How come, at the end of so many of these videos, when Conor and Brittany are just looking at each other, appreciating what they just created ( and are creating) together, I start to cry?
This year I have found and created an intimate connection with another being that is based on the principles of freedom and expansion. I always desired such a connection but I didn't know how to articulate it, didn't have the language to speak it and didn't even think it was possible. Your content was instrumental in helping me to get on the path, go within and start to explore and understand for myself what I wanted to create. I'm still figuring it out within the connection and within myself, but I love it because the journey has become the destination. It's no longer about getting somewhere specific, but rather, being open and fully present to my ever evolving nature and creating loving space for my partner's as well. This way of living has brought in more satisfaction, fulfillment and love than I expected. It is also quite triggering at times because like Conor said "giving" freedom to another can sometimes feel like your safety within the relationship is being threatened. But, the opportunity to have the space for you and your partner(s) to fully be yourselves is an incredible experience.
I'm always watching your videos and silently thanking you for them. You both are seriously amazing humans and the love you have for each other and everyone else around you is inspiring. Thank you to your amazing family for everything.
I think it’s much more easier to start off a relationship as purely a non monogamy one rather than be with someone 3,4, 5 + years and than transition to a poly relationship. For me I could see that causing a lot of jealousy issues. By starting off poly from the start like you two did is a great approach to loving other beings on a deeper level and I love that!!! It’s so beautiful!! Great video ❤️
I think you both have to totally on board too. If it’s mainly one person wanting to open up the relationship, it’s going to be difficult for that other person to not feel jealous when what they want is just you for themselves
@@sazzlepop321 exactly for my case. 20yr marriage, him cheating, then wanting to open it up because he desires sex with others. I think both people have to want that from the beginning for it to work.
I really enjoyed this video! My ex husband and I tried an open relationship, needless to say we are now divorced. I think the lack of communication played a big part but I really like seeing the different aspects of a polyamory
This video was so timely. My husband and I, after 25 years of monogamy, have decided to open our relationship. We're still in the phase of trying to figure out how to move forward together in this new adventure and if we want to set any boundaries initially or if we want to just see what feels right as we move forward on this new path. What we are sure of, though, is that we are still dedicated to our life together as partners and friends. I would love to see more videos where you maybe offer suggestions for moving from monogamy to poly relationships regarding boundaries vs free flow. Pros and cons of each that we, as monogamous partners, might not think of. As always, I love your way of creating healthy relationships and compassionate communication and your willingness to share them with us. 💜
@@NamasteCC I am. We both are. I think we're scared about the unknowable ways this will change our relationship and if we are strong enough individually and as a couple to work through them as they come up. But, we also recognize that, for us, that no matter how much we love each other, it's simply impossible for us to meet every need our partner has, and it is unfair to continue to expect us to, then get upset, angry, or frustrated when we fall short. So far, that has been the toughest realization in this process, that no matter how hard we have tried, it's just unfair to keep asking each other to meet needs we're incapable of meeting. So, we recognize that to preserve our relationship and continue in a more loving and fulfilling partnership, we have to grow as individuals, separately and together. This isn't something we just decided to do. We've been discussing it and doing some work together and separately for a couple of years to prepare for things we're sure will come up, like jealousy and how to honestly and compassionately communicate our needs and wants, and have finally agreed to move forward. So, even though we're still scared, we're also excited for each other to explore all the ways we can be more of ourselves.
Oh my this sounds like where I want to be. We have been together 30 years and know he is my person but I truly don’t think one person should or can meet all our needs.
I really hope it has worked out for you guys, my wife and I have been monogamous for 10 years and have decided to expand relationship. We were high school sweet hearts and are both deeply in love. While we each have fears and worries we agree that we have the strength and courage to work through the hard times. Even though we have only been discussing it for a couple of weeks we have felt a dramatic shift in our communication for the better.
I get the fear aspect of it I think we all feel that when we might or that we might lose a partner. but my big hot button is loyalty and I don't understand in a poly relationship how a person can be 100% loyal to more than one person.
I used to think like this, And you can still be 100% loyal to your partner and them you. its about the honesty and trust that makes it loyal. So for example you have a best friend who is the one person you share soo many of your secrets with and most comfortable around but then you still have plenty of other friends in your life. this doesnt mean now that you have other friends your best friend is any less. so it goes the same for relationships. I think for me personally having a poly relationship with have 1 main relationship and then the others being off sets is best. because your able to openly be yourself with so many people but ultimately you have that 1 person still who you go to at the end of the day.
This is something my partner had investigated during his last relationship. When we got together we discussed this (and many other things) and one of the biggest obstacles, in his opinion, is time management (full disclosure, he's not good at time management overall haha). As it stands there already is never enough time in the day with children, pets, jobs, etc
wow wow wow I've had to rewatch this video over again to fully digest it. Fuck yes! all of this really resonates with me especially being all of me in my relationships. I have only gotten in a non monogamous style relationship within this last yr and my current partner has never been in one or considered it until he had met me. Couldn't of made this video in a more perfect time. I'm feeling really align with all of this. Much love you beautiful beings.
It was beautiful and sensual but what I've missing is a little bit practice side. Talking and opening up yourself it's always worthy and powerful (as you say) but still it leaves the missing gap between "my desires " and "your desires" or "our desires" or "our life goles" I mean it's everything brilliant when you are on the same page, but what if not? Hipotetic situation: having new-born baby your partner tells you "oh look, I feel like my energy is out of this home, I feel exhausted, and lack of vital energy and I need to charge my baterries outside of you, baby, home, all these duties" And looking at it separately- it's ok, this is personal energy, personal desire and we shouldn't question it. (And it's always should be over the mutual desire, right?) But then, you'll stay alone for some weeks/months with all these duties according to baby and how you feel it? This situation can be applied not only while it's going about the baby moments, as well other one in life. It's about sacrifice "me" for the purpose of "us" ...and that what is not clear for me how it goes in Polyamorous relationship. How to handle this "sacrifice" which in many life situations is simply necessary to manage "daily life". Thanks for response in advance. I really like this channel, it's so interesting topic for me:)
I understand this question in its essence and hope they speak about this. I think if someone needs space and time for a week or so that has nothing to do with the other partner and their love for them-- cool- but for me anyway, part of being supported by my partner and vice-versa is hearing that but also knowing I can "depend" on them, given they/we chose to be a family-to be there for me and out family- just using your example. Once you become a "unit" as well as being individuals , I think you need to work these things out as they come up.
I swear.. ever since I found your channel, EVERY time I’ve come across a challenge of some sort, i get a notification that you’ve posted a video on the exact same topic, and it’s always everything I needed to hear. How crazy??and it’s no coincidence. :) Thank you so much. I love you.
Wow this just blew my mind. So much truth und beauty and power in what you both shared on this topic. After most of your videos i'm just like "...whoa" because it brings so much up in me and resonates so deeply. So much love to you both and a huge thank you
You guys should start a connection site to help other people find each other. I think a lot of people want to be in relationships like yours ... it’s the fear of having these conversations with people we care about
I am a little bit heartbroken after your video. This all is from a point of a person who wants to open a relationship but not from a point of their partner. "If you are honest you will be amazed how well it is received" - that made me feel a lot of shame. I didn't receive it we'll and I am struggling a lot. I understand everything. I've been your subscriber for many many years. But my emotions are to strong...
Very beautiful, heartfelt and open sharing of your feelings on your path of spiritual growth together, thank-you for helping me expand my ideas of what love and relationships are, you are both awakened and high frequency souls...
Thank you so much for posting this, I would love to see more videos on this topic. Recently opened my relationship and it has been so so so difficult, your channel has helped me tremendously and kept me grounded in many different ways.
Would you be open to me asking you some questions? My bf recently opened up to me wanting an open relationships. I am really struggling with feelings on the subject rn.
Thank you for your mindful conversation, it is, as always, authentic and so warm and open. I find it so helpful for my journey, that you find words for the internal processes which I notice at myself from time to time, but can't quite reach it on that precise level. I wish you the very best! :)
My question is how do you feel safe when it comes to sex and multiple people? Example Conor sleeps with Brittany today, tomorrow Conor sleeps with Tiffany then comes home and sleeps with Brittany & Bridgette. I personally feel that is a lot of personal fluids going around mixing up and seems a bit uncleanly. What is yalls take on that? Or how do you handle situations as such? Currently in a mono relationship but not opposed to polyamory.
I love watching you both so much Britt💛💛💛 the deep love and growth is so inspiring as I'm developing my open relationship with a partner I found that I feel is also my spiritual mate!😍😍😍 thank you for the straight forward helpful videos as always!
I LOVE your videos, watch every one!!!!! IDK, maybe I'm just too old to be like you two...I'm a young spirited 59 but I get jealous even watching you guys! lol :) You two are obviously totally in love with each other so when I think of one of you being with someone else. ..arghhhhhh it makes me crazy! Anyway, I will continue to watch (AND GREATLY ENJOY) your videos and keep trying to open my mind!!!!! And, get rid of Brigette!!!!! lol, I'm kidding!!!!
There is so much good truth in this! I really get it. I appreciate you so much. Your videos have been a real, helpful resource for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
I love your videos and find what you share, especially around jealousy and unconditional love, to be so inspiring and useful. I'm wondering if you'd be willing to share any experience or advice around being the object or focus of someone's jealousy. It has happened several times that someone I am not close to has lashed out because of jealousy, and I want to learn how to deal with that experience in myself, since my contact with them is limited. Thank you so much for all you share.
Hello beautiful people, first and foremost thank you for this informative video I’ve been doing a lot of my own research on how to navigate heathy open relationships because I think there is a major stigma around them. I host a talk show for college students and I’m looking for panelist first my next episode on Open relationships, what they are, and what it takes to maintain a healthy poly relationship. Would love to have you on the show (VIA zoom) to help break that stigma along with OTHERS who’ve also been in open relationships before🖤🙏🏾reach out if your interested!!
I recently left a 7 year relationship. My partner wanted to switch from being in a monogamous relationship to being in an open relationship, and he wanted to have unprotected sex with strangers while also doing hard drugs. He refused to communicate about serious topics and also didn't want to put in the effort to do so. He simply wanted to do whatever he wanted to do, and I needed to be ok with it. All of this was after he had cheated on me multiple times while we were supposed to be monogamous. During the 1 year we were open, I had gotten 2 STDs. After a very emotionally tumultuous year, I decided to leave. I watched ALL of your videos throughout the process, and by others too. I really tried to educate myself and make it work, but it simply wasn't going to work with him. I'm still open to the idea of being in a polyamorous relationship, if I could find the right people. I love your vibes. It's been 6 months since I've been on my own, and although I'm still healing I'm excited for the future.
My bf has recently just come out to tell me he wants an open relationship, but still loving and remaining together he has been open for the entirely of our 2.5 yr relationship. My only issue is. How can he love me and want to be with someone else? I'm really struggling with this. Any advice for me would be great. Thankyou
These people feel a bit narcissistic. How come they never talk about what they are creating with their partners with any such weight or significance? The focus is always on them and how the external world can be of use to their needs and desires
You guys look at each other with such love. Just warms my heart ❤️
How come, at the end of so many of these videos, when Conor and Brittany are just looking at each other, appreciating what they just created ( and are creating) together, I start to cry?
because your soul wants to experience that connection.
This year I have found and created an intimate connection with another being that is based on the principles of freedom and expansion. I always desired such a connection but I didn't know how to articulate it, didn't have the language to speak it and didn't even think it was possible. Your content was instrumental in helping me to get on the path, go within and start to explore and understand for myself what I wanted to create. I'm still figuring it out within the connection and within myself, but I love it because the journey has become the destination. It's no longer about getting somewhere specific, but rather, being open and fully present to my ever evolving nature and creating loving space for my partner's as well. This way of living has brought in more satisfaction, fulfillment and love than I expected. It is also quite triggering at times because like Conor said "giving" freedom to another can sometimes feel like your safety within the relationship is being threatened. But, the opportunity to have the space for you and your partner(s) to fully be yourselves is an incredible experience.
This is really beautiful and inspiring!
“It’s coming up to come out so we can experience the true love with everyone” That’s good food for thought. I really like this perspective. -Kami
I'm always watching your videos and silently thanking you for them. You both are seriously amazing humans and the love you have for each other and everyone else around you is inspiring. Thank you to your amazing family for everything.
Thanks for this beautiful message Stephanie
Brittany I’m loving your hair lately. The color is like a beautiful burgundy brown 🤎♥️
Thank you!
I think it’s much more easier to start off a relationship as purely a non monogamy one rather than be with someone 3,4, 5 + years and than transition to a poly relationship. For me I could see that causing a lot of jealousy issues. By starting off poly from the start like you two did is a great approach to loving other beings on a deeper level and I love that!!! It’s so beautiful!! Great video ❤️
I think you both have to totally on board too. If it’s mainly one person wanting to open up the relationship, it’s going to be difficult for that other person to not feel jealous when what they want is just you for themselves
@@sazzlepop321 exactly for my case. 20yr marriage, him cheating, then wanting to open it up because he desires sex with others. I think both people have to want that from the beginning for it to work.
It's so cool to see how much you love each other and know you wont lose one another and still have other partners. So much love in your souls!
I really enjoyed this video! My ex husband and I tried an open relationship, needless to say we are now divorced. I think the lack of communication played a big part but I really like seeing the different aspects of a polyamory
This video was so timely. My husband and I, after 25 years of monogamy, have decided to open our relationship. We're still in the phase of trying to figure out how to move forward together in this new adventure and if we want to set any boundaries initially or if we want to just see what feels right as we move forward on this new path. What we are sure of, though, is that we are still dedicated to our life together as partners and friends. I would love to see more videos where you maybe offer suggestions for moving from monogamy to poly relationships regarding boundaries vs free flow. Pros and cons of each that we, as monogamous partners, might not think of.
As always, I love your way of creating healthy relationships and compassionate communication and your willingness to share them with us. 💜
Woah that's awesome and brave, to love someone so much to trust them to this degree. Are you scared? I'm scared my husband will grow tired of me.
@@NamasteCC I am. We both are. I think we're scared about the unknowable ways this will change our relationship and if we are strong enough individually and as a couple to work through them as they come up. But, we also recognize that, for us, that no matter how much we love each other, it's simply impossible for us to meet every need our partner has, and it is unfair to continue to expect us to, then get upset, angry, or frustrated when we fall short. So far, that has been the toughest realization in this process, that no matter how hard we have tried, it's just unfair to keep asking each other to meet needs we're incapable of meeting. So, we recognize that to preserve our relationship and continue in a more loving and fulfilling partnership, we have to grow as individuals, separately and together.
This isn't something we just decided to do. We've been discussing it and doing some work together and separately for a couple of years to prepare for things we're sure will come up, like jealousy and how to honestly and compassionately communicate our needs and wants, and have finally agreed to move forward. So, even though we're still scared, we're also excited for each other to explore all the ways we can be more of ourselves.
Oh my this sounds like where I want to be. We have been together 30 years and know he is my person but I truly don’t think one person should or can meet all our needs.
I really hope it has worked out for you guys, my wife and I have been monogamous for 10 years and have decided to expand relationship. We were high school sweet hearts and are both deeply in love. While we each have fears and worries we agree that we have the strength and courage to work through the hard times. Even though we have only been discussing it for a couple of weeks we have felt a dramatic shift in our communication for the better.
I get the fear aspect of it I think we all feel that when we might or that we might lose a partner. but my big hot button is loyalty and I don't understand in a poly relationship how a person can be 100% loyal to more than one person.
For us it is important to feel 100% supported by our partners.
I used to think like this, And you can still be 100% loyal to your partner and them you. its about the honesty and trust that makes it loyal.
So for example you have a best friend who is the one person you share soo many of your secrets with and most comfortable around but then you still have plenty of other friends in your life. this doesnt mean now that you have other friends your best friend is any less. so it goes the same for relationships. I think for me personally having a poly relationship with have 1 main relationship and then the others being off sets is best. because your able to openly be yourself with so many people but ultimately you have that 1 person still who you go to at the end of the day.
Guys you are so awesome, just thank god for being able to live this life together, and for being in that place. I wish you all the very best ❤️
Your commitment to love feels so healing and exciting ♡. Thank you. Grateful to have you by my side !
This is something my partner had investigated during his last relationship. When we got together we discussed this (and many other things) and one of the biggest obstacles, in his opinion, is time management (full disclosure, he's not good at time management overall haha). As it stands there already is never enough time in the day with children, pets, jobs, etc
wow wow wow I've had to rewatch this video over again to fully digest it. Fuck yes! all of this really resonates with me especially being all of me in my relationships. I have only gotten in a non monogamous style relationship within this last yr and my current partner has never been in one or considered it until he had met me. Couldn't of made this video in a more perfect time. I'm feeling really align with all of this. Much love you beautiful beings.
It was beautiful and sensual but what I've missing is a little bit practice side. Talking and opening up yourself it's always worthy and powerful (as you say) but still it leaves the missing gap between "my desires " and "your desires" or "our desires" or "our life goles"
I mean it's everything brilliant when you are on the same page, but what if not?
Hipotetic situation: having new-born baby your partner tells you "oh look, I feel like my energy is out of this home, I feel exhausted, and lack of vital energy and I need to charge my baterries outside of you, baby, home, all these duties"
And looking at it separately- it's ok, this is personal energy, personal desire and we shouldn't question it. (And it's always should be over the mutual desire, right?)
But then, you'll stay alone for some weeks/months with all these duties according to baby and how you feel it?
This situation can be applied not only while it's going about the baby moments, as well other one in life.
It's about sacrifice "me" for the purpose of "us" ...and that what is not clear for me how it goes in Polyamorous relationship. How to handle this "sacrifice" which in many life situations is simply necessary to manage "daily life". Thanks for response in advance. I really like this channel, it's so interesting topic for me:)
I understand this question in its essence and hope they speak about this. I think if someone needs space and time for a week or so that has nothing to do with the other partner and their love for them-- cool- but for me anyway, part of being supported by my partner and vice-versa is hearing that but also knowing I can "depend" on them, given they/we chose to be a family-to be there for me and out family- just using your example. Once you become a "unit" as well as being individuals , I think you need to work these things out as they come up.
I strive to be this self aware and emotionally intelligent. It seems so powerful.
I swear.. ever since I found your channel, EVERY time I’ve come across a challenge of some sort, i get a notification that you’ve posted a video on the exact same topic, and it’s always everything I needed to hear. How crazy??and it’s no coincidence. :) Thank you so much. I love you.
You guys are everything right now. THANK YOU.
Watching you two look into each other's eyes is dreamy.
🥰🥰
Wow this just blew my mind. So much truth und beauty and power in what you both shared on this topic. After most of your videos i'm just like "...whoa" because it brings so much up in me and resonates so deeply. So much love to you both and a huge thank you
Wow, thank you!
I have so many issues and questions in my marriage. I’ve tried to get answers from all your video. And I adopt you for a weekend 🤦🏽♀️😂😭
It was really so sweet listening to you two :)
You guys should start a connection site to help other people find each other. I think a lot of people want to be in relationships like yours ... it’s the fear of having these conversations with people we care about
I am a little bit heartbroken after your video. This all is from a point of a person who wants to open a relationship but not from a point of their partner. "If you are honest you will be amazed how well it is received" - that made me feel a lot of shame. I didn't receive it we'll and I am struggling a lot. I understand everything. I've been your subscriber for many many years. But my emotions are to strong...
We are all doing the best we can with the life experience we have. There is nothing wrong with you. ❤️
Very beautiful, heartfelt and open sharing of your feelings on your path of spiritual growth together, thank-you for helping me expand my ideas of what love and relationships are, you are both awakened and high frequency souls...
Thank you so much for posting this, I would love to see more videos on this topic.
Recently opened my relationship and it has been so so so difficult, your channel has helped me tremendously and kept me grounded in many different ways.
Noted! Sending lots of love to you!
@@conorandbrittany 🧡🧡
Would you be open to me asking you some questions? My bf recently opened up to me wanting an open relationships. I am really struggling with feelings on the subject rn.
Thank you for your mindful conversation, it is, as always, authentic and so warm and open. I find it so helpful for my journey, that you find words for the internal processes which I notice at myself from time to time, but can't quite reach it on that precise level.
I wish you the very best! :)
My question is how do you feel safe when it comes to sex and multiple people? Example Conor sleeps with Brittany today, tomorrow Conor sleeps with Tiffany then comes home and sleeps with Brittany & Bridgette. I personally feel that is a lot of personal fluids going around mixing up and seems a bit uncleanly. What is yalls take on that? Or how do you handle situations as such? Currently in a mono relationship but not opposed to polyamory.
Our health is very important to us
I love watching you both so much Britt💛💛💛 the deep love and growth is so inspiring as I'm developing my open relationship with a partner I found that I feel is also my spiritual mate!😍😍😍 thank you for the straight forward helpful videos as always!
Thank you so much for your videos. You guys are such an inspiration xx
I LOVE your videos, watch every one!!!!! IDK, maybe I'm just too old to be like you two...I'm a young spirited 59 but I get jealous even watching you guys! lol :) You two are obviously totally in love with each other so when I think of one of you being with someone else. ..arghhhhhh it makes me crazy! Anyway, I will continue to watch (AND GREATLY ENJOY) your videos and keep trying to open my mind!!!!! And, get rid of Brigette!!!!! lol, I'm kidding!!!!
hehe lots of love to you Kelly!
Hiiiiiiii I love all that you do for me thank you C&B
Thanks for watching!
There is so much good truth in this! I really get it. I appreciate you so much. Your videos have been a real, helpful resource for me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
You are so welcome
I love your videos and find what you share, especially around jealousy and unconditional love, to be so inspiring and useful. I'm wondering if you'd be willing to share any experience or advice around being the object or focus of someone's jealousy. It has happened several times that someone I am not close to has lashed out because of jealousy, and I want to learn how to deal with that experience in myself, since my contact with them is limited. Thank you so much for all you share.
Hello beautiful people, first and foremost thank you for this informative video I’ve been doing a lot of my own research on how to navigate heathy open relationships because I think there is a major stigma around them. I host a talk show for college students and I’m looking for panelist first my next episode on Open relationships, what they are, and what it takes to maintain a healthy poly relationship. Would love to have you on the show (VIA zoom) to help break that stigma along with OTHERS who’ve also been in open relationships before🖤🙏🏾reach out if your interested!!
I recently left a 7 year relationship. My partner wanted to switch from being in a monogamous relationship to being in an open relationship, and he wanted to have unprotected sex with strangers while also doing hard drugs. He refused to communicate about serious topics and also didn't want to put in the effort to do so. He simply wanted to do whatever he wanted to do, and I needed to be ok with it. All of this was after he had cheated on me multiple times while we were supposed to be monogamous. During the 1 year we were open, I had gotten 2 STDs. After a very emotionally tumultuous year, I decided to leave.
I watched ALL of your videos throughout the process, and by others too. I really tried to educate myself and make it work, but it simply wasn't going to work with him. I'm still open to the idea of being in a polyamorous relationship, if I could find the right people. I love your vibes. It's been 6 months since I've been on my own, and although I'm still healing I'm excited for the future.
i'll be sending you a question!
yay!
My bf has recently just come out to tell me he wants an open relationship, but still loving and remaining together he has been open for the entirely of our 2.5 yr relationship. My only issue is. How can he love me and want to be with someone else? I'm really struggling with this. Any advice for me would be great. Thankyou
Keep watching their videos, they talk about allll of this!
What if we only want some things but not everything our partner wants? How do we still honor their needs 💯 as well support what they feel they need?
Great topic
love you both.
What do you do if you are curious about moving in this direction but are afraid to talk to your spouse?
Hope this video can help 🙏 🙂 th-cam.com/video/o4bY-z5W8Xs/w-d-xo.html
I'm so excited to be the first person here! haha
Love you 💎❤️🙏🏻
Have you guys been through heartbreak from other relationships in your relationship? Idk if I make myself clear 🤔😅 love your content as always ☺
Yes definitely
These people feel a bit narcissistic. How come they never talk about what they are creating with their partners with any such weight or significance? The focus is always on them and how the external world can be of use to their needs and desires
It's called mono-poly