I like that Ife spends time conversing with the guest before the main story. It helps relate to whatever opinion the guest has about the main story. Understanding the guests' personality broadens the spectrum of the audience's reasoning. However, a newbie may get bored at the beginning ( depending on the guest).
Loved the honesty of this conversation. The man in question cheated emotionally. It's commendable that he regained his senses before it became physical cheating. There's still some trust issues to walk through for the wife but I'm happy to hear his commitment to avoid any friendship with the opposite sex. For the woman that came from Ghana, I feel nothing for her. She knew he was married and even initiated the physical cheating phase by telling him she wished she had kissed him in America. Whatever she sees, let her take. At the end of the day, this is evidence that any man can resist the temptation to cheat if he really loves and respects his wife. Men are not genetically programmed to cheat.
😅😅 Mr Macaroni is really hilarious! Enjoyed this episode as always Ife...kudos to you and your team. Emotional cheating to me is a step lower than physical cheating and should require serious conversations to forestall future reoccurrence. The wife in question must let him know that wasn't ok at all! Physical cheating breaks trust in Marriages in a way that even if the Wife stays back, she never trusts again and never truly forgives. And can we now see that men expect easy forgiveness for cheating but are not able to forgive cheating spouses? Marriage is truly a roller coaster. To me, there must be boundaries not to be crossed aka dealbreakers and there must be consequences for all bad actions.
It's not just fear, it's trauma, there is a part of you that needs healing, truth be told people just need a form of healing to take the next step in life, if not you will bleed on someone that didn't cause your pain
This is the comment!, 11 years after and it still manifests itself 😌🙃🤦♀️, we all need therapy in some way shape or form to fully function as adults, 🙏.
I am very afraid to be in any relationship or marriage. I love with all my heart. I am afraid any man to hurt me. Relationships are very toxic. Single life is sweet. No stress… I need a lot of time to heal. I am healing… I
I love this episode so much, Mr. macaroni🤣🤣😅😆😂😂, many of us I hope we all find that true & stable love. Anyform of cheating in a serious relationship & marriage shouldn't be accommodated, commitment should be a deliberate action not easy but if we try, it's better in this life. Interesting episode ❤❤❤👏👏👏👏
Ma'am Ifedayo has added 'dating tip prof/expert' to portfolio 😂😂😅 Dang and non-Dang members, the first 24 mins is worth rewatching till your chins turn red 🤭✨💛 👏👏👏🙌💐 Thank you Dang man for respecting your vow with your wife. Debo answered intelligently and thank you for all the fun skits and advocacy for good governance. Take your 💐🙌 Singles, the married will always choose their spouse over you. Ma'am Ifedayo, the man's wife may have had that conversation. Another episode I fully watched and enjoyed. The artwork behind is 🤎✨ Debo's outfit is very foine, ma'am Ifedayo I want Dang top, please 🙈 it's looks so beautiful on you and it will be on me.
The concept of religion is the parent's responsibility for guidance; once they fail at doing so, the children wind around finding it difficult to stay true to one whether they like it or not. If you worship something that is giving you peace of mind, you will keep running to it. What you always fear will come upon you, bro, so brace up bro. Nice podcast.
The guy hasn’t seen the different in the woman until the ‘unthinkable’ happens… some women can be tricky until they’re actually in the relations. That man would have regret his action only if he went further. Kudos to him for rethinking, because most men will keep going. 🙌
Debo is effortlessly funny and smart! Funny is 110%. Please marry at some point ya, Your wife's life will be filled with laughter! omebody's daughter somewhere deserves you!
If he’s serious he will get the right lady… you can’t be this smart and don’t know what’s right and wrong. He’s not ready yet, be careful with this kind of men o. They can drain you emotionally. 🙌
His actions of blocking her is justified to an extent because if they converse further there might be a change of heart to go through with it. Sometimes closure isn’t needed
After watching this episode , i only just realized I'm the female version of Debo , as we have the exact reason for our phobia for committed romantic relationships. Definitely a trauma response. I NEED THERAPY, ASAP!
Interesting perspectives, intelligent conversations! Mr Macaroni if you can see this, try to initiate/convert this story discussed into a skit, we'd love to laugh 😊
Honestly about leaving the lady that travelled in to see him hanging and about that not being responsible, while I agree but I think at that point in time, that was the right thing for him to do at that moment. As for me o, i would have said he should type the message like Debo said about choosing my wife and all that, drop it in her dm and block her immediately. I would not wait for her to see or reply.
Macaroni is a good man with a heart full of Soo much love, but Soo scared to give love and marriage a trial simply because, when he goes in, he goes alllll in...and when he gets heart broken, it's very difficult for such a person to heal..
@remilekunakinyemi-qb3ri yes...and obsession is not love...He needs to work on his mind and have control of his emotions...He should be emotionally available to a point where he can shut the door on her face when she doesn't match up the energy...No matter how he feels for the person...
Another cogent question is what his next steps would have been if he had gone home and for whatever reason his wife was not able/willing to have sex at that time. His response would show true intention.
Ife, the matter will still come up again from the wife. She may be an example of one who does not react immediately. Some people will need time to process all the angles of what they have heard before they react. It could take days, weeks or months before the hubby starts to see the reaction
Comparism is triggered by the usually That in some time inevitable The ability to adjust with to owned You will always be triggered after all ,but there should be a call back
Lust is what makes her different. Cause his wife must have also met people that are better than him or he has also met people previously but never paid attention to them. Its cause of the 2months being away from the wife and then lust
I think what this man is facing is quite normal in marriage. One time Pastor Philip even made a post about it. Sometimes you meet people and they are like angel in human form. Awnnn cute little demon😂😂. The man did the right thing. You will have to be intentional to choose your spouse. That person that seems like heaven is just a facade. Please shun them and choose your spouse. God help us all
15:08 Men are soo terrible, you don’t want a relationship but you want to keep her in a situationship where you get the boyfriend treatment with 0 commitments. See how he's admitting to it... Chaiii this isn't right...Beg for friendship RadaRada
Ife please can you reduce the time you spend conversing with the guest before the main story?? It kinda makes it hard to stay on the videos or even watch the story that carried me from Instagram.5-10 mins is cool🌚imo
The time spent conversing with the guests is good. That's what makes some of us enjoy the episodes cos it makes us understand the guests more and get to know more about them. If it's long for you, there are time stamps on the video that can help you skip to the main story that brought you from IG. My humble opinion🙏🏽
We can be friends but just know after a certain time don't call or message me, don't try to monopolise my time (if we speak more than once a week, you're lucky). Friend is friend. Talking is talking. You can't have privileges without license or permit
It only takes Intention, fear of God and determination, if he can quit whatever he was having with the other woman so why not! Personally as a lady i feel he is a one out of 1000 especially when he has what it takes" Finances" to do it but chooses to end it before it gets out of hand.
You’re not sure of yourself then Debo….whats your love language and what are the things you want in relationship? No perfect human being but look for the one that fear God in love. You know there are good people out there!!!
I'm annoyed with the guy. He cultivated that relationship and should've said something to that woman before blocking. Did she even know that he was married?? Yes, his first responsibility is to his wife BUT he cultivated this thing to the point that she bought a ticket. He prioritised thethat woman over his wife. It's hurtful. He should do better, accept responsibility and exercise accountability. The next man will likely suffer because of his actions
I think Debo needs therapy because he seems to be struggling with withdrawal issues, which can be toxic behavior. As for the story, shey you didn't see that it's Delilah that presented herself and you almost fell for it?!! 😂 Thank God for the spirit of God in you. Kudos man 👏
Then don't talk anyone into a relationship with you, don't do things that would make them fall in love with you when you know you don't want to reciprocate the feeling. Set awon "it's me, not you" If you're not interested in relationship then stay single, don't bother mingling till you're ready 😑
I like that Ife spends time conversing with the guest before the main story. It helps relate to whatever opinion the guest has about the main story. Understanding the guests' personality broadens the spectrum of the audience's reasoning. However, a newbie may get bored at the beginning ( depending on the guest).
If a man tells you he’s not ready to be in a relationship, don’t give him room to “act like he wants a relationship”.
that part!
On point.
Loved the honesty of this conversation. The man in question cheated emotionally. It's commendable that he regained his senses before it became physical cheating. There's still some trust issues to walk through for the wife but I'm happy to hear his commitment to avoid any friendship with the opposite sex. For the woman that came from Ghana, I feel nothing for her. She knew he was married and even initiated the physical cheating phase by telling him she wished she had kissed him in America. Whatever she sees, let her take. At the end of the day, this is evidence that any man can resist the temptation to cheat if he really loves and respects his wife. Men are not genetically programmed to cheat.
His honesty and genuineness is soothing 😊
😅😅 Mr Macaroni is really hilarious! Enjoyed this episode as always Ife...kudos to you and your team.
Emotional cheating to me is a step lower than physical cheating and should require serious conversations to forestall future reoccurrence. The wife in question must let him know that wasn't ok at all! Physical cheating breaks trust in Marriages in a way that even if the Wife stays back, she never trusts again and never truly forgives.
And can we now see that men expect easy forgiveness for cheating but are not able to forgive cheating spouses? Marriage is truly a roller coaster. To me, there must be boundaries not to be crossed aka dealbreakers and there must be consequences for all bad actions.
The artwork behind you guys is beautiful ❤
I enjoyed the discussions in this episode. I really appreciate Ife’s interviewing skills!
I so much love this episode
And Debo nailed it
I love what Ife said about those who decide to be with married men take risks because he will never put them first when push comes to shove
I love their vibe together, conversation flowed seamlessly
Wawuu… I’ve not even finished watching and I looooove this episode.
Ife looookiiinnggg Gooooooodtttt!!😍😍😍😍😍
Debo is incredibly funny, I enjoyed this episode so much and I laughed heartily too. Thank you Ife and Debo
It's not just fear, it's trauma, there is a part of you that needs healing, truth be told people just need a form of healing to take the next step in life, if not you will bleed on someone that didn't cause your pain
This is the comment!, 11 years after and it still manifests itself 😌🙃🤦♀️, we all need therapy in some way shape or form to fully function as adults, 🙏.
@@PowerHouse-t2s 🥰🥰
I am very afraid to be in any relationship or marriage. I love with all my heart. I am afraid any man to hurt me. Relationships are very toxic. Single life is sweet. No stress… I need a lot of time to heal. I am healing…
I
This guy is witty😂😂 i love how they hold him on the balls by making the illustration personal. Baba started stammering
"I beg for friendship"😂😂
I enjoyed watching this episode 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Never knew Daddy Wa is very diplomatic until now👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Oooooiiinnn😂😂😂❤️
Awww Debo is sweet guy, I like self-aware people.
a rare breed
I love this episode so much, Mr. macaroni🤣🤣😅😆😂😂, many of us I hope we all find that true & stable love. Anyform of cheating in a serious relationship & marriage shouldn't be accommodated, commitment should be a deliberate action not easy but if we try, it's better in this life. Interesting episode ❤❤❤👏👏👏👏
Love Debo's session so much!!
Ma'am Ifedayo has added 'dating tip prof/expert' to portfolio 😂😂😅
Dang and non-Dang members, the first 24 mins is worth rewatching till your chins turn red 🤭✨💛
👏👏👏🙌💐 Thank you Dang man for respecting your vow with your wife.
Debo answered intelligently and thank you for all the fun skits and advocacy for good governance. Take your 💐🙌
Singles, the married will always choose their spouse over you.
Ma'am Ifedayo, the man's wife may have had that conversation.
Another episode I fully watched and enjoyed.
The artwork behind is 🤎✨
Debo's outfit is very foine, ma'am Ifedayo I want Dang top, please 🙈 it's looks so beautiful on you and it will be on me.
35:44 ‘You are tough o’😂😂😂
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. I love how thorough the questions were. Ife, you are so smart. Thank you for this!
The concept of religion is the parent's responsibility for guidance; once they fail at doing so, the children wind around finding it difficult to stay true to one whether they like it or not. If you worship something that is giving you peace of mind, you will keep running to it. What you always fear will come upon you, bro, so brace up bro. Nice podcast.
I love the way ife is always direct
My Super Woman, well done... I'm only here to see your glowing face Aunty Ife☺️🤭😘🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️
The guy hasn’t seen the different in the woman until the ‘unthinkable’ happens… some women can be tricky until they’re actually in the relations. That man would have regret his action only if he went further. Kudos to him for rethinking, because most men will keep going. 🙌
🤣Ife is so funny…:she's nudging him ‘say it, say it’ 🤣
Thank you IFE for all you do ❤❤❤
I enjoyed watching this 😊
Debo is effortlessly funny and smart! Funny is 110%. Please marry at some point ya, Your wife's life will be filled with laughter! omebody's daughter somewhere deserves you!
If he’s serious he will get the right lady… you can’t be this smart and don’t know what’s right and wrong. He’s not ready yet, be careful with this kind of men o. They can drain you emotionally. 🙌
His actions of blocking her is justified to an extent because if they converse further there might be a change of heart to go through with it. Sometimes closure isn’t needed
I was just laughing all through, I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation 😅😅😅
I'm jealousing the art work small. I'm sure I saw the artist's work in blue at The Movenpick Accra. It's so nice
"It's not me o. Me, I'm a virgin"😂😂😂
Enjoying the conversation, Mr. Macaroni is so down to earth...
I love love this episode 😂😂😂
After watching this episode , i only just realized I'm the female version of Debo , as we have the exact reason for our phobia for committed romantic relationships. Definitely a trauma response. I NEED THERAPY, ASAP!
Ife likes gist ehnnnn😂😂 and I like it
Interesting perspectives, intelligent conversations!
Mr Macaroni if you can see this, try to initiate/convert this story discussed into a skit, we'd love to laugh 😊
Honestly about leaving the lady that travelled in to see him hanging and about that not being responsible, while I agree but I think at that point in time, that was the right thing for him to do at that moment. As for me o, i would have said he should type the message like Debo said about choosing my wife and all that, drop it in her dm and block her immediately. I would not wait for her to see or reply.
😆😆Debo such an interesting guy. Nice one.
@5.53.. Debo shouted.. and what came to my mind was Ah...Ki lagbe, ki la ju? See where Ife carried the matter to!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ife sounds like Morayo of TVC
The responsibility lies in all our hands
Lots of men are like Mr Makaroni. Gentle man bad boy 🙄🙄🤣🤣. An hilarious episode, I enjoy this so much and just keep laughing.
I think The reason why the guy could open up to his wife is because he knows she's matured enough to understand because its very complicated
Macaroni is a good man with a heart full of Soo much love, but Soo scared to give love and marriage a trial simply because, when he goes in, he goes alllll in...and when he gets heart broken, it's very difficult for such a person to heal..
But I also think if he eventually falls in love,he may get obsessed too
@remilekunakinyemi-qb3ri yes...and obsession is not love...He needs to work on his mind and have control of his emotions...He should be emotionally available to a point where he can shut the door on her face when she doesn't match up the energy...No matter how he feels for the person...
The woman knows he's married so getting ghosted by a married man after travelling all the way should be an eye-opener for her
I love this
You’re so smart ❤❤❤
Aww mr macaroni and I share same sch of thoughts on religion 😊
This is one hilarious episode 😅😅😅
Relationship Debo is TOXIC.😂😂😂
Ah I’m so glad that that’s the end of the story o. Let me go back to watching the video 😁
I'm happy the story did not turn out the way we expected.
Nice conversation
Ife am dark skinned like you but I love u and I love your skin I love your show too… you are beautiful.
Another cogent question is what his next steps would have been if he had gone home and for whatever reason his wife was not able/willing to have sex at that time.
His response would show true intention.
I love this artwork behind you. Please who is the artist???
Ife, the matter will still come up again from the wife. She may be an example of one who does not react immediately. Some people will need time to process all the angles of what they have heard before they react. It could take days, weeks or months before the hubby starts to see the reaction
Constant communication breeds affection. Whether male or female
Front Row seat 😊
Let's goooo
Comparism is triggered by the usually
That in some time inevitable
The ability to adjust with to owned
You will always be triggered after all ,but there should be a call back
The guy did well!!!
Lust is what makes her different. Cause his wife must have also met people that are better than him or he has also met people previously but never paid attention to them. Its cause of the 2months being away from the wife and then lust
I think what this man is facing is quite normal in marriage. One time Pastor Philip even made a post about it. Sometimes you meet people and they are like angel in human form. Awnnn cute little demon😂😂. The man did the right thing. You will have to be intentional to choose your spouse. That person that seems like heaven is just a facade. Please shun them and choose your spouse. God help us all
I'm early 😁🥳
welcome. I hope you enjoy it.
Debo no dey alright ooo😂😂😅. You need help 😂
15:08 Men are soo terrible, you don’t want a relationship but you want to keep her in a situationship where you get the boyfriend treatment with 0 commitments. See how he's admitting to it... Chaiii this isn't right...Beg for friendship RadaRada
Ife please can you reduce the time you spend conversing with the guest before the main story?? It kinda makes it hard to stay on the videos or even watch the story that carried me from Instagram.5-10 mins is cool🌚imo
The time spent conversing with the guests is good. That's what makes some of us enjoy the episodes cos it makes us understand the guests more and get to know more about them. If it's long for you, there are time stamps on the video that can help you skip to the main story that brought you from IG. My humble opinion🙏🏽
@@chinenyecharles8671💯
You are slow. What is the point of bringing these busy guest if we don't spend time knowing about them and their craft?
@@chinenyecharles8671okay dear, maybe I’ll do that. Most times I like start to finish that’s why.
@@we24lifeoh dear, looks like you’re not a member of the community because if you are you’ll understand that we respect each other
I'm early today 😂😂
Me too 😂
There are good men out there I will marry one
Love this
It's a very good gift to get married to a good man or woman! I will marry right as well by God's grace!
See Debo's fine hands na 🥰
And I ran to go focus on his hands.. especially fingers. So fine
Una don start 🌝😂😂😂
It's his emphasis on being a virgin for me, bhet why?😅😅😅
Maybe it's one of us jokes 🤣🤣
Solomon Buchi tweet😅😂
This generation, many are just faking and pretending just to get in relationships. Especially this modern ladies
You are right but how about men, is it not a generalized thing especially the men when both gender is involved?
👏👏👏👏👏
I thought he was married to Momiwa?😮
He's only 30 years old, wow wow!.
We can be friends but just know after a certain time don't call or message me, don't try to monopolise my time (if we speak more than once a week, you're lucky). Friend is friend. Talking is talking. You can't have privileges without license or permit
Ife was an actress, right?...she looks familiar
I do disagree that it’s very difficult not to cheat sha
God... When will they be paying me to go out bayi
How has the man been able to convince his wife it will never happen again? I wish them a happy marriage henceforth
It only takes Intention, fear of God and determination, if he can quit whatever he was having with the other woman so why not! Personally as a lady i feel he is a one out of 1000 especially when he has what it takes" Finances" to do it but chooses to end it before it gets out of hand.
He lacks relationship skill and not very confident. Still seems like a good guy
You’re not sure of yourself then Debo….whats your love language and what are the things you want in relationship? No perfect human being but look for the one that fear God in love. You know there are good people out there!!!
He really needs therapy. I am also like this about love before....
I'm annoyed with the guy. He cultivated that relationship and should've said something to that woman before blocking. Did she even know that he was married?? Yes, his first responsibility is to his wife BUT he cultivated this thing to the point that she bought a ticket. He prioritised thethat woman over his wife. It's hurtful. He should do better, accept responsibility and exercise accountability. The next man will likely suffer because of his actions
Mr macaroni is a Christian, he just doesn't know😂😂😂😂
🤣
Guys just don’t just know what they want…..
Guys don’t tell themselves the true, it is only few that are honest in all of these been discussed.
I think Debo needs therapy because he seems to be struggling with withdrawal issues, which can be toxic behavior.
As for the story, shey you didn't see that it's Delilah that presented herself and you almost fell for it?!! 😂 Thank God for the spirit of God in you. Kudos man 👏
Is ife married?
Because these two people look like they've got something going on.
The vibes was too good
Mr macaroni needs a therapist
Truthfully 💯
Go be friends with people that doesn't have love interest with you then.
Then don't talk anyone into a relationship with you, don't do things that would make them fall in love with you when you know you don't want to reciprocate the feeling.
Set awon "it's me, not you"
If you're not interested in relationship then stay single, don't bother mingling till you're ready 😑
Are you a Libra
Red flag 🚩 You need therapy man.
Honestly, that's not a good thing to do.
You need therapy