I’m 28 and I got my first grey hair at 20. It’s genetic. My dad had silver hair when I was a kid and he was only 30. And I’m a woman so it’s extra bad- with dark brown hair lol
@@katelynsousa6591 lmao it’s okay. My dad has passed so I think of it as a little piece of him being bestowed onto me. It sucks but you get used to it 😂
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I feel this, so much! As a “chronically single” 28 yr old woman, I loathe the platitudes that everyone spews, it’s ridiculous. Especially since they’re all married! Not helpful! 😂
I simply can't understand how any woman could be "chronically single" unless: they're never going out and/or have crippling anxiety, they reject everybody approaching them because they don't think he's "the one" or they're morbidly obese, in which case they can all be changed. Like seriously, someone have to explain it to me.
@@rigierish3807 honestly, it’s mostly my own doing. I have a lot of anxiety and depression issues, and tend to isolate myself sometimes. I’m working on that. Also, I grew up with my siblings screwing everything that moved and I didn’t want that for myself, so I think I swung in the opposite direction, refusing to put myself out there out of fear of becoming the same way, and now that I recognize that about myself, I don’t really know how to date. To top that off, I live in a very left wing state and no one I meet shares my values. So yes, often times, people tend to be single as a result of their own choices. I just don’t know how to fix it.
@@JolleenHerbert Ok right, I completely understand in that case. I sort of find myself in some of your experience, so I completely empathize. Though I'm literally the opposite in terms of left/right wing, funnily enough. I'm not sure what interpretation of “my siblings screwing everything that moved” I should get but whatever it is, if you don't want to be like them, don't think there's something stopping you from taking your own path and not be like them: the only influence you could've gotten leading you to think/behave in a similar way to your siblings is from your family, acquaintance or friends in common when you grew up, but you can grow out of it by changing your outside influences. My only solution I could give you is try to socialize with new people in spite of your anxiety, by going first in places where people with the same passion/interest as you gather. Either way, I hope you can escape your situation and find a partner that loves you, there are some good guys out there waiting for you (I mean, I don't know about your country specifically, I live in France, but I doubt it's any different 😄)
@@JolleenHerbert (And btw, just to be sure: don't interpret my first comment as “you're at fault for having anxiety and depression”: that wasn't my intention or thought, only an attempt to find a reason)
As someone who's 25, single, and hasn't even had a first date, I feel this man's pain. I've been told all of those things. It's soul crushing and it makes you feel worthless.
@@joshua50101Aye it worked for me, but it’s not close to an actual strategy. She was my last shot after failing so many times I actually thought I’d be single forever then I pulled
I don’t understand why people are so avoidant of acknowledging that some of us are not destined to find our soulmates. If anything is possible, we must also accept that not meeting the right person is one of those possibilities. Btw, 40 and terminally single. :P
As a single woman I especially agree with the first one. I HATE seeing on dating sites or romance channels 'you can't have a healthy relationship unless you're happy being alone.' Uh - I'm not UNHAPPY, but if my happiness was COMPLETE as a single person, WHY on earth would I be looking for a relationship? What would be the point of moving in with someone who didn't INCREASE my happiness? 🤷♀️
People now are saying "that's not what a relationship is for" and you should go into the relationship "wanting to serve" Do not take this advice unless you're ready to get completely played over and dumped after they're finished using you. After following that dumb advice with my first gf I ain't going into a relationship not thinking about my own self and MY happiness.
I gave up on dating American women. Go date a migrant. She’ll marry you for the citizenship and chances are comes from a culture that A) respects men B) teaches women how to cook, clean, and the importance of being good mothers. She’ll also more than likely be in shape and not 300 pounds like all the body positive clowns we have here. Best advice I can give young men
It's annoying when I talk about how I'm still single and people proceeded to give me the most introductory level advice on social interaction known to man. Yes, thank you for telling me the most obvious stuff in the world as if I don't already know it. That's not condescending at all.
@@sun-dried-onion-noodles lol I won't lie my wife liked me because she liked my dog and how good I take care of her. Real talk, highly recommend the dog. May not guarantee you'll find a lady, but a dog's love is unconditional and guaranteed.
I'm single, and 28, heard all of that. I can totally understand him. Another one would be: "you'll find him/her when you stop loooking". I hope he finds his girlfriend soon!
I'm 38 and it is bad out here. I'm losing hope everyday. If the better at this dating thing are struggling, my socially awkward self is fighting up hill. Both ways. In a blizzard.
I’m 38 as well! I met my guy at a Comic con! He’s a veteran, but in Reserves in the USAF. I’ve been through one deployment with him. That was hard. I feel like he’s sooo close to popping the question. I never gave up hope.
My husband is nearly ten years older than me and he said this is how he felt before he met me. He is 37, almost 38 now and I am 28. It's normal here in Korea for men to not marry until they are in their late 30s and 40s but he was adopted and raised in the US so he wanted a girlfriend/wife at the typical age considered normal in the US. We recently found out I am pregnant with our first child and he is so excited that he is going to be a Appa. Stay strong gentlemen and DO NOT SETTLE for women who are disrespectful.
I think a lot of guys these days in USA and Canada are hesitant to approach women with that much of an age gap, especially if the man isn't already past 30 years old for fear of being seen as a groomer or something as well. Also young women these days tend to have a lot of men going in and out so by the time they hit late 20's they have lost the ability to bond properly with a partner.
Be happy with yourself the lady will tell and chemistry will start. We all want to enjoy each other. My only issue is they tend to be too young for me. Move slow they will move faster weird thing.
I can relate to this. I'm 41 and after my last ex screwed me over I've lost all hope. I've opted to stay busy working and keeping to my hobbies instead of chasing phantoms.
Yea…I feel this guy. I’m 35 and this girl at my job started out great by telling me how I’m handsome I am and always smiling and so kind and helpful but then goes on to tell me “35? And single?? You??? you look great for 35 but no you gotta find you a woman!” Yea…thanks…that hadn’t occurred to me…
An elderly lady I know keeps asking me if I'm married or have kids (like 4 or 5 times?.) Each time I I tell her no, and if she knows anyone good, she should send him my way!
Felt like one upping you guys out there...try starting over again at 50. Lost my wife 4 years ago to cancer. I would love to find another special someone to share my my life with. I am not bitter as I had a good marriage. I know how to "husband" successfully. I take care of myself, I make a good salary, and my kids are nearly grown, yet...the dating pool is like a post-apocalyptic desert dotted with tiny pools of toxic water. I haven't given up hope yet. It's all in God's time.
As a very lonely man in my mid 20s, I can understand. Dating is not an easy thing to do. Just getting a date is super hard and keeping that as a relationship is even harder. It’s horrible, and I lose hope every day
I’m currently 24 and single right now but I definitely feel this guy’s pain. All bro wants is a gf. He knows what he wants and has reach that point in his life😭😭😭
I'm a 62 year old single male, never married. I have a 65 year old sister in law, a 58 year old sister in law, and two 36 year old nieces. None of them ever introduced me to any of their friends, teachers, bosses, co-workers, or any other females. Not once.
I knew at 12yrs old that i wanted a wife and family. I don't honestly have any hope of that ever happening. My dreams are dead and i kinda want to follow my dreams. Good men everywhere are grappling with despair and hopelessness that is very literally killing them and it is dismissed because they are men or white or straight, or, the most despised in modern culture, straight white men. And for us Christians, we're the bottom of the barrel of disposable people whom it's okay to attack from every angle and blame for everything.
Keep praying about it. The Bible says to keep asking!! Put all your faith in God’s plan for your life even when it doesn’t align with what you dream about your life being. But you should keep asking for a wife. God bless you brother ✝️♥️
Whatever happened to couples introducing your single friends to each other? Come on, people! This is how folks got married for years before online dating made us less social!
Matchmaking from friends isn't great. The friends want to force physical attraction, even if it's clearly not there. The setting up friends feel miffed and insulted if it doesn't work.
I can relate. I am a 27 years old single man living in France. I am a reserved and quiet person. I wish I could meet a woman around my age and start a family :) Open to meeting a woman from another country too !
Je te souhaite de trouver cette personne, Clément. Je n'ai que 19 ans, mais grandir avec internet et voir d'un côté les gens seuls à 30 ans, et de l'autre voir le nombre de personnes qui trompent leur partenaire, c'est très déprimant. Je pense devenir un papa chat dont la seulle partenaire sera une IA...
There are some cool women in German take the train one weekend and give out your phone number oh do you speak much German? Wait they say French women are great guess you are to much of an introvert
Hey grey hair is in right now. Be proud exercise a bit one day you will walking by and yes she will put her phone in front of you clue enter your name and number. Look into the eye good women smile from deep bad women look away unless they are shy to.
I´m exactly 6 ft 5 in my Vintage HI-8 Vans Sneakers when I´m bouncing through the Train Station.. Dude You have the same height as Michael Jordan is his absolutely best prime. 6 ft 6 is a bloody good height.
I feel for men especially with the way a lot of women think they have to act now towards them so I’m thinking of you ! Also would like to add that being yourself in the above ways you’ve mentioned makes you a real catch for whomever it is you’ll meet ! Not many men like you 😊
@@RedchairSher Thank you for saying that. Idk if this comment will even go through cause TH-cam keeps deleting my comments but I hope it does. I don't see those as positive things but thank you.
I feel like many people just jump to giving advice, instead of asking others where they're at in the process and what they've already tried. This applies to most situations. I think most of the time the advice comes from a good place, but people forget how it feels to be on the other side of these situations too.
I’m staring down the barrel of turning 30 in a few months and it’s tough out there. Dating apps just commodify people. I’m getting out there and doing social activities (I’m taking ballroom dancing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu classes - odd combination, I know!) but I cannot seem to click with someone who isn’t already taken. I just want to feel like there’s hope where I can meet someone without having to massively compromise my values, interests, or self-respect. If I’m meant to be one of those “forever alone” types, then I’d like to know once and for all, so I can hopefully continue to cultivate the strength, self-sufficiency, and self-compassion to make it on my own. Thanks for reading and have a blessed day.
Ooh I'm curious where you found out about ballroom dancing classes? That sounds super fun, and even if I didn't find someone I'd probably still enjoy myself
There's a chick up here 🖕 who would like to get entertained. She may not even cared your names, likes, dislikes, fear, wishes and dreams but she is ready to enjoy a dancing session with you. Who knows perhaps she got a free dinner ticket already. 😂
You like the once who are taken because their are more desirable in most cases 😂 I got the same issue 😅 but even when you succeed in seducing them, it's probably a short flinge, even when you want to build a life with them . Sad but this is my experience...
Same. I've been told every last one of those things AND MORE. Things were a little better in my early 20s, but after the accident that put me in a wheelchair, it just got worse and worse. Now I'm 33 and haven't had an IRL girlfriend in 4+ years, even though I've tried just about everything. Self-improvement, going out, dating apps (not the sketchy ones though), dating events. As the months go by, it just seems more and more hopeless.
He is young. I’m 37 and chronically single….. never been on a date either. I just hope he’ll find his person. All the best wishes to this young handsome positive guy!
if that profile picture is you, there is no reason that you're single pther than yourself. If you were my age and flirted with me I'd be yours. but for whatever reason you chose not to date anyone.
A genuine question, at 37 what barriers are you facing to going on a date with someone? We can't control who we date but it seems very possible to control if we go on a date or not. I don't know your situation so that's why I'm asking.
@@logankearl8115 I was never asked on a date and when I asked someone out I got rejected. I’ve been lied to online too so I stopped trying. Sometimes it’s not in the stars. The older you get the less chances you get. Especially women. Men my age want women in their 20s. When you’re not good enough, you’re not good enough. So I genuinely empathise with everyone who’s been single their whole life…. I definitely understand how painful it can be….
We really need to bring back better ways to meet people in person. 27 single woman whose also been told similar words of wisdom. I have hope God'll lead me to whoever He has planned for me. The waiting's just terribly hard.
23, good looking (not near as good as this guy IMHO but more than enough to know my looks aren't the reason I never had a girlfriend), and another one I hate is "it will happen when you stop looking/least expect it" and the one my dad tells me ALL...THE...TIME: "there's somebody for everybody!" Which I really hate...I'm NOBODY'S "somebody" (except for some fucking reason many middle age gay men want me) and the woman I really want to be my "somebody" is in a relationship...I'm cooked! But even women I don't want don't want me purely because of luck...except I'm not a virgin no more (yes it was with a woman...if you think I'm a piece of shit that's fine I would've waited for a girlfriend first before losing it if I was even given that chance) which is one reason I know my looks aren't the reason I'm not wanted...rant is over I'm signing out
This is me too... As a woman, I'm 30 in 2 weeks. Single. I want love, marriage, a best friend..... So annoying that these things are said by people who have been in a relationship for 15 years, and they're still only a year older than I am....😅 It's soooooo jaaaaaaarrring lol
Speaking as a 40yo (as of yesterday) single guy who also never had a single date in his life, I don't think it's possible for us past 35 to have a relationship anymore. That's the sort of thing you're supposed to learn when you're young and full of life, not when you're on your decline slowly going into middle/old age. In other words, we missed our boat and you can't have a late start in this school. We're simply used to being alone and it feels weird to look for somebody to share your life with because you do everything on your own anyway. We're too accustomed to a life where we don't hold anybody's hand, don't call anyone to pick us up, don't check up on anybody to see how they're doing, don't expect to come home to a cooked meal and someone making noises, don't expect or know how it feels to lay down on our beds next to somebody and wake up next to them in the morning.
Got married at 28. Thought I found the one. 20 years and 3 kids later she cheats on me with a younger guy. I tried counseling, therapy, and making it work, but she was just using me at this point, and with all the things the kids told me she was doing. She was no longer the woman I loved. Tried going out, putting my self out there, working on myself, but I just couldn't connect with anyone. Most my friends tried hooking me up with other people that just were not compatible with me. Some even tried to pawn off their parent on me. Most of the women I had the best chemistry with saw me as a friend, brother, or father figure, so it wasn't happening for me. Everyone tells me it's not me, or my standards are too high. What standards, I just want a woman that is hight/weight proportionate, under 50, was born a woman, and can carry a conversation. Is that really too much to ask for? Good luck to this man, I hope he finds someone.
Dude in the video defined "being out there" as having an online presence. Is this how most young adults view it? That you can put yourself "out there" with out going outside of your house? A side benefit from being "out there" the old fashion way -- We had to widen our social circle. This resulted in more same-sex friends in the process of finding potential dates. While making more friends, we added hobbies, experiences, travel, etc. We used our single days to become interesting. My single days lasted ...way...too..long, but I was interesting. I had an extremely active social life. My children benefit from what I learned while I was single.
@@kathyp1563he said that he also goes out all the time despite hating it, getting to know people. Do not think that single people are single because they don't put themselves out there. I got girlfriend only after I gave up. I know personaly loads of people that are single despite going out and trying their best. You just need to be lucky to find love. Stop blaming single people for not being able to find the other half, as it may be easy for you, you could also get lucky, but in the end you didn't live their life and the truth is that they most likely are in simply very different situation than you are
i decided to copy my comment because thats sad as hell, I was single as hell, then I met my wife. as soon as I was taken women were interested. The thing it tells me is I went at it with a single mentality, and as soon as i stopped trying and talked to them normally then things clicked for them.
I guarantee you could meet a woman with a body count of 2 but with that attitude you probably wouldn’t believe her because you know “all women lie”. But even if you did take her word, all you can imagine is her getting pounded by those other 2 guys which makes you think of her getting railed by tons of guys, because you can’t know her body count for certain. Of course you don’t want to be a cuck, so whether consciously or unconsciously you end the relationship with what easily could be your soul mate before it ever begins. And that’s truly why you’re single. But what do I know, I’ve just been with my now husband for 15 years 🤷🏻♀️
Eh, if you're 52 and not gorgeous or rich, you can't be picky. Learn to be okay with dating someone who isn't s virgin, or accept singledom. Or groom a teenager. I've noticed a lot of dudes doing that
@@RandomName-my2uoThe point is that he wasn't picky, got told "it'll happen for you just wait, you're still young!" And he's *still* single at 52. Completely missing the point smh
I am so happy I had no idea how hard it is out there now. I thought only women had it hard! I was in a relationship/engaged for 8 years in my 20's (it ended when he cheated, I was 29). I didn't meet my now husband until 38. Married at 41, baby at 42. Best thing to do, just stop making that your focus. Go volunteer, go to church, go take a cooking class.... You only need one good one. There's hope.
Hard for Women? Yall can always find a men if you rly want, even if its not the good ones..but atleast something..we as a men cant even get the bad ones out there.
I feel so bad for young men today! Hormonal birth control changes the way women interact with men. Everyone is SO lonely these days! I grew up in a huge, multigenerational family. My aunt's, uncles, grandparents literally owned the neighborhood. I naively believed everyone grew up that way, but that is not the case. What has happened to families within the past generation or two? One of my adult kids is a lot like this young man. I hope & pray that our youth have hope for the future & find amazing beautiful people to share their lives with... Try going to church and joining a group or class to meet people.
This was me at 32. Single all my life, lots of female friends, never had a girlfriend, tried dating services got zero interest, and getting so irritated with the constant dating advice which just mostly boiled down to: "Converse like a civilized human being, don't be an arsehole!" Mmmm, been doing that all my life, never helped! yes, I met a wonderful lady when I was 33 and we've been married for the last eight years, but there was nothing I "did", to actually make this happen other than get very very lucky, indeed the story of how we met sounds like a bad romance novel it was so improbable. So yeah, it was hard enough being a single guy even before the me too insanity, these days, goodness knows!
Fughhhhhhh 😣 bro speaking as a solid 5 on a good day when im “done up” seeing this hella good looking dude talk about being single and 28 and me as a 29 year old 5 the future looks bleak 😂😂😂 but I still got a lot of fight left in me just got to keep on keeping on 😂 stay fresh kings ✊🏾
I'm a 20 year old single guy. SO RELATABLE!!! My single 60 year old neighbor always gets on me about being single and it's like dude your 40 years older than me and also single SO SHUT UP!
Have you considered maybe they hate the fact that they’re 60 and still single? And they’re trying to prevent you from hating the same whenever you’re 60 and single?
Hey I'm a chronically straight single 65 yo male. To the best of my recollection nobody was concerned about my dating /opposite sex relationships. Hardly any one of my friends, family, classmates, even suggested a female prospect (maybe wrong word). You know what? Nobody is going to see this comment. I post a lot of comments. Many don't even get a thumbs up or a reply. Why bother?
when people assume you get no p*ssy, they usually just stop bringing it up all together. you just become that guy who hasnt touched a woman in forever 😂
Hey man, as you can see, it's 2024. All of us both men and women are starting to see the increase in loneliness, the challenges of modern dating. While im 19 and i can't really relate with your daily life, i know you deserve to have someone by your side for your last years. If it's too hard, try to focus on you, do things you enjoy. Go out and have fun for a night with anyone.
100% relate to this. I’ve considered myself chronically single and have been for 10 years now. I’m 27 and really just haven’t landed anything serious since highschool. The struggle is real.
I feel for this guy, I'm luckily a few years behind him, but single all my life and messy situations have landed me in therapy now. Modern dating is too toxic for me
*on tinder - no matches* - workout, loose all the weight, gain a shit ton of muscle *on tinder - no matches* -start shaving, taking care of myself, ensure I look good at all time *on tinder - no matches* -get a high paying g job and graduate university *on tinder - no matches* -join a competitive club sports team *on tinder - no matches* Guys idk what else I can do at this point. Is it over for
@@tainoloco2361 Find another dream if a woman comes great, if not still great as well. Just more challenging these days. Keep the faith just avoid evil women or men with crazy expectations. You want one with a few expectations but you are building a team that a challenge in itself both sides deserve it within reachable expectations. Managed correctly it can give you a dream you will be thankful for everyday. I’m judging by looking at friends life’s. One day I will have it despite things like health or money. I just need to.find right opportunities. I have great crush right now pretty sure it won’t go anywhere but both of us smile when we see each other. I’m old but still I have time but if I want kids we better get going before I’m too old don’t think she wants kids anyway I may have to give up on that idea. Good luck to you.
As a 38 yr old single who has heard lots of encouragement, I understand. It's super tough. Dating apps have made people into commodities that are constantly compared to each other. News flash, you're never going to find a perfect person! Only one perfect person ever lived and His name is Jesus.
Wow, this guy is so me before I got married last year at 29. As a woman, the thing I hated the absolute most was people telling me that I‘m “so young”. 😒 Like, people, does the term “biological clock” mean anything to you??!!! 🤷🏽♀️ And I especially hated when they’d tell me, “Oh, I know a woman in her late 40’s who had babies for the first time.” Well, great, I‘m glad that you know a woman was lucky enough to experience a miracle. Unfortunately, I know a lot more women who struggled in their 30‘s before eventually giving up and either choosing to be childfree or just adopt instead. And there’s nothing wrong with adoption, but the process is a lot more expensive and complicated than some would have you believe. So, yeah, I’m glad that I became more proactive in my dating life and thank goodness for dating apps. Yes, some guys just use them for hooking up, but others truly want to find their future wives.
OMG I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN! My one friend and her husband were telling me for a while that I will find someone and it can happen and I'll have a family! But like when??? 32(F) and not getting any younger. Got grey hairs, and also recently found out I may struggle to get pregnant as it is!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Hey!! Is it awkward to mention? Giving birth in older generations put the baby at risk for developing disorders? Because it totally does, and justifies all of your frustrations about the biological clock.
I totally understand what he is saying, also if you work alot and don't really go out partying every weekend and not really a drinker. It can be a challenge to find people with common interests. Best advice find a local group that share common interests (running, biking, etc).
I can relate… I put myself out there. I go to places I don’t want to go to put myself out there. I go on several dates even when men who aren’t my typical “type”. I ask intentional questions…. Dating in 2024 when you want a serious, committed relationship is tough.
I know this might be strange to say on TH-cam, but I'd probably ask you on a date if I met you in real life, so don't lose hope. Praying for you to find the one.
@@railguy2518it probably makes more sense to ask it on TH-cam than on dating apps/sites. At least you don’t have a corporation that is more motivated to make profit than actually provide the service you pay for gatekeeping your access to ask.
When I was rejected by my crush back in high school it was embarrassing to say the least…then 10+ years later she hmu and asked if I was still single. I said yes, but not for you. She was flabbergasted by my answer.
@@MetalHeadCobra420I don't think you did anything wrong. But of course she was young back in high school and may not known what she wanted, so it took her a while to work out she really did like you. However, if she just came back to you because she just couldn't find anyone else, you def shouldn't be with her. I'd have to know her personally to work out which it was, and I figure you do. And even if she is genuinely interested in you now, you're not obligated to reciprocate.
People these days overlook the power of other people to help with matchmaking. Why mess with traditions? Family usually looks at lots of factors when making a match. They can see things from a different perspective.
I'm only 20 and a woman, but this is one of the most relatable things I've heard (grey hairs and all😂). I would also like to add, "be friends first" and then when you try to ask someone out, the response is "I love our friendship so much, and I don't want anything to happen to it." It's great...
Thats called a soft rejection. If someone likes you, they will absolutely be willing to risk the friendship. Spoken as a 29 year old woman whos only been single for a year of my adult life
Putting yourself out there means actually going up to and asking women out. Or even talking to them works. Most women I talk to end up liking me, as way more than "just friends", and that's probably because I flirt a lot, but like subtly, and also don't do it all the time, it gets annoying if you do it too much. Deep conversations definitely help a lot too, talk to them about their life, childhood, problems etc, try helping them solve those problems, but do it WITHOUT expecting anything in return, don't be a nice guy, be a kind one.
As a 24(f), I promise we are out here and we are waiting to be found lol. May God move in our lives. Blessings and prayers to everyone out there searching.
Maybe you could answer a question I have about meeting women? In what setting would you say you would be OK with a man you have never met before walking up to you and starting a conversation; specifically a conversation that feels like he might be trying or wanting to get to know you better and possibly ask out? I see people saying to try talking to women at places like grocery stores, but that just seems intrusive on women that are trying to restock the fridge.
@@csquare750 I live in the south, so I like to go to church, the farmers market, and resale shops. I like tractor supply too. I don't think it would be odd if you were interested in the same things and wanted to offer advice or maybe you could ask for advice on something to buy. Keep the conversation going about who the best vendors are, etc. Then ask for her number if you have anymore questions, just to start talking. If we had any places to go dancing in my town I would like to meet people there. When I used to live in Houston they have Stampede, which is really cool and it was always fun to meet people there. Have someone to dance with. I'm also with my family a lot. I think most guys here try not to be disrespectful when they ask me out when I'm with them. So then the interaction I have is just in glances. I think it wouldn't be bad to ask for someone's number while they're with their family, otherwise you never get the chance to know them.
Just gotta say, these people NEVER stop. When I was pregnant with my first baby someone ligit asked when I was going to have more. I wanted to say, "Can I have this baby first before I start thinking about more?"
Ok hold on a minute… every video I see about women talking about being single, all the men in the comments are saying it’s HER fault and insulting her somehow. But when a guy says he’s still single at that age, it’s relatable and heartbreaking? 😂 y’all are wild
It's more likely because it's modern women trashtalking about men when it's said it is the woman's fault. This guy is good and not trashtalking on women at all.
It can get better in your 30s. I met my wife when I was 31. Dating is hard though. I will give him credit, he’s chronically single without having the chronically single stench. He’s still got confidence
Welp, I can understand him (I'm also a 28 yr old single man)... And yeah, things sometimes just won't work even if you put your mind into it. And yes, I hate people questioning & advising about how to not be single or to be this & that = when they never ever introduce me to anyone, or anyone to me. Edit: Basically, those empty advices never helped
I met my husband when he was 29 and I was 23. We really hit it off and had so much fun but we're also glad that because we both were home bodies, we never had to go out again it! LOL. We've been married almost 12 years and we still don't like going out, lol. All the stuff we love is already in our house🤷♀️🤣
@@mimah1015 well, he's an engineer and works full-time and I homeschool our children. So when he comes home, we have a lot to catch up on! We are both into a lot of the same things like philosophy, Theology and history so we usually explore our interests by ourselves and then usually meet up and just talk about stuff. We both are just very interested in a lot of things and we like to explore them together! We do take our kids out to do things but we always do things as a family. We just don't go out to clubs and drink and things like that.
This is actually me...I'm 28 and single as well. I've been on dating apps, but stopped using them because most of them are scams. The only thing I don't do is go out, because that gets REALLY expensive really quick.
I feel this pain, I'm 37 now and my attempts at dating have been disappointing to say the least. Had one serious GF a few years ago and was so desperate I missed a lot of red flags and thankfully God showed me it wasnt right and I was able to break it off before it got too far. Since then its been one disappointment after another with the women getting very uncomfortable when I tried to ask about being more than friends after several dates when they seemed to show a lot of interest. I can totally relate to all the things mentioned in the video and all the well intentioned but ultimately not helpful advice. Doesn't help in my case that I'm a conservative christian guy who wants a family currently stuck in the Seattle area. Between my personal views not matching the culture of the region and the seattle freeze phenomenon its been extremely hard to find anyone to even date. Anyways, looking to get out of this area as soon as I can figure out a job somewhere else. Like others have said in these comments, if we're all watching these types of conservative videos on dating and sharing our comments, maybe there's a way we could DM each other given how for profit and toxic most dating sites have become.
Same, just turned 33 a month ago and am still single. Although, unfortunately, I live in Portland, one of the worst places to find somebody that isn't liberal.
@weiserwolfsgeist My comment was supposed to say I live in Portland Tennessee I have a low vision so I use talk to text and it messed up. I thought you might have been talking about Portland Oregon.
True! People say, "Do you put yourself out there?" Now, I will say I don't do the online dating scene, but my goodness I've been out there meeting people. I'm involved in my church, I was a missionary in a foreign country for a couple years where I met new people all the time, I'm shy, but social, I'm extroverted so I will go to people's parties, weddings, etc. I'm out there in the world, but never ever dates anyone. Also I'm not running around turning people down, the guys aren't asking me out. Maybe flirting a bit, but not asking to go out on a date. I get it man, it's rough.
32, critically single. Dated 5 girls in my life time. But only one got past the first base. I still prefer staying single then ending up with the wrong person but as I get older, reality starts settling in that I might not get to have that family I've always dream to about. Time is a scary thing.
I mean he's not wrong 😅 I grew up in church and weren't many quality single men who stayed in church (my prom date got incarceratedyears later). HS was very ghetto so those boys were nuts. Went to college and dated a guy for two years thinking we'd getting married but he ended up being the jealous type who threatened suicide. Tried a PK (pastor kid) who was older but he just tried to corrupt me and tried to take me virtue despite knowing where i stood in my faith and ended up cheating. Been working and surviving since. Talked to a few guys here and they were all after one thing. I work two jobs, go to church, run my errands and occasionally go out on hikes when i have time. 😅 So yeah...😅 btw I'm 34
I have come to the conclusion that God must be this generation’s matchmaker. None other will do. An excellent spouse, who can find? Who is able to know the heart of man, to know his thoughts, or hear his prayers before they leave his tongue?
@@thenerdrobert3815Yeah. Boring for OF modern women who reject the “nice good guys” for “bad guys” just for the desire for “adventure and fun”. 😅 These are the kind of women who are getting rejected by men nowadays and are crying that men won’t date them anymore. Karma at its finest.
The worst tip is probably: "just be yourself". Because there is no fixed "you", it is a fluid, changeable concept and not set in stone. The "you" of 5 years ago is sometimes a completely different person to today. Or you compare yourself when you are sober and drunk in the club. Again, a completely different person. Or when you have to give a presentation in front of the class. Conclusion: "be yourself" may be well-intentioned advice, but it doesn't help anyone because it says practically nothing and doesn't address the real problems or recommend personal development.
@exchangAscribe It could be that too. Idk if this is just asshole talk, but I think it's also hard to be fairly attractive and looking for something serious because most of the attractive people out there are sleeping around and not at all serious (or they're already off the market way earlier than most folks.) So you're faced with either lowering your standards for someone as hot as you who will of course make you miserable eventually due to the lack of shared values or for someone who you find much less attractive than you know you could (theoretically) be with. And that isn't exactly easy either. It takes a lot to force yourself to be intimate with and value someone when you're fighting nature.
Same club bro. I’m on 3 dating apps, I attend church, I’m in Bible studies, actively go out with my friends, and I’m still single at 29. I hate it when people tell me those things!!
Nah the "you gotta love yourself" advice is fire, it's worth being annoying just in case it reaches someone who needs to hear it. too many lads out there so unsure of themselves, who hate themselves.
The "youre still so young". I get that people are trying to be comforting, but being in your mid to late 20s with limited/nonexistent dating prospects is different than being 15 😅
"Im 28 years old٫ I have grey hairs"
Actually so real 😂
I remember my first one at 29.
I’m 28 and I got my first grey hair at 20. It’s genetic. My dad had silver hair when I was a kid and he was only 30. And I’m a woman so it’s extra bad- with dark brown hair lol
I just turned 20 last week and found my first grey hair a couple days after… man fuck this shit 😭
@@katelynsousa6591 lmao it’s okay. My dad has passed so I think of it as a little piece of him being bestowed onto me. It sucks but you get used to it 😂
I'm 28 and going bald quick. Too quick for the grey hair. I'll have no hair by 30. Haha
It’s because he’s normal. All the normal men and women are hiding out and away from the freaks.
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True
I would argue he’s not that normal or hiding out if he’s posted 2500 videos on TikTok about being single lol
How do I know if I’m a freak or normal 🤯
Regardless I will continue to hide at home
So true. I have been single for 15 years after a bad divorce. I want to find a good guy but really....options are limited. 😢
I feel this, so much! As a “chronically single” 28 yr old woman, I loathe the platitudes that everyone spews, it’s ridiculous. Especially since they’re all married! Not helpful! 😂
As a fellow single woman, you are SO right!
I simply can't understand how any woman could be "chronically single" unless: they're never going out and/or have crippling anxiety, they reject everybody approaching them because they don't think he's "the one" or they're morbidly obese, in which case they can all be changed.
Like seriously, someone have to explain it to me.
@@rigierish3807 honestly, it’s mostly my own doing. I have a lot of anxiety and depression issues, and tend to isolate myself sometimes. I’m working on that. Also, I grew up with my siblings screwing everything that moved and I didn’t want that for myself, so I think I swung in the opposite direction, refusing to put myself out there out of fear of becoming the same way, and now that I recognize that about myself, I don’t really know how to date. To top that off, I live in a very left wing state and no one I meet shares my values. So yes, often times, people tend to be single as a result of their own choices. I just don’t know how to fix it.
@@JolleenHerbert Ok right, I completely understand in that case. I sort of find myself in some of your experience, so I completely empathize. Though I'm literally the opposite in terms of left/right wing, funnily enough.
I'm not sure what interpretation of “my siblings screwing everything that moved” I should get but whatever it is, if you don't want to be like them, don't think there's something stopping you from taking your own path and not be like them: the only influence you could've gotten leading you to think/behave in a similar way to your siblings is from your family, acquaintance or friends in common when you grew up, but you can grow out of it by changing your outside influences.
My only solution I could give you is try to socialize with new people in spite of your anxiety, by going first in places where people with the same passion/interest as you gather.
Either way, I hope you can escape your situation and find a partner that loves you, there are some good guys out there waiting for you (I mean, I don't know about your country specifically, I live in France, but I doubt it's any different 😄)
@@JolleenHerbert (And btw, just to be sure: don't interpret my first comment as “you're at fault for having anxiety and depression”: that wasn't my intention or thought, only an attempt to find a reason)
He is adorable. He's so cute, well spoken, and determined. Everything a single woman would need! But I'm 72, so there's that. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😅
That’s the thing. He’s what they NEED but not what they WANT.
Hey, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!
😅😅😅
@@joressas a woman, I think he's pretty well wanted too.
@@NyssaOwens But he’s 28 and single
Special shout-out to all the single men in the comments. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.
😂😂😂 👍
Hilariously ironic
I know 😂
Haha! Yes I am.
As wise man once said, “there’s a difference between being alone and lonely.”
As someone who's 25, single, and hasn't even had a first date, I feel this man's pain. I've been told all of those things. It's soul crushing and it makes you feel worthless.
Yep. Same here. Just turned 24 and still single without ever having a date. 🤷♀️
Same but I'm 20.
29.
I wish I could tell you it gets better, but in truth, you just learn to live with it
Same ☝🏽. But turned 30 yesterday. 😔
29, last time I kissed a girl was like 12 years ago.
You forgot "It'll happen when you stop looking" 🤣
it's kinda true tho, isn't it?
he's been looking nonstop
@@farazshadow2898 that only works for women who are the passive ones when it comes to finding a partner. It will never work for men.
@@farazshadow2898if men don’t pursue, men don’t get relationships. (Exceptions prove the rule)
@@joshua50101Aye it worked for me, but it’s not close to an actual strategy. She was my last shot after failing so many times I actually thought I’d be single forever then I pulled
@@joshua50101 Even as a woman, it hasn't worked for me yet. I think that advice mostly works for really hot people.
I'm 31 and terminally single, and I still hear all this.
My favorite: "oh the right one will show eventually "
34 and terminally single - the right one needs to show up already.
I don’t understand why people are so avoidant of acknowledging that some of us are not destined to find our soulmates. If anything is possible, we must also accept that not meeting the right person is one of those possibilities. Btw, 40 and terminally single. :P
go find a filipina
As a single woman I especially agree with the first one. I HATE seeing on dating sites or romance channels 'you can't have a healthy relationship unless you're happy being alone.' Uh - I'm not UNHAPPY, but if my happiness was COMPLETE as a single person, WHY on earth would I be looking for a relationship? What would be the point of moving in with someone who didn't INCREASE my happiness? 🤷♀️
@@cmm5542 I'm a man and I agree. If people are soooo happy alone why do they look for someone?
right like we weren’t given a sex drive and pair bonding drive for nothing …
@@cmm5542 What a bunch of pathetic, ill-equipped humans. Your completely missing the point.
People now are saying "that's not what a relationship is for" and you should go into the relationship "wanting to serve"
Do not take this advice unless you're ready to get completely played over and dumped after they're finished using you.
After following that dumb advice with my first gf I ain't going into a relationship not thinking about my own self and MY happiness.
@@cmm5542 every single one of you are completely missing the point
Add to that list:
“I got married at 34”
“Your standards are impossible”
“Just be yourself”
I’m 26 and I’m still single.
I'm 34 and still desperately single... 😢
@@zukunftverstehen I’m 26 and I’m still single.
Aww man I feel so called out as a 34 year old who just got married by being myself and lowering my standards slightly.
Ouch man.
I gave up on dating American women. Go date a migrant. She’ll marry you for the citizenship and chances are comes from a culture that A) respects men B) teaches women how to cook, clean, and the importance of being good mothers. She’ll also more than likely be in shape and not 300 pounds like all the body positive clowns we have here. Best advice I can give young men
It's annoying when I talk about how I'm still single and people proceeded to give me the most introductory level advice on social interaction known to man. Yes, thank you for telling me the most obvious stuff in the world as if I don't already know it. That's not condescending at all.
…but…have you tried loving yourself harder and more aggressively!?
😂
Have you tried going to church? Or putting yourself out there? Just be confident man, it'll come when you least expect it.
Did I miss anything?
@@JamesRogers233 "Girls will fawn over you if you have xyz" (dogs, good job, ect.)
@@sun-dried-onion-noodles lol I won't lie my wife liked me because she liked my dog and how good I take care of her.
Real talk, highly recommend the dog. May not guarantee you'll find a lady, but a dog's love is unconditional and guaranteed.
@@JamesRogers233and the sex isn’t bad either!
Never married at 49, with very few girlfriends in my lifetime. I feel this.
Just 6 years behind you.
51 years old here and same. Except I gave up when I hit my late 30s.
43 here. Feeling your pain.
Already heading at this direction... 34 rn
Don't give up... You can have marriage at any age!!!
Feel ya brother! This is a huge problem in our society. Good luck you seem like a good dude!
I'm single, and 28, heard all of that. I can totally understand him. Another one would be: "you'll find him/her when you stop loooking". I hope he finds his girlfriend soon!
I'm 38 and it is bad out here. I'm losing hope everyday. If the better at this dating thing are struggling, my socially awkward self is fighting up hill. Both ways. In a blizzard.
I'm also 38 and I have accepted that it is my fate to grow old alone
In bare feet
I’m 38 as well! I met my guy at a Comic con! He’s a veteran, but in Reserves in the USAF. I’ve been through one deployment with him. That was hard. I feel like he’s sooo close to popping the question. I never gave up hope.
46 here, pretty much given up
I'm 39, damm why is there something chronically wrong with this exact age
I can definitely relate to this gentleman.
As a single lady I can too
@@filipenguino Never dated like the gentleman in the video.
@@filipenguinoyou need to meet the guy in the video!!😁
@@eveningstar8581 age is a number buddy
@@eveningstar8581 age is a number buddy
My husband is nearly ten years older than me and he said this is how he felt before he met me. He is 37, almost 38 now and I am 28. It's normal here in Korea for men to not marry until they are in their late 30s and 40s but he was adopted and raised in the US so he wanted a girlfriend/wife at the typical age considered normal in the US. We recently found out I am pregnant with our first child and he is so excited that he is going to be a Appa. Stay strong gentlemen and DO NOT SETTLE for women who are disrespectful.
Lmao i bet he is, he got a woman 10 years his junior no problems. I hope you know the signs of a stroke 😂
its hard not to settle for a women who won't disrespect me when i cant seem to get settle with a women in the first place!
I think a lot of guys these days in USA and Canada are hesitant to approach women with that much of an age gap, especially if the man isn't already past 30 years old for fear of being seen as a groomer or something as well.
Also young women these days tend to have a lot of men going in and out so by the time they hit late 20's they have lost the ability to bond properly with a partner.
@@phoenixkwon 100% Sounds like a great lady there
Be happy with yourself the lady will tell and chemistry will start. We all want to enjoy each other. My only issue is they tend to be too young for me. Move slow they will move faster weird thing.
He seems so sweet, and he’s good looking. I hope he found someone.
I can relate to this. I'm 41 and after my last ex screwed me over I've lost all hope. I've opted to stay busy working and keeping to my hobbies instead of chasing phantoms.
Yea…I feel this guy. I’m 35 and this girl at my job started out great by telling me how I’m handsome I am and always smiling and so kind and helpful but then goes on to tell me “35? And single?? You??? you look great for 35 but no you gotta find you a woman!”
Yea…thanks…that hadn’t occurred to me…
“Just manifest her bro, love yourself so hard she just materializes”
Wait till your 40. Gets worse, lol.
An elderly lady I know keeps asking me if I'm married or have kids (like 4 or 5 times?.) Each time I I tell her no, and if she knows anyone good, she should send him my way!
@@FastGunner7 bonus, do you get hotter/good-looking at 40? An honest question 🤔😊
Felt like one upping you guys out there...try starting over again at 50. Lost my wife 4 years ago to cancer. I would love to find another special someone to share my my life with. I am not bitter as I had a good marriage. I know how to "husband" successfully. I take care of myself, I make a good salary, and my kids are nearly grown, yet...the dating pool is like a post-apocalyptic desert dotted with tiny pools of toxic water. I haven't given up hope yet. It's all in God's time.
“He’s talking about BABIES” had me dying 😂😂😂🙌
I’m 26 and I’m still single.
@@arcticangel1628 I'm 19 and I'm still dead
@@Pharaoh_Tutankhamen Looking for a relationship still?
@@arcticangel1628 maybe, 3000 years is a long time tho
@@arcticangel1628 So here's the deal, I'm not gay
As a very lonely man in my mid 20s, I can understand. Dating is not an easy thing to do. Just getting a date is super hard and keeping that as a relationship is even harder. It’s horrible, and I lose hope every day
Keep faith man... I won't do any platitudes here... just keep faith.
I’m currently 24 and single right now but I definitely feel this guy’s pain. All bro wants is a gf. He knows what he wants and has reach that point in his life😭😭😭
I'm a 62 year old single male, never married. I have a 65 year old sister in law, a 58 year old sister in law, and two 36 year old nieces. None of them ever introduced me to any of their friends, teachers, bosses, co-workers, or any other females. Not once.
Damn
maybe you should just ask them?
@@ogzbyrktr1 62 years... he's probably already tried that, no?
@@ogzbyrktr1Well GD, never woulda thought of that#!!
I knew at 12yrs old that i wanted a wife and family. I don't honestly have any hope of that ever happening. My dreams are dead and i kinda want to follow my dreams. Good men everywhere are grappling with despair and hopelessness that is very literally killing them and it is dismissed because they are men or white or straight, or, the most despised in modern culture, straight white men. And for us Christians, we're the bottom of the barrel of disposable people whom it's okay to attack from every angle and blame for everything.
Don'y worry. It'll get worse.
Saying a prayer for you man. Its a tough dating world these days. But if the Lord wants it to happen, It'll happen.
Well as a christian single woman I can relate
Keep praying about it. The Bible says to keep asking!! Put all your faith in God’s plan for your life even when it doesn’t align with what you dream about your life being. But you should keep asking for a wife. God bless you brother ✝️♥️
Well remember dude the culture hates us christians for our beliefs but I definitely feel your pain my brother in christ. I'll pray for you dude
Whatever happened to couples introducing your single friends to each other? Come on, people! This is how folks got married for years before online dating made us less social!
Nah thank you. They gonna keep and smash other girls aswell😅
Fr that's how my parents for got married 😅
Sometimes everyone hooked up
@@joelrolston8736 he will be a good provider for my alpha seeds. Nice beta guys always Wife up my baby momas. 👍😉
Matchmaking from friends isn't great. The friends want to force physical attraction, even if it's clearly not there. The setting up friends feel miffed and insulted if it doesn't work.
I can relate. I am a 27 years old single man living in France. I am a reserved and quiet person. I wish I could meet a woman around my age and start a family :) Open to meeting a woman from another country too !
Je te souhaite de trouver cette personne, Clément. Je n'ai que 19 ans, mais grandir avec internet et voir d'un côté les gens seuls à 30 ans, et de l'autre voir le nombre de personnes qui trompent leur partenaire, c'est très déprimant. Je pense devenir un papa chat dont la seulle partenaire sera une IA...
@@XX-br5bn Merci 🙂 Oh tu auras bien des surprises tu es jeune !
I feel your pain 😢
There are some cool women in German take the train one weekend and give out your phone number oh do you speak much German? Wait they say French women are great guess you are to much of an introvert
Hey grey hair is in right now. Be proud exercise a bit one day you will walking by and yes she will put her phone in front of you clue enter your name and number. Look into the eye good women smile from deep bad women look away unless they are shy to.
I'm 27, 6'6 tall, never had a gf, never kissed & a virgin.
We exist. Feel bad for Men for once cause no one ever does.
Dude you're 6.6 how can you be single 😮
I´m exactly 6 ft 5 in my Vintage HI-8 Vans Sneakers when I´m bouncing through the Train Station.. Dude You have the same height as Michael Jordan is his absolutely best prime. 6 ft 6 is a bloody good height.
I feel for men especially with the way a lot of women think they have to act now towards them so I’m thinking of you ! Also would like to add that being yourself in the above ways you’ve mentioned makes you a real catch for whomever it is you’ll meet ! Not many men like you 😊
@@RedchairSher
Thank you for saying that. Idk if this comment will even go through cause TH-cam keeps deleting my comments but I hope it does. I don't see those as positive things but thank you.
👀 6.6ft?
I feel like many people just jump to giving advice, instead of asking others where they're at in the process and what they've already tried. This applies to most situations. I think most of the time the advice comes from a good place, but people forget how it feels to be on the other side of these situations too.
Makes sense
I’m staring down the barrel of turning 30 in a few months and it’s tough out there. Dating apps just commodify people. I’m getting out there and doing social activities (I’m taking ballroom dancing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu classes - odd combination, I know!) but I cannot seem to click with someone who isn’t already taken.
I just want to feel like there’s hope where I can meet someone without having to massively compromise my values, interests, or self-respect. If I’m meant to be one of those “forever alone” types, then I’d like to know once and for all, so I can hopefully continue to cultivate the strength, self-sufficiency, and self-compassion to make it on my own.
Thanks for reading and have a blessed day.
Ooh I'm curious where you found out about ballroom dancing classes? That sounds super fun, and even if I didn't find someone I'd probably still enjoy myself
There's a chick up here 🖕 who would like to get entertained. She may not even cared your names, likes, dislikes, fear, wishes and dreams but she is ready to enjoy a dancing session with you. Who knows perhaps she got a free dinner ticket already. 😂
You like the once who are taken because their are more desirable in most cases 😂 I got the same issue 😅 but even when you succeed in seducing them, it's probably a short flinge, even when you want to build a life with them . Sad but this is my experience...
It's odd how a random topic can spark a conversation. I'm 29 and have been interested in ball room dancing. How hard is it to learn?
"I'm 28 years old, I have grey hairs." Well, glad I'm not the only one that fits that criteria
Tbh it makes him hotter, kinda turns him into the sophisticated gentleman type
@@starfox300 A silver fox, though I’m not sure if that’s how he’d like to be described.
Dude had a perfect hairline too, gray hairs are meaningless.
In early 20s and have them 😢
Boohoo, I was bald at 20!!!
"he´s talking about babies, somebody find him one" lfmao that out of context rocks
Same. I've been told every last one of those things AND MORE. Things were a little better in my early 20s, but after the accident that put me in a wheelchair, it just got worse and worse. Now I'm 33 and haven't had an IRL girlfriend in 4+ years, even though I've tried just about everything. Self-improvement, going out, dating apps (not the sketchy ones though), dating events. As the months go by, it just seems more and more hopeless.
He is young. I’m 37 and chronically single….. never been on a date either. I just hope he’ll find his person. All the best wishes to this young handsome positive guy!
@@fuerteirena I’m 26 and I’m still single.
if that profile picture is you, there is no reason that you're single pther than yourself. If you were my age and flirted with me I'd be yours. but for whatever reason you chose not to date anyone.
im 24.
A genuine question, at 37 what barriers are you facing to going on a date with someone? We can't control who we date but it seems very possible to control if we go on a date or not. I don't know your situation so that's why I'm asking.
@@logankearl8115 I was never asked on a date and when I asked someone out I got rejected. I’ve been lied to online too so I stopped trying. Sometimes it’s not in the stars. The older you get the less chances you get. Especially women. Men my age want women in their 20s. When you’re not good enough, you’re not good enough. So I genuinely empathise with everyone who’s been single their whole life…. I definitely understand how painful it can be….
We really need to bring back better ways to meet people in person. 27 single woman whose also been told similar words of wisdom. I have hope God'll lead me to whoever He has planned for me. The waiting's just terribly hard.
Don't forget "Just be yourself ". I have been this entire time and its not working. I'm also 28 so this hit home for me.
23, good looking (not near as good as this guy IMHO but more than enough to know my looks aren't the reason I never had a girlfriend), and another one I hate is "it will happen when you stop looking/least expect it" and the one my dad tells me ALL...THE...TIME: "there's somebody for everybody!" Which I really hate...I'm NOBODY'S "somebody" (except for some fucking reason many middle age gay men want me) and the woman I really want to be my "somebody" is in a relationship...I'm cooked! But even women I don't want don't want me purely because of luck...except I'm not a virgin no more (yes it was with a woman...if you think I'm a piece of shit that's fine I would've waited for a girlfriend first before losing it if I was even given that chance) which is one reason I know my looks aren't the reason I'm not wanted...rant is over I'm signing out
This is me too... As a woman, I'm 30 in 2 weeks. Single. I want love, marriage, a best friend..... So annoying that these things are said by people who have been in a relationship for 15 years, and they're still only a year older than I am....😅 It's soooooo jaaaaaaarrring lol
Speaking as a 40yo (as of yesterday) single guy who also never had a single date in his life, I don't think it's possible for us past 35 to have a relationship anymore.
That's the sort of thing you're supposed to learn when you're young and full of life, not when you're on your decline slowly going into middle/old age. In other words, we missed our boat and you can't have a late start in this school.
We're simply used to being alone and it feels weird to look for somebody to share your life with because you do everything on your own anyway.
We're too accustomed to a life where we don't hold anybody's hand, don't call anyone to pick us up, don't check up on anybody to see how they're doing, don't expect to come home to a cooked meal and someone making noises, don't expect or know how it feels to lay down on our beds next to somebody and wake up next to them in the morning.
Got married at 28. Thought I found the one. 20 years and 3 kids later she cheats on me with a younger guy. I tried counseling, therapy, and making it work, but she was just using me at this point, and with all the things the kids told me she was doing. She was no longer the woman I loved. Tried going out, putting my self out there, working on myself, but I just couldn't connect with anyone. Most my friends tried hooking me up with other people that just were not compatible with me. Some even tried to pawn off their parent on me. Most of the women I had the best chemistry with saw me as a friend, brother, or father figure, so it wasn't happening for me. Everyone tells me it's not me, or my standards are too high. What standards, I just want a woman that is hight/weight proportionate, under 50, was born a woman, and can carry a conversation. Is that really too much to ask for? Good luck to this man, I hope he finds someone.
Dang! So sorry that happened. Women are so unfaithful these days. It's hard to even trust them nowadays.
I’ve made it 31 years without offing myself due to chronic loneliness. F*** it, I’ll keep that streak going.
Dude in the video defined "being out there" as having an online presence. Is this how most young adults view it? That you can put yourself "out there" with out going outside of your house?
A side benefit from being "out there" the old fashion way -- We had to widen our social circle. This resulted in more same-sex friends in the process of finding potential dates. While making more friends, we added hobbies, experiences, travel, etc. We used our single days to become interesting.
My single days lasted ...way...too..long, but I was interesting. I had an extremely active social life. My children benefit from what I learned while I was single.
@@kathyp1563he said that he also goes out all the time despite hating it, getting to know people. Do not think that single people are single because they don't put themselves out there. I got girlfriend only after I gave up. I know personaly loads of people that are single despite going out and trying their best. You just need to be lucky to find love. Stop blaming single people for not being able to find the other half, as it may be easy for you, you could also get lucky, but in the end you didn't live their life and the truth is that they most likely are in simply very different situation than you are
Been there lost my liver and colon...now im building back better 😅
Your appreciated bro 🙏 we got ya back
i decided to copy my comment because thats sad as hell,
I was single as hell, then I met my wife. as soon as I was taken women were interested. The thing it tells me is I went at it with a single mentality, and as soon as i stopped trying and talked to them normally then things clicked for them.
I’ll volunteer! I’m 22 and chronically single too. I’ve also got grey hair and hate going out too so I think we’re pretty compatible thus far…
I’m 26 and I’m still single.
@@Danielle.adelline Would you like to meet?
Girl got suitors in here already 😂😅
@@arcticangel1628where at? I’m in SC.
Brett a real one for hooking that man up and getting him even more out there 🔥
Don’t give up!!!!! Y’all are worthy and will find the one! We are rooting for you!!
I love how you address this topic with such honesty.
Shut up, Bot
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@@arcticangel1628 Are you dumb? Do you not realize that this is a bot account? That it;s not a real person?
@@arcticangel1628 26 yrs old and you can’t tell that this is a bot..?🤦🏻♂️ do you also send money to princes from Nigeria?😂
The one I hate is "There's someone for everyone." Well, I'm 52, so my someone has spent her life getting railed by someone else.
Right. So even if you met her now, there's no way you would get together with someone who's poisoned their womb like that.
I guarantee you could meet a woman with a body count of 2 but with that attitude you probably wouldn’t believe her because you know “all women lie”. But even if you did take her word, all you can imagine is her getting pounded by those other 2 guys which makes you think of her getting railed by tons of guys, because you can’t know her body count for certain. Of course you don’t want to be a cuck, so whether consciously or unconsciously you end the relationship with what easily could be your soul mate before it ever begins. And that’s truly why you’re single. But what do I know, I’ve just been with my now husband for 15 years 🤷🏻♀️
Exactly. Bingo! 👋
Eh, if you're 52 and not gorgeous or rich, you can't be picky. Learn to be okay with dating someone who isn't s virgin, or accept singledom. Or groom a teenager. I've noticed a lot of dudes doing that
@@RandomName-my2uoThe point is that he wasn't picky, got told "it'll happen for you just wait, you're still young!" And he's *still* single at 52. Completely missing the point smh
I am so happy I had no idea how hard it is out there now. I thought only women had it hard! I was in a relationship/engaged for 8 years in my 20's (it ended when he cheated, I was 29). I didn't meet my now husband until 38. Married at 41, baby at 42. Best thing to do, just stop making that your focus. Go volunteer, go to church, go take a cooking class.... You only need one good one. There's hope.
😢 same thing happened to me. I’m trying to not obsess over the topic but I can’t, and at 31 only one seems impossible to find
Didn’t work for me! But I do like to volunteer. At least I get to chat with a cool gay guy who’s always getting laid. 😂😂😂
Hard for Women? Yall can always find a men if you rly want, even if its not the good ones..but atleast something..we as a men cant even get the bad ones out there.
@@lmGuts but who on earth wants a bad man? 😂
@@rachaelwilliams786 Most of the good looking Women always take those, for whatever reason.The average Men doesnt get shit.
I feel so bad for young men today! Hormonal birth control changes the way women interact with men. Everyone is SO lonely these days! I grew up in a huge, multigenerational family. My aunt's, uncles, grandparents literally owned the neighborhood. I naively believed everyone grew up that way, but that is not the case. What has happened to families within the past generation or two? One of my adult kids is a lot like this young man. I hope & pray that our youth have hope for the future & find amazing beautiful people to share their lives with... Try going to church and joining a group or class to meet people.
This was me at 32. Single all my life, lots of female friends, never had a girlfriend, tried dating services got zero interest, and getting so irritated with the constant dating advice which just mostly boiled down to: "Converse like a civilized human being, don't be an arsehole!"
Mmmm, been doing that all my life, never helped!
yes, I met a wonderful lady when I was 33 and we've been married for the last eight years, but there was nothing I "did", to actually make this happen other than get very very lucky, indeed the story of how we met sounds like a bad romance novel it was so improbable.
So yeah, it was hard enough being a single guy even before the me too insanity, these days, goodness knows!
Fughhhhhhh 😣 bro speaking as a solid 5 on a good day when im “done up” seeing this hella good looking dude talk about being single and 28 and me as a 29 year old 5 the future looks bleak 😂😂😂 but I still got a lot of fight left in me just got to keep on keeping on 😂 stay fresh kings ✊🏾
I'm a 20 year old single guy. SO RELATABLE!!! My single 60 year old neighbor always gets on me about being single and it's like dude your 40 years older than me and also single SO SHUT UP!
Also single lol😂😂
They want to be single? That’s different.
They been chewed up and spit out. You’re not even on the menu 😂
Homie is just tryna to look out for you, they don’t want you ending up lonely. Good neighbor👍
Have you considered maybe they hate the fact that they’re 60 and still single? And they’re trying to prevent you from hating the same whenever you’re 60 and single?
The fact that they’re 60 and single MIGHT have something to do with why they’re getting on you about it.
Hey I'm a chronically straight single 65 yo male. To the best of my recollection nobody was concerned about my dating /opposite sex relationships. Hardly any one of my friends, family, classmates, even suggested a female prospect (maybe wrong word). You know what? Nobody is going to see this comment. I post a lot of comments. Many don't even get a thumbs up or a reply. Why bother?
when people assume you get no p*ssy, they usually just stop bringing it up all together. you just become that guy who hasnt touched a woman in forever 😂
Hey man, as you can see, it's 2024. All of us both men and women are starting to see the increase in loneliness, the challenges of modern dating. While im 19 and i can't really relate with your daily life, i know you deserve to have someone by your side for your last years. If it's too hard, try to focus on you, do things you enjoy. Go out and have fun for a night with anyone.
I did see it.
You'll find someone.❤
@@truthguide1742 people read them but we often don’t know what to suggest
I saw your comment, and I hope you find someone 😊
100% relate to this. I’ve considered myself chronically single and have been for 10 years now. I’m 27 and really just haven’t landed anything serious since highschool. The struggle is real.
I feel for this guy, I'm luckily a few years behind him, but single all my life and messy situations have landed me in therapy now. Modern dating is too toxic for me
*on tinder - no matches*
- workout, loose all the weight, gain a shit ton of muscle
*on tinder - no matches*
-start shaving, taking care of myself, ensure I look good at all time
*on tinder - no matches*
-get a high paying g job and graduate university
*on tinder - no matches*
-join a competitive club sports team
*on tinder - no matches*
Guys idk what else I can do at this point. Is it over for
It is what it is dude. If I were you, I’ll forget about it and keep moving forward
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@@alstoyle sound like good thing to do to stay healthy
@@tainoloco2361 Find another dream if a woman comes great, if not still great as well. Just more challenging these days. Keep the faith just avoid evil women or men with crazy expectations. You want one with a few expectations but you are building a team that a challenge in itself both sides deserve it within reachable expectations. Managed correctly it can give you a dream you will be thankful for everyday. I’m judging by looking at friends life’s. One day I will have it despite things like health or money. I just need to.find right opportunities. I have great crush right now pretty sure it won’t go anywhere but both of us smile when we see each other. I’m old but still I have time but if I want kids we better get going before I’m too old don’t think she wants kids anyway I may have to give up on that idea. Good luck to you.
@@tainoloco2361There's nothing to move forward to. If life won't give you a win, no matter how hard you try, you become spiteful and nihilistic.
As a 38 yr old single who has heard lots of encouragement, I understand. It's super tough. Dating apps have made people into commodities that are constantly compared to each other. News flash, you're never going to find a perfect person! Only one perfect person ever lived and His name is Jesus.
I’m so hopeless that I’m not even going to present an arguement. You’re right, he was the example.
Yess Amen to that!
Wow, this guy is so me before I got married last year at 29. As a woman, the thing I hated the absolute most was people telling me that I‘m “so young”. 😒 Like, people, does the term “biological clock” mean anything to you??!!! 🤷🏽♀️ And I especially hated when they’d tell me, “Oh, I know a woman in her late 40’s who had babies for the first time.” Well, great, I‘m glad that you know a woman was lucky enough to experience a miracle. Unfortunately, I know a lot more women who struggled in their 30‘s before eventually giving up and either choosing to be childfree or just adopt instead. And there’s nothing wrong with adoption, but the process is a lot more expensive and complicated than some would have you believe. So, yeah, I’m glad that I became more proactive in my dating life and thank goodness for dating apps. Yes, some guys just use them for hooking up, but others truly want to find their future wives.
@@beautifulangel7723 yeep, emphasis on "future wives"
The best place to go is church.
I met my wife in an explore the Bible lesson.
@@kfirdrake8711there’s no time for jokes
OMG I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN! My one friend and her husband were telling me for a while that I will find someone and it can happen and I'll have a family! But like when??? 32(F) and not getting any younger. Got grey hairs, and also recently found out I may struggle to get pregnant as it is!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Hey!! Is it awkward to mention? Giving birth in older generations put the baby at risk for developing disorders? Because it totally does, and justifies all of your frustrations about the biological clock.
I totally understand what he is saying, also if you work alot and don't really go out partying every weekend and not really a drinker. It can be a challenge to find people with common interests. Best advice find a local group that share common interests (running, biking, etc).
I can relate… I put myself out there. I go to places I don’t want to go to put myself out there. I go on several dates even when men who aren’t my typical “type”. I ask intentional questions…. Dating in 2024 when you want a serious, committed relationship is tough.
Hell, by the time I was 28, I was already divorced. Forced back on the dating scene. And I didn’t even look half as good as that guy.
Congrats? 🤔
@@NerdlySquared😂
Hopefully you learned to choose better this time around.
Are you me?
Dude, if this guy has problems, none of us have a chance.
I got a cute gf. But I don't have Grey hair cause I'm not gross
@@shigglezz684dumb comment
Word
This is 100%!!
gave up on this game a long time ago. im pretty content now.
Anyone else think Brett should host a singles night?
No
😂. Only men will show up!
Yes! Host a singles night with all her followers.
@@CNCGuy Actually it's the opposite nowadays.
“It doesn’t get better in your thirties” that stung…and so true
That dude just described the story of my life!😂😂🤣🤣😅😅😢😢😭😭
I know this might be strange to say on TH-cam, but I'd probably ask you on a date if I met you in real life, so don't lose hope. Praying for you to find the one.
You'll meet someone in maybe like a week or year or so
@@Pharaoh_Tutankhamen
Love your name. I read all about you all the time 😊
@@railguy2518it probably makes more sense to ask it on TH-cam than on dating apps/sites. At least you don’t have a corporation that is more motivated to make profit than actually provide the service you pay for gatekeeping your access to ask.
The stress of searching for a girlfriend is making him grow gray hairs really early. That worries me
Some people also gray prematurely my father started graying when he was 18 still in high school!
When I was rejected by my crush back in high school it was embarrassing to say the least…then 10+ years later she hmu and asked if I was still single. I said yes, but not for you. She was flabbergasted by my answer.
Gigachad move
@@lmGuts I wasn’t trying to be a gigachad. She had the chance and she blew it
@@MetalHeadCobra420I don't think you did anything wrong. But of course she was young back in high school and may not known what she wanted, so it took her a while to work out she really did like you. However, if she just came back to you because she just couldn't find anyone else, you def shouldn't be with her. I'd have to know her personally to work out which it was, and I figure you do. And even if she is genuinely interested in you now, you're not obligated to reciprocate.
If you liked a woman once, they think you’ll always like them.
It’s the feeling of attention that makes them believe you like them still*
I’m just lucky, and grateful. Not here to crow, I’ve genuine sympathy for men and women in this situation. I hope y’all find each other.
If THIS guy is “chronically single” humanity is absolutely doomed.
He needs Greek aunties. They'll set him up in no time! 👏
People these days overlook the power of other people to help with matchmaking. Why mess with traditions?
Family usually looks at lots of factors when making a match. They can see things from a different perspective.
Brett, now you know how rare and special you are. One in a billion. Your hubby is a lucky guy.
Simp are one the main culprits for this phenomenon. You guys need to shut the hell up.
I'm only 20 and a woman, but this is one of the most relatable things I've heard (grey hairs and all😂). I would also like to add, "be friends first" and then when you try to ask someone out, the response is "I love our friendship so much, and I don't want anything to happen to it." It's great...
It’s the Best!
Thats called a soft rejection. If someone likes you, they will absolutely be willing to risk the friendship. Spoken as a 29 year old woman whos only been single for a year of my adult life
@@RandomName-my2uo Sage rejection gives motivation, soft rejection gives SIMPs
Putting yourself out there means actually going up to and asking women out. Or even talking to them works. Most women I talk to end up liking me, as way more than "just friends", and that's probably because I flirt a lot, but like subtly, and also don't do it all the time, it gets annoying if you do it too much. Deep conversations definitely help a lot too, talk to them about their life, childhood, problems etc, try helping them solve those problems, but do it WITHOUT expecting anything in return, don't be a nice guy, be a kind one.
Good for you.
Now say that in a graveyard and expect a reply.
He is adorable! ❤
As a 24(f), I promise we are out here and we are waiting to be found lol. May God move in our lives. Blessings and prayers to everyone out there searching.
Maybe you could answer a question I have about meeting women?
In what setting would you say you would be OK with a man you have never met before walking up to you and starting a conversation; specifically a conversation that feels like he might be trying or wanting to get to know you better and possibly ask out?
I see people saying to try talking to women at places like grocery stores, but that just seems intrusive on women that are trying to restock the fridge.
@@csquare750 I live in the south, so I like to go to church, the farmers market, and resale shops. I like tractor supply too. I don't think it would be odd if you were interested in the same things and wanted to offer advice or maybe you could ask for advice on something to buy. Keep the conversation going about who the best vendors are, etc. Then ask for her number if you have anymore questions, just to start talking. If we had any places to go dancing in my town I would like to meet people there. When I used to live in Houston they have Stampede, which is really cool and it was always fun to meet people there. Have someone to dance with.
I'm also with my family a lot. I think most guys here try not to be disrespectful when they ask me out when I'm with them. So then the interaction I have is just in glances. I think it wouldn't be bad to ask for someone's number while they're with their family, otherwise you never get the chance to know them.
@@Sunshine-ot5kx OK. I think that advice helps some.
Thank you.
@@csquare750 Anytime! If you don't mind me asking, what state do you live in?
@@Sunshine-ot5kx California. I live in the Central Valley.
30s are the best! I’m enjoying them so much!!!
Just gotta say, these people NEVER stop.
When I was pregnant with my first baby someone ligit asked when I was going to have more.
I wanted to say, "Can I have this baby first before I start thinking about more?"
Ok hold on a minute… every video I see about women talking about being single, all the men in the comments are saying it’s HER fault and insulting her somehow. But when a guy says he’s still single at that age, it’s relatable and heartbreaking? 😂 y’all are wild
It's more likely because it's modern women trashtalking about men when it's said it is the woman's fault.
This guy is good and not trashtalking on women at all.
It can get better in your 30s. I met my wife when I was 31. Dating is hard though. I will give him credit, he’s chronically single without having the chronically single stench. He’s still got confidence
Welp, I can understand him (I'm also a 28 yr old single man)... And yeah, things sometimes just won't work even if you put your mind into it.
And yes, I hate people questioning & advising about how to not be single or to be this & that = when they never ever introduce me to anyone, or anyone to me.
Edit: Basically, those empty advices never helped
I met my husband when he was 29 and I was 23. We really hit it off and had so much fun but we're also glad that because we both were home bodies, we never had to go out again it! LOL. We've been married almost 12 years and we still don't like going out, lol. All the stuff we love is already in our house🤷♀️🤣
What do you guys do at home all day? I'm curious.
@@mimah1015 well, he's an engineer and works full-time and I homeschool our children. So when he comes home, we have a lot to catch up on! We are both into a lot of the same things like philosophy, Theology and history so we usually explore our interests by ourselves and then usually meet up and just talk about stuff. We both are just very interested in a lot of things and we like to explore them together! We do take our kids out to do things but we always do things as a family. We just don't go out to clubs and drink and things like that.
I am really happy for both of you :)
I’m 32 and I’m getting married in November 😂I legit can’t explain the journey it’s got to get here hang in people 😂❤ it will happen for you
It will? Oh that’s great! I’ll just sit in my room and wait for it to happen then!
Not everybody finds someone it's not guaranteed
This is actually me...I'm 28 and single as well. I've been on dating apps, but stopped using them because most of them are scams. The only thing I don't do is go out, because that gets REALLY expensive really quick.
I feel this pain, I'm 37 now and my attempts at dating have been disappointing to say the least. Had one serious GF a few years ago and was so desperate I missed a lot of red flags and thankfully God showed me it wasnt right and I was able to break it off before it got too far. Since then its been one disappointment after another with the women getting very uncomfortable when I tried to ask about being more than friends after several dates when they seemed to show a lot of interest.
I can totally relate to all the things mentioned in the video and all the well intentioned but ultimately not helpful advice.
Doesn't help in my case that I'm a conservative christian guy who wants a family currently stuck in the Seattle area. Between my personal views not matching the culture of the region and the seattle freeze phenomenon its been extremely hard to find anyone to even date. Anyways, looking to get out of this area as soon as I can figure out a job somewhere else.
Like others have said in these comments, if we're all watching these types of conservative videos on dating and sharing our comments, maybe there's a way we could DM each other given how for profit and toxic most dating sites have become.
"You're still so young!" -26 y.o. new mom to 33 y.o. unintentionally single woman
I can relate to that guy. I'm 33 and I'm single.
35 single and sure I'll live and die alone at this point.
Same, just turned 33 a month ago and am still single. Although, unfortunately, I live in Portland, one of the worst places to find somebody that isn't liberal.
@@weiserwolfsgeist I Portland Tennessee.
@@Jay123hollis No, worse. Portland, Oregon.
@weiserwolfsgeist My comment was supposed to say I live in Portland Tennessee I have a low vision so I use talk to text and it messed up. I thought you might have been talking about Portland Oregon.
I get told, " You have time!" I'm 34..... The struggle is real.
True! People say, "Do you put yourself out there?" Now, I will say I don't do the online dating scene, but my goodness I've been out there meeting people. I'm involved in my church, I was a missionary in a foreign country for a couple years where I met new people all the time, I'm shy, but social, I'm extroverted so I will go to people's parties, weddings, etc. I'm out there in the world, but never ever dates anyone. Also I'm not running around turning people down, the guys aren't asking me out. Maybe flirting a bit, but not asking to go out on a date. I get it man, it's rough.
32, critically single. Dated 5 girls in my life time. But only one got past the first base. I still prefer staying single then ending up with the wrong person but as I get older, reality starts settling in that I might not get to have that family I've always dream to about. Time is a scary thing.
Bruh your in your 30's Men had families in their 40's.
My grandfather being an example.
42 here and single. "It's a numbers game". Miss me with that shit.
What about me, Brett!? I’m 62 & single. Never had a girlfriend, ever. 😢 I’ve heard them all.
He’s handsome! 🥰
Are you willing ma'am?
To fill the void in his life 😂😂
For some reason, he looked even better after he took off the cap. 🤭
Did you message him?
@@HannahDunny You might as well message him .
@@HannahDunny I’m single too
I mean he's not wrong 😅
I grew up in church and weren't many quality single men who stayed in church (my prom date got incarceratedyears later). HS was very ghetto so those boys were nuts. Went to college and dated a guy for two years thinking we'd getting married but he ended up being the jealous type who threatened suicide. Tried a PK (pastor kid) who was older but he just tried to corrupt me and tried to take me virtue despite knowing where i stood in my faith and ended up cheating. Been working and surviving since. Talked to a few guys here and they were all after one thing. I work two jobs, go to church, run my errands and occasionally go out on hikes when i have time. 😅 So yeah...😅 btw I'm 34
I have come to the conclusion that God must be this generation’s matchmaker. None other will do. An excellent spouse, who can find? Who is able to know the heart of man, to know his thoughts, or hear his prayers before they leave his tongue?
He's so good looking! He sounds like a catch!
Nice guy is boring. 😅
@@thenerdrobert3815Yeah. Boring for OF modern women who reject the “nice good guys” for “bad guys” just for the desire for “adventure and fun”. 😅 These are the kind of women who are getting rejected by men nowadays and are crying that men won’t date them anymore. Karma at its finest.
@@thenerdrobert3815 Are you one of those OF modern women?
@@arcticangel1628 he will take care my baby momas. Provide for my seeds
@thenerdrobert3815 okay? If that's her type, who are you to judge. Geeez people 🙄😮💨
The worst tip is probably: "just be yourself". Because there is no fixed "you", it is a fluid, changeable concept and not set in stone. The "you" of 5 years ago is sometimes a completely different person to today. Or you compare yourself when you are sober and drunk in the club. Again, a completely different person. Or when you have to give a presentation in front of the class. Conclusion: "be yourself" may be well-intentioned advice, but it doesn't help anyone because it says practically nothing and doesn't address the real problems or recommend personal development.
Ya no.
According to the wisdom of the church fathers. You simply cannot cure your personality.
"If all the women are rejecting you, the problem is you"- Jordan Peterson
Truer words never spoken
These men always blame being single on everything except themselves for being unlikeable
Fr.. like he’s good looking and seems nice, unless he has no job, I don’t get it
this is true, but he may be rejecting people also. he didnt touch on that in the video
@exchangAscribe It could be that too. Idk if this is just asshole talk, but I think it's also hard to be fairly attractive and looking for something serious because most of the attractive people out there are sleeping around and not at all serious (or they're already off the market way earlier than most folks.) So you're faced with either lowering your standards for someone as hot as you who will of course make you miserable eventually due to the lack of shared values or for someone who you find much less attractive than you know you could (theoretically) be with. And that isn't exactly easy either. It takes a lot to force yourself to be intimate with and value someone when you're fighting nature.
@@laimajo3547 yah i agree entirely. its a uniquely difficult situation that i dont think alot of people realize goes on
Same club bro. I’m on 3 dating apps, I attend church, I’m in Bible studies, actively go out with my friends, and I’m still single at 29. I hate it when people tell me those things!!
Nah the "you gotta love yourself" advice is fire, it's worth being annoying just in case it reaches someone who needs to hear it. too many lads out there so unsure of themselves, who hate themselves.
I can relate. When you're hungry it shows and women can spot it a mile away and it is a woman repellent.
@@waltershaffer7233 I’m 26 and I’m still single.
The "youre still so young". I get that people are trying to be comforting, but being in your mid to late 20s with limited/nonexistent dating prospects is different than being 15 😅
Thank you, Brett, for actually caring about and understanding men’s plight