Asking My Wife **JUICY** Questions Guys Are Too Afraid to Ask
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2024
- In this video, we ask my wife juicy questions guys are too afraid to ask. We cover the following:
Do girls stalk guys on social media? Are period cramps really that painful? What does "I'm fine" mean? Why do girls go to the bathroom in groups? Do girls like when guys are emotional? Does height matter? Does size matter? What are you most afraid of in a relationship? How can I get a girl to like me? First kiss tips? What's the best thing a guy can do for you on a date? Intimacy during that time of the month? What do you look for in a guy? What is your favorite hairstyle? Does long hair or short hair on a guy matter? Abs or no abs? Would it bother you if you dated someone that had many girlfriends before? What is your body count? Why do women spend so much time putting on makeup and looking like they didn't? Turnoffs or pet peeves? Do you like facial hair? Hair down there? Does it matter if he is circumcised? Why do girls complain about wanting a nice guy, but push the nice guys away? How long should you wait to have sex?
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“Why do girls go to the bathroom in groups?” In Harry Potter, Hermione got attacked by a troll in the bathroom. No further comment.
Hahahah 🤣
... that killed me 😐
Fax
Jajajajaja
And Ginny got taken, myrtle died, and Katie got cursed
“What am I gonna do get out a ruler” she’s not wrong 🤣🤣
LOL
Matt & Abby do you guys have Instagram
Not just size, but what about girth?Just asking....
@@corinehanes2956 personally as long as it’s 4+ inches idc
If you say it doesn’t matter you’ve never been with a really small one
What are you most afraid of? Honest answer: Being in a relationship and wishing I were single again.
Honest answer: Of never
being in a relationship 🙋♀️
Surely it's easier to leave someone because you want to than it is to find someone who's willing to take you?
The height thing was really important to me (I’m 5’10’’) until I met my husband who is 5’8’’. 🤷🏼♀️ it really doesn’t matter now!
BlankCanvas88 omg yeees
Then your not ready yet!!
Answer: getting in a toxic relationship
I love how you said that you should be prepared to have a baby when you have sex. So many people don’t understand the importance of that and it leads to a lot of broken families and people
Yes I completely agree! My easy answer to an end of abortion: stop having sex before you are able to have a baby. End of story.
@@willowmiller7006 yes, nothing else to say
Its sad really, there are a rare few who stay together though, one of my friends was dating a guy who was a year younger then her (he was 18 she was 19) she got pregnant and even though his parents were against it he asked her to marry him, they got married, had a baby girl and a year later they had another baby girl, definitely the happiest young family i have ever seen
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@@StellaEmerald I swear. Its like people forget that people can do what the fuxk they want. We live in a free world
I only say “I’m fine” when I’m mad at someone bc I don’t wanna accidentally hurt their feelings with something I say in the heat of the moment
Carly Walker very true!
Same
Same man 🙄
Never looked at it like that, bit of an eye-opener. Though personally I like to talk it all out, get everything out in the open. Being open and honest is in my mind the best remedy for a healthy relationship.
Same
I was taught to always go to the bathroom with other people for my safety. Typically women’s restroom are next to men’s and the reality of the world we live in now is that numbers bring safety in this situation.
True
Yes exactly!! Whenever this question comes up I'm always like "to avoid predators cause they're safety in numbers!!"
Same!
I like this wholesome couple!!! No F bombs, no trash talking. This is the way couple should be.
Absolutely
100%
Mhmm
100%
It's different for every couple. Many people just have different senses of humor
PERIOD CRAMPS ARE THAT BAD just saying
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Mine are
Yes they are. Mine get so bad that I throw up.
@Emily Kuessner mine never used to be but now they make me crawl up in bed and cry and go through a whole packet of painkillers
Mine hurt soooo bad I feel like I’m getting stabbed and torn in every way possible
The bathroom one, I feel like a huge opportunity to shed some light on safety was missed. Sometimes we go to the bathroom in groups because we don't feel safe going on our own.
Also lines are long and we need someone to talk to
Yes thank you!
I'm 22 year old female and never been to the bathroom with anyone else 😩 I do feel like I'm missing something... But why would you not feel safe going to a toilet? That's like the safest place surely 🤷♀️
Yea I go to the bathroom with my friends because I don’t feel safe going alone...
@@annabelleagnew37 but why?
“I’m fine” means “Everything will be ok, I know that, but it sucks right now and I need you to care, I need to vent, I need a shoulder to cry on, I need to know I can trust you with my feelings. I don’t want advice, I just want your ear but I am too afraid to ask.”
Thats a lot of words, so it’s just easier to say “I’m fine”😂😂 we can be lazy with our answers too
I say the same thing when it’s too complicated to express, or when I know I’ll be ok and I don’t want to bother you with it.
“I’m fine” is a test. To see if you actually know the girl to know they’re not fine and to see what you can do to make it better.
Rose Farstone I try not to do it. I just know that that’s why a lot of people do it. Don’t come at me for it lmao
yeah, it would be easier to just be straight up honest. but us girls have doubts too... so i guess in a way, by saying “i’m fine” we’re hoping our “partner” or “boyfriend” will continue to care
Thank u very much for the information
It's not a test. Sometimes we say it because we don't want to talk about it or bother anyone
I love that closing statement about being careful abt who you have a baby with. I'm a single mom, got pregnant at 20 & wish I had gotten that advice. I adore my son (he'll be 17 next month), but he grew up without a dad and if I had known better, sometimes I wish I had picked a better dad for him, maybe one who would be present and not abusive then later absent. So YESSS, be careful and think your decisions through! Goes for guys and girls! :)
girl we are so proud of u!!and happy early birthday for your son he have a strong mother
Matt should try a period cramp simulator 😂
That idea is golden!!!
YASSS
This comment made my day
That would make such a funny video
Anybody who understands pain knows those things are completely bogus.
I feel like “I’m fine” means either she’s actually fine or she’s upset. If she’s upset, she’s either waiting for you to ask about it, or she just doesn’t want to talk. For instance, if she’s mad at you, she may say “I’m fine” to get you to initiate the conversation.
Great point!
literally just killed my brain
Maybe it's because I'm Dutch and we are super straight forward but I don't get why you would answer "i'm fine" when someone specifically asks if something is wrong. To illustrate the weirdness: if a waiter asks you if you want to drink something and you say no, then don't expect a drink coming your way 🤷♀️
@@lidewijvos yoooo thats so true xD
This is childish. Instead of saying “I’m fine” just say that you are upset. I don’t understand this.
“I want you to think I want you to leave me alone, but I DONT want you to leave me alone” OMG so true
Did anyone else notice when they switched treats? lol it caught me off guard
Nice eye!
I didn’t noticed but now I searched for it 😂😂
I searched for this comment to make sure I wasn’t the only one 😂
It took me second and then when I realized I went back to see how long they had been eating the other ones icecream😆
Haha! I told my hubs this, too! So funny.
The bathroom one is probably cuz hermoine got attacked by a troll when she went alone, Ginny got aducted and Myrtle died😂😂😂😂
Katie got cursed
Ka Lane I did? Just kidding I got you
Omg that is so true
STOPP LMAO
And Katie got cursed lol
Abby's right - "I'm fine" from a girl is loaded.
I feel like Abby’s personality really showed in this video! Love it 😀
😂❤️👍🏻
The part about the ruler...yes guys really out here believing girls carry around a portable ruler 😂
LOL 😂
You have a ruler that isn’t portable? 😂😂
i actually have a ruler that folds in half so i'm all set
me, someone who works with wood and other materials, who literally will carry around a portable ruler... :0
🤣 Nah, use a fabric soft ruler. 💯
Abby’s personality is just like Rosanna Pansino 🤣 she’s so sweet and kind and funny!
Awww you’re so sweet! Thanks!
Nah, she seems more genuine than Pansino actually.
omg she is💛
I totally agree with Abby on the emotional thing. I want my husband to be sensitive and to know it’s okay to cry, but wouldn’t want him crying all of the time. I cry enough.
Ya that is Double standard though
"Im fine"...we say that when we dont wanna burden you with our problems and we're trying to hold it together and be strong....again this does not apply for everyone.
Im 5’9 something and my boyfriend is 5’8 - it was for sure hard at first because I felt “bigger” than him, but he still makes me feel protected and feminine so can attest - height does not matter but it feels like it does at first.
Thank you for sharing!! ❤️
That gave me hope because I’m 5’7 and still growing
Alejandro Martinez I promise it doesn’t matter to the right person 😊
The question what does “I’m fine” really means, for me it usually means “I’m tired of talking about this so I’ll just say I’m fine so we can move on” 😂
These are really mature responses, especially for your ages and as a young married couple with no other partners.
That made me sound really old, but I'm just impressed!
You're right that so much of the superficial stuff simply fades away and is irrelevant in the face of a deeper love and bond with your partner. 💕
sometimes I think "I'm fine" is us trying to convince ourselves that we are fine, whether we are or not.
Very true!
maybe im just dumb but when he said "we're so happy you're here" i felt so welcome and i subscribed lol
Aww thanks! WE ARE SO HAPPY YOU ARE HERE!!! ❤️❤️❤️
i love how you guys are telling people that the first time they should do it is after they're married. I commend you
Agree 1000%!!!!
MATT: OR THERE FOOT SIZE
ABBY:mathew!
LOL 😂
"What am I gonna do, get out a ruler?" LOL
LOL
I love how they are so serious and then she says that she loves her “brown chunka” ice cream lol
Concerning the question why girls go to bathrooms in groups: Sometimes (or, most of the times actually) it's a safety measure. Either it's to talk about something not everyone's supposed to hear (believe me, you'll never hear as much stories and trashtalk and whatever as you hear in girls bathrooms😂) OR, and that's a pretty important one, we go together to ensure the other one is save. Personally, for my group of friends it's an absolute no-go to let a female go to the bathroom all by herself if you're out in the public. You never know what might happen...
nbec that's true I try to always use the buddy sisteme
Yes! There was one time I was in the school bathroom and two girls came in and they didn't know I was in there and they were talking trash about someone and then I awkwardly walked out because they were taking too long to leave so when I walked out they both just looked at me like "oh crap you heard that?"
Julia Brookes loool
One time I was in a shnucks bathroom and there was,like snarling noises from the other stall.
It was either a lady who was breathing weird, ooooorrrr a freakin monster,I left before I found out.
@@madeleinecarson7262 omg that's sooo weird😂
OMG SO WELL SAID.
“I’m fine” actually can mean “leave me alone” for some women or “hey, you need to ask questions to help me through something” like Abby said...you guys have to figure out which one your woman means.
Abby's too cute...her response to "body count" 😂
I love how you guys are so sincere and don’t sugar coat everything! Y’all are seriously couple goals! I’m so glad I came upon you guys just this week, it’s made my week 10x better.
Abby: I look for somebody that is happy, joyful
Matt: a literal golden retriever
I’m a few years off of 30 and I still enjoyed both these videos! For a person that has not done ‘that’ yet and was once in a serious long term relationship, I completely agree with your outlook and view point. I’m happy I’m saving myself for the one. I think it’s really good that young people like yourselves are talking about this because young people need to hear it’s nothing to rush into and it’s ok to wait. Do more of these type videos 🥳
Love that! Thank you for sharing. We appreciate the support!
Abby, I am soooo in tune with you when it comes to guys Lockerroom talk around women! I am a grandpa and drive a school bus and nothing bothers me more than guys who talk nasty or curse around them. My own boys talk like that around their children and is a major argument between us s.
I love your open honest genuine answers to the "hard questions'. So much TRUTH. Glad that you two are strong and confident in your relationship to share with others. The 18-24 person really need people like you two to be this open . This is what true love looks like.
This lady is so sensible, so mature and I loved it...I love both of them❤️
I love how Abby is so genuine and she’s so like honest and y’all are by far my favorite yt couple and y’all literally suite each other so well love y’all Abby and Matt
You guys remind me what its like to be with a guy who makes you feel cute, sexy, confident and intelligent. What it feels like to love the way a partner makes you feel. I've forgotten what that feels like in my last relationship and look forward to that again so thankyou
I would love to see a hopes for the future video, maybe talking about what your goals are individually, as a couple, and your future family!
Noted. Thanks for the idea!
THANK YOU ABBY for being so real, I am a girl and sometimes my period pain is bad sometimes not so much, it depends and sometimes I also play it up a bit and every single girl out there does toooo and you are the ONLY ONE who has actually said it. Thank you for not playing the victim because I know so many women emotionally manipulate men through period pain. Thank you!!
The one thing I really like is that they don’t look at the camera every time they start talking, they look at each other and have a convo which I just really like cause I don’t like when you tubers always look to the camera and are not as laid back as they are 💕
I am way outside of your target viewer age, but I just love hearing young people making right choices and not be afraid to talk about it. You two the sweetest and pretty funny, too. Stay true to each other and communicate, communicate, communicate! 😊
I wish I’d have had you guys as roll models when I was younger. Keep being you it’s so valuable for youngsters to have good role models
i’m 15 and i just discovered your channel and i love it so much! you guys are so sweet and positive and i love all the real tips that are in your video 🥰🥰
I go to the bathroom with my friends because I'm too scared to go alone. with a friend, at least I have someone with me if we were to get separated from the group (like if they move location while I'm peeing)
Totally get that ❤️
yes! i totally agree, abby. confidence gives us assurance that the guy will be a good protector and a provider... and just stand up for us in general. looks however only last for a few decades, and will inevitably change. but the integrity and confidence of the person will hopefully not. :) thanks for the encouragement that yall bring 💕you guys are so cute
I also want to note on a couple of these:
There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. Confident people just have an ease about them and are easy to talk to. Arrogant people make it harder to be around and harder to have conversations with.
As for choosing the bad guy, yes, some women are immature or just seem to choose the wrong men unfortunately. Not that it can't happen, but often if you're going to a bar to find a good relationship, you're looking in the wrong spot. Do things you enjoy often and there's a good chance you'll meet someone with similar interests.
Abs are nice and all, but I wouldn't want a man obsessing with it. If he spends more time at the gym and looking in the mirror than on his relationship, no thank you. As far as abs and height go, sure there can be an initial attraction with those, but as people get to know each other and begin to like each other that stuff does not matter. You like the person for them, not how they look.
As for period cramps, some girls have it worse than others. In my teens I would almost pass out from the pain every month. As in I would get clammy and sweaty and my face would get really pale. After my teens they have gotten much better but I still have the occasional extra painful month. I actually try to hide it because I don't like showing that side of myself.
For vulnerability of men, I personally prefer men to be able to have a genuine conversation about thoughts and feelings on something but would not like them crying all the time. Just like I do not want to be crying all the time. Vulnerability, but not emotional.
I’m 50 and love y’all! Love your TikTok’s too. I’m a nurse and you brighten my days/nights during this awful COVID season♥️
Thank you for your service to the community! So glad we are getting to brighten your day ❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so incredible! Love your hearts and honesty! I think it's so heathy and needed for young people to know the beauty of marriage! Thankful for all you do!
Thank you guys for being so open and honest and talking about all of this. Love you guys
I like how you two are comfortable enough to talk to your audience and be open about topics and speak the truth in such a kind way to not offend anyone! Love your videos so much!! ❤
That is such a sweet comment! Thank you!!
You're so sweet!!! Do a "who knows each other better" video, or an sketch of couples with height differences if that makes sense 😂 Love you guys!
Great idea!!
I crossed upon your channel and I am so glad that I did. I too got married “to young” at 20 and am about to celebrate five years. Congratulations on being young In love and solid in who you are and what you believe. You are setting such a positive example!
Also, you both are so incredibly wise! I love hearing y'alls advice and opinions. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
On the confidence over looks thing: I find this to be completely true, at least for women who are not just looking for a fling. I know several men who are obese or not classically good-looking who find success in relationships. I was not confident for a long time, but I’ve started working on being more open and feeling comfortable in my own skin and only after a couple of days, I’m already seeing more interest from some women. I’m actively avoiding a serious relationship right now though, because I need to work on myself so I can be more considerate and healthy for my next relationship.
I agree with everything you said!!! Abby is SO GORGEOUS! For the bathroom question, it’s a great way to talk in public and it’s also kinda a safety thing for me? Y’all are the cutest! 💖
Thank you so much! We are so glad you are a part of the fam 🤗
I love your morals. These are beautiful conversations with fantastic advise. Thank you both for being such an example. God bless!
Watching adorable couples like you guys make it worthwhile. It's always good when couples watch your videos together.
My husband and I just got married, and we love watching your video’s together. We’re also in our early 20’s and it’s nice to see married couples our age.
That is awesome! Love it ❤️
I love you guys!! You spread so much positivity and I really appreciate you guys speaking on subjects that can be hard to talk about.
Thank you so much!!!
@@MattandAbby OMG thank you so much for responding!!!! I'm freaking out!!!!!!
she’s so wise! love this couple
GREAT ADVICE!! + I was laughing my head off, y’all just click so well together and God made y’all for each other!!
I love y’all’s videos !!! y’all are so inspiring. I’ve been following you on TikTok for a while now and i’m curious ... are y’all a particular faith/denomination? the way you discuss marriage/dating reminds me a lot of my Catholic faith especially now that I’m in college. no pressure to disclose that info though!!! thank you guys for being a great example of marriage!
Matt: our audience is mainly 18-24 year olds Me: I’m 13......😂
LOL
Same
Same ..
Sup' people
Me too😆
I’m 14
Y'all are so cute. This and the first part both made me smile. Thank you!
You are so honest and sincere. I love to hear your perspective on these topics. Awesome video! Great advise! Abby is the sweetest! 😊
LOVE abbys answer to the i’m fine question
haha thanks!!
17:38 I also think that some “bad guys” pretend to be “good guys” but really it’s just an act. Also, if you are in a vulnerable place it’s easy to look past the red flags. Like my mams dad died and that’s when my mam met my dad and my dad is a toxic narcissist. It’s not all guys and I’m not saying that all guys are bad but that’s just my experience.
Thank you for sharing! We really appreciate your vulnerability and insight. Sending love your way ❤️
I love your guys answers🥺 you’re so sweet and so so wise! Love you guys!
Love your honesty & willingness to talk about taboo subjects.
Man today was perfect i got my learners permit and matt and abby post a new vid like best day of 2020
Well tbh 2020 SUCKS!!!!
Congrats! Also, thanks for joining us for a new video :)
I love how he gave you attention while you were talking💓💓
Aww you're so sweet!
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Thank you guys for doing these juicy videos. I feel that a lot of the answers to these questions differ according to the each individual person and it's something that we have to each discuss with our significant other for ourselves, but I found your answers extremely interesting.
You guys are just so nice and cute together and so wonderfully welcoming! You guys are definitely my favorite TH-camrs!❤️❤️
Matt: "Keeping real is important"
Abby: "MMMMMM BrOwNiE cHuNk"
Sent this video to my fiancé because the “I’m fine” question was so spot on! 🙌🏼
Those last few points y'all made were so good!!!
First video I’ve ever watched of your guys’ ... I LOVE the positive and happy energy 💛
I like this relationship because it teaches young kids what a healthy relationship looks like yes I know I’m single but when I’m older and ready for a relationship and I’m already exposed to healthy relationships like this and not tolerate abusive relationship like my parents, my mom always told me to get a good guy unlike my father and I think Matt is a great example for traits I want in my future man
So like, the guy that I like is confident while playing his sport but off the track he is shy and it is the most adorable thing😂🥺
I’m so glad I found your channel! I relate so much to Abby and have never done that in a TH-camr before
That was great advice 9:00 and 16:57 was spot on but I also think attachment style issues come into it.
And I couldn't agree more about saving oneself for marriage
Quick question is uncomfortability a word?? 😂 y'all are so cute!
LOL I thought so... If not, let's make it one 😂
Matt & Abby haha discomfort is the word you’re looking for!
Well it is now!😂
At 9:13 I said out loud to myself "When did they switch?" as in their ice cream lol :)
LOL nice catch!
LOL I didn’t even notice
Haha yeah I had to repeat that one 😂😂 I was like 😵 “what did I miss” 😳😳 (repeat the clip) 😂
@@mirimoromedjesus yeah me too
Lol me too! I went back to see when they did
You two just came up in my recommended and you’re goals
im 15 and i love and appreciate your openness. this channel is amazing and i love the advice you guys give! love you so much M&A
Oh my gosh when Matt just reached over and played with her hair 😍😍🔥 🔥
I found you guys on tik tok and I cant stop watching your videos!
Aww thank you so much you guys :)
Y’all’s video was in my recommendation feed and y’all are sooo cute together!! Now one of my top youtube couples!!
I love how you both are so comfortable with each other! You guys are so cute ❤️
Just for the fact that Abby said we should wait till marriage made me follow her
Do what you think is right
Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between arrogance and confidence.
I love watching you guys, makes me so happy during not happy times. But you guys radiate happiness! How do you do that?!
Very mature for a couple who have been together for such a short time. Communication with, and respect for, each other will help you thru what you'll experience (We've been together 40 years). Good luck you two!
“I’m fine” depends on the tone. Sometimes it means that we just need time alone.