@@rudiwarstolz6485So when you watch a movie you see the actor and not the character they play? When you saw forest gump did you yell 'run Tom Hanks run!' 😂
Well he’s a Finnish actor, not like he’s a real gangster, or the garbage he’s spewing has any validity in the real world like all these social awkward kids in the comments pretend he does.
Saw a study on charisma which claimed it was a combination of competence and concern for the other person. So let’s see… 1.) focus your full attention, shows its worth your full attention, hence concern. 2.) make decisions and take full responsibility, show’s faith in planning and a expectation it was going to turn out well, hence competence. 3.) listen first & speak second, shows concern. 4.) don’t move or speak fast, shows confidence in how things will turn out, hence competence
The listen first part also means you allow others to make mistakes on their own. The more you let an idiot talk, the more evidence they give that they're an idiot. Same with liars.. let a liar talk and they'll show you all you need to know.
@@sandrashane677 Easy, it's our own vanity that narcissist use against us. Vanity is believing you possess something of value. When we learn we neither possess nor have much value in someone who only cares for themselves and feed our insecurities, but not meet our expectations we call them a narcissist. I image many folks are labeled narcissists because they were SUPPOSED to meet either unreasonable expectations or imbalanced transactional expectations and did not or they were SUPPOSED to value what we offered more than what they wanted and so in our minds they are big bad narcissists.
@@HakaiKaien Yeah the fake concern as in giving you their full attention is more like them stalking their prey rather than being concerned for your well being. You're right. Its quite the opposite.
@@sam_lory How good is your Russian? Русский - мой родной язык и я прекрасно различаю русский акцент на английском языке. Так что, можете мне поверить.
In a less fucked up country with a less fucked up system, this man would be a successful leader of something perfectly legal. And by any culture's standards he's a great motivational speaker.
@@Randomtraveller83 1st: it was a joke...2nd: where did you read anything abut being robbed? Ok, let me put it this way: I would rather respect this guy than the devil himself
You know how to identify them so that’s a start. If you have a genuine interest in these characteristics then you can develop them in your day to day life. Just apply one of them every 3 to 4 days and see what happens. It’s this ‘seeing what happens’ that changes your internal relationship with them.
What kind of responsibility when they kill people and sell them drugs and destroy their life? What kind of responsibility you blind 😂 this is just words, they laugh at you with these words 🤦🏻♂️ their reality is discussing
@@anaskerret stupidity or ignorance here? We're talking about responsibility not about killing etc. We know what a Mafia does but unfortunately you don't understand what the topic is being discussed here. Pathetic and out of line.
@@oliverhardy9464 we live in the world where there are rules of law. Committing a crime is wrong. Honor is subjective because it can be misused or misguided.
That’s standard for us Slavic people. My lecturer at college had to move where I sat cos he said that it scares him when I look at him cos “it’s as though your eyes are seeing through my soul”. Yet my lecturer literally looked like Hitler (my parents survived genocide/holocaust so him looking like Hitler freaked me out) 😂
This is so true. When I see / hear fast talkers, they always seem to want to signal to their listeners that talking fast is a sign of High Intelligence, but it is more a sign of insecurity. There are also fast talkers who hope that the other person will automatically link it to autism, so that the fast talker hopes he will also be seen as a Whizzkid.
Years ago when I had different life...a guy took knife against me...but I continue to walk slowly to him, looking at his eyes and.. the guy run away.. There were also situation when I was ask for help. The guy stand with big stick, wild and unpredictable. ..but I get an eye contact with him and walk around slowly , making distance shorter...he start to walk back into old building...there were doors but no light, but I walk after him into darkness and wait for him there. .he hide somewhere like a cockroach.
Pull a gun on a Russian mafia head? Not just your family..your entire DNA will be erased from history. Even ultra hardcore Arian brotherhood type dudes are not suicidal
Fantastic words you said and even I am writing some sentences in my book to follow and to overcome the failures to reach success, and the sentences I wrote are most similar to yours
I can totally agree with #2 I have a friend, which i would call the least charismatic of our group, who can never say yes or no if he would join. He would always "tell me then"...
Do not divide your attention. When you watch the mafia boss, you watch to the end.
You mean actor
Отец хуйни не скажет
@@rudiwarstolz6485So when you watch a movie you see the actor and not the character they play? When you saw forest gump did you yell 'run Tom Hanks run!' 😂
Looks ai.
You are right ... I got chills though
I am pretty sure that he killed the interviewer in the end
😂😂😂
🤣
😂😂😂
😅😅😅
no need, the interviewer commited suicide as a sign of respect
We know that cameramen are impervious to life's dangers, but interviewing a mafia boss in a graveyard is a new level.
😂
😂😂😂
The guy isn't a real mafia boss like you can read it.
I guess this cameraman is the first one 😢
😂😂😂
If this guy makes an Udemy course, I'd buy it for sure 😂
Oh god, same. I'd be willing to fork out my moeny for it. 😂
😂😂
This guy needs to be in the next James Bond movie.
He is in John Wick 4
No, way too old.
Gta 6
Second that
He's in JW 4
If Liam Neeson stole this guys kid, I’d be worried for Liam Neeson.
No, now we are looking on the father of Liam Neeson
😂😂😂
Or Denzel Washington 😂
Need a video on how to look like a old tough gangster like this guy
If Liam called this dude it would be liams lines from taken combined with the reply from this guy who says all this stuff about charisma lmao
The camera man is double charismatic - filming and listening! True principals
I've listened to him without interrupting him, maintaining full attention and eye contact. Now I am charismatic.
I feel pure power 🔋 ✨️ 💪🏾 😌
Wish this guy was my grandfather.. kinda scary but badass for sure
lol
He is an actor from Finland 🙂
Let’s go ask him if he wants to adopt us
@@oliverrussell9786 noooo.. please don't tell me this guy is fake!
@@CustomCommander1980 Andrej Kaminsky
This man could be Liam Neeson's sibling from another dimensions
Dayum! I was wondering why he look so familiar!!
@@mushvitlok8928So true
I was thinking about same. But I had forgotton the name. Even he has the accent
@@Photo_doctorlol his accent aint like liam
He's an actor, he was the priest in Berlin in the last John wick
Bro needs to be in a movie
He's an actor from finland
Well he’s a Finnish actor, not like he’s a real gangster, or the garbage he’s spewing has any validity in the real world like all these social awkward kids in the comments pretend he does.
Actually he played a role in new John Wick movie as Pop of Belorus Church and shoot's to the John Wick with shotgun
He should be in the movies , he's really intense and charismatic , fantastic accent for Russian or Italian mafia
He was in John wick 4 he played a russian priest who shoot John
@@averyangrygringo6440which movie is this clip from
1. Do not divide your attention
2. Make decisions and stick to them
3. Listen first and speak second
4. Don't speak or move fast
Salamat
My attention span is terrible, Ive searched for a comment like this so I don’t have to watch 1 minute long video 😂
@@JechtNHporn? Drugs? Weed?alcohol?
brAtAn
@@JechtNHpractice it. You will get better with time
This man doesn't sound like a mafia boss, he sound like a wise man with the wisdom.
russian mafia filtered out all the dumb cool boys during the years. What is left are wise, charismatic and richt men.
many people think mafia=wise man
Any man who talks like this is man capable of anything. And that's how it should be
Saw a study on charisma which claimed it was a combination of competence and concern for the other person. So let’s see… 1.) focus your full attention, shows its worth your full attention, hence concern. 2.) make decisions and take full responsibility, show’s faith in planning and a expectation it was going to turn out well, hence competence. 3.) listen first & speak second, shows concern. 4.) don’t move or speak fast, shows confidence in how things will turn out, hence competence
The listen first part also means you allow others to make mistakes on their own. The more you let an idiot talk, the more evidence they give that they're an idiot. Same with liars.. let a liar talk and they'll show you all you need to know.
How come narciisists have charisma? Like stalking their prey?
@@sandrashane677 Easy, it's our own vanity that narcissist use against us. Vanity is believing you possess something of value. When we learn we neither possess nor have much value in someone who only cares for themselves and feed our insecurities, but not meet our expectations we call them a narcissist. I image many folks are labeled narcissists because they were SUPPOSED to meet either unreasonable expectations or imbalanced transactional expectations and did not or they were SUPPOSED to value what we offered more than what they wanted and so in our minds they are big bad narcissists.
@@sandrashane677 charisma is exactly the opposite of narcissism. But narcissists can and do fake it
@@HakaiKaien Yeah the fake concern as in giving you their full attention is more like them stalking their prey rather than being concerned for your well being. You're right. Its quite the opposite.
Charisma is built in a lifetime of experience with people, and their memories of you.
Be consistent.
Number 5 : smile, stare at your interviewer and do not blink
When you look you do not blink. Lol
That's an example of talking (writing) first and thinking second. You expose your stupidity.
😅😅
I seldom go to interviews.
When I stand next to an interviewer I'll always be the owner of my company
& interviewer just a pen pusher.
@@rahmannaneeslol when your dream is to slave for someone else ... Loser
The peace of God is complete and full power. Well spoken.
Indeed✝️🙏💜🕯️🔮🧩🧩
@@theahalme nope
@@xyorkum....yup
@@cyrusrising930 which god?
This guy needs a TH-cam channel please make this happen bro yes you, you reading this. Let’s get this
He has his channel Grim Hustle
This is sound, sensible advice. I'm totally with that. I can absolutely use it in my own life.
Say anything in Russian accent and I’ll listen to it all day long.
I'm Russian, wanna talk?
His accent is NOT Russian.
@@magal55 yes it is, my friend. Pretty overdone, but still Russian
@@sam_lory How good is your Russian? Русский - мой родной язык и я прекрасно различаю русский акцент на английском языке. Так что, можете мне поверить.
@@magal55 мой родной русский будет уж получше английского😅
My father taught me the 1st rule. He said "Never focus on 2 things at a time, you will lose your balance on both".
Russians says, don't run for 2 rabbit s, you will not catch even one of them.
@@ivanjulian2532 Learned it 🫡.
Don't half ass a couple of things, full ass one thing only
Yes, we have a saying: chasing two hares you won't catch any one
#4 would be gold to heed for so many youtubers on here.
I watched this loop 3 times before I realized this guy had pulled me in with the charisma of which he speaks.
He definitely has charisma. He blinks less. ❤
If you watch- you watch.
Not like Blinken.😊😊😊
This guy commands respect.
*ridicule
Or is just a good actor. Like Pacino and Brando and De Niro in the mob characters
He's an actor
An even better listener, bratan 😎😁
Only this man can stop the war in Ukraine
😂😂😂
Wise😂
Your name is not at all accurate.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Rule number 1, don't kill John Wick's dog
what about his cat?
@@ll-me4wz Only the cat but, never the dog.
Great advice sir. My dad told me the same.
He is someone who is making me the real me.
He's the grandfather I never had.
My man basically laid out the rules to become John Wick
More like the one whom you send to kill the babayaga.😊😊😊
This is his second language.
He has charisma.
Perfectly explained and beautifully expressed by this gentleman ❤❤❤❤.
If you breath, just breath. Me breathing all day and doing nothing.
...except watching YT and writing comments
Very true. Simply: be comfortable in your own skin
Imma save this video in case i feel low 😂😂😂these kind of videos a like gold
Last thing I will do in my life is listen to this man's advice. A man that cannot hack it as part of a normal society.
He speaks so genuinely soft ❤
The last one the power of God that just nailed it ❤
Listening to this sounds like a baptism at first and then changes to an outpouring, a downpour of fire.
Good combination of background beat ,Liams face ,heavy Slavic accent and true presence in real time….in social media.
Love his ending line. You have peace of God n that peace is pure power. With all his wisdom you almost forget that OG is in the mafia.
😂
Actually the first rule is to avoid making this guy come to your house and making him tell you the rules.
trust me ''listening'' is hardest rule of here. it's so easy to talk over from hype with in me
"I welcome you into my house and you disrespect me..."
Wow. That was wonderful. Thank you.
This old legend scared the shit out of me. His expressions ☠️☠️
From "trust me bro" source 😅
In a less fucked up country with a less fucked up system, this man would be a successful leader of something perfectly legal. And by any culture's standards he's a great motivational speaker.
3 A.M. in a dark alley: I would rather encounter the devil himself than this guy asking „where are you going at this time?“ 🤣🤣
Kinda make sense 😂
@@Randomtraveller83 1st: it was a joke...2nd: where did you read anything abut being robbed? Ok, let me put it this way: I would rather respect this guy than the devil himself
“Paulie moved slow. But that’s only because Paulie didn’t have to move for anybody”
Godfellass
He's a man of focus, sheer will, commitment.. something we know very little about
You know how to identify them so that’s a start.
If you have a genuine interest in these characteristics then you can develop them in your day to day life. Just apply one of them every 3 to 4 days and see what happens.
It’s this ‘seeing what happens’ that changes your internal relationship with them.
Being a Grim Brother is 1#.
It's 2023 and there is still a mafia? Isn't that cute, bless your little hearts.
Old charismatic grandpa out there spittin nothing but facts 🔥🔥🔥
Even a Mafia boss understands responsibility more than most people.
Even? Not even! Only!
What kind of responsibility when they kill people and sell them drugs and destroy their life? What kind of responsibility you blind 😂 this is just words, they laugh at you with these words 🤦🏻♂️ their reality is discussing
@@anaskerret stupidity or ignorance here? We're talking about responsibility not about killing etc. We know what a Mafia does but unfortunately you don't understand what the topic is being discussed here. Pathetic and out of line.
Good one. There is no honour among Thieves. Do you think there is honour between evil people?
@@oliverhardy9464 we live in the world where there are rules of law. Committing a crime is wrong. Honor is subjective because it can be misused or misguided.
This legend has literally fixed my problem in 30 seconds💯
I have a friend who used to work for the mafia and, it’s true, this is exactly how he behaves 😂
I just LOVE this accent
Not Russian, by the way.
@@magal55He got the slavic face.
Dracula
This man can cut with his gaze
propably trained an ancient technique called tratak
That’s standard for us Slavic people. My lecturer at college had to move where I sat cos he said that it scares him when I look at him cos “it’s as though your eyes are seeing through my soul”. Yet my lecturer literally looked like Hitler (my parents survived genocide/holocaust so him looking like Hitler freaked me out) 😂
My favorite part is where he said ' u have the peace of God'.
Rule number one don't listen to a charismatic psychopath. Idk what the hell he said but i hope it works out in the end 👍
These are THE BEST tips I’ve heard on charisma!❤❤❤
This is so true. When I see / hear fast talkers, they always seem to want to signal to their listeners that talking fast is a sign of High Intelligence, but it is more a sign of insecurity. There are also fast talkers who hope that the other person will automatically link it to autism, so that the fast talker hopes he will also be seen as a Whizzkid.
Yeah it's always only con-men who have an answer before they think.
If you have charisma, you have the peace of God and this peace is pure power.🕊️
1. Undivided focus
2. Integrity, make decisiom and take responsibility
3. listen first, speak second
4. speak slow, move slow, peaceful
This guy is not a gangster, it's a monk.
Sounds funny when you refer to him as 'it'!😂😂😂
Rupanya anda pandai bercanda 😂😂😂
He doesn't sound like a gangster at all. Most of them have zero IQ
Wish this guy was my teacher very wise words 💯😎
Damn this man speaks volumes
Damn good advice boss 😎👍🏻
He worked in John Wick 4 as an Russian Church Man ...
This man is in john wick 4
This is by far the most charismatic man in Russia!
He is not Russian.
Badass leadership skills!
He must be some kind of GodFather
If someone pulls a gun on you, walk slowly, don't run. Don't spoil your charisma.
Years ago when I had different life...a guy took knife against me...but I continue to walk slowly to him, looking at his eyes and.. the guy run away..
There were also situation when I was ask for help. The guy stand with big stick, wild and unpredictable. ..but I get an eye contact with him and walk around slowly , making distance shorter...he start to walk back into old building...there were doors but no light, but I walk after him into darkness and wait for him there. .he hide somewhere like a cockroach.
Pull a gun on a Russian mafia head? Not just your family..your entire DNA will be erased from history. Even ultra hardcore Arian brotherhood type dudes are not suicidal
Bro never broke eye contact with the interviewer 👀
Great piece of advice man
You're awesome 😎😎
ABSOLUTELY SMART GENTLEMEN❤
Sounds like wisdom to me.
The perfect charisma to play in next David Lynch movie😂
But he's sooo right!
100% true especially No. 2 take full responsibility for your decisions and actions…
I only ever focus on one thing..
I just switch focus very often
I do all these, I'm a child of God
You and everyone else is servant of god . God has no children. May Allah almighty guide you
@@mig-cm5to I'm not saying God had physical sexual relations, he is the Creator and I am his creation, that is why I say such a thing
Such an intelligent man! Thank you ❤
My friend at McDonald's wondering why I'm completely ignoring him.
Russian accept is addicting!
Funny thing is - it's not Russian accent.
Maybe the accent isn't Russian, but I'm sure that it's a Slavic accent. "Bratan"=bro (in Russian language) and how he says "have": khaf 🤔
I love listening to him
His eyes say I'm no joke, I love it !!!
This guy looks like a retired KGB officer giving us his life learned lessons after a 40 year career.
… The “Wise” Godfather
This guy interview is taken where all his dear opponents found their peace, after meeting his charisma: the graveyard.
😂😂
A very simple man teaching simple facts👏👏
Fantastic words you said and even I am writing some sentences in my book to follow and to overcome the failures to reach success, and the sentences I wrote are most similar to yours
Liked the 4th point more.
I can totally agree with #2
I have a friend, which i would call the least charismatic of our group, who can never say yes or no if he would join. He would always "tell me then"...
Simple and wisely practical.
Я сейчас смотрел ютуб и работал. Чтобы иметь харизму нужно сосредоточиться на одном деле. Теперь я буду только смотреть ютуб.
Ду нот дивайд ё атеншен, братан. 😂