Reacting to Our Wedding Night Message to Our Future Selves *emotional*
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ค. 2020
- On our wedding night, we recorded a message of encouragement for our future selves. We encouraged ourselves to never forget the love we have, stay strong during tough times, and to constantly pour back into our relationship. It was a really sweet moment and in this video, we react to that wedding night message.
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anyone else watching this when they gave birth to a beautiful baby boy, and are pregnant with baby #2?? I am so happy for them and I love to watch their beautiful relationship get them through the hardships of life.
Ya, I love these guys!
Meeeee
Me
meeeeee!
Yeah me to
Abby sitting on the bed in her wedding dress just crying from happiness is a whole mood😭
Meee. I’m going to be a mess on my wedding day
She’s seriously so sweet. 🥰🥰🥰
wow 2 yrs ago
Every girl deserves to have a man in her life that treats you the way that Matt treats Abby! I love y’all so much
and every man deserves to have a girl in his life that treats you the way that Abby treats Matt
Your relationship is so beautiful. I pray that I find a significant other that I share these same feelings, and experiences with.
yess
Amen:)
So did you find your other half?
If I don’t get a guy like Matthew then I don’t want it😭
You are too kind!
Neither do I 😊
me eitherrr!!!!
Me too
You would surely get one❤️
This is 20 minutes of my heart just melting 🥺❤️
Aww 🥰
1965 during our vows, I teared up. My wife didn't. that's what happens when you marry a German. 58yrs and counting. I think you guys picked the right age to get married too.
omg matt is literally so amazing to abby like fr. he can’t get over how beautiful she is and i hope my husband does that to me.
I know right! It’s so sweet!!😭😁❤️
Y’all are a perfect representation of what I want in a relationship.
i cried everytime abby cried. yall are my favorite people omg
You are too sweet. Thank you 😊
"Quicker to love." Oh, Abby, that's so beautiful. I appreciate your story and your willingness to share, and I just want to reassure you that our stories are truly some of our most powerful tools. They can instill hope. They can lift others up. May this year be greater than the last, and THANK YOU for depicting a relationship that is open to growth.
Thank you so much!
Y’all should make new videos to yourselves every anniversary to watch the next year. So y’all watched yalls wedding video on your 1 year anniversary, then make a new one to watch on yalls 2 year anniversary and so on. That would be sweet!
Good idea!!
Not in a relationship or married, but I LOOOVEE this idea! I am going to start doing this on my birthdays, leave a video message to myself reminding myself of all I have to be grateful for, and things I should remember. Journals never stuck for me, so maybe this will 😅!
Hey! That's a great idea. I guess I will do this, too
🙌❤️❤️
Ooo, my birthday is this month! Thank you for the idea!💕
Stumbled on your videos yesterday. From the instant I watched your Q&A, I could see Jesus radiate through the both of you. You two seem like the kindest, sweetest souls. Happy anniversary!
I just recently found you guys, but you're now by far my favourite TH-cam couple!!! Your relationship is exactly what I want in the future and it's so beautiful to see and watch 😊
Wow! Thank you!!
I love you Matt for opening this up . Creating a model in our lives
this is so incredibly sweet, matt you have the best heart. ❤️
Thank you so much!!
matt is literally the type of guy i want!!🥰🥰 where can i find a guy like him?
Girl yes!
this is beautiful - but also I'm so glad I'm not the only one who cried after their wedding! lol
You're so kind!!
I literally stared to tear up when Abby started crying... they're the cutest!!!!!!!!!!
They’re so in love with each other and you can tell, i’m obsessed with Abby and Matt. They’re still always going to be sooo in love with each other
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Can’t love this enough! I just came across your videos today! God bless you both and always keep the love! Just celebrated 40 years of marriage!
Thank you! We’re so happy you’re here!
Even though you guys don’t straight up say it, God is so evident in yalls relationship and through you guys. Thank you for sharing your content and story!
100%. 🙏🏻
Oh my heart 😭😭😭 I never, ever, ever comment on yt videos but I couldn’t help myself. You guys are the cutest, sweetest, most loving couple I have ever seen. This video made me cry, the love you feel for each other was contagious. I only started watching you guys today but I know I’ll be sticking around for a while. Keep on loving each other and growing as a couple each day 😊
dear beautiful soul reading this, God loves u and He has the best blessings for you! Stay strong and never forget how loved u are💗
I've been married for 6 years, and I totally want to start doing this with my husband! It's never too late. And our anniversary is next month! 💜 You guys are so cute, so wholesome. 💜 The world needs more of this, so thank you for sharing such a tender moment. Thank you for your vulnerability and the goodness that you share.
Thank you so much!
It felt weird for me to say, my husband for a long time....I am looking at my husband sleeping in an uncomfortable couch to be with me. We had been married for 42 years and still going...you guys made me smile and made me think of some of the things I thought of when I got married. Remember what your past you said to you guys now. Keep on loving each other.
Ahh I love you guys 😭❤️ you set such a great example for people getting married young. Me and my husband got married at 19 and we are just coming up to our 3rd anniversary! I feel so blessed to have found the love of my life so young and that we get to share the rest of our lives together 🥰
You guys are so amazing! Thank you for making videos. I really hope you guys blow up because the younger generation needs positive role models and examples like you to look up to!
This is so beautiful. I literally cried and what he said about your story was truly amazing and will stick with me!! Thank you! Happy anniversary
Y’all are the absolute sweetest to each other, it’s so refreshing to see!! Sending you a multitude of blessings throughout all of your future years of marriage. Praying for a relationship like yours in my future ❤️❤️❤️
It is literally so amazing how open and honest you guys are, and I appreciate it so much because I think it gives me more practical ways to improve my relationships and gives me a true picture of how married life looks. I admire you guys so much! Even though you're only a few years older than me, your maturity is so evident and your security in one another is so amazing! You guys give me hope
This is SOOO beautiiful. Thank you for sharing the first night/first year anniversary. The genuine love that the two of you have for each other is so pure. You are so blessed.
I love how in the moment you guys are and how much you appreciate the small things! Good reminder for me.
I wish with my whole heart to have a relationship with that much love and support all the time, the way they look at each other just absolutely melts my heart and my standards just got so much higher because of Matt ❤️❤️
Y'all are such pure good people. Such a great relationship to strive for!
You’re relationship is absolutely amazing! I love the way y’all look at each other!!! Literally absolute true love here!❤️❤️❤️
Omg if my husband doesn't treat me like a friggin queen like he treats her I dOnT wAnT iT🥺💚
Wow. Abby’s words there at the end about pride spoke directly to me...I’m so glad you guys are here & making videos!!!
I would've never posted such a personal video here personally. But y'all are two real, humble and sweetest people I've seen. I'm a dude and I get teary watching your videos. I wish I could ever find such love and be so loving and selfless like you guys. You are very blessed and you deserve that. You guys are inspiration for me.
I just want to say
I love you guys 😭
This gives me hope to find a relationship purely on genuine love and respect for each other just like the 2 of you !
Abby's soft smiling and Matt trying to hold back his tears, that's just so unbelievable cute, that it gives me goosebumps! Wish you and your unborn baby all the best!❤️❤️❤️
wow. there’s so much to take away from this video. so so so much. you are both so selfless and so inspiring. ugh i love this so much❣️❣️
Hey guys, you’ve got such a pure relationship and I truly admire that! Would you mind doing a video on trust in relationship and recount your experiences of trust/distrust. I’d really appreciate that! Thank you so much and may god continue to bless your beautiful relationship ❤️
I just really started watching you guys the past few days, but your love for life and each other is so contagious! Blessed by your journey, I got married at 23 and have almost been married to my man for 10 years. Growing up together is hard sometimes, but so beautiful. You are an inspiration.
I loved how he kept placing kisses everywhere.. Super cute... Especially in the wedding video
the way you guys look at each other❤️
So sweet!!😁And beautiful💖
This is so wholesome and so cute. I love how happy they are and how much they love each other.
Yall were one of the very few who could find their soul mate so early in life that you could give each other themselves for the very first time is so special! You're very blessed to have found each other! Not too many people can find their soul mates in their lifetimes like myself.
Aww, this popped up in my feed and im pretty new to the channel. So sweet and full of love, i see that love so strong in the new videos and to know they are expecting, i just know with all my being that this child will experience all that love every single day❤️
Happy belated anniversary Matt and Abby! You truly have a marriage that inspires me everyday. I dream to find a love as pure and precious as y’all!
You two are so amazing, I love that you set goals for yourselves and that you even thought of making a video to your future selves on your wedding night, that is just a wonderful thing to do and share!
Have been trying to find the right words to say to you guys, and that's not an easy task. Means the world to me seeing people my age so in-tune with their being and their love. That's also not an easy task, of course. Being genuine is the most important character trait I both live by and feel in you two. Through even the darkest times, it seems like Matt has the most genuine love for Abby that can possibly be, and when Abby shows that back; so emotionally-uplifting. Wish you guys the most of happiness and luck on your journey. You've got an instant fan right here;)
Your love and excitement is so special and inspiring. Thank you for sharing!
You are such a sweet couple! I like your goals of putting each other first and serving others! Your selfless attitude shows an amazing maturity for your age! We are never to young or too old to learn from each other! Thank you sharing!
I stumbled upon your channel a few days days ago and I’m so so glad. You two made me cry. I pray my spouse and I have a relationship like this. I adore you two. Keep putting Christ first... your marriage is GLOWING!!!🤍🤍🤍 Happy anniversary
That was a wonderful idea! Matt you really have a talent for capturing moments. When you told Abby I love you in the video and then looked at her in real time from the video and said I love you to her in the future! That was so amazingly beautiful! What a cherishable moment!!!!❤
I started crying as soon as the “pep talk” started 🥺🥺🥺
You guys are so sweet 😭 I love this so much!!
“When you love someone with all your heart, it doesn’t matter where you live.”
I love this so much! Currently living in a rural town and we just don’t know anyone, so we just have us and our daughter. I love my sweet husband, it’s just so hard being from familiar faces! But we’re making the most of it knowing that every place has its season❤
I do not know how I came to watch this video. I am from Hungary and found you guys so refreshing. Keep your values!
And I will defenetly steel from you the idea calling anniversaries a check point. I will have my 50th check point next year and I am not worried about the future of my kids if social media will be full with your kind of people...
Will keep watching you. Wish you all the best!!!
I’m 21 and so is my husband. We got married when we were 20. So I can’t tell you how much watching this video means to me. I cried the whole time. I love you guys🥺❤️❤️❤️
Off of Matt's speach at the end about sharing your story...
Just wanna say thank you so so much for sharing y'all's story and for being so open. I hope you would be encouraged to know that if I was ever uncomfortable asking my own parents for advice, I would 100% come to you. 😆 I see y'alls marriage and love for each other as a goal I want to set in my own life. Y'all inspire me to love others better so thank you so much for that. Love you guys!!! Keep it up!! ❤️❤️❤️
You guys are just so soppy but it's all so pure and endearing to watch. We all appreciate you sharing these intimate moments
Hey guys. This comment is 3 months late, but happy anniversary. It's so sweet how much you love each other. I had an young marriage also that sadly didn't work out because as we grew up we grew in separate directions. Our values became incompatible. Looking back many years later, I would advise that you check in with each other frequently as you grow and mature to make sure you are on the same path still. It's perfectly normal to have different interests, and new parts of you develop but include your partner and communicate like crazy and always make each other the priority. May you have many happy years ahead. 💗
It makes me
so happy to know you guys are so committed to your relationship ❤️
Thank you!! ❤️
Matt & Abby your welcome! Thank you so much for noticing me, You two are a huge inspiration!!
Am alone 💑💑😍😍😍😍❤🌷🌷
What a Precious Couple!!!! I hope and pray that thousands will follow your channel and they will learn from your excellent model of real love and character....what a difference it could make in this world....we need models like you!!! Keep it up guys!!!!
You both look so cute together. I love the fact that you both waited to be each others' first in everything mostly. Bless your couple ❤ I hope I find that kind of true love too.
I'm just meeting you folks today for the first time watching the cancellation episode. It is so special to see you before the trolls attacked and how you continue to share and love and support each other
and your shared parenthood.
ahh that is so smart, i wanna do that for my future wedding
it was so sweet
I am never emotional, but this video hit different
You are such a sweet, beautiful and loving couple!💕 Really special that you filmed this at your wedding and show us this! Thank you for showing that true love exists.❤
I love how much you guys say you love each other
I came across this week but Matt and Abby, you had two kids and moved! This is so sweet and now that you have kids you should watch and react to this again!
Y’all are so encouraging!! Be blessed ❤️
This is so Beautiful. I too waited for only one man in my life and with Gods love and his blessings my husband and I have been married for 6 years and counting 🥰☺️. And I would never change anything. I Love him with all my heart. Yes hardships go through life but together as one is a stronger bond that creates a love that can help us go through anything of course with God as #1. Not long ago my Husbands Mom passed away in May and it was very difficult. But with so much support from friends and family we are slowly getting through, and supporting each other with life going on. Till death do us part. God Bless You.
They look so in love and so happy.
It’s so rare to find love like that,
Make it last you two! Your love inspires so many including a nineteen year old girl who dreams of waking up and falling asleep next to a special someone who will love every ugly and beautiful part of her and for whom she’ll do the same.
Ps: the nineteen year old girl is me who really REALLY wants what you two have.
beautiful couple, i just watched your video and subscribed, your message was one of relevance, i find myself in it, i love how you both love and value each other so much without needing to go through pain and difficulty to learn to value and love each other, i admire that about you both, and how sincere and open you are with each other and with others, you two i the model of marriage and couple role model that i value and admire, i dont see many people like this, you both are simple, kind, caring, loving, humble, and just holy and beautiful, keep it up, love does last forever and it only get stronger, regardless of what others say, hold on to that beautiful people
I recently found you guys through TikTok I love the relationship you have it’s the sweetest 💕
I’m still fairly young but I love you guys and you make me so excited to be married and through you guys sharing stories I feel like you guys have made me realize what it’s like to be married.
This is the sweetest!! It's okay girl I was crying too 😂 I'm getting married in Sept and definitely want to make something like this!! You guys are so amazing ❤
You guys are so sweet and cute!! Happy one year anniversary guys!! Such an inspiration for my channel!!
Omg saving this idea in the back of my head! What a sweet thing to get to look back on for years to come ❤️
Wow! I don't comment very often on people's videos but just had to tell you guys you have a beautiful relationship 😗 you remind me of me & my husband when we got married! It's been 27 years for us! Keep being so real & honest with each other! I'm glad to know there are young couples like you in this crazy world! I enjoy your videos! Good content!
Hi to you two ! 😊 I'm really happy to "meet" you, this is the 4th video I watched after seeing Abby's haircut and the "Juicy questions" you asked each other in your car.
First, I want to tell you that I can see your hearts and love right through your eyes when you look at each other, talk to each other and talk about each other. Your love is so pure and beautiful !
I also want to thank you from across the Atlantic Ocean (France), for sharing your story. I have been through difficult times regarding a romantic relationship and other fields recently, but you two are a sign of the Universe telling me to carry on believing in "truly true" love ! ❤
I really do love you two. Please take care of each other even in bad times. I'm sending you love ➡️ 🌊🎈🌻
Thanks for sharing this wonderful video. I'm just so absolutely happy for you two, happy that you made that decision, happy that you are still together, happy to see your wonderful way.
Thanks for sharing these great memories filmed on your wedding night. For being a young couple you are very focused and mature and will hopefully achieve great things. All the best to you Matt and Abby.
Wow! We appreciate that so much!! Thank you!
I’m crying my eyes out watching this. You two are such a beautiful couple ❤
Aww this is SO sweet. My partner and I have been together for a little over 3 years and are just starting plan our wedding. I've added this idea in our books too! So so lovely and heartwarming 💖
You guys are so cute, I literally almost cried! You are so blessed and such a good example of what good and truly love is.
I'm new on your channel, but I feel so blessed that one video of your's appeared on my feed today, specially in this moment of my life where I needed to hear something like this to give me hopes on what true love looks like. I've been watching your videos for hours now cause I could'n sleep hahaha, but now, thaks to you, I'm very calm, thank you VERY MUCH!
Love you guys, hugs and xoxo! ❤️🤍
I am alone 💑💑😍😍😍❤❤🌷
I love the fact they made a video for themselves in the future as well. So beautiful ❤
WOW, for such a young couple, you're beautiful people. Happy anniversary, I just found you on your page so I had a look and you have a new follower. You can see that you both are still SSSSSSOOOOOOOOOO very much in love with each other. Here's to the next year, congratulations Matt and Abby ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love that you made goals for each other. My husband and I are getting ready to celebrate our 25th Anniversary and it is so sweet to see your lives and helps us remember the early days. Thanks for sharing
That is awesome! Thank you!
Wow! You can feel the love through the TH-cam screen. Matt is one very lucky man. Keep up the good work.
It is so lovely, there are other couples who want to get married, and wait with intimacy till that point. Sending you a lot of love for all coming years!
Apparently, I’m in a mood. Abby your crying made me bawl my eyes out. Love y’all!
This just gave me an idea to do a video on my wedding day in a month from now. Then do it every year in our anniversary. This is awesome 👏🏽
This is honestly the sweetest video ever
I really love your marriage and relationship, you two are soo loving, respecting en enjoying each other and how you two are is the thing I hope some day to find two
I would love so much to see a new reaction to this video! Love you dudes
This is absolutely adorable, sweet, and a great idea. I wish we had been able to do something like this on July 7, 2006 when we got married!
I have my written out vows but my husband basically went completely off script of his written out vows. Our wedding was recorded but the footage was corupted somehow and we lost everything.
After almost 17 years of marriage we could have used a video like this as a healthy reminder of how we felt and our certainty of God’s bringing us together.
This video made me cry, so beautiful! You guys are absolutely amazing!!! My sister and I watch your videos all the time. Abby, please do a makeup tutorial!!! Your makeup always looks flawless all the time!