Seeing a lot of comments asking why I didn’t stay for 2 more months. It was a SIGN-ON bonus (different to a regular annual bonus). The contract had a clause stating that if I left within 12 months of receiving this bonus, I would need to repay it...that's why I talk about staying for another year in the video! 👉🏽 My Free Intentional Spending Tracker - nischa.me/intentionalspendingtracker
These bonuses are usually just carrots on a stick to keep you there! Good for you. Being brave enough to leave even after being offered these carrots will always make you feel better!
There is nothing worse than being stuck in a job you hate. No amount of money will make up for being miserable. It really does put life into perspective
Would rather be miserable and making lots of money than being stuck in Gaza. A soul sucking dead-end job is not the worst thing that could ever happen.
00:00 🏦 Reflecting on a major career decision, leaving a six-figure job in investment banking despite an impending substantial bonus. 03:37 🤔 Learning from a colleague's sudden termination despite long-term dedication, realizing corporate loyalty is not always reciprocated. 07:13 💼 Recognizing the limitations of financial independence while working for someone else; deciding to take control of financial life. 09:00 🧠 Realizing a plateau in corporate life, feeling misaligned, seeking therapy, and discovering a passion for personal finance and motivation. 13:15 🚶♂ Overcoming societal expectations, leaving a prestigious job for a deeper purpose aligned with personal values. 17:32 💸 Enduring a significant pay cut to pursue passion; emphasizing the importance of building a financial buffer before making a career change. 22:28 🌟 Achieving happiness and success by aligning work with personal values and making a positive impact, even with uncertainties about the future. 26:20 🛤 Encouraging individual decision-making, resisting external pressures, and finding inspiration to pursue one's true calling.
I can't believe i'm seeing this video (i still didn't watch but the title surprised me) because i recently did the same. I quit my job 2 months before a 5-figure bonus (in my country it's a lot of money) and everyone wonders why... i just tell them that my mental health, freedom, and dreams are worth way more for me than that bonus.
So so happy for you. I can imagine how difficult it must have been but those three things are more important. Someone else put it beautifully in the comments…”you can’t put a price on wanting to feel alive”.
I’m in the same boat too, turning down a month salary as bonus, as it locks me up for 4more months, but I’m actually moving back to applied research from consulting as I find myself with limited opportunities that I aspire to cultivate, I do relate to this video quite well!!
Thank you for posting this! I’m Im so fed up with my current job. Was literally talking to the wife about how we can get out and away from the military and then I saw this video. You’re a big inspiration please keep doing what you do.
After first 30 seconds of watching I wanted to ask a question - do you have a depression? There is only a certain type of people that are able to survive in the corporate world for their entire careers. My bet less than 5% of the society can do that.
John Desmond Heppolette's approach is pivotal for achieving success in the realm of online commerce. His management group has showcased outstanding effectiveness, and I also value the content available on his TH-cam channel...
I know it happens everyday, but that story in the beginning about your mentor sent a shiver down my spine. That's the reality when we look behind the curtain.
When I worked for a big IT company, I saw my immediate boss being fired. Later than day, I was asked to meet the CEO and Sales director and was offered the job. I looked out of the window at the new car that came with the job, and thought about the jump in pay. But I knew what I had to do. I turned down the job and left the company. There were more important things in life.
Congratulations!! My husband came to me a little bit over a year ago to have the talk of him, leaving his job as a special needs teacher , which he had has been in for over 15 years to pursue his true passion as a chef / pitmaster and yes having his own company. I simply said create a plan, if I find that is reasonable, I have no problem with you leaving. Since leaving I've never seen my husband so happy his mental health has improved tremendously, he's soaring within the industry. I would never go back to change my answer.
@@PedroMilharadas lol that's cute ... my husband wanted to make sure his wife/friend/business partner supported his decision for our home/marriage...we're a team.
@Mrs.H312 I am ofc fully aligned with you :) was just a little joke purely based on how you phrased it but I ofc understand what you meant/mean and as said, fully agree :) hope you didn’t take it the wrong way and wish all the best for your husband’s dream
" I simply said create a plan, if I find that is reasonable, I have no problem with you leaving" If my wife tells me this, I'm leaving her, what do you mean you'd have a problem with someone doing what they want?
Congratulations, Nisha! I quit my managerial position last year to follow my desire to be a homemaker. Being able to pick up my son after school and attend his school events feel so luxurious... I'm grateful for my husband's support on this decision. And I'm glad that I've been saving and investing my money since the first day I received my paycheck 20 years ago. I can now focus on my family, self care and my next adventure, whatever that might be... sending you lots of love, Nischa... ❤
Congratulations on getting your priorities right! Being a homemaker is probably one of the noblest and most fulfilling roles we will ever take on in our lives ❤
As a Dad, I did something similar and decided to work for myself, even with the risk of not having regular work, the benefits of seeing my son grow up and having an amazing bond with him is priceless!!!
From your expressions I can see you’re more relaxed and happy with life. Wishing you all the best in your current and future ventures. Just my personal story - I’m currently working and earn an ok salary. I’m the sole earner in my home and also a carer for my older brother and Dad. Life can knock you in multiple directions but it’s about maintaining a positive mindset and dealing with things within your control which I try to do on a daily basis. All the best to everyone who have overcome or are trying to overcome come their respective challenges in life.
This reminds me of an excerpt from Will's memoir: “The thing I’ve learned over the years about advice is that no one can accurately predict the future, but we all think we can. So advice at its best is one person’s limited perspective of the infinite possibilities before you. People’s advice is based on their fears, their experiences, their prejudices, and at the end of the day, their advice is just that: it’s theirs, not yours. When people give you advice, they’re basing it on what they would do, what they can perceive, on what they think you can do. But the bottom line is, while yes, it is true that we are all subject to a series of universal laws, patterns, ties, and currents, - all of which are somewhat predictable - you are the first time you’ve happened. YOU and NOW are a unique occurrence, of which you are the most reliable measure of all possibilities.” Thank you for sharing @Nischa 🎉
So glad I saw this video… I left my job 5 months back just to safeguard my mental health.Still I’m struggling with my mental health issues and trying to figure things out.I’m 37 so getting scared at times.Just a simple thought of applying a job again or facing an interview scares me a lot.It’s sad to see this state after being worked for the last +12 years.Now my goal is to have financial and time freedom. I’m confident that I will figure things out soon.Kudos to you 👏🏽 Thank you for sharing @Nischa ❤
I just sold a property in Portland and I'm thinking to put the cash in stocks, I know everyone is saying it’s ripe enough, but Is this a good time to buy stocks? How long until a full recovery? How are other people in the same market raking in over $200k gains with months, I'm really just confused at this point.
Yes, a good number of folks are raking in huge 6 figure gains in this downtrend, but such strategies are mostly successfully executed by folks with in depth market knowledge.
It all depends on how long you're willing to hold for, stocks might likely tank further, but making serious gains in this downtrend wouldn't be a problem if you're a pro.Reason I decided to work closely with an brokerage-adviser ever since the market got really tensed and the pressure became so much(I should be retiring in 17months) so I've had an brokerage-adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.
How can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?
Elisse Laparche Ewing is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
You cannot imagine how proud I am of you! I am over 60 and I left the retrace when I was 40. You took the right decision. I am so glad to see more and more young people taking the right decision! Love and light from Germany!
40 year old woman here ! in m family nobody talked about finances! I'm so happy this channel exists for young people, definately subscribing and telling my daughter to subscribe too! I highly appreciate the wisdome you are giving out in your channel!
I found this beautiful to watch, it is so so refreshing to see someone put personal values and dreams before social status. Thank you for being open about your journey and epiphany :)
I just did the same 2 months ago. My role was put at risk of redundancy and whilst I don't think I would have been let go, I took voluntary redundancy and have gone full time in my creative business on YT
Thanks for sharing Nischa. I recently made a similar decision. I left a senior position in IT at a hospital to pursue my real estate investments that I had been growing in the background for the past 4 years. When I left I initially thought I had made a rash decision but hearing you describe your thought process I realize I had gone through the exact same logical process. It has been over 4 months since I left and I couldn't imagine ever going back. I love the freedom I have gained. Even though sometimes now I work more than I did during my 9 to 5 I am clear on why I am making that sacrifice and commitment and I get a lot of satisfaction from that.
You've been inspirational so far but this video really hits the feels, especially for me now. A major shift in my job responsibilities has me thinking if there's anything else i can contribute to stay in the rat race. I can adapt and do my job, but past few months I've slacked off, missed deadlines to the point it has affected my mental health. I've taken on far more work than i have now, and i couldnt understand why im like this now. But as weeks go by, im beginning to see it. I can't find the love for what im doing. Its a scary thought when you realise that you need to challenge the status quo to find your path of peace
This brought tears to my eyes. I'm in the same position as you were, where you stayed in the job for longer than you wanted.. I saw your video at the right time and I feel like it's a sign. Thank you so much for sharing and so glad it's all working out for you ❤❤❤❤
I never like and comment on videos - ever. I feel this one deserves it 100%. I work in banking, asset management - and see too many times people on burnout. Going against the status quo is one of the hardest things to do in life, I congratulate you for it and for your success.
Respect for your decision. I am 63 ..worked hard over the years and could have continued but I decided to stop working a year ago without regretting it 1 minute. Had my own side job like you which made it all possible. Enjoy life and the things you love to do and care for your fellow human beings thats what really matters at the end of our journey. Respect for making your decision to make a difference in this world!
So proud of women like you, people who are not scared to make tough decisions...I left banking after over a decade in Private Banking too, it was hard but I am so glad I did!! I now live in France making videos of my simple life while I learn the French language😂🇨🇵 I am happier and at peace with life. I wish you all the very best sis!!🎉🎉🎉
@@my_name_is_isildur Thats what I'm getting from this. We can all follow our 'why' if we are born in the right country and genetically more intelligent and better looking (pretty privilege is a thing) than 98% of other people. Then work our asses off and replace someone older and less able than ourselves to get a promotion. (I'm assuming the person made redundant isn't following their 'why') then we can retire at 30. This story is like a lottery winner telling everyone else 'this is how you become a lottery winner'.
Nischa wasn’t able to do this because of “privilege.” If you watched the video she explains how much preparation in saving and building other income streams she has done. Please don’t minimize her achievement like that.
@@giv78 Go and check the meaning of privilege. Many people are getting paycheck but those who are making sacrifices to have some savings, will have savings in the end...instead of calling them "privilege" you should call them "mindful & disciplined".
Nischa! I totally agree. I’ve been in finance for nearly 15 years but a few years ago I began to notice that something is missing. I wasn’t sure what that was and finally this year I realised that something was always important to me - helping others. I’ve applied for Open University to study Psychology with counselling. I cannot wait to help other people! Thank you for your videos 🎉❤
@@PhonkEchoit depends what area in finance and banking you work in. A lot of these “prestigious” finance roles are often all encompassing where you’re always working/thinking about work, potentially even working 80 - 100 hour weeks (eg M&A) where the spare time just goes to recovery/trying to meet friends and family that there’s no time left. But then again, each area/team you work in will differ.
I am proud of you Nischa. 👍👍 It takes a lot of courage on what you did. I left my high paying job in the IT industry back in 2006 without a backup. My general manager and manager failed to do what was right vs making themselves feel they were right. I went back to my desk and wrote my resignation letter with two weeks notice. The president of the grand corporation flew from Singapore for an emergency meeting on why I resigned. I extended my 2 weeks notice to 6 months because no one could comprehend what I knew and do for the company, even my manager who is a distant relative (reason for the extension). I resigned based on principles. Without good and proper fundamental principles, we have nothing. Fast forward to 2023, I have my own IT business, trading and invest the financial markets, have side hustles, and continue to have more freedom with the security of not working for someone. The best part of all this, the time I was without work, I was able to diagnose Mommy on her GI issues (Crohn’s Disease) within 6 months, treated her, and now she is in full remission to this day. As I always say..... things happen for a reason. I am all smiles for you Nischa! ❤
Love this video. I’m in the same boat. Early 30s well paying “golden handcuffs” career that just isn’t fulfilling me and I feel worse about it as time goes on. Nischa you have just motivated me to find my ‘why’, thank you.
I’ve been in the same situation, having an unfulfilling “golden handcuff” job. The result is having depression in my 30s. I haven’t been able to go back full-time to the workplace since. It’s been a few years of me having no job and income. Take care of yourself before it’s too late ! I wish you the best of luck.
I just sold a property in Portland and I'm thinking to put the cash in stocks, I know everyone is saying its ripe enough, but Is this a good time to buy stocks? How long until a full recovery? How are other people in the same market raking in over $450k gains with months, I'm really just confused at this point.
@_LauraRowley how can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?
I’m really happy for you that you were in the situation where you could quit your job. Your TH-cam has grown astronomically in such a short space of time, it’s an amazing accomplishment!
Ooft this is gonna be relevant to me, I hate my job but I'm sticking around for a bonus in February 😅 theres always a mass exodus in March at my company so I'll finally be joining in
This is SO inspiring! I've started my first side hustle - giving Bollywood dance workshops - and I'm seeing a market for it. I've got another idea to explore but only after the workshops become substantial. As you said I'm becoming obsessed with it and it's giving me a lot of energy to carry on my 6-figure full time job in tech.
She’s good at what she does. Uses her accumulated knowledge and experience in the industry to deliver in digestible chunks to the public. Good for her. She deserves to be paid for that. In any case, she’s literally a former ibanker. She’s fiscally proficient enough to survive off of her own investment strategies.
You deserve this girl! Watched your channel grow and I’m so glad that it’s all working out in the way you wanted.Working for yourself is so powerful we love to see a powerful woman. Inspired ❣️
Wow! I went through the exact same thing, left a 6 figure job at 29 years old, company was amazing, but felt like I plateau'd and was not learning anymore. Then, you start to think about yourself and your goals in life. I also just turned 30 last year and realized that making so much money is not worth sacrificing your well-being. Health=Wealth. I also had a side business that I had started in the beginning of my career, and now the side business pays for my bills and mortgage. Your videos resemble a lot with my life because it also took many factors to convince me to make the decision to quit a good paying job. I am now pursuing an MBA and hope to get closer to my goals in life. Thanks for the video!
@@youngskeamz7270 giving up a secure position in a familiar company, a high salary and long-term bonus payments in favor of something new which I did not know if it would turn out well
Honestly one of the best videos I have watched in a long time. Nothing equals living a life of meaning - it's not about money, when you get that , life becomes worth living thank you for sharing Nischa.
Thank you Nischa for sharing this video, I walked away from a good job 15 years ago after a big layoff , they let me and some of my co workers stay, but I was not going to see if I was going to be next , and I'm so glad I started my landscaping business . I'm debt free now and I love all of what I do. Nischa you Rock !!!!!
I’m just an internet stranger but this was so wonderfully presented, interesting and honest. I always appreciate your thoughts and perspectives. Best wishes on the next step of your journey!
So glad that taking that leap of faith was/is fulfilling for you. I used to work on Wall Street and I could never go back to it--- I *was* the mentor in my own version of your story. Took me ages to recover both emotionally and financially. Your videos are so valuable and I truly hope your viewers take note. Wishing you continued success and blessings following your own path! You did the work and made the sacrifices. The most important thing about that emergency fund is that it gave you *freedom!*
Thank you Nischa for your transparency and integrity. I loved listening to your approach and reasoning behind the courage to make the final jump. I truly enjoy your videos! I am myself one of those who never stays in a job when not happy, but then I frequently find it extremely hard to land the next job. Knowing exactly what you will be doing after quitting (including having another job offer on the table if you will not self employ yourself) is among your own best pieces of advice.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your thought process. As I expected, such a big life decision comes with multiple considerations. Yet from your anecdotes and self-introspection, it appears you made the well-informed decision for yourself and YOUR life.
You are so inspiring! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your journey to follow your why. I wish you continued peace & happiness. The beautiful part of this is that your self discovery was found at a young age. You have so much life to live on your terms. Congrats!
Good for you Nischa. I can't even think of numbers that big, $300,000 sounds like unbelievable money. I've never earned more than one-twentieth that in a year in my whole life, and now I am in my sixties. But one thing I do wish, is that I had followed my intuition and my heart a whole lot more in my life. Follow you heart, Nischa, and do what feels right for you! And come visit us Kiwis here in NZ one day 🙂
Saying goodbye to your everyday reality is not easy but it, in my experience, always pay off, even if it means going through a period of discomfort. Comfort zone is always to be challenged. Big Corpos will take advantage off every single employee therefore as an employee take what you need from them and then it is back to challenging the comfort zone
A little bit of advice… Never quit your 9-5 job merely based on mental health or “job freedom” without a solid backup plan. If your current job is paying your bills consistently, stick with that until “an obvious” financial opportunity presents itself first or you may possibly put yourself in a downward spiral that may have long term negative results.. Always remember the saying “what’s good for the pigeon isn’t always good for the turkey” 🤔
Love this!! I’m probably a year or so away from completely quitting my job because it’s terrifying but I have not enjoyed banking / finance for a while now. Definitely here for the paycheck and status lol but I want to lean in to my true life purpose 💜. Congrats on taking that very scary first step!
This video was beautifully done, thanks so much for sharing this and staying so relatable whilst also knowledgable. Big decisions are scary but it's lovely to see positive outcomes! Watching this gives a feel of freedom
Proper video this. I’m 19 and people think I’m crazy when I say that I’m only doing this for a paycheck. One day I hope to make that decision after a few intellectually stimulating years and follow my true passion after creating that emergency fund for myself which I’ve started now! There’s no motivation clearly in work places in the long term. Seems to be filled with toxic colleagues and people who don’t care about your mental health. I would rather not. I admire you Nischa!!
Well done for saying NO and taking control of your life. Lot's of people talk about being unhappy but never do anything about it. About 6 years ago, I quit my day job without having a concrete plan. I was that guy that didn't have any savings to fall back on, but I knew I had to take the risk because if I had stayed, I'd slip further into depression, become even more negative, further damage my relationship with my girlfriend (now wife) and our beautiful son would not have been born - sounds extreme, but it's the truth. Leaving gave me the sense of worth I needed. I had no major responsibilities at the time so it was a great opportunity to reevaluate life, study up and create something for myself. Honestly, it was the best decision of my life.
Wish there was a double like button!! Thanks for sharing this. I’ve been in the same situation for a couple of years now and I can’t make the move. This definitely inspires me, thanks again!
This video was so inspiring to me. I totally can relate after 20yrs of service with my previous employer I was laid off from work last week, 11/08. Honestly, the last year I felt nothing was aligned with me at work and I gave myself one more year to continue working while I prepare myself for my next career move. However, my employer came early for me by laying me off and 3 colleagues in our department. This is so encouraging and inspiring and now I have a different mindset on my next career path. I’m going after my WHY and choosing a path where I can be in control of my time and be financially independent while providing value and helping others along my journey. Thank and appreciate you for sharing your story!!
Nischa, gosh, I'm exactly like you. Thanks, friend, for posting this. It really is about the why. I want to shine so bright that I bring others out of the darkness as well - and you're doing it!
This hit hard, especially the story about your mentor. I really liked how you balanced the income from your side hustle (+ a bit more on top) with your fixed costs before taking the plunge. I'm 40 and I wish I starting looking at my personal finances like this when I was 30!
Thank you for sharing a very personal story about your toughest decision. I could see how scared and nervous your voice sounded in that moment. I'm glad you are much happier now and that this chapter of your life has lined up with your "why/meaning". You've come a long way and you've shined brightly with what you love in this videos.😊
What an amazing lesson. I left a cut throat job paying almost 7 figures as i was sick of the grind and pressure. I took 7 months off to reset, and have taken a lesser role pay a lot less...but I am much more happy. I love your videos, they always make me smile and confirm that I made the right decision.
Your videos are so good- thank you for sharing your knowledge and your story. I am a 27 y/o and admitting that I used to stress so much about my financial situation in my early 20s and now all I want is to chase that financial and time freedom life and to be smarter with my spendings. You are a true inspiration and aspire me to keep kicking ass. Everyday is a step closer🤞🏽& sure it’s good to learn better ways to manage and grow your $$$. Cheers!!
Something I’ve learned during my professional career goes into the same direction Obama mentioned. Never judge a decision that has been made retrospectively. Too many factors could come into play that are unknown. Only judge the decision making process and question if all factors have been taken into consideration at that point in time. And refreshing to see someone following his value compass. Don’t underestimate how many people are in the same situation and realised the same about their employer. The credo is to run with the system for a certain time until you don’t have to anymore.
Mega Nischa I have started watching your videos in completely random order as they all are amazing and amazingly motivational for me. I have been a photographer for the last 10 years and shot for Selfridges,DeBajenkorf and other largest UK brands. Now I'm so confused with my life and trying to figure it out how to start making money not from a 9 to 5 job. Hoping that advice from your videos will help to discipline my self to start setting and achieving my goals. Thank You!
I followed a somewhat similar path and ended up making 3 times my salary. I never looked back. It's very interesting to watch you talking about your decision to make the change. It's frightening at the time, and certainly comes with risk. Very glad it worked out for you.
remember guys...she made the decision to quit but she was also not totally by herself for support in building a business. The transparency of that should b in this video.
Thanks for sharing. I’ve been the opposite- more building on my own , other things and I realized I really value being a part of something bigger and working with the types of people you mentioned. So at 29 I’m now applying for MBAs to pivot properly into banking or possibly consulting
I quit 6 years ago, sold my house, gave everything away to squeeze into a rented condo to take care of my mom. Because my mom is more important than my money. Mom passed over this Jan. I'd do it all over again. And I will never suit, boot and commute again.
Nischa, thank you so much for this, sharing your openness and vulnerability! I’ve just completed a 5 year Psychotherapist training around my full time job and teetering on the edge of the transition which is scary mortgage and all! So good to know I’m not alone in feeling the fear! 😊
Go for it!!! You'll be so much happier and fulfilled and will look back at your old life and wonder how you ever lived that way. You'll also know that you will NEVER go back to that life again!! Congrats on all your hard work!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Well done Nischa! I know this feeling only too well. It definitely takes guts. I handed my notice in two weeks ago, I'm actually going back to a job that I've done briefly before, and I've always regretted leaving it. I'm taking a slight pay cut, but happiness in a job is actually much harder to find than a decent salary, so for my (hopefully) long term future, I'm choosing a career that will make me happy. A great video and a nice insight. Keep doing what you do 👍
I had a similar experience in my last role. Company I was for 5years had a restructure, I loved my role so when my company offered me a $40K USD stock option with a 2yr vest as a bonus to stay, I jumped at it. Living in New Zealand that was a huge amount of money I would get. 23 months later, the company had another re-structure and myself (and others with the same stock vest) were let go 1 month before a 2 year vest. Hard lesson, but the most valuable, now I take the paycheck and give nothing more. You are a number.
@@LILY-os1vo Nope didn't get the $40k and neither did any of the other staff who were let go. Certaintly made me more aware of being a number in a company.
A-mazing! It all makes sense in your story - and the fact that you crafted your path intentionally is wonderful. Very inspiring, Nischa 😇 thank you, as always
halo Nischa, i am junaidi from pontianak, indonesia. Thank you for this inspiration, i have been working for myself for the past 2 years, since i left an english education center. i can convince you that working for oneself and chasing our own dream is one of the best things in life. I hope you get what you are dreaming for, GBU sister.
Damn this one hits hard. My personal goals is to do similar things to what you do but just finding that first few steps while I don't have a financial background is proving to be a lot harder than I thought. Thank you for sharing this it is really meaningful!
I’m 40. I’m not unhappy or even unfulfilled, but I know I’m not where I want to be… I’ve been binging your videos lately, and it led me to this video: where it all started (for you). While I don’t plan on quitting anything (yet), I do feel inspired to to take the necessary steps to obtain & achieve what’s important to me - thank you, Nischa. 🙏🏽
The misalignment you were feeling is basically burnout. Early stage, but a burnout nonetheless. I've been there too. I also quit my job shortly before a bonus (although nine was low four figures 😅) and when on the best trip of my life.
Thank you for sharing your story! I did the same 3 months ago, quitting the corporate world and the race to get to the next title because the misalignment between the job and my true values kept growing. I needed to create that space to find myself. And I am getting there :) I only wish I had realized all this sooner in life, but as you said, I had responsibilities that prevented me to even consider it before.
“Make sure that decision is yours and not driven by society” Thank you so much Nischa for our Sunday nuggets! You are helping people more than you can imagine
The smile is beautiful & inspiring for sure! I’ve been in a back and forth/ tug of war mode these days but your video has definitely helped provide some clarity for a stranger like me. Well done and wish you more of what makes you smile😊
I appreciate your perspective and decision. There are also people on the other side of the story like me. My ‘why’ is coherent with working in IB and I’m also interested in it beyond the paycheck or status. But still I’ve not been able to get in yet. So in a way being able to do what you really want is also a privilege and equally hard 😅
Lucky you came to this (or these) conclusion(s) so early in your career.... it took me (and many others) a lifetime ... Now I work on passing this experience onto my son and help him avoid such an inflection (and introspection) point in his life. I'll definitely use your vids as arguments!
Nischa, thank you for sharing so authentically. I love your story and I love your passion. I left my investment banking job in my early twenties for similar reasons and I know the courage it took you for making this decision. You deserve everything and more! Keep going and keep producing great content! I am proud of you ✅
You sound like a good, kind person Nischa. Good on you for having professional scruples and values. Wishing you a future following your 'Why', be full of love, kindness, positivity and building a life you truly love to live everyday.
There are no words to say how much I LOVED this video. So real and raw in a world full of such unrealistic standards. So proud of you Nischa. Thank you for sharing with us your journey and giving people the courage each week to break away from this rat race mindset and be true to themselves ❤❤❤
Good for you Nischa. Obviously things worked out and that's great. Hopefully this video reaches those who need that boost of information and maybe motivation to follow their purpose. Thank you.
Seeing a lot of comments asking why I didn’t stay for 2 more months. It was a SIGN-ON bonus (different to a regular annual bonus). The contract had a clause stating that if I left within 12 months of receiving this bonus, I would need to repay it...that's why I talk about staying for another year in the video!
👉🏽 My Free Intentional Spending Tracker - nischa.me/intentionalspendingtracker
Makes sense.
Ayo, but i thought bonus is a gift no? 😭 why must stay 1 yr if they gave bonus. Unfair 🥲
@@imnotsure4864no, it's actually quite reasonable from the company's POV. You want a certain level of insurance if you grant such a bonus.
These bonuses are usually just carrots on a stick to keep you there! Good for you. Being brave enough to leave even after being offered these carrots will always make you feel better!
Sounds like the annual “bonus” is a trap. Get it but obligated to stay 12 months or pay it back. Go 12 months and guess what…time for the next “bonus”
There is nothing worse than being stuck in a job you hate. No amount of money will make up for being miserable. It really does put life into perspective
Right.
she did for 9 years. You make $200k on your first year you gonna be happy.
I don't like my job but I saved 20k a month.
yeah, same as pursing your dreams and having zero money to live. That also puts a lot in perspective.
Would rather be miserable and making lots of money than being stuck in Gaza. A soul sucking dead-end job is not the worst thing that could ever happen.
00:00 🏦 Reflecting on a major career decision, leaving a six-figure job in investment banking despite an impending substantial bonus.
03:37 🤔 Learning from a colleague's sudden termination despite long-term dedication, realizing corporate loyalty is not always reciprocated.
07:13 💼 Recognizing the limitations of financial independence while working for someone else; deciding to take control of financial life.
09:00 🧠 Realizing a plateau in corporate life, feeling misaligned, seeking therapy, and discovering a passion for personal finance and motivation.
13:15 🚶♂ Overcoming societal expectations, leaving a prestigious job for a deeper purpose aligned with personal values.
17:32 💸 Enduring a significant pay cut to pursue passion; emphasizing the importance of building a financial buffer before making a career change.
22:28 🌟 Achieving happiness and success by aligning work with personal values and making a positive impact, even with uncertainties about the future.
26:20 🛤 Encouraging individual decision-making, resisting external pressures, and finding inspiration to pursue one's true calling.
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Bless you for this summary 🙌🏾💯
You just saved 7 minutes of my life. Thank you.
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I can't believe i'm seeing this video (i still didn't watch but the title surprised me) because i recently did the same. I quit my job 2 months before a 5-figure bonus (in my country it's a lot of money) and everyone wonders why... i just tell them that my mental health, freedom, and dreams are worth way more for me than that bonus.
In every countries, 5 figures bonus is a lot of money 😌🤩
Great video. I’ve been struggling with sticking to a game plan of doing something similar myself. Your story is really helpful!
So so happy for you. I can imagine how difficult it must have been but those three things are more important. Someone else put it beautifully in the comments…”you can’t put a price on wanting to feel alive”.
@@spectershore4482not in rupees or Turkish lira it isn't !
I’m in the same boat too, turning down a month salary as bonus, as it locks me up for 4more months, but I’m actually moving back to applied research from consulting as I find myself with limited opportunities that I aspire to cultivate, I do relate to this video quite well!!
quitting your job when you want to work for yourself is always the right decision
As long as you have what it takes to walk over the coals of the first few years. Many can not make it.
If you can really pull it off
@@albertmeyer8983 you'll never know until you try
Not many can make it.
Amen, work is slavery.
Thank you for posting this! I’m Im so fed up with my current job. Was literally talking to the wife about how we can get out and away from the military and then I saw this video. You’re a big inspiration please keep doing what you do.
After first 30 seconds of watching I wanted to ask a question - do you have a depression? There is only a certain type of people that are able to survive in the corporate world for their entire careers. My bet less than 5% of the society can do that.
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I know it happens everyday, but that story in the beginning about your mentor sent a shiver down my spine. That's the reality when we look behind the curtain.
When I worked for a big IT company, I saw my immediate boss being fired. Later than day, I was asked to meet the CEO and Sales director and was offered the job. I looked out of the window at the new car that came with the job, and thought about the jump in pay. But I knew what I had to do. I turned down the job and left the company. There were more important things in life.
@@Zerpentsa6598 Your principles to walk away is most admirable and worth emulating 👏👏👏
@@Zerpentsa6598 🤗
Indeed : Scary & Unfair
Agreed. Or they fire someone so they can pay the next person less.
Congratulations!! My husband came to me a little bit over a year ago to have the talk of him, leaving his job as a special needs teacher , which he had has been in for over 15 years to pursue his true passion as a chef / pitmaster and yes having his own company. I simply said create a plan, if I find that is reasonable, I have no problem with you leaving. Since leaving I've never seen my husband so happy his mental health has improved tremendously, he's soaring within the industry. I would never go back to change my answer.
Your husband had to attend a “home” shark tank in order to pursue his dream? Uau 😮
@@PedroMilharadas lol that's cute ... my husband wanted to make sure his wife/friend/business partner supported his decision for our home/marriage...we're a team.
@Mrs.H312 I am ofc fully aligned with you :) was just a little joke purely based on how you phrased it but I ofc understand what you meant/mean and as said, fully agree :) hope you didn’t take it the wrong way and wish all the best for your husband’s dream
@@PedroMilharadas Respect! I appreciate it, nothing but love luv.
" I simply said create a plan, if I find that is reasonable, I have no problem with you leaving" If my wife tells me this, I'm leaving her, what do you mean you'd have a problem with someone doing what they want?
Congratulations, Nisha! I quit my managerial position last year to follow my desire to be a homemaker. Being able to pick up my son after school and attend his school events feel so luxurious... I'm grateful for my husband's support on this decision. And I'm glad that I've been saving and investing my money since the first day I received my paycheck 20 years ago. I can now focus on my family, self care and my next adventure, whatever that might be... sending you lots of love, Nischa... ❤
Homeschooling otherwise your children will be brainwashed
Congratulations on getting your priorities right! Being a homemaker is probably one of the noblest and most fulfilling roles we will ever take on in our lives ❤
@clt2744 Thank you very much for taking the time to reply. I appreciate you... many blessings to you and your family... 💖
This is beautiful
As a Dad, I did something similar and decided to work for myself, even with the risk of not having regular work, the benefits of seeing my son grow up and having an amazing bond with him is priceless!!!
From your expressions I can see you’re more relaxed and happy with life. Wishing you all the best in your current and future ventures.
Just my personal story - I’m currently working and earn an ok salary. I’m the sole earner in my home and also a carer for my older brother and Dad.
Life can knock you in multiple directions but it’s about maintaining a positive mindset and dealing with things within your control which I try to do on a daily basis.
All the best to everyone who have overcome or are trying to overcome come their respective challenges in life.
This reminds me of an excerpt from Will's memoir:
“The thing I’ve learned over the years about advice is that no one can accurately predict the future, but we all think we can. So advice at its best is one person’s limited perspective of the infinite possibilities before you. People’s advice is based on their fears, their experiences, their prejudices, and at the end of the day, their advice is just that: it’s theirs, not yours. When people give you advice, they’re basing it on what they would do, what they can perceive, on what they think you can do. But the bottom line is, while yes, it is true that we are all subject to a series of universal laws, patterns, ties, and currents, - all of which are somewhat predictable - you are the first time you’ve happened. YOU and NOW are a unique occurrence, of which you are the most reliable measure of all possibilities.”
Thank you for sharing @Nischa 🎉
Which Will said that?
Wise words....-😊
@@Ezinma88 Will Smith’s memoir
My Blcktken300 shorts are doing pretty well and I plan to hold much longer.
So glad I saw this video… I left my job 5 months back just to safeguard my mental health.Still I’m struggling with my mental health issues and trying to figure things out.I’m 37 so getting scared at times.Just a simple thought of applying a job again or facing an interview scares me a lot.It’s sad to see this state after being worked for the last +12 years.Now my goal is to have financial and time freedom. I’m confident that I will figure things out soon.Kudos to you 👏🏽 Thank you for sharing @Nischa ❤
You are not doing construction... dude nut up and shut up. Just make it happen. Stop wasting time!@@CAPS_AMERICA
i took a 3 year break. looking for job now. but i'm not excited about it
I’m in my mid forties and I still don’t have things figured out.
I just sold a property in Portland and I'm thinking to put the cash in stocks, I know everyone is saying it’s ripe enough, but Is this a good time to buy stocks? How long until a full recovery? How are other people in the same market raking in over $200k gains with months, I'm really just confused at this point.
Yes, a good number of folks are raking in huge 6 figure gains in this downtrend, but such strategies are mostly successfully executed by folks with in depth market knowledge.
It all depends on how long you're willing to hold for, stocks might likely tank further, but making serious gains in this downtrend wouldn't be a problem if you're a pro.Reason I decided to work closely with an brokerage-adviser ever since the market got really tensed and the pressure became so much(I should be retiring in 17months) so I've had an brokerage-adviser guide me through the chaos, its been 9months and counting and I've made approx. 650K net from all of my holdings.
How can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?
Elisse Laparche Ewing is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.
Wow, you're so brave!!! You are THE example of a real human. This is the right mindset. Much of love and happiness!
You cannot imagine how proud I am of you! I am over 60 and I left the retrace when I was 40. You took the right decision. I am so glad to see more and more young people taking the right decision! Love and light from Germany!
40 year old woman here ! in m family nobody talked about finances! I'm so happy this channel exists for young people, definately subscribing and telling my daughter to subscribe too! I highly appreciate the wisdome you are giving out in your channel!
I found this beautiful to watch, it is so so refreshing to see someone put personal values and dreams before social status. Thank you for being open about your journey and epiphany :)
I just did the same 2 months ago. My role was put at risk of redundancy and whilst I don't think I would have been let go, I took voluntary redundancy and have gone full time in my creative business on YT
Thanks for sharing Nischa. I recently made a similar decision. I left a senior position in IT at a hospital to pursue my real estate investments that I had been growing in the background for the past 4 years. When I left I initially thought I had made a rash decision but hearing you describe your thought process I realize I had gone through the exact same logical process. It has been over 4 months since I left and I couldn't imagine ever going back. I love the freedom I have gained. Even though sometimes now I work more than I did during my 9 to 5 I am clear on why I am making that sacrifice and commitment and I get a lot of satisfaction from that.
You've been inspirational so far but this video really hits the feels, especially for me now. A major shift in my job responsibilities has me thinking if there's anything else i can contribute to stay in the rat race. I can adapt and do my job, but past few months I've slacked off, missed deadlines to the point it has affected my mental health. I've taken on far more work than i have now, and i couldnt understand why im like this now. But as weeks go by, im beginning to see it. I can't find the love for what im doing. Its a scary thought when you realise that you need to challenge the status quo to find your path of peace
This brought tears to my eyes. I'm in the same position as you were, where you stayed in the job for longer than you wanted.. I saw your video at the right time and I feel like it's a sign. Thank you so much for sharing and so glad it's all working out for you ❤❤❤❤
The truth
You don't have a million subscribers she has
So hopefully you took the right decision
I never like and comment on videos - ever. I feel this one deserves it 100%. I work in banking, asset management - and see too many times people on burnout. Going against the status quo is one of the hardest things to do in life, I congratulate you for it and for your success.
Respect for your decision. I am 63 ..worked hard over the years and could have continued but I decided to stop working a year ago without regretting it 1 minute.
Had my own side job like you which made it all possible.
Enjoy life and the things you love to do and care for your fellow human beings thats what really matters at the end of our journey.
Respect for making your decision to make a difference in this world!
The reminder I needed. Thank you, Nischa.
So proud of women like you, people who are not scared to make tough decisions...I left banking after over a decade in Private Banking too, it was hard but I am so glad I did!! I now live in France making videos of my simple life while I learn the French language😂🇨🇵 I am happier and at peace with life. I wish you all the very best sis!!🎉🎉🎉
So you made first ton of money in bank sector and now you are retired somehow.
@frenchmakoti Why make this sexist. Why not be proud of 'people' like this. Would you not be proud of a man that made this decision?
@@my_name_is_isildur Thats what I'm getting from this. We can all follow our 'why' if we are born in the right country and genetically more intelligent and better looking (pretty privilege is a thing) than 98% of other people. Then work our asses off and replace someone older and less able than ourselves to get a promotion. (I'm assuming the person made redundant isn't following their 'why') then we can retire at 30. This story is like a lottery winner telling everyone else 'this is how you become a lottery winner'.
@@pauls3075 Yes, I agree unfortunately very few will escape the rat race.
Let's be real - being able to "live your why" is admirable, but a privilege few can realistically pursue
Nischa wasn’t able to do this because of “privilege.” If you watched the video she explains how much preparation in saving and building other income streams she has done. Please don’t minimize her achievement like that.
Her hardwork on her TH-cam channel & mindful investing made her "privilege".
A lot of people live paycheck by paycheck, so being able to have substantial savings is already a privilege.
@@giv78 Go and check the meaning of privilege. Many people are getting paycheck but those who are making sacrifices to have some savings, will have savings in the end...instead of calling them "privilege" you should call them "mindful & disciplined".
@@josephplaugher7324 I think @MuppetThumper is saying that “living your why” is a privilege, not that Nischa is privileged.
Nischa! I totally agree. I’ve been in finance for nearly 15 years but a few years ago I began to notice that something is missing. I wasn’t sure what that was and finally this year I realised that something was always important to me - helping others. I’ve applied for Open University to study Psychology with counselling. I cannot wait to help other people! Thank you for your videos 🎉❤
Does banking have insane working hours whereby you barely have time to contribute positively in the world?
@@PhonkEchoit depends what area in finance and banking you work in. A lot of these “prestigious” finance roles are often all encompassing where you’re always working/thinking about work, potentially even working 80 - 100 hour weeks (eg M&A) where the spare time just goes to recovery/trying to meet friends and family that there’s no time left. But then again, each area/team you work in will differ.
Same. Philanthropy has always been my passion.
I am proud of you Nischa. 👍👍 It takes a lot of courage on what you did. I left my high paying job in the IT industry back in 2006 without a backup. My general manager and manager failed to do what was right vs making themselves feel they were right. I went back to my desk and wrote my resignation letter with two weeks notice. The president of the grand corporation flew from Singapore for an emergency meeting on why I resigned. I extended my 2 weeks notice to 6 months because no one could comprehend what I knew and do for the company, even my manager who is a distant relative (reason for the extension). I resigned based on principles. Without good and proper fundamental principles, we have nothing. Fast forward to 2023, I have my own IT business, trading and invest the financial markets, have side hustles, and continue to have more freedom with the security of not working for someone. The best part of all this, the time I was without work, I was able to diagnose Mommy on her GI issues (Crohn’s Disease) within 6 months, treated her, and now she is in full remission to this day. As I always say..... things happen for a reason. I am all smiles for you Nischa! ❤
This is inspiring, appreciate your time for sharing! 🫶 May everything goes well for you and your loved ones!
Beautifully written and nice to hear. Wish you all the best!
Just forward to 8:23
To skip the nonsense
Im 22 years old. My life is a mess. But im so happy for you.
I love how you see life and help others in the process. THANK YOU Nischa!
Love this video. I’m in the same boat. Early 30s well paying “golden handcuffs” career that just isn’t fulfilling me and I feel worse about it as time goes on. Nischa you have just motivated me to find my ‘why’, thank you.
I’ve been in the same situation, having an unfulfilling “golden handcuff” job. The result is having depression in my 30s. I haven’t been able to go back full-time to the workplace since. It’s been a few years of me having no job and income. Take care of yourself before it’s too late ! I wish you the best of luck.
I just sold a property in Portland and I'm thinking to put the cash in stocks, I know everyone is saying its ripe enough, but Is this a good time to buy stocks? How long until a full recovery? How are other people in the same market raking in over $450k gains with months, I'm really just confused at this point.
@_LauraRowley how can I participate in this? I sincerely aspire to establish a secure financlal future and am eager to participate. Who is the driving force behind your success?
No wait for a crash then buy stocks
Just put your trust in God and ask him for direction. He got you.
@@Youngaliormj This is as useful as asking a dog and if it barks, buy more stocks....
Silver silver silver silver 2025 baby . Either buy physical silver or buy slv etf. Remember this comment n saved it
I’m really happy for you that you were in the situation where you could quit your job. Your TH-cam has grown astronomically in such a short space of time, it’s an amazing accomplishment!
Man alive am crying over this video! This is it. This is the one. Thank you 🙏🏾!
Ooft this is gonna be relevant to me, I hate my job but I'm sticking around for a bonus in February 😅 theres always a mass exodus in March at my company so I'll finally be joining in
All the best to you!
A very exciting time for you, go for it!!
This is SO inspiring! I've started my first side hustle - giving Bollywood dance workshops - and I'm seeing a market for it. I've got another idea to explore but only after the workshops become substantial. As you said I'm becoming obsessed with it and it's giving me a lot of energy to carry on my 6-figure full time job in tech.
You're only as good as the hours you can dedicate .... ouch. That hits home hard....
First thing she learned was she can make more money filming videos from home.
Yep
😂
@@vadivelu1386yeah everyone making videos and quitting jobs is actually good for the society
Yes mate.. thats the trick .
She’s good at what she does. Uses her accumulated knowledge and experience in the industry to deliver in digestible chunks to the public.
Good for her. She deserves to be paid for that. In any case, she’s literally a former ibanker. She’s fiscally proficient enough to survive off of her own investment strategies.
You deserve this girl! Watched your channel grow and I’m so glad that it’s all working out in the way you wanted.Working for yourself is so powerful we love to see a powerful woman. Inspired ❣️
Wow! I went through the exact same thing, left a 6 figure job at 29 years old, company was amazing, but felt like I plateau'd and was not learning anymore. Then, you start to think about yourself and your goals in life. I also just turned 30 last year and realized that making so much money is not worth sacrificing your well-being. Health=Wealth. I also had a side business that I had started in the beginning of my career, and now the side business pays for my bills and mortgage. Your videos resemble a lot with my life because it also took many factors to convince me to make the decision to quit a good paying job. I am now pursuing an MBA and hope to get closer to my goals in life. Thanks for the video!
Exactly the same happened to me and I decided to quit the corporate life after 13 years. It was scary but eventually the right step
What was scary about it ?
@@youngskeamz7270 giving up a secure position in a familiar company, a high salary and long-term bonus payments in favor of something new which I did not know if it would turn out well
Honestly one of the best videos I have watched in a long time. Nothing equals living a life of meaning - it's not about money, when you get that , life becomes worth living thank you for sharing Nischa.
Thank you Nischa for sharing this video, I walked away from a good job 15 years ago after a big layoff , they let me and some of my co workers stay, but I was not going to see if I was going to be next , and I'm so glad I started my landscaping business . I'm debt free now and I love all of what I do. Nischa you Rock !!!!!
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I’m just an internet stranger but this was so wonderfully presented, interesting and honest. I always appreciate your thoughts and perspectives. Best wishes on the next step of your journey!
So glad that taking that leap of faith was/is fulfilling for you. I used to work on Wall Street and I could never go back to it--- I *was* the mentor in my own version of your story. Took me ages to recover both emotionally and financially. Your videos are so valuable and I truly hope your viewers take note. Wishing you continued success and blessings following your own path! You did the work and made the sacrifices. The most important thing about that emergency fund is that it gave you *freedom!*
Thank you Nischa for your transparency and integrity. I loved listening to your approach and reasoning behind the courage to make the final jump. I truly enjoy your videos! I am myself one of those who never stays in a job when not happy, but then I frequently find it extremely hard to land the next job. Knowing exactly what you will be doing after quitting (including having another job offer on the table if you will not self employ yourself) is among your own best pieces of advice.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your thought process. As I expected, such a big life decision comes with multiple considerations. Yet from your anecdotes and self-introspection, it appears you made the well-informed decision for yourself and YOUR life.
You are so inspiring! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your journey to follow your why. I wish you continued peace & happiness. The beautiful part of this is that your self discovery was found at a young age. You have so much life to live on your terms. Congrats!
Bold move no doubt the channel is going well.
Good for you Nischa. I can't even think of numbers that big, $300,000 sounds like unbelievable money. I've never earned more than one-twentieth that in a year in my whole life, and now I am in my sixties. But one thing I do wish, is that I had followed my intuition and my heart a whole lot more in my life. Follow you heart, Nischa, and do what feels right for you! And come visit us Kiwis here in NZ one day 🙂
Saying goodbye to your everyday reality is not easy but it, in my experience, always pay off, even if it means going through a period of discomfort. Comfort zone is always to be challenged. Big Corpos will take advantage off every single employee therefore as an employee take what you need from them and then it is back to challenging the comfort zone
A little bit of advice… Never quit your 9-5 job merely based on mental health or “job freedom” without a solid backup plan. If your current job is paying your bills consistently, stick with that until “an obvious” financial opportunity presents itself first or you may possibly put yourself in a downward spiral that may have long term negative results.. Always remember the saying “what’s good for the pigeon isn’t always good for the turkey” 🤔
Horrible advice
Love this!! I’m probably a year or so away from completely quitting my job because it’s terrifying but I have not enjoyed banking / finance for a while now. Definitely here for the paycheck and status lol but I want to lean in to my true life purpose 💜. Congrats on taking that very scary first step!
Good luck...put work into planning well, it's worth it and it is for your future self. You can do it!
This video was beautifully done, thanks so much for sharing this and staying so relatable whilst also knowledgable. Big decisions are scary but it's lovely to see positive outcomes! Watching this gives a feel of freedom
Proper video this. I’m 19 and people think I’m crazy when I say that I’m only doing this for a paycheck. One day I hope to make that decision after a few intellectually stimulating years and follow my true passion after creating that emergency fund for myself which I’ve started now! There’s no motivation clearly in work places in the long term. Seems to be filled with toxic colleagues and people who don’t care about your mental health. I would rather not. I admire you Nischa!!
What exactly are you possibly doing at 19 for any meaningful paycheck 😂
Well done for saying NO and taking control of your life. Lot's of people talk about being unhappy but never do anything about it. About 6 years ago, I quit my day job without having a concrete plan. I was that guy that didn't have any savings to fall back on, but I knew I had to take the risk because if I had stayed, I'd slip further into depression, become even more negative, further damage my relationship with my girlfriend (now wife) and our beautiful son would not have been born - sounds extreme, but it's the truth. Leaving gave me the sense of worth I needed. I had no major responsibilities at the time so it was a great opportunity to reevaluate life, study up and create something for myself. Honestly, it was the best decision of my life.
Same exact situation currently. What did you wind up doing?
Wish there was a double like button!! Thanks for sharing this. I’ve been in the same situation for a couple of years now and I can’t make the move. This definitely inspires me, thanks again!
That bit about going home and spending the next few days alone is golden. Sometimes you need time away from everyone else and the "noise".
This video was so inspiring to me. I totally can relate after 20yrs of service with my previous employer I was laid off from work last week, 11/08. Honestly, the last year I felt nothing was aligned with me at work and I gave myself one more year to continue working while I prepare myself for my next career move. However, my employer came early for me by laying me off and 3 colleagues in our department. This is so encouraging and inspiring and now I have a different mindset on my next career path. I’m going after my WHY and choosing a path where I can be in control of my time and be financially independent while providing value and helping others along my journey. Thank and appreciate you for sharing your story!!
Your employer obviously felt you were dead weight
Nischa, gosh, I'm exactly like you. Thanks, friend, for posting this. It really is about the why. I want to shine so bright that I bring others out of the darkness as well - and you're doing it!
This hit hard, especially the story about your mentor. I really liked how you balanced the income from your side hustle (+ a bit more on top) with your fixed costs before taking the plunge. I'm 40 and I wish I starting looking at my personal finances like this when I was 30!
Bush’s you have made a massive impact on me and many others. Your videos have been so helpful.
Thank you for sharing a very personal story about your toughest decision. I could see how scared and nervous your voice sounded in that moment. I'm glad you are much happier now and that this chapter of your life has lined up with your "why/meaning". You've come a long way and you've shined brightly with what you love in this videos.😊
Thanks for sharing your story. Life is too short to work on something that doesn't inspire you every day. Bravo!!!
What an amazing lesson. I left a cut throat job paying almost 7 figures as i was sick of the grind and pressure. I took 7 months off to reset, and have taken a lesser role pay a lot less...but I am much more happy. I love your videos, they always make me smile and confirm that I made the right decision.
Almost 7 figures a year and your complaining? Try making 30k a year mate.
@@m33ddyhv its called lying mate
@@James_36 yeah he probably is lying
Your videos are so good- thank you for sharing your knowledge and your story. I am a 27 y/o and admitting that I used to stress so much about my financial situation in my early 20s and now all I want is to chase that financial and time freedom life and to be smarter with my spendings. You are a true inspiration and aspire me to keep kicking ass. Everyday is a step closer🤞🏽& sure it’s good to learn better ways to manage and grow your $$$. Cheers!!
Something I’ve learned during my professional career goes into the same direction Obama mentioned. Never judge a decision that has been made retrospectively. Too many factors could come into play that are unknown. Only judge the decision making process and question if all factors have been taken into consideration at that point in time. And refreshing to see someone following his value compass. Don’t underestimate how many people are in the same situation and realised the same about their employer. The credo is to run with the system for a certain time until you don’t have to anymore.
Mega Nischa I have started watching your videos in completely random order as they all are amazing and amazingly motivational for me. I have been a photographer for the last 10 years and shot for Selfridges,DeBajenkorf and other largest UK brands. Now I'm so confused with my life and trying to figure it out how to start making money not from a 9 to 5 job. Hoping that advice from your videos will help to discipline my self to start setting and achieving my goals. Thank You!
I followed a somewhat similar path and ended up making 3 times my salary. I never looked back. It's very interesting to watch you talking about your decision to make the change. It's frightening at the time, and certainly comes with risk. Very glad it worked out for you.
remember guys...she made the decision to quit but she was also not totally by herself for support in building a business. The transparency of that should b in this video.
I’ve been following you for months now and have been so inspired. You’ve put in the work and deserve to be finally free! Congratulations ❤
Congrats!! Keep up the positive attitude.
Thanks for sharing. I’ve been the opposite- more building on my own , other things and I realized I really value being a part of something bigger and working with the types of people you mentioned. So at 29 I’m now applying for MBAs to pivot properly into banking or possibly consulting
and here i was wondering who would stay in such jobs if given the chance lol good for you!
Congratulations Nicha. Closing in on 1 million subs also 🎉
I quit 6 years ago, sold my house, gave everything away to squeeze into a rented condo to take care of my mom. Because my mom is more important than my money. Mom passed over this Jan. I'd do it all over again. And I will never suit, boot and commute again.
This video came up just when I was thinking about Quitting my job, and I am 100% in agreement with what you said in it.
Nischa, thank you so much for this, sharing your openness and vulnerability! I’ve just completed a 5 year Psychotherapist training around my full time job and teetering on the edge of the transition which is scary mortgage and all! So good to know I’m not alone in feeling the fear! 😊
Go for it!!! You'll be so much happier and fulfilled and will look back at your old life and wonder how you ever lived that way. You'll also know that you will NEVER go back to that life again!! Congrats on all your hard work!!! 🎉🎉🎉
I love and appreciate the vocal & sound quality of your video. It’s clear & crisp ✨
Well done Nischa! I know this feeling only too well. It definitely takes guts. I handed my notice in two weeks ago, I'm actually going back to a job that I've done briefly before, and I've always regretted leaving it. I'm taking a slight pay cut, but happiness in a job is actually much harder to find than a decent salary, so for my (hopefully) long term future, I'm choosing a career that will make me happy. A great video and a nice insight. Keep doing what you do 👍
👏 so nice to hear. enjoy! 😊
Just what I needed to hear for so many reasons! Thank you! I’ve only recently found your channel. You’re doing great things!
I had a similar experience in my last role. Company I was for 5years had a restructure, I loved my role so when my company offered me a $40K USD stock option with a 2yr vest as a bonus to stay, I jumped at it. Living in New Zealand that was a huge amount of money I would get.
23 months later, the company had another re-structure and myself (and others with the same stock vest) were let go 1 month before a 2 year vest. Hard lesson, but the most valuable, now I take the paycheck and give nothing more. You are a number.
Wow thats crazy how they did to you. So did you receive the $40k after all? Or laid off is their trick to not pay you the $40k?
@@LILY-os1vo Nope didn't get the $40k and neither did any of the other staff who were let go. Certaintly made me more aware of being a number in a company.
Love your message. Brilliant simplicity. Godspeed Nischa ~ Tim
A-mazing! It all makes sense in your story - and the fact that you crafted your path intentionally is wonderful. Very inspiring, Nischa 😇 thank you, as always
halo Nischa, i am junaidi from pontianak, indonesia. Thank you for this inspiration, i have been working for myself for the past 2 years, since i left an english education center. i can convince you that working for oneself and chasing our own dream is one of the best things in life. I hope you get what you are dreaming for, GBU sister.
Damn this one hits hard. My personal goals is to do similar things to what you do but just finding that first few steps while I don't have a financial background is proving to be a lot harder than I thought. Thank you for sharing this it is really meaningful!
I’m 40. I’m not unhappy or even unfulfilled, but I know I’m not where I want to be… I’ve been binging your videos lately, and it led me to this video: where it all started (for you).
While I don’t plan on quitting anything (yet), I do feel inspired to to take the necessary steps to obtain & achieve what’s important to me - thank you, Nischa. 🙏🏽
The misalignment you were feeling is basically burnout. Early stage, but a burnout nonetheless. I've been there too. I also quit my job shortly before a bonus (although nine was low four figures 😅) and when on the best trip of my life.
That's brave, but sometimes wellbeing is more important than money. Good luck with your future goals, Nischa!
Thank you for sharing your story! I did the same 3 months ago, quitting the corporate world and the race to get to the next title because the misalignment between the job and my true values kept growing. I needed to create that space to find myself. And I am getting there :) I only wish I had realized all this sooner in life, but as you said, I had responsibilities that prevented me to even consider it before.
This has to be my favourite video of yours. Its full of so much truth and meaning. Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you Nischa
“Make sure that decision is yours and not driven by society” Thank you so much Nischa for our Sunday nuggets! You are helping people more than you can imagine
The smile is beautiful & inspiring for sure! I’ve been in a back and forth/ tug of war mode these days but your video has definitely helped provide some clarity for a stranger like me. Well done and wish you more of what makes you smile😊
I appreciate your perspective and decision. There are also people on the other side of the story like me. My ‘why’ is coherent with working in IB and I’m also interested in it beyond the paycheck or status. But still I’ve not been able to get in yet. So in a way being able to do what you really want is also a privilege and equally hard 😅
Lucky you came to this (or these) conclusion(s) so early in your career.... it took me (and many others) a lifetime ... Now I work on passing this experience onto my son and help him avoid such an inflection (and introspection) point in his life. I'll definitely use your vids as arguments!
Everyone is watching this because somewhere in their mind everyone wants to quit their job . 😅😅😅
Great Nischa. Keep inspiring others. You are doing a great job. Keep going
Nischa, thank you for sharing so authentically. I love your story and I love your passion. I left my investment banking job in my early twenties for similar reasons and I know the courage it took you for making this decision. You deserve everything and more! Keep going and keep producing great content! I am proud of you ✅
You sound like a good, kind person Nischa. Good on you for having professional scruples and values. Wishing you a future following your 'Why', be full of love, kindness, positivity and building a life you truly love to live everyday.
There are no words to say how much I LOVED this video. So real and raw in a world full of such unrealistic standards. So proud of you Nischa. Thank you for sharing with us your journey and giving people the courage each week to break away from this rat race mindset and be true to themselves ❤❤❤
Good for you Nischa. Obviously things worked out and that's great. Hopefully this video reaches those who need that boost of information and maybe motivation to follow their purpose. Thank you.