you never know! Even if the man is perfect and would never leave you... he can die tomorrow you would never know it.... never depend fully on a man ladies!!!!
I can't begin to explain my love and respect for ONe and ONLY Judge Judy!!!
My two favourite women in the same screen!
Love Judge Judy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love Judge Judy because she is a true feminist. She doesn't discriminate gender and she truly cares about equality. She's just great.
BoldCaster but she said she doesint like modern day feminism and won't call herself a feminist, lol
Judge Judy even stated that she wouldn't associate herself with feminism, because she said that she feels being a woman never stopped her or prevented her from making a living and that it all depends on each and every individual how their life turns out.
James Lucero well that's disappointing :/
Love judge Judy she's a lady we can all learn alot from 👌
Agree 100% don't sweat the small stuff in life..it's not important.
My mother actually did teach me to be never be financially stuck
Judge Judy looks so small. She kinda reminds me of Betty White
she is 75 lol
I love this woman, such powerful words of wisdom. ♡
Spot on Judge Judy!!!
I LOVE Judge Judy!! She's intriguing.
My mom always taught me that - you need to be financially independent & well educated. Even if you never use it because your husband is very well off, you will always carry yourself as a formidable woman, worthy of the best. Should the unthinkable happen, either divorce or he loses his job, you know you have something to fall back on.
Desperation is a foul stench, one that both women and men need to stop wafting. You shouldn’t settle for scraping the barrel or expect people to change themselves entirely.
I swear I love Judge a judy so much --she's so real and sophisticated 💕❤️
That's a very good true lesson and the younger you are when you learn it the better
I absolutely love judge judy always have since my mother used to watch her same time 4 and 4:30 after years she so smart and blunt
As I have gotten into being an adult. I have learned that I don't need a man to make me happy or have my end life goal to be married have kids and build a life with someone. I can have kids and built a career and a life all on my own.
I feel the reason this woman/ girls get into these relationships is because they are unhappy with their lives and need a man to fill that void. Which is not true no one can make you happy you need to do that for yourself.
Amen! If you want man in your life, he's gotta compliment you, not complete you. Otherwise, you'll go on searching your entire life for that missing piece.
+Ashley Maria
Some insights.
The dating pool right now is filled with late 30's/low 40's career and
independent women who are suddenly turning into white knuckled clingers seemingly because of old maid fears.
Not that I wish to date an "clinger" but suddenly tradition has
become a very important need for their lives. One can tell that they
are jumping fresh into these roles.
Biology triumphs and all of the posturing and "free" memes fall short of
the prospect of being alone. This dating age bracket is also filled
with women "too cool for school" and are now developing into tear eyed
clingers.
Ideology is a bad partner, especially when facing a future of isolation.
LET'S GO INC.
That are just some woman who are doing that. now. In my age group there are a lot of guys who are very immature and don't have their life together. so girls who are more mature look for older (25 - 30) or younger depending.
MrYuotube01 Your miss understanding what I said.
MrYuotube01 well, okay, thank you.
Hear, hear Judge Judy. Well said.
ellen:thats why i dont date men...SLAY QUEEN
I infer we should slay the queen for that statement?
Rich Mackey dude...buddy...pal...........stfu
Rich Mackey says a man 😹
this is funny, at the same time it's a stab at the good men who don't take advantage of women or who is taken advantage of by women.
Ellen said that's why I don't date Men . But she forgot that she is actually a woman :D
Very, very, very *GOOD* and sound advice from my *FAVORITE* Judge!!! =D
Everything that Judge Judy says it so dam true! I learned from my mother's prior mistakes in taking in schlabs or my preferred type - Jerks! For this I stand alone instead of cultivating relationships that are bad. You do have to establish yourself financially which is so true. I'm glad I watch Judge Judy because she emphasize women need to take care of their own particular situation. Plus to pass down those values!
I'm so happy women like her exist.
LOL!!! Ellen: "That's why I don't date men. That's the whole reason."
Sad..
don t forget you come from your fathers Balls ,,,
Can't stop looking at your show.
my two favorite people
She’s so wise so intelligent and suffers no fools and educates us I love judge Judy so much ❤❤❤ I think she could be a great president ❤
I love her,,, she's so wise and elegant.
I just love judge judy... she is the one I look up the most
This kinda hit home to me. I have my career but no "mate" - so I constantly find a "slum" to be with and I'm always like have this have that but then after I give them something they just walk away. (Don't worry it's never a credit card or anything that could put me in debt, more like clothes or shopping purchases)
I'm going to change that. If a guy wants to be in my life, he wouldn't want to take advantage of my money.
Thanks Judge Judy!
2:11...that's what I ALWAYS tell my daughters and that's why I love Judge Judy