Life didn’t end when my marriage ended in 2022 after being together with him for 17yrs;Here i am healed(After Therapy)independent,lots of self love 💕Am Taking care of my children alone in a foreign country,What a great feeling 😇
I love TMI,i love murugi,i love Lydia..but sometimes Lydia makes Murugi question her opinion and each of them should have their opinions for it to make sense ...and cutting her when she is talking...but nawapenda
Life didn’t end when l left a 15 year Narcissistic marriage. 8 months later Joined school to study only to meet another Narcissist. Wasn’t looking for a relationship but when they want, they mean business!!!! l only came to a realisation who they were after they had already groomed me. (Remember l was extremely vulnerable) almost quit because of fear. I graduated last week👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾But Wueeeh. It’s been a lot. Guys please, please, please kindly educate yourself on Narcissistic people.
Life did not end when I met a narcissist man through work..he was my boss.. He love bombed..he introduced me to his kids .I introduced mine ..it was bliss...untill I found out he was sleeping with his house help.... I ended it..He dismissed me from work...knowing fully well how much I wanted the job. Narssism is demonic
@@carolinenjoroge1195Sorry to you too namesake. Many hugs. They are extremely horrible human beings. The second one wanted to come and finish me kabisa🙆🏾♀️geez
Love you two! Just one small note - Lydia your opinion is not the only correct opinion. You do that often, maybe you don't notice but allow Murugi and others to have their own opinions of their own experience. You are not always correct, respectfully. Apart from that keep it up ladies 👏🏾
Murugi needs to stand by her points / opinions strongly. Noticed even the last episode Lydia will question a point from Murugi then she’ll change her mind and not even once 🫤. Love this podcast ❤
Y'all will make me rewatch the episode again to try & see whether i will pick on the "Differences" y'all are refering to cause i didn't see any the first time!😭😭
@perismkala4275 I know it's crazy. It happened 3 weeks ago 🤭 . They were confused at first...kept asking me too many questions. They even wanted to know when my next Amazon order would be delivered 🤣 . Wah! it was an embarrassing situation, I thought my world would end, but children have a beautiful heart...now they love my natural short hair and wishes to see it often 💜
This is the most interesting podcast I've watched from you..Life didn't end when my mother started dating my ex😂😂😂what was that?😁😂Babe,life ended I swear😃😃😃😃
Ummm, I read the comments, then watched the episode😃; to me I don’t c Lyd as talking over Jo or having the last word; I think they compliment each other well; ie they are a dynamic duo👌
33 single, not married, have no child and still staying home with my siblings. i wonder if am just in denial or saying it to feel good i dont know what to think anymore.
Life didn't end when I got cheated on and dumped. 😂 I am with Joan on that part of thinking about people when I am getting things; if I am getting myself something from the fridge or kitchen, I ask if the other person wants anything or I just bring enough for all of us.
Well, I feel like Murugi understands Lydia and the dynamic of their job/friendship more than us and I know Murugi would address anything she's not comfortable with her . I'm learning a lot from Lydia.
Y'all, now i can't focus on the episode! All i can hear is Lyd trying to explain every point Murugi says and making sure she has a final say. In every aspect trying to contradict her. Maybe it is unconscious, but try and correct that Lyd.
I honestly can't see the dynamic everyone is pointing out. These ladies are just doing what they love and they complement each other so well. You can tell that they genuinely care about each other. About the content, it is actually TMI😂😂. Love it!
It’s called herd mindset. I also don’t see it but it’s quite curious how people keep repeating it in the comments section. It seems like a deliberate, concerted effort to repeat the same thing over and over again, kind of like a gaslighting of some sort
I agree with Joan. A guy taking my phone and setting himself as my profile picture is definitely an intrusion of privacy. There are so many layers to consider, such as if the relationship is new or if I have explicitly stated that I don't share my relationships publicly like that. I'm only comfortable sharing when we're getting married. Lyd saying it's cute and funny-nah, it’s not
Listen, We are not saying we hate Lydia or she doesn't love Murugi okay, but this particular episode it was just more observable. She does it, we love her but we are also not blind to the behaviours that affect the dynamics as the viewers it's just not what we're used to.
People need to understand other people's personality in friendships. I don't see and negative character traits in Lydia towards Murugi. Also they understand the basis of their friendship Anyway I was really entertained this morning
Life didnt end when my parents separated when i was in form 2,life didnt end when i lost 220k in a business referred by a friend in April,life didnt end when my employer halved my salary just in January,then lastly life didnt end after three rape attempts
Ok i’m an king-betweener 🦄and I am done watching this episode at minute 34. Lydia has decided she is the dictionary. She is the single-definition of love bombing because she experienced it. and Murugi’s definition does not count. Give me a break. PLEASE.
And someone tell Lydia to now look for another name for reference😁😂😂😂 sometimes I watch TMI with hubby and today we watched this and Lydia said Jake and hubby was like excuse me😂 what did I do??😂 I am just here having my tea😂😂 his name is Jacob but nickname Jake
Loved the episode ladies ❤ just wondering was Lyd high on something? I could almost count the number of times Murugi spoke 🥲 were you okay Lyd? Otherwise good job ladies 👏👏
Life didn't end when I went for a sleepover with bae a week before our wedding only for him to go out briefly....only to come back in the morning. Talk of red flags😅
Life didn't end when I met the love of my life, got pregnant on our honeymoon and then started the process to live together in his country and ended up being dragged in that visa process for 3yrs😢 it's now 4months of us living together as a family just like it should, we keep telling each other if we survived that nothing else can kill us
😂😂😂😂 men are like househelps. But you didn't lie about househelps for sure...so humbling. Btw how does one move on from such?.. (the person you thought you were dating just leaving with no explanation whatsoever) I almost shed a tear when you guys were talking about your grandmas💔
Life didn't end when he told the girl he was cheating with I was his landlord 😭😂 after she video called him and heard me talking.....na mind you it was 11 pm
I think you guys are pessimists, I've watched the whole episode looking out for that but didn't see any of it. Those two ladies just connect naturally. Joan's energy was a bit down but does not make Lydia an over stepper.
When lyd said that there was a version of her loving someone that felt like " you're really hot and we get on well" it literally made me think...thats the UK in her...its giving love island 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The bit Jo said her Shosho (in the mortuary) said to her Guka… “You’ve left me but am coming….” got me teary.😢 On the topic though, life didn’t end for me in very many times in very many ways!🤦🏾♀️ Mostly because of our men here in Uganda!😏 I don’t even know if most of them will go to heaven.🤣 Anyway love you so much ladies. Love from the 256🇺🇬
Anyone else mute or fast forward when it starts until the point of Hi guys, Murugi Munyi here, its Lydia KM..., because that first part usually feels like a spoiler and you don't want to hear it until you get to that part bc yk you'll watch the entire episode? Just me? Oh💀Happy rest of your week ❤.
Those saying Lydias attitude towards murugi is invalidating,I don't think so,,they are definitely different and they are sharing their experiences differently,and that's what's poking you guys,,,,they is sarcasm used and you csn tell the togetherness,thats what i think
Cant believe i thought yesterday was wednesday and I even went to TMI on ig to look for the apology. Imagine my happiness after realizing today is Wednesday
Life didn't end when he lied to me that he was single dated him for a year and half got pregnant only for me to realise he had another woman who he had moved in with for 4 years ago only that she was abroad for work when we met when I was only 6 pregnant,only for him to choose her over me..., 😭😭
Life didn’t end when my marriage ended in 2022 after being together with him for 17yrs;Here i am healed(After Therapy)independent,lots of self love 💕Am Taking care of my children alone in a foreign country,What a great feeling 😇
At 18;43 when Murugi asks, "Are they close?" It gives off, "he's alive, right?" 😂
Lakini Murugi hukua msupu aki ❤️
Aiii uongo
@@sarahgakuru4947 She's so beautiful ❤❤
@@sarahgakuru4947she's so pretty
Acha wivu
@@veshmoh808 tuachange uongo aiii she’s like a 4
" If you're gonna be a lover, then you need to be a leaver" ...love that!
I love TMI,i love murugi,i love Lydia..but sometimes Lydia makes Murugi question her opinion and each of them should have their opinions for it to make sense ...and cutting her when she is talking...but nawapenda
True
Life didn’t end when l left a 15 year Narcissistic marriage. 8 months later Joined school to study only to meet another Narcissist. Wasn’t looking for a relationship but when they want, they mean business!!!! l only came to a realisation who they were after they had already groomed me. (Remember l was extremely vulnerable) almost quit because of fear. I graduated last week👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾But Wueeeh. It’s been a lot.
Guys please, please, please kindly educate yourself on Narcissistic people.
Life did not end when I met a narcissist man through work..he was my boss..
He love bombed..he introduced me to his kids .I introduced mine ..it was bliss...untill I found out he was sleeping with his house help....
I ended it..He dismissed me from work...knowing fully well how much I wanted the job.
Narssism is demonic
I know them now and I'm working on myself to stop attracting them.sorry for your experience 😢. And congratulations 🎊
@@carolinenjoroge1195Sorry to you too namesake. Many hugs. They are extremely horrible human beings. The second one wanted to come and finish me kabisa🙆🏾♀️geez
Love you two! Just one small note - Lydia your opinion is not the only correct opinion. You do that often, maybe you don't notice but allow Murugi and others to have their own opinions of their own experience. You are not always correct, respectfully. Apart from that keep it up ladies 👏🏾
I agree 💯
Absolutely!! Been saying this!
Ameambiwa hapo juu lakini ukaona urudie tu?
Noooooooo Haven't seen that
They're okay
💯
Murugi needs to stand by her points / opinions strongly. Noticed even the last episode Lydia will question a point from Murugi then she’ll change her mind and not even once 🫤. Love this podcast ❤
It's okay to change your opinion when presented with new information
In this podcast we say it's okay to change your mind
I noticed that too
Life didn't end when I farted in the staffroom while I was asleep and woke up because of the smell.....I was on teaching practice 😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Y'all will make me rewatch the episode again to try & see whether i will pick on the "Differences" y'all are refering to cause i didn't see any the first time!😭😭
@@FaithWaithera-c9e ulirewatch?😅😅
Kitu ya kwanza naona mmjam tu sana😅😅😅😅😅
Wanawaka moto kama dragon😂😂
😂😂😂😂 this comment has lightened up my mood😂wamejam sana
Tumejam kama dragon😂🤣🤣do like this hhhuuuuhuuuuuhuuuuu😂
@@sharonnkirote9106tuko msimu wa maandamano na kuanguka nayo kila pande.
💀💀💀💀
I wish i didn't read the comments before watching the episode, now i am looking out for what everyone is saying...
Ikrrr.. me too😂🤦🏽
Me too
Ik😭
Mimi nami niliwatch nikamaliza😂after kusoma comments ilibidi nirudie just to confirm 😭😹
I know😭
Life didn't end when my wig fell off my head in front of Kindergarten kids😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 that's crazy though
@perismkala4275 I know it's crazy. It happened 3 weeks ago 🤭 . They were confused at first...kept asking me too many questions. They even wanted to know when my next Amazon order would be delivered 🤣 . Wah! it was an embarrassing situation, I thought my world would end, but children have a beautiful heart...now they love my natural short hair and wishes to see it often 💜
😂😂😂😂
This is the most interesting podcast I've watched from you..Life didn't end when my mother started dating my ex😂😂😂what was that?😁😂Babe,life ended I swear😃😃😃😃
Murugi said "Men are like house helps" with a straight face😹😹😹😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆 Now that should be put on a t-shirt.
😂😂😂😂 there was a time I said this because the dust they show you😮
😂😂😂
Me waiting for an episode on"An inbetweener once said ....."after reading y'all comments 😂😂
Same sis😂. Comments are crazy today
@@rao023For real
😂😂😂
In betweeners...lord Jesus. I wish i didn't read the comments b4.. I can surely see it throughout the video
Me too, 😢
Ummm, I read the comments, then watched the episode😃; to me I don’t c Lyd as talking over Jo or having the last word; I think they compliment each other well; ie they are a dynamic duo👌
Lydia let Mutugi speak
33 single, not married, have no child and still staying home with my siblings. i wonder if am just in denial or saying it to feel good i dont know what to think anymore.
What's wrong with that lol humans and the boxes we are put in
You are not alone same situation. Hugs from me.
Marriage is a trap
Life didn't end when I got cheated on and dumped. 😂
I am with Joan on that part of thinking about people when I am getting things; if I am getting myself something from the fridge or kitchen, I ask if the other person wants anything or I just bring enough for all of us.
Well, I feel like Murugi understands Lydia and the dynamic of their job/friendship more than us and I know Murugi would address anything she's not comfortable with her . I'm learning a lot from Lydia.
Y'all, now i can't focus on the episode! All i can hear is Lyd trying to explain every point Murugi says and making sure she has a final say. In every aspect trying to contradict her.
Maybe it is unconscious, but try and correct that Lyd.
Its giving I know better....or I am better than
Also realized it made me sooo sad
Oh I don't want them to fight it will really break my heart
couldn't agree more
Life didn't end when I put myself as my boyfriends wallpaper and he removed it immediately before the day even ended😂
To be honest why would you do that?if he wanted you as his wallpaper he would have put you
One thing I have learnt, carry two glasses or a bottle for the both of us or call and see if he needs something. ❤
The awkwardness between my house help and I. I was listening as she was right there 😅Murugiii 😮
😂😂😂
I honestly can't see the dynamic everyone is pointing out. These ladies are just doing what they love and they complement each other so well. You can tell that they genuinely care about each other.
About the content, it is actually TMI😂😂. Love it!
I also cant see it. I think someone mentioned it and now everyone is just riding on it
It’s called herd mindset. I also don’t see it but it’s quite curious how people keep repeating it in the comments section. It seems like a deliberate, concerted effort to repeat the same thing over and over again, kind of like a gaslighting of some sort
Is Lydia going through something..her energy has been so harsh in this episode
Life didn't end when y'all trolled lydia on the comment section about her assertiveness
Amen!!!
Preach!
And the podcast remained authentic
I agree with Joan. A guy taking my phone and setting himself as my profile picture is definitely an intrusion of privacy. There are so many layers to consider, such as if the relationship is new or if I have explicitly stated that I don't share my relationships publicly like that. I'm only comfortable sharing when we're getting married. Lyd saying it's cute and funny-nah, it’s not
Completely agree
Listen, We are not saying we hate Lydia or she doesn't love Murugi okay, but this particular episode it was just more observable. She does it, we love her but we are also not blind to the behaviours that affect the dynamics as the viewers it's just not what we're used to.
"Men are like house-helps" I can't breathe!-Murugi Noooo! hahhahahahaha
People need to understand other people's personality in friendships. I don't see and negative character traits in Lydia towards Murugi. Also they understand the basis of their friendship Anyway I was really entertained this morning
@@JacqueChinasourcing exactly
Lydia loves murugi,we can all see it 😊
Life didnt end when my parents separated when i was in form 2,life didnt end when i lost 220k in a business referred by a friend in April,life didnt end when my employer halved my salary just in January,then lastly life didnt end after three rape attempts
Hugs babes🫶🫶
Hugs gurl🫂
Hugs
Hugs honey ❤❤
Ok i’m an king-betweener 🦄and I am done watching this episode at minute 34. Lydia has decided she is the dictionary. She is the single-definition of love bombing because she experienced it. and Murugi’s definition does not count. Give me a break. PLEASE.
Watching tmi makes me feel like someone's giving me some' tea'😂 love it here ❤
Aaaiiih people , they're ying and yang completely different but fit perfectly.
Aki I just felt the guilty that I hadnt subscribe to you guys and the way I watch every time I thought I had subscribed😢😢
Am a lover and I know how to leave…. Damn, crying in I stayed in a wrong relationship for 5 years knowing from the 1 st day it was wrong
😮i’m with you on this. My nody almost shuts doen when i remember that season of my life. But cheers to healing and moving on.
Life didn't end when i lay on the floor and couldn't move for two days and not a single soul checked up on me❤
So sorry Hun hope you make better decisions on your friends now that you learned your lesson 🥰
🤗❤️
Really enjoyed this episode, i love how TMI session are fun and informative at the same time, forever an INBETWEENER
And someone tell Lydia to now look for another name for reference😁😂😂😂 sometimes I watch TMI with hubby and today we watched this and Lydia said Jake and hubby was like excuse me😂 what did I do??😂 I am just here having my tea😂😂 his name is Jacob but nickname Jake
I mean everyone knows she is egocentric lately. It is no secret. check yourself lyd. period.
Why did i read the comment before watching ...is a turn off 😅manze
Loved the episode ladies ❤ just wondering was Lyd high on something? I could almost count the number of times Murugi spoke 🥲 were you okay Lyd? Otherwise good job ladies 👏👏
I love you girls. If i was to choose between you two, my answer would be A and B are correct.❤
I enjoyed this episode
Some of us need to stop reaching.
Good job Lyd and Jo.
Life didn't end when I went for a sleepover with bae a week before our wedding only for him to go out briefly....only to come back in the morning. Talk of red flags😅
Did u proceed with the wedding after that? Maybe he was attending a Stag Party😂😂🎉...
😮😮😮
Life didn't end when I met the love of my life, got pregnant on our honeymoon and then started the process to live together in his country and ended up being dragged in that visa process for 3yrs😢 it's now 4months of us living together as a family just like it should, we keep telling each other if we survived that nothing else can kill us
😂😂😂😂 men are like househelps.
But you didn't lie about househelps for sure...so humbling.
Btw how does one move on from such?.. (the person you thought you were dating just leaving with no explanation whatsoever)
I almost shed a tear when you guys were talking about your grandmas💔
Life didn't end when he told the girl he was cheating with I was his landlord 😭😂 after she video called him and heard me talking.....na mind you it was 11 pm
I love this episode because men are like househelps
It would be helpful if Lydia took time to listen to other points of view. Otherwise she just comes off as annoying.
Her voice of reason persona might be getting to her head a lil.
I think you guys are pessimists, I've watched the whole episode looking out for that but didn't see any of it. Those two ladies just connect naturally. Joan's energy was a bit down but does not make Lydia an over stepper.
@@aminahnabyonga6398 I agree with you,lyd is an intentional friend 😭I've heard her countlessly tell Murugi her opinion is valid
Why are people complaining about lydia??did i miss something 😕
I love murugi's laughter 😂😂😂❤
You two look amazing!!!
Well, as always of course
Mmh I clearly don't see why people are complaing about Lyd. I really enjoyed the episode it was a fun one..
Lydia must have eaten the cookies before this episode 😂😂😂, y'all are gorgeous though
When lyd said that there was a version of her loving someone that felt like " you're really hot and we get on well" it literally made me think...thats the UK in her...its giving love island 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's definitely TMI!!
Leo nayo mmeamulia Lydia,, wueh
Hadi mnanipea confirmation bias
The bit Jo said her Shosho (in the mortuary) said to her Guka… “You’ve left me but am coming….” got me teary.😢
On the topic though, life didn’t end for me in very many times in very many ways!🤦🏾♀️ Mostly because of our men here in Uganda!😏 I don’t even know if most of them will go to heaven.🤣 Anyway love you so much ladies. Love from the 256🇺🇬
Hate isn't the thing Lydia Km, murugi might actually be right that it's more of the other party loving or caring for themselvesore than to you
Anyone else mute or fast forward when it starts until the point of Hi guys, Murugi Munyi here, its Lydia KM..., because that first part usually feels like a spoiler and you don't want to hear it until you get to that part bc yk you'll watch the entire episode? Just me? Oh💀Happy rest of your week ❤.
Lydia why didn’t you hold murugi's hand at 41.00
felt that😢😢😢
@@susannjuguna67 Lydia is low-key so mean to Joan!
😂😂😂
“Men are like house-helps” I’m going to put that on a tee shirt .
Those saying Lydias attitude towards murugi is invalidating,I don't think so,,they are definitely different and they are sharing their experiences differently,and that's what's poking you guys,,,,they is sarcasm used and you csn tell the togetherness,thats what i think
Loving this episode! Thanks ladies
And don’t forget to listen to “Therapy” by Maisie Peters❤❤❤
Is it a podcast??
@@janewainaina9890 Nope, a song we all need to listen to!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cant believe i thought yesterday was wednesday and I even went to TMI on ig to look for the apology. Imagine my happiness after realizing today is Wednesday
😂😂😂😂😂men are like house helps 💀 😂😂😂😂😂
🎉🎉🎉 Definitely TMI 🤭
🥳🥳
You guys make my days, I'm happy for all you are achieving! You are my sisters from other moms.
Jo pulling men are like househelp is deadass funny 😂😂😂😆
😂😂I just love you Lydia
Oh that part about murugi's grandparents really made me sad oh take heart ❤️ 😢
Lydia has a kalevel entitlement that she feels she is above Murugi kidogo but all the same no one is perfect. I love TMI
I don't get how ... listening to Lydia talk about Murugi I think she has great respect for Murugi.
WTF!!!!
We anguka na opinions zako😅
How do you arrive at this conclusion???😳 Lydia and Murugi will always be the perfect duo and co-hosts. We love TMI! TMI to the world🚀🌎❤
I also don't understand how... because every time I see how Lydia looks at Murugi aaaw she really loves and respects her❤
I know this will be the IT episode😂❤
For real 😂 lemme get my coffee
You’re just not ready 😎🔥
Na kamkate🤣🤣.
I just love you guys so much!
Highlight of this episode for me.... "men are like househelps"
Love isn't just a feeling. love is to be seen
1st time commenting... @Murugi that part of "men are like house helps" finished us completely 😂😅
Love you guys,am watching you from Zambia.
Lydia was insufferable in this episode. Damn
I love when yall do matchy matchy outfits,gives the episodes much life😙😙💙
It’s your facials towards the end for me 😂😂😂when Lydia mentioned the tough “Life didn’t end when…”
Life didn't end when he lied to me that he was single dated him for a year and half got pregnant only for me to realise he had another woman who he had moved in with for 4 years ago only that she was abroad for work when we met when I was only 6 pregnant,only for him to choose her over me..., 😭😭
What's with this Lydia's attitude towards murugi today? I feel so bad for jo ..she needs to check on that respectfully tho...
We are here babes❤🎉
Not me coming back one month later to see what people are talking about y'all need to relax😅
I am here today , going through the comments 😅
So...how do you find a good therapist in Nairobi? Where do you begin?
lydia please let murugi speak
Died at 27:00.... Murugi's friend 😂 Noooo 😂😂😂
Travelling with chapoo got me😂😂😂
This episode is bomb🔥🔥
This challenge was fire on Tik tok I didn’t know people out here are living with serious traumas
Did Mirugi just say “stop traveling… to see people“ 😂
Enyewe stop traveling...😂😂😂
She did 😅😅😅😅
Love the feeling
Love the action
Never seen it like that
Mnapika chapo mnaleta all the way to Nyeri? 😂😂😂 nie ma! Mko na nguvu. Mmeskia Nyeri hatuna hoteli?😂😂