90 Year Old Says THIS Isn't Worth Worrying About...
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She’s razor sharp at 90 - what a blessing that is in itself
Can string words into a sentence better than that poser at 1600 Pennsylvania
No shit my mom couldn't even put two sentences together at 82 gone now god bless her soul
Probably from the north
So true. She has aged like fine wine. 90 looks great on her!
Yup😊
90 yrs young
After living 90 yrs she says "life is short"
That says it all
God Bless her
She’s beautiful ❤
Life is only short to the one who took it for granted so keep telling yourself this bull to excuse your nasty addictive ways.
@@Godloveszazawhat on earth are you talking bout life is short full stop 🛑 for all of us no matter the age 😮
You must be young. When you hear people say time goes by faster the older you get, that’s absolutely true.
Also, how did you get the idea that the original commenter has “nasty addictive ways?”
I hope by the time you reach 90, if you do, you will come to understand how your bitterness ate up your entire life.
A wise old man told me to never love anything that can’t love you back.. best advice I ever got ❤
Self-Respect in it's purest form. Beautiful.
@RuudvanNistelzooione of the best movies ever lol
Should I not love my pets? My work? I don't think anybody would ever love me back
@@SieMiezekatze Your pets DO! Mine MAJORLY do! They incentivize life. ❤️
😅@@SieMiezekatze oh my goodness 😮 if you don't see the unconditional love of a pet you won't know what love is and too much love wont ever be enough for you 😢
Life is incredibly short. I turned 40yrs old this year and i'm absolutely astounded how fast that time has gone. It's like i was a kid just the other week.
Jibbidy jibbedy jibbedy Jibbidy jibbedy jibbedy Jibbidy jibbedy jibbedy Jibbidy jibbedy jibbedy Jibbidy jibbedy jibbedy
I know, it’s so scary isn’t it?! I thought I’d feel different as an adult but I truly have the same mind, just this older body 😭 it’s so trippy
Since my 30 birthday the time is racing every day faster!!
It feels like.
I am 37 and feel same
Life is incredibly short I just turned 1😂😂😂😂😂
I have come to realize that happiness doesn’t mean getting what you want, but enjoying what you have.
Absolutely.
Yes sir.. don’t look at what you don’t have.. look at what some others don’t have and be grateful
👍🎯💯👏👏👏
You are so wise
We tend to do more of the former and neglect the latter. I think it's a bit of both. Life is about balance, when we tip the scale either way we sacrifice something. Being human, we're imperfect. We oscillate from side of the scale to the other. And it's due to this oscillation we become alive. Like the pendulum, always ticking away. If we favour one side, we stagnate. We're no longer alive. Life becomes meaningless
“Don’t look at other people” 🙏🏾
Mmmmmm
People should have learned that in junior high.
@@angelofknowledge9389after Junior high is when she started having children 😅 makes sense though
@@Robert546 you're dense, zero evidence
@@angelofknowledge9389this is what she meant about people. She was talking about you.
"People can manage, they just have to want to" What an absolute gem this woman is.
Yes. Exactly. 🤗
What nonsense delusional opinion. Most of people are in deep debt
You are absolutely right 💯 God bless 👍
Exactly
Wrong, I tried
Could listen to her all day, thanks for asking her and sharing with us
I watched the video about 20 times ❤
The only time you should look in someone else’s cup is to make sure they have enough.
@aaron305 that’s so sweet. Love this ❤
That's really sweet, I like that! ❤
This is such a sweet and wholesome way to look at life.
That's beautiful
Amen🙏🏿
She’s doing really well at 90. So sharp and articulate and aware. Great advice too!
She is!!❤
She doenst 😂
Thanks Captain Obvious
@@josephgreen2824 Do you know what the comments section is for? It's for reactions. I reacted. You're entitled to your reaction too, of course. I'm also entitled to my opinion, which is that you clearly need many hours of therapy to work out why you hate yourself so much and need to project and dump your self-loathing onto other people. Good luck with your recovery! Have a wonderful, fulfilling life of positivity and goodness, bringing your joyous newfound energy into the world and making it a better place.
@@marvin2678doesn't what?
I agree with everything she said except for the part where she implied young people these days are selfish (for not wanting to raise a family). Back then, women were expected to raise a family, and men were able to support a family of 5 on one income. It really is much harder today. Don’t get me wrong, my husband and I have a child… it is a A LOT of work, and should only be for people who truly want kids.
My husband currently supports a family of 5 on 1 income and we don't make a ton we are poor by American standards but we are rich because we live at peace with the help of the Lord Jesus.
We travel and do whatever we want to do and we don't have a ton of debt.
People want too many things just like she said. And we live in a very expensive area and still make it happen. So it can definitely be done but like she said you have to want to.
Plus, a lot of young people want to have families more than anything. They just can't afford them. It's hard enough to take care of yourself with how expensive everything has gotten, add student debt on top of it and it's virtually impossible. As a young person, I've heard stories of my peers struggling to even afford a pet and having to give them up. My best friend really wants a big family with 4 kids, but she has so much student debt and is paid so little that she can't even afford to rent her own place. It's a sad world for anybody who isn't rich.
@@scaj76 If this is true, I'm happy for you for being able to afford to raise a family. But sadly, it's incredibly difficult for the vast majority of people. You mentioned not having debt, but many young people are saddled with tens of thousands (or even hundreds of thousands for graduate school) of dollars in student loan debt with high interest rates. Most young people (especially gen z) were pushed towards college, as impressionable teens, whether or not it made sense for them. We were told it was the only choice if we didn't want to be poor or jobless. Plus most good jobs now require a college degree of some kind -- even the trades. The fact of the matter is that those able to raise families in these conditions are rare exceptions. Living alone with that much debt is hard enough.
A lot of younger people these days ARE entitled and self-absorbed.
@@kiarablack5349nobody should be having 4 children these days.
I really felt it deeply when she said that it’s important to have a nice, comfortable home to come to. What an incredible woman , great video.
My father said to me on the day he was dying in a hospital that if you lived a hundred and ten years it would still seem short . He was 81 when he died in 2010 .. I'm 60 now and I realize every day that he was so right ...
I hear that brother. Rest in peace to your pops.
If you could send a message to your 12 year old self what would it be?
Live selflessly. You will feel more reward living that way than living any other way @frv6610
@@frv6610obligation is a sacrifice, but a sacrifice worth making. Being obligated to a better society betters us all
@@frv6610stop worrying, life isn’t over even when you’re at your lowest, it’s about how you handle it and how you choose to live your life. And basically just chill and be focused when you need to and don’t mess around too much.
She looks great for 90.Bless her and thank you for this message.
True. She looks great compared to most people I've seen at 90. Seems like she still has energy too
@@stactionsmedia3318a lot of insinuations 😂
She really does
They don't make em like that anymore. I miss all of my grandparents and wish I had developed a better relationship w them while they were here. They were wonderful and wise.
@@stactionsmedia3318You just said a lot to be completely wrong. She’s the 90 yr old matching the title to the video
Her last sentences-“ Don’t waste your time, don’t waste your life, life is short! “ Sent chills up my spine. Wasted 50 years of my life and just hoping I can live as long as she does to make up for it!
Trust me if you wake up now YOU CAN STILL DO IT. I turn 45 a couple months ago. I am enjoying life ever before.Wishing you ONLY a bright future!
the accumulation of things is so real. having comfort and peace is far more important.
She is so well articulate. Doesn’t have a delay in speech, and I see no signs of dementia or anything like that. Good for her.
There are a lot of people in their 90s today that can think circles around most of what I see.
You can’t always tell by just looking at a video like that. My grandma talks well too. And then, 10 minutes after she asks the same question again.
Jeez
Is that an age related assumption as if you are not aware of 90 year old folks that are sharper than many 20 30 year olds?
Agreed. She still has all her mental faculties and she looks really good for 90
Proof the elders are wise. She didn't flinch. Knew exactly what advice to give. Beautiful lady...😊
YET BIDEN IS TOO OLD .. WHY IS IT OK FOR THE SUPREME COURT JUSTICES TO SERVE FOR LIFE⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
Strongly agree 👍💯
Free speech: idiotic lady: she’s the kind of person who is Selfish and so Judgemental: And Especially: Emotionally tone deaf to others: a lot like my Mean Bully mother
i disagree, wise elders are rare, especially where i live
I concur ❤
When I was a youth older people used to say "youth is wasted on the young." I did not understand it then, but I understand it now!
I mean how exactly are we meant to be spending it? Isn’t that up to us how we spend our time alive? Well when you’re not working or taking care of someone else?
I think it means that when you are young you are figuring life out and by the time you get older you are not capable of doing the things you learned from in life by making mistakes and having experiences....I wouldn't let it bother you because frankly it's your journey and their regrets imo. There's always 2 ways to look at the cup! 🙏❤️☺️
@@lorettascott5477 Oh my god, thank you! This is something everyone and their grandmamma needs to hear! Appreciate it!
Just turned 48 and I couldn't agree more!
I completely agree with this precious woman, so very sharp-minded and wise! May she be greatly blessed continually and a long, good life in Jesus Christ.
She’s 90! She’s vibrant and full of life.
Not for long
Are you kidding? She’s about as vibrant as a disused dishwasher
@@sim9373That’s unnecessary and mean. Go be an A-hole troll elsewhere. You’re the only one online that thinks you’re cool by saying shit like that. No one cares or thinks it’s funny but you. Grow up.
yes I agre ❤
@@sim9373~ She could easily live another 20 years.
"People can manage, they just have to want to." Real talk.
Yeah, when people struggle or cannot manage or break down, that's because they don't want to manage.
Real Real Talk: you are naive and Wrong It’s because they have a phony shtty family w estranged sisters (who are gold diggers)mothers aunts and in-laws and dead relatives
"People can manage". Having 4 money drains is not "managing", it's a stark-raving lunacy. As much as I can respect the elderly, age and grey hair are not always a sign of a wise person. This lady is a pure breeder. There are over 140 million kids in this world who need a good home and yet, she has the audacity to suggest people should breed like her very selfish self.
Thanks lady🙏🏾just learned a word " what you don't manage right, you will lose" that hits cause I don't manage anything the right way❤🙏🏾
That’s what free will is all about
Young adults can’t afford to move out of their parent’s homes let alone 4 kids by the age of 30 these days. 🤷🏻♀️ good advice on not wasting your life and time though
some people have 4 kids by 30. Wonder what their secret is
It is possible you just have to make it possible, even if you have to buy a house with another family member or friend, just to be home owners. People in Los Angeles do it all the time. Family buy homes with family.
@@celiacruzazucar6630 not everyone has family to buy a home with. It doesn’t work that way everywhere 🤣
@@celiacruzazucar6630 and no wonder LA you wouldn’t catch me moving there. My friend lives in LA and you can hardly afford a damn efficiency out there.
@@OldmanCrypto100parents help
I admire this woman. She still is very alert and keeps herself up. God bless her.❤
I’m 72 years old and I agree with her 100%. I’m slowly getting rid of this crap. Goodwill is a good place!
Glad you're recycling at places like goodwill. One mans junk can be anothers treasure.
For those of us in our 40s to snap up, only to do the same in 20 years 😉🤣
I have been telling my children how much my stuff is worth so they can make some money from it.
I don't regret the things I've bought, my pretties make my home feel good. But I'm getting old and the dusting is getting to much. I actually just packed up 2 boxes and put them up.
MAN did she blow my mind, I find this to be a very intellectual moment, from the target of the question to her herself. She gave an answer that I could not dream of getting normally when I ask these kinds of questions spontaneously to people
“Don’t look at other people.” I read a quote yesterday that said “comparison is the thief of joy.” It’s no accident that that most social media sites are nothing but a big life comparison to everyone else. I think social media has to die, if people are ever going to truly live again. It is categorically horrible for the human mind and spirit.
A lot depends on who you listen to and believe.
Some advice-givers are toxic and not all that wise, while others really do have some insights worth sharing and considering.
Remember though, that no two lives are alike, and any advice you get has to be right for YOU.
Too black and white
Comparing lives is envy and envy is a bad emotion
I have learned that I am one of those people who will always come away from facebook feeling poorly! I do have friends who enjoy it. It is also now the only place where I learn the important details - birth, marriages, moves, new jobs, illness, deaths. How did we know these things before Facebook? I cannot remember! We did have a small local paper - I remember mum reading the obituaries.
I’ve always knew that social media is a detriment to mental health beyond comprehension. The name itself is a misnomer since it’s all nothing but attention seeking and other means to hijack comprehension, kindness, information, communication, etc.
Too many of us nowadays don’t admit that we have an addiction to this stuff. Though I’m smart enough to know that I’m nothing more than a product than human online. Access to articles and research is vital. The only way that we can end social media is to destroy the internet infrastructure permanently, which would cost everything we take for granted. Though at least we’d be able to reprioritize libraries and physical books.
She has a very valid point, we care a lot about stuff instead of caring about each other.
I would still never have children because I don't have the energy, or the emotional stability to take care of an innocent human being, and that doesn't make me selfish, I think it makes me empathetic to kids who didn't have all that when younger (myself included). I'm not hurting anyone.
I still like my life and feel complete, and I'm working on not wasting my time on meaningless things.
What she said is so true! As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to realize the same. Today I only need quality items of usefulness and things that add joy to life. Cleaning out all the useless stuff feels so much better.
She looks GREAT. No way I would think she was 90. Thank you for sharing the wisdom. 😊💛
I really really really wish that Biden had her pep. As others have said, God bless her!
Lol what do you think 90 looks like then ? A mummy ?
@@evermoreartHe did once... but wasn't any better.
With AGE comes WISDOM
YET BIDEN IS TOO OLD .. WHY IS IT OK FOR THE SUPREME COURT JUSTICES TO SERVE FOR LIFE⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
She looks her age, come on! .... SMH 🙄
"I know it's hard for kids these days, but it was hard in our day too." I appreciate this woman's balanced perspective. Honest true words to live by.
What, she ran out of cooking utensils a couple of times?
@@totallynotthebio-lizard7631 that is a clueless statement
@@totallynotthebio-lizard7631 shut up, life has always been hard in every generation my grandparents used to tell me how they struggle too so did my parents but they managed, every generation goes through it
I'm not complaining, because I have it great, but if I was of the boomer generation doing exactly what I'm doing now I'd be able to afford a home twice as big for half as much and be well on my way to being a multimillionaire. I might still be a multimillionaire one day, but it will be with a trash inflated dollar that buys a loaf of bread for 30 bucks.
My grandpa had millions at retirement (equivalent of probably 4 million in today's money) but he was just a shift supervisor at a warehouse. Can you imagine that today? It's much, much harder to get ahead today, and I say that as someone whose career has skyrocketed, and who bought a house in my mid 20s, and has been investing since my teens. Inflation basically nullified my last promotion. I've had to work my tail off not to get ahead, but merely to stay where I am. We're living in cruddy economic times and 2024 is likely to see things get even worse.
Its definitely arguably harder for new generations (wages to CoL was much better 60 years ago). That said its the lot we drew, and complaining won't fix, it so might as well buckle down and give this life thing a shot anyways :).
This video should be played to every child in every school. Such a powerful message.
That is what I feel when I listen this kind staff. but for the most part they are not going to listen however it is our responsibility as a society. May be we will get one kid who is listening out of ten kids.
@@saraababa one is better than none.
@@SchrodingerZX48 Totally agree!!
My father is 95 years old and he says many things very similar to her comments. Bless her and trust she knows what she is saying because she's lived it. 🙏💖🙏
It makes me happy to see younger people reaching out and asking older people for their knowledge
With videos like this I feel "this... this is what real content sharing on the internet is"
but no one listens so it doesn’t matter.
Free speech: the wrong ones though: idiotic lady: she’s the kind of person who is Selfish and so Judgemental: And Especially: Emotionally tone deaf to others: a lot like my Mean Bully mother
Ot takes self-confidence to ask others.
But you feel interested in knowing?
P@@benwarped7272I'm not sure about that. You should listen. It may help you out more than you think. I am open to what younger people have to say. Some things you just don't realize until you get older. This lady speaks the truth. I'm 62 years old and I was the same way when I was younger I wanted a nice car, I wanted the house I wanted,
wanted,wanted. The only reason it matters is because you're just trying to show everybody that you can afford all these things. I'm 62 and now I'm just trying to give away most of the stuff. I just want to simplify. The one thing I think younger people have right and I hope changes the work environment for the better is that they don't believe in working long days and working long hours and giving their life to a company. Like this woman said, you're 30 one day and the next day you turn around and you're 60 I worked most of my younger life away to have money and get things and now I sit back and think I wish I wouldn't have worked that hard because I missed out on doing a lot of fun things.
“People can manage. They just have to want to.” Perfect!
When an older generation who had offspring, dogs on a younger generation... *surprised Pikachu face*
Probably true right?. Problem is society and life has reached a low quality where (at least here in the uk) many simply dont want to.
@@arcguardian no offense but I survived my youth on 1 box of rice-a-roni a day, if I was lucky. I worked 2 jobs to try & put myself thru a trade school. My family didn’t help me. I did what I had to do to survive. I think I’ve earned the right to say that.
damn, that quote hits hard.
Profound.
Different age, different paradigm, and different lifestyle and priorities. I get what she is saying but I heard plenty of other elderly saying they had more money or traveled more instead of grinding without vacation. Important thing is balance. Don't overspend but also don't feel terrible about spending on things that you wanted, as long as you can save some for the future.
Wisdom comes with age and life experience. This lady is spot on.
Damn! She looks great for 90 and she's still so sharp! That's a blessing
She looks more in her late 70's. That says a lot about her health and nutrition. Must have very rarely eaten any type of junk food, stayed active and ate fresh food that wasn't processed. The standard diet in so many countries is so bad for your health, many people are dying in their 50's and even 40's because of it.
@@infinitedeath1384 thats because she most likely is 75-80 . but u get more views if u claim a person is 90 and up .
@@marleonetti7 Right, so you just assume everyone is lying all the time? 👀
🎉😂❤
Giggity
I needed this today.
"It's not important to have the best of everything."
"Don't look at other people"
Materialistic things ✔️
"Don't look at other people"
Also her: *Claims people today are selfish*
Like, gurl. Who's gonna tell her that the nice house and nice things she says she doesn't need are pretty much impossible feats for the average 20 year old in today's global economy? 💀
@@vqbl795don't look at other people means don't envy what other people have.
Learning from the experiences of the older generations is also one of the things that is mostly lost in today's generation. No respect for the elderly, only criticism. Yes there is economic crisis today, but does that mean there's nothing you can learn from 90 years of experience?
They're okay, as long as you own them and not the reverse. @@BeastTitan213
My mother always said that to me. Enjoy life. Don’t worry about other people. Some have more some have less be happy. She died last month. Just shy of 96. I miss her so. But I was lucky I had her till I was almost 65. I’m grateful.
Thanks lady. I took that in and appreciate your advice.
She's so right! A few years back i started realizing that i was paying a lot more money for an apartment that was big enough for me and my THINGS. So I became a minimalist. And i sure am a lot freer!
She seems both gentle and strong like the kind of person you want as a mum or grandmother. Her priorities are right, good advice 👌
De donde eres que usastes "mum"? No Hispanics say it that way, not even the ones from Europe.
I'm Hispanic and gay of course and I say mum you must have brain damage.
Pienso que lo usan en el U.K
(I'm bad at Spanish)
@@LynxStarAutose lo dice en reino unido y australia
@@LynxStarAuto Hola. to answer your question I was born in Argentina and live Australia. We spell it mum here I think in the USA it is spelled mom. When I speak Spanish I use "mama".
This lady is SO RIGHT! I've spent years hauling around "stuff" to leave to my children and they don't even want any of it.
My mother did too. Now I learn from her. I don't buy anything to be given to my kids in the future. Just enjoy today's life.
my dad has so much stuff that’s cool and i will probably keep, often because if he’s gone then that stuff will be even more valuable, so this just sounds like bullshit to me. Maybe your kids will want that stuff when your gone? Obviously there’s no reason to have the stuff if it’s not worth a lot, I mean plates? What did she expect they’d be worth?
True
We stop hoarding,pack rating ,our next generation don't want it!!!😢so true me too
So you just care about money?🙄@@altrag3748
I love her wisdom. I’m downsizing. I feel encouraged
So glad I was raised without what others had, everyday is a blessing now ❤
I’m 69 and love my dishes and other items that I display and have curated over the years. They are what make my cottage-sized home cozy and beautiful, soul-filled and soothing. I don’t care if my daughter gets rid of them when I’m dead. I bought them to enjoy in my lifetime.
I completely agree. There is nothing wrong with creating a beautiful home using the decorative arts! It is my favorite hobby. It doesn’t have to be expensive, or a waste of money. I live in a tiny apartment, I love to decorate it with antiques found at thrift shops. I love the decorative details of the Victorian era. I would not be comfortable living in a white, minimalist box. Don’t let anyone try to tell you that loving beautiful things for your home is somehow shallow, or wrong. I am saddened by so much animosity in the comments over something so simple and non confrontational!
@@kaybeekal Thank you.
Good attitude...what makes you happy in your life is what's important & kindness & love for others !!
I believe she means if u feel your stressing ur life over getting them dishes or getting out of ur way to get them. But if it makes U that happy good for U! The massage here is don’t stress your life or waist your time over things just to keep up w the Jones focus on what really makes u comfortable bc when we leave this earth we don’t take anything w us! 💜💕💕
@@janetrodriguez8247I agree. She said to make sure you have a good, happy, comfortable home to come to. If your dishes make your home special, there you go ☺️
Spoken like a true champ. I’m 40 and I’m starting to see things this way.
Absolutely. I’m now 60 years of age and wholeheartedly agree.
Me too. I sit and look at all the beautiful books I collected and music. My sister, who is 11 years younger and woke nephews and nieces. I am afraid they have no interest.
@@The328969159 here. Priorities definitely change. Less friends but I’m happier. No drama. Peace is what it about. All the best to everyone!
You'll see how fast it goes,be sure to tell the ones u love,just that ,it's simple I love you!
She looks about 70
God bless her beautiful soul ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ "It is very important in life to have a good place to come home to" yes Ma'am!
Please find this women and offer her a podcast, I wish I could hear her answering questions for hours.
Exactly....
She is such a sweet lovely lady. Wishing her the best.
Actually if you think about it having so many kids is the epitome of selfishness. This need to create your own babies is the most destructive thing for the earth itself when there are 8 billion people and the number is escalating. Please watch COWSPIRACY, SEASPIRACY and DOMINION
@____________________________51 that's what you picked up from that? 😂
@____________________________51she won’t stop homelessness by selling her vases or not having bought them in the first place😂😂she is just one lady and she’s not rich either wtf
@____________________________51 you are bitter
@____________________________51She has had time to collect those things and had full right to spend her money how she pleased. You don't know that she hasn't donated to social causes or volunteered her time anyways, although not doing that doesn't make someone a bad person. I don't have much, but I don't expect others to give me their stuff! I just keep working and am grateful with what I have. Your comment sounds hateful and entitled.
This is why I love conversations with the elderly. WISDOM AND BLESSING.MOST OF THE TIME.
Absolutely! They give you a perspective that you have never seen and can’t get anywhere else. I love old people.
So much to admire.....very very good advice....lovely woman
ehh idk it’s kinda confusing for me. I do like the idea of listening to old people for wisdom but sometimes I feel it’s overrated. You can’t just tale any old person and expect them to know something because they’re still alive or something. At a certain point intelligence is just so much more helpful than age. A lot of what she said kinda just felt like what is always said or just wrong. How are we supposed to judge whether what they’re saying is correct? The only defence in the comments are just treating it like it’s obvious. They watch the video and act like what she said was so straightforward and abundantly useful. I think they just hope and expect to hear something good from a 90yo and so pretend that they do.
I'm too old to be young!!
Most of the time. Some old people are the worst. Especially thinking young people are selfish when anybody has the capacity to be selfish. If you think about it, the millennials are in the situation they're in because of this generation in the video selfishly voting for themselves and not future generations. We're also overpopulated because of this generation shown above. It's not entirely their fault as they were led to believe their government was a good governing body helping them.
Wow….. she sounds like 20 years younger of actual age, strong sharp mindset! She’s a lovely woman! Respect!🫡
She is right. Just like we don't have to have kids to have a meaningfull life and i always try to say the things positive. "Live your life, appreciate your time" would then be her message 😊
When I'm 90 and I'm interviewed, my answer will be 'mindless scrolling'.
Yeah, but what else is there to do?
😂😂👍 ❤
Scrolling is learning
@@sunny1964. I agree, but how many of us are putting that knowledge to good use...?
😂😂😂
She looks great for 90 and sounds like she's crystal clear too! Big ups to granny wisdom!
💯💯💯
She looks like she had a really hard life or she was a smoker. Great advice though.
@@steveth1000really? I mean she's not just seventy years old or something, she's NINETY
@@steveth1000She’s 90. She looks 70. Lots of 90 year olds can barely hold their heads up.
@@steveth1000dude my nan smoked darts for 70 years died 86. She looked 105 compared to mrs Eastwood here
“It’s not important to have the best of everything “ ❤️
“People can manage. They just have to want to,” what a WORD!
Meaningful human relationships are the most valuable thing a human can acquire in this life.
Fucking True
Couldn’t have said it better
Relationships are a waste of time if both parties are not interested in eternal things.
You can always find someone who is interested in sports, cars, or other nonsense like that, but if you mention God or what you think will happen when your heart stops beating, suddenly either nobody cares or they automatically have a negative response.
You're going to be spending eternity somewhere. Why would anybody focus so much care on things that are actually worthless compared to what lies ahead?
@@JohnO318 "you're going to spend eternity sonewhere," proof? Evidence? Or jackassy assertions? Joseph Campbell said eternity is here and now, outside of time. I think he's got a better religious understanding than you.
Depends on who you are. For some people it's much more important to have something meaningful to work on, the pursuit of excellence in skills/talents, rather than just having other people around all the time so your life doesn't feel so empty.
Relationships can be important but they don't mean much if your life is very generic and has little content other than work/bills/house.
I agree with her. At 60 years old I find that my cozy, comfortable small home is my happy place and where I feel safe and calm. Fancy things don’t matter. I am so blessed. I could not do homeless. I pray for those who are.
It's about being safe and comfortable ❤
Better watch your house carefully now.
"I could not do homeless"
Wow, unique character trait
How low our expectations have become. The rich have robbed us blind, there are no more dreams,, now we are happy to not be homeless as so many millions are.
Fiat currency did it's job andvtransferred the people's wealth to a precious few banking families.
@dajw 7540, @70 I feel pretty much the same way. I won't be here much longer so STUFF, just doesn't matter to me. I'm a Christian, so I know I am just passing through this temporary place anyway.
What a wise and lovely woman.
A life well lived wise lady beautiful words. ❤️🙏🏼
I agree with her. Having a beautiful safe home that makes you happy is more important than fancy things. ❤
I wish I had one.
@@CCCC-xm6vg You don't have a home? Where do you live? 💕
@@Spoiled_horsegirl *Many do not have a beautiful safe home to come home to*
@@moseskongi4746 I know that
@@Spoiled_horsegirl *Yeah, whatever*
"Don't look at other people" that speaks volumes. Let's live our own lives
❤❤❤❤
A centurion basically canceled social media
It means don't be jealous
Ya...let's live our own lives and not judge others too...today's generation are way more clearer of their goals in life and how they want to enjoy their life to the fullest instead of running behind kids and wasting their youth
Social media = looking at other people
@@angelofknowledge9389we actually understand what she meant 🙄
She still looks beautiful and got a great hair... She's not even wasting time on looks yet she's so so adorable 😍
I don’t get things because others have them. I get things for myself because I want them and they bring me joy. If they no longer serve that purpose then I donate them. My mom taught me this so it’s really true- don’t look at other people. We are all on our own tracks, stay true to yourself. Today I’m instilling this very same value in my daughter.❤❤❤
She has a big heart and brain. Good for her.
It’s not about the size of the house but about how warm and comfortable it is!
I'd settle for an 800 square foot main floor and a 1600 square foot basement
@@angelofknowledge9389good point. We lived in a really small house with 2 kids and the best memories were made when we lived there. A house is made of Sheetrock, wood, concrete etc.. it’s not about the house but, the love that’s inside the house.
True, It’s sad that social media made people think and feel that they need everything.
Contentment no longer exists.
@Sibrah04 if a person has that problem, they are already weak
@@peacelovejoyandhappiness due to war I had to change the place I lived in multiple times. I tried everything!
The most beautiful memories were where I lived with my family (4 members) in small house with one room
The worst were where I lived in a rlly huge and beautiful house but separated from my mom
So the people you’re with are the most important ones!
It’s amazing to see someone at this age this razor-sharp and is still aware of herself and the world around her. I work in healthcare and I don’t get to see this often …every now and then I may have a patient that’s in their 90s like this but it’s very rare.
Thank you! You just gave me permission to get rid of all that meaningless stuff passed down to me from my parents! I'm in my 60s and I'm dragging junk around out of guilt!
Having a comfortable place to come home to. Emotionally comfortable.
I notice how many folks stay in their cars after parking outside their homes. Like they don't want to go in.
So true and very sad. Although, sometimes people need to decompress from the horrible traffic or their job so that they don't spring that tension onto the ones they love. But if they just don't feel comfortable going inside, It means their house is not quite a home.
They stay in their car because they are texting/sexting and swiping weird ass world today
Yea that’s pretty disturbing!! When you realize this.
Bc they are on their phones - mobile phones are life stealers
@@ThisLeeIsAChick Indeed. There's that too.
I love this woman. God bless her. She speaks the truth
With AGE comes WISDOM
YET BIDEN IS TOO OLD .. WHY IS IT OK FOR THE SUPREME COURT JUSTICES TO SERVE FOR LIFE⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
She is so right! Having family around is the most important in one's life, and love...
As i Working with old people I realized one thing that enjoy your life today you never know what's tomorrow brings for you.....always talk with them.....believe me they are school of experience.....in one sentence they solve your own.....
When I was 30, I loved listening to older people. They always prepared me for real life situations and they all were right
What was one biggest life situation that helped?
@@hartake6667here for the answer❤
I love listening to knowledgeable people in general. Age has never equated to knowledge to me, especially when they speak out of arrogance.
Not always true. There's a lot of dumbasses out there, it doesn't matter wether they're young or old.
It's better to listen to one who has been there, read the book of life than to listen to those who are just starting out in life
Wise words from this elder lady. God bless her and her family.
That's a huge generalization saying younger people are 'selfish'. Thank goodness more people ARE NOT having 4 kids by age 30.
Im 46 and learned that about 3 1/2 year ago when my father passed. I dont want my kids to have to go through my things. Less is more. Everything she said was spot on.
So very sorry you lost your father at an age most people still have both their parents.
I was 46.5 when I lost my father. Then 6 weeks later, my extra Mom. With my father was day after Thanksgiving with the last couple days on ventilator with his COPD. My extra mother Stage 4 Lung Cancer 6 weeks and one day later.
I did not get to see them as I was 9 hours away, did not have the ability to drive to where they were at and could not book a train. I did see my father over video chat as the ventilator was taken off. He passed about 8 minutes after.
I was going to try to see my extra Mom when I felt warned that she was about to go, but it did not work out.
Edit: In a few weeks I become 48.
@@holyexperience1976 I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you went through. I was not able to be there also when my father passed. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
being low maintenance.. that will get you through if you value long term peace of mind.
She’s sharp as heck for 90 years old. God bless her❤️
Look up when Alzheimers started and why it was non existent before then... She probably knows something a lot of other people don't about keeping sharp...
@@Sunshine_Daydream222lol... A lot of people know that. It's a diet. Nothing... NOTHING will destroy your health more than shit you put in your mouth. I have lived with an incurable disease for 20+ years now... I've learned almost everything there is to learn how to stop this damn thing. And it turns out to be way more simple than we thought... It's all food. You are what you eat. Nothing less, nothing more.
It takes common sense to live a long life. She is lucky to have children!!❤@@Sunshine_Daydream222
@@Sunshine_Daydream222such as?
Phenomenally sharp and articulate for a 90 year old. Besides favorable genetics, she lived her life intelligently.
“People can manage, they just have to want to.” Wow. Truly beautiful statement
We have so much and everything is “replaceable”. Over abundance of information and choices seems to be a downfall. I love her words, she’s very correct.
Wow she’s 90!!! I hope I’m doing that well mentally and physically when I get to her age. Sending her positive thoughts and energy❤
Age isn’t a disease.
@@melissamilliganit’s biological, and at the same time it’s because not everything lasts forever. Eventually skin rots and cells lose strength. Like an apple from a tree, eventually it withers away. But that’s the beauty of it
Oh yes! I want to be her when I'm all grown up... Just had my 65th birthday a couple of weeks ago. I'm ready to
give off my stuff some time but not my fabric. I'm a quilter and I love making them for everyone I love. I do many for hospitals too for cancer pts. I wish I could sew faster. I'm a much more prolific sewer in my dreams. I have 17 vintage and antique sewing machines. I'm thinking of culling the herd down to maybe 4. They're all so beautiful... sigh... Maybe I'll have an estate sale for my machines I'm still looking for that elusive pink Brother machine. I should have bought it when it was right in front of my nose. Oh well, there's still time.
@@LilXancheX well, thank you very much but skin does not rot when you get older. Lol. I’m almost 60 and have buried most of my natal family. I assure you nobody had rotting skin. Circle back when you’re over 40 and we’ll chat. I’ll still be here.
@@Sharon-pb7so Happy Belated Birthday 🥳 I’ve always loved and admired quilts. They are gorgeous and the time and effort that goes in to one makes them so very special to me. Do you sell yours on Etsy or anything? I’m sure I couldn’t afford it but I’d love to look and maybe if I save up I’d be able to buy one in the near future.
I’d love to see pics of the machines as well. My Mom is an amazing sewer. I swear she’s always been able to make ANYTHING!! She’d definitely be able to appreciate your collection as well. I’d love to talk again. I hope you have an amazing day, sending positive thoughts and energy your way❤️
Before my grandma died she said “Live and enjoy your life to the fullest. Don’t do what I did because now that I want to enjoy life, I have no more time left”. It really stuck with me.
My grandma said "don't make children, be happy and do what you want".
Uh huh. Sure. Bots don’t have grandmas, unfortunately.
@@darlingjo7492 I agree but do you have to be so mean? You’re talking about other people’s feelings and experiences
I'm sorry, wrong advice. Live life responsibly as to your reason for existence. I just care. Straightforward.
I would take that sort of advice with a grain of salt. It sounds like your grandmother had a lot of regrets, which is a shame, but very common. I have watched so many smokers in my family die of lung cancer and they always regret not quitting earlier in life. Every one of them had sick, painful ends to their lives. But you know what? They all knew about the dangers of smoking and what was going to happen to them, but the chose to ruin their lives anyhow. We already all know about living life to the fullest, but we choose not to.
I know some people need this message, but this video was a probably painful for those who just want/need what she had to go through a whole realisation for but still can’t seem to ever have it.
Hope all who happen to read this are having a lovely dae/night/life❣️
Yep. The young people she calls selfish do not have near the purchasing power her generation had. Buying a home is so out of reach for young people now.
This Woman is So Wise, I Absolutely Love Her Words ❤️
-Respect Your Elders
Amen to that! You see so many online disrespecting the older generation! Not caring for them or their journey. If they would only listen they could learn so much!
@@LisaGWoods Exactly 💯
@@Christ_Of_The_Crusaders all of my elders have gone and I can't tell you the number of times I've wished just to be able to ask each one a few more questions!
@@LisaGWoods I have Family members that have passed away Aswell and know exactly the same sentiment and thought of wanting to ask more questions I wish I could have but I was young and didn't think of but I Cherish the Ones I have left and am very family oriented, try to be a stand up righteous man I'm 37yrs old but an Uncle to many so I now am in the tole of passing what I know, also my own knowledge and have learned from my Elder family members that have passed away but I am also a believer In Christianity, From The Church of Latter Day Saints and always have been, Being Spiritual and Being Close With To Our Divine Lord Which always gets me Through Anything.
That's why grandmas are to be cherished. The life experiences they have is priceless.
SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL WISE WOMAN SPOKEN BEAUTIFULLY AND THOUGHTFUL AMEN🙌🏽🙏🏽💪🏽👐🏽🫶🏽💛💜💖💗💕AMEN🙌🏽🙏🏽💖🌹
Life is harder today than it was at her time. Don’t let old people gaslight you into thinking otherwise.
Exactly, nearly out of reach to own anything, are we supposed to raise kids in a 1 room apartment? Old people are completely delusional and out of touch with current society we were pushed into
Exactly. They were able to accomplish a lot on very average wages. Now we do not have near the purchasing power and buying a house is so far out of reach for many who work hard at the same jobs they were able to buy homes with.
Make better choices.
That's not true. My dad bought a house and raised two children and had a wife who stayed home most of the time. He was working hard at a factory with three 12 hour shifts. He saved money by riding his bicycle to work, did most of the home improvements by himself and lived frugally.
@@cherylween4973 “my dad bought s house and had 2 children with a stay at home wife”-point made….he was able to feed 4 people on 1 salary, you cant do that today
Her comment that the most important thing to have is a comfortable home where you can feel safe really stuck out to me. That applies to the community you live in also.
I've asked every old person I know the 1 thing they'd change. Most said they'd take better care of themselves, health wise. Others said they wouldn't have been as selfish and close-minded.
By far, my favorite answer is that they would've appreciated people and things more. They'd value their kids and family. They'd be thankful for the small things, like a roof over their heads instead of wasting their lives working to buy junk.
Those people have given me wisdom and insight, so I try to value my family above all. My husband works as much overtime as possible. I've told him the kids and I wound rather eat beans and potatoes for every meal, as long as he was here to eat with us.
Your comment hasn't gotten the love it deserves due to it's length, which is sad. Everyone can watch a short video like this, but have a hard time reading multiple responses. I agree with you wholeheartedly. I hope your husband realizes this sooner, rather than later.
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You're sweet, but he really wants to provide for you and the family.
@@Fluoride_Jones 🎯
@@liquidmagma I think the OT is the issue.
“people can manage, they just have to want to” bars
"Things" this was my grandmother. She was a small time hoarder, always bought random objects. Multiple rooms in her house were filled with things. Now that she's gone i realize, the only thing we have in life is time. The things she had in her house are gone/worthless. What really mattered all those years were the memories I have with her. I miss you grandma, hope you're doing well. I miss you
Peace is priceless. 🌹
Agreed ❤
Peace certainly is priceless..
Elder abuse robs it from some of us
Bingo
And then there's dating American women. Peace obliterated.
@@damienholland8103
Don't lose hope son. There's real women like this one still out there hiding from all the crazy metrosexual men and leftist insanity that has bogged down this nation into a quagmire of unrighteousness.
Seek and you shall find. Knock and the door shall be open unto you.
Diligence, persistence, courage. Gentleness, wisdom and love is what defines a good man. Keep that up and you'll eventually find your good woman. As soon as you find her though, marry her and start having more kids than you can afford.
Believe me, you'll thank me down the road for this advice. 😉👍🏼✝️
Words of wisdom. She makes me miss my grandparents. None of mine made it to 80 let alone 90. She knows what she’s talking about. Thank you for your words ❤❤❤
Same 😔
My grandma died at 95 and she was pretty healthy when she died (2004) the doctor said, she died because of a pain medicine(too strong and caused aneurism) bc she broke her hip but otherwise her internal organs were all in great condition. Amazing when you think how sick people are these days with all kinds of illnesses like cancer diabetis etc etc
@@rodicapepescu4599most people in the past rarely made it past 50. Longer life expectancy brings on a host of problems that was not seen in the past when life expectancy was shorter. Not to mention there was no description for a lot of infirmities that afflicted young people let alone older ones.
@@christystewart4567 what I meant to say is that in the past people lived a healthier lifestyle eating healthier foods drinking cleaner water and breathing much cleaner air !! No wonder they lived actually longer ( I'm not talking of the dark ages when the life expectancy was short as you say) I'm talking about the time medicine was used more frequently and for the benefit of mankind and not to kill people like it is now..antibiotics were used properly at that time 40, 50 yrs ago, now they don't give them to you anymore they are afraid you might get better !! Ikyn
Thank you so much for posting this video! I agree with everything she said! Children who grow up under a healthy environment, and have the love and support of the loved ones in their lives, never feel lonely and won’t put up with nonsense, because they have the loved ones to turn to! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻
She is so sharp and vital for her age
Positive too
My life is simple. I got rid of everything that wasn't good for me as I exited a toxic relationship. Got a tiny mobile home that I could afford. My kids and I count our blessings everyday. Love and peace❤✌️
I agree. Im only 42 and I’ve decided to stop collecting junk. Even the things that mean the most to us, will be a burden when we die and either thrown out or sold. If you know someone likes your stuff, give it to them while youre still alive. It might make you both happier.
Exactly! I was the same way before! Keeping buying stuff and more stuff! All you need is a small nice home to go home to and a few necessities and enjoy life! Stuff only collects dust or someone wants to break in and steal it.
That's funny because Im 41 looking at all my stuff as I pack it up for the thrift store like what was I thinking? But I know what I was thinking... I thought I have a place now I want to furnish it and have nice things so I bought nice stuff over the years now I'm at the point in my age I think got my house is cluttered and i can't enjoy it. I just want it all gone so I can breath again. I actually grew up with nothing n that's what started the hoarding. I just hope it goes to nice homes now.
My children don’t want anything we have either! It’s so very sad to us because we have beautiful antiques and gorgeous china and Crystal. It makes us sad, really. Because we worked so hard! 😢😢
Yes,to that.
@spoiledwitch. 😢 that had to have been hard to part with. Another perspective I hope you'll think about is the antiques and collectibles served several lives. With their original owners and then with you. They'll go on to others who will buy them and enjoy them. They gave you years of comfort so it isn't all for nothing.
She hit the nail right on the head !!! I am 75 and have collected many many antiques. I keep trying to give them to my three kids. They don't want anything . Soooo, why did I collect it all for. Not a damn thing !!!
I TOTALLY AGREE ❤❤❤ May God continue to Bless you 🙏 ❤
I love what she’s saying!! People focus too much on things that don’t really matter! Be present with the people in your life.
With AGE comes WISDOM
YET BIDEN IS TOO OLD .. WHY IS IT OK FOR THE SUPREME COURT JUSTICES TO SERVE FOR LIFE⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
We need more of these videos! I love her preaching a life of simplicity and also a life of abundance ❤❤
You said simplicity and abundance. Those are opposing words.🤔
@Cheri.57 simplicity in the way you live life and abundance from the people you have in it. Not from material items. Hopefully that makes more sense.... I understand because this is how I live my life. Didn't realize it would go over anyone's head lol
@@Cheri.57I believe that was the point. It makes sense if you allow yourself to hear it.
Same. I could listen to old people spitting wisdom all day lol
I reckon quality bis more important. She's pr nevr really lived