Mam pls help me ....am from Kerala ...Sai Baba satcharitha chapter 14 a mathematics 5 Roopa baba told rathanji sometimes later baba again asked rathanji also give 3 Roopa 14 ana, so you give me balance Roopa.... actually I can't calculate this metric maths...pls mam how much the balance Roopa 😔
Nikhil ji are you alright ? You have not uploaded videos from last Thursday . I hope you are fine🙏 praying for all of you 🤍 sai baba bless us all 🤍 eagerly waiting to know your experiences with baba😊 om sai ram❤️
@@Kukkum9 Thank you for checking in. All is well, we are a bit tied up with the launch of our first publication 'Sai Baba and Aai' about which we shall make an announcement soon on the channel. For a few weeks we will be publishing videos once a week at most.
I was in shirdi,only fr 1 day,time was less,I wanted to shop,thn realised got my periods,was vry sad,dejected,cried a lot,fought wth baba,thn my family went fr darshan,I was walking on the road,saw a fakir staring at me,wearing pure white new kafni,then again saw him sitting in a hotel,staring at me,I was vry scared,thn I was standing near dwarkamai,as I had periods I ddnt go for darshan,I heard smone call me" beta,I looked behind,it was the same fakir,he told me he wants a bag,I asked him,whether i am supposed to pay fr it,he laughed loudly and said hw does it matter,shopkeeper was stunned,thn I told shopkeeper to gv him the bag,as I was hvng periods,bt the fakir refused and said he wants me to give him,i gave him,I was worried,if the bag wll be expensive,bt the shopkeeper took minimum money frm me,evn today i remember his face,his voice ,the feeling of brahmaand was there in his voice,the glowing beautiful skin,as if he jst took bath in milk,he went away,thn i remembered, just 2 days back was ram navami,hence his clothes were new,and he was wearing a new karni,tht was my baba,who came to console me,nothing i do,can ever be enuf,the love I hv for him,or he for me cant be measured or explained
maintaining sanity and keeping it strict is very imp when we do nitya pooja to baba.. but mansik pooja, namsmaran, meditation we can do anytime, any where and u can feel his presence... for sure...
Happy to see the comment section.We are moving from ritualistic pujas to pure love,friendsip with God,where there is no difference b/w a frnd or family member and God❤Baba,plz bless your children with true knowledge.🙏Om Sai Ram🌻
Sai is my mother Saimaa, when I can hug my mother, my father, my children during periods, then should I keep distance from my saimaa, who is my mother from time immemorial. If periods were so negative, then why God used it for Creating another Life. No Mensuration, No Life, No Birth.
Sai looks at the purity of SOUL and not Body. Connecting my soul to super soul is Sai Baktki, where is the body inbetween...Being the only lady of the house, its not possible to avoid poojas functions of the house. I maintain Hygiene and cleanliness and do everything with faith on Baba, He understands my situation and accept my soulful poojas. Love you Saimaa.
Mam Swami Samarth Maharaj use to feed morsels to ladies who were in menstruations. He used to say that from where you come you are disrespecting by making her sit aside. In primitive ages ladies were attacked by wild animals so they were kept aside. Her weekness is not negativity. She was kept aside for rest. Hygiene should be maintained of course.
Negative energy can flow without menstruations also. Grihna, tiraskar Can also create negative energy. Of course a women with sense will not go to samadhi Mandir during this But if she could step there it is just because of Baba I think. Everything is in mind and one should surrender mind to Baba. He is whole and soul. 🙏
I live in the US . There is no one to help me in cooking food n lighting up the diyas at my home during my periods . Does Baba or God want to starve family if we hv periods for four days ? We all are souls in the physical body . Baba / God looks for bhaav not the rituals . Devotion and love is all spiritual. Om Sai Ram 🙏🏻
That's so true in today's time when most of people are having nuclear families we alone have to do all the household things during that difficult pain ..we have no option...but deep inside we just have shraddha and faith that baba knows everything ... I do nam simran whole day doing all the household things..andthat gives me so much strength and peace.. 🙏🙏
Very well articulated by Dr. Vinny ma'am especially for the younger generation who seem to be drifting away from their roots possibly because of lack of rational explanation provided to them on our customs which always have a scientific reason beneath.
I respect vinny ma. But I have different opinion in this regard. No negative energy imbibe in people who are going to worship baba. I feel embarrassed if someone talks not to worship. Baba himself doesn't believe in puja karm kand. He agreed to all this karm kand because of his followers wish whom he also loved.It's just a matter of rest. Earlier there were no pads so women were kept in separate rooms and other women take care of all household things. When noone is around you and you live in a nuclear family who will take care of everything. I believe that our relationship with baba is not bound to physical body it's all about spiritual. As far as my knowledge spirits don't have body to menstruate. So I dont touch my pooja room bcoz I m born hindu so I have follow rituals but I continue to do namaskar and manasik pooja to baba. Baba is my universe and I cant stay away from him for 3 long days. If I don't take his name it feels like baba is calling me and telling why are you not coming my child 😭
You didn’t understand what exactly Vinny ma told. She just meant to avoid vaidic karm kand means going to temple lit aggarbatti and diya. That must be avoided. chanting Baba’s name or mansik namaskar ,smaran and talking to baba is not said to stop. Just continue all these. Avoid only formal pooja paath. I think you got my point
Well according me there is no harm in doing babas pooja because v all r his children he knows everything.It’s not our fault if v r going through this cycle.It’s natural.many people commit crimes etc still they go to temples .why????so I think there is no harm in puja even I m from a Hindu family earlier even I used to follow such rules like not touching holy doing puja etc etc but after so many years I changed my mind my outlook towards life v females r same in every aspect.Baba loves all so now I don’t mind doing my puja during periods.Om sai ram
🌹🙏OM SAI RAM🙏🌹. It's a miracle yesterday only I have red the story of dada khelkar story in 32 nd chapter of SHRI SAI SATCHARITRA. very happy to share this openion. 🌹🙏OM SAI RAM🙏🌹
Menstruation is only the shedding of the endometrium along with the ovaries. I dont understand WHY it has to be such an issue to such an extent that people have to tell you dont go to holy places or kitchen because you are impure! Do they tell men if you masturbated you are impure hence you cannot come enter the kitchen or holy places?? Like what is really the issue? Does the bleeding freaks people out that they have to say you are impure? I can agree if you telling a woman to not do anything like house chores and cooking as menstruation can be painful to some people, on this point i can agree.
I write this with utmost respect to Vinny Ma. She is one of my greatest inspirations in my journey to Sai. But I consider the taboo associated with menstruation as one of the biggest blots (along with the Caste system and horrible treatment meted out to widows) on the oldest and one of the most tolerant and peace loving faiths in the world. It may have started with the best of intentions like giving rest to a woman at that time, but it definitely grew into a tool of oppression of women and was extensively used to keep "women in their place".
Before commenting anything here please contemplate over what Vinny ma wants to tell us. Remember she is doctor herself. Without baba's wish no content is presented on this channel. We all love Vinny ma and this channel. Try to follow whatever you are able to follow. Baba will help you and me in that for sure. Om sai ram 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Namaste Vinny ji,I have enjoyed your many invaluable insights and guidance of baba and his ways . Though I never comment on any videos on youtube, I thought I would like to give a different perspective to this topic as a woman. The " negative energy" explaination may add more grief than understanding of why one must choose not to do pooja or visit temples. The science behind it is better explained by Sinu Joseph in many videos here in you tube. She explains wonderfully on the effects of the strong vibration from temples etc on the women's sukshma sharira where the cause is created and that in turn affects her reproduction capabilities in the physical body if she were to visit during her menstruating days . More can be garnered from her videos that I believe every woman must watch to have a more positive understanding of the why we women were adviced to stay away from these high energy fields. It's for our benefit and not on the contrary as made to beleive, a punishment. Stay blessed.
Ya ! glad u said it . Even mensuration is sort of cleansing but the process is quite painful and this creates disturbance in mind and the cleansing energy is flowing downwards, whereas the temple energy or divine energy does cleansing by moving upward! So the impact when both energies hit each other can be dangerous! This is told in Agnihotra tradition also!
Dear Vinny ma, thank you for your message. God’s energy or God itself is present in everyone. True that a menstruating women needs rest if she wants and perhaps the intention in the past in families was to give her rest and let her take care of herself. This should be every persons choice whether it’s a menstruating women or an old person who needs rest. But a society that makes rules that are male dominated/ focused on men being important goes with the wrong intention of secluding women and giving them a separate underrated unloved position in society. A very loud example of this is in Afghanistan! While more and more women are getting educated, families are changing bringing in revolution of concepts and equality. Respect for women and respect for men. There is no negative energy in a menstruating women because as Sai says- God is in everyone, he is also in her. If a sick person needs care and rest, we need to give them love and support and not seclude them because they are thought of having negative energy. No person, menstruating/sick/ old/injured has negative energy. They have their positive energy that they have and God’s energy in them. What we can do is give them more positive energy, hope and love to make this a compassionate place for everyone. We reincarnate to learn about love and we grow spiritually through LOVE and FREEDOM! Om Sai Ram. I have learnt a lot through your videos on Sai Vinny ma. And I am really very grateful and thankful to you 🙏🏻 ♥️
Baba was beyond caste, religious, and gender-bound practices. Every intimate devotee across the gender, caste, religious spectrum has their own relationship with Baba. Continue to honor your authentic relationship with Baba, beyond anyone else's opinion or practices.
My heart felt pranams to you maa. But periods are part of the physical body functions which is unavoidable. Mensuration is the sign of fertility in women. How are we producing negative energy.... It's a positive part of life giving system. If a girl don't have this cycle, she cannot give birth. We should pray with shradda, leaving aside body functions. Om sai ram.
With all due respect to vinny ma, i beg to differ to the point, i am not a big devotee like ma. I don't enter in shrine or do pooja in those days, but i don't think baba is against that, because for baba bhakthi is the only important virtue, he was against superstitions , rituals etc, and he is our loving guru, but i also believe, each and every devote have a unique relationship with baba, and do what your mind tells, because baba is ever loving, universal father, baba is love, as vinny ma said its all perspectives, you have to decide on yourself, would love to hear hema ma's opinion too, om Sai ram🙏
A fact goes to men also who believe they are 24/7 pure irrespective of any bath. I have seen passengers getting down from trains or buses after long journeys and going straight to the temple no matter whether they passed stool in their long travel . They r always clean !
As many of us i too dont have helping hand while having monthly cycle.. So i have to cook for me n husband.. On daily basis we offer food to baba in our shrine .. Den we take it as prasad.. So during periods we dont offer that food to baba n other god in our puja shrine.. My husband offer some fruits or dry fruits to god at that time .. N d food i cook during periods..before having it ,i offer it mentally to baba n god. So i agree completely with vinni maa.. As purity matter(pure soul and pure body)
I absolutely agree what Vinny ma said and I do not go to temples or enter my Pooja room for 4 days of my period. Regarding cooking, I don't have any help so I have to do it there is no choice. But when I go to my parents home I do not enter kitchen and cook food.
@@sanjusai3790 Every person has their individual opinion. Some people agree and some people don't agree and that is very natural. Because we can't control people's views and desires , and every one are in their own soul journey some are already in their advance phase and some are not. But if we don't agree on something then we can at least respectfully disagree on the matter instead of being hyper and taking it personally. According to my opinion I absolutely agree each and every word what Vinny ma said. Om Sai Ram 🙏🙏
Sairam 🙏 we definitely follow this ritual since long time and it's been going on since ages...... But in the matter of cooking it can't be done by anyone..... Totally loved Vinny maa explanation 🙂 God bless to Sai devotees speak team Sairam 🙏🙂🦋🧿
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks in our hindu culture we have been taught not to cook/ involved in any holy activities since time immemorial.What Vinny Maa has said is still followed by many people including me because I too don't enter shrines or cook during menstruation. What most people don't agree is about taking menstruation as a impure and negative energy as Vinny Maa has said in the video. Being herself a woman, i didn't expect to hear this from her. If menstruation is considered negative, from where will life breed? Menstruation is a beautiful gift from God.
साई राम 🙏 Explaining things are fine but making people understand this is a great job done .. and Vinny maa does it so perfectly,clearly and straight to the point. No matter what generation we are born in.. following our ancestral practices is definitely good ... there is no harm in that for sure .. 😌 Tysm maa 🥰❤️🙏💯 साई राम 🙏
Om Sai Ram everyone. Last night I was listening to this and though I don't normally read the comment section but don't know why I was so interested to read it last night. May be it's Baba's blessings. So after going through everything that was written I came to one conclusion, we are the generation of debate for everything. We can debate in ever possible things around us. We can't even bear one post also. We can't even hear to our parents and elderly. I am not here to justify whether she is correct or not. She has her ways of devotion and everyone else has their. Vinny MAA is not forcing you to do puja as per her guidelines. She has just put her point of view and what she understands after reading I think thousand no I think even more times the Satcharitra ( may be our age with days will count less before it). You may accept it or not , that's totally your choice. There is a clear line written in the comment section if ever read it , please give comments respectfully. Do we obey it this time. Isn't Vinny MAA is our Mother or say Mother's age. Why can't we just listen and respect it , that much only. Why to debate about it, if you have doubts why don't you ask Baba, he will guide according to your capabilities to worship him. I am 100 percent sure Baba will answer you in his own unique way. Please don't make it a debate platform, it is a pious one. Baba will be very happy if we follow his guidelines and respect our elders and love the little ones. Because Baba is in every one. I am not debating but requesting.
Modernity is not audacity. Modernity is sorted thinking. If menstruations are negative, everybody have come from that only. For nine months child is in that menstruations blood only. So is it everybody is negative.
With due respect Ma , now a days women manages inside the house also works outside , so it’s tough to follow as u say . And when u say negative energy it doesn’t sound good . Because it’s god who has made women with this unique gift .
@@veenabv9371 I was thinking the same. I don’t worship or enter temples during that time, but I always wonder why can’t I? Since it’s god who created women and their analogy? It’s quite puzzling.
Hello Nik, as a regular listener of your podcast and devotee of saibaba, thr are so many things I’ve learnt from your discussions with your guest. There is one topic I would really like to hear in your podcast. That is pre conceived notion. Thr are some experiences in past sometimes they hold you back from trying new things. How to bring change in subconscious level so that regardless of your experiences how good or bad, you are always trying something new, be fearless with anyone’s opinion/thinking. Be more proactive and expressive. I would really appreciate if you can discuss about this. Many thanks Nick😊
Lovely video...but in today's world we rarely can follow some rules when in periods as many of us have nuclear family where the lady cooks for the family even in her menstruation days...and we find a mother breastfeeds her baby in her periods.....negative energy do flow but can there be any way out? All these questions sometimes disturb me.....Thnk u Vinny maa,Nikhil and your team...Sai Ram 🙏🏼
There is a Linga Bhairavi temple in Tamil Nadu where menstrual ladies offer prayers and as well are even priests And Mr.Janardan Pujara gave equal rights to widows by training them as priests and carry on to worship in Gokarnatha temple in mangalore breaking all the taboos. My mother was not so highly educated yet she never allowed anyone to treat us like untouchables we are three girls Pls do not take it offensively but I think it’s a personal opinion
But akkalkot maharaji who is himself baba was against this ritual and has explained very clearly about this andh shraddha, See the serial In marathi colour channel you will come to know. He has explained it is only time to take rest for women who will be working around the clock,abd nothing else.
Sorry to say...but first video where u disappointed ...... I address baba as baba saima...how can I be away from him and that hw doesn't let me away from him...
Nice advise sister. In fact holy Quran and Leviticus of old testament has termed certain things like this as unholy. To get full results of our God devotion, also one should not engage in physical relations, be physically clean by bathing, wearing clean clothes while going to any temples or God worship. Menstrual blood is a waste blood expelled out, so it's not clean. It's almost akin to other expulsions like urine and feaces that are waste. If that blood had been cleaned, it wouldn't have been expelled out. Many women will not agree.
@@sanjusai3790 this is no taboo.. Can you visit your office shabbily dressed, stinking, looking tired etc etc? The thinking that following certain norms is rubbish that is rubbish.
I am having my periods now and gave a break to the daily ritual of giving prayers to baba. Usually during the previous periods I used to just give a namaskar to baba but this time I stopped that one as well and this video has been recommended today. please tell me whether we can just offer namaskar and continue to talk to baba during our periods.
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks Thank you Vinny Ma..I'm so glad you are discussing this . You have very clearly pointed out how most of us select what teachings of Baba we want to follow (selective bhakti/ surrender) and what to drop at our convineince. ..thanks for clarifying Baba's opinion ..Many youngsters feel( apologies for generalising)that these things need not be observed when it comes to Baba....As you rightly said the clash of the upward and downward energy will create physical and mental havoc for women 🙏
@@sanjusai3790 she is America returned doctor and has learned scriptures more than any of us so she’s more knowledgeable about this matter. Age sabki apni life apni marzi h
I respect vinny chitluri mam.But i too have a different opinion. I just have a vision .. if i love saibaba , and im just crazy after him .. soo much that i forget what im wearing at that time or what state i am in. Worshipping lord crazily .. that we forget our body and state , will we look back and stop ourselves just because we are having periods. I dont think pure love needs any rules. And I think baba is the one who changed his concepts according to time, state and person. Baba blessed devotees at that time ..to have a second marriage (when they already had a wife ) , I don't think someone doing a second marriage just to get progeny is justified now at this time. So ,many things are different now , and we should change our perceptions too. As baba is not just baba from the old shirdi ..he is also in hearts of these younger people. Also, neither a leper is negative (when he has oozing pus all over his body which is much more harmful to hygiene than period's blood) nor a menstruating woman. Ofcourse maintaining hygiene is important but it was also misused to practice untouchability in older times. I just find this period rules nothing else than another kind of untouchability. Its not vinny maa ,its her conditioning speaking. As i believed this too one year back , but i put aside this fear ..and this was the best step that my husband helped me to move to. I'm sorry if i hurt someone's sentiments. But , I felt like expressing. I respect opinion of others. But i will listen to my soul.The other concept mam mentioned are based on love .... like sharing food and chanting lord's name. But ,this one cant be taken as universal. Also , satcharitra mentions some things which seem odd (a line from satcharitra sounds odd to me always.." when adharma increases ..when people from lower caste try to take rights of brahmins" something like that. But it sounds absurd now. I am remembering that story from satcharitra , of dr pandit. Baba never allowed someone to touch his forehead ,while he said nothing to dr pandit drawing a tripund over his forehead. I think its all about intention. If you think its not good , it will be like that. If you think , only love matters , it becomes like that. Not everyone knows you that deeply as Baba ,and no one else can become baba. 😊 Sai Sai
Baba would never say that we should not read in periods....bcoz praying comes from heart truely and periods is natural which is given by god....so baba wil never accept this ...for baba all maters is our true payers for him in any conditons....om sai ram....
Sister, I don't think there's anything wrong in front of our love for baba :) in today's world when families are nomore joint, how would you feed your family if you stop cooking? For our love to baba, we don't need anybody's validation These so called impurities, negativities, Tamasik energies, nothing can withstand in front of Parabramha. I think baba is way too bigger than this paap-punya
Om Sai Ram. Thankyou Vinny mam for your easy explanation.I just have 1 query, regarding offering food to Baba.You mentioned Baba mentioned this to Hemadpanth only, does this mean we cannot offer food to Baba before partaking ourselves? I am bit confused here Kindly if someone can clarify.
Baba mentioned to hemandpant, but anybody can follow it, bring it to practice. Offer food,water,tea,coffee,snack anything FIRST to The Brahman, The Sadguru & then have it..that's d message. Why it needs to b done that way is written in Satcharithra. My humble thoughts on those. Jaisairam🙏👣
Thankyou for your response.I had this understanding too but I had this query listening to Vinny mam, when she mentioned Baba mentioned this to Hemadpanth. Not sure, if I misinterpreted or her message was different..Thanks again.
Menstruation is something which is so, so natural; just like the 5 elements and trees and mountains etc, etc found naturally in the nature That is what differentiates between a male and a female.. The restrictions imposed in the women are man-made and was a matter of convenience. Women were dying due to heavy and painful bleeding. Women used to do a lot of heavy work back then.....like fetching water, grinding flour etc on daily basis. Besides the fatigue, hormones are also playing bigtime games during the menstruation time. It is a concoction of Anger outbursts, depression, weakness etc. A woman was always trained to be the mild, subdued ones. But during menstruation, inspite of herself, the story changes. And it was not necessarily accepted very well by the men-folk and the elders in the house. Plus, knowledge of sanitization was not enough. So, all this put together, it was better that the woman sat in one place; thereby she also got the much required rest and thereby, she remained subdued and mild as desired by the household. And people would not abide this until it was tied with God and worship. Moreover, after the periods, the woman was rested and fresh and was ready for romance and thereby for sex during the ovulation period, for further procreation. Yes, first-menstruation is something that should be celebrated. It's the first indication that the girl is hormone-wise normal and able to procreate. Secondly, the girl learns to accept herself and not condemn herself for having periods and restrictions thereby. Baba is brahmanda nayak. We are the ones biased about menstruation and bathing etc. These are all just external ritualistic ways. जया मनी जैसा भाव.. तया तैसा अनुभव It all depends on how one wants to think.
My husband cannot cook I felt I will cook & eat n I cant starve baba. I put the meal far & than take it regularly should I stop it. I was doing a mistake... I dont know
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Mam pls help me ....am from Kerala ...Sai Baba satcharitha chapter 14 a mathematics 5 Roopa baba told rathanji sometimes later baba again asked rathanji also give 3 Roopa 14 ana, so you give me balance Roopa.... actually I can't calculate this metric maths...pls mam how much the balance Roopa 😔
Nikhil ji are you alright ? You have not uploaded videos from last Thursday . I hope you are fine🙏 praying for all of you 🤍 sai baba bless us all 🤍 eagerly waiting to know your experiences with baba😊 om sai ram❤️
@@Kukkum9 Thank you for checking in. All is well, we are a bit tied up with the launch of our first publication 'Sai Baba and Aai' about which we shall make an announcement soon on the channel. For a few weeks we will be publishing videos once a week at most.
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks alright 👍 super exited 😊💛 thankyou for replying ✨💫
I was in shirdi,only fr 1 day,time was less,I wanted to shop,thn realised got my periods,was vry sad,dejected,cried a lot,fought wth baba,thn my family went fr darshan,I was walking on the road,saw a fakir staring at me,wearing pure white new kafni,then again saw him sitting in a hotel,staring at me,I was vry scared,thn I was standing near dwarkamai,as I had periods I ddnt go for darshan,I heard smone call me" beta,I looked behind,it was the same fakir,he told me he wants a bag,I asked him,whether i am supposed to pay fr it,he laughed loudly and said hw does it matter,shopkeeper was stunned,thn I told shopkeeper to gv him the bag,as I was hvng periods,bt the fakir refused and said he wants me to give him,i gave him,I was worried,if the bag wll be expensive,bt the shopkeeper took minimum money frm me,evn today i remember his face,his voice ,the feeling of brahmaand was there in his voice,the glowing beautiful skin,as if he jst took bath in milk,he went away,thn i remembered, just 2 days back was ram navami,hence his clothes were new,and he was wearing a new karni,tht was my baba,who came to console me,nothing i do,can ever be enuf,the love I hv for him,or he for me cant be measured or explained
maintaining sanity and keeping it strict is very imp when we do nitya pooja to baba.. but mansik pooja, namsmaran, meditation we can do anytime, any where and u can feel his presence... for sure...
Happy to see the comment section.We are moving from ritualistic pujas to pure love,friendsip with God,where there is no difference b/w a frnd or family member and God❤Baba,plz bless your children with true knowledge.🙏Om Sai Ram🌻
Sai is my mother Saimaa, when I can hug my mother, my father, my children during periods, then should I keep distance from my saimaa, who is my mother from time immemorial. If periods were so negative, then why God used it for Creating another Life. No Mensuration, No Life, No Birth.
Sai looks at the purity of SOUL and not Body. Connecting my soul to super soul is Sai Baktki, where is the body inbetween...Being the only lady of the house, its not possible to avoid poojas functions of the house. I maintain Hygiene and cleanliness and do everything with faith on Baba, He understands my situation and accept my soulful poojas. Love you Saimaa.
So beautiful 🙏🏻
Mam Swami Samarth Maharaj use to feed morsels to ladies who were in menstruations. He used to say that from where you come you are disrespecting by making her sit aside.
In primitive ages ladies were attacked by wild animals so they were kept aside.
Her weekness is not negativity. She was kept aside for rest.
Hygiene should be maintained of course.
🙏🙏
Negative energy can flow without menstruations also. Grihna, tiraskar
Can also create negative energy.
Of course a women with sense will not go to samadhi Mandir during this
But if she could step there it is just because of Baba I think. Everything is in mind and one should surrender mind to Baba. He is whole and soul. 🙏
Absolutely correct sister.
Negativity is not greater than baba but baba is way greater than these so called negativities
I live in the US . There is no one to help me in cooking food n lighting up the diyas at my home during my periods . Does Baba or God want to starve family if we hv periods for four days ? We all are souls in the physical body . Baba / God looks for bhaav not the rituals . Devotion and love is all spiritual. Om Sai Ram 🙏🏻
That's so true in today's time when most of people are having nuclear families we alone have to do all the household things during that difficult pain ..we have no option...but deep inside we just have shraddha and faith that baba knows everything ... I do nam simran whole day doing all the household things..andthat gives me so much strength and peace.. 🙏🙏
Totally agree..
Very well articulated by Dr. Vinny ma'am especially for the younger generation who seem to be drifting away from their roots possibly because of lack of rational explanation provided to them on our customs which always have a scientific reason beneath.
I respect vinny ma. But I have different opinion in this regard. No negative energy imbibe in people who are going to worship baba. I feel embarrassed if someone talks not to worship. Baba himself doesn't believe in puja karm kand. He agreed to all this karm kand because of his followers wish whom he also loved.It's just a matter of rest. Earlier there were no pads so women were kept in separate rooms and other women take care of all household things. When noone is around you and you live in a nuclear family who will take care of everything. I believe that our relationship with baba is not bound to physical body it's all about spiritual. As far as my knowledge spirits don't have body to menstruate. So I dont touch my pooja room bcoz I m born hindu so I have follow rituals but I continue to do namaskar and manasik pooja to baba. Baba is my universe and I cant stay away from him for 3 long days. If I don't take his name it feels like baba is calling me and telling why are you not coming my child 😭
You didn’t understand what exactly Vinny ma told. She just meant to avoid vaidic karm kand means going to temple lit aggarbatti and diya. That must be avoided. chanting Baba’s name or mansik namaskar ,smaran and talking to baba is not said to stop. Just continue all these. Avoid only formal pooja paath. I think you got my point
@@sulochnasatpal7457 then can i touch sai satcharitra book &read in those days as my periods came during my namsaptah?
Well according me there is no harm in doing babas pooja because v all r his children he knows everything.It’s not our fault if v r going through this cycle.It’s natural.many people commit crimes etc still they go to temples .why????so I think there is no harm in puja even I m from a Hindu family earlier even I used to follow such rules like not touching holy doing puja etc etc but after so many years I changed my mind my outlook towards life v females r same in every aspect.Baba loves all so now I don’t mind doing my puja during periods.Om sai ram
@@arrtirameshbabu1020 no, read from phone. There’s pdf available
@@sulochnasatpal7457 ok
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It's a miracle yesterday only I have red the story of dada khelkar story in 32 nd chapter of SHRI SAI SATCHARITRA.
very happy to share this openion.
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Menstruation is only the shedding of the endometrium along with the ovaries. I dont understand WHY it has to be such an issue to such an extent that people have to tell you dont go to holy places or kitchen because you are impure! Do they tell men if you masturbated you are impure hence you cannot come enter the kitchen or holy places?? Like what is really the issue? Does the bleeding freaks people out that they have to say you are impure? I can agree if you telling a woman to not do anything like house chores and cooking as menstruation can be painful to some people, on this point i can agree.
I write this with utmost respect to Vinny Ma. She is one of my greatest inspirations in my journey to Sai. But I consider the taboo associated with menstruation as one of the biggest blots (along with the Caste system and horrible treatment meted out to widows) on the oldest and one of the most tolerant and peace loving faiths in the world. It may have started with the best of intentions like giving rest to a woman at that time, but it definitely grew into a tool of oppression of women and was extensively used to keep "women in their place".
Before commenting anything here please contemplate over what Vinny ma wants to tell us. Remember she is doctor herself. Without baba's wish no content is presented on this channel. We all love Vinny ma and this channel.
Try to follow whatever you are able to follow. Baba will help you and me in that for sure.
Om sai ram 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Namaste Vinny ji,I have enjoyed your many invaluable insights and guidance of baba and his ways . Though I never comment on any videos on youtube, I thought I would like to give a different perspective to this topic as a woman. The " negative energy" explaination may add more grief than understanding of why one must choose not to do pooja or visit temples. The science behind it is better explained by Sinu Joseph in many videos here in you tube. She explains wonderfully on the effects of the strong vibration from temples etc on the women's sukshma sharira where the cause is created and that in turn affects her reproduction capabilities in the physical body if she were to visit during her menstruating days . More can be garnered from her videos that I believe every woman must watch to have a more positive understanding of the why we women were adviced to stay away from these high energy fields. It's for our benefit and not on the contrary as made to beleive, a punishment. Stay blessed.
Ya ! glad u said it . Even mensuration is sort of cleansing but the process is quite painful and this creates disturbance in mind and the cleansing energy is flowing downwards, whereas the temple energy or divine energy does cleansing by moving upward! So the impact when both energies hit each other can be dangerous! This is told in Agnihotra tradition also!
@@prathambahirat8673 thanks for sharing that knowledge. Our sanatana dharma always has an explanation that empowers our lives. Thanks once again 🙏
Periods is not a sin ,we can worship any god during periods, bhakti relates to mind and not to the body
Dear Vinny ma, thank you for your message. God’s energy or God itself is present in everyone. True that a menstruating women needs rest if she wants and perhaps the intention in the past in families was to give her rest and let her take care of herself. This should be every persons choice whether it’s a menstruating women or an old person who needs rest. But a society that makes rules that are male dominated/ focused on men being important goes with the wrong intention of secluding women and giving them a separate underrated unloved position in society. A very loud example of this is in Afghanistan! While more and more women are getting educated, families are changing bringing in revolution of concepts and equality. Respect for women and respect for men. There is no negative energy in a menstruating women because as Sai says- God is in everyone, he is also in her. If a sick person needs care and rest, we need to give them love and support and not seclude them because they are thought of having negative energy. No person, menstruating/sick/ old/injured has negative energy. They have their positive energy that they have and God’s energy in them. What we can do is give them more positive energy, hope and love to make this a compassionate place for everyone. We reincarnate to learn about love and we grow spiritually through LOVE and FREEDOM! Om Sai Ram.
I have learnt a lot through your videos on Sai Vinny ma. And I am really very grateful and thankful to you 🙏🏻 ♥️
Baba was beyond caste, religious, and gender-bound practices. Every intimate devotee across the gender, caste, religious spectrum has their own relationship with Baba. Continue to honor your authentic relationship with Baba, beyond anyone else's opinion or practices.
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My heart felt pranams to you maa.
But periods are part of the physical body functions which is unavoidable.
Mensuration is the sign of fertility in women. How are we producing negative energy.... It's a positive part of life giving system. If a girl don't have this cycle, she cannot give birth. We should pray with shradda, leaving aside body functions.
Om sai ram.
Yeh absolutely just because men don't get it they make it a sin
With all due respect to vinny ma, i beg to differ to the point, i am not a big devotee like ma. I don't enter in shrine or do pooja in those days, but i don't think baba is against that, because for baba bhakthi is the only important virtue, he was against superstitions , rituals etc, and he is our loving guru, but i also believe, each and every devote have a unique relationship with baba, and do what your mind tells, because baba is ever loving, universal father, baba is love, as vinny ma said its all perspectives, you have to decide on yourself, would love to hear hema ma's opinion too, om Sai ram🙏
A fact goes to men also who believe they are 24/7 pure irrespective of any bath. I have seen passengers getting down from trains or buses after long journeys and going straight to the temple no matter whether they passed stool in their long travel . They r always clean !
Thankgod soneone use their brain. 👍👍
So good to hear your voice Vinny Maa! Hope you are doing well! Thank you Vinny Maa!
The most beautiful explanation ever! Thank you!🙏🏻
As many of us i too dont have helping hand while having monthly cycle.. So i have to cook for me n husband..
On daily basis we offer food to baba in our shrine .. Den we take it as prasad.. So during periods we dont offer that food to baba n other god in our puja shrine.. My husband offer some fruits or dry fruits to god at that time .. N d food i cook during periods..before having it ,i offer it mentally to baba n god.
So i agree completely with vinni maa..
As purity matter(pure soul and pure body)
Vini maa...can u plz tell us about Vishnu saharsnaam...
I absolutely agree what Vinny ma said and I do not go to temples or enter my Pooja room for 4 days of my period. Regarding cooking, I don't have any help so I have to do it there is no choice. But when I go to my parents home I do not enter kitchen and cook food.
@@sanjusai3790 Every person has their individual opinion. Some people agree and some people don't agree and that is very natural. Because we can't control people's views and desires , and every one are in their own soul journey some are already in their advance phase and some are not. But if we don't agree on something then we can at least respectfully disagree on the matter instead of being hyper and taking it personally. According to my opinion I absolutely agree each and every word what Vinny ma said. Om Sai Ram 🙏🙏
Sairam 🙏 we definitely follow this ritual since long time and it's been going on since ages...... But in the matter of cooking it can't be done by anyone..... Totally loved Vinny maa explanation 🙂 God bless to Sai devotees speak team Sairam 🙏🙂🦋🧿
Thank you Vinni Maa... OM SAI PARABRAHMANA NAMAH 🙏
i want HEMMA MAA's opinion also on this topic..plss
Yes sure
Sadly this is the only video that has really disappointed me
Sai as a mother how will she abandon her child during pain
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks in our hindu culture we have been taught not to cook/ involved in any holy activities since time immemorial.What Vinny Maa has said is still followed by many people including me because I too don't enter shrines or cook during menstruation. What most people don't agree is about taking menstruation as a impure and negative energy as Vinny Maa has said in the video. Being herself a woman, i didn't expect to hear this from her. If menstruation is considered negative, from where will life breed? Menstruation is a beautiful gift from God.
साई राम 🙏
Explaining things are fine but making people understand this is a great job done .. and Vinny maa does it so perfectly,clearly and straight to the point. No matter what generation we are born in.. following our ancestral practices is definitely good ... there is no harm in that for sure .. 😌
Tysm maa 🥰❤️🙏💯
साई राम 🙏
Om Sai Ram everyone. Last night I was listening to this and though I don't normally read the comment section but don't know why I was so interested to read it last night. May be it's Baba's blessings. So after going through everything that was written I came to one conclusion, we are the generation of debate for everything. We can debate in ever possible things around us. We can't even bear one post also. We can't even hear to our parents and elderly. I am not here to justify whether she is correct or not. She has her ways of devotion and everyone else has their. Vinny MAA is not forcing you to do puja as per her guidelines. She has just put her point of view and what she understands after reading I think thousand no I think even more times the Satcharitra ( may be our age with days will count less before it). You may accept it or not , that's totally your choice. There is a clear line written in the comment section if ever read it , please give comments respectfully. Do we obey it this time. Isn't Vinny MAA is our Mother or say Mother's age. Why can't we just listen and respect it , that much only. Why to debate about it, if you have doubts why don't you ask Baba, he will guide according to your capabilities to worship him. I am 100 percent sure Baba will answer you in his own unique way. Please don't make it a debate platform, it is a pious one. Baba will be very happy if we follow his guidelines and respect our elders and love the little ones. Because Baba is in every one. I am not debating but requesting.
Exactly. Modernity doesn’t mean to forget your roots , your culture and rituals. I totally agree with ma
Modernity is not audacity. Modernity is sorted thinking. If menstruations are negative, everybody have come from that only. For nine months child is in that menstruations blood only. So is it everybody is negative.
I am sorry punishing menstrsting women is not culture same kind of arguments about culture was given that time also for sati
sorry but not everyone has house help. we hv no choice except doing household chores.
Yes. You are right but we can avoid to visit the temple and worshiping at least
With due respect Ma , now a days women manages inside the house also works outside , so it’s tough to follow as u say . And when u say negative energy it doesn’t sound good . Because it’s god who has made women with this unique gift .
@@veenabv9371 I was thinking the same. I don’t worship or enter temples during that time, but I always wonder why can’t I? Since it’s god who created women and their analogy? It’s quite puzzling.
@@Neellmistryy srry aen can't understand female issues
@@kshithiyathish yaa,at this time no female feels gud by health
Thank you Vinny maa for clarifying doubts of a lot of the younger generation regarding menstruation. Om Sai Ram.🙏
Is it ok to read Charita from laptop ,phone or pdf file without touching the Holy book during mensturation?
Yaa sure
Hello Nik, as a regular listener of your podcast and devotee of saibaba, thr are so many things I’ve learnt from your discussions with your guest. There is one topic I would really like to hear in your podcast. That is pre conceived notion. Thr are some experiences in past sometimes they hold you back from trying new things. How to bring change in subconscious level so that regardless of your experiences how good or bad, you are always trying something new, be fearless with anyone’s opinion/thinking. Be more proactive and expressive. I would really appreciate if you can discuss about this. Many thanks Nick😊
We will definitely try, thankyou for the message
Yeh ok women took menstratoin as punishment and what did men take can you please mention that also
Om Sai Ram. Hare Krishna
Thankyou to the whole team 👏🏻..
Om Sai Ram 🙏🏻
Lovely video...but in today's world we rarely can follow some rules when in periods as many of us have nuclear family where the lady cooks for the family even in her menstruation days...and we find a mother breastfeeds her baby in her periods.....negative energy do flow but can there be any way out? All these questions sometimes disturb me.....Thnk u Vinny maa,Nikhil and your team...Sai Ram 🙏🏼
Please watch this video at 9:40 seconds -- th-cam.com/video/Vo7AK0r1l-o/w-d-xo.html
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks Yes ...yes suddenly, after writing here,this great lesson of Dharamdas Baba came to my mind...thnk u...thnk u 🙏🏼
There is a Linga Bhairavi temple in Tamil Nadu where menstrual ladies offer prayers and as well are even priests
And Mr.Janardan Pujara gave equal rights to widows by training them as priests and carry on to worship in Gokarnatha temple in mangalore breaking all the taboos. My mother was not so highly educated yet she never allowed anyone to treat us like untouchables we are three girls
Pls do not take it offensively but I think it’s a personal opinion
I have great respect to Vinny Maa but I beg to differ on this point.
But akkalkot maharaji who is himself baba was against this ritual and has explained very clearly about this andh shraddha, See the serial In marathi colour channel you will come to know. He has explained it is only time to take rest for women who will be working around the clock,abd nothing else.
Excatly ...I do perform pooja in periods also and every night before sleep I do message to baba
Absolutely true Vinny Maa... totally agree with Baba
Please tell me can we read satcharita from mobile pdf during those days 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@sanjusai3790 ty sai and can we keep udi with us....i always use to keep udi with me.... 🙏🏻
Sorry to say...but first video where u disappointed ......
I address baba as baba saima...how can I be away from him and that hw doesn't let me away from him...
Om sai ram ji🙏🏻🌹
Om Sairam Vinnyji
Very nicely explained.
Nice advise sister. In fact holy Quran and Leviticus of old testament has termed certain things like this as unholy. To get full results of our God devotion, also one should not engage in physical relations, be physically clean by bathing, wearing clean clothes while going to any temples or God worship. Menstrual blood is a waste blood expelled out, so it's not clean. It's almost akin to other expulsions like urine and feaces that are waste. If that blood had been cleaned, it wouldn't have been expelled out. Many women will not agree.
Thanks Nikhil and Dr Vinny...but i have a doubt...When we women are on our menustrations...can we chant and remember gods name...
Namsmaran can be done any time.
Please watch this video at 9:40 seconds -- th-cam.com/video/Vo7AK0r1l-o/w-d-xo.html
@@sanjusai3790 this is no taboo.. Can you visit your office shabbily dressed, stinking, looking tired etc etc? The thinking that following certain norms is rubbish that is rubbish.
I am having my periods now and gave a break to the daily ritual of giving prayers to baba. Usually during the previous periods I used to just give a namaskar to baba but this time I stopped that one as well and this video has been recommended today. please tell me whether we can just offer namaskar and continue to talk to baba during our periods.
Yes u can namaskaar to Baba and also can chant his name ...talking to Baba is also ok
Yes,of course. You can read charita also from phone. Avoid just visiting your house temple or other temples.
Please watch this video at 9:40 seconds -- th-cam.com/video/Vo7AK0r1l-o/w-d-xo.html
@@SaiBabasDevoteeSpeaks Thank you Vinny Ma..I'm so glad you are discussing this . You have very clearly pointed out how most of us select what teachings of Baba we want to follow (selective bhakti/ surrender) and what to drop at our convineince. ..thanks for clarifying Baba's opinion ..Many youngsters feel( apologies for generalising)that these things need not be observed when it comes to Baba....As you rightly said the clash of the upward and downward energy will create physical and mental havoc for women 🙏
@@sanjusai3790 she is America returned doctor and has learned scriptures more than any of us so she’s more knowledgeable about this matter. Age sabki apni life apni marzi h
I respect vinny chitluri mam.But i too have a different opinion. I just have a vision .. if i love saibaba , and im just crazy after him .. soo much that i forget what im wearing at that time or what state i am in. Worshipping lord crazily .. that we forget our body and state , will we look back and stop ourselves just because we are having periods. I dont think pure love needs any rules.
And I think baba is the one who changed his concepts according to time, state and person. Baba blessed devotees at that time ..to have a second marriage (when they already had a wife ) , I don't think someone doing a second marriage just to get progeny is justified now at this time. So ,many things are different now , and we should change our perceptions too. As baba is not just baba from the old shirdi ..he is also in hearts of these younger people.
Also, neither a leper is negative (when he has oozing pus all over his body which is much more harmful to hygiene than period's blood) nor a menstruating woman. Ofcourse maintaining hygiene is important but it was also misused to practice untouchability in older times. I just find this period rules nothing else than another kind of untouchability.
Its not vinny maa ,its her conditioning speaking. As i believed this too one year back , but i put aside this fear ..and this was the best step that my husband helped me to move to.
I'm sorry if i hurt someone's sentiments. But , I felt like expressing. I respect opinion of others. But i will listen to my soul.The other concept mam mentioned are based on love .... like sharing food and chanting lord's name. But ,this one cant be taken as universal. Also , satcharitra mentions some things which seem odd (a line from satcharitra sounds odd to me always.." when adharma increases ..when people from lower caste try to take rights of brahmins" something like that. But it sounds absurd now.
I am remembering that story from satcharitra , of dr pandit. Baba never allowed someone to touch his forehead ,while he said nothing to dr pandit drawing a tripund over his forehead. I think its all about intention. If you think its not good , it will be like that. If you think , only love matters , it becomes like that.
Not everyone knows you that deeply as Baba ,and no one else can become baba. 😊 Sai Sai
Shradh and Sutak are time where you donate so I think Baba recommended. I really respect Vini ma. Nothing offensive 🙏
ओम साई राम 🙏🙏माँ ⚘⚘
Thanks for information ⚘⚘🙏🙏
Om Sai Ram
M just amazed after lisyening to mam🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏..So its a matter of energies 😯😯.Thanx for sharing these wonderful things with us mam.
My Pranams ma Shall we read Stavan manjari during those days Amma? Om Sai Ram
If you feel well and energetic then read by pdf
Baba would never say that we should not read in periods....bcoz praying comes from heart truely and periods is natural which is given by god....so baba wil never accept this ...for baba all maters is our true payers for him in any conditons....om sai ram....
Thank you ma'am 🙏🏻
💐🌺•|| OM SRI SAI ||•🌺💐
I dont do pujas and thursday vhajan on my periods but i do cooking its because we are tribal ST and i dont know whether im doing right or wrong
Sister, I don't think there's anything wrong in front of our love for baba :) in today's world when families are nomore joint, how would you feed your family if you stop cooking?
For our love to baba, we don't need anybody's validation
These so called impurities, negativities, Tamasik energies, nothing can withstand in front of Parabramha. I think baba is way too bigger than this paap-punya
Om Sai Ram. Thankyou Vinny mam for your easy explanation.I just have 1 query, regarding offering food to Baba.You mentioned Baba mentioned this to Hemadpanth only, does this mean we cannot offer food to Baba before partaking ourselves? I am bit confused here Kindly if someone can clarify.
Baba mentioned to hemandpant, but anybody can follow it, bring it to practice.
Offer food,water,tea,coffee,snack anything FIRST to The Brahman, The Sadguru & then have it..that's d message.
Why it needs to b done that way is written in Satcharithra.
My humble thoughts on those.
Jaisairam🙏👣
Thankyou for your response.I had this understanding too but I had this query listening to Vinny mam, when she mentioned Baba mentioned this to Hemadpanth. Not sure, if I misinterpreted or her message was different..Thanks again.
VERY WELL PRESENTED
Very well explained 🙏🏻
Om Sai ram🌸
Love you Vinny Maa🙏
Jai sai ram 🙏
Can we touch sai charitha book during periods
Devotees suggest to read from pdf file on mobile
Om Sai Ram 🌸🌹🙏
OM SAI RAM 🙏🌹🌷🌺🍏🍊🍈🍓🍍🌰
Aum Sai Ram..!!😇🙏🙏
Om Sai Ram 🌺🙏🏻😇💞🌺🙏🏻😇💞🌺
Menstruation is something which is so, so natural; just like the 5 elements and trees and mountains etc, etc found naturally in the nature That is what differentiates between a male and a female..
The restrictions imposed in the women are man-made and was a matter of convenience. Women were dying due to heavy and painful bleeding. Women used to do a lot of heavy work back then.....like fetching water, grinding flour etc on daily basis. Besides the fatigue, hormones are also playing bigtime games during the menstruation time. It is a concoction of Anger outbursts, depression, weakness etc. A woman was always trained to be the mild, subdued ones. But during menstruation, inspite of herself, the story changes. And it was not necessarily accepted very well by the men-folk and the elders in the house. Plus, knowledge of sanitization was not enough. So, all this put together, it was better that the woman sat in one place; thereby she also got the much required rest and thereby, she remained subdued and mild as desired by the household. And people would not abide this until it was tied with God and worship.
Moreover, after the periods, the woman was rested and fresh and was ready for romance and thereby for sex during the ovulation period, for further procreation.
Yes, first-menstruation is something that should be celebrated. It's the first indication that the girl is hormone-wise normal and able to procreate. Secondly, the girl learns to accept herself and not condemn herself for having periods and restrictions thereby.
Baba is brahmanda nayak. We are the ones biased about menstruation and bathing etc. These are all just external ritualistic ways.
जया मनी जैसा भाव.. तया तैसा अनुभव
It all depends on how one wants to think.
Om Sai Ram Jai Sai Ram💕💕🌹🌹🙏🙏well explanation.yes Vinny maa in Assam also there is a big like marriage celebration done in 1st period..
Sai Sai ….Mere Baba Sai….🙏🏻
Makes sense 🥰😇
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Om Sairama 🙏
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Om anantakodi bhramandanayak rajadhiraj sriyogiraj Parambhrama sri sachidanda sadguru sainath Maharaj ki jai🙏🙏🙏🙏..
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Thank you deva om sai ever grateful thank you both sincerely om sai
Om sai ram ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Om Sai Ram! 🙏🕉
Om sachidanda sadguru sainath Maharaj ki jai🙏🙏🙏🙏..
Shri Gurubhyo Namaha
Thank u so much Vinnymaa🙏
Om Sai🙏Thank you for this video🙏
Om Sri Sai Ram 🌹🙏
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Ooh yes....
Such details we tend to overlook....
How well explained...
Thank you so much.... 🙏🙏🙏
Sai Ram 🙏
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AUM SHREE GANPATI SAI SAMARTH HANUMANTA BODHISATTVA SHAKTI SHIVAYA
My husband cannot cook I felt I will cook & eat n I cant starve baba. I put the meal far & than take it regularly should I stop it. I was doing a mistake... I dont know
🙏Sai Aum 🌹 Om Sai 🌹 Jai Sai 🌹🙏
Vini maa I want to meet you once before I die.. Baba please make it possible.. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Om Sai Ram 🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🙏
Thank you Vinny maa Om Sai Ram 🙏🙏🙏
OM SAI RAM🙏🌺🌹🙏