How to Quit Your Job, Become a Minimalist & Create Your Dream Life

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  • Hi Guys :) Being able to quit my 9-5 job to create my dream life is something that I had wanted to do for a long time. Minimalism definitely helped me get there.
    Link to things I spoke about in this video:
    Sean Ogle : location180.com
    Jonathan Mead: paidtoexist.com

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  • @IamSpiritful
    @IamSpiritful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    In my own experience: join the corporate world and in short time you become a corpse.

  • @jcescobe8203
    @jcescobe8203 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Awesome video! What's the point of having a lot of things, a nice apartment, or the newest baddest car when you're spending most of your waking hours at a job you don't like. You don't get to enjoy your nice big apartment if you're not there. All that nice stuff is just sitting there while you're sitting at work for 8+ hours a day. And what use is that nice new shiny car if all it's good for is driving you to a job you don't like?

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will be leaving in a couple of months. I feel devalued and tired of being lied to.

  • @convictedxmage4546
    @convictedxmage4546 9 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I just want to say... Why are you not calling yourself Minamalissa?

    • @YoutubeBrand
      @YoutubeBrand 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Convictedx MAGE because she's not! When you look at her, you can already tell she spends at least $500.00 a month on make up! She made this video to get hits and ad revenue. Nothing she's talking about in this video, is something she understands.

  • @bcc2642
    @bcc2642 9 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love watching peoples reactions as I completely down size and rid myself of things I've had for years. They just don't get it. By the same token, my reaction to watching others accumulate things must be very similar. Many people try to find ways to obtain things, while I'm constantly looking for ways to shed them. I enjoyed todays video, spot on as usual. :)

    • @elk7969
      @elk7969 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      soo true

  • @ziggy33399
    @ziggy33399 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I want it. People think I'm nuts. I don't want the stress. High end, yes. Small footprint, yes. Starting to goodwill everything. Older person with many things. Insecure , have no architect. Trashing this place, building new, smaller. Micro yes
    Me, lower bills. Still thinking it can be sanctuary. All be things won't break all the time. Older couple saying thanks. Thanks a LOT. You're young AND wise.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marian McAfee Thank you very much :) It's great that you know what you want and are making it happen :)

  • @FortheLoveofOrganizing
    @FortheLoveofOrganizing 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm so excited to have come across your channel and can't wait to catch up on all of your videos. One of the best memories I have is when our family downsized and spent the summer traveling cross country in a pop up camper. It was simply divine!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      For the Love of Organizing Thanks! I'm so glad you're enjoying the channel :) Traveling cross country sounds so fun!

  • @mindibear
    @mindibear 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had to quit my corporate job because it was just draining me, both physically and mentally. I didn't know what my dream goals were but I knew it wasn't working a 9-5 energy-sucking job. Only with loads of free time on my hands could I figure out what I wanted to do with my life. It was scary but I'm finally on the right path! Sometimes you need to close one door before another one will open.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mindi Bear That's awesome! It's great that you had the courage to listen to your heart :)

  • @MeghanNavoy
    @MeghanNavoy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this! I'm currently saving up and selling/donating a lot of my things in order to live a more freeing minimalist lifestyle. Congrats on getting to the place you wanted to be!

  • @MarlaMartenson
    @MarlaMartenson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. in 2009 I left my J.O.B grind and started my own biz from home and started making more money right away, and I pull my own strings. Freedom and being able to do what you want when you want is so important to me, more important than a new car or expensive handbags! Debt free is the way to go.

  • @xTheGoddessOfChaosx
    @xTheGoddessOfChaosx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I could quit my 9 to 5 job but I can't live without a steady and decent income :/

  • @badlucktay
    @badlucktay 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've officially watched every single one of your minimalist videos. I'd love to see more! I realized I basically am a minimalist at heart. I am constantly selling, donating tossing things and probably have been doing so for years!

  • @ElSuegroyElYerno
    @ElSuegroyElYerno 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im already a minimalist but thank you for sharing this with others! I could have definitley used this when I was deciding all these changes!

  • @sandpiper22
    @sandpiper22 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you imagine what colorful lives young adults would be leading if they let you speak to them in high schools! Keeping up with Madison Ave is robbing people of some of the best years of their lives imo. Love your channel ♥

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sandpiper22 Wow..thank you so much :) That's something I would love to do :)

  • @viwanton
    @viwanton 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm happy to find your videos. I've been getting rid of my extra "stuff" by selling it on eBay. I'd like to retire in a year and am delighted to find all these great ideas.

  • @OuchilisticBlogspot
    @OuchilisticBlogspot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm dying in my job, I want to invest my time in a lot of other projects, but I made the mistake (I think) of buying a house, and that's a big expense I cannot cut :/

  • @lianahuang3086
    @lianahuang3086 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your videos Melissa! They really give me hope that one day I can leave my 9-5 job just like you to build a world true to myself. Thanks :)

  • @amandakelly1739
    @amandakelly1739 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am looking forward to the series! I am currently at a job that I like but I know I do not want to be there forever. I can't wait to hear your tips!

  • @VLM95
    @VLM95 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Melissa, I feel so inspired by your videos. I think it would be really fun to see a typical day in your life, and how the simplicity of the minimalist lifestyle can improve the quality of living!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vivian McCall Thank you :) That's a cool video suggestion... I will done one those :)

  • @cruiseny26
    @cruiseny26 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes please! I'm looking to quitting within the next 6 months and working towards it but I'd love to hear suggestions.

    • @kara4590
      @kara4590 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      First buy a house and get some equity than get heloc ,use this for your income .you can get Medicaid and all the benefits

  • @APreciousMind
    @APreciousMind 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'd love to see that series on your channel!! :D I'm totally interested in this topic.

  • @LittleDreamCloud
    @LittleDreamCloud 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would definitely love to hear more on this topic, especially from you as you have such a clear and reassuring way of explaining things :)

  • @sussannerandall85
    @sussannerandall85 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Right now I am finishing up my dental assisting certificate- I would LOVE to be a financial counsellor/coach :)
    My debt paying journey has been amazing this year and I would love nothing more than to teach people how freeing a budget is!

  • @obscuraxxxx
    @obscuraxxxx 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    love your videos! xo i started my minimalism journey about three months ago and i couldn't be happier. on top of that, i left the corporate world last year as well. i went from an over the phone customer service job that i HATED to an admin job that i ended up hating as well haha! now, i do still work a part time job as an usher but it's a show that i love and all of my coworkers are lovely, too. :o) i want to work in a restaurant as well as this job, while pursuing my dreams, especially as i'm still in school. i really need that income from a couple part time jobs, but i definitely want to start up my own business (well i have two i want to do) and am working on it right now. xo love your videos! they inspire me to keep hacking at what i want to do, rather than giving in to full time jobs i HATE doing.

  • @almondka89
    @almondka89 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so what did you decide to do? How are you able to support yourself?

  • @cantonio270
    @cantonio270 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just seen your video, such a great message. I'm hoping to quit my boring corporate job in the next few months.

  • @aDmaNN266
    @aDmaNN266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are an honest person, don't wear makeup and we will see your true beauty

  • @julzyfromcalifornia5430
    @julzyfromcalifornia5430 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are fantastic! Have you thought about becoming a life coach, motivational speaker, or even a Real Estate agent...you have the perfect dynamic personality! Excellent advice!!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Julie Campbell Aww...Thank you so much. I really enjoy sharing positive information and inspiration :) I definitely plan to do more of it :)

  • @cinemaroll
    @cinemaroll 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can you do a video on dreams? I got the minimalism and simplifying my life down. I'm ready to do the jump, but my problem is to jump where? All I know is that I want freedom and travel, but I will need to do something that will be able to bring in some kind of income.

  • @come2Jesus2day
    @come2Jesus2day 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your videos you are lovely! I quit my job yesterday, today started with de-cluttering.... on the road to freedom.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      loveanimalsbevegan That's amazing! Best of luck on your new journey :)

  • @TCee93
    @TCee93 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video definitely resonates with me! A nice reminder to keep pushing for your end goals. Thanks for sharing! Please make this a series :).

  • @babyfish1083
    @babyfish1083 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your thumb-up/view ratio is very high, you know? :) I love how compact the information in your videos. Keep up the good work!

  • @kirstenmichelle5375
    @kirstenmichelle5375 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video and your channel! I am benefiting so much from becoming more of a minimalist.

  • @plantifulalexandra
    @plantifulalexandra 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thinking about it I think I'm already a minimalist. I just finish studying now and live in a small cheap room in a flat together with 3 girls and don't have anything big to pay for. I have a car to pay but that's all, not too much a month. Guess I'll maybe move in to my parents for a while or in another really cheap room while saving some money with work. Then I'm "free" to leave when I wanna travel. Guess it's really hard if you already bought a house or flat you have to pay.

  • @FRUIT4JAM
    @FRUIT4JAM 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an inspiring vid, Melissa! I feel I am on a similar journey and minimalism was definitely the key to get the ball rolling. p.s. your hair is beautiful (as always!!) xx Michelle

  • @crystalbright38
    @crystalbright38 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome, I can't wait to hear more about this.

  • @thescarecast
    @thescarecast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am definitely debating on leaving my job where I am now... Ever since my channel got bigger I have been lacking more passion for my job... I am just miserable and really thinking about when I am going to resign but I am too scared to rely on TH-cam to pay bills. How is it working for you ?

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly how I feel

    • @shaqsantiago806
      @shaqsantiago806 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +MaddMike I no longer have a 9-5, I quit my job in February of last year. I quit my job when I started making more money with my side business. If you make more money on youtube than your current job then quit and persue that full time. My annual bill finances were 14k so i didnt quit my job till i had 15k in my savings so that i can live off that for 6-12months. I failed trying to do this twice because i let my emotion of hating my job get to me.
      The only good thing about that job was the steady paycheck. Im currrently 20 turning 21 this year. It is possible :) Good Luck :D

  • @mtoffel1
    @mtoffel1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    really loving your videos and finding them very motivational!

  • @justinjdcruz
    @justinjdcruz 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    It cool to know that there are other people that think like this.

  • @marielilith
    @marielilith 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing! I love your channel. Subscribing right now :)

  • @gardnermelissae
    @gardnermelissae 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so glad I found your channel!!

  • @sophiapetrillo3008
    @sophiapetrillo3008 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey there, Melissa! I just posted your video on my blog & just wanted you to know! :) thanks for the Inspiration!

    • @sophiapetrillo3008
      @sophiapetrillo3008 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lisa Rzeszutko howtobe30something.wordpress.com/

  • @YoutubeBrand
    @YoutubeBrand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. Good takeaway, and awesome overview!

  • @wilsenx
    @wilsenx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the inspirational video! very timely...

  • @savannahstone5844
    @savannahstone5844 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your new bed spread

  • @TransformationDetail
    @TransformationDetail 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome awesome video. very helpful for where I'm at in my life right now. Thank you.

  • @rmrm3326
    @rmrm3326 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks ! each video is a hug ! 👏👏

  • @studiogreen_
    @studiogreen_ 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice! Your videos are so inspiring!

  • @AdamStevens91
    @AdamStevens91 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video, very well said!

  • @bhills240190
    @bhills240190 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video, this is what I'm trying to do at the moment .. just curious what do you do for a living?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anna Wand Thanks! I work mostly online writing and editing. Also, if there are odd jobs, I will sometimes that those too :)

  • @crankita97
    @crankita97 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Melissa my family would like to see me working lots of hours in a huge office etc. but that life doesn't appeal me anymore. I'd love to work as a freelance person. And you, do you have a job currently? and what do you do during your free time? I don't know if you'll answer in a separate video. I really like your videos as usual.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      crankita97 Thank you :) I mostly work online writing and editing. I did sell things on ebay and craigslist to bring in extra money as well. :)

  • @MsSassyMT
    @MsSassyMT 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great information as always.

  • @Darkswordz
    @Darkswordz 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really interested in living a more minimalist lifestyle. I make good money, but I never get ahead because I buy and maintain so much stuff that just depreciates in value. I'd love to learn more about this. Subscribing. :)

  • @d.oconnor4047
    @d.oconnor4047 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video! :)

  • @citizenofcorona8783
    @citizenofcorona8783 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where have you been all my life? This is amazing!
    Question though, did you quit abruptly or did you have a gradual exit plan?

  • @ruchikaarora9769
    @ruchikaarora9769 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are the difficulties you face everyday after quitting job in terms of finances, not being able to do things for loved ones that money can buy and financial insecurity for future..is working on our dream with job not a better option..thanks

  • @stevewalther9965
    @stevewalther9965 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How much do you pay for rent? It's not like your living in a garage. Rent where I live is $850 for a room.

  • @mrl-dw4ow
    @mrl-dw4ow 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so inspirational. You are part of the reason I changed to a minimalist lifestyle and why i became vegan! You are so beautifully positive and inspire me every video! I'd love for you to check out my minimalist tag I made last week. So blessed to have found your channel so long ago!

  • @hippieleazar
    @hippieleazar 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    smart girl! that's all i can think of you! i like your videos.

  • @marksreviewsandrants8554
    @marksreviewsandrants8554 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could just quit but have a family and need the insurance I will be there 19 years in August.I am burnt out and tired of all of the BS there.

  • @MuahMan
    @MuahMan 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait, a super hot minimalist. Holy cow. Am I dreaming.

  • @kenyaswilling3396
    @kenyaswilling3396 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos!

  • @1Phonetip
    @1Phonetip 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The universe is talking to me. Haha!

  • @Michael-zl5id
    @Michael-zl5id 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The title was misleading...you never explained how to do anything ....you never explained ...but you are beautiful sooo

  • @CareerexcellencewithMadhurima
    @CareerexcellencewithMadhurima 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    so wat all do u do for a living?

  • @veganchaatparty
    @veganchaatparty 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @bryanbearsley8314
    @bryanbearsley8314 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey melissa. i need a dream job also. i'm to quit the job myself. i need some help. can you help me ?

  • @stevewalther9965
    @stevewalther9965 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why spend $30,000 for a car, with insurance, gas and repairs...

  • @Earthtime3978
    @Earthtime3978 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dream life involves money- period.

  • @SairaAli786
    @SairaAli786 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi what do you do now for a living?

  • @micahbinns2829
    @micahbinns2829 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi melissa, do you think u could be a brand ambassador? is this something you'd be interested in?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, as long as I'm promoting something I believe in. :)

    • @micahbinns2829
      @micahbinns2829 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Melissa Alexandria okay lol....what is your email?

  • @dorriepetersen9136
    @dorriepetersen9136 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about insurance?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dorrie Petersen I'm in Canada and it's about 40-70 dollars per person a month for medical insurance in the province that I live. I believe if you make under a certain amount it's free or very cheap.

    • @dorriepetersen9136
      @dorriepetersen9136 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is amazing. That is the only reason I work.

  • @wailam1198
    @wailam1198 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your videos are inspiraing!!!.....iim working and studying something that i dont enjoy.......but its hard to just quit your job.......can i ask what do u do for living to allow you to do that?

  • @laurenkil
    @laurenkil 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    how are you so incredibly pretty?

  • @justinjaniceful
    @justinjaniceful 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    what do you do know?

  • @BEN124565
    @BEN124565 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know where you are but I will find you and I will marry you! Just kidding :) Very inspirational, I also quit my dayjob as engineer 2 years ago for my passion - wedding photography. Nothing compares to this awesomeness :)

    • @xeno126
      @xeno126 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that's so cool! I can imagine the reaction of people around you!

  • @amybethhaldane7103
    @amybethhaldane7103 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey what is it you actually do now you don't have a 9-5? What is your dream life?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amy Beth Haldane I'm pretty much living my dream life right now - I have ultimate freedom and can spend time being creative and expressing myself with this channel :)

  • @mrdrich4prez
    @mrdrich4prez 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mann! This chick a hand model for Cover Girl and M.A.C. I knew I recognized her hands. Who she trying to fool??

  • @icawn
    @icawn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw just when i'm getting wealthy, it's cooler to be poor. I can't win. Anyone want $100k?

  • @lucyshugg3594
    @lucyshugg3594 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Have you got children?? They can't eat AIR or LIVE in a cardboard box...Grrrrrrrr
    Enjoy life at 50+

  • @shadi.y
    @shadi.y 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    what a shiny face

  • @Bossreychannel
    @Bossreychannel 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur fucking gorgeous