The Truth About My Life Before Becoming a Mom At 16
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- !TRIGGER WARNING! In this video I talk about some of the things I experienced/ witnessed as a child which might be triggering for some people. Ask an adult before watching. Viewer discretion advised.
It was hard for me to make this video but also felt really good to open up. I hope this helps even one person who has experienced things like this to feel like they're not alone. I am so grateful to have the people that I have in my life now. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to be the mom to my daughters that they need and deserve. I'm grateful for the community of people and support I have here on TH-cam, thank you guys for being here and following our story for so long now!
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I’m Yasmyn Switzer, mom of three! I’m here to share my story about my journey as a mother, hopefully making memories that will last a lifetime for myself, Logan and my beautiful baby girls, Laela and Analia (plus baby girl number 3 coming Nov 2021!). Join us as we vlog about pregnancy, parenting, fashion, beauty, relationships, and so much more!
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Nothings changed -yasmyns little sister.. love you yas🤍
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venice i so hope things change for you too. i am so happy your big sister put this out for people to understand what the actions of one person especially a parent can effect on a child as you know too. i do wish you have someone to talk to also or be around as a good mentor venice
Venice I hope that you find comfort in how your sister has turned out. The things that you are going through at home will shape you and make you stronger. I went through some really tough times in middle and high school, was hospitalized for depression several times and something that always stuck with me was the quote "this too shall pass" no matter how hard something is or feels remember that it's all just temporary and soon that roller coaster of life will go up. I hope this helps you in a time where things feel not so good. Lots of love to you and Elle
Praying for you too Venice. So sorry you to have a life of heartache. Praying that you also will break the cycle.
I’m so sorry Venice, I can’t even imagine what you’re going through. I promise you’re not alone ever and have so much waiting ahead of you in your life so stay strong through this tough time ❤️ You have a great big sister to look up to and great things ahead of you I promise xxx
You’re inner child needs to heal. You’re definitely strong and you’re breaking the cycle. So good for you.
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Yasmin, my son was in school with you at Friends Community School and he loved you (6 yrs). We never knew what happened to you and we were so excited when we found your vlogs! This video is so surprising to me because the part of your story that I knew seemed like a success story! Over the past couple of years my son and I have continued to follow you and privately cheered for each new accomplishment. So I wanted you to know you DO have at least one Mom out here rooting and cheering for you. Such a cool house! Such a great way to create a successful situation for your family. You are awesome!
Thank you so much for the encouraging mom energy 💞 it unfolds out into the world, and helps anyone who could use the support with reparenting themselves. I'm here for this intergenerational healing 💖
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I subscribed back when Laela was a new born. Your growth as a Mum and relationship with Logan is so inspiring. I appreciate how honest and open you are, even though it’s difficult. We appreciate you and your family’s journey! ♥️
Same here
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Yes! It’s amazing to see how awesome someone can become coming out of all of that trauma.
same here
Same, she has really grown as a person and she is such an AMAZING mum!! 💜
You are mature beyond your years, even as a kid. Don’t ever feel bad about going to your aunt’s, it was the safest choice for you and you shouldn’t hold the weight of your mom’s issues especially when it comes to your sisters. I know everyone on your TH-cam channel are incredibly proud of your accomplishments!!
For anyone who needs to hear this: there is no amount of alcohol or substances that a person can consume that makes it “okay” for someone to assault them. It is never the victims fault if they are sexually assaulted. You never deserved that and I’m happy that you found Logan and it seems like he treats you like a queen 👑.
I can say this if Yasmyn was my friend and I found that happened to her god help those little rats that wasn’t the word I was going to say but I can’t say that word but the point is if I found out that a family member or friend was sexually assaulted god help the person that did that thank god Yasmyn has Logan and the girls
This. A million times this.
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the most beautiful part is that your daughters will never grow up wishing they had a mom because they will have you. your strength shows Yasmyn, and it’s gonna shine through your family. And that will carry on for generations. sending so much love ❤️
Yasmyn daughters are lucky to have her and she is lucky to have them and Logan
Utter cringe, I can't believe you're praising a 16 year old child having kids
@@alistairrae9807None of those kids are lucky, they deserve a father
Such a brave and beautiful momma. One thing my mother would say is "you can't hold the sins of the parents against the child". So sorry you have gone through so much and the aftermath that still lingers. You need to pat yourself on the back for changing your own course and not using those traumas as a reason to follow a dark path. You chose to except love and make a beautiful family. Sending light and love your way!!
It broke my heart when you said "mom look what I did." I think that because you're a mom of three, people forget that you're still only 20. You should have that mom figure in your life to be proud of you, to be there when all your girls were born and be happy for you when you buy a house and be at your wedding. This video really just goes to show how strong you are to achieve all of this so young and without that support system.
this is exactly how i feel except with needing a dad - you put it into words so beautifully. thank you :)
@@BetteDavis19 I totally get it. My dad's dad was never in his life, he's lucky he had his mom😊
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Everyone is saying you’re so strong which you definitely are- but I’m sorry you had to be, and that you couldn’t just be a kid. Sometimes having to be strong hurts and you want someone to be there for you to carry you instead of being strong thru the hard times. Your feelings are valid- and things pass and things get better, worse and better again. 💕 you have a good head on your shoulders
Nothing strong about getting pregnant with 3 kids at age 20, and forcing them to grow up fatherless
1. You are really brave
2. You need a therapist to walk through your trauma from the past
3. You are not responsible for your sisters. You have your own life and children prioritize them and yourself first
I do that with my brothers kids I’ve always felt like I needed to do everything for them because they have crappy parents :(
I also have three kids of my own
@@Crystal_1992 being selfish is not a bad thing. You have to be selfish for your family. You are not responsible for them, only for yourself and your children. I know it’s hard, but that’s the truth 🖤
Yeah I have a older sibling and grew up the same way. For no one in my family to step up, and take me out of a very unhealthy house was terrible. I don’t have any type of relationship with my family or sibling. They talk to my drug addict father and my narcissist/alcoholic mother as well. They are all very abusive and toxic. My biggest tip is to, make sure you still have a healthy relationship while worrying about yourself also.
@@madalynrhian9372 I’m sorry to hear that. No kid deserves to be raised in environment like that. But you seem to be doing well, although I can only imagine how hard it is to not to be in touch with your parents and entering adult life without any support. Fight for yourself and be “healthy” selfish. You deserve that ♥️
thank you for being so vulnerable. we love you, Yasmyn ❤️
You are a Generational Curse Breaker! I'm so proud of you!
This was very honest and vulnerable. I can see that she is thoughtful, analytical, and compassionate.
The way she described her shame where others can see all of her problems when they first meet her is exactly how I feel as well. I never put that feeling into words so im moved hearing it out loud.
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I’m 27, married, and a mom and I admire you and look up to you for your strength. You took a very bad situation and made something better for yourself. I’m so sorry for the cards you were dealt. You should be so proud. I hope you know there are so many people that would love to be a positive figure in your life, me included. You’re not alone ❤️
your aunt sounds like a very wonderful person who cares deeply for you! i’m so glad you’ve had her in your life and that she was able to help you in many situations. so sorry abt the things you went through, but seeing the life you’ve made for yourself now is amazing
Thank you sharing!
I come from a dysfunctional home with substance abuse and violence.
The best thing I ever did was to start attending Al-Anon, Alateen and ACA meetings when I was 14. It has helped me to grow and has given me tools to take on life’s challenges without repeating the dysfunctional behavior .
It’s donation based, so you don’t need a lot of money to access this kind of therapy and recovery.
Just wanted to share in case somebody doesn’t know of this.
There are Al-Anon meetings everywhere around the world and online as well.
Much love to you all ❤️❤️❤️
My mama heart breaks for you. You are a strong person and can rise above it. You are doing it! So proud of you.
After she had horrible life with her mom I'm so happy that she is turned around in good way to become awesome mom to little lady's that I love to watching all the times...you are great mom good responsible to your 2 young sisters..and have great grandma that she was there for you
So happy you shared this. If you’ve heard of the book, “The Body Keeps the Score,” it’s literally about how trauma is kept in the body. 🥺💕 I’m sorry you experienced those traumatic experiences, but so happy to see you having so much stability for yourself now. You are so resilient !
Read that book in college. Great book!
I love this book!!
man you are so inspiring. you’re a large part of the reason i felt okay about having my daughter at 19. i watched your vlogs throughout my pregnancy and it was so comforting to me to see you making a life for yourself and your family, despite everything. thank you for your vulnerability, even though you don’t owe it to us at all. sending blessings to you & your family 💚
Congrats 🥺
You are so mature. The fact that you don’t have to share your story but chose to is so amazing. Im sure you’ve inspired so many others🤍 You’re doing great mama💗
“Mom look what i did” ugh i started breaking down for you. I felt your pain in that moment. You are such a strong person. We’re right around the same age and I couldn’t imagine going through what you deal with. Thanks for coming on and telling your story 💕
When did she say that ?
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when you said you just wanted to be like "mum looked what i did!" that broke me :/. you're so strong
I want to start this by saying it is never your fault…none of it. you’ve been through something that no child should have to go through and your inner child needs to heal from that. You have something special because of your past. Your kids are growing up loved and supported because you know how bad they need that. Your mother is truly missing out on her beautiful children and grandchildren and there’s nothing I can say to fix that but I do want you to know that you are loved, valid and an amazing mother
Aw Yasmyn this had me in tears near the end. Mommas around the globe need to create an advice and answers column type thing for young women without moms. Call it YWWM.
I can’t believe how strong you are and as the lady said, we could’ve never guessed it. You had way too many bad things happening for such a young girl and still you are a wonderful woman, caring mum to your babies and girlfriend to Logan. You can feel SO proud of your journey, you became who you are now because of how strong you are. Damn girl I wish I could hug you right now ❤️
I know it’s not the same as hearing it from your mom but we are all so incredibly proud of you and the life you have made for yourself 💗thank you for being so real, sending so so so much love to you and your family!! You are so loved.❤️
i’ve been following since you lived w your aunt before you and logan started dating and i just wanted to say it’s been so rewarding to see YOU and your family grow! the things that happen to us in our childhood never really leave but i think anyone watching can see that it doesn’t hold you back. i’m proud of all you’ve accomplished and you should be too! ❤️
I hope you find more people that make you feel supported, heard, and encouraged about how well you’re doing in life! You are so strong and bright! Such a good momma.
The strength you have to share this is incredible. I'm in the middle of healing only now as a 26 year old and looking back is really hard. This video has really helped. Thank you.
Girl you’re beautiful. Inside and out. I had my first child when I was 16 in 2005. He’s now 16!!! I just found your channel by this video. I also had a screwed up dynamic with & because of my mom. You will be so shocked at how the time will change things for your and your family. Time is really the only thing that can and will heal the past. You just continue doing you and taking care of your family the best you can and it will all pay off. Just enjoy those babies while they are small!!!!!!!!!! Time with them right now is the most precious thing that time will not let you have back!! So make it count!!!
this just shows that you truly never know what someone is going through or gone through, but watching your video made me understand you so much more than just watching a family on TH-cam. my respect for you grew 10x more and I wish you and your family nothing but the best, im proud of your accomplishments 💓
I relate to you a LOT! I lost my mom 3 months before my 9th birthday. I lost my dad on Thursday, July 29th of this year. Both from overdoses. I have been damaged and broken down to nothing by my dad. He was definitely a narcissist and like the king of manipulation. When I was younger, I didn’t understand either, no kid does. I walked in on my dad when he OD’d, I’ve watched him collapse and I’ve had to narcan him. I’ve witnessed drug use as well. I was ALSO drug into everything, every argument. My dad never got physical but mentally and verbally he was abusive. In so many ways, I relate. My dads girlfriend would say all the time that she would leave him and never stayed away… unfortunately that’s what happens in toxic relationships. I never understood why and hopefully never will with my future significant other
I’m impressed by how raw this was. I feel like no one else would give these kinds of details but this video made me cry. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Im turning 20 this month and it is such a hard age filled with self realizations and we're now forced to look back at our trauma and realize that so many things were not okay. Youre doing amazing for everything you've been through! You have girls who need you but you're also a girl who needs her mom. I'm glad youre seeking help and healing. I also hold the weight of my moms substance issues and it can be crushing sometimes but all we can do is heal. I wish you the best
I am 20 as well and I could never imagine having two kids and a third on the way. You are super strong and an amazing role model. Even though we don’t know each other, I feel proud of you that you went through all that and look at you now. You have two beautiful girls, Logan, a lovely house. Good job girl you’re doing great!
Yasmyn, thank you for sharing your story. You are doing so much good by speaking your truth on your channel. I’ve recently been revisiting childhood trauma and i came to a similar conclusion with my therapist about how it never really leaves you. You expect to talk it through a couple times and then to be done with it emotionally. But that’s not how it works. I’m just thankful that you had the courage to tell us what you’ve been through. And I know so many other people, especially young girls, need more role models who discuss mental health and trauma openly. This is how we heal. ♥️ keep on being you. You have turned things that were unfortunate and out of your control into a life and family that is beyond beautiful. And that’s something to be proud of. You’ve made your TH-cam channel into a legitimate business and your hard work and creativity is inspiring. Your friend’s mom was right and it’s advice that so many of us need to hear: Let go of your shame. You are not the things that have happened to you. Here’s to you and your courage and kindness. 👏🏼
You’re a very strong woman, things that happened in your life shaped you for a reason but doesn’t mean you deserved any of those bad experiences. You can only do you best and that’s all anyone can ask of you, you’re doing great I promise! ♥️
So brave. So strong. So real. Breathe in love, breathe out peace.
I am so sorry you experienced all of that, Yasmyn. I love you and am here for you. I am so proud of where you are and how far you've come.
I had a very similar child hood and have had fears my whole life of turning out the same way as my parents because it was “in my dna” to be the same, so I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’m now married and get to actively choose to live my life how I want and I find it so inspiring to see that you’re doing the same!! I still struggle with the thought that I’m bound do after like my parents but seeing you and how you live your life is so reassuring that I can also be strong enough to do the same. I really admire you for being brave enough to post this.
I totally understand. My mom passed away from heroin when I was 5. I graduated at 2019 and totally understand everything you went through. You aren’t alone ❤️
I’m glad that God saved you from what could’ve happened. I pray that you get healed and Logan gives you all the patience. From experience, patience is so needed.
i’m currently in a pretty bad situation with my dad who is a alcohol and i lost my best friend to murder when i was 7 so knowing i’m not alone even if our stories aren’t the exact same is comforting so thank you! i’ve been watching since the beginning ❤️
you got me through my pregnancy at 19 . i also grew up with somebody in my house living with substance abuse as well to the same drug. i relate to you so much& ur videos have helped me more than you’ll ever know🥺❤️. i can never thank you enough ❤️
You're a warrior Yasmyn. You're amazing, caring, loving and a beautiful person both inside and outside. We all have trauma from our childhood, some bigger than others but you need to know that what happened is not your fault, you had no control about that like you said and you are a survivor.
I wish you the very best. Sometimes being resilient is all we've got. My story with partying and being with guys is pretty much similar to yours and I understand how scary it is to think about it now.
You're not that, we're not that, it's part of our history and that's why we're who we are. We're what we want to be NOW!
Blessings from a Venezuelan follower living in Spain.
Thank you so much for trusting us with your story. I'm sorry that you had to experience so much adversity through your life. I am so proud of you for being a great mom, acknowledging your struggles, and inspiring others - buying a house and your career are just bonuses!
It breaks my heart to hear what you’ve gone through, it’s not your fault and you’ve come out so strong! But it’s still perfectly okay to struggle and have days where you don’t feel strong and you just need to cry. You don’t deserve to be without that motherly figure and I am so sorry. I pray that you can heal from the shame you have, that one day you’ll get to have a relationship with your mom, and that you know how special and amazing you are. Your past does not define you and try to remember your feelings are always valid❤️
You are a sweet soul. The same thing happened to me in highschool. I partied way too much and put myself into vulnerable situations and I always blamed myself for every sexual assault situation because there were so many. It's not your fault. It's not my fault. I send you so much love
You are such a strong, intelligent, resilient, accomplished person. Look how you changed your life. Your girls are so lucky to have such an amazing (present) mother like you. Remember your past does not define you. Thank you for sharing.
Don’t feel shame at all, your an amazing young woman and you have gone through a lot and you have managed to keep your beauty and your light. You may not ever get to have that mom relationship that you want, but you will be that for your girls. You will be and are everything you needed as a mom to your girls and you can find peace in knowing that. Continue to grow and continue to learn to forgive yourself and love yourself. God bless you and your amazing family that you are creating!
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You are so sweet and kind hearted. Many of us grew up with similar stories to your childhood and so remember it doesnt make you any less of a person. PLEASE DONT FEEL SHAME! You have done really well with your maturity and life and taking amazing care of your beautiful family :) Keep it up. And Mom will get the help she deserves. Literally there is good help EVERYWHERE now....And A TON OF PEOPLE are finally getting sober from opiates. I am soooo glad I found your channel.... Your adorable!!!!!!!
Dont get overwhelmed by rushing the process of healing. You are doing awsome! Theres always a part of us that has never been touched by trauma. You are more than your past. Fall in love with the feeling of overcoming things that used to bother you, with growing. You are not in control of other peoples behabiour but you have made wise decitions by yourself since a child. Be proud of yourself, your strenght
You’re so brave for speaking your truth. I had a similar upbringing but even now at 28, I still have moments where I need a mom. My deepest sadness will always be that I didn’t get the mom I deserved as a child. Here if you ever need to talk about some of that ‘I’ve got no mom’ sad feelings ❤️❤️❤️
I’ve been subscribed for awhile now and appreciated this video. I had a similar childhood and have had to work to make my life the way it is now. I have felt all of those same feelings and am still working through them but At least we’re breaking generational trauma :)
You will always deserve a mom and I completely understand the void where a parent should be in moments of joy, I'm so glad you share your life with us. Thank you.
You are so strong. Never be ashamed of your past. You are the best mom to your girls. You really broke the cycle. You’re doing amazing, remember that❤️
You are so strong and brave. Childhood trauma is so hard. You are not to blame for anything that happened, anything at all. I see no shame im your situation. I see strength, resilience, and self reliance. I hope I can be as strong as you. Let yourself hurt, take care of your inner child, and make room for that space where you feel alone. You are not alone anymore. Definitely try to find a therapist that specializes in trauma. It will really help. I am on this journey with you and I stand with you
I feel like out of such a traumatic childhood, you were able to give yourself and the people you love the best outcome possible. It is amazing to see your strength and you prospering. Thank you for sharing with us.
thank you for sharing your story with us. you're unbelievably strong, and even though I haven't experienced half of what you have, you're such an inspiration to me. you're the most amazing mum to your girls and they are so lucky to have you. we're all so proud of the life you have made for yourself and are always cheering you on. so much love xxx
You’re a beautiful amazing strong woman, a caring mom, you’re changing your story by being the adult you needed when you where a child, all of your kids are blessed to have you in their life, and together as a family I feel like you will be able to heal. 💕❤️❤️
I wish I had inspiring words to say in response. I can’t vocalise them in an eloquent way - but just know they’re in my heart. You’re incredible for opening up. You’re an inspiration Yasmyn, to me, to all of your subscribers and to your kids ❤️
You're just so strong, Yasmyn, be' proud of this every single day
This is the definition of never judging someone because you never know what might be going on :( this is horrible and whats even worse is that you still go through the same sh!t everyday through the flashbacks... you are such an amazing person for what you've done for yourself, the life you created for your daughters, how much you've done for your sisters, etc. keep being amazing :)
Been watching you since your very first video, and wish I could hug you through the screen. It’s been amazing watching you grow as a mom and woman, so proud of you❤️
I remember seeing your very very first video pop up on my TH-cam feed. You had just posted it and had very few likes/comments (not like now). I watched your video and thought to myself “wow she handles herself so well for being such a young mom” I subscribed right then and there. Watching you grow and mature as a beautiful young lady and a mother has been so inspiring. You’re doing so good and never feel sorry or bad for other peoples actions. Like your friends mom said, you are NOT your trauma. I am very hopeful that your sisters will grow up to be just as wonderful as you are.
Been here since laela was a newborn..it’s been amazing watching you & your family grow..thank you for allowing us to be part of your journey of life❤️ Sending love & positivity to you,Logan & the girls😌
I don't how or why this vid got any dislikes, it's beyond me! This is HER STORY and she lived it and it's therapeutic to speak it out of your system. She's healing each time she shares this story and it should not be discounted. You are amazing! I'm new here and I wanted to share positive vibes and blessings to you, your little girls, and your family....breaking generational curses!🙏🏾💪🏾❤
You’re going to make such a difference. Always put your mental health before your job. So proud of you mama🥺💕
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I have been here since Laela was probably about 5/6 months. I’ve probably seen you in passing because I have gone to Rehoboth almost every summer. Your almost exactly 6 months older than me, we have similar childhood experiences, but I’ve always looked up to you. You have grown so much in the time since I first started watching your channel regularly and it inspires me so much, because you prove everyday that age is not a barrier to success. I hope I can meet you some day and share my story.
I'm so proud of you, it's okay to need someone to help sometimes, it's normal to resent your mother for not being there for you. You're a great mother! And your girls are gonna be so proud of you, and are never gonna think less of you. I hope you're happy now
i 100% feel with you for some of this. i was SAed when I was super young and I'm almost 17 and to this day it makes me feel... dirty, i guess. it never goes away, you just learn to manage the feelings
Yasmyn, you’re a great mom, sister, daughter, & person. Never ever forget that! Also you’re doing a fantastic job! I am a new mom, 31. I have watched your videos from the beginning and always wonder how you do what you do. It’s definitely helped me navigate being a mom & I know it’s helped so many other people as well. Thank you for telling your story. You are loved by so many! 💙💙
Thank you so much for sharing this! You are so strong and such a good mother! Hearing this made me open my eyes more to other people’s stories because while this was happening to you I was living obviously to your situation probably less than 20 miles away ❤️❤️❤️
Yasmine I just want to say. We’re proud of you. You’re an amazing mom. I aspire to be like you. When I watched your first video I had no clue what you’ve been through. I’m proud of you.
I can definitely connect with some of the things you experienced/ said and something that has taken me a long time to realize is that I’m not the person I used to be and that who I am now is enough… thank you for all the happiness you have spread and I hope you realize how much your story but mainly your positivity means to people like me❤️❤️ sending positive vibes your way in the name of healing 🙌
I’ve been here since baby Laela🥺 I can’t even imagine going through this as a child but it truly has shaped who you are today. You love your girls so much and it’s everything you deserve. Lean into God he will heal you and love you like no other 🙏🏼❤️
Your child self definitely needs healing. You are so strong
Proud of how far you’ve come! You’re changing the cycle, and creating a safe place for your family to grow!!
I started watching your channel when I was 4-5 months pregnant at 20 years old. Even though you are 3 years younger than me, you taught me so much about being a good mom and not caring about what other people think. I never once though you were someone who came from a hard background or didn't have it all together. Your past does not define who you are and seeing the home that you have created for your three babies is inspiring to me.
You're an inspiration for others living through similar traumas. Please give yourself the grace you deserve. You broke a generational curse and that is the toughest journey in life, but you're a warrior, clearly. You're an amazing mother, be proud of yourself and your family! 🌞❤
I myself come from a messed up family and it still so reassuring to hear that i’m not alone and even the people who look like the perfect family have sometimes a dark past . Thank you yasmyn for your courage to open up about this
The way you’ve made the most out of every situation you have been in is admirable. I do hope your in therapy and give yourself the help you deserve!
I grew up with a life so similar to what you described, and I still struggle with it today. I have been subscribed to you since Laela was born, and I can honestly say from the get go I never, ever would have imagined that you grew up with the life you did. I am 25 years old and 19 weeks pregnant with my first (a girl) and you have always inspired me to be the best mom possible. I admire you so much, especially for how great you are with your babies and being a young mom yourself. You have proven (not that you needed to) that you are not where you came from, and you have accomplished so much. It’s normal to struggle, I don’t think we will ever forget some of the awful things we grew up around or with, but you truly are remarkable, and I and many others are SO proud of you. 💗
yazmyn, thank you so much for having the bravery and strength to share your life story with us all. it makes those of us who have gone through similar situations feel not alone in this world and validates our experiences that we never felt like was such a big deal before. So many girls including myself used to try to fill our empty spaces in life with hooking up with guys and getting into dangerous scenarios at parties then not realizing that we were taken advantage of and violated afterward because we would blame ourselves for partying (which of course never makes it ok for any one take advantage of someone just because we drank or smoked). I personally realized after all these years that older guys in their twenties would prey on me in my mid teens and i never truly realized at the time how wrong that really was. All of these experiences make us stronger and shape us into the amazing people and mothers we are today. I have a 4 year old son and another on the way and I live in my own bought condo with my little family. This is why i love watching your channel because you keep it real with us and i can relate a lot to you in different ways. Keep being you :)
I still have nightmares and bad dreams too. EMDR can really help with it. There are a few licensed therapists in the area who use it. I believe we are living in the same town in DE right now. Anyway, it's so great you're able to open up and seem to have a lot of support right now. I'm praying for you.
I'm not a crier... but I sobbed at this. I have been watching you since the very first video. You are such an incredible human! I wish I could give you the biggest hug. Never forget how amazing you are.
I just turned 16 and have been bounced around a lot too because of family problems and have recently just moved in with my dad. Seeing you come out on the other side of childhood trauma being the amazing person you are really inspires me to keep up with my grades and try to make something of myself. Thank you!❤️
I feel less alone knowing we grew up very similar it’s comforting
i feel every bit of emotion you felt while filming this. you are strong & your friends mom is absolutely right, your trauma & your past does not define you. you are without a doubt one of the strongest young woman i know, you are an amazing momma & being able to know where you came from helps you to be a better you. it’s never easy to navigate through your trauma even when you think you have (lord knows i’ve been there too), but it helps you grow & it will help you know how to help not just yourself, but others and being more understanding. i’ve been following you since you uploaded your first video ever, and i’m so proud of the woman you have become and are still growing into even when life hasn’t always thrown you the nicest events. and you’ve always got support with you & an ear that will listen & a shoulder to cry on 💛
Those guys belong in jail. You are such an amazing person and I'm so glad you've found success. I hope Logan realizes how extraordinarily lucky he is to be with you and that you deserve to be treated like a goddess the rest of your life. And don't ever be ashamed of your past- it makes you so much more interesting and you have so much more to offer than the average person. I can also tell how extraordinarily bright you are. Don't let anyone dull your shine!
Im also from Silver Spring/Rockville and my mom had me at 19. I’m also 1/2 Swedish (not that you are, but your Swedish neighbors reminded me of this), went to private school and a Quaker school, was an only child till I was 9, was on swim team, would fly as an unaccompanied minor, so already lots of similarities- don’t have my mother, but for different, because she passed away when I was 8. there’s more but I’m not as brave as you to put it all out there! So glad I found your channel years ago! You’re so strong!
I’m so curious what schools you went to /neighborhoods you grew up in & wondering if we were close lived in Rockville and then Germantown and then back to Rockville/Silver Spring. I’m also wondering what Montessori school you went to when you were younger and private schools - in primary school we would go to dances too. I went to a public school briefly in highschool - I’m just Truly interested in where yoh lived. I also moved and lived with my aunt in NJ for a year with my aunt too and really thrived, but moved back, because I missed my dad- which was probably a mistake and would have contributed fo thrive and not gone down some of the paths that I did. There’s truly so much more we have in common.
I’m so so sorry about your loss with your cousin and the tough stuff you went through with your home life. You’re truly very strong and *SUCH* an amazing mother. ❤️
You are the definition of resilience. I've been watching your videos for years and am so amazed at how you have grown into such an incredibly strong, raw and inspiring person. Your girls and your sisters are so lucky to have you to look up to.
ur amazing girl never forget how good of a mom u are yourself. i’m sorry ur mom was never there for u when u really needed her. sending u love & happiness❤️
Here I am thinking “my mom is annoying with still giving me advice about my life I’m 29 I can do it blah blah” and I’m taking just complaining but shouldn’t be now, cause you can’t share stuff with yours 🥺😭I cried so much hearing your story from what you went through, I love you Yasmyn you’re so strong 💕 you’re a wonderful mamma from what I can tell.
I have not been through similiar to what you have been through, but in the last few years I have also realised that I carry around a lot of trauma from my childhood. Having started counselling a few months back I think there's a lot of power and strength in acknowledging where some of the troubles come from and talking about it. Doesn't alter the past but seems to make it easier carry it forward. Hope things get easier for you. You're doing so well just taking these steps.
Oh yasmyn i wish i could give you a hug. you are so loved by your children and logan. i’m sorry you’ve struggled so much and that your childhood was so difficult. i had a very abusive father and i relate a lot to the issues you had with your mom and grandma. it’s really hard going through life and not having that shoulder to cry on or to celebrate accomplishments with. just know you have so many followers who care about you and wish you the best.
Also my dad did meth for all of my teen years and I don’t talk to him anymore. I couldn’t relate to you more❤️ I feel like I’ve been morning the death of my dad my whole adult life.
My mom has been on it for as long as I can remember :/ I moved in with my dad when I was nine and I’ve tried so many times to have a relationship with my mom but it just never works out she won’t get clean and I don’t tolerate her using. I feel the same way it feels like I’m mourning her when she’s not even dead, it’s just impossible for me to have a relationship with her :( it’s so sad she used to be my best friend
My dad was an addict his whole life and I watched him slowly kill himself. Mourning the life of a father you lived with everyday but never knew is the most confusing experience I think I’ll ever have. We’ll all get through it❤️
you’re so strong❤️ your mom is like my dad... it’s hard but you made a beautiful life for you and you’re family
Both of her parents are like my dad.. Hes always used and drank and on June 28 he got me into an accident that almost killed me :(
I have had different family problems but I relate to you carrying a lot of other people’s emotions and problems at a young age ❤️ it’s hard