Im ftm. My mom accepts me, most of my siblings do too. my dad doesnt, and rubs my bio sex in my face all the time. I cant wait for pride, my brother and i are going together. Im proud to be who I am, even if it hurts to be me.
Im not trans but I'm non-binary and wear guy clothes and am always getting lectured by my mom how I should "wear pink" or "you'll have to wear a dress or skirt one day" and I really hate it I'm stuck with long hair till I'm 18 cause my parents don't support me wearing guy clothes or anything about it. They won't even let me get a normal haircut because "I'll throw a fit about not getting a pixie cut". My hair is really thick and I try to keep it short so it's not hard to deal with but now that I don't wear girl clothes at all anymore my parents say "your not getting a damn haircut until you stop wearing those boy clothes" it really suck and it doesn't help when I draw either cause when I do draw now that my hair is longer it's always smearing the ink and screwing it up. And they say "it's just a phase" and tease me about it saying "so am I gonna have a son or a daughter?". And I've heard my dad talking to my mom about a girl outside the window being a "carpet muncher" because he thought that I was listening to music with my headphones in. They are never supporting me and I already have depression and it only gets worse with school and everything at home. They are always wondering why I stay away from them in my room and never talk to them anymore too. I've tried everything and all I get is yelled at...talking with them, dealing things, everything and nothing seems to work. I need advice and help I'm what I should do because I've asked people irl and they don't understand my situation even though I explained... I just need some advice...
Just to let you know guy's with long hair put there hair back in a low ponytails! With the band about equal to the juncture of the skull and top of the neck! That should help keep your hair out of the way when drawing! Or get yourself a ball cap! You can look like a guy even with long hair if you want to! Good luck hope everything works out for you in the future! Keep the faith! You are loved! A friend from afar!
Also I'm sorry for what you're going through I hope you're in a better place now and I hope you were able to get a shorter hair cut if not then don't worry things will get better I know dysphoria can be hard but you can get through it and forget about your parents you don't need them if they won't support you then they shouldn't be in your life you'll find people who will be there for you and support you for who you are I believe in you keep on fighting you lovely enby
Save money, cut your hair, don't ask for their opinion! I also wanted to cut my hair just like you, my parents thought it would look ugly on me, they still allowed me to. The only problem was that the hairdresser didn't want to cut my hair because she also thought it would not fit me well. Now I'm trying and i won't give up until i get the look i wanted. I want to feel like myself in my body! If you need advice about anything else, I'll be glad to help because, we are in a similar situation, even tho yours is a lot worse.
@@dorkyalien5777 exactly! My dad has always been calling me fat and ugly and my youngest (i have one more sister, he also called he fat many times, but she never really cared about it) sister was perfect to him. Now I'm really insecure about my body.....
This was great! My Cousin Brittny shared it and I loved this. The world needs to realise how much time has gone by that we've excepted many other things now it's time to expect that this IS who some people are. I fully support you guys!😁✌🏼️👍🏽🐬🦄
I'm transgender as well. And its really high when someone identifies me as male. Sometimes in groceries or at the mall. Its really good to be called Sir.
1st day of school. they give me papers and in this one page it says if you have a nickname. its dany. but i put Dan. my parents had to fill in the rest info in there. i was so scared if she would she it. she called me up today and said"what do you mean by DAN?" i said oh i forgot the y sorry. she changed it in pen. i was so close to having my teacher call the name i actually wanted to be called. she said she would agree to cut my hair but if i showed her what i wanted she would deny it 100%. it sucks. i domt feel accepted
Love Laura Jane grace Such a inspiration I’m a punk rock chick threw and threw I’m mtf so I understand the struggle and agree a 100% be yourself that’s all you can be
I’m also a boy and trans. I’ve known since I was around 8 or 9. And I got pulled out of school a little while after I came out for getting bullied. So I have no friends at all. But this also means that I have no one calling me male anymore.. and it just sucks.
well the way i did it is i sat my mom down and told her. i didnt drop any hints, i was straightfoward. and her first reaction was "omg im sending u to church camp!!!1!1!1!1" but then she started to understand that this is who i am and now shes fully supportive of it
I have been looking for this song for SOOO long! I just clicked on this video because I am FTM as well and I was surprised to hear this song again but I don't know the title or artist so can you please tell me the title and artist? Thanks so much! Btw I love this video so much.
connor salinas Yeah lol it actually showed up in my recommended a few hours ago and I was like "Wait. That title sounds familiar..." and so I listened to like the first 2 seconds and I literally cried because this song has saved me from dark times. Thank you also😊
TH-cam is discriminating again not nonbinary or trans woman related topic are actually being added to my watch later. For some reason, transmasculine ones are working fine though. Can anyone seeing this try and see if this is happening to you too? It says one or more were removed because they were deleted. But this is still here.
+Confident Song how the fuck are you going to say "im not against it but you guys are mentally ill and cause too much drama" um first of fucking all, you don't know any of us so you can't really tell us about ourselves and second, it's literally a fact that everyone has a mental illness so your point is invalid
How are you supposed to tell me I don't know any of you? Because I do, and maybe that's the problem. Don't come at me because you're hurt that we all don't have the same view on what's right and wrong because I could give two fucks about whatever you're saying and it still won't ever change how I feel about it.
Im ftm. My mom accepts me, most of my siblings do too. my dad doesnt, and rubs my bio sex in my face all the time. I cant wait for pride, my brother and i are going together. Im proud to be who I am, even if it hurts to be me.
you're lucky that people except you, I'm afraid my parents will kick me out of the house
Same.
+Lord Marcus ~ Yeah..
Hi Alex - Six years have passed. I hope you're doing well and that you are happy.
aWAW a sam is adorable i wanna hold his hand
Im not trans but I'm non-binary and wear guy clothes and am always getting lectured by my mom how I should "wear pink" or "you'll have to wear a dress or skirt one day" and I really hate it I'm stuck with long hair till I'm 18 cause my parents don't support me wearing guy clothes or anything about it. They won't even let me get a normal haircut because "I'll throw a fit about not getting a pixie cut". My hair is really thick and I try to keep it short so it's not hard to deal with but now that I don't wear girl clothes at all anymore my parents say "your not getting a damn haircut until you stop wearing those boy clothes" it really suck and it doesn't help when I draw either cause when I do draw now that my hair is longer it's always smearing the ink and screwing it up. And they say "it's just a phase" and tease me about it saying "so am I gonna have a son or a daughter?". And I've heard my dad talking to my mom about a girl outside the window being a "carpet muncher" because he thought that I was listening to music with my headphones in. They are never supporting me and I already have depression and it only gets worse with school and everything at home. They are always wondering why I stay away from them in my room and never talk to them anymore too. I've tried everything and all I get is yelled at...talking with them, dealing things, everything and nothing seems to work. I need advice and help I'm what I should do because I've asked people irl and they don't understand my situation even though I explained... I just need some advice...
Just to let you know guy's with long hair put there hair back in a low ponytails! With the band about equal to the juncture of the skull and top of the neck! That should help keep your hair out of the way when drawing! Or get yourself a ball cap! You can look like a guy even with long hair if you want to!
Good luck hope everything works out for you in the future! Keep the faith! You are loved!
A friend from afar!
Actually nonbinary is a trans identity it fits under the trans umbrella so you are trans! Also I'm non binary to! You're super valid
Also I'm sorry for what you're going through I hope you're in a better place now and I hope you were able to get a shorter hair cut if not then don't worry things will get better I know dysphoria can be hard but you can get through it and forget about your parents you don't need them if they won't support you then they shouldn't be in your life you'll find people who will be there for you and support you for who you are I believe in you keep on fighting you lovely enby
Save money, cut your hair, don't ask for their opinion! I also wanted to cut my hair just like you, my parents thought it would look ugly on me, they still allowed me to. The only problem was that the hairdresser didn't want to cut my hair because she also thought it would not fit me well. Now I'm trying and i won't give up until i get the look i wanted. I want to feel like myself in my body! If you need advice about anything else, I'll be glad to help because, we are in a similar situation, even tho yours is a lot worse.
@@dorkyalien5777 exactly! My dad has always been calling me fat and ugly and my youngest (i have one more sister, he also called he fat many times, but she never really cared about it) sister was perfect to him. Now I'm really insecure about my body.....
I'm FTM :) I've been out a year in August! It's been tough but rewarding journey. I am Brennan Jacob. And I am proud
+Thea Øien yay trans guys rock
+Brennan Jacob ya we do 😊
:)
Brennan Jacob i came out in August too this year!
Isaiah Rodriguez omg twins!
The music was too loud but overall really good!!
I couldn't hear the person asking them questions at all
good thing it wasnt about the questions, it was about the answers mostly
I agree, I don't understand the answers if I can't hear the questions. Otherwise this was great! add subtitles next time maybe?
+ItsJustMe1123 subtitles would be really helpful
This was great! My Cousin Brittny shared it and I loved this. The world needs to realise how much time has gone by that we've excepted many other things now it's time to expect that this IS who some people are. I fully support you guys!😁✌🏼️👍🏽🐬🦄
thank you 💓
I'm transgender as well. And its really high when someone identifies me as male. Sometimes in groceries or at the mall. Its really good to be called Sir.
hey people im transboy ftm ive been out for a little bit my boy names Aarin Seth Houser.
but ive been trans (felt like a boy since i was about 6 or 7)
I couldnt hear sam past the music
1st day of school. they give me papers and in this one page it says if you have a nickname. its dany. but i put Dan. my parents had to fill in the rest info in there. i was so scared if she would she it. she called me up today and said"what do you mean by DAN?" i said oh i forgot the y sorry. she changed it in pen. i was so close to having my teacher call the name i actually wanted to be called. she said she would agree to cut my hair but if i showed her what i wanted she would deny it 100%. it sucks. i domt feel accepted
im sorry to hear about that friend -- I'd be happy to give you advice on your situation, my mom has been very supportive but i'll try my best!
Love Laura Jane grace Such a inspiration I’m a punk rock chick threw and threw I’m mtf so I understand the struggle and agree a 100% be yourself that’s all you can be
I’m also a boy and trans. I’ve known since I was around 8 or 9. And I got pulled out of school a little while after I came out for getting bullied. So I have no friends at all. But this also means that I have no one calling me male anymore.. and it just sucks.
I'm sorry, dude. It's been 4 years. I hope you're doing better now.
All of you guys did extraordinary.
thanks bottom ily 💞
this is great connor❤️ keep making more :---)
How did your parents take the news? Like, how did you tell them? Any advice?
well the way i did it is i sat my mom down and told her. i didnt drop any hints, i was straightfoward. and her first reaction was "omg im sending u to church camp!!!1!1!1!1" but then she started to understand that this is who i am and now shes fully supportive of it
Connor Salinas So basically just tell her directly?
+Perla rodriguez its different for everyone, but yes, be straightfoward
Connor Salinas Thank you so much :)
+GhostCanSmile i met all of mine at school tbh ive never been to church camp
I have been looking for this song for SOOO long! I just clicked on this video because I am FTM as well and I was surprised to hear this song again but I don't know the title or artist so can you please tell me the title and artist? Thanks so much! Btw I love this video so much.
PlatinumLeague Gaming its Outro by M83! But its the extended version
connor salinas Yeah lol it actually showed up in my recommended a few hours ago and I was like "Wait. That title sounds familiar..." and so I listened to like the first 2 seconds and I literally cried because this song has saved me from dark times. Thank you also😊
My parents abuse me for being me. I am a boy and everyone keeps trying to change me. Just because I’m transgender I had to move homes and shit. God.
he said a " crappy shituation"
Definitely situation
A recent study suggests that the amount of transgender people in the US is estimated to be 1.4 million (0.6%).
The music was way too loud for me then I remembered to put the left ear bud in
This was a great video I think you should get rid of the music or turn it way down
TH-cam is discriminating again not nonbinary or trans woman related topic are actually being added to my watch later. For some reason, transmasculine ones are working fine though. Can anyone seeing this try and see if this is happening to you too? It says one or more were removed because they were deleted. But this is still here.
Would be interesting to see where they are now...
700,00
England is my city
Not to be rude but the music is to loud
Sorry, but the music is a bit distracting… 😕 Hard to concentrate on the speakers’ words.
Anyone know if Kendall caves ( the third guy) has TH-cam or Instagram or anything
Rhianna Rajput i haven’t talked to kendall since this video was made so idk if she still has her channel or not
I dont think sam is ftm anymore I search them up on youtube now.
I'm ftm I've been out a few months I'm Jackson Stephen crutchfield and I love it
I relate to Sam so much. I just wish I could be myself...
BehindTheMask that sam isn’t even trans anymore
@@connorsalinas7653 oh OK. Who are they then? And how did they find out (if you feel comfortable answering) ?
Oh wait, I just realized that this person wasn't you (probably). Sorry if I came across rude
Thanks. ♥
Sam, You could be a model, you are truly beautiful ! :-)
i want to meet Sam. I am also trans FtM and my name is also Sam. But he just seems like a cool dude.
I'm from Germany and I'm Trans (ftm..)
He seems nice
When she started talking about Sam I died because I'm trans and go by Sam and my parents won't let me go by Sam at school or home 😢
I died at the very beginning
sam’s fit
Man, I'll tell you guys, damn is damn 👌👌
If you are ever interested in collabimh you should hmu
I'm therianthrophy
what if you are a boy in the right body----the body of an androdynder girl? that is what is going past you
you are cute
I don't support it but I'm not against it.
????? against what lol we're people idk what the big deal is
+Confident Song how the fuck are you going to say "im not against it but you guys are mentally ill and cause too much drama" um first of fucking all, you don't know any of us so you can't really tell us about ourselves and second, it's literally a fact that everyone has a mental illness so your point is invalid
How are you supposed to tell me I don't know any of you? Because I do, and maybe that's the problem. Don't come at me because you're hurt that we all don't have the same view on what's right and wrong because I could give two fucks about whatever you're saying and it still won't ever change how I feel about it.
+Connor Salinas 💗