FTM Outro || Transition Start To Finish

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.พ. 2020
  • My entire transition from the beginning to the end, testosterone, top surgery, bottom surgery, new birth certificate, everything.
    Follow me on Insta: / jammi.dodger

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  • @kaitlyn3920
    @kaitlyn3920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    "Hey guys."
    *"I have two balls now."*

    • @LucyMayhem943
      @LucyMayhem943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      “He’s two plums heavier!”

  • @guy_onfire
    @guy_onfire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4094

    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my girlfriend.”
    Captions:
    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my government.”

    • @goldegreen
      @goldegreen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Mayor Jamie

    • @renmei.
      @renmei. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @@goldegreen or even better, president jamie :D

    • @harlow8979
      @harlow8979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Jamie owns the government. He lost it due to a secret ploy undisclosed in media. So he lost grasp but is slowly regaining his power behind the scenes.

    • @lavender9844
      @lavender9844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Jamieland!

    • @ballpointpen7728
      @ballpointpen7728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @abby mckenzie He's a trans man, Jamie and Shabba are a happy couple.*

  • @lottawisdom50
    @lottawisdom50 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    I’m 60 yo, happily married for 30 years to the man of my life but this video made me smile and feel so happy. May your life continue to be blissful.

  • @soup331emd5
    @soup331emd5 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +215

    The way your whole demeanor changes as soon the facial hair comes in is insane. Like your skin finally fits.

    • @aayaan4779
      @aayaan4779 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's exactly it.

  • @RuthCuadrado
    @RuthCuadrado 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3952

    A few things... and i hope none are offensive:
    - he looks so much happier as a man
    - he also got super handsome.
    - love the gf!

    • @bepisguy6963
      @bepisguy6963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      None of them are offensive at all

    • @CassyBug
      @CassyBug 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      I honestly think the happiness he feels being male now adds to his handsomeness

    • @RuthCuadrado
      @RuthCuadrado 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      The Number One Myme You never know. While I love equality and gender identity gaining ground, it does scare me to death that there’s a minority really looking for any excuse to feel offended, or to use you lack of understanding of a topic to accuse you of anti trans, anti gay pr anti whatever.

    • @missKryssie93
      @missKryssie93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agree with all points!!

    • @queenfan45
      @queenfan45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      You can see his smile get wider and wider in each video, he now seems to have a permanent grin.

  • @svd8187
    @svd8187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23564

    Maybe this is odd to say - but this video to me doesn't look like a ftm transition but rather the journey of a teenage boy growing up.

    • @findingagain
      @findingagain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1531

      I can understand that. He was quite young when he started T. :) I'm always glad to be reminded that his parents were supportive!

    • @jesstv3029
      @jesstv3029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      I totally agree with this.

    • @talbrami
      @talbrami 4 ปีที่แล้ว +513

      It's kind of both

    • @themousethatroared3371
      @themousethatroared3371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

      I agree. Its like watching a grandson growing up. (I'm that old. lol)
      Love that his family was so supportive!

    • @lucaswolf8117
      @lucaswolf8117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

      I also think from the very beginning he looked more like a guy than a girl, despite the female clothing

  • @tinyluv
    @tinyluv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +423

    started crying when he kneeled down, hoping every trans person can find the love that we deserve ❤

    • @MasculineGuruu
      @MasculineGuruu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re a comedian
      Is this really that overwhelming or did getting away from god made your gay mind function at this level of stupidity?

    • @amanuelkassahun893
      @amanuelkassahun893 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      the love that you looking for is found in Jesus

    • @coda6797
      @coda6797 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@amanuelkassahun893stop it. If people want to be preached to they can go to church. Comment sections are not the place for that

    • @slavishentity6705
      @slavishentity6705 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​​@@amanuelkassahun893*in the Flying Spaghetti Monster

    • @aidensudeyko183
      @aidensudeyko183 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It was beautiful ❤ and same everyone in the community and everyone else deserves to find the love of their life.

  • @bunny6820
    @bunny6820 ปีที่แล้ว +895

    Mtf trans here, this gives me hope, and gives me realistic expectations of how long it's gonna take and of being awkward early on, thank you so much

    • @FoxofNothing
      @FoxofNothing ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Still you should know that sadly your way as trans woman will be a bid harder :/
      Even more when you started to hit puberty already
      I still wish you the best and hope you can go your way to happiness has fast as possible

    • @goddesssabrina1405
      @goddesssabrina1405 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi there! I’m also MTF trans and this video is so helpful for a realistic timeline and I love Jamie’s content. We’ll get through this together sis!

    • @shakinglikemilk6222
      @shakinglikemilk6222 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Remember, puberty in general is awkward! Plenty of cis people have an awkward phase once they go through puberty, even figuring out their style and what type of person they want to be and how they want to look like. Don't put too much on pressure on yourself

    • @thesnek7036
      @thesnek7036 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Before I knew what mtf trans was I just read it as mother frickin trans

    • @recklessstaghomestead
      @recklessstaghomestead 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Don't get bogged down with timelines and expectations. You are doing it and that is exciting. This is the beginning of the rest of your life and everything else will fall into place.

  • @concept5631
    @concept5631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4521

    Jamie: **comes out as Trans**
    Jamie's Dad: *I fail to see how this is a fucking problem.*

    • @kendallope
      @kendallope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Sobbing...very jealous. Those are gosh darn great parents, I’m so happy he has them. 😭😭😭this is beautiful

    • @fillipetheclown2343
      @fillipetheclown2343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      damn I wish

    • @Lucy-lg4so
      @Lucy-lg4so 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @shawkat zaman but Jamie doesn’t menstruate

    • @seymonmerit7309
      @seymonmerit7309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @shawkat zaman Calm down, TERF bot

    • @CainXVII
      @CainXVII 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      My mom told my dad I wanted to be a boy. He responded "having to shave is a bother."

  • @krell.1415
    @krell.1415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6013

    It's so weird seeing him pre-transition, because my brain is wondering where the beard is.

    • @justeundonut-moi.7979
      @justeundonut-moi.7979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Same 😂

    • @scofieldvictoria
      @scofieldvictoria 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      I kept wondering when the beard would come

    • @OffSatan
      @OffSatan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Your profile pic looks familiar somehow, can't quite put my finger on it though. Is it from some weeb game or something?

    • @sarafernandezfuente5168
      @sarafernandezfuente5168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      he wouldn't have beard anyway, he was just a boyy hahaha

    • @efeyzee
      @efeyzee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah and like what are those two bumps on Jamie's chest?

  • @willsolacemahsaamini8681
    @willsolacemahsaamini8681 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Many people have already said this but anyway, I can’t even think how people can ever be against this. You can see how happier and confident Jamie gets as the video progresses. His reaction to the gender recognition birth certificate was too wholesome. And the proposal 😭
    I smiled the entire video. And Shaaba stayed all the while. THIS IS TOO SWEET.

    • @Helena-ox7cr
      @Helena-ox7cr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well he is lucky because he is tall with wide body structure. Who knows perhaps he is chimera having both sexes in various places.
      But it is clear not everybody can pass even with hormone therapy. For some reason Jamie's shoulders are wider. I thought hormones can not affect the skeleton with. Hmmm.

    • @ph.level__1.486
      @ph.level__1.486 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Helena-ox7crMate, working out can widen your shoulders, just like it can alter other aspects of your body. Not to mention, testosterone changes the fat distribution and allows for muscle mass to be gained easier, which would make his shoulders wider even easier.
      Don't know if you're trying to make some kind of conspiracy, but there is none, just biology.

    • @cukka99
      @cukka99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why is anything you said relevant? What matters is that practically all trans people who desire transition are happier with transition. The fact that some are luckier than others doesn't change this. The fact that they are happier after (versus before) is all that matters (to us as outsiders). @@Helena-ox7cr

    • @ArDeeMee
      @ArDeeMee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, the sexism towards short men and tall women is real…
      Not you, op, you‘re cool.

    • @josiewagner8631
      @josiewagner8631 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Helena-ox7cryou don’t have to pass a test; (especially from a cisgender person), in order to stay out of the storm of hate under the Transgender umbrella. People like to think they are “better “ than most other animals; with rights and privileges, but for Transgender people we often are treated worse than a rabid dog.
      We don’t resort to hate or violence in general, when describing a dog.
      You never hear most people get on the floor of the Capital Building and say that we need to legislate against Poodles because they aren’t real dogs. A German Shepherd is a dog but not a Chihuahua. No we just consider them a different kind of dog. And most people give their dogs and cats the same types of surgeries that are similar to the type that are some of the first surgical treatments that we as consenting Transgender adults have done if we are considering transitioning in this binary obsessed world. We don’t perform trans surgery on children, and you don’t have to have surgery to be standing under the Trans umbrella. My only wish is that one day the storm will pass and the rainbow 🌈 is bigger and brighter than ever……

  • @lemongreed7916
    @lemongreed7916 ปีที่แล้ว +974

    I'm a hetero cis woman and I never understood trans people feelings and always wondered, did they really need transitioning? Seeing this video I know now - yes. It is beautiful. I'm so glad for you. I literally started crying when you started crying over your birth certificate. Just seeing a man become what he was always meant to be. I'm also amazed that you have such a supportive family and girlfriend. Aand I must note - I think you are lucky to be naturally tall :)

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      SILLY that is so silly

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 Yes, expression of emotion and empathy that is used to answer a question with nothing but emotion is silly! So so so silly. How could this person see the story of emotional parts in media play out behind their tears if they're crying! Truly a Bateman Moment!

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 But Jamie doesn't seem sick in the beginning, and he doesn't seem very sick while crying happily (a very deserved emotion) opening his new birth certificate legally stating him as male over eight years later. How would it make you nauseous-levels of sick?

    • @VeraEdelman
      @VeraEdelman ปีที่แล้ว

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 I legitimately have no idea what the fuck you’re trying to say

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@VeraEdelman and i the same about you

  • @user-rd8nc8gx5p
    @user-rd8nc8gx5p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16564

    Dude his girlfriend (wife) had been with him all his way, that’s amazing

    • @trude8073
      @trude8073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +747

      Indy WHY ARE YOU HERE? Fekking troll, do you search up channels just to be a douche? Do something productive with your life. Read a book or something.

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +791

      @@Indipuk lmao what the fuck does that mean? she's his GIRLFRIEND not his LESBIAN, please learn basic english if you want to act like a smartass

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +629

      @@Indipuk you can't just assume her sexuality and thoughts:
      1. she could be pansexual
      2. some people date transexuals AND still identify as heterosexuals, for them if their partner looks/acts as their preferred gender then they actually are that gender, they don't necessarily need to be born that way

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

      @@Indipuk yeah sure just go ahead and do the thinking for the whole world as you do for yourself cause that always works lmao

    • @Maya-ht9tm
      @Maya-ht9tm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +448

      @@Indipuk He literally had bottom surgery but go off I guess. Also don't speak for his girlfriend. You don't have the right to do that.

  • @laurelcook9078
    @laurelcook9078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4062

    The way your girlfriend became a kangaroo when you proposed was magical 😂

    • @acebucky3293
      @acebucky3293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Are you Aussie by any chance😂🤣

    • @siasblacktwinsister285
      @siasblacktwinsister285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      LMFAO it's so cute

    • @standardhuman8675
      @standardhuman8675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      She BOUNCE

    • @PmpknHead
      @PmpknHead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @Antonio Shaaba is beautiful you’re just an asshole 💛
      Edit: he deleted the comments, yay

    • @ummmmmmmmmmmm4293
      @ummmmmmmmmmmm4293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Antonio don't comment on people's bodies and weight, she didn't ask you

  • @thebe_stone
    @thebe_stone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    watching him getting more and more comfortable in his body with is so wholesome

  • @macatacwarrior7204
    @macatacwarrior7204 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    i broke out into a huge grin when you started talking at the 3 month update because i started to hear your iconic voice
    i’m proud of you, man

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same. I'm yet to start T but this makes me really hope that my voice would start changing soon enough after I do start. Coz I feel like it's one of the biggest parts of my own dysphoria

    • @nikumotosama4075
      @nikumotosama4075 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@markpetrov9476Well, I hope your transition goes well bro 😊 rootin for ya!

    • @cvVampria
      @cvVampria 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@markpetrov9476 Hey, how has it been for you? Did you start T already? And if so, how'd your voice evolving? ^^

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cvVampria I didn't because of the messed up laws making it even harder to get. frankly illegal for a trans diagnosis, but I had my gender marker changed so to acces it I can get a prescription as if I'm cis but have an imbalance. But I don't want to risk going on t and then having my doc suddenly backpedal. Coz y'know it's not too safe for allies. But I got hope. A bit of it at least. Got to move in with a couple trans gals and that helped with coping.

    • @jasonnicholasschwarz7788
      @jasonnicholasschwarz7788 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The voice is really amazing, he's so lucky it turned out that way, also a real Adam's apple, I don't know how he pulled that off :)) He never looked like a girl/woman to begin with, so his chances to turn out to look that great were very high from the start. And finding your soulmate on top of all that...he sure is one lucky bastard!:) When I look at the early pictures of your relationship I am getting past-life connections here. She might have been your mother in a previous life, honestly, the way she looks after you and everything. LIfe's such a miracle.

  • @simoneroets4382
    @simoneroets4382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6568

    I'm in tears. Literally. My 7 year old wanted to know why, so I showed her. She said, and I quote, "he's getting happier and happier!" I wiped my tears and said, "exactly."

    • @raaginibora
      @raaginibora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      crying

    • @persona7506
      @persona7506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      SOBBING 😭

    • @bluetsunami7057
      @bluetsunami7057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      me too...

    • @ratb4st4rd30
      @ratb4st4rd30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      awwwww so precious, she's spot on

    • @sasha9647
      @sasha9647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That’s so cute !

  • @katerineella274
    @katerineella274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4809

    I am a 67 yr old woman, I'd like to thank you for sharing your experience as it has been helpful in helping me to understand. You are a lovely person. I wish you a long happy life.

    • @alexanderengh3128
      @alexanderengh3128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Awe this is so cute

    • @prometeusz614
      @prometeusz614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @abby mckenzie No they aren't lmao

    • @wpcgg7786
      @wpcgg7786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Live long and prosper, good woman!

    • @viktor2434
      @viktor2434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      We wish a good long life too Katerine

    • @ines22LR
      @ines22LR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@prometeusz614 abby’s comment got deleted i think, what did she say?

  • @lilybliblablubb5023
    @lilybliblablubb5023 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    It's so weird seeing him in his female body, but as the video progresses, he becomes more and more himself, the one he wants to be, the one we know, and that's pretty awesome

    • @kiedisboughen5318
      @kiedisboughen5318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He still looks kinda masculine in his before pics

    • @basilishot336
      @basilishot336 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@kiedisboughen5318it just looks like him with long hair and no beard to me

    • @PostalFerretWithRum
      @PostalFerretWithRum 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "her" "she"

    • @catbunny4785
      @catbunny4785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@PostalFerretWithRumhow many people in your life actually love you?

    • @bluemushroom1763
      @bluemushroom1763 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@PostalFerretWithRum Get that stick out your butt or leave

  • @mattbosley3531
    @mattbosley3531 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I don't know exactly how a trans person feels, but as a gay male who hid behind a mask until my twenties because my parents were ultra religious and considered being gay a sin that would send you straight to hell - I think I can imagine, just a little. Being something you're not every day is difficult and painful.

    • @passionate_possum_pal
      @passionate_possum_pal ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@ahahuehafook4207 he is a man, what's a man, and will always be a man. The difference from him in the past and him now, is that he is happy living is who he truly is. He's happy in his body and he's happy in his life.

    • @jamsistired
      @jamsistired ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@ahahuehafook4207 I think you should maybe stop raining on the parade

    • @eddieworkman5855
      @eddieworkman5855 ปีที่แล้ว

      some people only get sex changes if there gay as they want to be straight

    • @dragosrandomstuff9261
      @dragosrandomstuff9261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ahahuehafook4207 how does he look like a woman
      Tell me

    • @itsjustme4848
      @itsjustme4848 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ahahuehafook4207 if you check chromosomes you’re correct. In pretty much every other way, you’re wrong.

  • @anewbeginningquinn
    @anewbeginningquinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10462

    Nobody mentionned his girlfriend? She was there from beginning to end, this is amazing. Such a loving person

    • @sweeneyteng6658
      @sweeneyteng6658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      I'm waiting for the wedding video 😁

    • @ingridarros5377
      @ingridarros5377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      True love

    • @pteroglosis
      @pteroglosis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      I'm still crying when he proposed her marriage...

    • @MelJennette
      @MelJennette 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Yeah. He’s so fortunate to have such an amazing partner standing by him through the process.

    • @skadi6750
      @skadi6750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      @WingsOfTruth Every time you are in a mood to be an asshole, you can just...choose not to be an asshole, you know?

  • @mademoisellemorte6066
    @mademoisellemorte6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3044

    Im so dumb i forgot jamie was trans and i was like woah he has a really pretty sister

    • @telecasr
      @telecasr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      HDBDGGDBDB

    • @mademoisellemorte6066
      @mademoisellemorte6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@telecasr dont judge meeeeee

    • @PmpknHead
      @PmpknHead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      When I started watching I had no idea he was trans, I didn’t know until it was said

    • @meloskillotorres1868
      @meloskillotorres1868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow

    • @sane4493
      @sane4493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol

  • @inkycreeper250
    @inkycreeper250 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Im a transmasc, and since I’m still dependent on my parents and living in a *rather* not lgbtq friendly environment, sometimes somethings in life really discourages me. There’s even times where im actually feeling pretty hopeless. This video really inspired me, really. It’s always these types of videos and stuff that gives me hope and encourages me to keep going and fighting for a brighter future. Thank you, Jamie.

  • @KatCrunch13
    @KatCrunch13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Its so cool to hear his voice become more and more like yhe one we hear now. So happy for him!

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @user-vw1yz3cb3l "the trans agenda" I'm not even gonna read that shit just by those three words alone

  • @soumiu.8264
    @soumiu.8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +592

    Bro can we just agree how damn handsome he is????

  • @nonymouswisp8176
    @nonymouswisp8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3334

    This is just a montage of a man becoming happier and happier
    Edit: I see all of you transphobes in the replies and yes this is partially bait

    • @nas8326
      @nas8326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      A man lol

    • @nas8326
      @nas8326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Only_Rory lol*

    • @so7iakunkun960
      @so7iakunkun960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@nas8326 yes because he is a man

    • @Bph-sv9mb
      @Bph-sv9mb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ikr

    • @Bph-sv9mb
      @Bph-sv9mb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@nas8326 yes? a man

  • @kathryn939
    @kathryn939 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The tears of opening the new birth certificate were immediately contagious, and then the outro mirroring the style of the intro?? No hope, I am a puddle of tears

  • @NeroAlexander28
    @NeroAlexander28 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am a Cis gay man that had no fucking idea what it is to be Trans, so what am going with this is I want to thank you and Shaaba from the bottom of my heart for sharing this journey. I personally have learned so much, still have ways to go I feel very ignorant in a lot of stuff when it comes to my own community (Queer) But watching this video made me cry from joy and I am so truly happy for you both. Wish you two all the best and thank you!

  • @shiruki8974
    @shiruki8974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4845

    I think it's safe to say we all cried at the certificate part

  • @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED
    @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3091

    I will find it hard to believe someone can still be transphobic after watching this

    • @KatherineSinahon
      @KatherineSinahon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      i knowww like why do some people actively choose to deny other people their happiness?? :(

    • @RBelmont007
      @RBelmont007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@seaofgeese they're definitely doing it wrong. I'm not entirely happy with my own life, but it's so uplifting and delightful seeing someone in such a state of overwhelming joy. There's enough we have to deal with in our personal lives, we shouldn't be trying to bring others down with us. Hopefully they learn that, and overcome their hate.

    • @izzebreezy1554
      @izzebreezy1554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I love that he also found a love so quickly made me so happy

    • @cozmicfreak
      @cozmicfreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      IKKK

    • @pungetello
      @pungetello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Heres how: after watching this, even after Jamie's tears of joy and such, i still have the feeling that there is something so 'wrong' about this.. sorry i can't give more detail. It just seems so messed up to me still, no matter how much its painted like an inspirational journey of self actualization.

  • @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke
    @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I am so happy that you have been allowed to be who you are. I wish you happiness, health, wealth and safety for life!

  • @m68lanc
    @m68lanc ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I’m a foster carer and we need to be prepared to support our young people as they go through so many stages of self discovery, your story has helped me get a better understanding of something I honestly found difficult to connect with. I know your transition story will help me better support a young person who is dealing with the same thing, thank you for opening my mind and hopefully making me a better foster carer.

  • @RolandReaves
    @RolandReaves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1119

    The fact that I'm not seeing as many hate comments really makes me happy, I'm glad society is more accepting now.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Zara Gupta I feel so bad for you.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nice copy-paste by the way

    • @Mlpzeldafan011100
      @Mlpzeldafan011100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@RolandReaves I like how this fuck also mentions him having functioning breasts and ovaries. Like this isn't a video that specifically shows the surgeries in which those were removed. Hopefully he gets banned or whatever, so we can go back to good vibes

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bienemats Ikr

    • @amelieweatherill9615
      @amelieweatherill9615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Zara Gupta shut he doesn't even have those things

  • @sammiemicheals474
    @sammiemicheals474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1940

    My boyfriend just took his first dose of T today. I am overwhelmed with gratitude to be alive, loving him, with all these resources and all these amazing people by our side. We've been crying all day, he is bright and perfect

    • @Acetronomy
      @Acetronomy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I know this comment was 3 weeks ago, but I gotta say I'm so proud of him, and you for being so supportive. I can imagine that first day is probably one of the happiest days of a trans persons life!

    • @sammiemicheals474
      @sammiemicheals474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@Acetronomy Thank you so much for your comment!! ❤️ One month on T, yesterday! Every little change is beautiful and watching him become more comfortable as the days pass are a true blessing!!

    • @VixAnathem
      @VixAnathem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I had just managed to stop crying from the video and your comment reopened the floodgates! Damn you wholesome stranger! Congratulations

    • @ceceliakittyface5301
      @ceceliakittyface5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I felt the exact same way when my ex/best friend got his first dose. Sent me a pic and I was so happy for him ❤️

    • @lmaolini
      @lmaolini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wish you all the best♥️

  • @danikati4u2
    @danikati4u2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I am a trans woman. And this had me intears. I love your videos and seeing your journey in the pursuit of happiness brough upon such trans joy.
    Thank you for being you. 🩷

  • @luciefhirr7421
    @luciefhirr7421 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love how even when you were a “girl” you had a handsome boyish face you hit the genetic lottery for an FTM

  • @espen990
    @espen990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5836

    I'm a cis guy and I can't relate to your experience, but watching your journey and seeing how much it means to you makes me so grateful that we live in a world where this is possible, and I wish every trans person can one day become their true selves. When you got your new birth certificate I couldn't help but cry together with you.

    • @saragarofano9727
      @saragarofano9727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Precious comment

    • @espen990
      @espen990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss I'm a cis guy since I identify as male and was assigned male at birth. Jamie is a trans guy since he identifies as male but was assigned female at birth.

    • @espen990
      @espen990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss Being virtuous takes some effort, Jizz Boss.

    • @jakethereaper8899
      @jakethereaper8899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss cisgender is an actual gender, look it up

    • @tarshil2020
      @tarshil2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss nothing more boring than an uninformed ignorant fool and his worthless unproductive thoughts. In short, you.

  • @idkwhattoputhere5578
    @idkwhattoputhere5578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

    When he proposed, everyone liked that

    • @jordanjoy9040
      @jordanjoy9040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she..not he...

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@jordanjoy9040 let’s play would you rather! :D would you rather educate yourself or keep your goddamn mouth shut?

    • @amywonderland9297
      @amywonderland9297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@jordanjoy9040 Why are you here if you're just going to do shit like this? That's just cruel! You've actively searched for this kind of video just to use the wrong pronouns? What? Nothing good on telly, so you thought being a dick on someone's very inspiring, brave and wonderful journey was a better use of your time? On behalf of everyone here, Fuck off.

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bmw_m4255 lol

    • @ja97417
      @ja97417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not me

  • @wikihowtobreathe
    @wikihowtobreathe ปีที่แล้ว +30

    "Feeling complete". Jamie, this is such a wonderful thing to hear, it literally brought tears to my eyes. It's so complicated to feel complete, just in general, but you feel complete, you're confident in your identity, you can move on. I can't explain how touching this is for me to hear. I discovered your channel today and ended up scrolling through your videos, until I stopped by this one. How I wish everyone in the world could understand how mesmerizing this is. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love from your new subscriber 🤍

  • @therabiesfairy
    @therabiesfairy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    i just ordered my first binder and my friend sent me this. gonna cry now. so happy for you Jamie. i wanna be like you.

    • @comic--sans
      @comic--sans 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @user-dz9eg4bx8q This is really disturbing. Please go away.

  • @armita1501
    @armita1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2827

    That girl is a KEEPER. she was there for him from start to finish. honestly goals

    • @jhowardsupporter
      @jhowardsupporter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thats a HE. They are men trapped in womens bodies so prefer to be referred to as men.
      EDIT: I've never gotten this many likes before. Thank you so much.

    • @armita1501
      @armita1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      @@jhowardsupporter I was talking about his girlfriend lol

    • @sophiedallariva5006
      @sophiedallariva5006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      GasoLINA INK! They were talking about the girlfriend

    • @HypnoticPsychic87
      @HypnoticPsychic87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jhowardsupporter The girlfriend wants to be a he as well?

    • @rajab4187
      @rajab4187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Him or her

  • @EloLeChan
    @EloLeChan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1630

    God, when he looks up from his certificate, all teary-eyed, and then he smiles and quietly goes "...male"
    That hit me so damn hard-
    Jammi my feeling aaaa

    • @user-hp9is2el7r
      @user-hp9is2el7r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Zara Gupta shut up

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Zara Gupta The fact is that you are not a woman because you have female chromosomes and / or female genitalia. The difference between gender and sex is not very clear to you. Gender is not physical, he is a boy, despite not having been born with male genitalia. If you don't agree, shut up, he went through a big fight, don't be disrespectful.

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Zara Gupta murder on my mind

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 well said.
      Zara Gupta is making me want to end my existence being transphobic in every single sub-comment. How much time does she have on her hands 😭💀

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Lena-xl3ph Thanks, and yeah, I don't understand why people keep thinking like that... Also, hope u are okay 💖

  • @justarandomguy3109
    @justarandomguy3109 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    as a trans guy who is really considering getting hrt when i can afford it, yet a little apprehensive about its effects- this video means a whole lot to me. actually teared up when you got your new birth certificate as well. it was a rather bittersweet feeling seeing your parents being so supportive, but i feel only joy seeing you finally becoming the you of today. amazing video, man, i wish you the best life there is.
    also as someone who always has SO MUCH envy towards the male singers i like, that voice drop is heavenly lolol

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3l your mom

    • @toolio5268
      @toolio5268 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3lDoctors monitor dosage smart guy. All medications have side effects and if it’s a substantial risk then they either adjust the dosage or take you off them if it’s bad enough.

    • @justarandomguy3109
      @justarandomguy3109 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3l why kind stranger, thank you for taking the time to care about my health! i definitely consider the benefits to outweight the risks, so i will still consider it a choice without regrets. bye!

  • @kris_dreemurr8264
    @kris_dreemurr8264 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    as a trans person (ftm), watching this made me so hopeful that I could also be able to feel comfortable in my body. The moment the birth certificate was pulled out I started crying so hard and i cant tell you how happy it makes me to see the journey as a whole. Thank you so much Jamie, this has made my day so much better

  • @cupofbees9413
    @cupofbees9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1917

    Everyone in the comments is talking about crying once he got the birth certificate and i thought i wouldn’t cry. Guess who’s sobbing

    • @sketchysim5351
      @sketchysim5351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Let's sob together

    • @mkcomet
      @mkcomet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The same happened to me

    • @sarii_p1697
      @sarii_p1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well I rarely cry but this almost got me

    • @confusedturtle183
      @confusedturtle183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haven't cried in 7 years. EZ

    • @cupofbees9413
      @cupofbees9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      StarsAligned RIGHT!

  • @carsoogie
    @carsoogie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1111

    i lost it at "i now have two balls. i have balls."
    but seriously, congrats man. wishing you love and all the best!!

    • @tupespa
      @tupespa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      samee 💀

  • @grean566
    @grean566 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm ftm and haven't gotten testosterone or any surgeries yet and this made me sob. I can't wait to finally be who I am. Thank you for sharing. You have no idea what what this means to me

    • @juliuspearson9390
      @juliuspearson9390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hey good luck :) i remember being u years ago and now im here, ull get there one day too

  • @Mezzy..
    @Mezzy.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    "He's two plums heavier" 😂😂 She's amazing

  • @sillystringeater
    @sillystringeater 3 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    I never never cry but.. when he started crying and said "male.." in the birth certificate bro I started tearing up

    • @viva8606
      @viva8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro

    • @Jubilee213
      @Jubilee213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely.

  • @BlackFlagHeathen
    @BlackFlagHeathen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Shaaba stuck by him this WHOLE time. That is true love. These two are clearly soulmates/twin flames. ❤️🔥🔥❤️
    As a currently single hopeless romantic, I’m very jealous of Jamie, he is SO lucky to have Shaaba. I’m not even trans, but this made me so happy to watch. Congrats on your transition going so well, Jamie! 🥳❤️🏳️‍⚧️

    • @cottencandykitten
      @cottencandykitten ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shaaba is just amazing. They both have gone through such an epic journey.

  • @fa3ry_du5t
    @fa3ry_du5t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a mtf teen whose currently going through my first puberty, the things with the hair being everywhere is normal for amab people as well. I'm only 14 and I already have hair everywhere on my body and I know it's gonna be a lot more by the time I'm 18.
    This video has inspired me to make my own trans intro and outro.
    I hope mine is as beautiful as yours.
    Your photo a day timelapse inspired my ftm friends to start his own from 2-3 years before testosterone (he started on Sept 14th, his 16th birthday)
    Congrats on 11 years on T, cheers to another 11

    • @how_about_naw
      @how_about_naw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @nitzanshu4695
      @nitzanshu4695 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im a bit late so I'll just ask how's it going currently?

    • @fa3ry_du5t
      @fa3ry_du5t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nitzanshu4695 well he's still taking photos and I'm making monthly videos
      Planning on coming out to my parents and starting hrt at 19

  • @jaygordon7613
    @jaygordon7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +881

    I'm so happy for Jammidodger. From the time I was a child, I knew that I didn't 'feel like a girl', though born with female genitalia. Having been born in 1956, nothing was really known about being transgender, and most adults believed it was 'just a phase' for a girl 'being a tomboy'. As a very young child, my mother insisted on dressing me in frilly dresses and patent leather shoes. I was told to sit quietly while my brother and cousins were outdoors being rambunctious during family holiday visits, and I loathed it. As soon as focus was redirected, I was off sneaking some of my brother's jeans and a tee and tennis shoes, dressing in them, putting my head under the faucet to straighten out the curls, and outside playing, and it always brought me a world of hurt when the relatives went home.
    Dress code at school was dresses or skirts and blouses for girls, with no exception. I was thrilled when preparing to start high school because the dress codes loosened, and I could finally wear jeans or cords to school. I still had to wear a dress or skirt on Sundays, because the Mormon church requires it for girls and women. How I envied my brothers their suits and ties, or even slacks, white button down shirts and ties. And the Mormons are extremely non supportive of LGBTQ or non binary people. I did what I was pretty much forced to do, under the circumstances of when and how I was raised, and I married a man when I was 24 years old, and gave birth to a son. I've remained married, and my husband and son both know who I am, and how I am. I've lived a lie for decades, but I do love them both and would never leave them. And so I've never been able to live my authentic life.
    I'm filled with pride and happiness for every Trans person who moved heaven and earth to achieve their dream, to be who they were. Whoever you are out there, I love you and support you, and rejoice in your happiness and successes, and weep when so many people are cruel, vindictive, and dismissive.

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @abby mckenzie Jamie is bi and so is shaaba and Jamie is a man

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @shawkat zaman Nope. Menstruation isnt exclusive to women. And not all women menstruate

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Antonio Aight? And plenty of AFAB people cannot menstruate. Idk what your point is

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Antonio Fertile female*. Are you a doctor?

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @Antonio Neither of them are lesbians

  • @fairy5668
    @fairy5668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1005

    AHHH SOMEONE MUST HAVE CUT ONIONS WHEN JAMIE OPENED THE ENVELOPE BC I CANNOT CONTROL MY TEARS

    • @ballsosaurus_sex
      @ballsosaurus_sex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Those damn onion cutting ninjas!

    • @francesatty7022
      @francesatty7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      jamie: starts crying
      me: starts crying

    • @henessy.-.45
      @henessy.-.45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same.. And Im not easily emotional

    • @MintMaxer
      @MintMaxer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It was me, i was cutting the onions

    • @fairy5668
      @fairy5668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MintMaxer LMAO ty for fessing up

  • @marklothrop
    @marklothrop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hey, as a gay man (I'm now 44) I am struggling with my identity.
    I want to express that I'm grateful to have been a part of your journey, at least in a video.
    You know, I have an immense amount of fears: 1) Coming out. 2) Who am I? 3) How do I want to be addressed? 4) Will I find a fitting community?"
    I know I need to take my time, and this is a process of self-discovery.
    Thank you for encouraging me, to stay strong.

    • @DustyKeyboardahh
      @DustyKeyboardahh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You can ask the opinion of the people you wanna come out to and decide if you wanna come out of not, and if you are having gender related identity problems you can try going under different pronouns and gender labels. Hope this helps!

    • @samhein321
      @samhein321 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      1. Coming out doesn't change who you were before
      2. You are the same as before
      3. addressed as? like as mr. gay? what you on about...
      4. fitting community? join any community you like, model trains or art, doesnt need to be lqbt community, some gays dont even like those ones

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@samhein321 your mom

  • @elainebelzDetroit
    @elainebelzDetroit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You're amazing - not a lot of people would put themselves out there like this (wrt many personal or vulnerable things, not just transitioning). I'm so, so happy for you (even though this is an older video). It's such an incredible gift that you're able to share this - a lot of people will benefit - have benefitted, I'm sure. As an ally, thank you!

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1858

    My son is trans and even just registering him as his proper gender in high school made such an enormous impact. He is a different kid. I am so happy that you are finally where you want to be 100% including the birth certificate. Bravo to you sir. As E.E. Cummings wrote - it takes a lot of courage to grow up and become who you really are.

    • @slushu_6865
      @slushu_6865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Your son is so lucky to have a parent like you!

    • @SandiByrd
      @SandiByrd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@slushu_6865 Thank you very much for that. I can also say I am so lucky to have a teen like my son

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Zara Gupta she never said her son was into women though

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Zara Gupta also from what I understand ur transphobic, so no hate, you do you, but I was just wondering why do you have a problem with people being happy and how does it affect u in any way?

    • @dasharooisthebest4162
      @dasharooisthebest4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Can you please be my parent 🥺? My mom's super transphobic 😔

  • @anastasia.00
    @anastasia.00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +995

    When he started crying because of the birth certificate 😭😭 I'm so so happy for you!

    • @kellyriddell5014
      @kellyriddell5014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      He seems so sweet. I'm so glad he's happy. Also he and his girlfriend (or wife, not actually sure if they've gotten married yet) seem wonderful for each other.

  • @alexhehim7783
    @alexhehim7783 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm gonna download this vid so anytime I feel down or depressed, I will keep on living to have my real person to come out and live a happy life, your an example for me, a teenager ftm who is full of dysphoria
    when I saw the parts where your family comes in, I started crying because my relationship with my parents is really complicated, but seeing your journey made me feel so happy for you
    thank you for standing up for who you are and encouraging us to keep our heads up and be ourselves with proud.
    I can't wait to experience this happiness, congratulations for who you are and for this beautiful family 💖

  • @annal3708
    @annal3708 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just realised that I hadn’t expressed enough how your video makes me feel or what it means to me and then I realised that there is no words that could ever do so. Your happy-tears makes me cry too and I have no way of expressing my gratitude that you want to share with us! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @boredweegie553
    @boredweegie553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    My son is FTM and has same boyfriend for 7 years now..From way before...So proud of him ♥️well done you too 👌♥️

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Elaine, your son is lucky. That kind of support doesn't come along too often.

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @Zara Gupta you're an idiot...thanks for sharing

    • @user-en2hu6wp7p
      @user-en2hu6wp7p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @Zara Gupta fuck you, *he* is not elaines daughter *he* is elaines son.

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Zara Gupta Jeez what's your problem?

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You look good Btw

  • @normalhuman1368
    @normalhuman1368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3169

    You can literally see how he gets happier and happier over the years and it's freaking amazing to watch.

    • @kaded_cat
      @kaded_cat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know 😭😭😭

    • @ladymopar2024
      @ladymopar2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its great 😊

    • @stonksboi69
      @stonksboi69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr!!!

    • @loopyfrog
      @loopyfrog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THIS!

    • @foxxomusicofficial
      @foxxomusicofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Normal Human and people think it’s bad for trans people to transition

  • @Summer-isnotcool
    @Summer-isnotcool 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is such a feel-good video for me. Like, literally, I sometimes re-watch this when I'm having a bad day. It makes me so happy to watch Jamie become more and more confident and happy at every step. He's such a great guy and I'm so happy for him and I'm so grateful to be living in a world where we can make this happen. ❤

  • @pembrokelove
    @pembrokelove ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been watching you for only a year or so, and this just came up in my suggested feed. It is amazing to see the difference in your confidence and joy from those first few pictures and videos to where you are today. Congratulations all around, and I'm so happy that you live in a place that allows you to flourish so fully.

  • @oscarvasquez5431
    @oscarvasquez5431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3498

    My kid is going on testosterone by the end of the month and I looked to see what to expect. Thank you for sharing as I help and support my son.

    • @porcelaincats86
      @porcelaincats86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +285

      You're a great parent :)

    • @saturn___
      @saturn___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      your such a good parent, tell him i said congrats :]

    • @greego5952
      @greego5952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @TheSnailestOfThemAll I only stated my opinion and I am not saying that their decisions were wrong.

    • @ashtr333
      @ashtr333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      you’re a great parent :)

    • @odette5031
      @odette5031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@greego5952 you can’t go on T if you’re underage, get your facts right before you comment

  • @sammichbread
    @sammichbread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1495

    "my name is... jamie"
    the hesitation... i felt that... for me it's like "t..this is my name but am i allowed to call myself that"

    • @nicholasrobertson4200
      @nicholasrobertson4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I feel that. I only just came out to the world on Wednesday, and yesterday I introduced myself as Nick for the first time, and while it felt amazing, it also felt like I shouldn't call myself that yet. I don't know. It was weird.

    • @lucamorgi8064
      @lucamorgi8064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I felt that. The first time introducing myself as Luca I was so excited

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nicholasrobertson4200 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lucamorgi8064 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @sammichbread
      @sammichbread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      congratulations luca & nick!!! :D
      i came out to my mom last year but it kind of feels like she's just shoved me back into the closet tbh ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @chickenpants
    @chickenpants ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The honesty here is beautiful. The joy that shone out from you when you said,'This is my T Day.', was amazing. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @fallforever8967
    @fallforever8967 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Holy shit this was amazing. I just started crying at the end, completely unexpectedly! Congratulations Jamie, I'm so happy for you and your incredible journey towards your true self.

  • @focuseagle6874
    @focuseagle6874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2388

    When he asked his girlfriend to marry him it looked so much like a Sims 3 proposal 😅😂

    • @chitram6926
      @chitram6926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LMAO you're right 😂😂

    • @teddy6488
      @teddy6488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LMAOOOOOOOOO

    • @nassimbaaziz
      @nassimbaaziz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *When she asked her girlfriend

    • @lorenaa_h
      @lorenaa_h 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      nassim baaziz the first comment didn’t need any corrections. if you’re going to be transphobic and bring hate to such a wholesome and important video, leave

    • @Marijuanies
      @Marijuanies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      nassim baaziz let me guess, you’re lonely and single

  • @allissondiego1989
    @allissondiego1989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7471

    I know nothing about gender transition, I Just want to see people happy. This video brings me joy.
    Edit: Guys, it's been many years since I posted this comment. Today I know a thing or two about gender transition and I don't support any irreversible procedure like puberty blockers or surgergy. Especially in minors. I still want people to be happy like before.

    • @AvitalShtap
      @AvitalShtap 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Allisson Diego Awww ILY allisson!!

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      If you wanna know more I can give insight.
      You see, trans people suffer from gender dysphoria, the only way to calm it is to transition to their prefered gender. So basically, transitions cure their dysphoria (not fully but so much of it) so in short, they become much more happier when they transition

    • @user-js6yx2fw1c
      @user-js6yx2fw1c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@vixymix101 dysphoria must be treated psychologically/psychiatrically at first, but under the pressure of lobbyists and pharmaceutical companies, who having billions of dollars for selling meds & operations the process of getting those ridiculously simplified. Why nobody cures people with suicidal thoughts by just letting them commit one? Because it won't solve the main problem . Gender is enormously fluid concept and building anything on it, especially in society, where gender roles, sexism, misogyny are still everywhere is literally dangerous and destructive, especially when definition of gender changes by the needs of those, who have profit

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      @@user-js6yx2fw1c if you'd actually bother to know the only way to properly fix the issue is to work to get a body you are comfortable in.

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The suicide rate is over the top. Often, the changes are not working well and complications prevail. They do it because it is available and actually now, it is also " fashionable ". Years ago, girls who thought they wanted to be guys, were labeled "tomboys" ; they got over it, when their natural hormones kicked in. We had one cute little lesbian girl who decided she was going through the change. She did the testosterone, cut her breasts and had an hysterectomy. Nothing below. She/He became unreliable, as he could not show up for work, on time but made excuses about some personal issues. By then he was visibly a guy, with lots of tattoos , whiskers and a deep voice. He got hooked on hard drugs and died, crossing a busy street. We do not know if it was suicide or just confusion. He was a mess ! Why did he not stay a girl with the homosexual tendencies ? We did not care, as we loved him either way. It is OK to be gay ! I see a phobia with transgenders who would prefer to be seen as " normal ", so they may actually be homophobes, we enable to make such radical changes. The surgeons make money......Hospitals make money. So, we go full speed ahead. Destroy functioning body parts for dubious results and see how far we can go with this, when people are dying of starvation, somewhere on the planet, not having enough food to survive. Here, we worry about complying with the issue of expandable sexual identity. Is that off the chart ? Priorities in the wrong places.

  • @evecory8946
    @evecory8946 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Jamie, I just wanted to say that I am a new follower to your channel. Ive been watching your recent videos and I must say this one has been the most wholesome for me. This brings me such joy to watch your journey and to see how far you've come. I'm so happy for you and wish you so much love. All the best to you and Shaama! 💗

  • @elimccumpsey
    @elimccumpsey ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved seeing you blossom and your confidence explode. We love you Jamie, keep making awesome videos.

  • @18937charlotte
    @18937charlotte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1231

    This honestly had me in tears. As a cisgender woman, I can only imagine how horrible it must be to feel like you were born or straight up being born in the wrong gender, especially in this society. The journey taking so long and entailing so many difficult procedures must have filled you with despair on the way from time to time, and I am baffled at your strength! And that makes it all the more beautiful and amazing how well your transition has turned out! You look amazing, brother!

    • @yusufgazi7
      @yusufgazi7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can cis men take testosterone?

    • @felix121984
      @felix121984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are not female ! You are male period !

    • @PavementRyan
      @PavementRyan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Especially if your parents are religious and are extremely transphobic and you’re in deep gender dysphoria

    • @annaquattlebaum3415
      @annaquattlebaum3415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      felix121984 who are u talking to bruh

    • @mr_sugas_fire3015
      @mr_sugas_fire3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Anna Quattlebaum
      Lmao i dont think they know what cisgender means 😂😂😂

  • @sobennison7344
    @sobennison7344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5704

    No one:
    Jammie: I am going to make everyone cry their eyes out.

    • @youdonthavetoknow5265
      @youdonthavetoknow5265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yep... literally cried my eyes out... thanks Jammi...

    • @burreal9916
      @burreal9916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Why am I cryin in the club rn

    • @Livikyu
      @Livikyu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      *passes tissues around*

    • @IPONJ
      @IPONJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mission accomplished.

    • @sloan7503
      @sloan7503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Needless Pictures I KNOW RIGHT 😭😭😭😭

  • @C.O._Jones
    @C.O._Jones ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You seem so much more comfortable in your own skin since transitioning, and you’re a very handsome man.

    • @mor1604
      @mor1604 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Boss Intrepid Man

    • @someautisticguy5406
      @someautisticguy5406 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Boss Intrepid stop lying to yourself, he’s a man.

    • @sannegodijn301
      @sannegodijn301 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@Boss Intrepid man

  • @naimanicholson-lovejoy2725
    @naimanicholson-lovejoy2725 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so proud of you! I'm just overjoyed that you are happy! Thank you for being present and visible. So many people need you and your story. Big hugs from Iowa - USA!

  • @roy_theruler8132
    @roy_theruler8132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +758

    Bro, this isn’t just a transition video, this is a damn glow up vid too!! So happy for you!

    • @rhodoraescalona6441
      @rhodoraescalona6441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah

    • @nageen.
      @nageen. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @no name no name *he, and he is a bro. get your transphobia outta here

    • @selma7452
      @selma7452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @no name no name He is a man and if you don’t respect that than get your transphobic ass out of here :)

    • @lilithic6337
      @lilithic6337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @no name no name do you have a kink or smt for embarrassing yourself like that

    • @roy_theruler8132
      @roy_theruler8132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rameenmujtaba9752 Yes yes it is, because she is a queen

  • @chaosnoelle
    @chaosnoelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    My brother is trans. I feel so sad for him when I see all these transitions on TH-cam. His psychologist ruined everything for him, and now he is unable to get testosterone and so there's no hope for surgery. He is an adult now and still looks so young. I know how much it tears on his self esteem that he has no facial hair and still has to deal with his feminine features. I will never lose hope he will one day get approved for testosterone..

    • @majcios-zt5ci
      @majcios-zt5ci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I hope that he will stay strong and get better one day

    • @plestrange511
      @plestrange511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Wishing him the best & he's lucky to have such a supportive sibling!

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I know this might be overstepping boundaries but I was wondering how did his psychologist mess it up for him

    • @chaosnoelle
      @chaosnoelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      @@vanessawestbrook9846 It's alright :) Going to a psychologist is the first step to your transition (at least where I live) because they have to judge wether you are 'actually trans' or not. If they decide you cannot transition, that's the end of your journey for then. Without the 'Go' from a psychologist, you can't get access to hormone therapy.
      My brothers psychologist didn't understand that he needed time to open up, so she instead decided that he was not cooperative and judged him based on the fact he didn't talk much in the first sessions. She was a dick to him and denied him access to testosterone.
      Now, my brother is so discouraged he hasn't tried again... And it's harder to get approval for Testosterone after you already got a 'no'.

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@chaosnoelle I hope he doesn't get discouraged and that he finds a better psychologist hopefully one day he'll get testosterone wishing him the best

  • @chriscatton705
    @chriscatton705 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    what a COOOL video! you're amazing, Jammi. So happy for you and your successful journey!

  • @ryntaylor7129
    @ryntaylor7129 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dude, I cried with you when you got your birth certificate! I love that you made this video! And I also love your wife for being there for you through everything! You guys are amazing! I love your videos!!

  • @user-xu4kp3dc2x
    @user-xu4kp3dc2x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1096

    The ninjas are cutting onions again.

  • @DJDNDK
    @DJDNDK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +876

    After creeping thru the comments, i have concluded that the haters manifest themselves in the replies more than in the actual comments.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      because they're too much of wusses to have their shitty opinions that easy to find.

    • @mollytovxx4181
      @mollytovxx4181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@Tendo641 Nah I think they are hijacking popular comments because their terrible opinions don't get boosted by enough likes to be seen on their own.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@mollytovxx4181 that does sound more plausible, actually.

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      SCREW YOU... just kidding :))

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I definitely agree though.

  • @riaannesimoens
    @riaannesimoens ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It is very touching to see you get happier and happier with each video. You can really see you grow into your true self. Thank you so much for sharing this!

  • @LouxNUH
    @LouxNUH ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't even describe the feels I have watching your confidence about yourself jus blossom. so so so happy for you Jamie ♥️♥️

  • @existenceispain_geekthesiren
    @existenceispain_geekthesiren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1926

    I’m
    I’m crying
    No kidding
    This is amazing
    I’m a cisgender woman, but this is probably one of the most joyful things I’ve seen

    • @rcps3166
      @rcps3166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What is cisgender.
      -from a bisexual niebour:)

    • @existenceispain_geekthesiren
      @existenceispain_geekthesiren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Raquel Perez Straight but with gender. You’re a girl (or a boy), you’ve always been a girl (/boy), mentally and physically, no confusion. Hope this helps :)

    • @rcps3166
      @rcps3166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@existenceispain_geekthesiren oh thanks it did

    • @telecasr
      @telecasr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Raquel Perez Being not trans or starting the gender you were at birth

    • @cozmicfreak
      @cozmicfreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      IM CRYING SM TOO

  • @KANGAXRUU
    @KANGAXRUU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    i keep saying “aww” every 2 seconds

    • @KANGAXRUU
      @KANGAXRUU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      now im crying

    • @mrdedenne9714
      @mrdedenne9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I thought you wrote "eww" and i was prepared to throw hands

  • @herrbeschwerde5051
    @herrbeschwerde5051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this literally moved me to tears. You’re the sweetest :) I’m so happy for you.

  • @iggystardustt6943
    @iggystardustt6943 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been following since very early on in your transition, and I just want to say thank you. Not only did following your transition lead me to recognize my own gender identity, allowing me to transition into a happier and more confident version of myself. But being so open about your journey has given me and so many others realistic goals and expectations about medical and social transition, as well as the insight needed to make informed decisions about our own transitions. All this to say, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for giving others the confidence to be themselves by having the confidence to be yourself.

  • @RalphCahill
    @RalphCahill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    I'm not crying. You're crying. Okay... we're both crying.

  • @mjcoteco7781
    @mjcoteco7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    Imagine not knowing a person but still crying over their joy because you've been watching them so long. The internet is weird.

    • @heroofpots4428
      @heroofpots4428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Marina Coteco that’s what jamie’s video’s’ll do to ya lol. He’s such a compassionate person the empathy just wears off on everyone

  • @MatthewDonovanAU
    @MatthewDonovanAU ปีที่แล้ว +154

    This is so beautiful.
    You are beautiful.
    Thanks for your openness and bravery you gorgeous person.
    I know you’ve made a difference ❤

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no

    • @sangitaraj7666
      @sangitaraj7666 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@shanen28 😐

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sangitaraj7666 she wasted her beauty nothing good about that.

    • @Izzy-wl7gl
      @Izzy-wl7gl ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@shanen28 I don't think he cares what you think about his appearance, he's happily married and many people disagree with you

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Izzy-wl7gl she’s a woman woman woman ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @philopharynx7910
    @philopharynx7910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. This is an amazing video. I'm going to suggest it to people exploring transitioning (on top of your channel in general). Seeing how much this brings out the real you over time is amazing. Thank you for revealing something so deeply personal. As well as just being a really excellent human being. Much love back to you!

  • @markharrisllb
    @markharrisllb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    I’m an old straight cis northern male and I was damn near in tears when you got your birth certificate.

    • @chimav
      @chimav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      we need more man like you, thank you

    • @mettapeachhead2076
      @mettapeachhead2076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Zara Gupta My brain hurts reading that

    • @mettapeachhead2076
      @mettapeachhead2076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And everything else you said

    • @avni202
      @avni202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Zara Gupta stfu

    • @iam_sherlocked8421
      @iam_sherlocked8421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Zara Gupta well, you're obviously too young and transphobic to be in youtube.

  • @thekathrynwest
    @thekathrynwest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2454

    I’m totally not crying when he starts crying about his birth certificate

    • @dariennewilson9982
      @dariennewilson9982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I had to pause to compose myself

    • @javiaib9791
      @javiaib9791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @R A He*

    • @thekathrynwest
      @thekathrynwest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      R A the whole point of this is transitioning from female to male hence male pronouns. If you’re here to start a fight over something as petty as pronouns, I’ll go ahead and call you out and tell you to stop trolling people videos looking for something

    • @turtlepenguinXkizuna
      @turtlepenguinXkizuna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cried in the original video and thought I was cool and prepared and stuff this time but nope

    • @Yaeka
      @Yaeka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% I'm crying at work, dammit.

  • @gloriaf6971
    @gloriaf6971 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is an amazing video. Your transformation is astounding. You look great!! I hope you will be happy with the final results and have a long happy life!

  • @mackayladavis4021
    @mackayladavis4021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Such a handsome young man. Sending lots of love. May you live a life of happiness and fulfilment that you deserve.

  • @Mark-oz7vp
    @Mark-oz7vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    Who else started to cry, when he opened the letter? I have to say: I'm a Transman to and I haven't started transition yet and I hope it will all go well.

    • @mightbeavampire
      @mightbeavampire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      good luck on your personal transition
      i don't cry but i was showing my brother(trans man) and he was crying and i couldn't make sentences (my version of crying)

    • @Mark-oz7vp
      @Mark-oz7vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@mightbeavampire thank you, I think I can need all the luck I can get.

    • @aligershon
      @aligershon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @M End I wish you the best of luck.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good luck! ❤️🙏🌈

    • @oibruv3889
      @oibruv3889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck

  • @wonderwharf
    @wonderwharf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    I'll never forget that line from B99 when Captain Holt goes: "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place." I've never seen your videos before but this made me tear up!! MASSIVE love from Portland, OR :)

    • @hazimesahe
      @hazimesahe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interseting or interesting?

    • @wonderwharf
      @wonderwharf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hazimesahe thanks, fixed it!

    • @amfro4276
      @amfro4276 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed from Manassas, VA

    • @carson1234
      @carson1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NINE-NINE!

    • @smolopossummaxwell9624
      @smolopossummaxwell9624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I always loved that line!

  • @ambraallaraj7865
    @ambraallaraj7865 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im ftm and havent started T yet and I cant explain how happy this video makes me. keep grinding man youve helped me so much throughout this 🙏

  • @chelseatappa284
    @chelseatappa284 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The happiness this video made me feel is indescribable. Jamie this video is so wonderful, thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @beckyc8104
    @beckyc8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    Its stuff like this that makes me clueless how anyone can be transphobic! Why wouldn't you want to see people being as happy as Jamie was opening that certificate! If transitioning can make someone so happy and so much more comfortable being their true self, why would anyone be against that?!

    • @BLZ231
      @BLZ231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Ignorance and religious indoctrination. They just don’t understand, and in some cases they don’t want to understand.

    • @lorriecreamer7218
      @lorriecreamer7218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@BLZ231 well said, and unfortunately very true. I’m 67 and don’t have a problem with it at all, but most people in my family and my husband’s family are totally freaked out by things like this. That makes me so sad.

    • @trademarkt
      @trademarkt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Zara Gupta ive seen your other comments saying how hes homophobic or something (oh btw youre absolutely wrong) and even if he was (he isnt) youre not any better by being transphobic by replying to the moms in the comments telling them that their sons are girls

    • @sammiemicheals474
      @sammiemicheals474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@trademarkt zara has over 400 transphobic comments report everything they post

    • @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED
      @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Zara Gupta oh come on, you're being transphobic on other comments too? Don't you have anything better to do?