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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre, and in today's video, we're going to be talking about blind dates that got exposed on TikTok.
Let's face it, we've all been on bad dates before. Whether it's the person being rude, showing up late, or just being a plain old weirdo, bad dates are unfortunately a common occurrence.
But what happens when these bad dates get exposed on social media for the world to see? That's exactly what we're going to be discussing today.
We'll be taking a look at some of the most cringe-worthy dates that were shared on TikTok. From people being ghosted mid-date to others getting stood up completely, these are the stories that will make you want to cringe and laugh at the same time.
But it's not just about the bad dates themselves, it's about the aftermath. We'll be exploring how these videos went viral and what the reactions were like from both the public and the people involved.
So, grab some popcorn and get ready for some seriously cringe-worthy content. This video is going to be a wild ride. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more juicy stories like these.
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She has the right to be mad, however, he does not have to take care of somebody else’s kids. That is her responsibility as the mother, and frankly, it has nothing to do with the fact that he was late.
No she doesn't. If he's late, go home and don't talk to him again
She can be mad all she wants but she only makes herself look foolish. Who waits for a date when their an hour and half late? Desperate losers, that’s who
When I was a single mom, I rarely dated but there's no way I'd wait that long because that's an extra hour and a half beyond what I planned for the date and I was paying a sitter for all that time he thoughtlessly wasted. No, he shouldn't pay for her kid's food and any good mom would make sure their kids were fed before the date, or she leaves food for her kids (and the sitter, if she's thoughtful).
I also told my son how long I'd be gone so he knew when to expect me to return, and I'd stick by that unless there was car trouble or something unforeseen.
Asking him to pay for 1.5 hours of babysitting would be fair IMO, but not a steak dinner.
One man that scored major points for me was the one who brought a small gift to the date... for my 7 year old son! I had mentioned that my son loves Legos and anything space related. He brought him a Lego kit to build a little NASA space shuttle! I think my now 31 year old son still has it.
I probably should have married that dude.
Let's not forget that there is also a dad that is responsible for their kids.
It reminds me of the woman who tossed the McDonald's into the street that 1 of her baby daddies brought for HIS kid, because he didn't bring enough for HER other kids too. My mom taught us if u can't share it, don't show it. But these women were wrong. But it would've been better had the dad took his son to McDonald's. Feeding him AND spending time with him.
Some advice for anyone that likes to set their friends up. Don't set them up on dates. Instead have a get together with multiple single friends if possible. If anything sparks, great. If not, you may have helped your friends make more friends. It's a win win either way, and saves your single friends the awkward date, or the refusal of the date.
YES 👏 I couldn’t agree more! This also allows people to sense whom they have a natural chemistry with in the room instead of trying to force it with one chosen person.
Found the extrovert! lol.
Depends, sometimes shy people hate that, like I dont know you and wont want to talk to new people right away.
I think as long as it's kept as a small get together. Maybe a game night or small dinner. It would give everyone a chance to talk without all the pressure of a ton or people or it being a date. Then you should also be there so even if they don't vibe with each other it's still you and your friends hanging out. Like you said, a win win.
@@rra7490shoot, the shy ones can come and play. The extroverts know how to initiate lol
She waited an hour and a half so she had a 'justification' to make him buy her kids' food. If he'd shown up on time, she would have had to either go without or finesse it. 😅
He's wrong for being so late, but why did she even bother waiting 90 min for this guy? I can understand being upset, but SHE decided to stay. She doesn't have the right to demand that he buy food for HER kids. The server needs to be reprimanded or fired for trying to add on charges when the one that's CLEARLY paying is refusing to pay for added food.
also why was her kid there? i get it tough for single moms so i’m not knocking her for bringing him but at the same time that could be super dangerous if the guys a freak or something. also why are you waiting with your kid for so long?? like clearly this man doesn’t respect your time, take your poor bored kid home & leave that man in the dust!
@Kayla-rd5jd I've seen a long version of this video, and she has at least 2 kids at home while she's on the date. Explains why she asked for 2 additional steak meals. Still, she needs to make sure her kids are fed and taken care of prior to this date, which could go on for several hours. Her 100% responsibility, 0% for him.
Who waits that long for a first date. She was clearly hungry because I would have left
Same thing I said.
No, being late to a date doesn’t mean you have to pay for someone’s kids’ food. 💁🏾♀️ That’s insane.
If someone waits an hour and a half for a late date it's because they ordered several drinks and maybe an appetizer and have ZERO dollars to pay for what they've already ordered.
@@deirdrestatham5730exactly
As someone who has met many kinds of questionable people, I felted she just waited that long to guilt trip him into buying food for her children. When someone invites you to dinner they want to pay for YOU and nobody else. Also, waiting one hour and a half for someone on a blind date? I dunno, Most people I know leave after 15 - 20 minutes. It all just feels suspicious to me.
Or pay the extra babysitting charges
I'm sorry but absolutely not You're right I'm a mother of five and now I've been in a 12-year relationship if I were to start dating One there's no way in hell I'd be bringing any of my fucking kids to a date unless I absolutely had to in the person was okay with it two if I'm sitting there waiting for you and my kids hungry I'm going to fucking buy my kids some food not sit there and wait for you to get there and make you pay for my kids food that's absolutely ridiculous I would have got up and walked out.
Him being an hour and a half late does not equate to paying for her kids meals. He's right that their dad, or whomever is taking care of them at that time, will be paying for their meals. Like you said, she shouldn't have tolerated waiting for him more than 30 minutes without him contacting her to explain why.
Maybe she waited because she was just in it for a free meal at that point. She might not even have a kid, she may have felt entitled to two free meals for waiting so long.
Was it stated in the video that he didn't contact her to tell her he would be late? I didn't catch that
@@phaedrapage4217I’m wondering in this day and age why she didn’t phone her date asking if he was on his way. And did you see the pile of dishes in front of her?
Make that 15. If a guy doesn't call me to explain why he's late BEFORE the agreed upon time he's already in deep trouble. If I'm already on my way or at the agreed upon spot before he lets me know he's gonna be late he has 15 minutes after the agreed upon time. After 15 minutes I'm gone and he probably doesn't get a second chance. It's a matter of respect. I'm gonna be there on time to not waste his time so he better be there on time too. 5 minutes late max.
She waited that long for the free food. He shouldn't have been late, but he has no obligation to take care of her children, no matter how mad she is.
I went on a blind date at nineteen and I haven’t been able to get rid of him. We just celebrated our 30th anniversary.
😂😂😂😂😂
stalkers are the worst
My blind date & me have been married 38 years. So it can have happy endings!
Congratulations BTW
I love this! Congratulations! ❤❤❤
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If finding a restaurant gets him to toddler stage, imagine facing a truly serious situation together.
Right? People with anger issues and aggression don't just get magically fixed because you start a relationship. Someone like that will explode and lose their shit over the most random things, because they've typically been bottling their emotions and the recent crisis is the straw on the camel's back. My dad is like that and my mom and sister would push me into the line of fire to try to diffuse the already exploding bomb.
In a real crisis situation people like that typically explode, lose it, then walk away, leaving you with the aftermath.
@@Just1Nora yup, my hubby does this. I call it a hit and run attack. The walk away is so cowardly.
@@Just1Nora Agreed. I wonder how that man handles any of his clients or the courtroom with that attitude.
Then he'll probably say he wants his Mum...
Didn't she send him wrong address??
Being late and having him pay for the kids meal is bs. And she’s a big red flag that needs to be avoided.
For the lady waiting an hour and a half for that guy to show up. She definitely should have just left, but she shouldn't go around trying to ask the guy to pay for food for her kids because they're not dating that far in for the guy to have responsibilities to take over another person's. On top of that you even heard the orders that she was trying to make did not sound like they were appropriate for 8 year old or younger kids sounded like she just wanted to have an extra meal. Shame on him for being late and not contacting her to let her know, shame on her for trying to get extra food out of this guy
He has a prank channel. I'm pretty sure that was straight cap.
She waited that long because she wanted free food she would of waited all night to feed her kids.
I get the feeling that this isn't the first time she has done this.
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Not sure why either of them are still sitting at the table.
No matter which side I was on, I'd have already walked away.
@@Puppylove82-gv3gm There have been so many fake or prank videos, I now assume that most are things that never happened IRL. The one yesterday for example with the guy claiming to be a lawyer. There was nothing believable about his story, especially after reading comments from people who know who the guy is and that he's a comedian who admits that his stories are fake or they happened to someone else.
However, I understand that there's only so much content out there that's "real" so to be able to provide us with so much daily content, she has to go with what is funny and/or interesting to entertain us whether it's staged or not. Charlotte is _always_ entertaining so I just enjoy the laughs and don't worry too much about whether it really happened or not since there's a good chance that it happened to somebody out there!
What is food not appropriate for 8 or younger? By that age, kids are on solid food and can cut meat themselves. Give them shellfish and teach them how to crack it. They can eat anything.
I went on a blind date I didn't know was a blind date. Later he asked me to go on a real date and I said no. Well I felt bad and I called him back. He already sold the tickets, but he took me out anyway for a real date. Will be married 32 years November 9th!
The girl who brought her friends seems really lovely and can laugh at herself. I hope she finds someone great.
Turning up 90mins late is definitely bad, but honestly I get the impression she would have expected him to pay for the kids even if he had been on time.
Yeah, they just both suck.
So maybe it's a match after all!
True
I'm going to reverse it unless you are actually talking to me tell me you so sorry I'm late I'm gone after half-hour to 45 minutes and there's no way I'd expect my date to pay for food for my kids even if I wait 90 minutes for you
Why else would you bring your children to a date?
It felt like her intention the entire time and why she waited was just to get food for her kids that she didn't have to pay for
I told my friend that if her husband has some nice and decent single friends, feel free to introduce us.
Her husband's response was that while his single friends are nice, they aren't decent enough.
He's a good dude, I'm happy for my friend.
I told that to my friend once. He was like, "Hey, set me up with a nice friend of yours."
I had to tell him, all of my good friends were taken, and the single ones.....I would not. I just would not 😅
She stayed because the plan was for her to have him pay for the kids meals regardless. Him being late made it easier for her to do. Also we don't know if he informed her that he would be late and she could have said "it's ok, come through anyway, I'll be here"
As soon as she demanded he pay for her kids food, he should have just payed for his own meal and leave 😅
Being that late for a date sucks - they could have just reschedule over the phone -but she wanted to get herself and her kid fed -that's why she waited 😅
She wanted her foody-call. I would wager that she would have tried to get food for her kids even if he was on time
Exactly a date lasts longer then an hour and a half too if ur lucky and vibing. I think she said she’s full here that’s why he has to pay 😂. Girl must date for dinner haha
Yup! The second time she said it, when she refused his no, he should have gotten the check for his and hers, paid it and left
Or honestly not even pay for hers, with that attitude, I wouldn’t blame him
The extra steaks were for” Baby Daddy… who was hanging back at the crib…
I went on my one and only blind date 34 years ago. Still together, and have been married for 26 years. Not all blind dates are horrible😀
We need details!
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Congratulations that's awesome
That was 35 years ago. Todays world, people are crazy
Same here. Blind date in 1987 and we’ve been married 32 years.
The last girl, I get her reason for wanting her friends to check in on her and can respect it. But them staying for the entire time would literally kill any feelings that might of happened. Now if they came and stayed for 30 mins or so and then left that would of been fine.
Yeah also she's overreacting claiming he "roasted" her, he was just very honest and didn't call her any names or anything 🤷🏽♀️ I can't understand why she didn't just ask her friends to leave or at least sit somewhere else lmao
Five minutes. Any longer is awkward.
Yeah, they could like come by and chat for a moment, then after a bit they should have been like "oh well you don't seem like a murder lol, we'll leave you to it!"
Nothing wrong with them checking up, keeps you safe and it's probably nice to have them meet your friends, since that'll probably tell you a lot depending on how OK they are about it, but them staying is weird
"I don't use maps, I'm from the 90s".
WHAT 90S!?
All the 90s for the last 2000 _years_ have had maps.
I guess he means google maps. But you know what we did in the 90's? We asked passers by - or went into the nearest store to ask people. We still did not get mad at the people we were meant to meet...
I try to avoid maps when getting around by myself to make sure I learn the routes and directions, but obviously this doesn't apply when I have appointments and whatever I'm doing involves other people.
What a lunatic lol.
If the date paid for all 3 ladies then it's absolutely perceived as a scam. Also, she ASKED her friends to join them so it looks absolutely sus.
And are her friends ninjas? What could they have done in the situation that the lady couldn’t have done? And what if she put her friends at risk?
Look I’m sorry if I’m showing ignorance. I’ve been thankful to not have been in her situation.
Yeah, I've heard of a couple of stories on the interwebz about that exact thing happening.
If I was that man, I would’ve totally thought I was being used to pay for a girls night. Also, Im trying to put myself in his shoes and I could only imagine how awkward it would be to say that “I’m not gonna pay for your friends” and to avoid conflict, I would just pay for them. He was right
i find it hard to believe that a restaurant, bar or venue is so small that her 2 friends couldn't have sat somewhere else and "observed" from a distance.
I believe that the review was pretty accurate. I have a tagged along on a lot of dates with friends, mainly for safety reasons, so I can understand her reasoning for wanting others there. That being said, I think if you are going to invite other people to the table with you, you need to check in with the date first and do it in a way where they are not pressured to let your friend(s) sit with you, even if they does not want them to.
😂😂😂If you walk into a house to someone bucknaked on a first date, you deserve what you get. Your friend is hilarious. 😂😂
Facts!
He might've thought it would be hilarious to set up his 2 male friends with feminine sounding name
When I saw Kelsey and Ashley I knew what was coming. I clocked it as soon as he said 'don't want to see it, let it be a surprise', I was cackling.
I would be so annoyed but then immediately laugh my ass off and plot to get back at the friend.
Musical Anhedonia is a real thing that some of us have. We feel the same way about you liking music as you feel about us liking music. It effects 5% of the world population. If you have 20 friends 1 of them does not get music at all. If you don't have that one friend then they don't trust you enough to tell you the truth; they are lying you.
Also never tell a serial killer you think they are a serial killer
😂😂
When I tell people this, they look at me like I have horns growing out the top of my head.
5:29 it's the nosy waiter absolutely losing it for me
I was looking for someone else to notice - not the waitress going to get her the steak 🤣🤣
Yeah I bet she got Fired too 😂
Yup. She would have to pay me a tip for that.
Is it really considered nosey when the waiter has no idea what there supposed to do. The girl is saying to go but the guy is saying to stay, of course there going to stay around since they don't know how many checks or who's paying for what yet since the two keep fighting over it
I had a dating profile and made it very clear that I am 5'10" tall. I didn't care how how tall my dates were (my "one that got away" will always be a jockey who raced at Del Mar California 🥰🔥), but I'd had enough men react negatively to MY height to know I wanted to avoid more of that crap. So I met a date at Chevy's in Portland OR where I discovered that all of his teeth were a horrible shade of dark gray and that he was bald under his baseball cap, but I figured I could muscle my way through one date, pay for myself, then leave without hurting his feelings. He apparently did not feel the same. At one point when I was coming back from the restroom, a server stopped me and said I really should leave because my date was complaining loudly to anyone who would listen that I was a giant of a woman, a total Fiona Shrek, far too tall for a man of his discriminating taste. I didn't return to the table; the hostess got my portion of the check for me, I paid for myself, and I left.
That’s crazy. Props to that waitress and the hostess for giving you the heads up and letting you pay without having to interact. Not that anything would excuse that guy’s behavior, but 5’10” isn’t even that insanely tall, and tall women are beautiful. I’m 5’9” and wouldn’t be mad if I had a few more inches of height.
Exactly! Males love to complain about women having height standards when I've never met one single woman who would only date men of a certain height but almost every man I've met wouldn't date a woman who is taller than them or even the same height
Why on earth is that considered tall ?
I live in Belgium, I'm 5ft11, nobody ever complained about height. Maybe where you live just has butthurt men with tiny fragile egos 😅
@@aurora8749I am shocked by these stories. I am 5’4. So clearly not many men are shorter than me. However, I wear the highest heels I can walk in, just so I appear taller. I always believed women look so statuesque and ethereal when they are taller. I can’t believe any man would find a tall woman unattractive. To me that would be like a woman complaining that a guy is too rich. Lol.
I feel you. I'm 6ft and short guys would decline when I asked them out. Talking about "a man's gotta be a man". 🙄
Last story: No. You lost any right to call that “his truth” when you invited your friends to sit with you.
Lmao right? 😂 he just stated exactly what happened.
She waited an hour and a half so she could get dinner for herself and her kid. That was clearly her plan the entire time.
You almost make it sound like she made him run late. Maybe she placed obstacles on his way there 🧐
@@kimkiller462or she could have just left instead of waiting for a meal ticket
Yep…Extra Steak were for Baby Daddy, who’s back home w/ the rest of Her kids..😂
She waited because she didn't have money for the drinks she had while she waited. She is 100% for the streets.
I love listening to you while I'm at work... thank u for keeping me company on my loneliest of nights at work
I had a blind date once with a stalker. The girl had been stalking me for several weeks. She found out where one of my buddies'wife worked then got a job there just so she could befriend the wife and get her to introduce us. The blind date was at my buddy & his wife's house. It was two days later when she tried to run me over with a car in front of my job that I found out she had been stalking me for weeks. Note, we were not intimate at any time-- not even a kiss. I had just broken up with someone a few weeks before and after talking with my boss that particular day when I got to work from school. The boss was really alarmed by how the girl had been there that morning so I walked out to her car when she pulled up and asked the girl about it, then I told the girl I just wasn't ready to date anyone right now. She backed up and tried to run over me. The boss called the cops and it was a mess. She later pled her case to my sister at sister's job one night hoping she would intercede on her behalf . About 2 months later she just disappeared. I found out she found some other guy in another town to stalk and moved next door to him.
And that's the only blind date I ever went on. Anyone else offered and I said no.
wow. i am so sorry that happened to you. at the very least sounds like she need meds and therapy if not jail. glad you dodged her.
Oh God 😮
I feel like I’m the wife that set you up and we are so sorry😩😩
sorry u went thru that but i hope u dont give up on finding true love, some people are just crazy out there, u just have to dodge a couple bullets and the wait till be worth it :) best of luck in the future lolol
My sis always tries to set me up with every random single woman she meets for five minutes. It's usually something like, "hey i met this really sweet girl at work...she's sweet, nice, Christian, tall" etc. Her intentions are pure but usually her conversation generally ends with some version of "you're both pathetic and lonely. Perfect match right?🙄. Sis even invited one of these women we'll call Amy to a family birthday party as a guest. I got mad because i felt ambushed at an intimate family gathering(Sis never mentioned she would bring Amy as a guest). I ignored Amy completely and spent the day outside fixing my brother's car.
This is quite possibly the rudest thing I've ever done. I did apologize to Amy for being a jerk a few days later because I felt terrible. I never heard from Amy again, and my sis never mentions her in passing. Guess Amy decided it best to stay away from the crazy people. Thankfully, Sis has mostly stopped trying to match me with every rando she meets.
My best friend (F45) went on a blind date set up by her coworker, I was her standby just in case phone call, I called her 30 mins into the date to give her an out if she needed. She told me she had immediate left and was texting frantically her cousin (F43) that her blind date turned out to be the cousin’s HUSBAND. Naturally the cousin and cheating husband divorced. And the cousin and my best friend have never been closer.
Holy shit what a wild ride that comment was! I'm so sorry to the cousin but that is hilarious! A married man wants to cheat on his wife so he goes on blind dates? The moron deserved getting caught!
What are the fleeping chances though!?! 😂😂
She should have texted the cousin to come to the restaurant and stand right behind her husband and film his reaction 😂
3:52 dude confused his latitude with his longitude lmfao 🤣
Let’s be honest, that trifling single mom was ordering those 2 extra meals for HERSELF
One for her kid and one for her dude that's at th crib waiting on th chick to come home..
Either way, mandem needs to RUN LIKE HELL!
My middle son (he's thirty, has a PhD in music) went on a blind date to "help a friend" The friend went to secure a table for dinner, leaving son with the ladies. He offered to get a round of drinks, and was on his way back to the table. He heard his date say to her friend "He's a slob. He didn't bring me a gift". His friend came up, my son handed him the drinks, and said he was done. He wanted to know if he was a jerk for leaving, and I told him no.
Absolutely not a jerk. They’re just entitled and should have just been happy someone gave them a chance to begin with. Also a gift? Who tf brings a gift on a blind date? Lol. I’ve never heard of such things.
Never heard of a gift on a date. What a weird girl.
Oooo that girl is definitely a member of Female Dating Strategy. That smacks of the entitlement of that femcel sub.
Buy her a gift? I may have been out of the loop for many years but buying a first date a gift has never ever been a thing. It's blatantly obvious why she is single, and why she always will be!
No not a jerk
It's a first date not friend or anniversary dude .
The guy in the first story reminds me of a Door Dash driver that got pissy with me because he claimed I didn’t give good directions. I gave a whole paragraph of instructions and I sent him pictures of the entrance so he knew where to go. I even sat with him on the phone and tried to talk him through it. I had to take time out of my work day just to have this dude try to pick a fight with me at my workplace. I order food so I don’t have to leave my security post.
Except she gave him the wrong address
@@fndmntl5341 oh boohoo, you know what i do when i get called to a place i haven't been yet? i'm putting it into google for directions (and also to check ratings and pricing tbh) and if there is a discrepancy i'll check back with the other person if that's the spot. it's not like she gave him a wrong address intentionally, it's an honest mistake. but that escalation was absolutely uncalled, highly immature, and could easily have been avoided if he accepted that he does indeed live in the 21st century.
I always google locations
@@fndmntl5341 Peole give wrong addresses all the time. that's why I always check.
I will never use doordash again.
You gave 2 reasons why people would be single at an older age, but here is a third boat that I am in: I never had any interest in dating and relationships whatsoever, and there is nothing wrong with that!
Same!!
Or this one.. I choose badly so I am 51 and has been single since 2013.. This means I nolonger get beaten up because I Can fix shit in my House myself or being mentally garbage because he wants multible women.. I am 51 and happy as I am not afraid if I will live til tomorrow … I am not taking anymore chances and I am happy.. Being alone/single does not mean lonely 👏🏻👏🏻🤩🌞
Same
Same boat! Happier single, most people don't understand that. :D
As long as you don't call yourself an incel and join groups who hate women
The Kelsie and Ashley story could be the next M/M novel. And they lived happily ever after.
My friends keep telling me that I'll meet someone soon, or they've found the perfect date for me, that we'll hit it off so well, and that I'd be much happier in a relationship. Here's the thing: I am WILDLY happy being single. I haven't been single for like 17 years and now I finally get the whole bed to myself, watch whatever I want, stay up as late as I care to, eat ice cream for breakfast and not be called weird... And, beyond all that, my life isn't complicated anymore. I'm free to do as I please. 😊🍨
I was single for 4 years (I tried to go for 10 but whoopsies) and there is something freeing about only worrying about yourself and focusing on only yourself. Can’t look for a relationship just to avoid being single. Especially when so many of us have so much to work on and explore
What kinda relationship were you in that didn't allow you to do those things? Congratulations on being happy being single but no relationship should make you feel trapped my fiancee lets me eat ice cream in the middle of the night he actually bought me some on a night I was having an anxiety attack.
Exactly
@@empath9814 I think that when you’re in a relationship you make lots of compromises. Personally I hate going out and getting up early but my partner loves taking me to dinner and getting our shopping done in the morning so that we can relax at home and not rush. If I were single I would be a hermit and rushing to get my errands done past 5pm. I love him and do my part to make things easier but that’s love. When you’re single you only have to worry about doing things your way. Being in a healthy relationship I don’t miss being single but I also remember being very happy while I was single since I only had to think about myself. It’s not bashing in either lifestyle. It’s about feeling gratitude for the benefits each life style has whether single or in a relationship.
Being single is cool, being in relationship is cool... If you want it.
So be free wild and happy 🖤
The guy in the second video honestly was being so patient. If your date is late for whatever reason demanding that they pay for you and your kids who he hasn't met is straight up delulu. She should have just left tbh.
I would've left after about 20mins if I didn't get any warning beforehand
Absolutely not, he should not pay for the kids food. And her suggesting that would have me paying for my food only and leaving.
The Kelsey - Ashley story made me laugh so hard! 😂 Dude, I suspected that would happen!
that friend knew EXACTLY what they were doing 🤣🤣
I thought that it would be the wrong house, but this is better.
Yeah, I saw it coming the moment he said his name was Kelsey and the date's name was Ashley.
I feel like they had it coming, they clearly don't understand that a woman would never feel safe enough to do this, wtf
I got married to my blind date. Just celebrated our 19th anniversary. ❤
Love you Charlotte. Watch your videos everyday. From South Africa. 🇿🇦
More details about this date, please!
“It was a trap! IT WAS AN ACTUAL TRAP!” Lol😂
He should NOT pay for her kids… PERIOD!!! Waitress should stay out of it…
She shouldn’t of waited hour and half! That’s on her!!!
I think all 3 of them are at fault. Him for being late, her for demanding steak for her kids and the waitress for going ahead with the order even though he said he won’t pay. I’m sure the kids would have been happy with chicken nuggets and fries if he wants to compensate for lost time. Steak for kids is crazy
She clearly waited for the food she can suck it up
On Kelsey/Ashley, the friend that set it up is gonna have a LOT of explaining to do.
And, yeah. It wasn’t a banana he was holding.
LOL...friend knew exactly what they were doing.....both k and a need to pay the friend back by messing with them ,,,,oh we discovered we both like bananas ...silly little texts to the friend ...lol
I am still mad at him about it 😂😂
@@comediankels2858😂😂😂😂
I had a blind date with a crazy dude.
I was 22 and this guy took me to the movies. I totally forget what movie we were seeing.
Anyway, the commercials started and there were two people sitting in front of us. The theater wasn’t very full either, those people didn’t need to sit in front of us, but that’s beside the point. So they were talking and got to laughing. My date got so angry and kicked the seats in front of us and told them to shut up.
I was in shock. Who does that and wow!! This was our “first date.”
Right when the movie started I said I had to use the bathroom.
I left. The funny part is I had picked him up so he needed to call someone to get home.
Blocked his number.
So gross.
Petty win
😂 that blonde girl should b a sidekick in a comedy series
Charlotte, she only stayed and ordered the food because he’s Scrappy. He’s a famous rapper. If it was a regular guy, she would have left and blocked him. She’s trying to use him for his money and status. What woman in their right mind would stay for an hour and a half for anyone but a rapper? She would and try to get her kids fed. That worker should be fired. She needs to mind her business and do what this man says he will do with his money.
Legit thought he got that name because he was 'crappy', no because he was some rapper 😭😭 and yeah, she is absolutely taking advantage of him.
Honestly, I think someone commented earlier hit it on the head....shame on him for being an hour and a half late, and shame on her for expecting him to pay for food for her kids. She also has no sense of slickness or creativity. What you do if you want to bring something home to your kids (or anyone at home for that matter) is you order something you KNOW the kids will want, eat a little and box it up. DUH 🙄. Lol I know this because whenever I go out to eat I ALWAYS bring my mommy home food because she's disabled and she doesn't get to go out anymore.
Makes a bit more sense as to why she was so desperate that she'd wait 90 minutes for her date to arrive. Some people will do anything for 15 minutes of fame or free shit.
Why does it look like they’re eating at Denny’s then?
That’s not scrappy lol. The lady is like Bambi and the guy is like Scrappy.
In the second case , i think the woman should have left after half an hour rather than waiting for one and a half hour and getting the date to pay for her meal and kids meal as well . I don't know but it reeks of entitlement on her part though nothing excuses the man for coming to a date one and half hour late .
Yes, they honestly just both suck. Like why are you 90 minutes late? Absolutely not! Paying for your kids meal? No thanks? Also has nothing to do with being late, what's the correlation there? Weird af. She should've just left.
They both suck and seem entitled.
She probably didn't have money to pay for herself or her kids because she was planning to pay for everything all along. If he showed up on time, she would've said "OMG, I forgot my wallet ..."
@@jazznpercyYep, I had that same feeling that she was going to manipulate him into paying for her kids’ food even if he showed up on time. That’s why she waited so long and didn’t leave.
I don't disagree, but! My sister went on a date one time and the guy was late. Like, 75 minutes late. He was cute, she was feeling it, w/e, she decided to wait a bit longer and they were keeping in touch - he was basically texting every 10 minutes about the traffic and how there was an accident and just traffic things (TM). Ended up waiting over an hour because - cute and keeping in contact the whole time. She got to about 1:15 hours when he finally made it through the door, just as the restaurant was closing. So he basically strung her along with a bunch of reasonable-seeming excuses as to why he was late. But wait, it gets worse!
He offered to cook her dinner back at his house, she said okay since she knew he lived with his sister and he said she'd be there.
Ya'll... he lived down the road. A 5 minute walk from the restaurant. She thought it was odd but figured he'd been at work and drove to the restaurant from there. Met his sister, he started cooking - 2 minute noodles. Sis didn't care, she likes noodles and was hungry. While he cooked, Sis made small talk with the sister and learned that he'd been there the whole fucking time. No drive, no car, no traffic, no accident.
He was gaming the whole time! Strung her along for over an hour, acting like traffic and shit was going wrong the whole time! She didn't go out with him again.
That said, her now-SO was late to their first date by 2 hours but that was actually because of an accident he got caught up in and had to go to the hospital for. She went to meet him there, brought him some take-away and they've been together ever since.
Wow, that first guy is a real piece of work! 😡
People really throw out the word “abusing” really easily somebody unjustifiably yelling at you is them being an asshole to you. It’s not abusive.
Fun fact: Back when I was living in Brazil I did not have internet access all the time since it was expensive, and also having your phone out is a big 'nono' cuz its not safe enough for that most places. So what I would do is google map search BEFORE leaving home and screenshot or take pictures (if I did on the PC) of all the info I might need of where I am going. If I had the wrong restaurant like this guy, I would have asked the person to pick me up or tell me how to get there from where I was. BUT AGAIN, HE IS IN A SAFE PLACE TO USE GOOGLE MAPS. WTF
PS: Never raise your voice over such small things. Not worth your stress or causing someone else stress. Explain your situation instead.
I still do this 😂😂 but i also screenshot places nearby like starbucks as backup
Yeah he did ask her and she wasn’t able to give him accurate instructions even with maps! Sounds like they were a perfect match 😂
It’s the raising your voice that is a huge red flag. Getting lost together and working it out is already breaking the
Ice. Yelling at someone you barely even know is just crazy
I’m sorry y’all are dealing with this 😭😭😭 I just designed my dream future home (in Minecraft) and my husband excitedly approved the design that we can use ten years from now when we’ve saved up enough together, y’all deserve partners that love you and are excited for a future with you!!
Minecraft to build a dream home. Thats a new one, I would've thought The Sims would be better (which started off as a professional architecture tool BTW!) but hey... whatever floats your goat. I've been playing Minecraft this morning too. XD
@@wolfvontyr2266 lol!!! If I ever buy the sim’s I’ll definitely build it again there too. It’s a very abnormal Tudor home 👀👀👀 thank you!!
That’s so awesome!!! 🎉
7:43 No man has to pay for kids that arent his. Stop making men feel your kids are their obligation, ESPECIALLY when it's a FIRST DATE.
I had a friend drive a whole hour to go on a date with me in case the guy was a serial killer. 16 years later, that guy and I are still together and have a kid. It probably did help that we hung out with some of his friends too. Safety in numbers though.
11:30 i actually wrote a college level paper about how music is good for us and makes us happy. music triggers the release of dopamine so music makes us happy which is why there is so much “hype” about music
I would love to read your article/paper.
"Pimping out to eachother" HAHAHA, so true
I worked with Kate in college. She's hilarious and, yes, I got to hear a lot of these date stories.
3:01 “I don’t use maps I’m from the 90s”
Paper maps: Am I a joke to you?
Basic human communication: Am I a joke to you?
Signs: Am I a joke to you?
Charlotte this video was even better than the last one! Love the little in between pop ups and characters! Hilarious! This is how I am dealing with life from now on: realizing we are all going insane (some more quickly than others) as I predicted in the late 1990s with the information revolution and that I needed to NOT take anyone serious anymore
As someone whose Jewish, as soon as the girl said that she was confused why he wasn't using google maps... I was like oh noooo I bet this is one of the people who don't use technology
I work in finance sales and I once had to send this guy an email since he wanted a receipt for doing business with us and said he doesn't deal with emails since its too high tech. This guy was 26 years old and it was 2 years ago.
So he's texting and calling but he draws the line at navigation? 😂
That last guys review really didn't sound like he was saying the girls were trying to trick him into a free meal.
Even Charlotte didn't catch that vibe when first reading.
yeah no it sounded more like the guy was disappointed he couldnt get to know her better, since she was probably more invested with her friends than him. like it came off as a regular "hang out" rather than a date. probably hard to have a chat with 3 people at once.
Sounds more like he thought she brought a party. Very awkward.
Right. I have a feeling the comments on the guy's review are where that came from
Yo, Thank you for gifting us with several of the most , iconic, all time songs. The memories jamming to your records are a beautiful childhood / teenage memory.
Not a blind date but the reason I don’t really take dating apps seriously lol: so was on a particular app a few years ago, started getting ready for work and had about 20-30 mins before I had to leave when a guy messaged me. So I was basically done getting ready so I responded and after a few mins into the conversation I realized he was avoiding answering the question “what do you do for a living?” So my immediate thought was: are you a Batman super villain? Why isn’t he answering this question? So I directly asked him why he wasn’t answering (like not even just giving the field) but he ended up deflecting and when he found out I’m doing my PhD he had an entire emotional meltdown saying I’m just “in it for money” /after a relationship for money and that I’d, this is literally a quote, “judge him just like his dad for dropping out of university” I was like ummmm university isn’t for everyone and then ended the conversation and blocked him
EDIT: I did find out that he was fully trained in a Trade and owned his own business which made this conversation even more off handed
Talk about insecure
He's plenty busy judging himself. Hopefully he'll figure it out eventually.
@@BrianAndresScott right?
@@Firedrake1313 yeah I hope so too and that he could maybe have a conversation with his Father .... it turned out that he actually was fully trained in a trade and owned his own business
That's a shame, because most men don't care what you do for a living. I mean, as long as you're doing something. I don't have an extensive dating history, even spread out over 50+ years...or maybe in spite of that. I've dated fellow restaurant workers, a co-worker in a factory I worked in, a psychologist, and finally, my now late wife, who worked for the Department of defense.
Oh, I did briefly date a woman who was really well off. Highly educated, smart as a whip, nearly model gorgeous (I'm a 5 on a good day, in case you were wondering), some kind of researcher.
Didn't care about what any of them did, though I was always interested in their stories from work.
As far as I know, most guys are like that, not like your app date.
The Kelsey/Ashley mix up story is absolutely hilarious XD
Patrick going: “TECHNOLOGY” sends me EVERY TIME!!
The single mom expecting him to pay. Yeah he was late, but that doesn't mean he needs to pay for her kids. At that point I would have gotten up, gone to the front, paid for the 2 meals and dipped out. Then when the food comes out, it'll be her that is only left to have to pay
I’ve been “the single friend” (because of extreme pickiness for only strong feelings…so I couldn’t repel more the idea of friends throwing their supposedly “good match” at me expecting to cure me of my diehard belief in “only true love matters” lol) for most of my 20s and let me tell you this: NOBODY likes being “set up on a blind date”, it’s just awkward because it comes with the expectation of being there exclusively and explicitly to “spark” something up and it feels forced. Instead what you can do for your single friends is throwing a party or something similar and invite them all, this way they can interact normally, naturally and without any expectation forcing their behavior. Plus if it’s multiple people they can test the water with everyone at once.
Note: I found my true love at 29 exactly like this.
One thing I hate is when I’m single is people try and hook me up with the men nobody wants to date. You go date him if he’s so good 😂
The first girl's first mistake was agreeing to go on a date with a lawyer! Dated two lawyers in Toronto (one guy, one gal) and my GAWD they were both nuts!!!
My blind date story is that my shy friend and I were out when she saw a guy she liked, so I approached him, did most of the talking, and got his number for her. I figured my job was done lol. The next week, she asked me to hang out again, but as we were approaching our destination I saw that same guy and another out front. At that point, she was like, "Surprise! This is a double date!" I wasn't thrilled, but I didn't want to be rude, so I said hi to both of them and we went about our date.
At first, I thought my guy was shy because whenever I tried to talk to him he just looked down and mumbled so I couldn't hear his reply. My friend saw that things weren't going well, so she tried to encourage conversation by asking him a question. He spoke up and gave a reply... in French, a language I am not fluent in. He didn't seem to speak any English so I spent the rest of the afternoon trying to chat with him in my extremely broken French, and counting the seconds until I could leave (my friend drove). Even as I tried to talk to him in French he would only give two-word answers and never make eye contact. We eventually fell into casual silence which was fine for me, until he looked up at his friend we were with and said in perfect English, "Hey, I'm gonna take off. Are we still on for going to the gym tomorrow?" my friend and I were stunned, but his friend just casually said, "Cool, see you then." We never saw either of them again.
What the actual f**ck 😭
Why????
I see no reason for them to do that, that’s super weird.
Did they think that talking in French would be like something hot? Was it a dare?
Bro I’m so confused 💀
@@Jo-er6tw I know! It was super weird. The worst part is that since the region of Canada I was in had a lot of people who spoke French as a first or only language. I never questioned it. Lol
@@alyssakennedy8894 In an alternate universe:
A guy was out and some random girl and her friend approached him and this girl did most of the talking and got his number for her friend. The friend managed to persuade him to come on a date next week but she suggested to bring a buddy and make it a double date. The guy asked his gym bro to do him a solid and come to a double date cuz he was interested in this new girl he had met recently, he didn't have to do much, just show up. Hell, if he's not feeling it he could even speak French cuz this was happening in a region of Canada where a lot of people speak French as their first or only language.
Still weird, but there's two sides to every story and if the fictive version above is close to the truth from the other side than things happened the way they did because some people were 'dragged' into that situation and they didn't want to be there, but y'know helping out is what friends are for so might as well.
The audacity you have to have to tell someone you barely know that they have to pay for your kid's food! Just wow! If she was mad that he was late then she should have left.
As a past restaurant server, dealing with people squabbling over who pays for more items being ordered, the simple answer is you ask if either are willing to pay for the extra steak and they both say no, there's not another steak getting ordered, the end.
She waited an hour and a half because she was already going to peg him for extra food for her kids. That is why she waited. No other reason why she would wait that long. He was probably hoping she wouldn't show - dodging a bulltet. Both of them.
Exactly!! And that waitress was putting in extra orders like she deserved the food. I’m curious how it ended
Scrappy and Bambi! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That took me out!
😂😂😂
That girl waited for 1.5 hours because she’s desperate for a father for her kids… free meal and steak for her little boy?? He needs to slap a $20 on the table for his meal and run the other way, AND SPRINT!!
I also got lost on my way to a blind date, ended up at the wrong restaurant, the guy had to share his location too... And I'm not very good with directions or Google Maps, which is actually a running joke amongst my circle of friends. Blind date and I had a very good laugh about it later, though! I mean, it's a simple mistake, not a huge deal. Why people have to be so dramatic about it is beyond me. 😂
A friend's dating routine is to send 3 people the date's name, their pic, and where she's meeting them at what time. Then an "I'm home" text. Actually bringing friends to the date or having them 'drop in' is weird, but then again so is having to worry about being abducted on a date 🤷
Honestly, I think this should be normalized - Bring a friend or a sibling, go in public, make it a group setting for the first date. Safety, ppl.
I was just about to comment this. Also there's an app that can track your phone and you set whoever as the admin. There's no need for friends to be there.
I am with Kate here. What is the obsession of people in couples to set up their single friends? Every single "friend" of mine who has set me up (or tried to) does it for completely selfish reasons, or without thinking - other than you are both single, should 100% hit it off. One bad date with a man with several red flags actually ended one of my friendships, because I would not have gone out with this psycho if my close friend hadn't begged me to and vouched for him. He also just kind of shrugged and was like, whatever, when I told him what a terrible guy this was. Unbelievable!
You're a lawyer
As someone who has worked in the legal field, I am unsurprised that a lawyer is lost in technology. Even if he's younger, the legal field has a large divide between lawyers who don't know how to use technology beyond extremely basic things (yes even maps can be too hard for these people) and the support stuff who are often tech capable, if not tech savy and in large firms, straight up IT specialists
Once I asked a really cute girl out, (I’m a girl) but an old boyfriend from high school ran into us at the beginning of the date. He knew it was a date, but he wasn’t getting the hint to leave and he ended up crashing our entire date. It’s been about 15 years and I’m still salty about that, I’d had a crush on that girl for ages!
Oh I would bet big money that he thought he was going to get a threesome out of. Boys can be so gross!
If she liked u it would have happened. It wasn’t his fault
She had NO right to try to force him to pay for something he did NOT consent to pay for, and he can press charges about the staff member trying to help her do it, KNOWING that he said he WILL not do it.
I would've waited 1/2 hr., paid for whatever I had to drink, and left. I think the fact that she waited an hour and a half is crazy, and although he was extremely late, he does NOT owe her the price of her kid's dinner.
you know what, maybe she wanted him to pay for the kid's meals since the beginning and that's why she waited
The ENTIRE blind date story I knew Ashley didn't behave like a woman not trying to be murdered. Door unlocked with the house pitch black.... that's someone that feels safe with an incoming stranger!
Story does not make sense
Honestly, HE sounded sus as fuck! Like, what woman in their right mind in this day and age would ever even entertain the idea of crawling into a strangers home like that?! Men are so out of touch with reality it's insane.
I knew a long time ago that friends have no freaking clue what type is actually YOUR type. A girl who was practically a stranger ended up setting me up with my now husband. It’s so weird but friends have ZERO clue and I don’t know why.
It is never okay to expect someone to pay for your kid's meals. He's on a date to get to know you, not to be a provider for your children. Let the father get your kids steaks.
These kinds of single moms are leeches.
Some people are saying this was fake. I wouldn't have waited that long.
@@lotstodoI’m beginning to think so too. Why else would she not argue with him for also recording her with his phone. May explain why the waitress acted the way she did.
You aren't a single mom are you
@@adaliearguello Your point?
normally but he was 1.5 hours late so in this case yes
6:20 I’m so very sorry but I’m on his side. She didn’t have to stay, because being late is rude for sure. But no he does not need to then buy steak for her kids 😂😂😂
Same, I hope he got the manager
That Ashley Kelsey story was hilarious!
If the girl was waiting for a date for hour and half, the free food was her intention all along. She wasn't there to date, she was there to free dinner. That's why she stayed so long and insisted on more free food cause that was all she was there for. She was not in the right cause as you said she should have left long before he showed up.
For the first guy who got mad, it's like some people forget they are supposed to date because it makes them happy...if you're going to see dating as a stressful event that will actually cause MORE problems in your life then don't try...
Dealing with people who are not clear with you is lots of headache.
May be he came to realise what would come in future with her.
@@parthsavyasachi9348If you are an especially anxious person who needs a lot of planning say it before the date, don't assume your date is going to take full responsibility for your well being. And obviously make sure you have a way of locating yourself as to not be completely depended on others.
And if you found yourself in a situation you are not comfortable with and you are getting so frustrated you know you probably won't enjoy it, simply call to cancel. There is no scenario in which throwing a tantrum and yelling is the right solution.
@@melchiorlise2466 as i man i deal with women all the time who want me to read their mind.
I am very sure this woman was not clear in her instructions and it is very frustrating to deal with them.
You do you. You can deal with such people. I am sure that guy didn't want to deal with her after a while and a person like me won't too.
And I am not careless to give other people wrong instructions like that woman. One of the reasons is that i am quite calm and have control over what i do.
I have been on one blind date . It was terrible and awful. The man took me to watch his bowling team practice. So I was setting by myself for about 3 hours before he even came to say hi. He didn't ever get me a can of Dr Pepper and said you owe me big for being there watching them practice. I refused to go on a "second date" and never talked to him again
He should just get up & pay for his food and leave. He owes her an apology, thats it. She's way too entitled.
My husband was an hour and a half late to our 1st date; that was before cell phones and gps. He had left my #and directions at home as he was confident he could find it. (The man constantly gets lost! 🤣) The second guy is under ZERO responsibility to pay for ANYTHING for her kids. Her feeling entitled to that is a huge red flag and I hope that man ran.
Even though he was late, it doesn't mean he pays for 'her' kids food! He should have gotten up, paid out the bill, and left. She's just checking to see if she can get her way with him. If he says yes, then she can manipulate him for more stuff.
My friend set me up on a blind date with Peter. Turns out she had 3 Peters in her contacts and had mass sent my photo to all 3. By the time the blind date came around I didn’t know who the heck I was talking to, it turned out to be Peter the pharmacist who was obsessed with my friend and ghosted me right after the date. I found him on Tinder less than a month later. His profile listed everything he had told me he was looking for in a girl, word for word.
Meanwhile Peter the lawyer got a job interstate and Peter the doctor found someone as it took almost 1 month to set up the date with pharmacist 🤦🏻♀️
She stuffed up and sent me the pharmacists details…. When it was the doctor she had the intention of setting me up with 🤦🏻♀️
I would have called her a stupid idiot.
Did you ever date the doctor?
That's too many Peters
would have been funny as hell if she set up the date as a middle man doing the mass text and all 3 showed at once ....like a spiderverse in real life...lol....im peter, hey so am i, no im peter..lol
@@davidjarvie9546 Nope. But thankfully I found the love of my life and I’m now married and have a 2 year old son
There's no better way to start a day than with a coffee and a fresh out the oven petty video from the petty queen herself ❤
Agreed!
The best way to end a day in my timezone 😊
An hour and a half? Any time a man has been late and/or ghosted me another man has always picked up his slack 😂
I like how the woman that got "roasted" on Instagram read the guys comment and TOTALLY changed it to something else! He didn't roast her, he didn't claim/insinuate that she tricked him, he just gave his honest opinion. Which happens to align with her account of the date. She is single for a reason.
Are you dense or did you intentionally not listen to what she said cause you are overreacting. As she has said multiple times throughout the videos, she took no offense to what he said and completely understands why he would not reach out after the date and how she interpreted the date review a little differently the first time she read it. The main point were the comments that responded to him on instagram as they had a totally different perspective of her due to what he posted. She doesn't blame nor "resents" him at the end of the day. Theres no "shes single for a reason" you clearly just seem like a salty lonely dude lmao
I think it might have just been that she was embarrassed about how things went down and then was flustered about how people responded to his account of the date. Sometimes people misconstrue things (in this case, what he *could* have been saying) when they are flustered and embarrassed. She seemed nice to me, but maybe like she overthinks things and considers/worries about all the horrible ways her actions could have been seen by the guy, even though he had never expressed that he felt like she tried to take advantage of him. I think that she’ll learn from this incident.
soooo convenient she left out the teensy tiny detail of who paid for what when she showed up with her friend & her friend's roommate.
Like, that's what distinguishes a hilarious misunderstanding where they might all make a casual new friend (before corona I had a friend/acquaintance whom I met once a month to try new sushi places with. We never did anything else together, but this was great!) OR an insane catfish where he felt taken advantage of & used.
@@meinhartfrancoisthat one detail really does make all the difference.
I agree too. Wasn’t roasted at all.
Thank you Vanessa for putting Pedrito Pascal at 5:07 when Charlotte talks about having high standards. I do love Pedrito ❤
being upset someone is late is valid. telling someone they WILL be paying for something they have explicitly refused to is not. and shame on that waitress for not letting them talk it out while she went to check on other tables, she should not be making decisions for anyone's check that they are not agreeing to.
With that second story. I don't care who's in the right. If I was that waiter I'd be like
"Yeah I'm not gonna place an order when Noone agrees to pay for it.
Let me know when you decide amicably to order more food. Until then here's your check"
That's why I suspect that video is a skit.
As a former Bartender for many years...
What you said is Basic Bartender/Server 101!
In any restaurant of any kind that's the FIRST thing the teach in orientation!!!
No server in their right mind would have ever interjected themselves in between two arguing guests.
That would be Server suicide!