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One of worst mistakes that I ever made was trying to be friends with everybody at work. Somebody is always having a bad day and wants to ruin your day as well. Just go to work and do your job and don't worry about everybody liking you. If you make a few friends great! But if you don't then don't let it get to you. One of the best things that my wife said to me was "those people aren't your friends their just the people you work with."
Same thing with me! I used to wonder what could I do to make someone like me when they didn’t. I came to the conclusion that if I gave them $1million, (if I had it) I’m still a sucker or worse to them. Now, I couldn’t care less about them.
I've realized that now from the last place I worked, I was quiet there as well and just kept my head down, I was bullied and wouldn't say anything about it, I was close to a nervous breakdown down when I left, all of these things make me realize that now, if I knew then what I know now I wouldn't have been so soft and I would have fought back, the same person now just won't dare speak to me. I still work were I am now but but people have just realised what I can be like if I'm upset or put upon, the boss speaks to me again and things have quietened down, I'm proud of myself for fighting back and it's made people realise I'm not as quiet as they thought I was. 👍.
Never allow yourself to be in relationships with critical, controlling people who want you to live life like they do. Live your own life being your own wonderful person.
I'm 59 year's old. I grew up with a Narcississtic mother, also, I chose the wrong relationships. My highschool girlfriend, has been helping me realize things about my life and to slowly make positive changes.
That doesn't work if your life is improved by what they expect from you. Just because a person guides themselves doesn't mean they have any idea what they are doing. My ex girlfriend always thought she knew better than me. She would ask me for advice, I would give her my advice, then she woulx do the exact opposite. It would blow up in her face, and I would remind her that the problem is that she doesn't listen, nothing else. Just yesterday I actually talked to her and reminded her of 6 different incidences where she didn't listen and it cost her several thousands of dollars. She is still interested in marrying me, but as I explained to her AGAIN, she has repeatedly demonstrated that she doesn't want the job, simply by refusing to listen. People should not assume that because some shows control over them that it's a bad thing. It's not my problem to deal with the aftermath of her stupid decisions because she refused to listen.
I learned this the hard way long ago. Don't give a crap what others think about me anymore. Took a long time but it brings peace of mind and self respect. All young people need this kind of advice, advice from the ancients.
There is phislophy in schools but the matter is to structuring thinking. It would be excelent to mix with stoic thinking, or maybe an entire stoix disciplin. Maybe too harsh for kids but they would get some ideas
Same for me! It takes years of others bullsh*t to come to this conclusion. It’s like working hard to earn something. You feel better about it than if it just fell in your lap.
This is awesome. I've been learning that when you're happy, you're hated if you stand up for yourself and live a happy life that scares people because you're free and they're not and can't stand to see you improve you
Boys and Girls Ladies and gentlemen Brothers and sisters. Thank God for another day. Every moment. Every breath. Every beat of my heart. I so love life. Bless Momma. Bless Poppa. Bless all the children of the world. Please help me stay focused and driven. Amen 😊
Thank you very much, I'm going to have it out with the boss tonight, see how things go, if he doesn't listen then something is going to give, he'll either sack me or help me. 🤞🤞.
I grew up in a town of 1500 people crammed into 1 m/s on an island. Gossip Central! My friends and myself learned to say " fuckem" early. You simply had to, or lose your identity in everyone's thoughts. Probably some of THE most valuable advice anyone can offer!❤❤❤
I've been lucky having a wise dad he always told me"i am not responsible for what other people think and I have lived my life with that in mind, I am 63 years old and still live the same
Wise father! I’m 58 and over the last 7-8 years have come to the same philosophy. It’s only gotten stronger and I appreciate it more. Less people in my life and it’s fantastic.
@@backagain5216 You are lucky. When I was a child and a teenager, the only thing my mother cared about was what OTHER people thought about me. I had to grown up and learn how wrongly she thought.
@@peterpuleo2904 But you grew up Peter and now understand! Many people never do, live unhappy lives and die. You are wiser than you think you are. I wish you the very best from Cape Breton, Nova Scotia.
I greatly appreciate your content. I live my life by most of these seven principles and am working on mastering all of them eventually. What you speak is absolutely correct. I’ve gone through most of these with family, friends and even strangers. I spend a great deal of time alone and this brings me joy. As I’ve gotten older and wiser, I look back on my life and see that I had wasted years worrying about trivial insignificant matters. I cannot get back those years , however, I can and will make the necessary changes to ensure the past doesn’t shape my future.
Very good and so true. Dont usually look at media bs. Today I did. 90% of what I saw feed my inner demons. And then this. Gold. So I stop here and will continue live my own life❤
My best friend passed away one year ago and it broke my heart because the one thing she taught me was to take no crap from people, now she is not here with me i know she's not far away and if any one crosses me i tell them, lately I've been having problems with people at work and my boss seems to think they don't like my attitude but thanks to my best friend she has taught me to stand for what i believe in, ninety five percent i think of people i believe are fine but the other five dont. I don't care because I'm standing for what i believe in, any body else out there remember your just a number and if you don't stand up for your self no one will do it for you. Stay strong and determined and watch the changes everyone. 🤗.
Well said! Why do we care about what people think who we don’t respect? Thoreau said that any man more right than his neighbors constitutes a majority of one.
Me too, but after hearing this video I better start believing that I'm really alright on the outside to deal with the bastards of this world. You are the most important person out there, who are these low life scumbags anyway, even bad family members. By the way I'm telling myself this everyday 😊
@@Sweepee-v2v Hi! Thanks for sharing your similar experience. I appreciate it. Yep after nearly 70 years on this planet I've come to realize a few things. First, trying to find a partner compatible enough that you'll be good for one another is like searching for a needle in a haystack. In other words it's wasted time. Second trust must be earned not given freely. Also when you're at your lowest those who care and the phonies will sort themselves out. Oddly enough I was surprised by people I didn't know cared that much and everyone I thought were my friends were nowhere to be found. It's amazing to me how wrong I can be about someone. I lived alone at one point for 15 years. I accomplished things alone that I never could have while involved with someone. Lonliness now and then? Of course but as time went on I became very happy with my own company. It's been an adventure and hopefully I've got ten or 15 years more of discovery. Blessings to you sis
Love yourself- at the end of each day, look into the mirror, and tell yourself that you truly do love yourself, you have made it to the end of another day, and you are doing your best ❤
I’ll be 59 in a few weeks. We would not have heeded the message at that age. We thought we knew everything. Life’s experiences have brought us here and for that I’m grateful.
Having the I do not give a s**t attitude has been a blessing to me. I've been practicing it for several years. A so-called friend tried to get a hold of me today and I didn't answer the phone. As time progresses you get to learn a lot about people and how they're just an anchor in your life. Don't bother me to help you with your labor. Always remember if you want to make yourself valuable, make yourself unavailable.
You are welcome! 1.Dont be afraid -Be yourself! 2. Choose wisely - Don't care for irrelevant things! 3. Learn to say NO! 4. Love yourself- make you first priority! 5. Establish your own definition of success! 6. Stop seeking permission from others! 7. You will soon be dead- YOLO!
Ive lived this way the majority of my life. If i F-up,I'll admit to it before someone else points it out. When i do good, i don't need accolades, just leave me alone to carry on. Never been one to ask for help even when I should.
🤭Can relate to this, luckily in my parish we have a new & very wise & witty priest that always gives such practical, inspiring and uplifting homilies/sermon that makes me dont wanna leave the church.😇
Truly living life - in a nutshell. A man's reputation is the only and most important he has and stands above all else he may or may not accumulate in his life's journey. Naturally applies to women too.
I've been living this way (for a couple few months)at age 56 as a frustrated artist.. The only problem is ...it doesn't pay very well.. but I'm happy as hell
Yes we can. This is so important to people that's gone through crap in life and found a new way to think and bring the original person back so strong and fulfilled. Take no shit from anyone 💯 😊
Free yourself from what others believe of you and you can be free. Don't necessarily ignore what they say, but don't let it run your life and decisions.
That was real, I felt that part , we all gonna die part, that definitely hit my soul , we definitely gotta live life to fullest and God in your heart, love your video and thank you for your words of wisdom,, take care and God bless 🙏⛪️🎓👍✔️
BEING A HUMANITARIAN I WAS GENEROUS, CARING, AND HELPING ALLOT OF PEOPLE. FOR HAVING A GREAT HEART SOME WOULD NOT APPRECIATE OR TAKE ADVANTAGE. I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY TO LET GO AND NOT GIVE A F*CK. I'VE LEARNED NOT TO OFFER MYSELF OR BE SO NICE. TOO BAD I'VE BEEN CHANGED CAUSE IN THIS WORLD YOU DON'T FIND TOO MANY WITH THE GREAT HEART THAT I HAD.
Thank you for sharing this important and valuable information. I am working on this. Soaking this in after a long day at work enjoying a fine cigar and a favorite bourbon.
Thought provoking content indeed but it’s everything that I believe. Must admit that it was rather nice to have it validated though. Keep up the great work! 😊
#8 : DON'T sign into Facebook as soon as you wake up, get up, do as you do as you want, then log in once your awake and ready to kick ass and laugh shit off!
I haven't given one single fück for many, many years. And what I've noticed throughout those years, is that the "science" of the psychiatric and sociology fields focus on diluting individualism, to push people to better conform to societal norms They tend to label individuals who possess the traits mentioned in this video as narcissist personalities. I also came to realize that most psychologists/psychiatrists are only capable of putting what they were taught into practice, and rarely know how to explore or improve on it or to think beyond the basics. Most will simply sit and let you ramble on, while giving an occasional signal of "understanding" or attentiveness through audio hints "mhmm" and a subtle nod, then affirm all your feelings, and send you the bill, never actually doing anything or helping you, other than throwing the basic, common bandaids at your problems. It's the art/skill of BS, applied with one objective... to pay off their student loans. The entertainment industry, social media, etc. are focused on steering society through creating "trends" (not just fashion trends, but all societal trends) The vast majority of the population is a subconscious slave to all of it. So the best thing one can do, is to literally avoid all of it. Do this and you will eventually begin to notice how most people follow literal protocols in every day interactions. Females tend to be the easiest to manipulate/influence for these platforms. This is due to females being more emotionally driven/controlled, and their deep desire and need to fit in and be liked, and their naturally competitive nature toward other females. Another thing I'll mention is, everything mentioned here applies to all others, not only random strangers, but to family members as well. No matter "who" someone is in your life. Most importantly, don't outsource for anything, love, appreciation, value, respect, etc.. When you outsource, you become dependent on securing everything from outside, and this creates a trap which is extremely difficult to get out of.
This has to be the most Comforting Mind blowing piece of Love and Guidance Ihave ever received Life changing and powerfully TransformativeThank you Just Epic
We're ALL but ONE breath away from Heaven . I'm sitting at 3am in my dad's hospital room. Even that billion lottery can't fix what really matters,& can't buy us TIME
Keep doing it. It becomes so enjoyable, best one is when you say I'll have to think about it, then you make decision to tell them no. Baffling to them ,they try get information on why ,but just repeating because I said no, because I said no. End of. If they persist ask them what's wrong with them and as they're giving the speech , cut off and remove yourself. It's getting easier and I'll never go back the way. Life is to short to give a damn. Me first now. 😊
I can careless but my family is the worst . I was the black sheep in a family full of narcissist . They crucified me cause I always confronted them about lies . And I know they will screw me on the will
That's people, you can choose your friends but not your family, if it was me I would think stuff it, there is more to life than money, the more you have the more you want and the less you have the more you appreciate it, keep in mind Karma. Good luck. ❤.
I don't understand why other people's opinions even matter unless I ask for it, I have personality issues 😁 I love having my issues too Try liking yourself people don't get as weird about it.
Your not a slave from other people’s expectations . It can be form of manipulation and deceptions, if you allow it, And it kills individuality, Freedom of expression and Freewill .
Well that often my authority doesn't go beyond property lines. Although still ridiculed about my actions. Why all the dislikes? Finding myself very Alone but undefeated.
Edit suggestion: "can find themselves to mental prisons", should read, "confine themselves to mental prisons". The planet Earth should be capitalized. Excellent video, thank you!
Thank you for coming here, you are a powerful person, so help other people to be like you by leaving a like and comment, it helps our channel reach more people.
Thank you Brainy.
"A lion does not consider the opinions of sheep". The most empowering statement ever made.
omgggg
One of worst mistakes that I ever made was trying to be friends with everybody at work. Somebody is always having a bad day and wants to ruin your day as well. Just go to work and do your job and don't worry about everybody liking you. If you make a few friends great! But if you don't then don't let it get to you. One of the best things that my wife said to me was "those people aren't your friends their just the people you work with."
Same thing with me! I used to wonder what could I do to make someone like me when they didn’t. I came to the conclusion that if I gave them $1million, (if I had it) I’m still a sucker or worse to them. Now, I couldn’t care less about them.
Totally agree. 👍. Have a nice day.
I've realized that now from the last place I worked, I was quiet there as well and just kept my head down, I was bullied and wouldn't say anything about it, I was close to a nervous breakdown down when I left, all of these things make me realize that now, if I knew then what I know now I wouldn't have been so soft and I would have fought back, the same person now just won't dare speak to me. I still work were I am now but but people have just realised what I can be like if I'm upset or put upon, the boss speaks to me again and things have quietened down, I'm proud of myself for fighting back and it's made people realise I'm not as quiet as they thought I was. 👍.
Never allow yourself to be in relationships with critical, controlling people who want you to live life like they do. Live your own life being your own wonderful person.
That's exactly what I'm doing. Time to make a change.
@@jfox0015I have and should have sooner. Less friends than I did but happier and more content. I love my life and you will love yours too!
I'm 59 year's old.
I grew up with a Narcississtic mother, also, I chose the wrong relationships.
My highschool girlfriend, has been helping me realize things about my life and to slowly make positive changes.
Lived in that BS for 18yrs.
That doesn't work if your life is improved by what they expect from you. Just because a person guides themselves doesn't mean they have any idea what they are doing.
My ex girlfriend always thought she knew better than me. She would ask me for advice, I would give her my advice, then she woulx do the exact opposite. It would blow up in her face, and I would remind her that the problem is that she doesn't listen, nothing else. Just yesterday I actually talked to her and reminded her of 6 different incidences where she didn't listen and it cost her several thousands of dollars.
She is still interested in marrying me, but as I explained to her AGAIN, she has repeatedly demonstrated that she doesn't want the job, simply by refusing to listen.
People should not assume that because some shows control over them that it's a bad thing. It's not my problem to deal with the aftermath of her stupid decisions because she refused to listen.
I learned this the hard way long ago. Don't give a crap what others think about me anymore. Took a long time but it brings peace of mind and self respect. All young people need this kind of advice, advice from the ancients.
There is phislophy in schools but the matter is to structuring thinking. It would be excelent to mix with stoic thinking, or maybe an entire stoix disciplin.
Maybe too harsh for kids but they would get some ideas
Same for me. Golden rules 🤝
Same for me! It takes years of others bullsh*t to come to this conclusion. It’s like working hard to earn something. You feel better about it than if it just fell in your lap.
The Dark side of the Moon is never far from the C.D.player, in the Shop, 66 and it still keeps me Going.
"Being yourself in a society that constantly wants you to be someone else is a great achievement." -Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Done it, doing it and I will keep doing it. This is true freedom as it is freedom of the mind. They can take everything from me but not my thoughts.
This is awesome. I've been learning that when you're happy, you're hated if you stand up for yourself and live a happy life that scares people because you're free and they're not and can't stand to see you improve you
Boys and Girls Ladies and gentlemen Brothers and sisters. Thank God for another day. Every moment. Every breath. Every beat of my heart. I so love life. Bless Momma. Bless Poppa. Bless all the children of the world. Please help me stay focused and driven. Amen 😊
Amen
Love the positivity!!!
Bring it on. ❤❤❤.
Stay blessed and all the very best to you in health&happiness and love from Cape Breton, Nova Scotia.
Thank you very much, I'm going to have it out with the boss tonight, see how things go, if he doesn't listen then something is going to give, he'll either sack me or help me. 🤞🤞.
I grew up in a town of 1500 people crammed into 1 m/s on an island. Gossip Central! My friends and myself learned to say " fuckem" early. You simply had to, or lose your identity in everyone's thoughts. Probably some of THE most valuable advice anyone can offer!❤❤❤
Totally agree. ❤.
Cornish island?
I've been lucky having a wise dad he always told me"i am not responsible for what other people think and I have lived my life with that in mind, I am 63 years old and still live the same
Wise father! I’m 58 and over the last 7-8 years have come to the same philosophy. It’s only gotten stronger and I appreciate it more. Less people in my life and it’s fantastic.
@@backagain5216 You are lucky. When I was a child and a teenager, the only thing my mother cared about was what OTHER people thought about me. I had to grown up and learn how wrongly she thought.
@@peterpuleo2904 But you grew up Peter and now understand! Many people never do, live unhappy lives and die. You are wiser than you think you are. I wish you the very best from Cape Breton, Nova Scotia.
@@backagain5216 Thank you, and best to you also from Illinois.
I greatly appreciate your content. I live my life by most of these seven principles and am working on mastering all of them eventually. What you speak is absolutely correct. I’ve gone through most of these with family, friends and even strangers.
I spend a great deal of time alone and this brings me joy. As I’ve gotten older and wiser, I look back on my life and see that I had wasted years worrying about trivial insignificant matters. I cannot get back those years , however, I can and will make the necessary changes to ensure the past doesn’t shape my future.
Brilliant helpful comment. I am exactly the same. 😊
I agree too. We should all be more forgiving and proud of ourselves more, if you don't stand up for yourself, no body will do it for you. ❤❤.
This is why everyone loves Joe Pesci
I stopped caring years ago...I can tell other people where they can shove their opinions and society in general.
Very good and so true. Dont usually look at media bs. Today I did. 90% of what I saw feed my inner demons. And then this. Gold. So I stop here and will continue live my own life❤
My best friend passed away one year ago and it broke my heart because the one thing she taught me was to take no crap from people, now she is not here with me i know she's not far away and if any one crosses me i tell them, lately I've been having problems with people at work and my boss seems to think they don't like my attitude but thanks to my best friend she has taught me to stand for what i believe in, ninety five percent i think of people i believe are fine but the other five dont. I don't care because I'm standing for what i believe in, any body else out there remember your just a number and if you don't stand up for your self no one will do it for you. Stay strong and determined and watch the changes everyone. 🤗.
Have a nice day. 🙂.
Well said! Why do we care about what people think who we don’t respect? Thoreau said that any man more right than his neighbors constitutes a majority of one.
Anyone who quotes Thoreau is okay by me.
I found that I'm better alone. Uncomplicated and home had truly become my domicile.
Peace
Me too, but after hearing this video I better start believing that I'm really alright on the outside to deal with the bastards of this world. You are the most important person out there, who are these low life scumbags anyway, even bad family members. By the way I'm telling myself this everyday 😊
@@Sweepee-v2v Hi! Thanks for sharing your similar experience. I appreciate it. Yep after nearly 70 years on this planet I've come to realize a few things. First, trying to find a partner compatible enough that you'll be good for one another is like searching for a needle in a haystack. In other words it's wasted time. Second trust must be earned not given freely. Also when you're at your lowest those who care and the phonies will sort themselves out. Oddly enough I was surprised by people I didn't know cared that much and everyone I thought were my friends were nowhere to be found. It's amazing to me how wrong I can be about someone. I lived alone at one point for 15 years. I accomplished things alone that I never could have while involved with someone. Lonliness now and then? Of course but as time went on I became very happy with my own company. It's been an adventure and hopefully I've got ten or 15 years more of discovery.
Blessings to you sis
Good on you. ❤❤.
@@Unknownlll123 Thank you Catherine. Are you in your 60's?
Not yet, but I'll get there eventually. 😀.
This content is absolute gold. Worth spreading this to friends far and wide.
Love yourself- at the end of each day, look into the mirror, and tell yourself that you truly do love yourself, you have made it to the end of another day, and you are doing your best ❤
Success is being loved and respected. Both require commitment and character.
Where was this video when I was 18? I am now 59 and it has taken me a long time to come to the same conclusion! Great video and wisdom!
I’ll be 59 in a few weeks. We would not have heeded the message at that age. We thought we knew everything. Life’s experiences have brought us here and for that I’m grateful.
Having the I do not give a s**t attitude has been a blessing to me. I've been practicing it for several years. A so-called friend tried to get a hold of me today and I didn't answer the phone. As time progresses you get to learn a lot about people and how they're just an anchor in your life. Don't bother me to help you with your labor. Always remember if you want to make yourself valuable, make yourself unavailable.
I like your last sentence.
Me also, good on you. ❤.
You are welcome!
1.Dont be afraid -Be yourself!
2. Choose wisely - Don't care for irrelevant things!
3. Learn to say NO!
4. Love yourself- make you first priority!
5. Establish your own definition of success!
6. Stop seeking permission from others!
7. You will soon be dead- YOLO!
The older I get the wiser I grow and the less I worry about other humans opinions
Amen to that brother!!! 100%
Ive lived this way the majority of my life. If i F-up,I'll admit to it before someone else points it out. When i do good, i don't need accolades, just leave me alone to carry on. Never been one to ask for help even when I should.
The best thing I've ever heard so far I'm 74 years old and thanku from my heart.
I sent this to the pastor of my church so he can understand why I walk out at the beginning of his sermon.....
🤭Can relate to this, luckily in my parish we have a new & very wise & witty priest that always gives such practical, inspiring and uplifting homilies/sermon that makes me dont wanna leave the church.😇
"From the shackles of others evaluations". Oh my gosh you nailed it.
I heard thie a couple years ago:
It's none of my business what other ppl think.
Truly living life - in a nutshell. A man's reputation is the only and most important he has and stands above all else he may or may not accumulate in his life's journey. Naturally applies to women too.
I will forever clap for others until its my turn🎉🎉
Best thing Ive watched on TH-cam in a while
I've been living this way (for a couple few months)at age 56 as a frustrated artist.. The only problem is ...it doesn't pay very well.. but I'm happy as hell
I just found your channel and I'm loving the content!!
Glad you enjoy it!
I think is crucial to mention that people that are traumatized cannot embark in journey of empowerment as it is mention in this video.
Yes we can. This is so important to people that's gone through crap in life and found a new way to think and bring the original person back so strong and fulfilled. Take no shit from anyone 💯 😊
I needed this message. Thank you ❤️
Free yourself from what others believe of you and you can be free.
Don't necessarily ignore what they say, but don't let it run your life and decisions.
Thank you for confirming I’m on the right track.
This content is much needed and there was a strong force that pulled me in this direction. Thank you.
Yes when I was young a wise person told me When the student is ready the teacher will come . ❤
That was real, I felt that part , we all gonna die part, that definitely hit my soul , we definitely gotta live life to fullest and God in your heart, love your video and thank you for your words of wisdom,, take care and God bless 🙏⛪️🎓👍✔️
Yes some people who are jealous or haters will purposefully shun you.
Great stuff. Shun them too 😊
Totally agree with everything said in this video.
Be alone. Its peaceful 🖤
Thank you I've been on this journey for a long time I wish I had met you ten years ago
It's never too late
Very, uplifting. Thank you .
This is very powerful, thanks for the reminder. 💥💥💥💥💥
Thanks for listening
Better than gold ❤ Thank you
BEING A HUMANITARIAN I WAS GENEROUS, CARING, AND HELPING ALLOT OF PEOPLE. FOR HAVING A GREAT HEART SOME WOULD NOT APPRECIATE OR TAKE ADVANTAGE. I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY TO LET GO AND NOT GIVE A F*CK. I'VE LEARNED NOT TO OFFER MYSELF OR BE SO NICE. TOO BAD I'VE BEEN CHANGED CAUSE IN THIS WORLD YOU DON'T FIND TOO MANY WITH THE GREAT HEART THAT I HAD.
Absolutely 💯 soul to soul 😊
There are people who will hurt you in life and others who appreciate you, stick with the ones you can trust, stuff the rest. ❤❤.
Beautiful presentation on the subject
🎉Fantastic! Absolutely worth listening to this for everyone!
I really have Bennetted from your teachings.
really digging these videos and this channel! Well done.
Awesome, thank you!
Thank you for sharing this important and valuable information. I am working on this. Soaking this in after a long day at work enjoying a fine cigar and a favorite bourbon.
Wonderful!
Wonderful 😅❤
this is gold my friend
Thought provoking content indeed but it’s everything that I believe. Must admit that it was rather nice to have it validated though. Keep up the great work! 😊
I appreciate that!
#8 : DON'T sign into Facebook as soon as you wake up, get up, do as you do as you want, then log in once your awake and ready to kick ass and laugh shit off!
Thank you. Obrigada.
Thank you for the much needed uplifting words. God bless you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Glad it was helpful!
Right On
I haven't given one single fück for many, many years.
And what I've noticed throughout those years, is that the "science" of the psychiatric and sociology fields focus on diluting individualism,
to push people to better conform to societal norms
They tend to label individuals who possess the traits mentioned in this video as narcissist personalities.
I also came to realize that most psychologists/psychiatrists are only capable of putting what they were taught into practice, and rarely know how to explore or improve on it or to think beyond the basics.
Most will simply sit and let you ramble on, while giving an occasional signal of "understanding" or attentiveness through audio hints "mhmm" and a subtle nod,
then affirm all your feelings, and send you the bill, never actually doing anything or helping you, other than throwing the basic, common bandaids at your problems.
It's the art/skill of BS, applied with one objective... to pay off their student loans.
The entertainment industry, social media, etc. are focused on steering society through creating "trends" (not just fashion trends, but all societal trends)
The vast majority of the population is a subconscious slave to all of it.
So the best thing one can do, is to literally avoid all of it.
Do this and you will eventually begin to notice how most people follow literal protocols in every day interactions.
Females tend to be the easiest to manipulate/influence for these platforms.
This is due to females being more emotionally driven/controlled, and their deep desire and need to fit in and be liked, and their naturally competitive nature toward other females.
Another thing I'll mention is, everything mentioned here applies to all others, not only random strangers, but to family members as well.
No matter "who" someone is in your life.
Most importantly, don't outsource for anything, love, appreciation, value, respect, etc..
When you outsource, you become dependent on securing everything from outside, and this creates a trap which is extremely difficult to get out of.
I dgaf about you
@@alaskalograft thank you 👍
Do not squander time for it is the stuff life is made of !!
So true, but don't allow yourself to listen to the negative when you might have wasted a bit either. I fight myself often on this one. 😊
This is Gold!!!!
That was cure to my pain thank you ❤
This has to be the most Comforting Mind blowing piece of Love and Guidance Ihave ever received Life changing and powerfully TransformativeThank you Just Epic
We're ALL but ONE breath away from Heaven .
I'm sitting at 3am in my dad's hospital room. Even that billion lottery can't fix what really matters,& can't buy us TIME
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You can't buy time back however much you have❤
You can't, but remember all of the happy memories will stay with you no matter what happens and they are priceless. God bless.❤❤.
Saying NO is one of the hardest thing ever for me.
Keep doing it. It becomes so enjoyable, best one is when you say I'll have to think about it, then you make decision to tell them no. Baffling to them ,they try get information on why ,but just repeating because I said no, because I said no. End of. If they persist ask them what's wrong with them and as they're giving the speech , cut off and remove yourself. It's getting easier and I'll never go back the way. Life is to short to give a damn. Me first now. 😊
Your just a nice person and people will take advantage of you let them, take no crap and watch what happens, you can't please everyone. ❤❤.
Best thing I will ever read on UTUBE.
Off duty nurse x
I can careless but my family is the worst . I was the black sheep in a family full of narcissist . They crucified me cause I always confronted them about lies . And I know they will screw me on the will
That's people, you can choose your friends but not your family, if it was me I would think stuff it, there is more to life than money, the more you have the more you want and the less you have the more you appreciate it, keep in mind Karma. Good luck. ❤.
This just saved my life
I understand all of these concepts, but thinking mostly only for yourself yields less friends.
Awesome knowledge
So nice of you
Pure wisdom
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
This is my favorite stoic video!
This is great wisdom to live by.
I don't understand why other people's opinions even matter unless I ask for it, I have personality issues 😁 I love having my issues too
Try liking yourself people don't get as weird about it.
Thank u i needed this,,,,,David in lreland
It is really great content, thanks.
Glad you think so!
3:00, 3:48, 5:51,7:36,,and all are good on its own!!!
This is just what I needed to hear
Thank you
You're welcome
Your not a slave from other people’s expectations . It can be form of manipulation and deceptions, if you allow it, And it kills individuality,
Freedom of expression and Freewill .
Brilliant 😊
Great video thank you
Thank you very much
There is no such thing in living a happy life, how can one know happiness without Knowing sadness. It’s not reality nor is it realistic 🎉🎉🎉
Need this I have to deal with nonsense on a job just to pay bills but I will get out the rat race.
Same here, I know how you feel, just keep your head down and think tomorrow is another day until you get another job. 😀.
These are all true, especially the last one.
Fantastic
Well that often my authority doesn't go beyond property lines. Although still ridiculed about my actions. Why all the dislikes? Finding myself very Alone but undefeated.
Truth!
Edit suggestion: "can find themselves to mental prisons", should read, "confine themselves to mental prisons".
The planet Earth should be capitalized.
Excellent video, thank you!
Cool,,,,thanks
"It's none of my business what anyone thinks of me." - Author Unknown
great video
Glad you enjoyed it
How I felt before I got married!
I’m in total agreement with the previous comment!✅ excellent video that all should take note of!
Statues are amazing 👍🏻😊
Another powerful tool.
Fear is the mind killer.
Ive read the book the subtile art of not giving a f , great stuf!
amen.
Thank you❤🙏
You are so welcome